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so I'm just fine. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Like I when I woke up this morning, I was like phills earlier than it is. But I still feel like I woke up at like a decent hour and I slept really hard, so you know, I don't know if I've talked about this on the podcast, but I have like a hard time staying asleep A lot of times. It's been because Phoebe like is up all night coughing, and then I got that under control, but I feel like I'm still like kind of awake at all times. To the last side,

I was like out, So it feels really good. It's just like nice to go through the night and get into like Rem suck right and just stay there. Yeah. Yeah, I haven't been there in a minute. I haven't been in Rem. Haven't been in Rem. I've been like in and out of Rem. Robbie's been waking me up more when he gets up to go to the bathroom, which never used to happen for me. I should just sleep through everything. Yeah, so something to think about. Did that

change when he got sunny? No, this changed like a month ago. Why. I don't know. I might start taking edibles. I'm so on board because yeah, and I'm not sleeping. But what's interesting is so the last like three weeks we've gotten off coffee and alcohol, were just like we're like, we're just stopping and just seeing how it goes. Right. So Saturday night we went to one of his best friend's birthday dinners, and so I was like, Okay, we're gonna go. We're gonna drink tonight because it's gonna make

a fun night. Right. I had three martinis, and martinis are stiff, basically just liquor. Yeah, So we had like a really good time. We were out till maybe midnight, which really in the time change is one am. Right. So the next morning was the Oscars, I'm sure. So the next morning was the Oscars, and I had this idea where I was like, I wanted to see Sophia at some point during the day, and I was like, what would be less annoying to her? I wanted to

surprise her. Would be just to do it at her house before she even like leaves to go get ready and stuff. Right, So I was coordinating with Paulina, her sister, what the best time. I don't know some people listening um coordinating in terms of like timing when to get there. So it first started out like be here around like

eight thirty, which I thought was totally normal. I wake up around seven o'clock on the weekends anyway, so I was like, no problem, right, it kept getting pushed like earlier and earlier, by like thirty minute increments on that night while I'm like drinking my Leachi martinis, so I'm like setting my alarm robbing, And I got up at five forty five on Sunday, which no, no, sorry, no

sixty five. So and it just ended up being like a jam packed day so we couldn't just like come back home and like nap our Sunday was like full my parents were coming up for brunch. We did the sound bath with the lat Nerd. I had work, so it was just like a whole day. Yeah. Um, so I was just a total disaster yesterday and I think it's rolling over into today. Does it do be doing that? Yeah, it rolls over. I gotta say expression that sounds regional. It was like tiktokling go a little bit um but

maybe a little bit of Louisiana. Um. I was gonna say, you posted a video of y'all out and you were like wrong something about our first time drinking, and it was like I had a moment of us being in Vegas. Yes, I saw the look in his side that took me back to Vegas and I was like, oh no, we both hit like a point where we were just like this point in our return. Yeah, it was fun. We had like the best yea. So it was like a great time. But I also don't you don't realize, like

we were both really puffy the next morning. I'm like, you don't realize how alcohol affects you until you don't drink it for a little bit. It's poison. Yeah, it literally is poison. Yeah, but I'm so really glad we did it because being able to see her at the morning of the Oscars was like really special getting a surprise her. She was really happy, so it was fun. I mean, that is so epic to be nominated for an oscar to perform at the Oscars. Like, that's awesome. Yeah. Um,

I feel very proud of her. You feel proud of her. We'll get into it when we talk when we do our Oscars. Yeah. Well, so Friday night, Hailey had told me earlier I guess when Hungry Heart came out. She was like, so, Steve Aoki is going to be in LA and he wants me to perform Hungry Heart. And I was like, oh, that's so fun. What I'm laughing because I know what you're gonna say. What what you were texting me over the weekend. I'm too old for this, though,

Oh I am. Yeah. And um. So as the concerts getting closer, she's like, so, I don't think I'm going on to like eleven thirty And I'm like, oh, what, Like, are we gonna go out before that? Because the last time, the only time we've ever done that was for the Taylor Swift Grammy's party. We left at like eleven pm, and that was crazy, but it was Taylor Swift like you do what you do DM. I've never been to an ed M show, and that late. I was just not prepared to start to like what ten. I don't

think he went until ten. Yeah, And so we got there and she performed and stuff. It was fun, but like, I don't know how people stand. They're packed in there. It is the craziest thing. It's a lifestyle. Oh okay, I didn't know about the cake thing. Stevie Oki like throws full cake, sheet cake and people ask for it. And there's even like zones where it's like, hey, if you don't want to get cake on you, like, don't stay here. It's like a splash zone for cake. And

he throws like sixteen of them. It's crazy. One cake a show. Oh no, he's increased it. I think it's basically well, it's so wasteful, but I think it's basically frosting. I think if it was a full cake it would be too dense. Yeah, and he has an impeccable aim. So we left after Haley performed on Friday night at the LA Show, and then we wake up Saturday and Haley was like damming with him, like that was so fun last night and he was like, let's do it again and she was like you tell me what and

he was like, tonight in San Francisco. So that was on a whim. Yes. Oh, so she's like, do you want to go to San Francisco. I'm gonna perform with him tonight and say like we fly out tonight. Yeah. It was cool, but I'm like, it's like so tired, and she was tired. She's like, that was yesterday was basically her one day to just like rest, and she was I was like I think you like, I don't think you can say no no, So we fly up

and I know the world's blandest to him. We talked about that before the show started, but that for some reason, that's exciting to me. Someone'd say to me, you want to go to San Francisco right now? Yeah, that's exciting. It's very We took JSX, which is you know easy, yeah, the next best thing, um, and so we went up there.

