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Okay, I was about to say, so we I've been wanting to learn that dance so bad, but in my mind dance that one that we did, the one that you posted. Yeah, there's not many like you know here and there. I'll try to learn. But I was so obsessed with the dance, and I kept sending it to Haley, like do you think I can learn this? Because she knows my skill level, you know, And she's like, yeah, I think so. She watches the tutorial and she learns it.
In literally like five minutes. She's like, Okay, got it, so this and then she's able to teach me. It takes me a little bit longer. But what I've realized is I'm coordinated enough and like have enough rhythm memory and enough rhythm and learn the dance.
I feel like your body kind of like moves in like the way that a dancer does.
No, So that's what I was gonna say. I don't have like the swag of the dancer. I really don't. Yeah, you know, if you watch me and Haley us both, you can you can see the difference. Though there's just me.
In there those videos with the two of you, you would see the difference between Okay, the nom swagger and the swagger.
But it's so fun to learn. Oh it's so fun to dance. But it's also so fun to learn and dance with her because she's very she's when she's in coach mode teaching me, she's like very coach. She's like a coach to me. And then I'm like what am I doing wrong? And she's like, let's watch it back.
Did she do the like five? Six, seven eight?
Always tries to go okay, do you hear this beat, boom boom, and then she'll do the dance math. But I'm like, Babe, I don't That's not how I learn. So I just need to see it with the music and then that's how I'm gonna pick it up.
I find dancing so hard. I don't have rhythm, I don't have swagger like and I my parents never had me in any sort of dance classes, and I really regret that as a child, not like pushing to be in any sort of like dance because I feel like I have the rhythm in me.
I think you have rhythm. I think you I think that you get overwhelmed with learning the dance. But I think if you just like locked in, I think you have the rhythm to learn to dance. If not, now, when why not take some dance classes?
Me?
We could go take howl would that be? Go take some you know the studios where they film on like the cool VIDEOSHM Millennial.
Or Millennial Dance studio.
Yeah, but yeah, it's really fun. I love music and I love dancing. I'm just like, it's not a natural thing for me. I did do cheer in fifth grade, so that probably just set me up for success. Wow, any of that foundation.
You know how like people say like when they have kids, they like they do all the stuff that they wish that they had when they were a kid. If I end up having a girl dance, they're going to be in ballet, hip hop, like ballroom, you name it, they're going to be in it.
Well, we went to Haley's. Her niece is did dance and she had her like recital or whatever, and she was in Hers was hip hop. But the whole thing was like a two hour thing and it was like kids from three and four to you know, high school. It's a long, long performance. Yeah, but you know you see the stars, like you can say you can be like that one's gonna pursue this, that could pursue this as a long term career. And I would say majority are just there for the fun and learning and dancing vibes.
I was listening to this podcast though, and they were talking about how they prefer to have children that aren't that don't like excel in those types of things, because then they like they know how to experience like not being so good. You know, like there's like some people that are just like naturally just like good at everything and then they kind of have this like false sense of reality because they're just so good at everything, and then they enter the real world and they're like, oh wait,
I'm actually not really good at everything. Yeah, how it's like better or like you you you gain like grit and you learn adversity by like not being good at things as a kid.
I think that's true.
I do so to get horrible at everything I wasn't.
But do you know what happened is that when I try something that I'm not good at now, I don't want to do it. I don't want to have to learn. So it's easier for me to just not do things that I don't feel comment doing, which I think holds me back a lot of the time. So I do think there's something to that. But I also think you you learn quickly if you're surrounded by people who are good at things if you're not, Like I can tell when, like even I'm self aware enough with Haley to know
that I am not good. I'm good enough to do a TikTok dance, but I'm not going to try and be a touring dancer.
You know, she made you a backup dancers. She wouldn't I would ever.
No, No, it's so intense and hard.
But maybe not like a full on backup dancer.
But it just come out for one performance where I yeah.
Like you're on tour, you're part of the tour.
I just do like a compilation of the TikTok dances we've learned together.
Yeah, or like she has that like what's the moment where it was it one less lonely girl justin bib moment? Yeah, but it's like you every time.
One time she had a song called pretty Girl, and she would bring up a fan and saying I got to do it one time in London.
Anyways. Good for thought, Good for thought.
But I was gonna say something about oh, just as just total shift. So you post it today you have a new hyper fixation breakfast. I don't know if you saw this.
I've not seen this yet.
And there's a picture of said breakfast. Yeah, and in my mind I thought, those are those just three fried eggs like that like a very standard breakfast for most people, right, which is like three bright eggs, And I go, maybe there's something new that has them being a fixation.
