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You Win Some, You Lose Some: Part 2, with Robert Sikes

Oct 23, 202328 min
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Episode description

Thanks for tuning in to part two of my series on competition wins and losses, and lessons I've learned. It has been a memorable competition season thus far and I'm so grateful for your support.

 

What you'll hear in this episode:

 

  • The pros and cons of all the travel involved with these competitions (1:18)
  • Polygraph anxiety prior to competitions (6:05)
  • Feedback from judges about posing (9:16)
  • Hormone level issues and a drop in testosterone and libido (13:18)
  • Positive relationship with food holding steady, but hunger is increasing due to low body fat and consumption (17:42)
  • Feeling depleted working outdoors at home (20:01)
  • High travel expenses (22:08)
  • Being spread thin with this busy schedule and obligations (24:05)
  • Looking forward to reallocating energy and time to other aspects of life once the competitions are over (25:38)

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Transcript

Well hello ladies and gents, Robert. Sykes Keto Savage dot com coming back. At you with the second-half of this two-part series on the wins and losses of my competition prep thus far. Before we dive into this, let's roll the intro. All right, So as you likely know, I've listened to the prior episode. Of this two-part series, I'm doing a wins and losses of my competition prep thus far with my amateur. Show. So I've competed three times. I've got five shows total.

I won my pro car with the last show, so the next. Two shows will be pro shows. The last three were amateur shows, so I'm kind of going over the wins and losses and takeaways. Of those two shows. The first part of this series was the wins. The second part will be the losses. To be honest, there's not a whole lot of losses. I mean, I feel. Very good about this prep season, but I have learned a ton and just kind of want to showcase some of those learnings.

Again, I'm not yet in my podcast studio, so the audio may be a little off. My apologies there. Hopefully it's totally easy. To hear and understand what I'm saying, that we'll be back in the podcast studio going. Forward with the episode, so let's roll up our sleeves and dive in. Let's talk first about the travel. There were some pros to the travel, but there are also some cons to the travel. Specifically with these last three. Shows, so we have driven to all of.

These amateur shows thus far, we drove the converted ambulance camper to the first two shows which were in Logan, UT and White Plains, NY. This last competition that I went pro at, We drove my pickup truck with everything in the back and like I said, I'm I'm definitely classifying that as a win. Overall. We made some great memories. We took, you know, Rigel. To all these playgrounds and KO ways and cool little Airbnb's and all that stuff and it was great.

However, there are some cons associated with driving that far. We are based in Arkansas, Northwest Arkansas. Specifically, we drove a converted 1999 ambulance to the first two shows in Logan, UT and White Plains, NY, which is not a trivial Dr. that is not just a hop, skip and a jump down the road. That's quite an extensive journey. And with that we brought our young son Rigel, so he was

sitting in the car seat. The converted ambulance is a. Cool rig, but it is not the most comfortable by any means. It's incredibly bouncy, the ACS kind of. Subpar. So it got very hot and it was just. Very stressful. Like the heat, the fact that, you know, I'm sitting up so high in that specific rig, my feet are dangling down. I had a lot more fluid retention during that travel. So I'd be very mindful of keeping compression socks on, and I was worried about that being showcased on the.

Stage Luckily that was not the case, but it was just not a great comfort From a comfort standpoint, I mean, we. Would stop at these koas and sometimes we would camp in the rig and you know we had crystal and rides or crystal and myself on a little twin bed mattress thing and then rides on his little pack and play which is just very cramped. So that was kind of a con. We will be wisened up and started getting KOA campgrounds that had a little cabin on it.

So then she and Rigel would be in the cabin and I would be in the camper or vice versa or something of that nature. We'd get a cabin that had that had multiple beds and I'd sleep in one. I'm trying to optimize my sleep because I'm not getting much of it, but traveling and staying at KOA campgrounds is probably not the most conducive thing to sleep. So I would say that would be a a

con for sure. So that that was an issue, but again I think the the memories and just the experience far outweighed it and it was a net positive, but the traveling was a bit tricky in that regard. Plus we're just gone for so many days at a time and we're typically driving you know, 4-6 hour days. But then with Rigel and the stops and everything, it winds up being an 8 or 10 hour day on