We went and had dinner, had some pasta and then we went directly with our bags to the show and like we got to the venue and they were like, we gotta go like you gotta so she's like putting on her in ears and stuff, and like we're walking to the stage. It was crazy, but we stayed the whole show and then we got she got to throw a cake hit someone right in my face. Nice. It was. It was crazy, But you know what's really interesting. I

didn't have a sip of alcohol a weekend. Well I did yesterday at Bert's party, but like during this Steve Aoky concert and you had a great time. No, you don't need alcohol to have a bad times have felt like in those settings where you're a little bit uncomfortable or like you're kind of like this is not my scene, Like a drink makes you kind of rely. But I was like, I think it was so crazy, like Hayley performing, and we got there so fast that there was no

time to like think about alcohol. I enjoy the feeling of the alcohol, Like I like feeling buzzed. That's what I'm saying, yeah, about like comfort and stuff. And it's also like what I realized when we said when we said we were gonna stop drinking. I was at an industry event and there was just it was like open bar and I just would always just go and get a glass of wine or have like, maybe I don't have two glasses of wine. I don't need it. I

don't need to be more comfortable. I know every you know, I know enough people here, but I think the buzz is the comfort, right. Yeah. But it was just as easy for me to like because I'd made that decision that we weren't going to be drinking. So I was like, yeah, I don't need it, and then I felt better the next day, That's all I'm saying. Yeah, And the next day we had a morning flight and I just I was just tired from the time change, but I didn't

feel like bad or anything. And I was like, yeah, I do think it hits you differently, like because I remember when I was in college, I was working at a morning show going to college, working a morning show live every day, like waking up at four am, going to like date dashes, all this stuff, running on no sleep. But I was just doing it perpetually for like years. It was because you had dark hair. Yeah, but that

was twenty one, twenty two. You know me. Now I'm thirty five, and it hits different, like I need two days to recover from one night of drinking. Yeah, it does hit different. It does. Yeah, I can't imagine what I'm gonna be like a forty five, although I will say we got back to the hotel and took an edible and for I don't know how long, there was a moment where we just like sat in silence, like staring at nothing, and I was like, how long have

we been sitting here in silence? Like It's almost like we had a moment where we were just like coming down. And we stayed at the One Hotel, which is like, we stayed there Nashville. It's the most beautiful hotel chain ever. And but their snacks are all like healthy organic snacks and they don't have like soda or anything. So when I was like ready to eat, I didn't feel horrible. I was like some healthy stuff. Yeah, so that's great.

It's a busy weekend. And then we got back and we had Brittany's birthday yesterday and we were there and then we got home at like seven have the oscars am both passed out on the couch for like I don't know an hour, and then got up and got ready for bed and went to sleep. Here we are. We've missed you. At the sound bath. Actually have I know two things too. I totally forgot them at home,

so I'll bring them to you. But Tay Lautner, who we had on as a guest, did a sound bath for her foundation Lemons by Ta and so Rob and I went to it yesterday and I've never done a sound bath before. I had no idea what took. I mean, I kind of knew what to expect, like any of this sounds and stuff, but it was very m Yeah. Yeah, it makes me want to sleep. That's the goal. It's like to get you into like this really deep zen place.

But what's so funny is we laid down and I immediately have to pee and I'm like, oh no, oh no. And there's a whole room full of people right and it's dark and you can hear like a pin you can hear a pin drops. I was like, I'm not going to be the girl that Waltz is on out of here. You hear the toilet flush. I was like, I can't. I can't disturb everybody's peace. It was a seventy five minute sound bad. So I'm sitting there for the first thirty minutes like in pain, Like I'm going

through all the things that like my urine not relaxing. Yeah, I'm gonna get a u TI from this. So then I was like I just I look at Robbie like opened his eyes and I was like, he goes go. So I was like, Okay, that's what I needed, you know, I needed the somebody to tell me to go. So I went up and I went Obviously these people plan for these things, so the toilet flush you can't hear

it because it's like the bathrooms in the back. So anyways, the last half of it I really got to enjoy because I was like bladder empty, total piece and zen. And then it was like I had a serendipitous moment. Life lesson if you will tell me about it. If you need to do something and your body's physically telling you to do something, just do it. If you're putting something off, if you're procrastinating something in life right now, just get it done. Stop procrastinating, stop putting it off

till tomorrow. Do it now. You're going to be happier. That's my life lessons to the sound bath. Pooping your pants if you can wait, well no, but if you're walking the dog and you have to poop your pants, don't do it. Take that piss never metaphorically. If there's something that you're procrastinating on in life, this is your sign.

I like it. I don't have to point out every once in a while when I can feel listeners rolling their eyes and I think a lot of non LA listeners are rolling their eyes that you into a seventy five minute sound bath. Yeah, it's a very la nonsensical thing. It is a very LA thing, like i've I've sound baths have really kind of taken off, Like I feel like, can you explain what one is just for people who

don't know. So it's it's basically like a deep meditation, and they like make all these sounds like gongs and rain sticks and there's like a ocean sound, and it's it's basic like a meditation where supposed to get you into like a really really deep relaxed state, relaxed state. I've never again I went to this. I was invited as a guest, So this isn't something that I've ever sought out on my own. But I do know a lot of people that how much do people pay? You

were a guest? But how much would a person pay for I would assume it's like a workout class. That's what I would assume, right, like a yoga class. Maybe like twenty bucks. I guess depends on what kind of where you're going for your sound ball mat. Yeah, it's like you lay on a mat and I imagine if it's seventy five minutes, it's actually probably like twenty five dollars. No, it's probably more than that. I would give it a

forty five range. Really, Yeah, it's like a spa like workout classes can range from anything from like I think, like fifteen to thirty dollars in LA. It's not a workout, but I'm just putting it in that category because I don't I don't know. Yeah, it's not like a massage. No, but I did. I told you I'll went to that birthday party and it was a sound bath and Jay Shetty led the meditation before and I was like, this

is peak La, Like that was peak LA. And I did have a hard time for the first like ten minutes relaxing because I had jeans on. I don't recommend wearing jeans to sound bath tight jeans. You gotta wear sweats, you gotta wear something cozy. Speaking of Jay Chetty. We went to his show. I was going to ask you about it. It was so amazing. People who may not know is we're not interviewing him, but we'll do a quick intro. He said he would come on the podcast. By the way, I've asked him to come on and

he's so down. It's just a matter of scheduling, you know, we gotta have it. Is like Camilla coming over to watch Crazy with you. No scheduling. I swear, I swear, I'm just kidding. I believe Jay is a very busy person right now. Yeah, Yeah, it's a scheduling issue. And you know we're only doing in studios, so that's right. It's tough, tough, tough one when he's on tour. But um, the show was incredible. He is h he's an author.