Fixation have to be new.
I just I thought you ate eggs every day.
So I sat very funny, three regular looking fried eggs.
I'm sorryalted pepper, Yeah, deliciously salted and deliciously peppered.
And somehow Robbie makes them to where they're like they're like a little bit gooey on the inside, but like not too runny, Like they're very cooked, but like just the right amount of gooey.
An over easy egg.
I had this aversion to scrambled eggs, and I was like, I cannot eat another scrambled egg. I just can't do it. And Robbie's like, let me try making you a different way.
I was like, over medium, this is what they look like.
Is that what that is? I think it is delicious when I tell you I had it for the first time two days ago, and I was like, can you make me this every day for the rest of my life?
It is? So that was your first time having a Friday like an over medium egg.
Usually have them scrambled or hard boiled.
Wow.
Yes, I think we pitched the suggestion when you said you were having the egg ache, like, maybe try a different form.
Yeah, well I did. Spoiler alert, and it is good. It's so good, and.
I am welcome to the new this new journey.
Yeah, I'm really happy with it. I'm really happy with it.
I you know, what I've been really into is like scrambled eggs but with like we order fresh bread from this bakery and it's this honey wheat toast with the egg on top of it. Buttered toast with eggs on top. So good. Anyways, we have a Dear Bondia episode. So is out he is on Baca, So he is. I ever wanted.
Vacation? All I ever wanted.
Vacation had to get away.
You don't know that song, I don't think so what is the go gos or yeah, googles?
The tone they.
Already nineteen eighty two so called vacation.
Oh, speaking of before we begin, Dear Bonnya, I've been seeing all this stuff about we were liars being like super emotional and like good. Yeah, so I'm ready to beinge it.
That might be my next bin.
Yeah. Same watch our girl Candae, Yeah, gotta support well watch it, Dear Bonnya.
Let's go, here we go. This is from Charlotte High Scrubbing and FAM. I'm so thankful for this podcast in community. I've been a fan of Becca since her bachelor days, and I'm so happy to now know Tanya Mark Easton. Thank you and the rest of the scrubbers. You've kept me company on so many cross country flights, laughing out loud on planes and in cars. I'm writing because I'm pretty sure my boyfriend of over a decade just picked up my engagement ring yesterday. Yes, I checked his location.
I'm a Tanya.
I'm so excited to start this next chapter. Here's my dilemma. I have a friend, Carrie, who I've known since we were teens. We've all been friendly, though I think she felt closer to me than I did to her. Back in twenty twenty one, I was one of three maids of honor in her wedding, alongside her other friend Samantha. But since then life and distance got in the way. We haven't seen each other in almost two years, and we barely text, just occasional likes and replies on social media.
I know she'll expect a text when it happens, maybe even a wedding or bridesmaid invite, but honestly, I don't think i'd even invite her, her husband, or other friend Samantha to the wedding at this point, it feels like we're basically strangers now, and I'm feeling some guilt about that.
So I need help.
Do I send Carrie and Samantha a group text with an engagement pick? Or let them find out with everyone else on social media? How do I handle my messages about the wedding knowing they probably won't be invited? Thank you for the advice, love and support, XO, Charlotte.
PS.
The names were inspired by in just like That's return in honor of Easton. Thank you so much, Charlotte.
I was like, well these names, Yeah, yeah, I was like, that's weirdh where's Miranda weird? I watched a lot of Sex in the City on my fight home by the way, Yeah, seven episodes to be exact.
One what season four? Nice?
Yeah, it's pretty iconic.
Yeah, always good.
My instant gut was like, just let them find out on social media.
Because of one word she used? What guilt? So do anything because of guilt? No crew guilt. We're done with it.
Also, twenty twenty one was four years ago. If you haven't had any deep conversations or connections in four years on, if they haven't initiated it, or if you haven't initiated it, then you don't owe them anything celebrating one of the most exciting points of your life.
I think also too, I think there is this like expectation of like I was a bridesmaider, I was a maid of honor of her wedding, so she needs to come to mine was made I was in weddings ten years ago, five years ago, and I didn't invite any of them to my wedding because none of them had even met Robbie. Yeah, And so it's like, you can't have that be like the caliber of like I was in their wedding or I was this because things change
and you can't. It shouldn't be a guilt thing. If you're texting anybody to tell them that you're engaged, should because you want to tell them and you're excited to tell them, not because you feel this like need or pressure.