the actual Rd. driving. So the day started early because I had to get a workout in as well and pose and all that stuff and then have my meal. And then they would end late. We would get often times to the KOA campgrounds at night. We have to unpack. Just get situated so took a long time on the days and then you know getting there and getting back home was pretty much like a two week endeavor. Like we'd have a week to get there and then a week to get

back. At least four days on the front and back end of each of these competitions, plus the competition weekend itself. So we've just been out of our normal environment and setting for an extended period of time each time we've driven to. These shows, which is hard in and of itself. So that aspect I would say as a con we are definitely excited to get home and we pull into the driveway and again we're grateful for the memories, but being gone that long while running multiple businesses,

having a year and a half year. Old and just trying to keep life organized is. A bit tricky to say the least. However, these next two competitions, we are actually flying to them, so there will be much less of a burden from a travel standpoint in getting there and returning home. So I'm excited to see how that compares. And again, the draft, the driving wasn't that positive I would say overall because. We had all of our gear with us.

We have our camera gear. With us, all of our audio equipment with us. All of our food with us. It's just tricky to drive that far, be gone, be gone that long, and be pretty much living out of a. Vehicle for two weeks at a time anytime there's a show. So there is a con there, all right. The next list on the Con spectrum is the polygraph

anxiety. So I've passed all three polygraph tests, and the way the polygraphs now work within the debut NBA federation is that you take a polygraph test and it is good for the next. Six weeks. So, because my last competition in Washington. Will basically be five weeks. Prior to Worlds, and even less time for this show in Massachusetts, I do not need to take any more polygraph tests, and I've passed all of them.

I've never taken anything that I should concern myself with, but you talk to any competitor that does polygraph test, they're pretty much going to tell you that's still nerve wracking. And I've kind of been thinking about why it causes me so much anxiety and I I believe I've nailed it down. I know I've never taken anything. I can look at any polygraph, proctored straight in the eyes and be very honest, and I am very brutally honest with that.

But what? What causes me the anxiety is the knowledge that somebody that doesn't know me can be the the make or break factor. They can say Oh no. Look, you failed this test and prevent me from competing and I put so much into this prep. I literally have sacrificed so much. I've not left one stone left unturned. I've not missed a meal, I've not missed a macro. I've not missed a training or posing session or a cardio session and the idea that

somebody. Could say, hey, look, you know, you you seemed a little bit nervous here. You failed and just acknowledge that somebody could take that away from me, not. The the work that I've put in, but the opportunity to present that work causes me a lot of anxiety and starts festering with my OCD and just frustrates me a little bit, you know? So thank goodness I had never taken anything I can feel good about that.

I can be at peace with them and I've passed all the polygraph tests, so it's water on the bridge now. But just the sheer anxiety that those kind of tests bring me is a con in and of itself. And I'm the same thing with with

just tests in general. When I was in, you know, elementary school, middle school and high school and college, anytime I have to take a standardized test or an exam of any type really, where I've got to, like, put myself, you know, through the testing, you know, modality environment just causes me a lot of anxiety. No matter how much I studied, no matter how much I prepped, and no matter how confident I felt about the knowledge of the material, I would just get

anxiety on the actual testing. I know a lot of people are like that, so this is probably similar for many. But just testing in general, especially when it's with someone that could potentially remove my opportunity to compete and step on stage and showcase. What I've worked so hard for does cause me anxiety and that anxiety around the polygraph testing. I would certainly classify as a con, but certainly something I need to just work at and you

know be it more peace with. And you know, like I said, I've done three this year. I've passed all three and it's getting easier each time I pass And because it's like, you know, OK, this just. Is what it is, so there's that with regards to the training, the training, like I said in the prior. Episode of this series has

mostly been positive. I haven't really experienced much of a decline in strength, but that much of A decline caveat is where the con comes in, because these past few weeks I have experienced some decrease in overall training output and that's, you know, going to be caused by a myriad of factors.

I'm at, you know, nearly £30 down from my offseason weight, which is going to change my leverage points, which is going to have an impact on what I can lift for the number of reps I can lift it. So there's that I am losing a little bit of lean tissue, not much, certainly not as much as I was, you know when I was following a. Carbohydrate based protocol, but it's always, you know, disheartening and unsettling to see any drop in strength.

