Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think! In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are able to connect more naturally—by simply avoiding common approach mistakes that most guys overlook. I’ll break down the 7 key reasons behind quick rejec...
Jul 07, 2025•17 min•Season 21Ep. 9
I explored feminist reddit groups to try and work out why so many men are feeling negative about the movement. I was shocked to find so much negative and toxic sentiment aimed at men in general. It's not all feminists, it's not even half of them, but it's enough to muddy the waters and give the whole feminist movement a bad reputation for anyone casually watching. I'm going to share some of the comments and posts I found by just browsing the 20 most recent posts on the front page and you can dec...
Jun 30, 2025•24 min•Season 21Ep. 8
Being cheated on by a woman is one of the most painful experiences we can go through in a relationship. I'm going to give you a list of the most common red flags men should be looking out for both before you decide to get into a long term relationship with a woman, and when you're in a long term relationship and suspect something bad could be going on. While you can't guarantee a woman will never cheat on you, there is a lot you can do to drastically reduce the odds of it happening to you ever a...
Jun 23, 2025•25 min•Season 21Ep. 7
In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful and misunderstood books ever written about masculinity — Iron John by Robert Bly. Whether you're struggling with confidence, feeling lost in your purpose, or just tired of being the “nice guy” who finishes last — this book has something to say to you. I break down Bly’s core ideas — from the Wild Man, to father wounds, emotional descent, and reclaiming your masculine power — in a way that's clear, relatable, and even a little funny. This isn...
May 07, 2025•15 min•Season 21Ep. 6
In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding men back in modern dating. From why confidence without authenticity turns women off, to how practicing with zero-pressure conversations can transform your social life, this episode is packed with gold. Susan shares insights from her decades of coaching, media appearances, and bestselling books to help you finally understand what women really want—an...
Apr 27, 2025•1 hr•Season 21Ep. 5
Learn how to approach women at night in a bar in a variety of situations. What do you say when you first approach a woman? What's the difference between approaching a group of 2 women or a group of 3 women? What's the easiest group of women to approach and get good results? Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=HowToApproachNight
Apr 20, 2025•17 min•Season 21Ep. 4
Are common myths about self-confidence holding you back? I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder to build genuine self-assurance. Discover the truth behind these confidence myths, understand what self-confidence really is (and isn’t), and learn practical tips to break free from these limiting beliefs. Whether you're struggling to feel more confident or want to stop comparing yourself to seemingly "confident" people, this video will give you the cla...
Apr 16, 2025•15 min•Season 21Ep. 3
In this video, we dive deep into the hidden ways self-perception shapes your dating life and how it impacts your success with women. Many men unknowingly hold themselves back due to negative beliefs and false narratives about "what women want." Drawing from a groundbreaking experiment in sports coaching, we reveal how changing your mindset can drastically improve your results in dating and life. 🧠 Whether you believe you're not tall enough, rich enough, or good-looking enough, this video will s...
Apr 13, 2025•14 min•Season 21Ep. 2
Why do so many men rage quit the dating game? In this video, we dive into the 3 biggest psychological and emotional barriers that hold men back from finding success with women. Whether it’s fear of rejection, frustration with the process, or feeling stuck in your head, these roadblocks can sabotage your dating confidence and keep you single. Watch now to learn how to identify and overcome these barriers to build real connections and transform your dating life. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Dam...
Apr 09, 2025•16 min•Season 21Ep. 1
Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think! In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are able to connect more naturally—by simply avoiding common approach mistakes that most guys overlook. I’ll break down the 7 key reasons behind quick rejec...
Apr 06, 2025•17 min•Season 20Ep. 12
3 steps to getting more matches on Tinder even in 2025 when competition is stronger than ever before. I'll show you the exact steps I take to get matches and dates for my own clients. This Online Dating advice may seem controversial, but it works. So stop getting lost in the crowd and start getting more matches. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien: https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=Tinder2025...
