Desiree, a black Sugar Baby, has found some success and inherent struggles in the Sugar Dating world. Her niche is older, white Sugar Daddies and sometimes they get out of line. As a whole, black Sugar Babies are treated with a little less respect and the messages to them can be a bit too direct. She finds, along with many studies, that black Sugar Babies are offered less allowance and ppm than others, and that they seem to be taken to lower quality restaurants. They also experience more violenc...
Apr 23, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment, we hear from a Sugar Baby who is concerned that her "girl next door" look isn't enough as she compares herself to the other "more beautiful" Sugar Babies. You'll hear directly from a few Sugar Daddies (and Sugar Babies) on what traits they are actually looking for in a Sugar Baby. So what do the polls say when asking men if they prefer Mary Ann (girl next door) or Ginger (beautiful, sexy movie star) from Gilligan's Island? It's 3 to 1 Mary Ann! Become a VIP Supporter of the show...
Apr 23, 2024•16 min
This started out as a Birthday Show, and quickly evolved into the Kimmy show! Her life has certainly taken a positive turn when she met Marcus and a crypto billionaire while Sugar Dating. She enrolled in a self-improvement program which gave her a new perspective on life. Her mother and father recently took the same course and you'll want to hear what happened! Do you believe in psychics? Kimmy had some interesting revelations while visiting one recently. Finally stay to the end to hear some sho...
Apr 16, 2024•55 min
In this Extra Sugar, we discuss a situation where a Sugar Baby agreed to a monthly allowance, but then after 2 weeks went back to her Sugar Daddy to restructure it. How do you handle this as a Sugar Daddy? There are a lot of great comments, and I also give my advice on how to respond when this happens. Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagra...
Apr 16, 2024•20 min
We are joined by a self described Pick Up Artist (PUA) or Splenda Daddy. Our guest actually went through many trainings to become a PUA. He always wanted to date better looking and hotter women, but was not having any luck until he began implementing techniques that were taught to him. Unlike many, he was quite happy to see that Seeking had shifted their focus to evolve into a more traditional dating website. Although he's not afraid to spend money on a nice date, he refuses to "pay for sex" and...
Apr 09, 2024•53 min
The initial meeting of a potential Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy can be quite interesting! There's always the fear of the unknown and the excitement of possibilities. Who should be asking all the questions though? Where should we meet? And how do you discuss allowances and/or PPM numbers? Navigating these issues is the first step to a successful Sugar Relationship. Become a VIP Supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secr...
Apr 08, 2024•16 min
Jane the Virginian, joins us to share her secrets to finding and marrying her Sugar Daddy soulmate! Although Jane did not start Sugar Dating until later in life, she found that her age was actually an advantage. She was raised Mormon, even serving a mission for her church. But she felt as if she never fit in to the expectations, and went searching for her comfort zone. She tried regular dating and was appalled by some of the interactions. Finally she jumped on Seeking and was shocked how civil a...
Apr 02, 2024•57 min
In this segment, we hear from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies about things that make them run from the relationship. Most people who Sugar Date are eventually guilty of a few of these. If you notice that your Sugar Relationships are ending way too soon, take a look at how you interact and see if you're guilty of some of these huge turn-offs. Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com...
Mar 29, 2024•17 min
Jack, a Sugar Daddy from Chicago, joins us to share some Sugar Dating experiences after his divorce. He was fortunate enough to sell his company right before covid, and he is now having more fun than ever. Before Sugar Dating though, he married someone with a large age gap after meeting her at work. But when that ended, he was introduced to Sugar Dating after he hit on a waitress in Las Vegas. Jack has also experienced a 3-way Sugar Relationship which was quite interesting. He is not out looking...
Mar 26, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment, we have an updated list of strong indicators of a Sugar Baby scam. Not every profile on seeking is a scam obviously, but there are way too many for comfort. We go over a list that should give you caution when conversing with a Sugar Baby. Many times a Sugar Daddy can be a prime target as they are looking to date and supposedly they have some wealth. So be careful in your Sugar Dating adventures. Let us know if you've been scammed and how it worked. Become a VIP supporter of the ...
