Warning, the following program is not for the weak-hearted those who are close minded. When General, you're scared to learn. What's behind closed. Doors here at sapphires are play. I want you to pour the wine. Grab somebody that you want to hold onto or better yet. Get the vibration stimulated through your body. Get ready for one, hell of an eargasm in five, four, three, two one. What is up? All you sexy motherfucker is out
there in radioland. It's your girl South a fire and oh my gosh, I'm just going to tell you this right now. Your girl is already dripping a little way from today's guest because he's just coming in with his spine, Sexual Chocolate self and we're actually going to tap into the male intellect today. Talking about toxic masculinity and proper King Behavior by another none other than a king himself, some of y'all know him as cuck Matchmaker from the mo nap.
NWO, some of y'all may have met him during Splash mocha, but let's just call him Pharaoh because that's who the fuck he is. Pharaoh, welcome, welcome. Welcome to e.r. perfect. Thank you for having me but I love. Let's get into it. Let's get it. Okay, yeah, let's get into it. I don't even know where to begin with you because out of the time. So we've connected on loan, you know, thanks to Kingdom. I mean, I just feel I've been just very penetrated by your mind and you said that word
penetrated, okay? I love my mind being stimulated, and, you know, full disclaimer. I'm usually not attracted to men anymore, like that, but it's like, there's something about a man who speaks his mind in. Intellect shares to similarities where I'm just like, oh of Splash panties. Go to the floor the whole thing. So thank you for just being one of the few main. Got it. Speaking about it, from a woman who's already Women are my thing, but situations come around people, come with us.
That's why I want you to pick. All right. So go ahead. I got it. I got you. So, let's talk about this Pharaoh. You are a man of many trades. But let's talk about why you're here. You specifically wanted to address toxic masculinity and especially in your case, talking back toxic masculinity in the world of cuckolding in just the world at being a black man in a big. Big fetish world, you know, talking about being, women's, Bulls, white, woman's bowls.
You know, to be exactly what I was doing by picking that topic because it is going to catch the eye. And that is the the talking point right now. Top and bottom line. It's like this, are you kind of just touched on it anyway, Men built the world fam, like like like I'm really and truly men real me and I'm not talking about the lames, ain't about the beta cells, none of that meant that give a fuck about women only want life to be comfortable for you... Right?
So we make these things comfortable for you, so that it has so much to the point that I wouldn't like, no, I want to complain a lot. No, I want to tell you what's up and it's like, okay, and you're well within your rights to do it. Because babe we made the tampon for you babe. We don't we don't we don't need that bitch. A man create that for a woman near our said we go through countless of advances that meant
that create. So it's like It's toxic and, you know, whatever the words they're using now but it's so essential like just like what you're talking about. Not so when I hold that, that topic until later but it's like just like what you're saying so many women who identify and present as such and such you know, they already have their ideas their Paradigm or whatever.
But it's like they still have a great level of respect for me and what I'm doing it. They may not agree with everything they might fight whatever but it's still like if there's some bullshit was to go down because that's really what it all boils. Boils down to whatever. All of this, you know, whatever is made up of, whatever it all, boils down to the molecules like this some shit goes down. Do you want me to be around you to protect you, or you'll also
see it goes out? Or do you want to be around? You know what, we can say, whatever we want to lose societal Norms. All that shit, all that shit. And Kobe kind of showed you. I'll give you an example. Toxic masculinity. I'm going into this, you know, I live in Miami beat so we got, like, smaller stores or whatever. That's on the beach or whatever. So, and this is Colby right three people. Two men, one woman, one package of toilet paper.
Hmm okay hmm. The two men look at each other and it's an unspoken communication because men automatically know was competition between us. This is Perry and we thrived in it does the real men you low competition and make you understand but in the middle of them is a woman. Like like they automatically have a comment like like an unspoken. Yeah we bout to get in but it's also a competition. She's not going to give you cause you can't compete. Oh yeah, I do as much. That's in the ground.
She done you call it. Toxic masculinity. But at both of those dudes are fighting for a woman that's back at home. Is it really so bad? I think it comes down to an ego thing that's because I've definitely thought because I've talked about this with my man before and you know, Out of the men that I do have sex with.