He's a New York Times best selling author. Actually, his book, his new book came out the same exact day as The Sunshine Mind. One of us was. One of us was a New York Times bestseller again, and one of us was not. I'll let you guys figure that one out. But he is Um. He used to be a monk. He used to be a monk, and now he has a job. He has a really great podcast. He's helps

people find their purpose. But um, so he's going on tour or this tour it's like the show for it's called Love Rules, which is kind of like off based off of his new book, and he just has this thing where like there's a couple of things he mentioned in this show that there's, um there's like this, there's this thing that you can google. It's like a list of thirty six questions to get to know someone, and

he mentioned it in his show. And so Robbie and I did it on Saturday night before we went to the birthday dinner, or the two of us just went and got a drink um solo for like some alone time, and we went through the list of thirty six and they're kind of silly, like you would read them and think like, oh, we already know all this stuff about each other, but it really can spark the interesting conversation, like you know, what's something you regret from your child

or the way you were raised, and like, uh, if you knew you were going to die in a year, what would you do differently now? And like just things that they sound like surface level when you read the questions, but they really sparked a really interesting conversation for the two of us after to fall in love. Yeah, okay, yeah, New York Times. Yeah. Um, but the show, if he's coming to a sitting near you, I highly recommend Jay Shetty show because it was really really cool. He's a

very well connected man. He knows everybody. Everyone knows Jay sett Yeah. And it's funny because we were at the show and Matthew Hussey was there with his fiancee, so we got to spend a lot of time with Like Robie and I spent a lot of time talking to him and his fiance and they're lovely. We always see him Matthew at like Jayshetty things. It's so funny, like that's like our common thread. I was gonna say, I feel like I met Matthew Hussey. Yeah yeah, Um I

met some scrubbers. Oh oh what I met a couple of scrubbers, maybe a handful of scrubbers at Jetty show. Okay. One of them dms me the next day the picture of us, and she says, I have to tell you, I was himming and hawing if I was going to buy a ticket to this show. Because I couldn't go with anybody and I didn't want to go alone. And I read your chapter in your book about being independent and I ended up buying the ticket to the show. And then I ended up meeting you at the show.

How crazy is that? Don't procrastinate, just dorastinate, Just do it. I found that She's like sent me the picture of the chapter in my book that she read, and I was like, wow, well I love that. Yeah, it was like a full circle moment. It was a total one eighty three sixty. Well that's two circles, isn't it. I never know three sixty you're facing the same direction again,

he does. It's a spin, but meaning like, oh, okay, so eighties just turning around one eighties turning around seven twenty would be a full loop, and then you end up in a different spot, so you get like two versions of it. But I've never heard anybody say that, so I don't think that same place. Yeah, seven twenty is a spin and a half. No, three sixty times two is seven twenties, So you're going twice. I'm sorry, is a strong suit here? That's not important? Wait did

you see um? Okay, do you know who Chris Olsen is he's a big TikTok Erni's friends with Megan Trainer. No. I know who he is, but I don't know much about him. So he posted a carousel images and the first photo is him kissing a guy and the tag is Ryan Trainer's brother. Oh, and then multiple photos of them kissing. But they're really close, and I can't tell if Ryan's like everyone like, no one's really saying anything

about it. And I'm like confused because it felt like a big deal that they if it was like a hard launch, or if it was just like they're close friends. Maybe we can ask Megan. She's coming on the radio show this week. Yeah, yes, please find out, but write that down. Wait before we move on. I didn't want to ask you because we got to know from last week's episode. Yeah, I feel like the intimate embraced right

and they're kissing. Yeah, um, I want before we moved on, I wanted to ask you because this was in notes from last week's episode. How do you feel that you have a love song from Haley that's not a breakup song out? I feel so nice and I've been waiting for I was like, maybe the song's never gonna get released because it's two. It's not a breakup song. Maybe she only wants me to be the sad ones, the one that makes you makes her sad sad at the same time. Very ca Yeah, yeah, um no, it feels

really good and I love this song. It's been one of my like when she sent me the um like the wave, no, the demo or something, what's the wave? The wave file? Nice? Is that like the nerdy talking? Yeah, very good. Yeah, when you sent me a wave, I was like, oh my gosh, I love this song. And I actually think we had kind of gotten into like a little bit of a tiff. This is when we

first started dating. This was twenty and eighteen, and I had gone to iHeart Festival in Vegas and we kind of had like it was kind of like a difficult time, was that brother? I think? So I remember coming to your room and you like telling me about No, that wasn't that one that was here before. Um, But we went to I went to iHeart and it was just hard because she was she was We were still in

the beginning stages. We didn't get to see each other a lot, and it was like, you know, that was all when it was all bachelor guys and then it would be like me and Ashley if she got if she was able to go, and so she was like, I just feel like you're going to be, you know, surrounded by all the bachelor guys. And we had kind of got into an argument. I'm like, this is my work, Like this is just you know, part of the work part.

And then she wrote that song and one of the lines was like whenever, whenever I'm with you, I already miss you. That's how we were. We were like so obsessive that it was like, even when we were together, it was like anticipating the moment that we weren't going to be together. I know, so deep, but yeah, I'm still I know I hate it that. It's tough being It's tough being with someone that you hate being apart

from in any capacity, it's the goal, isn't it. I know it's the best and it's the worse when they travel a lot. Yeah, I know that would really It's funny because when Becca said you couldn't go to the sound bath on Sunday, I was like, can Robbie come? Like really was just like quick to oh yeah, immediately replace me. Yeah, like it was actually within seconds I said I have a birthday party. I'm not. I don't

think I can't. I don't know what time it's gonna be over, so I don't want to commit and take up a spot, And then thirty seconds Tanya had me replaced it. It's like that sometimes I want to talk about the Oscars, but I think we should take a break and come back. Yeah sounds good. All right, we're back with Oscar's recap. Where do we start first? I would like to say that I feel like being the host of the US or any award show like that