Apr 02, 2025•12 min•Season 20Ep. 11
🔥 Welcome to a no-holds-barred exploration of dating and attraction! This video, "The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men," dives deep into the often unspoken realities of the dating world. 🤔 Tired of hearing the same old advice from dating coaches? We're here to shake things up. In this eye-opening video, we uncover the truths that most coaches won't tell you, providing men with the real scoop on what it takes to attract women. 👊 This video is not just another dating guide; it's an ho...
Mar 30, 2025•27 min•Season 20Ep. 10
Is it adviseable that men get married? Or has marriage become a lot more trouble than it's worth? How do men and women fair in divorce? How do we go financially, emotionally, healthwise? I'm going to look at the statistics of marriage and long term relationships, to work out how bad men really have it in committed relationsihps. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien: https://schoolofattraction.com/phone-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=MenAvoidMarriage...
Mar 26, 2025•17 min•Season 20Ep. 9
Most men really struggle to bring sexuality into their flirting, they end up being too nice and too sweet, but that just isn't sexy for women. I'm going to give you multiple strategies for making your conversations girls more flirtatious. Whether you are in a club, on a date, or at a house party, you should be using these strategies EVERY SINGLE TIME School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=How...
Mar 23, 2025•13 min•Season 20Ep. 8
Dive deep into a personal tale of transformation, resilience, and unexpected solutions that led me from the depths of daily panic attacks to a life of peace and fulfillment. This episode isn't just my story—it's a beacon of hope for anyone feeling lost in their battle with anxiety. From traditional therapies that missed the mark to groundbreaking natural remedies that finally brought relief, join me on a journey of discovery, healing, and empowerment. Whether you're searching for solace, strateg...
Mar 19, 2025•21 min•Season 20Ep. 7
Designed specifically for introverts looking to boost their social confidence and navigate social settings with ease. Whether you're struggling with social anxiety, looking to improve your communication skills, or simply want to feel more at ease at parties and gatherings, this video is for you. We dive deep into practical tips and strategies that have helped countless introverts transform their social lives, including how to use your introverted qualities to your advantage, mastering the art of...
Mar 16, 2025•21 min•Season 20Ep. 6
Delve deep into the world where many men, feeling victimized and disenfranchised, turn to the Red Pill and Manosphere. We examine how these movements, often associated with Incels and certain dating coaches, promise empowerment but can lead to harmful mental health outcomes and societal issues. 🌍 Discover how the quest for strength and control in the dating sphere can take unexpected turns, impacting personal well-being and social interactions. From the allure of the Red Pill to the complex dyn...
Mar 12, 2025•18 min•Season 20Ep. 5
Are you a smart, intellectual man who finds the dating scene baffling? Today we delve into the unexpected challenges that intelligent men face in their dating lives. As a seasoned dating coach, I've encountered numerous men who excel in their careers and academics yet find themselves at a loss when it comes to forming romantic connections. This episode explores the psychological patterns and behaviors that contribute to this dilemma, including the impact of a fixed mindset versus a growth mindse...
Mar 09, 2025•16 min•Season 20Ep. 4
Welcome to a unique exploration of style, psychology, and attraction! In this enlightening episode, we dive into the groundbreaking work of Nobel Prize-winning psychologist Daniel Kahneman, unraveling how human heuristics influence our perception of others. Discover how you can harness the power of clothing and style to make a lasting impression. Drawing from Kahneman's insights, we explore how simple style adjustments can trigger subconscious attraction cues in others, especially women. School ...
Mar 05, 2025•15 min•Season 20Ep. 3
After analyzing over 100,000 personality test results, including the Big 5 and the 16 Personality Factor (16PF), I've uncovered intriguing patterns and traits that are common among those seeking dating advice. This video is not just a collection of statistics; it's a journey into understanding human behaviour and preferences in the complex world of dating. Discover the three dominant personality traits that appear time and again in my clients and learn how these characteristics influence their d...
