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Uncensoring Porn, Unlocking A Revolution with Free the Kink

May 28, 202344 min
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With the recent laws on censoring adult entertainment and even sexual education; where is the future of sex going? Meet Mac of Free the Kink (@FreetheKink-IG, Twitter), an online space dedicated to bringing organizations, resources and opportunities to the forefront of the BDSM and alternative lifestyle community. Sapphire and Mac shares their experience in being silenced and censored for their work in name of sex positivity.


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Sources from this Eargasm: https://sexualalpha.com/how-many-people-watch-porn-statistics/

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/utah-law-requiring-porn-websites-to-verify-user-ages-takes-effect https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7bvbv/anti-porn-lobbyists-pressure-reddit-to-shut-down-its-nsfw-communities

https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/sex-workers-endangered-fosta-sesta-porn-us-free-speech-woodhull/





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Warning, the following program is not for the weak-hearted those who are close minded. When General, you're scared to learn. What's behind closed. Doors here at sapphires are play. I want you to pour the wine. Grab somebody that you want to hold onto or better yet. Get the vibration stimulated through your body. Get ready for one, hell of an eargasm in five, four, three, two, one, what is up? All you sexy motherfuckers out there in radioland.

It's sugarless. Sapphire back with another episode in. Oh my goodness, I'm just going to say this right now. I've been so excited to talk to this individual, not just because he's one of my favorite

monsters. And as you guys know, I keep bringing some monsters onto the platform and if you don't know what the monsters are, check out the mon app, it's a great sex, positive Community Live real-time chats and you get to connect with people, like my guess, Mac of free, the Kink Mac. I am just so excited.

I am so elated and just so excited to talk about free, the Kink, most importantly why we're going to, you know, talk about our subject at hand because a lot of bullshit has been going on. So first of all, Mac of ftk, welcome to the show. Welcome to the show. So, Frida King dedicated to Bringing organization's resources opportunities to the Forefront of the BDSM and alternative lifestyle Community. You guys have been around. And for quite a bit and it seems like Facebook is where your

community is really big. So let's talk about it. What is free, the Kink? Why? You know what? Just got you started and you know where do you all fit into it mac? Oh thank you very much for that. Lovely introduction. Miss a fire and I just want to say that pleasure is actually all mine has I mean the queen of podcasts you're a Pioneer in it. You were on audio before anyone even knew what a damn podcast was so it's my honor to be here free the Kink ftk.

You know we started out I've almost six years ago now, I think we just celebrated our fifth year anniversary, actually, you know, my beautiful slave, the kinky Smurf and I we we just felt. There's, we were own part of a lot of groups. All those groups, you know, you couldn't, they all had their Echo Chambers and we wanted to create a place in, which all voices, could be heard all

voice. It didn't matter, especially the ones that others didn't agree with, okay, because that's where you find has new people come into BDSM. If they don't find a lot of voices, they fall in line with an echo chamber. That may not even be They are, you know, if I, if I was starting over today and I had to say, vet a new submissive for myself. I'd say here's what I want you to do. Here's 200 resources before we even start talking.

Go find out who you are, find out what you really like, you know, because it's so for the longest time even when you know, you would search information and there wasn't a whole lot out there. So that's what we wanted to create. Yeah. You know what's crazy to me. It's you know again we're we're going to talk about the bullshit that's going on with the And bands. And why is there this seemingly

war on sex positivity? Because the more and more you look at it and I was looking at the statistics before you and I got started on the conversation but what I was realizing that you know, everybody's talking about how you know the Internet is just flooded with porn but only 4% 4% takes up the space of born of the internet. Everything else is political bullshit. Your Entertainment.

News whatever. So then it's like communities, like ftk through the Kink you don't comes into play and it's like you do offer a very safe haven. I you know, you look at the website, you look at your Facebook group, I mean what you're hitting almost 35,000 active followers if I'm not mistaken. So in our 12 communities right now, we have almost 70,000. She's awesome but you know we're still tiny. We're tiny compared to. What's out? And you're right. The problem is it look here's

the thing. They're always trying to shut down the speech. Yes. Okay. Freedom of speech and freedom of expression and let's assume that 4% let's blow that out to our. Let's say it's 80%. Okay, there's this little thing called supply and demand. There wouldn't be the porn if the porn wasn't desired, you know what I mean? The reason and poor comes in all flavors, not all porn is raunchy. There's love porn. There's raunchy porn. I'm a crazy saying this.