And it also should be people that have known you and your relationship. I feel like people who have been there, been with you and yeah, and know about your relationship with your fiance, and like, I think you post something and if they're like, oh my, they're probably going to respond and text you. They'll probably text you, maybe and then you can maybe send them close up photos of the ring whatever you want to do. But I don't think you owe them anything if you don't feel inspired to do so.
Yeah, I'm done with guilt.
Follow inspiration, not not guilt.
Amen.
Guilt has been like a very interesting theme in my family lately because my dad, as as he retired, he's having these like crazy like life thinking back on his life was like I did so much like I was raised out of, like through guilt, and like guilt was like such a thing in our culture that he also did to like us. And he's so now he's like trying to like right his wrongs. Wow, that is, I know, an evolved man.
That is so impressive.
Yeah, really, I know, like he could just not care or like whatever, Like being self aware to know it, yeah, and then saying it out loud and then trying to correct it is Wow. Yeah, it's an evolved man. It's evolved. But it's made me super hyper aware of like the guilt too, because I was raised a lot with it. I also can use it a lot in my relationship and I can now I'm like hyper aware of Like, no, I don't guilt him into anything. You know what I mean. I I I'm very just hyper aware of that word.
So when she used in this email, I was like, no, no, period.
I've been talking a lot about guilt with my therapists and that's something. Yeah, it's it's we leave it behind. We don't need guilt anymore.
I think it was like our generation, like our ars led alot by guilt. Maybe not everybody's, but like.
I've done so much for you, yeah.
Yeah, or like in different there's there's other like so many different ways that you can guilt too.
By the way, Charlotte, Charlotte, we're so excited for you. We can't know. Yes, maybe it's been an update. Once it happens, give us a story. We can't wait. Okay, here we go with.
This is from Kate uh Dear Banya and Nieston. I'm having some WLW trouble and I need advice. I'm twenty nine and the last October I went on my very first date with a woman. I've known him a lesbian for about five years. Shout out to beca mentioning untamed, which I'll make it click for me. But I've been avoiding dating out of fear of coming out. I finally gave Hine a try, and I totally didn't expect to connect with the first person I met, but I did.
We clicked instantly. The date lasted for over three hours, no awkwardness. We even had similar religious backgrounds that both left and had both left that behind. After that, I came out to people in my life because I didn't want to hide. We dated for two months, but then my mental health tainked unrelated to her, and I got super anxious I were to be too needy or scare her off. So I panicked and shared all of that
with her. We decided to stop dating, and not as a pause, but more leaving the door open for the potential to reconnect in the future. Since then, I've dated others, but nothing has come close. She's still on my mind all the time. She's kind, goes to therapy, and genuinely wants to grow. She has no red flags. We've stayed in light contact. I usually initiate, and we recently caught up again in person. It was a little awkward, bit nice.
So now we're hanging out again this week. How do I bring up asking if she's seeing anyone and we're considered dating again. I have to ask, otherwise I'll keep wondering, and I don't want to put her on the spot or feel like I'm forcing anything. I just don't know how to say it without making it weird or crushing myself if she says no, any advice would mean the world.
Well, I think it's important that you are taking care of your own mental health and your anxiety, because I think that no matter where she is in her life and her relationship, I think if you're not taking care of yourself and and working on the thing that that made you separate in the first place, or take a break, I think that it's gonna you're gonna fall back into the same patterns of like anxiety and mental struggles. But I think if you'll hang out again, just be like, Hey,
so are you seeing anyone else? Like, what's what's going on in your dating life? I'm still interested in you, but I'm you know, want to be respectful to see where you're.
At what I'm still interested in you? Yeah, just be direct.
I think I think so too.
I think if you go on and you don't scratch this itch, you're gonna always live in the what if yes, and you don't want to live in that.
But I do think that it's not fair to her if you haven't worked on the things that you need to work on, Like if you took a break because of your mental health, but you haven't done anything to improve your mental health. I don't think it's fair to try and start something else up because I think you're going to end up in the same space. So I think if you have done that and you're ready to
pursue something, I think you just are direct. I always think if if I was in a situation of limbo with someone, all I would want for them is to be direct with me. Whether my reaction was like I don't think I'm ready for that or whatever, it would be so refreshing for someone to just be like, hey, I'm still interested in you. Where are you at as
opposed to kind of just tiptoeing around it. So maybe she's waiting for you, since you're the one who needed a break, Maybe she is waiting for you to bring it up. So I would just be doing other say hey, I like you. I've been working on myself. Where are you in terms of where we left off?
