Fear of slowing down | Addicted to self improvement
In this live coaching segment, I dive into the nuances of the psychological aspects of motivation, fear of failure, and the desire for self-improvement.

In this live coaching segment, I dive into the nuances of the psychological aspects of motivation, fear of failure, and the desire for self-improvement.
Why do successful entrepreneurs continue to be hard on themselves despite achieving significant success? In this coaching segment I unpack the brain's negativity bias and addictive nature of negative self-perception. The ultimate goal is a state of flow and abundance, achieved by minimizing self-focus and maximizing engagement with passions and contribution to the world. The Surprising Truth Behind Negative Self-Talk Among Successful Entrepreneurs Unpacking the Architecture of Negative Self-Talk...
Entrepreneurs often link their identity and emotional state to their business's performance, creating a level of volatility that is extremely counterproductive to business goals. This issue is rooted in childhood needs, which are then projected onto the business, leading to an unhealthy reliance on its success for personal validation. I break it all down in this 12 min coaching segment from the Scale With Psychology Accelerator and talk about the importance of achieving a healthy separation betw...
Transforming Business Success Through Founder Psychology In this episode I outline the philosophy and approach of 'Scale with Psychology', my company dedicated to helping entrepreneurs scale their businesses by optimizing their psychology. I emphasizes the importance of congruence between a founder's life and their business, illustrating how misalignment often leads to self-sabotage and prevents growth. This unique methodology focuses on internal transformation by addressing the psychological co...
Success, self worth and sabotage (live coaching session) This segment goes deep into the experience of seeing through the illusion of low self-worth and the underlying we have to feel safe. If you find yourself holding yourself back, this is going to help you see yourself and your challenges in a completely new way. I talk about: Dealing with Low Self-Worth The Desire for Safety and Acceptance Understanding Self-Sabotage The Concept of Self-Love Unraveling the Narrative of Unworthiness The Mathe...
The one I consistently hear from entrepreneurs is their desire to feel more control in the business. It’s extremely vulnerable to feel like you lack a fundamental sense of agency in influencing outcomes. But this lack of control is the not the problem. It’s the symptom of a deeper problem. That deeper problem is unmitigated entropy. Entropy is a fact of life. No system is immune to it. Not your business, life, mind, relationships, body… …nothing. Unmanaged, systems deteriorate into chaos. And ch...
Scaling exponentially requires balancing paradoxes. The larger the gap between the present and desired future, the more it will require us to hold a supreme amount of tension. Our ability to hold this tension is always limited by our nervous system capacity, and the psychological operating system running the show. We have to want it, while simultaneously being totally ok with not having it. We have to balance the pursuit of an incredible future with grounded presence in the current circumstances...
Have you ever met someone who seems to have unlocked the secret to a joy-filled life? Virgil Brewster, my guest this week, might just be one of those rare individuals. I connected with him when I was in Bali, and we had such a great conversation that I immediately knew I wanted to jam with him on the show so you can benefit from his crazy story of accidentally building a $10M a year business, and then literally burning it down to start over - by choice. In a world where authenticity in business ...
My guest today is my friend Chris Marhefka, who facilitates transformation by opening hearts, expanding minds, and giving people permission to be their most authentic self. He came into this healing work after over a decade in entrepreneurship and coaching where he has worked with over 2000 clients in physical, mental, emotional, energetic and spiritual development. This episode is packed with some incredibly vulnerable storytelling and insights from the school of hard knocks. In this conversati...
My guest today, Joel Sanders has built 3 successful businesses in the real estate space, and his latest venture Apartment Insiders is doing multiple 7 figures and on track for 8 figures in revenue. In this conversation we talk about: The macro picture on what’s happening in the real estate market right now How he built a 2 sided marketplace that serves renters and apartment buildings from scratch Leveraging proprietary insights to exploit a market opportunity Joel’s sales pitch that buyers would...
My guest today, Alex Charfen has spent 30 years on the frontlines of entrepreneurship and built multiple multimillion dollar businesses, reaching #21 on the INC 500 and then being featured on the list 3 years in a row. He's the founder of Simple Operations, a company that helps entrepreneurs run their business from the passenger seat. They give entrepreneurs the systems and the processes they need to calm the chaos, execute predictably and achieve success. Over the past few years, we’ve become c...
Rogelio Martinez went from being the President of Berlitz, the largest and oldest franchise in the world, managing hundreds of people around the world and being interviewed on TV to starting completely over - and in record time managed to build multiple successful businesses - a tech consulting company, a SaaS product company, a hardware and media company in the blockchain industry. This is his story. In this conversation we talk about: What it takes to start over in life (new business, new coun...
Tim Vogel, the Co-Founder and CEO of Scenthound, exemplifies the character traits required to build a world class business: courage, vision, persistence, self awareness, leadership and an ironclad commitment to values. Not only has he built an incredible team at Scenthound, he has also coached hundreds of entrepreneurs in the Entrepreneurs Organisation (EO) Accelerator program. This episode with a long time private client of Scale with Psychology, is a behind the scenes peek into an almost two d...
At Synaptiq.ai Stephen has built a global reputation for solving the most challenging problems for businesses using strategic AI solutions. With a focus on the humankind of AI, Synaptiq partners with companies across dozens of industries to determine their strategy and roadmap for data and AI, use data to generate solutions where none previously existed, and seize opportunities to bring novel products to market inspired by customer problems. In this conversation we talk about: The genesis of bui...
Are you head over heels in love with your business? Or does it frequently feel like a source of struggle? Like a problem you are perpetually trying to solve… Listen, most entrepreneurs settle for a business that doesn’t turn them on… …because they think that’s the price they must pay So they grind it out… Pushing… Forcing… What if it didn’t have to be that way? What if you could have your cake and eat it too? This short episode is going to give you a perspective shift… …not the one you want, but...