would be very challenging. Sure, but sometimes I'm just like, could could we do it without having someone having to have like kind of like weird jokes The whole time we did that, we tried, that didn't go. I think it was twenty twenty and it didn't. Few years ago, they still take up time like they still fill the time with like a weird thing. I think I don't know that people were like walking into the It's just I think I like Trevor Noah, Are you saying you

didn't like Jimmy because I thought Jimmy was phenomenal last night? Yeah, I don't know. Sometimes it's jokes. I'm just kinda like the Nicole Kidman joke had me because I just find that I'm always quoting the sometimes hotbreak feels good in the place like this. Yeah, Like I'm constantly I find it just so entertaining that commercial. Yeah, so when he made that joke, I was like, oh my gosh, I never thought of it that way, Like, thank you for telling the people who are already at the movies to

go to the movie. Yeah, there was no host in nineteen twenty or twenty one, nineteen twenty, twenty twenty and twenty twenty one, three straight years there was no host. Oh wow, Yeah, so been there, done that. It was. Yeah, I just think it's a hard job. Like I'm not it's a thankless job. It's a very hardy Yeah, like you're gonna get criticized no matter why, as we're hearing now. And yeah, I just said it was really good actually like that his monologue, it was pretty perfect. Way he

addressed the Will Smith situation was very funny. But maybe I was napping during that. Oh. He basically said, like if you if you do anything like any act of violence, if you come out here you will be awarded. Yeah, I don't know. I just was kind of like, you weren't into it when he said, this is the category that caused the ruckets last year. So hopefully it goes off without a hitch, and without a hitch. Yeah, it's better than I'm giving a credit for rude cappy. Yeah.

I thought it was pretty good. And he's like, I look out of here, and I so many beautiful people, and I wonder if ozenpic is for me so fun. We haven't talked about ozenpic on the podcast. No, that is a hard hitting topic. It is a hard hit.

It's like trending on Twitter all the time anytime there's a celebrity who's like, yeah, it's it's immediately the O. But it is apparently it is I know, like people to actually need it for their health reasons cannot get it because people are using it to lose weight and it is such a problem and I think people are like, well, there's no um like, there's no ramifications, and I'm like, I don't know that we know enough yet. No, there's

actually stuff coming out that it's like horrible. It's causing like all kinds of bad things and the minute you get off of it. I remember it was Ramy Bader was talking about the minute you get off of it, you gain it back and something. So it's like, what are you just going to use this thing for the rest of your lifing. I do think that there's like reasons of needing, like if there's like people who actually need it, and then I think there's also a lot

of benefits to like nutrition and exercise. That's like there for a reason something seems too good to be true. It is right, I mean, there is no quick fix for these things. And also all those commercials that's you're a doctor, if this is right for you, I think you stay away from those. Right, this may cause internal bleeding. Your arm is going to fall off. Every time I see a medicine commercial and the like warning comes, I'm like, okay,

is this worth it. The thing that bothers me about Hollywood is like the line if you're taking ozempic, just own up to it, because I think the problem is is like people see this stuff and they think that you actually can look like that with eating greens and sleeping on your back, you know what I mean. It's like that people actually think that, and it's just not the case, you know what I mean. And so I actually said this when I was on Jay's podcast. It's

like if you could make something out. I can't remember what the question was, but I was like, I would love on social media if it just disclosed how many filters and what filters people used on their photos. They don't have to say what they did, but just say like, here's my photo and I use I ran it through face tune. A couple it's been through face tune, ta mesa,

this filter or whatever whatever. Because I just think like we just need to start being more upfront because it's like people are trying to use you know, this false reality that people are being fed is just I think, such a problem. I think though, it's like it's kind of the is it lying if they're not just blatant? I get what you're saying, but is it lying. I don't know that anyone's gonna straight up ask someone in

an interview like, so we're you using ozempic. I think Chloe Kardashian's been asked, and I think Kyle Richards has and yeah, they're denying it, deny it. Who knows? I actually don't know for a fact, but yeah, no one. Yeah, there's a lot of chatter about it. But I think I watched this like I don't even know if it was called a documentary, but this like piece on it and it was interviewing people like this guy who has diabetes, and like he was like, I can't literally can't find

it anywhere, really bad. So I think they've got to figure out a solution to where the people who need it have access to it and like there's no increase in like the price or whatever, and then if people want to be on it and take that risk for themselves, then there's another option. Right, no judgment here. This is a judge free zone. The people that need it need

access to it first. Yeah, okay, anyways back to the oscars um, Well, I think we should start with the carpet because that's the pre show and there's one person in particular that's getting a lot of pick up, and that's Ashley Graham. Yes, and the two interviews in particular were the interviews shod with Hugh Grant and Pedro Pascal. Yes, it's interesting we have different Mark and I were discussing it this morning and we have different opinions and so

I'm curious to hear what you Well, what are your opinions? Well, I mean I'm surprised, Well what happened? For those who didn't watch, Ashley Graham asked Hugh Grants of questions. He did not seem to like those questions or have any answers for those questions, And it's incredibly uncomfortable because he's

being obstinate. But in my opinion, her questions were such generic garbage that I kind of understand where he's coming from, Like, why bring him over for an interview if you have absolutely nothing to ask him except who are you looking forward to seeing? And how did you enjoy being in class onion? Which he's in for five seconds? Right, So I thought her questions were so lame and standard that I get why he was being a little bit weird. But I guess he's the one taking the majority of

the heat. Yeah. So it's interesting because the interviews so awkward, like you can literally feel it when you're watching it. It's so uncomfortable. My first thought was he's a dick because he looked like a dick in that interview. I could see him coming off as a dick. But my other thought was, yes, I do agree that the questions were a little loosey goosey. They didn't feel like they had an intention. Yeah, or she wasn't prepped at all.

