Cassie opens up about the difficult secret she kept from partners for years: her inability to have children due to abnormalities in her ovaries. Her story sheds light on the little-discussed issue of sexual anorexia and the impact it can have on individuals' emotional and sexual lives. Host, Brianne Davis encourages Cassie to seek help and put herself back out there. Through their honest and vulnerable conversation, the importance of honesty, connection, and seeking help is emphasized. This epis...
Mar 27, 2023•25 min•Ep. 146
Parker bravely shares her journey with an eating disorder that started at the age of six. She reveals how her struggle with controlling her body became intertwined with her identity, making it difficult to imagine life without it. With honesty and vulnerability, Parker unpacks her experience as an addict, comparing her behavior to that of a heroin addict. Her story sheds light on the complexities of eating disorders, the impact they have on a person's well-being, and the importance of seeking he...
Mar 20, 2023•23 min•Ep. 145
Grateful recovering alcoholic Tess shares her journey to sobriety and the role of addiction in coping with chaos. With raw honesty, she delves into the underlying issues driving her drinking and how recovery programs like AA have been a source of support and relatability. Alongside Secret Life host, Brianne Davis-Gantt, they dive into the role of ego in human behavior and how recovery has shifted their focus from self-serving to being of service to others. This thought-provoking episode sheds li...
Mar 13, 2023•26 min•Ep. 113
Have you ever wanted to share a secret but felt you couldn't? On the Secret Life Podcast, we explore the stories of people who have done just that and how their experience changed their lives. From hearing Brianne Davis talk about her journey in getting sober to listening to Amelia discuss her abusive relationship, we're here to make sure you know you're not alone. Tune in and start your journey to self-acceptance, connection, and freedom today. *Trigger Warning: Please note that this episode co...
Mar 06, 2023•29 min•Ep. 143
Alexandra and Brianne explore the hidden epidemic of verbal abuse. Hear Alexandra’s story of marriage, trauma, and recovery. Gain insight into how to identify and escape verbal abuse. Learn ways to process the experience and regain joy. From understanding the danger of verbal abuse to setting healthy boundaries, this podcast offers a necessary and empowering journey of healing. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, ...
Feb 27, 2023•37 min•Ep. 142
Max's Journey to Success: A Neurodivergent Story of Overcoming Challenges and Finding Belonging -- Max shares his unique journey of overcoming autism and his path to success. He talks about the tools he used to thrive in life, from the Listening Program app to extra-curricular activities. His vulnerable story is full of insight and inspiration, teaching listeners the power of determination and resilience. Max also reflects on his childhood and the experiences that shaped him. Hear his stories an...
Feb 20, 2023•34 min•Ep. 141
Billy shares his journey as he gambled his way to six figures in four years of college. Hear his stories of risky escapades at Mohegan Sun Casino and underground poker clubs, and learn how he hustled his way to success. Listen in on his thoughtful advice on managing gambling habits, and be inspired by his positive attitude despite his losses. It's a unique view of gambling, honesty and willingness to change. Compulsive gambling, also called gambling disorder, is the uncontrollable urge to keep g...
Feb 13, 2023•35 min•Ep. 78
Genie shares her unique story of falling in love with a level one sex offender. TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains topics that may be triggering. Listener discretion is advised. In an inspiring and heart-felt discussion, she dives into the complexities of such a relationship, focusing on themes of communication, cycles of abuse, mental health, and remaining hopeful. Genie's story is a powerful reminder to keep an open mind and to be understanding of the struggles faced by those who have mad...
Feb 06, 2023•32 min•Ep. 139
John shares his journey with grief and how celebrity photoshop nude fakes have given him solace. He'll discuss how he's been able to cope with writer's block since his mother's death, and how he's hoping to take his hobby to the next level. Tune in for an intimate look into his healing process, and come out with a newfound perspective on grief. Host Brianne Davis provides helpful advice, poignant stories, and plenty of laughter. Join John on this emotional, heartfelt journey to find healing and ...