There's another partner that I do have, like, sex with often and even though they get along with each other, there is, you know, almost a competition with main especially at sex parties when they think about it comes down to the size. They comes down to is this man, making my lady feel comfortable, do I have to intervene there's always some type of unspoken tension when you bring in group sex Kink and Name.
And I think that could be almost a form of toxic masculinity within itself even though in a sex positive environment because end goal is. Yeah, they're not technically fighting but they might perform a little harder to make sure, you know, the woman at hand. Might be reminded like, oh, her partner puts in work, regardless. Unless that turns bad. Hey, I don't see that in the situation now there is that thing like okay.
And that's what this whole cooking thing is about to a certain degree and again, I'm speaking primarily from that but we could talk about Nuance when it comes to maybe just regular and that type of thing but it's like of course I'm going to make your woman make noises that she never met before. Okay. And when you speak about the male ego of sorts again, you know, of course it has to be checked. Then they of course within the safe space or whatever like that.
But it's like those things are essential. You gotta have like like if you don't have a guy that wants to be the best with your and you're familiar with hypergamy right? No. Are you familiar know as a woman as a woman biologically? Genetically? And I'm talking it look, you know with me and you talk to, you know, I don't talk in absolutes. I'm talking to Jenna Robin's. Right?
I know. I don't have to say that with you but, you know, no, listen, we got a treat, but you try So like a learning moment, so some people might be new to this ideology. So there we go. Okay, well well when intelligent people like me and this beautiful creature talk, we aren't speaking in absolutes. We're speaking in generalities and life is about the generality. Of course we can talk till we're blue in the face about the the small amounts of things that
happen. But mainly we want to talk about the majority of things that's happening. So it's like, okay With this hypergamy thing, usually women want the best guy, hmm, because the to makes and be with the best guy because that guy can protect her provide for her and her offspring, that type of thing, there's nothing wrong with that. I mean, it's biology. Now, flip it on his head. What do you guys have? What do you guys want now? Because we're in 2023, the
things that guys want our shame. The you know if guys have standards and all this kind of other than stuff, no, but a woman. Can you know, that type of thing. So, it's only because, and again, the toxic masculinity men have allowed that, you know, to because right now things are uneven. You know, it's totally suede panel another way. So it's like, with this toxic, toxic masculinity and you spoke about in beginning, like, You as a woman you're given leeway.
The condo you can do what you want. You want to be like they were allowed to do what we want. What we are allowed to do, what we want with certain limitations, let's not get that Twisted. Okay. All right, so let's go with that. What what, what exceptions get you have within the law that I do not, maybe. So, So, not even is that, I do not. He said what, what do I have of what, what what advantage is be
at the law? What advantages have you been giving me of the law that I have now honestly? Yeah, it's not good. It's nothing to be honest. I think nothing you don't. And again you know how we're talking but let's say me and you got together. Right? Hmm.
Thanks right. And You get pregnant I would say again that's it. That's within reason because the fact that I do live in a state that allows me to have those options but right now we're still fighting for the fact that abortions alternative birthing methods. So what you can still go I can still go. Right? Yeah. So with that easy, Yes. Men have been stepped up and been have allowed themselves to
be punching bag. Men have, you know, all of these things I'll take full accountability, you know? I mean top to bottom. The whole. Fortunately, we have to add some very weak women to because it makes no sense where a woman is stepping into office regulating my body, my choice period. Hey, what will, you know what? Let's look fabulous today, let's really get into that, right? So this is there is toxic female energy. Tip, what is I feel it? As a man, like, I'm used to.
I'm used to like people. That's not like us. They have this birthrate terminal and it's all fucked up and they're like, hey I need to control policy. I need to control media and your car control, all these things.
So that Our numbers. I mean, it is genetic Annihilation who doesn't fear that, we don't have that fear, but if it like you used to put yourself in those shoes, if you knew that the son hates you and that if a million black men got together and fucked a million white women impregnated them. Like they already are out the door already but that just expedited. So it's like, okay, yeah, I'm going to pull all these policies in place.
Yeah, I'm going to put all these things in every Walk of Life to limit that. And what it's about is me and you You understanding that and whatever, they me against you, whatever they try to give you a token or symbolic leadership. Just to kind of make you feel good when it's not really. That is just a, you know, I'm just dividing conquer but you understand that a lot of other women and people do not and they're like, oh yeah, I got me a position.