And maybe I'm looking at it from a radio perspective because she had no prep for Hugh grew So when I first saw this, I was a little bit on Ashley's side, Like I was like, dude, you're doing an interview, Like, even if they aren't the best questions, smile and be nice, you know what I mean. But then she did the interview with Pedro Skall and basically what happened in that interview was he uh, he said kind of like he's

looking forward. You know, Rihanna's performing tonight, right, And she was like, no, Rhanda's not performing, but that'd be a great surprise if she did. Yeah, And it was like knowing that Rihanna was performing by everybody, Yes, That's what I'm saying. Like this is like like he had inside like correct, this was not inside source. This was out in the public knowledge for many, many weeks leading up

to the Oscars. And I'm like, if you're getting the privilege to host a red carpet at the Oscars, you don't know who's performing, it's a problem. Yeah, So I don't know where I stand on it, because, like Hugh Grant, when I was on totally on her side, because I was like, I think he was he was totally just being a jerk um. But then I saw that one and I was like, maybe market that's disappointing to me as a as a you know, as a journalist who loves doing that, you know, like, I think it just

showed a lack of preparation. Preparation. Yeah, I think I think I've reside in the middle on this one because I think actually, probably most likely one thousand percent could have been more prepared and ask more questions of like, hey, was it um like a fun like a fun thing being like even though you were just a small part of glass onion, was it fun like being with that cast? Or more intentional questions and made it seem like she

knew his role and like what he did. But also I feel like he could have just been polite and moved on and not made it like totally he was visibly annoyed and like it's like, look, I as somebody that's done that been on that side, and especially remember Billboard Music awards. You're interviewing people. You don't even have a second to think a sup of water. The next

person's like right there. Yeah, so everything's coming fast, and like you can't physically know every single thing about every single person that's coming on, and like, but I feel like there's a happy medium, you know what I mean about being prepared and you know, having help and people helping you and you know, I don't know, I just feel like there's a happy medium there where you I'm not going to sit here and say I've been one hundred percent prepared for every single interview that I'd done.

That would be my nightmare job doing what she did. Yeah, and we also see it from that side. I'm sorry to interrupt with you, and see what Ryan used to go through on the red carpet. Right, Your people, your producer prepare for you an ungodly amount of material, right, and it's very difficult to retain all of that. But I think ryan strategy was always have a couple of things about everybody, Yeah, like one or two things. Yeah, I think they have to do that. It struck me

that she did not put the effort in. Yeah, and like, again, you do have those generic filler questions that you can throw out there, yeah, you know, in a pinch if somebody's not giving you anything, like who are you excited to see? Or like what do you love about the Oscars? Or like what was your favorite movie this year? Who are you rooting for? You know what I mean to me?

And whatever? To me? Those those questions from actually weren't offensive, but they're just n And I do think like celebrities, like especially at a level of like Hugh Grant, there's an ego there because I've been on a carpet where someone's interviewed me and I'm like, they have no idea like who They're like, who is this person? They just

asked the most generic questions. But I'm like whatever. But in an interview last week and they thought that I hosted a Bachelor Power Hour podcast that I was on the Ellen Degenerous Show, and I was just like, yeah, you just go with there, you know what I mean? Yeah that's me me and Ellen way back. Yeah, I fig of themes, but that's what I'm saying, Like you, I think there's an ego thing to it too for him, where he's like why am I being asked these like

basic questions. But I also think it's a conversation of the like respect of a journalist who does this for a living, and like being able to see the difference of hiring a journalist who does this for a living and someone who doesn't do this for a living, who just has like a powerful social media presence. Yeah, it's true. So like the thing is too, like you really can I remember the first award show that I ever did. I buried myself in prep. I watched every single thing.

I watched tons of interviews with everybody, and it's like it's very twenty four to seven, Like it is very intense. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, though, Like you, when you got that opportunity, you engrossed yourself in like every area. But I do think there's a happy medium, you know what I mean. I don't think you need That's what I'm saying. I don't. I don't think it was like, oh, she

did a terrible job. I think it was just like the same thing like when we interview guests, sometimes we're just like not prepared, and that you can tell in the interview. That's another thing is sometimes you prepare for all those people and then somebody who's not even on the list shows up the forehand. Hey you got Hugh Grant. Here, it comes Hugh Grant and you're like, oh, okay. But I know some people who say no, like if you're not if they're not prepped for that person, they're not

going to interview that. I think that's smart. I do too. Tell me about Notting Hill right, oh man, because there's nothing worse than like, especially in a live interview, saying the wrong like stat or there was some other reporter that um said to Kate Hudson that she had won an oscar before and she had to correct her. You know, it's like there's nothing more uncomfortable dagger like no right, I will say to Pedro Pascal's like one of the biggest,

like most talked about celebrities. For that to be the one where she had a moment is unfortunate. Unfortunate. I have to say, Carl Dolavine is having a redemption moment. Yeah, she looked good last night, amazing, Like she was one of my favorite best dress for like the Oscars and the afterparty. Yeah, she really rocked it. And you know, white was a very beautiful theme. I felt like there's a lot of people in white. Last night, Sophia Carson was one of those girls. She looked stunning and her

performance was amazing. I got chills. Yeah, she was choir. It's a choir, the singers in the back and then the people the instruments at orchestra. Right, So she's an orchestra and a choir. Yeah, that's cool. It was really really special. Well, um, everything everywhere all at once was clearly the big one. I watched it. Yeah, we watched it. Oh you did, Yeah? Did you like it? Yeah? It's very emotional, like it's a very like I mean, there's a lot going on, like you gotta stay with it. Yeah.

I actually kind of wish I had seen it in theaters because it felt like one of those that you needed to just be like really and like watching every moment. But it's very emotional, and I was just like, so every the speeches were so emotional, like it was just beautiful. I like that they weren't playing people off a couple A couple of people were a little snoozy and long, but for the most part, they were very emotional speeches

and very sweet that they just let them go. Well, I want to talk about Jamie Lee Curtis because so she wins for Best Supporting Actress, right, But she's been doing a lot of press leading up to the Oscars, and she was saying something that I think, maybe Becca, you can help with because you have Haley the concert concerts, the matinee concert Because what a brilliant idea, So she said, So she said, why doesn't cold Play do a one pm like a matinee showing of their concert, because she,

like myself, I'm sure, has like a nine o'clock bedtime and doesn't want to go to a show that starts at nine when there's an opening act like I would love. I also love daydrinking. I'm like, how fun would it be to go to a Charlie Pooth show at one pm on a Saturday day? Drink, enjoy the show, rage, go home, have a meal, and get in bed at my normal time. That's a great idea. However, most people work no on the weekends or a doubleheader. Hey, at the a Kia Forum, Harry could have done a show