I like it wild. My poor would definitely not be for most people. But there's a reason, you know. And so many people thoughts are like, oh, let's just, let's get into this. We talk about the let's talk about Louisiana for me because people don't understand some things. Yes. And I'm gonna I'm gonna bring up for bills right now if you don't mind please. Okay. There are three bills out there that I bet.

Most of your listeners probably haven't heard of and it's they do it on purpose, the earn it act to see Sam Act, and the Cooper Davis act, these three acts. Okay, are going through and they've been trying to get these Friends years. These these laws are essentially end communication privacy and they're doing it under the guise of all has always to protect the children, right? You know this after, you know, that's what it was always about the band, The the verification Down, Louisiana.

So what the goal with these bills are, is the basically all messages between, email, text messenger, end-to-end, encrypted messages. So the kind of message that you have with your doctor. Okay, we'll all now, have to be algorithm, we monitored for certain keywords red flags. Who decides those four key words, the government, okay? It essentially ends private communication. You know, if you look there was another time and it's always,

it's always with the spin. And you know why, most people don't know about it is because they put it out, the guise of protecting children. Who the hell doesn't want to protect children? We all want to protect children. So, we just say, yeah, it's a good thing but we don't look at the fact you're back to the patriarch That's a fine example but let's talk about another bill about five years ago.

That happened that I know you'll know about it was all passed under the guise to Bill's Sessa Foster. Oh my God. Okay. These home for those who don't know, it's us a faucet. First of all is like Voldemort in the world of adult entertainment, sex positivity because there's so much under lining censorship that goes along with it.

And again, I understand like you said, Ed, we're trying to protect children, but also there are cracks in the system, you know, with these porn bands going on, like a person like me who is very tech savvy and you know, my father, he my dad, he grew. He taught me Internet safety because that's what he did for a living. He works on computers. So it's like I knew everything about VPN scrambling my location and all that.

So it's like when you're talking about these porn bands, That they're putting on in this Festival, you know, specify say where they were really trying to like say no, it's not just going to be one state. We want the entire States United States to basically, not by porn that they wanted to make porn harder to accept. You know, to be accessible like taking it. Not just out of stores.

But also, you know, trying to put like one big red flag and scrambling people's accounts and saying that you cannot access But again, that's you know, cutting into the levels of free speech and media. And let's face it, is it really free Wayne. Now we're having keywords being taken out, and like you said, you got the driver's license

verification. So, now, the people's actual true identities are compromised, so 100%, you know, and then it just How's it you know, that it's the most interesting thing for that meat for me must have fire is the Geo. A the government accountability office which you can find a geo

geo a.gov that report came out. I'm sure you saw it since in and you know incest the fossils five years of being in into existence, there's been 12 cases that have been prosecuted under that one of those cases just won Miss Sapphire is for actual sex trafficking. The other 11 are Cases and lawsuits against platforms. And you know what, the end result of that was the confiscation of over 100 million

dollars from platforms. So you tell me that this me, come on but what it did do it hit the sex worker industry, so hard. So many sex workers have been put into and we don't have to get into that, but we do know that. I mean, they have been made so much more vulnerable. Salts are up. Rapes her up, murders are up incredible.

Because now, I mean before says the Vasa, these professionals have the opportunity to screen vet communicate about bad potential Predators. Yes, that's all been taken away and stripped away from these people for a profession, that's older than anything else, older than anything else. And not to mention it's a billion dollar industry in which most of that money funds. What we're living in right now? That's the shit that they don't want to tell you.

So then it's like, for organizations like yourself because that's next The list and we're already seeing that with social media bands left and right through Twitter through Instagram I mean our IP to you know the mother of all internet porn fuck I just blanked on the day I was going to say read it but that's next. Oh my God. What was that website? That every Tumblr, Tumblr. Wow. Tumblr, my brain.