And again, I haven't seen a decline in top level strength, so I'm still able to pull the same deadlift numbers for a single rapper. To that I was prior, but I'm not getting it with as many repetitions as I was in the building phase because I am so depleted right now. So there has been a slight decrease in strength and overall training volume these past few weeks, so that again would be a con. Judges feedback, judges feedback

has all been very positive. After that second show, I got feedback on my symmetry round posing, specifically my front relaxed and my rear relaxed poses. They said that's likely what cost me the overall title in that second show I've talked. With all the judges across all the different competitions and they've all unanimously said that I was the most conditioned on stage.

So that's certainly a positive. But the fact that my posing on that front relaxed and rear relaxed cost of the overall is, you know, good criticism, like it's constructive criticism. It gave me something to work on, which I did. After that was over, I called one of the promoters.

Who was a judge at that second show and I scheduled a call with him and he viewed my posing and gave me some more pointers and feedback That in tandem with the feedback I got from the judges immediately post show, I put into practice and tweaked my opposing practice accordingly and was able to improve upon those. Two poses for this third show, so definitely take the time to get the feedback from the judges. Don't you know shirk your responsibilities with the posing?

Because that does often times become the make or break factor. And it should be the make or break factor when all those things, when all else is equal, certainly. But even if not, if not, I mean posing is a massive component of bodybuilding so you definitely want to make sure you're dialing that in. You know, it's it's sad to see.

Competitors that work so hard with the nutrition, with their macros, with their training, with their cardio, and they bring an outstanding level of conditioning, but then they miss the bar with the posing, like you got to give that the attention it deserves. And I was, but I was posing incorrectly, apparently, for these federations and those what the judges wanted to see with. Those two poses. So I took that constructive criticism, made the tweaks and

improved upon the package. For this third show, for those interested, the the feedback was on those two specific poses. I was holding my arms up too high with too much of A bend in my. Elbows, which was basically minimizing my ability to fully extend my lats out. Basically it was basically showcasing that I didn't have

the lat development that I did. They were able to see that lat development in the muscular round poses like the the rear double bicep, the rear lat spread, the front double bicep, front lat spread. But they couldn't see it as well. In those symmetry round poses

the front and rear relax. So by simply dropping my arms down a little bit, changing how I was breathing, slightly improved upon that look, touching on breathing, actually that's something that I also need to work on going forward. That's. That's another. Tweak that they've given me that that I can use to improve upon. When I'm transitioning through the poses, I tend to breathe a little bit more, you know, through my diaphragm.

And I let my midsection relax slightly as I'm transitioning from 1 pose to the next and I need to work on that for these next two shows you want to make. Sure. Your core is tight throughout the entirety of the time you're on stage and you know I I need to improve upon that. It's something that I need to work on. So when I'm transitioning to these poses, keeping my core tide, having shorter breaths that's more, you know, upper breathing like more my chest and less in my abdomen section is

going to be key. So I'm going to take that feedback going forward and try to improve that for these two pro shows that I've got in the pipeline. Blood work, let's talk about blood work. So I'm going to do a full blown YouTube video. That shows the blood work panels, so I'm just going to kind of briefly touch on it here, specifically my hormone panels because those have dropped quite a bit. My total testosterone is normally around 5 to 700. Which is pretty good for someone of my age.

I'll be 32 at the end of this month, month of October. So you know 700 is pretty solid number there when it's around 500 that's typically at times when I am sleep deprived or super stressed with the business endeavors. Sleep and stress are catastrophic towards hormone levels. Doing a prep being depleted is also catastrophic. So again, my baseline is typically around 500 to 700. When I got my blood work drawn on 7/17 of this year, my testosterone dropped

significantly down to 169.4. And then here at my latest blood panel on 10/3 of this year it dropped even. Further to 86 nanograms per deciliter on total testosterone, which is abysmally low. It doesn't take an expert to know that that is not good. So interestingly enough, I have not really like most people. Most guys, when they're talking about low testosterone levels, they're experiencing symptoms such as. A decreased zeal for life.

Lower energy, less strength and power output, and definitely less libido. I can't really say that I've experienced any decrease in just zeal for life, excitement, fulfilment, or anything like that. Certainly there has been a drop in libido with my testosterone being so low. Hormone hormones in general, sex hormones, specifically estrogen and testosterone, are very much so directly linked to body fat levels. So with me being incredibly lean right now.