Period? But good luck new thing, Kate.
We'll be excited to hear an update, hopefully a positive one.
Yeah do it? Kate go, Kate go go.
Should we take a break?
Yeah, yeah, I should take a break. Just love these emails so much.
All right, we're back.
This next one feels like some advice that Tanya can answer.
Oh yeah, it's from a confused bride to be overwhelmed with wedding planning beck at Tanya, Mark and Easton. First, I just have to say how much I love your podcast. I've been listening for years and I genuinely feel like I know the four of you. I truly trust your perspective. So I want to reach out for some advice. I'm in the thick of wedding planning and honestly, it's starting
to feel like too much. Financially, it's overwhelming. My fiance and I sat down or crunch the numbers, and the amount we need to save each month to pull off this wedding without going into debt is daunting. What makes it harder is that while everyone seems excited, no one is really showing up in a meaningful way. I have a very complicated relationship with my mom and special events. This bring up a lot of emotions for me because we're not close. I'm paying for my own wedding dress.
No one has offered a host a bridal shower. I constantly feel like people don't want to come celebrate with me, and there's just this sense that we're doing all this alone. I've been struggling with anxiety, and I'll be honest, the whole process is starting to feel more draining than joyful. We already put down a deposit on a venue, and
now we're thinking of canceling. We're seriously considering an elopement or a microwaiting with about thirty of our closest friends and family, people we actually feel connected to and supported by. But even that comes with hard decisions and a little guilt. There are parts of wedding planning that genuinely excite me, and I do want to celebrate this huge milestone with the people I love, But I can't shake this nagging feeling.
What if we sacrifice and save for the next year and a half only to feel anxious, unsupported, and like we didn't even enjoy the day. And I guess my question is, how do I let go of what this should look like and do it actually feels good and right for us without guilt. How do I find peace with pulling back on expectations and still finding joy in what this moment represents. Thank you for listening. I truly love any advice you have from a confused bride to be.
I want to say that if you don't consider eloping at some point in your engagement, then you're not doing it right, because I like everybody I feel like goes through that point, even I, somebody who's dreamed of my wedding my whole life, got to a point where I was just like, I had this exact same feeling. It was like, should we just go to Italy elbe, take some pretty photos and call it a day. So I feel like everybody goes so that it feels like you are hitting that point right now. So I just want
you to know that I think that's super common. I felt that. I know every bride that I've talked to in the last year has also hit that point, So that's very common. I also think the the expectations that you're talking about and feeling like you're doing it alone.
I was so supported and I had people in my life that wanted to do so much for me, and I still had that feeling too, and I think it's because of social media, Like we're constantly fed all this stuff, and like, I didn't even realize it until I had this like Eureka moment. I was talking to Raquel and she was like, you're seeing all that. You're seeing these
crazy things on social media. You're seeing these like rainbow fireworks on the Amalfi Coast and like these sculptures and people doing all the having bridal showers and multiple bachelorette parties and people just are doing the most. And I feel like it, for some reason, just infiltrates our feeds, especially when you're a bride. For some reason, the algorithm
just feeds you all of this stuff. And so I feel like the feeling that expectation like you're doing it alone is also very common because of everything that you're consuming. So I just want you to know that the things that you're feeling are super I think normal. But I also think if you give into those feelings and you don't go through with having your wedding, I think you're
gonna ultimately regret it. Because I feel like you're going to push through, You're going to figure it out, and it's gonna be the best day of your life and you're not gonna have regrets.
My only advice because I think I would do that. That's I think that's a really great advice, But I would I would say we talked about guilt earlier, and I think the inviting people to what's supposed to be one of the best days of your life or even just like, let's not even put the pressure of the best day of your life, but something that's so special and that you've been looking forward to and spending money on.
Why I just am like, And maybe it's just because I'm in a place where when the Halen and I think about our wedding and who we would invite, I'm like, I'm not like, I don't care if they're family, close friends, If they haven't supported our relationship or like have any negativity or homophobic thoughts towards our relationship, they're not coming to our wedding.
Right.
So, if there's people who haven't felt like they've been supportive of your relationship or been there for you through things like, let go of the guilt, Because if they haven't been there through through up until that point, why do they get an invite to be there to celebrate on the day.
Yeah, I do feel like it maybe is like a point in your life when that starts to shift, because I feel like in my twenties I would have probably felt the same way of like I need to invite everybody who invited me to their wedding and like have that mentality like if.
Their family they have to come.