I'm a little hungover. Y'all I'm, I'm powering through But like, all these things, all these things, you know, it's just one by one. And you know, when people are saying like, oh, you're being overdramatic. Like you don't just change up the code. I'm like, no, they're latching onto ways.

I can only say corn for so long, you know, sex with a 3 and an X and talking about, you know, sex positivity or sex posi and changing around 2 SE G, GS 4. So long, you know, people, like you said, people's livelihoods are at this. So it's like, we need Community, like, you offer, we need communities like moan, you know, for people to really just get their proper education on when it comes to you sexual wellness.

It's not just porn and I think, you know, they really have to take a look at it. What is considered poor

nowadays? I think that she the biggest Free The Kinks core mission is freedom of sexuality because it sexuality is an expression of who you are and there's nothing to be ashamed of and the moral, the moral people out there that use that as their Crux, here's the here's the problem, like what the Louisiana law, we get you as entity K, whereas threat of being shut down every day because we're on social media as

you. Well know, I mean, the ride can be over in an instant and we had to rebuild somewhere else all over again. But this law in Louisiana, If there's a hundreds of people who are part of the movement who have had serious impacts, but through the 60s, 70s, 80s are, there are the key people who everyone remembers Goldstein, Flint haffner Hoff and you know there's and they all paid real

prices for freedom of speech. And we we fought this battle for freedom of sexuality for adult entertainment. You know is something that is never going to go away. We're always going to like porn. We're always gonna want to go to strip clubs and the reality is we always are going to want. Brothels in the ability to have sex workers and they're never going to be a stop it. But here's the thing throughout history, it's a beginning of an unseemly man.

Larry Flynt's book. Milos Forman makes a statement that rocks my world. Every time I hear, it's actually my favorite part of the book, not even all of Larry Flynt's life. It's me with whores, quote, and he talks about this throughout history. When a tyrannical government was to control its population, right? What's the three things that have to happen? They take your freedom of speech and expression away, your freedom of privacy and your

freedom, the right to bear. Arms to protect yourself and they always. And then once they accomplish that, the next thing is, when they start to attack, who they always go for first within the population, those who they deemed perverts, okay? And so, when you take something like this Louisiana law, you know that now that everyone who wants to watch porn has to put their ID and it goes into a

database. The top companies in the tech companies in the world get hacked, then tell me this fucking thing isn't going to get hacked. Exactly. And the government has full access to it. You got me? Fucked up. That is the one-way Street to hell my friend. I was literally just talking about this on my last episode. I think it was with it was not mr. SK, it was with Anya and we were talking about how just not even recently. I want to say maybe it was about two years ago, that there is law

in place. That basically says jobs are not allowed to fire you based off of your sexual Your sexual preference or activities outside of the work environment. Now, of course, there are companies that are still trying to fight this and say, you know fuck that you don't want them to represent our country. But if you think about it, if a leak happens that's going to put a lot of, you know, jobs in Jeopardy. It's not like religious people

don't whack off the porn. It's not like political figures and other public figures healthcare workers don't indulge in porn. And again, what's considered, poor nowadays, I think is a little bit more, you know, way brought her on the Spectrum. I think, you know, putting a general conversation on just p&v sex or, you know, a blowjob video. No porn is anything at this point. If you got to think about it and what's turning somebody on sometimes, it's not even nudity.

It's not a job. Let me look the crazy thing about this Louisiana law though is if and I'm not a lawyer, let me preface with I'm not overturning and when I read these damn laws and I'm reading a lot of laws lately because ftk really wants to move more towards opening up more channels to speak for these things. You got to, you got to be a damn rocket science to understand. Half the ship.

You think, create that way on purpose but you know when you're looking at this, you look at this law ftk doesn't have a single video of sale. Like sexual activity on overall education, but the way the law is written. It says 35th more than 30% of is sexual content. All of my stuff is sexual education kind. Yeah, I mean, every damn article. So technically under their law me fucking I'll shut my website down before I let them. Do all fucking move to some

other country. I don't care, because I'm not going to have my members, have to put in their drivers license, to be able to come learn how to go home tonight and spank their partner without breaking their tailbone and that's what we do. Pharrell. And again, it's like, it's gonna, it's still causing a spiral effect. And then just, you know, recently I want to say this past week. Now, Utah is following

Louisiana's footsteps. And now, they want to, I was reading this on PBS and I'll add the link, you know, to the Bayou, for all these sources that I've gotten. But they basically are again, verifying the ages of their users. And it took effect just this past Wednesday. Today is the 27th episodes dropping on the 20th. Of course, you're born, you're probably listening between the 28th into Memorial Day weekend. So anyways it just passed on Wednesday that they are.