Jan 30, 2023•17 min•Ep. 138
Ruby shares her story of struggle and hope as she overcomes anorexia, sex and love addiction, and fear of intimacy. Listen as she shares her journey through twelve step programs, therapy and support from family and friends. Gain insight into her challenges and victories as she opens up to discuss her experiences and share her wisdom. Ruby’s story will inspire you to face your own challenges and find the courage to heal. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, tr...
Jan 23, 2023•25 min•Ep. 137
Vince says it's been a fantasy for most guys to be in a p*rn. Is that true? Maybe because when you watch, you fantasize you're the person in the video? So what happens when the fantasy becomes real? Is it everything you expected? What if you got stage freight? _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show emai...
Jan 16, 2023•33 min•Ep. 136
Rosie shares her story of strength and determination as she fights to overcome her eating disorder. She will delve into her journey of healing and uncovering the layers of protection she has built up over the years. Tune in to hear honest conversations and practical advice on how to start the healing process and accept and embrace your eating disorder. With Rosie’s story of courage, resilience and hope you’ll be inspired to take small steps to living a healthier and more meaningful life. _____ I...
Jan 09, 2023•38 min•Ep. 135
Carly was a love addict from a young age and held captive in a toxic relationship for two years. When she met her ex-husband at 27, she forced the relationship to work because he was the least toxic person she'd been with in a while. Unfortunately, it descended into a cycle of him grabbing at her and her pulling back, making him feel unloved and her feel disempowered. She stayed out of a sense of obligation, but when the pandemic hit and her ex-husband lost his job, he spiraled into depression. ...
Jan 02, 2023•36 min•Ep. 134
The Secret to a Successful Life: Follow Your Passion — Anton always wanted to be an actor, but as a gay Armenian man, he didn't see representation on tv and in films, so it seemed almost impossible. Brianne and Anton dig into Hollywood's new focus on diversity and inclusion, following your dreams, and never giving up. This a great episode to lead you into the New Year's resolutions! _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhel...
Dec 26, 2022•29 min•Ep. 133
Rachel shares her inspiring story of how she confronted her struggles with love and sex addiction. With the help of a love addiction specialist, Rachel was able to move from a place of deep lows to a place of hope and healing. Host Brianne Davis also discusses the importance of seeking help, and how powerful it can be to take ownership of one's own behavior and thoughts. This engaging and encouraging episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking support on their journey of healing. _____ If you or...
Dec 19, 2022•27 min•Ep. 132
We explore the often overlooked and complex topic of longing for a baby. We discuss the struggles of couples who have been together for a long time and haven't been able to conceive, and identify the difficulties in expressing such a deep desire. We talk about the various options couples can explore to increase their chances of having a baby, as well as the importance of being honest with each other about your desires. Ultimately, this podcast serves to remind us that even when the odds don't se...
Dec 12, 2022•29 min•Ep. 131
Co-hosts of the popular Clit Talk and founders of Pleasure Positive Living, Madison, and Lindsey, share their sex-positive story about the world of sex parties, polyamory, non-monogamy, and intimacy. _____ Madison & Lindsey Get more info: https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com | https://clittalkshow.com/instagram Get a free guide: https://clittalkshow.com/guide _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compile...
Dec 05, 2022•29 min•Ep. 130
From lying about being in town for a long distant relationship, to a four month affair with her personal trainer, the journey to finding love is all too relatable. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE: addiction recovery, mental hea...
Nov 28, 2022•29 min•Ep. 129
It may have happened over 20 years ago, but the traumatic experience has affected Ryan in ways he couldn’t imagine; rage issues, depression, and issues with intimacy. RAINN - Sexual Assault Hotline Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. How does it work? When you call 800.656.HOPE (4673), you’ll be routed to a local RAINN affiliate organization based on the first six digits of your phone number. Cell phone callers...
Nov 21, 2022•32 min•Ep. 128
Even though she always fantasized about childbirth and having a child, she's never been a fan of children, even though she now has one. Being a mom is a thankless job, but what if everything a child does triggers you? _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com _____ SECRET...