If you are an established online entrepreneur - consultant, expert, eComm store or agency owner, SaaS founder, coach or course creator… …and you want to scale your business from 6 to 7 figures and beyond …while maximizing freedom, time and your own happiness, …and while operating at their peak potential …all without changing a single thing about your ads, team, strategy, or systems… You’re going to love this training.. You’ll learn: …The #1 thing entrepreneurs at this stage are held back by …The...
In this episode I introduce you to the two types of money. Most entrepreneurs live in survival mode. They are living day to day. (..even if their business is making money) They are exhausted putting out fires. Cleaning up after their team. But there is a different paradigm that is required if you want to optimize your business for wealth AND happiness. Listen or watch to discover the simple (not easy) shift you should really consider making… …if you truly value yourself. ------ FREE BOOK - To ge...
Scaling a business is all about increasing the transaction throughput (I explain what this means and why it’s important in the episode). Most entrepreneurs try to do this by adding more inputs. More traffic, more leads, more sales people, more more more.. They end up with a monstrous mess of a business that is difficult to manage. There is an easier way to increase sales, and do it exponentially. The easiest way to increase throughput is to actually reduce friction. Listen or watch to learn more...
Chances are there are things in your life or business you want to change. Chances are you think about these things constantly. You obsess over it. Ruminating constantly. Chances are, you see these things that you want to change as ‘problems’. You think about these problems so much as an attempt to solve them. Sometimes, we get so focused on a problem that the problem becomes our identity. We are defined by them so deeply that it becomes who we are. And we subconsciously self-sabotage because par...
Everything that happens in your business is a direct reflection of the energetics & psychology of the leadership. This perspective offers a radically different path to solving your most complex challenges and exponentially scaling without 'doing more' to create more. If you have been trying to solve your ‘people problems’ so you can grow the business without burning yourself out, you’ll find this especially interesting. Check out this clip from an 8 Figure Shift coaching session where we dis...
Everyone and their grandmother seems to be yelling at you these days to be more disciplined. Yet, what happens when you try to (yet again) commit to that new habit that will change everything? If you’re like most people, you do it for a few days then fall back into old ways. Then you watch some youtube videos, pick up James Clear’s Atomic Habits, (which you’ve started 4 times attempting to read the whole damn thing), make a new promise to yourself and set yourself up for inevitable failure. Wash...
Listen for a sneak peak into an 8 Figure Shift coaching call - Today, I’m talking about how to get the things you want with one simple shift. Need is fear based but desire is an expression of abundance. Need is contractive and desire is expansive. Understanding the difference determines whether you’re empowering yourself or tearing yourself down. This is a very simple shift you can make in your thinking to level up your mindset and STOP sabotaging yourself. * If you received value from this podc...
Listen for a sneak peak into an 8 Figure Shift coaching call - I talk about the levels of consciousness entrepreneurs operate from and how that determines their results in business. The first level is one that was our default when we were young, but many entrepreneurs continue to operate from this stage as adults. What impact might this have on your ability to run and grow your business? Learning to recognize your thoughts and behaviors will allow you to move through them and actively level up. ...
Listen for a sneak peak into an 8 Figure Shift coaching call - in this clip I share how our perception of the world shapes what we experience as reality. Your entire world is your creation. Every person and how they show up, whether pleasant or not, is also your creation. So, your life and business is a reflection of you and everything is designed to be a catalyst for your growth. That’s why when you shift, people around you change, your business changes and the entire world changes.This is how ...
Learning to master your state of mind is the number one skill you need to develop to explosively grow your business, build real wealth and sustain happiness. Unfortunately you are currently most likely trying to manipulate your external world by destroying your internal world. This is madness and the only thing it does is REDUCE your chance of actually creating the result you want in life, business, health - literally everything. Hit play for a perspective shift that can change everything. * If ...
Are you looking to create a transformation in your life or business? If you're working hard at it but keep falling back into old ways, this may be the ingredient you’re missing. This episode will help you understand what very well may be one of your biggest blocks - safety. Change feels very unsafe by its nature and often leads to massive amounts of stress. If you’re ready to create the change you’ve been longing for, follow this podcast to learn how you can create the life and business of your ...
Scaling your business is hard. You have to wear a lot of hats and it takes significant amounts of time, energy and effort. But once you hit traction, and are generating consistent value for your customers & clients, and revenue for yourself, something very interesting happens. The entrepreneur becomes the company’s biggest bottleneck. Because the entrepreneur is maxed out, involved in too many things, and has hit the upper limit of available time, energy, effort and attention, the business h...
Have you had the level of growth you expected in your business in the last 12 months? Do you see a gap between your potential and the level you are currently operating at? Does it feel like you are doing all the right things but not getting the results you expect? Here’s the inconvenient truth I want to share with you... you can’t reach a level in your business you’ve never hit before, by doing the same things you’ve always done. This is the number one reason why entrepreneurs don’t realize thei...
This episode is a part of a series that I’m releasing over the course of a few weeks, designed to help entrepreneurs learn how to make what I call the 8 figure shift. If you’re an entrepreneur who has hit a certain level of success at multiple 6, 7 or 8 figs but is having a hard time breaking through to the next level, then this episode is for you. The most common mistake I see entrepreneurs make is they believe they need to work harder and grind more in order to get the results they want. They ...
If you are an entrepreneur and you want to take your life and business to the next level, this episode is for you! I’ve spent 15+ years growing companies exponentially to 7, 8 & 9 figures by upgrading the CEO’s mind (and therefore the business) - and I break down all the lessons I’ve learned so you can do the same. This isn’t going to be like other business podcasts you’ve heard before, the framework I’ve developed, called the 8 Figure Shift, to skyrocket revenues while unlocking more time, ...