Requiring you know adult websites to verify the ages of their users and they're saying that it's a part. It's part of their job as a society. And you know one of the Republican sponsors is basically saying I'm not going to blame All society's ills on pornography, but I don't think it's helpful when a kid is forming their expressions of sex and gender to all of this filth and loot depictions on their mind.

I'm sorry, but it starts with the home, when you do not talk to your child about sex, they're gonna go and fuck around and find out somewhere else. Can we can we bring up Pulpit here? So you could preach? I mean, Jesus, when I was a kid, I, you know what? I got caught doing, stag of my dads. Hustler Magazine's, okay, and I got my ass whooped for it, you

know, right? By the way, there's 18 states, 18 states right now that are following Louisiana, sing 18 states, and half of them have this thing. There's no votes being taken by the People. By the way, you know, this is just going through getting done, just like every goddamn thing else, right? And so 18 states and I don't know, books and you know how this is gonna try and this was a bipartisan Bill and, you know, and you know, I'm just I'm, I am over it all together.

I feel you both sides. They All they want is control over us and if you know you look at what they can do with this data, okay, if you decide to start speaking out about certain something a certain subject, that's I mean you could take a take your pick of the Hot Topics today. There's tons of them if some facts would because, you know, on these laws like earn it and now there's state rights to access this data to buy the AG's. So what if the state decides because no State targets anyone?

I know, but let's just say a state within the target. A certain group of Of people. Well, now they can go to this database because again, if the government decides, what keywords are going to flag what messages, I can assure you, these people will be on a flag 99.9% of as they'll come up with a reason why that word has to be in there. Fixing, you know what happens? Yeah.

And we only do they know who you are and we see it already use that as leverage to shut people up when thousand percent and we already see that with the data tracking on our smartphones. Like, I'm so sick of people saying, like I don't have social media because I don't want to be found. I'm like, but you own a smartphone, right? So everything that you do, that's not even social media related. They got everything, they got

the lowdown on, you. They know you're pouring habits, they know, you know, your food habits, they know where you're going, how you're going, where you come in and go in. Because if you use Google Maps, it will literally show your Journeys for the past whenever you activated the maps. You people don't even realize when you turn location services off, they still track you. Exactly. Exactly. You know, exactly these companies know more about you than, you know, about you and I

can predict your next move. This is why advertisers by all this data because they could, they could predict your next move for the next six months. I know what you're going to buy, eat where you're going to go. Who you gonna see?

They know what your religious and political beliefs are when you're sitting there talking with your spouse or your best friend, and private over a nice fat joint on the back porch, you think your private you're not private know, everything is being gobbled up and that's the scary part of it.

Because now again whenever I talk to, you know, my friends in porn and a lot of them, you know, who were the old heads, you know, in the Golden Era of porn which is of course the 70s and 80s 80s especially because oh my God, yes, that I got started in porn at the time that I did because I don't have to worry about Out the social media bullshit.

I'm tired of it. You know, I'm tired of flagging accounts left and right, but if you think about it, it's like Some things were better protected because identities weren't found your favorite porn star and they have him and gone. And you never knew their real name unless they know no changed identities. And said I'm going to go into mainstream but she don't even have that.

Now, we're porn stars and other adult performers and M adult entertainers are trying to, you know, hide their identities. But they can't because of the technology that we have today, you Type in someone's name and you could get their address their phone number and in everything. So just like an assay for the crime against adult entertainers would knots on the rise with more of these bands because people have to put in verification, Yeah.

Actually I wouldn't want an adult when adult Entertainer wants to retire and go and live their life. You know. They used to go to do that because you know you're not going to recognize someone if they do a few different things. But now it's all right there, you know exactly where they're going, what they're doing and it's a sad day in hell, that's been around for a long time.