Yeah, totally Yeah, And like I could not have been farther from that mentality when I was planning my wedding. YEA, our guest list was like so it was like one of the easiest things. We had a couple, like I would say maybe like two or three couples that we regretted not inviting. Other than that, we were like our invite and our wedding was like exactly what we wanted it to be.
But that's what I'm saying. I would go, I would make a list of all the people that you're even thinking of inviting, like even if you're on the fence on it, And when you see their name, what feeling do they evoke? Do they make you feel like I want them to be a part of this day or will I be okay if they're not there?
And do you want these people a part of your future. That was like the whole thing too, because like you have so much guilt and pressure from your past, but your pass is your past. Like it's like thinking about the couples and the people that you want in your future. M hmm.
Yeah, these people are going to be in the photos that you'll be looking at forever, you know. That's something I was thinking about, like who want Who's face? Do I want to look at him?
Yeah?
Yeah?
And if they want to celebrate you and and be a part, then they'll show up before the day where you're spending all their your saved money to feed them and entertain them.
Yeah. I think it's also the price. It's not even the pressure of like the best day of your life. It's like the price tag. You're spending so much and I want it to be just snowballs too.
Yeah.
Like I was talking to one of my girlfriends who's like thinking about it, and she's like, I just don't think I want to even go there because I don't want to open that door. And I was like, well, maybe we could just do like a release intimate dinner
and you can get like a really pretty dress. And then she's like yeah, but if I'm doing all that and I'm bringing everybody over here, I'm going to want to do like a rehearsal dinner, and then you're gonna, oh, I'm gonna want a photographer, and it just all starts to snowball on that up.
Yeah, well, I would just really think of who who has made you feel loved and support it as a couple, and and don't let the guilt take over what is best for you and your fiance. We love you and you really wish you the best, and I hope this is a is a love letter experience.
Yes, are you proud of me that I didn't dive into questions about your wedding because you kind of went there about your wedding, You and Handel.
We want to invite people.
Yeah, but like I feel like that shows evolvement that I just let it go.
Thank you.
What wasn't about me?
I was just tiptoeing on the edge of not letting it go.
Yeah, you almost did it, you almost got there, but just miss I'm perfect perfection, just improved.
Yes, thank you?
Alrighty.
This one's from anonymous as always a blast. Hello Becca, Tanya Mark in Easton. I've been a longtime listener, and I know everyone says this, but you all make my work commute so much more enjoyable. The dynamic the four you have is just incredible. So please don't switch things up on the pod too much. Let the trolls be trolls. I'm looking for some advice on a friendship situation that's
been bothering me. I'm in my mid forties with kids, and over the years, my husband and I became close with one of our child's friends parents, especially the dads. My husband doesn't have a lot of close friends, so this connection is meant a lot. The mom and I also became friendly, though not quite as close. A few months ago, we saw a movie together and afterwards she expected we'd also hang out that night. I had other plans and I didn't remember any set plans for the evening,
and she got really upset with me. When I look back at our texts, or had been a vague, non committal mention of doing something, but nothing was confirmed. I still felt awful. I later texted to ask if she was upset, and she's said yes, and that I had done this before, and saying it was becoming a trend. Damn and She did acknowledge that she could have communicated better, but that comment really stuck with me. Life is busy, things come up, and I'd never treat a friend poorly
over a change of plans. If anything, I welcome cancelations. Since then, I've stepped way back. I still include them here and there to support my husband's friendship, but I haven't been reaching out too much. Here's where I need help. Do I just let this go and move forward like nothing happened, Or if she eventually asks why we don't hang out or grow on trips anymore? Do I tell her honestly that her expectations feel unrealistic. How can I
be honest, hold my boundaries and still be graceful? Thanks so much for any insight.
I got lost in that email.
No, So, basically they went to She and her husband went to see a movie with their friends their couple uh huh, and they were Her friend thought they were hanging out afterwards, but she had other plans. But she had made like a loose comment about like, oh yeah, maybe we can hang out afterwards, but it was nothing set. So basically, the friend thought there was set plans for them to hang out after the movie. She thought it was a loose plan. She had made other plans after
the movie. Okay, So then her friend was like, you've done this before. It's becoming a trend. When she asked if she was upset.
With her, Okay, this is like a non issue.
This is this is where different personalities type can can need, can clash and need extra TLC. Because what happened was you are someone like me who is very noncommittal, fine with making loose plans, welcomes cancelations, it's totally fine if things switch up. There are other people who once, once they have a loose plan or an idea of how things are going to go on their mind, that's what they have planned, and so if that goes astray, like Hailey's very much like this.
