Second Thoughts

Pia and Paula Cuerquis•podcasters.spotify.com

Sisters Pia & Paula have a few thoughts in mind. Join this duo as they talk candidly about the realities of life in their 20s: with Pia working full-time as an influencer and Paula climbing the 9-5 corporate ladder. The two share their perspectives on life’s highs and lows—as first generation Asian Americans—through unsolicited advice and commentary on real and relatable experiences.

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Episodes

Finding Motivation

Motivation—it's something we all want and need but somehow it always finds a way to escape us when we need it most. In this week's episode, Paula & Pia talk about their personal motivations and how they encourage themselves to get shit done. From having your friends keep you accountable to using competition to drive you forward, Paula & Pia share their secrets on how they keep the foot on the gas.

Dec 03, 2020•46 min

Rejection is Redirection

Rejection stings. In this week's episode, Paula and Pia reflect on all the gut-wrenching rejections they've endured over the years. From being ghosted by boys and potential employers to being in the shoes of those doing the rejecting—this episode will be the most relatable one yet. Everyone goes through rejection and it almost always sucks. However, there are certain things you can do to make each rejection a little more bearable each time. Tune in!

Nov 26, 2020•43 min

Landing your 9 to 5

Last week, we took a dive into Pia's life as an influencer. Since we know not everyone can achieve the same amount of clout that Pia has—in this episode, we analyze all the ups and downs of your typical, and realistic, 9 to 5 job. Paula goes into detail about how she came to study advertising/marketing, her first job out of college, and what Corporate America is really like. Tune in to hear Paula and Pia share tips and tricks to land your first internship/job and how you, too, can secure the bag...

Nov 19, 2020•56 min

Life as an Influencer

You've been asking for it and we're here to deliver! This week we dive into Pia's career of choice...or choices. Social media influencer, TikToker, YouTuber and entrepreneur—Pia wears many hats. While she may look picture perfect on Instagram, the reality isn't always full of smiles and amazing brand deals. Paula and Pia talk about how Pia started this journey, obstacles she's faced along the way, the harsh realities of starting a business and so much more.

Nov 12, 2020•56 min

Selfish Behavior

Hot take...it's okay to be selfish. In this episode, Paula and Pia challenge the negative stigma around selfish behavior. Sometimes, being selfish is OKAY and you shouldn't let people shame you for 'doing you.' Listen in on how Paula and Pia navigate the boundaries around their individual selfish tendencies and how they combat self-neglect. Learn how to say no and how to measure what is an inconvenience to others vs what is truly hurtful.

Nov 05, 2020•43 min

Speak My Love Language

Our love languages are ice cream and people who vote! In this episode, Paula and Pia talk about the 5 love languages and how love languages can help you better understand your partners, family and friends. Girls (and boys!) it's time to tell your partner exactly what you want and need. Join Paula & Pia as they talk about how they were able to identify their love languages and how they were able to (or unable to) make it work for their relationships.

Oct 29, 2020•41 min

It Takes...Confidence!

We're kicking off the podcast with a little bit of...confidence! Putting yourself out there can be intimidating, but you shouldn't let the fear of being judged or ridiculed stop you from doing you. Join Paula & Pia as they talk about their individual insecurities and how they navigate the always-moving scale that is confidence. The two will share their perspective on how their confidence varies (depending on the situation and environment they're in) and their go-to tips & tricks that hel...

Oct 22, 2020•38 min

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