My biggest concern is when the government starts putting in laws like this and restricting the opportunity for freedom of speech and expression. It's Not doing anything illegal. What they're doing is perfectly legal work but yet you're targeting them and you're doing it under the guise of what we all know is bullshit and you can only do that because it's sex, it's ridiculous. You know if it was anything else you can't do shit. The biggest drug dealers on the

world are not cartels. They are Pharmaceuticals. You wouldn't do this shit to them you know but they'll do it to sex and because they don't want to talk about it even though that For overall health and mental health. Your sexual expression is key to a happy life. I've been with my wife, the kinky Smurf for 20 years, I miss after. Let me tell you something. I never once have looked across the counter and said, oh my God, I'm so glad I learned how to balance a checkbook with you.

I look across the counter and I say, 20 years later and I am chasing this myth around the house. I come here. I want a piece of that ass and that's what's kept us. We have been through some of the toughest times you can possibly imagine but because that passion was there, To we never ever. I mean, all of my friends from who got married at same time, I did her divorced but you know, I'm still right now trying to chase this.

Girl, when I get off of here, I'm gonna go find this girl, you know, that's what makes healthy relationships and doesn't have to be marriage. Friends with benefits are whatever policies that relate that intimacy and that passion. And it's so beyond, just here, let me jump in between your legs, you know, there's so much that can go into the freedom of sexuality and expression and we've got to be able to share

that with people. It's a learned experience and I think people tend to forget that. So the more that you start Banning sex sex on the internet, you are now taking away. Like you said, and you made a very key Point May is mental health awareness month. We're drawing it to a close but you know, you've seen it that I people enter sex surrogacy, they by prostitutes, they buy sex workers because it's sometimes a little bit cheaper than therapy and for them. That is therapy.

So not all sex and sex, acts are bad and that's the problem with these legislators. That keep saying we're gonna ban porn. We're gonna ban sex work and make it seem like it's the devil. I mean it is what it is sex, work is work and it is work on some work levels, it is a communication type of style of work. It is a therapeutic style of work. Hell it is. Checks and balances like if you want to talk about some money, money management porn is where it's at 100%.

Okay, there's no, I don't have a cent. I'm not gonna sit up here and say like yeah, there's, you know, in every industry we got some dumb asses, but if you think about it, I'm like, you talk to a sex worker about money, honey, they're gonna Finance the fuck out of there the entire business, okay? Like I'm kind of low-key jealous as I work by behind the scenes. You know, I have gotten monetary offers or the most outrageous things that I just never felt

personally comfortable with. But I'm like, if you are able to Market your entire body, there is somebody out there that is willing to finance your house. Just based off of the fact that you and I may be having a conversation. You might see me overindulge in lunch and that's turning you the fuck on. I'm making a monetary exchange off of my body. Off of my body.

But yet you're telling me I can't that my body is not my body, that's what you're telling sex workers that their bodies are their bodies and they are not allowed to reap the benefits of their own self. You know, you brought up, you brought up the financial aspect of it for adult entertainers, sex workers. And let me tell you something ftk loot unlimited, which is my parent company. All of us that are in the sex trade. I have an article coming out then and next week, you may want

to check it out. It's about the discrimination against sex sexual cold legal companies and the banking system, because they make it so hard if you're looking for an adult Entertainer. And you, when you have a company, you A lot of banks won't even take your money. They won't open account. They will let you fun things. I won't let you get it. Try, good. Try Togo getting an investment outside of the adult entertainment history for an adult.

In a dairy products, shout out to my girl, a lot of Evans, she is a porn vet and Avid Avid speakers, especially talking about this very thing. I believe she went to the White House. A couple weeks ago to talk about the dangers of why, you know, stopping pornographers, adult entertainers from Justice. Simply baking is you know detrimental to absolutely because it's like yes we all want to secretly hoard money. I get it.

You know, we all want to secretly hoard money in our homes but even our homes are our home. Fronts are not safe enough to do so anymore. But when you're telling a professional again professionals working in this industry that the money that they have earned over the past, 20, 30, 40, fucking years. All of a sudden doesn't matter. What is that going to say for other people later on down in the road?