Mar 02, 2025•17 min•Season 20Ep. 2
Are you an introvert looking for effective dating advice? In "The Quiet Charm," I explain why I love being an introvert on the dating scene. As a seasoned dating coach, I share my insights on how introverted traits can be your biggest asset in finding romantic success. Discover tailor-made strategies and thoughtful advice that cater specifically to the introverted gentleman. Say goodbye to one-size-fits-all dating tips and embrace a more introspective approach. This episode will guide you throug...
Feb 26, 2025•16 min•Season 20Ep. 1
In this candid discussion, I navigate the complexities surrounding women's sexual liberation and its impact on society and dating life. Join me as I delve into diverse perspectives, expert insights, and real-life stories that challenge conventional notions. My aim is to foster an open dialogue about the evolving dynamics of women's autonomy, shedding light on the debates surrounding empowerment and potential societal consequences. 🔍 Are we witnessing a transformative era, or does this liberatio...
Feb 23, 2025•16 min•Season 19Ep. 13
Trying to pick up women in bars and clubs is always difficult, but there are 6 very specific red flags you should be looking out for, and if girls do this, you should instantly walk away. Dating is hard, and especially if you're only looking for something casual, but if you stop wasting time on women who aren't looking for the same things you are, then you can get significantly better results. School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=podca...
Feb 19, 2025•16 min•Season 19Ep. 12
In this groundbreaking episode, discover the ultimate solution to flakey Tinder dates! I'll share the secrets of a client who made a simple tweak to his Tinder profile, resulting in a remarkable reduction in flake rates. Guided by our expert dating coach, this video breaks down the specifics of the Tinder hack that transformed his online dating experience. School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=video&utm_campai...
Feb 12, 2025•11 min•Season 19Ep. 11
Are you struggling to figure out whether a girl you're interested in actually likes you? In this episode, we're going to unveil 11 unmistakable signs that she's into you. From subtle hints to more obvious indicators, these dating tips will help you decipher her true feelings and give you the confidence to make a move. Whether it's through body language, or changes in behaviour, understanding these signs she likes you is crucial for navigating the dating world. So, if you've ever wondered how to ...
Feb 09, 2025•13 min•Season 19Ep. 10
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the world of self-perception and dating success. Discover the transformative power of reframing your mindset to become more attractive to women. Learn practical tips, techniques, and mindset shifts that will boost your confidence and charisma. If you're ready to unlock your true dating potential, join us on this journey of self-discovery and magnetic attraction. School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?u...
Feb 05, 2025•11 min•Season 19Ep. 9
Passport bros has become a popular idea on YouTube and tiktok with men electing to travel overseas to meet women who are more traditional and accepting to start families with. Is this the future of dating? Or is this just a sign of men who can't 'hack' it in the real world. Feminists would argue these men are just travelling to take advantage of women in 3rd world countries. Let's dive into the world of passport bros to see if it's really a viable solution for men. School Of Attraction Dating An...
Feb 02, 2025•15 min•Season 19Ep. 8
Let's delve into a fascinating truth about modern masculinity. Discover why most men unknowingly shy away from embracing their true power, resulting in women only seeing them as friends. It's time for men to confront their fears and become comfortable with the darker, more primal aspects of their sexuality. Your shadow is powerful, you need to learn to embrace your dark masculinity. School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_...
Jan 29, 2025•13 min•Season 19Ep. 7
Join me on a fascinating experiment as I unleash the power of ChatGPT, an advanced AI language model, on the world of online dating. In this video, I dive into the realm of Tinder, armed with ChatGPT's AI-generated openers. Can artificial intelligence help me stand out from the crowd and spark interesting conversations? Or will it fall flat in the realm of human connection? Not only do I showcase the AI-generated openers in action, but I also provide commentary and analysis on their effectivenes...
Jan 26, 2025•19 min•Season 19Ep. 6
What are the green flags you should seek out in a potential long-term relationship? A great partner can make your life amazing, but the wrong partner can make your life hell. When you're dating, do you know what kind of men or women you should be seeking out to give you the best chances of long-term success? School Of Attraction Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=GreenFlags...
Jan 22, 2025•13 min•Season 19Ep. 5