at one and then a show at eight. Yeah, what a you guys? People have to work on a Saturday weekend. Matinees would be fine. A week in matinee's great. But if you play a show on Saturday and you or Friday and you're having to get on your bus and head to the next thing, that's a big turnaround for an artist. I'm not saying they have to do all their shows. What I'm saying, if you were in somewhere and it is a weekend, like a Saturday or Sunday, and you could do a matinee, I think it would

take off. I think a Vegas residency matinee really makes sense because they just have the stage set up. But I think like a traveling touring artist, I think that's a lot unless you have like Taylor Swift, who has, like you know, a lot of equipment that you have to like rush to the next venue. Brother could do five shows in a day and sell all of them out. I mean this is a way for the artists to do more shows and make more money. Yeah, artists, we're

really speaking to you. We want to make you more money, That's what we're talking. My thing is, even if it's not one pm, what about like a seven pm start? Why are they all starting so late? Yeah? Like five? Yeah, I mean most people get off at five, so if they could get to the venue by seven. Talking weekends here, I'm talking realistic artists don't just perform on a weekend. I'm talking. I like the idea of starting earlier, but

like giving people seven feels realistic. Have the opener started six? Okay at six? Okay, I'm not doing opener at seven though. Opener headliner going on at nine is like standard, and I don't get it. I don't either. I just think day drinking is so fun. You're not drinking anymore. Not, It's not like a if an infinity. It's just like we're not drinking. We're not drinking, but we are having a drink. Uh you know what I mean. We're not drinking, we're having a drinking. It's fun drink a day drink.

There's a single drinker during the day. Yeah, I think the show start. Do you know what I'm saying. I'm not saying I'm not drinking. Yeah, not drinking, but I'll have a drink here and there. You know, we're having caffeine today, we should Yeah. Yeah, I'm having a little green teeth so it's a little yeah, but I'm just sipping it slightly this morning. Shoes on shrooms, yes, holding holding up No, so on tough days. So these mushroom drinks, these are all like you buy them at the grocery shore.

These isn't and I'm not like getting the psychedelics correct, but they do have They're supposed to have the same sort of adaptogenic energy boosting that coffee does, just in a different way. So that's why I switched to mushrooms instead of just going cold turkey. Um, and you know we're here drinking caffeine just a little. Just the time change really messed me up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I hope they got that. I I shift on camera. Anyway. Anyway, I think we should go come back and do some

emailse did we recap enough of the oscars anything? Not? No, A lot of stuff happened, Rihanna. You Vanity Fair afterparty, Lady Gaga's performance. Have you been to a Vanity Fair afterparty one of them? I don't know, but they seem to be the spot, the spot. Yeah, I gotta get somebody that's been in there. Why I just find it. So it's just like this giant thing. So I don't know if you know, but they basically build this structure. I know, I've been texting her all morning and she's like,

crickets on me. They did get in and out because I saw there was like, sir, they were serving in an Outburgers. The Vanity Fair afterpartrom they build this structure on Crescent Boulevards, so it's like the street just shuts off and they build this looks like a tent almost. Yeah, I don't know, but the whole city just turned into

an Oscar thing. Like we tried to go get a drink Saturday before our birthday dinner and they were like, so sorry, we're having a private event here for the Oscars and we were like, this is a thousand oaks. We'd never have any issues out. Yeah, a lot of issues and now should bring the Oscar parties two thousands. And I'm telling you, but it's like, if you think about it's like that party is the one, the one like the Met Gala. Think about everybody that was there.

It is like that. But I think it's better than the Met Gala. There's more people at the Vanity Fair party than at the Met Gala, and my like more people that you care about. Yeah, like it's like everybody, it's actors. It's actors. Christina Aguilera was there. That's random random, Yeah, like unexpected. Gid and the Jenners were there. Adam Adam Divine No, Adam, I mean and Abahati were there first time. Here you're naming people that we see all the time.

Who who was there that you were like, I cannot believe they were in a room together. Everybody that was there, Jenner's and Hadid they're always everything Jennerous Hadid's, Hayley Bieber was there, Halle Berry I believe, was there. Carra Delavine was there. Noah's and Teneo and Lana Condor were there. Are they a thing? No, no, no, there's from that show, hold on from the show. But so were a couple? They are not. They are not a couple. Yeah, these

are all like great people. I'm just saying you're acting like this was like never been seen before. Kate Hudson was there. Was at a party with Kate Hudson. Jonas and Sophie Turner were there. Time I saw Donna was there. I incline Billie Eilish and her boyfriend. But people are not on board for TikTok does not like real boyfriend Florence Pew Channing Tatum, Michelle el Yo. Did I mention Kara del Avine, Austin Butler and Kaya gerber sew mend Center.

I wanted to talk about the Shall I go on Austin Butler because Vanessa Hudgins did oscar uh live red Carpet. I wish he would have gone and talked to her. Well, of course they're gonna not do that. That would be so dirty if the producers did that to her, would it be that is great content? It would be It would be mess up of the producers if they did that to her. I think so. But this is Hollywood and they like to do that stuff. We have to

break so you can keep researching. Celebrities were Spain there, all right, Yeah, you keep researching and we'll be right back. Olivia Wilde was there, Jennifer Coolidge was there, Miranda Kerr and her husband, Chrissy Teagan and John Legend were there. Naomi Watts was there. Sofia Vergaro, your overall point here is you wish you had been there? Um, well, no, I was working. I was working last night and working gal, But I just like the star power in the room.

I just want to know what the vibe is, what people are doing, what groups people are in, you know, like he was talking to who was it Sharon Stone that Austin Butler was talking to. I have no idea, I just no. And also there was like I was watching these videos and I didn't realize the length of the line of people. When you're like taking your photos before you go into the Vanity Fair party, the line is so long. That's my last space. I skip it

every time. Like Ali be like like if I go to a party that has like a carpet like that and there's like actual celebrities there, I'm like, I'm not doing it, Like I'm not going after Kate Huts. I'm sorry. I think that's okay. I'll get an event. I'm fit photo at the event on my iPhone. Yeah, um okay. So you have direct access to knowing exactly what it was like through your future made of honor following. I know.