Because if it starts with sex is not just going to end with sex, it's going to trickle down to everything else that's basically saying that I your money, your job doesn't matter and this is just the beginning. Are they going to do that to teachers later on and they're going to do that to healthcare professionals? All you make too much money but it's not good money. You work for the Mart of pharmaceutical company but it's not good money.

Like it's the most the funny thing about that is the IRS will come. Come out and say we don't care how you got your money. If you if you got your money from you know working the streets, we still want you to report it. Okay. But you don't even give us a legal way of doing so it only way for a for most people in the adult Learners are if they want to keep it clean is to break the law.

If you're if you're if you were if you're a working girl or working guy if you're if you're in the sex workers industry that's not legal. So if you want to be able to report it, you got to do what you got to break the law, sort of felonious company, something like a cleaning crew or something. So you can actually Put your money in pay taxes, pay your bills, have a mortgage. These people are no different than a restaurant worker. They do the same things. You want your money as a

government. Give them a vehicle in a way to do it. That part that not very exact part. It just, it makes no sense to me. So, with that being said, mag like, what do you think the future of ftk and other sex

positive communities? Like what are you going to do you You know, if more of these bands keep coming up in States, especially where you're most active users are, what steps are precautions have you already taken as far as like this censorship going on for the users that may be affected in. You know, one of those 18 states that are already taken the band. Like what are the substitute we're about to take for that? So ftk future is changing quite a bit.

We are always going to provide spaces for empowerment education and Community but we will we will not be able to provide those if they win. And I'm not in this is this is a war on sexuality and I'm sorry it is and so the loudest voices, the people who are willing to be the loudest voices, I don't give a shit. You can come from it. You can take, you can't cancel me, you can't turn me off. I work for myself. You shut one system down on me.

I'll find another ftk is Going to get very loud here very quickly. We want to focus more on bringing the attention, especially to the people, you know, look, I'm not a sex worker, but I support sex workers because I'm a consumer. I love going to the ranch. Okay, here we go. The ranch, me and Hillary go, the ranch. And she, I gotta, I'm not that rich baby. You can't have them all her ass is in there. Like I want all of them. The consumer of the product adult Entertainer.

Sex workers can only fight this fight so much if we're going to win this fight, the consumer, the fucking product has to. Finally stand up, say, shut up, leave us alone and let us have our sex workers. Let us have our daughter Tamar. I love you all, but you guys don't have enough power. Okay, to fight this fight alone, you need the consumer of the product is finally step up. I know for a lot of y'all, it's embarrassing to say you like, to go to S, why there was the best

time of your fucking life. And, you know, it You've never had that before. Okay. You, when you look porn, we say all that porn is not education. It is not. But you know what it is. It's fucking inspiration. When you're looking to try something new, look at that. Okay, let's try that. Now obviously my ass don't have that equipment and I'm not that good of shape, but we're gonna try a version of that tonight, baby. I'm Sumer has to step up on that note. We're going to take a quick sexy

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these tools as enhancements. Because, again, yes, there is adult content that is educational, but the fact that matter is, you know, a lot of these companies don't even want to be associated with the word porn, and that makes me actually sad. It makes me kind of sad that a lot of companies want to say we rather thrive in sexual Wellness then using the word porn. And I think personally, yeah, I I blame I blame what's going on right now with our government

with the censoring into. Why all of a sudden, the word porn is such a taboo word and it breaks my heart. You know, it breaks my heart that I I've worked in this industry. For 15 years. And both porn and in radio, and seeing that evolution of all, you can't see porn on this ad or you can't say porn for this company. Like, yeah, we know that we have adults having sex, but we don't want to call it porn. Call it erotica, call it this. And I also, it makes me feel

bad. It feels disingenuine, sometimes where I have to talk to companies that feel like porn the such like a dirty shameful word. And it's like, how do we Reclaim that how do we reclaim that as a society of, you know, sex positivity because now that that dies in you can't say sex positivity, but porn is bad. I know, right? It's and people are coming up with more and more worse, distance themselves, and distance their brand away from porn.