Mar 22, 2024•17 min
We are joined by the one and only Short King and also his acquaintance, Sugar Baby Mel. Short King tells us about his spiritual journey to India where he was off the grid for 30 days. But he certainly made the rounds with the women before his journey. He then revealed that he likes to incorporate electric play into sex. Sugar Baby Mel is new to the scene, and as an older participant, she's finding success quickly. She came from South America originally, but has adapted to the North American cult...
Mar 19, 2024•1 hr 1 min
In this segment, we explore a common issue that happens in the Sugar Dating world. Most Sugar Relationships have sizeable age gaps. What happens if a Sugar Relationship is going very well, but it's time to move into a traditional relationship which might include marriage, kids, etc? How does one break off the Sugar Relationship, can the partner still be involved despite not being together anymore, how will the family react? These are all great questions that are addressed in this segment. Become...
Mar 17, 2024•14 min
Katie joins me as we read several listener letters and weigh in on a few Sugar Dating situations. Katie gives her thoughts of our most recent party, and reveals that she might have gotten a little naughty on the first day! Then we read a few listener letters. Later we explore various Sugar Baby situations which deal with everything from being a bit overweight to providing private photos. We get into a lot of real life Sugar Dating issues in this episode. Become a VIP support of the show at www.p...
Mar 12, 2024•49 min
This segment is a lot of fun as I found a few photos from 6 years ago that reminded me of a crazy sugar dating story I had when I first started on Seeking. If you are a VIP member (only $10 per month) of our Patreon, you will get to see actual photos of this topless Sugar Baby and her “driver” in my garage! Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.ins...
Mar 09, 2024•12 min
One of our most popular guests, Sugar Daddy Dwayne, joins us again to give us a Sugar Dating update. Currently, he has found a great Sugar Baby so he’s no longer online. She even offered to cook and clean for him, but they’ve been busy enjoying getting to know each other instead, if you know what I mean! He’s not a wealthy man but has some discretionary funds and found that a small amount can make a big difference sometimes. But it hasn’t all been sunshine and roses. Dwayne tried having a Sugar ...
Mar 05, 2024•59 min
Bruce Almighty joins us a year after his first appearance to tell us about a Sugar Baby that he fell in love with. He met a flight attendant on Seeking, but unfortunately she had a severe drinking problem. Interestingly, Bruce Almighty met her mother on the very first date. Not long after they met, she moved in with Bruce along with her pet snake! Then it got really toxic and she trashed the house when she thought Bruce had broken her trust. Unfortunately, things continued to spiral and she trie...
Feb 27, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment of Extra Sugar, we chat about a new 32 year old Sugar Baby who is trying to figure out a weird situation. You'll hear my views on what happened, along with input from a few other Sugar Daddies. Also, there are some great tips in this segment on how you can find success in the Sugar Dating world. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP member of the show at www.patreon...
Feb 23, 2024•14 min
Kevin and Vivian join us to give updates on their Sugar Relationship. Vivian gets hit on all the time in her government job, and Kevin thinks he's found a solution to scare off the men. Vivian thinks it's quite hilarious that Kevin gets high praise for being a great boss, but she knows a completely different side of him. Then we get into an enlightening discussion of a self improvement seminar that Alejandra and I attended together in Los Angeles. Find out why I was so skeptical about the progra...
Feb 20, 2024•59 min
Amanda, from The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast, joins us to discuss the complex issues of her marriage. She actually had a Sugar Daddy when she was 21. He took great care of her for many years and even bought her a Mercedes! But the age difference finally played out and the relationship ended amicably. Amanda then met a younger gentleman who she fell in love with and eventually married. He was an attractive Mormon who was living a secret life. She found out he was a gay escort, had a severe gambling...
Feb 13, 2024•58 min
In this segment, we get caught up on a few listener letters. We love the feedback and stories from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies. You’ll hear a great letter from a Sugar Baby who married her Sugar Daddy! So many of you want to come on the show, and we would love to have you as a guest soon. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasu...