You know what, By the way, we should we should put a pin in that and come back to it, because you're just so willy nilly about even wanting there, and it's no, it's making me upset. Oh no, why because you don't even want to be my maid of honor. It's an honor to be my maid of honor. You don't even want it, But what about like being a bridesmaid and getting to be a part and like handing it off to someone who's gonna be more responsible and organized and like make you less stressed? You know what

that sounds like to me? But that sounds like we're verse psychology gaslighting. You're a gaslighting me, and I don't like it. Reverse psychology gas lighting. Yeah, yeah, that fills I'm gonna have to deep dive into what that looks like RL. Yeah, oh wow, Okay, So just like you know you want me to fight for it. I mean no, I don't want you to do anything that you don't want to do a great example of wanting what you don't have, one thing what you can't have, or wanting

what isn't interested right, makes you want it more? Like you want me to try more. But then I put in the effort and you're like, uh, I had to go with Pauline it because she's more organized. And then I'm just like, right, like I'm trying to figure out if you're just are you gasolighting me? Yeah? Are we gasslighting? Be more. I'll be more, and I'll fight for it, all right. I don't know what I got to do

to prove myself. I've put on some pretty good parties last minute, so I feel I think there's a reality show here. Who wants to be Tanya Is? And I think that you would be a great made of Honor? I would be, I know, like I haven't would rise the opportunity, yet I think I would rise to the occasion. I think I would too. I know I would. One think about me. It might be a disaster up until

the final moment, but the product is so good. We get three or four or whatever content, we bring them on the podcast, and we each asked them questions, and then at the end we choose Tanya's Made of Honor? Oh wow, Like like she does a multiple choice like what what would be my preference of Kate? Yes, stuff like, and she doesn't have final say it's it's us. Well, I think that'd be fun. But which of these items would I wanted my bachelor party? Oh? Keeness probably does,

even though I wouldn't choose that personally. I think she'd one thought, would you want penis drass? I think a little penis never hurt nobody. A little penis never hurt nobody. Yeah, like tasteful, tasteful Ween, tasteful and tasteful Ween. We have a good email that wills it brings in the wien. All right, bring it? I mean Mark, thank you him back in Antonia. I'm a recent scrubber who needs some advice. My fiance is a best friend who is a girl.

They talk and text every day. They talk about everything. For Christmas, he gifted her a date night package for her and her boyfriend, which consisted of movie tickets and lube. No. When he told me about the lube part, it made me feel weirded out at first. I know they talk about everything, but this to me was something I wasn't used to. Today they were talking and he casually called

her sweetie. Now he does call other people love of but when that happened, it made me think how him and her they don't really have boundaries And I'm not sure exactly what to feel or what to do. One thing about me that I have realized about myself in my current relationship, I am a little bit jealous. This would be so that this would have never gone to

this point. I'm gonna say the exact same thing. It would not get to the point if if Robbie bought any woman loube, I don't even she could be married, doesn't matter. It could be a family member like Deda have sisters, but it would really bother me. That is such a personal Doing nice things for somebody is totally fine if he wants to get her like a couple's massage, like if it's a good friend of his, a couple's massage. Buying lube for some a girl. I just think it's

so inappropriate. I think that this is always This is like an age old conversation, can you have a best friend of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship And a lot of people this is like a very touchy subject for a lot of people because a lot of people do have best friends of the opposite sex. I just think and even like, this is even more interesting for me because I'm dating a woman who has

both male and really close female friends. So it's like where's the boundary, you know, right, because like think of how close we are and what we talk about. True, you know, yeah, but it's the same thing. It's like I love you so much, but like I don't have the feelings that I have for Hailey. True, you know, so I can't expect her every relationship she has to be the same. But I think that when you are in a relationship, you have to be able to set

those boundaries of what you're comfortable with. And I just feel like maybe no boundaries have been set. Her boundaries are the fruit of life, let me tell you. They are such an incredible powerful tool that I just don't think And I'd be interested to know how old does she say? How old she did? Oh? Well, I did not start setting boundaries in my life until my thirties, and I am upset that I didn't start earlier in

my life. Yeah, boundaries are very important, so important. But like, do we think he's planning date nights and buying his girlfriend and like is he doing the same types of things for his own relationship? I just feel like it's a very the whole thing intimate thoughtful. Guy's probably buying her lube, handcuffs whatever, like intimate, though that is an intimate gift for a friend. The lub would not fly with me. So what So what does she need to

do here? She needs to talk to her fiance and say, look, best friend, we got to draw the line here. She's gonna say. I you know what I love about you. I love that you are a loyal man, and you and Eudora, Eudora, I've been such good friends for so many years, and I think that's wonderful. I love your loyalty. It's one of the most amazing qualities. I love about you. Something about this relationship that's really important to me is

the respect that we have for each other. That has been a core foundation of our relationship from the very beginning. And I feel as though when you give another woman lube it's a little bit disrespectful to me, and it makes me feel a certain type of way. I'm sorry, it makes me feel that you don't know, no, don't have to say sorry. It makes me feel that way. It makes me feel uncomfortable. And if you would like to respect me and respect those boundaries, that would be

really much appreciate. Why I was just giving her It was like a date night for her and this guy. It's not like I'm flirting or something like. I was just getting them movie in Lubeck so they can have a great night together. What's a big deal. I'm not expecting you to understand how it makes me feel. I know we're very different people, but this is the way that it makes me feel, and it makes me feel uncomfortable,

and it makes me feel disrespected. So I'm asking you, as your fiance, if you would please respect me and set some boundaries there. Thank you, I love you so much. I think that's great. I think you acknowledging that you love his friendship that he has with her, and it's never bothered you. But I think lube is a very intimate gift and it makes you uncomfortable, and just set that up if you like, Take ton your script and write it down. It was solid. Thanks so much, guys.