And you know, part of that too is going to become his and ftk. We need to do a better job at that to we, I love porn. I don't actually watch a lot of porn because Hillary Hillary, and I have this thing, man. You know, it's kind of funny will start a porn. It'll run for like three minutes and then do whatever. I don't know. What else happens. I'm already were already in it somewhere, someone sucking licking, touch us up, you know where were that? Were that couple and some good

nothing here. Anson. That's an enhancement, it's an enhancement, you know, but we're going to have to like, I think we should do a better job at promoting as TK to have reviews, but any time we use the word porn on anything in our Facebook groups. It gets we get a flag, get the flag. Like I would love to be able to. I like what I do, you know what?

I really love to do is I would love to talk to adult entertainers about the work that they do and how that can go into education into ftk people can learn from it. I'm still trying to figure how to do that without Facebook shutting me down, every five minutes and that takes us right back to where we started in this whole thing is, we can't say anything without getting sensor so I think a lot of people are trying to find words they can use.

But like you said, how long is that going to have to last at some point people like mirrors got to say fuck it. I guess they shut me down. They shut me down. I'll have to find another way. Maybe maybe Miss Sapphire. Let me come on once a week and talk to people. I don't know. That's all we're going to do. We're going to have to take more risk like we risk.

Yeah. Like I said, You're always invited to the sapphire, cookout, I don't cook but honey, I can provide a mean dessert if you get my drift, but you are always, always, always fucking welcome back because like I said, when you and I connected on the monad, I just immediately I gravitated to your voice and then researching about free the kink in, you know, just looking at what you do and provide I really want people to understand it's like yeah, don't let the

word King fool you. We do talk about Kink but again, you're Offering a safe haven for folks who are probably deprived in their cities and their towns and their, you know, bunkers on the hill yet, these sexual experiences like you. And I get because of where we live, you know, we live in cities of sin, you know, we live in cities, where sex is accessible accessible more accessible.

So, when you're taking down communities like yourself, it's like You're doing a disservice to society, you know as we keep saying and I think the ongoing theme of this episode, it's like your sexual Journey should be a healing positive enhancement to your life, what I do. But yeah, what I do behind closed doors. What you do behind closed doors if you're not going out and killing people after you, you know, sexually satisfy somebody. Who am I to judge?

If you're not coughing hostak consensual adult, that is the only requirements. You know, well-informed consensual adults doing what they want to do, that makes them happy things that make them pleasure, 25 years ago, Miss Sapphire. If you would have said to me mac, try a golden shower. Well you're a crazy way to talk about that's nasty. I've done all that, right? It's one of my top 5 favorites. Well damn, okay, well they are you scared? I'm wild out over here. I love it. You know.

So I mean this is if and if I would have had a chance to find a way to even find it or experience it, how would I have even known? I would have even known well, like I said, you know, don't knock it till you, try it. But I don't know me and bodily fluids. That's a whole different topic but and in that and that's awesome, you know, right? I mean that's how it's supposed to be. And that's why wedding before we end this and I'll weave Touch of acid is still the number one

thing. People need to do in these Dynamics, is vet to your little heart is vetted out, okay? Because if you don't, that's how you get hurt. That's how don't let there be a misunderstanding anywhere. Okay, what would you say for, you know, people like ourselves who are, you know, going through the struggles of, you know, just trying to provide good quality, sex positive content, but they are getting discouraged by, you know, the very same things that

we've been talking about. Do you have any tips for folks, or You know, any resources where they can come on over and say like here, this is the space where you can go and you know, be your natural self 100%. So look, there's a lot of places and I get it. I get it more than you can possibly some days. I'm just like, fucking I moved to the mountains and be done with it. I don't really want to deal with it, but we know we can't do that. So first thing I think is always

take that breath. You know, provide some self love to yourself, getting the right headspace and then try to remember why you're doing the first place. What was your original goals and it's those still matter to you, you got to keep I never fight, man. He got to keep doing it. Organization organizations doing is, I guess, TK come over to the mo nap and follow him a sapphire

over there. So you know what she is have rooms and other people that you're like, find that community of people who you relate to, you know, has my dear friend cash dances, you got find your tribe and then be in places where your tribe is that and people who are going to accept you for who you are because that gives you Fuel and nourishment to go out there and fight the fight. You have to fight, you know, because you got to fill up that cup man, you gotta fill up your

cup if you just keep drinking. I let other folks drink from your cup without putting some time into and filling it up. You don't wear out 100% ftk Mac. I always call you both because I mean shit, you embody everything. You know you've made this space just what it is and just you know I just I am so grateful that I the sex positive Stars aligned because I don't think I would have heard about your organization. Had it not been for the monat you know how did not make a kale. Yeah. See.