Feb 09, 2024•19 min
Alaina, a Sugar Baby from Chicago, joins us for a second time. First, she gives a recap of the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy party she attended a few months ago. Then she tells us about a Sugar Daddy who’s taking her to Hawaii. He wanted a more mature and age-appropriate travel partner. Having experience in the BDSM world, Alaina gives us her thoughts about the situation Alejandra found herself in when a BDSM date went horribly wrong. She also found a Sugar Daddy in the wild while visiting Arizona an...
Feb 06, 2024•53 min
A Sugar Daddy recently got scammed, and unfortunately, it’s a common one. Find out how she set him up, and all the sad details in this Sugar Dating extra… Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast
Feb 02, 2024•10 min
The very popular Sugar Daddy guest Jay joins us again to discuss his latest Sugar Dating adventures. First Lilly gets us caught up with her 2-week Caribbean vacation trip with her Sugar Daddy / Boyfriend. Jay gives his thoughts of our big Thanksgiving weekend podcast party. He finds out that often when you’re Sugar Dating a foreigner, you date and support the entire family. It’s easy for them to become dependent on the financial support, but what happens when the well dries up? Later, Jay talks ...
Jan 30, 2024•51 min
We talk punctuality, how important is it? Here’s a quick story of a Sugar Daddy who cancels the date with a Sugar Baby when she was only running 15 minutes behind! It’s important to be dependable and timely, but sometimes things happen. Just don’t make a habit of it. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast...
Jan 26, 2024•11 min
Lilly is still on vacation, so Bad Brad volunteered to be my co-host. We welcome Jen (who is a dead ringer for Jennifer Aniston), and we discuss her adventures as a new Sugar Baby. Apparently, I was the first Sugar Daddy she met on Seeking. We had a lot of fun as I took her to roll dice at the local casino. At 30 years old, she’s still trying to find herself sexually. A couple reached out to her, and she had never engaged in that lifestyle. She tried it and told us the details of what she learne...
Jan 23, 2024•57 min
Grigor, a huge fan of the show, had a frightening experience when he got an unsolicited Snapchat threatening him with a gun. He was arranging to meet a potential Sugar Baby, and thankfully he had taken precautions to protect his identity as a current or ex love interest of the Sugar Baby was not happy about this at all. We explore a few ways that you can stay safe in this crazy world of online dating. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instag...
Jan 19, 2024•11 min
Erotic massage expert Lee Jagger joins us to discuss her amazing discoveries on how to please a man with her hands! After finding herself in a desperate financial situation, she reluctantly agreed to work at an erotic massage parlor. After 2000+ clients, which could be as many as 5-7 per day, Lee developed techniques that propelled her clients to full ecstasy. You’ll be shocked to hear what she can do with a soft penis, which she actually prefers over an erect one. Now she teaches her techniques...
Jan 16, 2024•48 min
In this segment, we explore a Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby breakup and explore how to move on. Even in the world of compensated dating, feelings can grow when the chemistry is strong. But as most relationships unfortunately end, how do you deal with the aftermath which can be quite painful? I had a similar situation and was able to find a path to a better life and a better version of myself which I will reveal in the end.
Jan 12, 2024•14 min
Kevin and Vivian take over this episode, and the stories get juicy! Vivian is moving to the east coast for a year, and we’re going to miss her. We reveal that Sugar Baby Alejandra is considering an experience outside of her comfort zone. I must leave the show early to catch a flight, so Kevin takes over and gives his recap of the party shenanigans. Was there a foursome Friday? We should actually call this episode “A Day in the Life of Kevin”. Did he really give Vivian control of his Seeking acco...
Jan 09, 2024•52 min
Clara, a European Sugar Baby, joins us in person as a guest of Podcast Fanboy. She had an interesting start to Sugar Dating when she initially searched for men looking for travel partners. That lead her to create a profile on a Sugar Dating site. Clara had a Sugar Daddy from Japan offer to fly her there, but she decided not to go. But she did fly to New York City to meet a Sugar Daddy and spent 2 weeks with him. Millionaires and Billionaires have reached out to her, and she’s discovered big diff...
Jan 05, 2024•54 min
