Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

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Savage Lovecast Episode 1023

This episode features Dan Savage addressing a diverse range of listener questions, including whether multi-orgasmic women are superior, practical advice for anal sex preparation, and a re-evaluation of the term "frotting." Dan also offers stark advice to a caller in a sexless relationship and explores the nuances of consent and groping in gay bar culture, alongside a segment on healing sexual trauma.

Jun 16, 2026•51 min•Ep. 1023

After Action Report #33

Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.” Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google. After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru… Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it. Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to...

Jun 12, 2026•17 min•Ep. 33

Savage Love Episode 1022

A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people? A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips. On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY pol...

Jun 09, 2026•49 min•Ep. 1022

After Action Report #32

Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right? But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending. Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play....

Jun 05, 2026•16 min•Ep. 32

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