Really thank you. I might have to send you. This are check but seriously it's you know I am just so thankful for what you bring to the table, I am really like manifesting it that you and I are gonna do something together in person and kind of just bring more, you know, communal support together with that said, 100%. What's going on next for ftk in Mac like what can people look forward to you? How can they get connected with you?

Now's your time to shine and you can I hear you before we say that on the team is sapphire Hillary and I love you to death we love you to death. You're so awesome and you have been fighting longer than most people have even known. There was a fight to be had, so whatever ftk can ever do for you. We're right here. Will support it will, promote it will do whatever we need to do. Anyone who wants to find ftk, can finance a free the kink.com. You know, you can go onto Facebook group.

Our main Facebook group is free, the Kink we have 12 total. So No matter what you're into, we even have a group called Little Fort which in April, of next year we're having Littles in Las Vegas which is going to be a conference three-day conference in Vegas for Littles. You have to be 21 plus because we're going wild out, you got tickets. I know you're not a daddy, your as a d type in it. That's okay. You can still come and have fun. It's going to be a Candyland game fee.

Wow. So it's going to be kind of cool might have to do like a live podcast broadcast because that sound when that be fun, that sounds interesting. They just put me in a little radio corner. I would love to interview the little before the, you know, they go into punishment because that's the communities that I have yet to tap into, you know, lately. I've been tapping into the cuckold community on sapphires are place. So now I got to tap into the littles. So if your little listening,

tapping, can I put your girl? I want to, I want to talk to you. Let's get into the air. As, you know, we've been sharing, we've been sharing your play and ftk for the last 34 weeks, now, and ironic Weekly basis. So we know the littles, they're there. They're finding it now you got. It doesn't thing, you know, everybody needs. Everybody needs a place to come and learn. And your podcast is a great place to thank you for having me. Thank you for just being

available. Always is down for whatever and I definitely want to bring you back for more conversations because Mac, I feel like you and I could just talk about anything underneath the sign, and I hope just you earbuds listening. Just got a taste of again, not just the censorship. It but also the fact of why it is so important that we have people like mac and the community space of ftk around and why you should get connected.

If you're feeling kind of lost in your own sexual journey, and speaking about sexual Journeys, my next guest which are dropping on the fourth. We're going to talk about the religious aspect of this one dynamic duo, the fly Duo production crew. You may know them as sex tech and chill but they're going to come on and talk. About their Journey about leaving Jehovah's Witness and just rediscovering themselves in a sexual exploitation unlike any

other. So, again, all these these people that I bring on weekly please, please follow support. Share it. Spread it around. It may not be for you, so give it to somebody else, but it takes a whole ass Community. It takes a whole ass movement to overthrow this bullshit that we are talking about right now. It's things like this. That fucking matter. And that's why we have to stick together in this fight. So Mac hundred percent. Thank you just truly, truly. Thank you. Thank you, boys.

Thank you. Thank you so much. All right here, buys that is all for now, but of course, you can reach me at Miz radio, Sapphire.com at Miz radio, Sapphire on Instagram. No Twitter at sapphires are play on Instagram as well. And if you are tired of me saying all these things, just go to the link link on this episode. I sewed, I'm going to put Max links in so y'all can talk and stalk him. Follow him, you don't give them some love, give them some

suggestions. This man is so easy to talk to, so please bring them onto your platforms. With that said, safe sex is the best hot sex till next week good. That was the show. All you sexy motherfuckers out there. Remember to follow, Adam is Radio Sapphire and sapphires here, play on Instagram, one Samir guys into the past and future make sure to follow on Apple podcasts anchor. Or Spotify iHeartRadio and all streaming platforms. Or Spotify iHeartRadio and all streaming platforms.

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