Probably sub four percent body fat via DEXA. And my last DEXA was 4.1 and that was several weeks ago. I'm going to have lower testosterone levels. That's just simply the nature. Of the beast with regards to doing these competition preps and that's been the case in years prior and as in years prior when I put on more body fat in the reverse statin building phase, those numbers return to a healthy baseline, but hopefully by me sharing

this. With you, you recognize the significance and importance of having a proper reverse diet in building phase. Post prep, so you do return to a healthy body fat level and those normal those numbers can return to normal because being that low until testosterone is not the the best. It's not, it's not the healthiest. It's certainly not sustainable, certainly not something that I would advocate for. It's not worth the cost to be that lean for too long.

So I am excited to get those numbers back up to a healthy range, which they most certainly will once I start eating more food and putting on more body fat. But again, total testosterone made that low is most certainly a con. So that is the con with the blood work there. And on that note, Libido has certainly taken a hit sex life win this deep into a competition. Prep wanes quite a bit for most natural athletes and I am certainly in the boat there.

Crystal and I have a great relationship. Honestly, we've been more connected now with just everything we've been doing together and everything we've had to sacrifice and push through. So like our relationship. Is solid and she was just commenting down on that the other day. But our sex? Life is pretty, pretty, pretty abysmal right now, and part of that is simply because I am focused. I've got the eye of the tiger.

I am 100% zeroed in on these competitions, so that's where my mind is AT. And from a psychological standpoint, I'm just not focused on sex life right now. But from a physiological standpoint, having such low testosterone as a result of the low body fat is certainly not conducive to. A great sex life either. So I would, I would classify that as a con, without a doubt. Relationship with food, Let's talk about that.

So I said in the prior episode that my relationship with food has been positive and that is most certainly the case. That said, I am still hungry right now. Like I am depleted. I'm down to one meal a day, which I think works really well for me via the Ketogenic Prep protocol. This low on my calories, but I am still most certainly hungry. It's not like I'm walking. Through the day satiated. Right now my daily intake at the time of this recording is about 1700 calories on.

Refeed day, like today is a refeed day actually. So my intake will be 3400. But on the day today my intake is quite low. So I do think about food. I am hungry. I am very cognizant when people around me are eating. So those are all cons. But again, to kind of cap that with a positive, it's not debilitating like it has been in the past. It's not like I'm obsessing about food. That's not like my only thought throughout the day. So there's my two cents on my current relationship.

With food again overall positive but definitely, definitely hungry. Now let's talk about just the fact that I am depleted. I mean, that is certainly a con this far into. The prep. We've had, I mean, life goes on, even when you were in a prep. So like these past several weekends when I'm we haven't been traveling. We've been working on our homestead. We've had my folks come in, my dad's been helping me put up a fence and that is very physically. Demanding I'm driving T posts.

I'm digging post holes. I'm carrying concrete. 80 pound bags of concrete. I'm mixing that concrete. And I am most certainly feeling it. I love physical labor. I love. Working outside, I love putting the work gloves on and getting after it, but I have been very depleted lately. So that work has been strenuous much more so than it is when I'm at my normal baseline. I mean, my dad is 30 years older than me and he is a hustler and he's working circles around me

right now because. He's just not depleted and I am depleted. So being depleted in and of itself is a. Con Now it's something that I knew was going to happen, something that I embraced, and it's just part of the. Process of this journey. So you know, I take it as it comes, but I don't love feeling depleted. I don't love feeling like I can't outwork anybody around me and, you know, being depleted is. Is a con, so I wanted to throw

that on the list. But honestly, it hasn't been debilitating in most aspects of my life. Like, I'm still working. I'm still podcasting. My mental acuity is still there. Which is? Awesome. I think, you know, I tribute that to the fact that my ketones, you know, are rock solid as a result of the prep protocol that I'm following. So from a mental acuity standpoint, I don't really feel depleted, but from a physical standpoint, when it comes to doing everything else outside of the prep.

It's been challenging for sure, especially when you're doing a whole bunch of physical labor outside or something of that nature. So that would be a con on this list without a doubt. Let's talk about expenses. So expenses are a con, doing a competition prep, traveling to a venue, we've been, we've been spending a lot of money. I mean just simply the traveling component is very expensive, like when you when you add up all the fuel costs.

When you add up the Airbnb cost, When you add up, the hotel stays. When you add up the KOA expenses, that's expensive. Plus I have a flown chip our media guy out to all of these events, put him in the Airbnb with us. So there's been a, you know, quite a bit of cost associated with those flights. We're going to be flying to the next shows, like I said, so there's. The cost of those flights? It's my flight. Rigel's flight crystals, Flight chips, flight. I mean, it's just expensive.