Where I can't have loose plans.
Hailey does not like a loose plan. So if if she has an idea of what we're doing, and then I'm like, oh, I I didn't know that that was a set plan. It's it's a conflict because in my mind, I'm like, but we didn't solidify, and she's like, well I did. It's on my calendar, So I think it's just a conversation of understanding that she's not like you in that and that's okay, but being respectful of both parties. But I think what she probably needs to hear from
you is like, hey, I'm so sorry. Like my personality is go with the flow. I'm non committal. I didn't want I don't want to make this an issue, but I am sorry if I like change the plans for something that you had that you were set on, and just like acknowledged to her that you understand where she's coming from and I don't. I really don't think you
did anything wrong. But sometimes I think that's just what people need to hear, is like, if you did something that affected how they envisioned their evening going, I think it's worth it to just go like, hey, I'm sorry I did that. I'll be more aware of it in the future because I don't want this to be a trend or how you see me.
Yeah, I feel like as you get older, or or maybe because I feel like I used to be a pupil pleaser. If I if somebody said something like that, like I get it that it's stuck with you, because things would just stick with me like I would not get over things because I'd just let them sit and fester and I would think about them over and over and over again.
If I said, if I told you I was mad at you, and you've done this before and it's becoming a trend, you, what's so faster on that?
Yeah, I would do it. But the difference is the difference is, and I think this is so important. If it's one of your best friends. I think it's something that you like. I value Becka's opinion, and I value the things that you say way more than like ninety
percent of the people in my life. So if this is something that's like an acquaintance and it's just like because your husband is friends with her husband, it's like, just let that stuff roll off your back, Like you can't be so hyper fixated on it, be hyper fixated because it's just going to eat it and it's going
to create like stress in your life. I think if it's somebody that's important to you in your life and they're giving you like a constructive critis and then I think you could take it into consideration and like really be mindful about it. But other than that, if it's somebody that's just like an acquaintance.
I think she wants the relationship to be uh like comfortable though, because the husband's gonna really wrong. So I think it's worth just being like I wanted to apologize for you know that I made you so that way, I'm misunderstanding and I'll be better at communicating because I can just I'm totally go with the flow. I don't mind cancelations or plan shifting, and I know that's not everybody, so I acknowledge that and then just move on. Yeah,
and just to acknowledge what she why she was upset. Yeah, and then don't think about it again.
Agreed. Yeah, period, Okay.
We have one more.
The Tiffany says, good morning, Becket, Tanya, Mark, and Easton. I love knowing when people write these what time of day it is. I've been listening since Tony was just a guest. My question for you is if you could live anywhere for one week, one month, and one year, where would it be. Her answer is one week Australia, one month Europe as a whole, and one year Hawaii. Love you all and hope you have a good weekend.
I actually posted this on my Instagram.
I did, Wow, Tiffany, you original match.
No, my one week was I think I did one week Hawaii, one month Majorca, and one year Japan. Japan just has so many places to explore, and I just like think it's so beautiful and I love the people in the culture, and I would love to, Like Haley's half Japanese, so it'd be really fun to go and like, you know, live there for an extended amount of time. Or I could flop. I could flop Hawaiian Japan like I could. I could live in Hawaii for a year, in Japan for a month, or no, sorry, I could.
I could do Hawaii or Japan for a year. But those are my three favorite places as of now. What about you.
My one week I would do Saint Barts, it's the best.
Yeah.
My one month I would do Hawaii, okay, yeah, And then my one year I would do Europe because you can really go many places period.
I think my one week would be Australia the entire continent, one month would be Hawaii the Big Island specifically, and one year New York City. Baby, I want to know what that year would be like. I'm really I've been thinking about that a lot, you.
Know, I thought about I thought about New York.
Yeah, I thought, maybe you got to start your year in New York. What season would you start in? Oh? Not Now, I think I would start in the fall because I think it could be like the hype to get through.
Get through the the rest of the year.
Yeah, I'd be like, this is amazing. And then I'd be like, I just get.
So tired in New York, like it has like it does have this energy, but it's like more than five days. I'm like, Mama's gotta.
Go to bed.
Mama.
Every time I go to New York. The first two or three days, I'm like I'm move like yeah, and then by the fourth and fifth day, I'm like, I gotta get home. I gotta get back to.
The West where I can go to the grocery store.
Yeah, and just like.
Feeld not things dripping on me.
Yeah, the tragedy.
Yeah, but cool.
Yeah, there is a vibe.
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