Nov 14, 2022•26 min•Ep. 127
Angie Hawkins had relocated from all her family and friends in Chicago and found herself in Hawaii, alone and in the middle of a pandemic. *Trigger Warning: Please note that this episode contains topics of suicide and sexual abuse. Some people may find it disturbing. National Suicide Prevention Hotline: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or CALL 800-273-8255 ______ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a...
Nov 07, 2022•31 min•Ep. 126
Seduced by her powerful and charismatic boss, Nico found herself in a four year affair that got more and more adventurous as time went on. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE: addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug add...
Oct 31, 2022•29 min•Ep. 125
On the outside, Karen was a high-bottom drunk. But on the inside, she was unable to outrun the disease. It got so bad that one of her therapists threatened to call child services on her. _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com. ______ To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com _____ SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE: addicti...
Oct 24, 2022•25 min•Ep. 124
Aaron is a 20-year-old ultra-orthodox Jew in London who secretly explores his sexuality in underground sex clubs at night while going to seminary school by day. _____ Ultra-Orthodox Judaism, also called Haredi Judaism, any of several groups within Orthodox Judaism that strictly observe Jewish religious law and separate themselves from Gentile society as well as from Jews who do not follow the religious law as strictly as they do. Ultra-Orthodox communities are found primarily in Israel, where th...
Oct 17, 2022•32 min•Ep. 123
Taylor's story is all too common. Betrayed by a family member, and when they've finally told someone about it, their past is used against them. 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys are victims of sexual abuse. These staggering numbers and the stories we hear all the time are crushing. If this has happened to you, you are not alone. Get help, and share your experiences; this is not your fault. RAINN - Sexual Assault Hotline Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexua...
Oct 10, 2022•34 min•Ep. 122
Returning for a third time, as the title suggests, Joe has been on quite a journey of self-discovery. He shares his story with us today with an open heart and great passion. Check out Joe's previous episodes: Episode #91 -- Joe Pt. 1: I Was a 36-Year-Old Virgin & Then I Got a Sex Surrogate Episode #102 -- Joe Pt. 2: From Sex Surrogate to Tantra Sex Pansexuality is sexual, romantic, or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity . Pansexual people may refer ...
Oct 03, 2022•37 min•Ep. 121
We're all familiar with "No means, no," and "Yes, means, yes," yet it's not always so black and white in real-life situations. The term "sexual assault" means any nonconsensual sexual act proscribed by Federal, tribal, or State law, including when the victim lacks capacity to consent. Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. When you’re engaging in sexual activity, consent is about communication—and it should happen every time. The laws about consent vary by sta...
Sep 26, 2022•28 min•Ep. 120
Is it really cheating? If you haven't actually done anything? But it's clear, that it can be very dangerous to get involved in.An emotional affair generally starts innocently enough as a friendship. But when a person invests significant emotional energy and time in a close friendship outside of their marriage, it's possible for the friendship to form an emotional bond that ultimately threatens and hurts the person's intimacy with their spouse or partner. While there are those who believe that an...
Sep 19, 2022•26 min•Ep. 119
Crystal was born and raised in Puerto Rico. When she was just 14, she got pregnant. Her very religious mother called their priest, and she was married to her 16-year-old boyfriend and the father of her child. The marriage didn't last; at 16, she asked to move to the states with her biological father. For years, he groomed her to be his wife and the mother of his child. And by the time she was 19, he took things too far. Trigger warning - topics include incest and sexual abuse; listener discretio...
Sep 12, 2022•26 min•Ep. 118
It’s not a fetish. Not there’s anything wrong with fetishes. It’s just that Mark has always loved to be with men who weren’t “fit” or had the “great body,” instead, he appreciated a man with a bit of weight on them. It sounds like a good deal for someone who doesn’t follow the diet fads to stay in shape or lose weight, but what if the partner isn’t comfortable with the extra weight, then what? _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeli...
Sep 05, 2022•31 min•Ep. 117