Good luck to you Anonymous. Here's another one that continues the weeen. She's twenty, boyfriends thirty. They've been together just under two years, and everything's pretty great. We live together, we get along. Well, this girl has a boyfriend. What is the boyfriend thinking of this other guy buying her a date night in lube? Also, if a guy bought your wives, that's a good point, right, that's true. And then she pulls it out and she's like, hey, Jimmy

got us this. Yeah, that's weird. That's a good point, and you could you could add that perhaps to her, Yeah, spiel, Yeah, I would bet the friend is in even like, even if it was like a joke, the friend is probably extremely weirded out by this. I think this man is stepping over so many boundaries in every aspect of his life. Would be the girls like a new Loube, don't have the one from lots Christmas? All right? Anyway, this is a longer one, so I just kind of sum it

up here. She's twenty nine, right, this is this new one. Yeah, our emails together. He has severe everything's great, relationships going great. But my boyfriend has a severe depression and anxiety. He won't go to therapy like I'd like him too, but he has. He's on some medication from a psychiatrist. The meds make it hard for him sexually. He can get a roused, but he doesn't often finish. I feel like I should add that it's a super common side effect

of this particular medication. But because he doesn't finish, I find myself not wanting to have sex. He goes out of his way to make it enjoyable for me. So I think it's a mental thing on my part, the idea of feeling like I'm not good enough for him or he's not attracted to me, even though I know what the situation is. I know it's the medication. He told me that's not the case. I'm not sure, but it's been at least three months since we've had sex. I hate the idea of bringing up because they don't

want to make this about me and my feelings. It make him feel bad. When we first started having sex, we talked about it a bit and he said that I was making him feel insecure because it was obvious that I was upset that he didn't finish and he can't help it because of the medication. I feel bad I made him feel that way, but yes, physically I want to. Emotionally, I feel crappy after we do it

and I'm satisfied and he isn't satisfied. More details. Sorry, If it's TMI Becca, I know Tanya won't feel that way. He can typically get himself to finish with his hand, but it's kind of a process, and then he wants to me to try harder, but then you know, it takes forty minutes, and then I try with my mouth

for twenty more minutes and then my jaw hurts. Anyway, any advice on how to help, how to talk to him about sex or things I can tell myself to not feel so crappy when he doesn't get his happy ending. Thank you for the disclaimer that makes me emotional. I think it's I think, obviously you love him so much, and this is you're really making an effort to not

be selfish or make it all about you. But I think that it's just sitting down and having a conversation and also maybe going to like a sex therapist or seeing I was going to suggest finding somebody that specializes in this, because I think that I understand how you're feeling. Because I think obviously, even you knowing that the medication this is a side effect, you're gonna feel like a failure.

You're gonna feel like all those things that you were saying, you're not psychologically you can't switch that, you know what I mean. So I understand why you're feeling that way, and I understand why he's feeling the way that he's feeling. So it's a matter of just like really listening to each other, knowing where each other stands, and then getting somebody that can professionally help you and that. I'm sure

there are people who have dealt with this. I'm sure there's tons of people who are dealing with this, So there's got to be somebody that knows how to navigate it in a better way. I think, look at this, there are positives to this that I think we're missing. One is that he's going out of his way to make it enjoyable for her because he knows he's got this situation with the medication. This is not a physical situation. It's definitely not a lack of attraction desire. This is

a reaction to his medication. I just think that how many times in sexual history has the male finished and gotten what he wanted and the woman is not with no apology. If they don't and then don't care, they move on. I mean some do. Look I don't mean to generalize, but generally speaking in there like thanks, that

was great, hand me the video game controller. There's another reason women are so much better than men, because women really want this to be a mutual thing, where men are perfectly happy with it sometimes and often not being a mutual thing. Right, So there are wonderful things here one is that he's a good guy who really wants you to enjoy yourself, yeah, and feels bad about the situation but wants to make the best of it. And two that you're so sensitive to this that you almost

don't want to if he can't enjoy it. Yes, talking to somebody who's a great idea, But also focus on the positives here and enjoy yourself because honestly, I don't want to get graphic here. I just feel like he loves you. If he really wants you to have a great time and doesn't care about his own enjoyment, that is love. So don't feel bad about it. Yeah, just enjoy it as much as you can. Hopefully his situation

gets resolved at some point. Yeah, that's the same. Maybe this is obviously I don't think it's a permanent thing. Or it might be a permanent thing. I don't know. But I also think that like talking to someone who maybe can find new ways that bring pleasure, because it might you know how we were talking about, there's different sex what was it sex styles? Or uh? That like magic? I think people respond differently to things. But I think you're trying to like do what's best for the other person,

which I agree with Mark. I think it's a beautiful thing that you're both like wanting each other to feel happy and please. But I also think the more pressure and stress that you both feel, the more it's not going to happen. So I think you have to find a way to like not put the pressure on it. And if you're able to enjoy yourself and have much happy ending, then let that be. And if he can't and he's you know, it's don't put so much pressure

on yourself to change that. It's just you know, you know, happy ending is like a thing, right, Yeah, okay, I'm I've only been with a girl from once. No, no, no, like that just because you like look down on things. Because she saw I thought she I thought I saw that, and then I was questioning if she had said that. Yeah, there's massage places that do. I haven't been to one, but that's a thing I have not been to one either,

No full disclosure. Yeah all we haven't been to one. Yeah, no judgments here, but if you're willing, But if you're willing, um before we go. So, Tanya is cleaning out her apartment, as we know, and she at one point had a beautiful photo of Phoebe in her bathroom and she brought it to get back to me, which I felt was a little hurt full towards Phoebe. Well, first of all, I stole that from your house. That is your picture frame.

But then we agreed that it in my bathroom. Yeah, I figured I was doing a nice thing by giving it back to its original owner. But if you would like me to, I think that should go to your new home. Okay, And then what if you put like a tiny little photo of Sunny And then it was like their best friend pick Sonny is going to be upset that she doesn't have a framed photo in the house. But maybe I'll just get one of her. Yeah, maybe you split half and half half a Phoebe's face half

of Sunny's face could be artistic. All right, back home with me where? Yeah? We glad we got that covered on? Are Yeah? All right? Well we do. We have a guess this Thursday, working on We're working on it. We might be back Thursday, we might not, so stay tuned. Yeah, we love you all. Laugh a great week, ye