Like traveling is expensive. Plus you've got the added expenses of registering for the shows, having your membership card for the amateur division and now the the Pro division. For me, the cost of the posing trunks, the cost of the tanning, the cost of the photography packages in which I've been getting all the photographer packages. So I have that to document this journey as well so.

Quite a bit of expense there. And then just the expense of you know going to different gyms along the way, paying the day passes the cost of the food. For the meal prep like this is a. Fairly expensive sport when you start itemizing and breaking everything down bit by bit. We have spent several, several, several. $1000 thus far. And I'm OK with that because I knew that going in and I want to not, you know, take any shortcuts. I want to eat quality. Food I want to.

Make sure that I'm bringing my media guy with me so I can document all this for y'all. I want to make sure that we're, you know, traveling and you know, making making it as sustainable as possible. So I embrace those expenses, but it is still very expensive, so that would be a con on the list as well. And then finally, I kind of want to just cap this list of cons out with just the fact that doing all of this has spread me pretty thin. So when you do a competition prep.

You know, like I said, life goes on. But it's also a pretty big focus. Of your life during that time. So I've got a lot of things going on and I've got a lot of irons in the fire. I've got multiple businesses that I'm running. I've got multiple employees that I'm managing. I've got, you know, my son that I'm raising. I've got my wife that I'm married to. I've got my friends, I've got my family. I have all these things pulling at me from all different directions, all different angles.

While I'm also prepping for five competitions and trying to be the leanest man in the world and be the absolute best I can be, which means, you know, not shirking my responsibilities in the gym, Training hard, putting in the time with the posing, putting in the time with the cardio with the tanning with everything and doing all of that in tandem is quite the challenge indeed. And I think I've managed it. I know I've managed it better this prep. By far than I ever have in the prep prior.

I have more responsibilities now than I ever have. I've got more commitments, more obligations, and I've been able to juggle it all quite effectively. But that doesn't change the fact that I am still spread very, very thin. I am excited for these next two shows. I'm excited to soak in every moment of this competition prep journey, but I am also excited

for them to be over. So that I can allocate the time and resources and attention and energy and just hustle that I'm putting towards these shows to every other aspect of my life. Like my parenting, like my relationship with Crystal, like the relationship with my friends and family, like the business and my my crew and everything. And they've all done a great job keeping everything on track while I've been focusing on this. But I'm excited to take.

The time and resources that I'm now spending on the prep. And being able to apply that to every other component of my life. And that's something that I always come out of a prep season with just this, you know, resounding sense of zeal and excitement for. Like when I pour myself into the prep and I see the fruits of my labor take place there and then that's over. So many people, they cross that finish line and they don't really know. They feel lost.

They don't know what to do with. All of that energy, drive and focus and attention they were putting towards the prep. I'm grateful because I've got. So many other things going on in my life outside the prep, the businesses are going to go on a whole nother level of OverDrive once the prep is over. Like there's so many things that I'm working on, on the business right now that have had to take a little bit of a back seat due to this prep. So when the prep is over, y'all

just get ready because. All the aspects of Keto Brick live savage. Apparel, this contest, prep course that I'm working on, the coaching, everything. It's just about to get. A very extensive overhaul for the better. And everything is just going to improve. So I'm excited to pour into those things. But that is not where my focus is right now. The focus is on the prep. So that is kind of a a pro. And a con.

I mean, there's there's good things that I said there for sure, but the fact that I am spread as thin as I am in its totality would be a con because there's just so many things going on right now. So that, ladies and gentlemen, is my list of pros and cons, wins and losses. Hopefully you got something out of this.

Definitely let me know if you like this kind of shorter form, you know podcasting, which I'm not bringing a guest on, I'm just kind of talking about something with more of a deep dive focus from my perspective. Definitely keen to get y'all's feedback on this, but I appreciate. Y'all tuning and I appreciate y'all being part of the journey and I'm excited to keep. Delivering content around this nutritional protocol, the ketogenic lifestyle and this

contest prep specific protocol. So again, I can't thank you all enough for being a part of it. Thank you all so very much and I will likely do a similar two-part. Series of wins and losses after these next two pro shows. Coming up. So stay tuned for that for sure. Until then, talk to you next time.

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