It's like, oh no, your be, you fucking Ploy and they don't know it. But you know, what's worse? The ones that do know that their employer, just like in the first Matrix I think His name of whatever he was like, yeah, I do this, see this face, I know, it's not real. I want to go back in, that's it. So, you got all of those people and it's just like, you know. So that's, that's why we have these conversations to, like, absolutely expose all the time.
And it's funny because even in the world of King, there is that feeling because we've touched upon this being seen as just a sexual object, you know, being a conquering moment to say, like, oh, I had sex with my first, Black person, you know it becomes that that if saying you know even like as I've told Kingdom in our episode talking about BMW, oh you know personally for me anything with race play anything where my myself is not being as Divine. It's only the fact that I have
black pussy and that I'm a black woman. I don't like, any of it. I don't like to be reminded and be basically, We picked apart these fuckers. Think Savvy like baby. All right, look that's why I give respect to you and you know Kingdom because again like I have nothing against I Have Nothing Gets You Brothers. You know, you Kings doing what you do as far as being someone's bull already cut you off but love II know that you're awesome. I know that your soul is
awesome. I know that every cell about you is fucking spectacular but when them fuckers see you, that is all they see, of course, I can't hear you. So it's like for me and I guess don't feel the same way is just like I'm from Louisiana, right? I'm used to I'm used to like in your face racism, like we don't do that. I'm a smile with, you know, I don't like you know, like that's what it is. So That's how I like it.
And, and as much as we try to get away from it, or whatever, it's like, yeah, they are coming to us because I am a black man in black dick and I was kind of other good stuff. I mean, I can go look at the white on white Corner. That's, that's what they want but they're coming in for a certain reason. And again, it is where you were here. I'm okay with them stating the obvious because I'm gonna fuck his faith, the obvious because that's why your ear, you know what I'm saying, they want to
hear that she. And I like saying that shit your white ass is only coming around because you want to be around. Black king, huh? Tell the truth. Oh my God, laughs. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like no make that shit. No, I definitely see what you're meaning on that because again, they did come there for a specific reason. My thing is, is also is Shay's does, is it a form of toxic masculinity, especially when white main approach black women, or any woman of color in general
Wayne? It's no longer seen as they're just a person. It's their fetishizing. And again this seems to be like an ongoing theme as I'm realizing these past couple of episodes of ear play. Talking about sexual fetishization, especially in the
world of cuckolding. Because again, that's what we're presented with the facts, you know, speaking to black men, like yourself who are either the bull or the cuff or both and then talking about the women who might be involved, whether it be white women, black women, Latina women, Asian women. All those things, you know, again, is it a form of toxic masculinity, Wayne they State what they want? Or is it just something that's tolerated?
Or maybe I'm just confused by the the whole idea itself because to me it comes off a little toxic. If you're talking about your goals and it's no longer reduced to the woman at Han it only solely due to the fact that she's a woman of color. All right, well, let me ask you this. You've heard women talk and say the different things that they want to happen at a particular night. How they want that to look how they want to get stroked out. How did want to get slutted out?
If I talk about it all the time? I don't think we want true equality. I don't think we want that as men. We have to have a responsibility accountability that type of thing, part of all the Earth is going to fall to. She, we have to like I think I think that was in a Godfather movie men and women could do whatever the fuck they want. It's men. Who look, look, I got to go. I got to go be out there on the oil rig to make sure they've got oil for the rest of the country.
I got to make sure that the power grid is working all this stuff or whatever. Like all I'm saying is fam, like, it's a big responsibility. It's a lot of really considering this Like, it's not going to stop. Hmm. Oh, you're okay. Or can it stop? Or do you think that we are just so far gone off to making things?
Self-righteous because again, I'm only stirring the pot because it has been a constant thing that I've been seeing a repeated pattern because you know, just as much as civil rights, are taking a turn right now. We do have to think about our own civil rights in the bedroom as well. To, you know, they try to say that sex and politics. Mix. But I think they absolutely do with cases like this, you know, definitely what we think about like this.
Oh, what did I say everything is about sex except sex? Sex is about power, right? Hmm. Okay, go ahead. No, I'm agreeing. I'm saying. Yeah, it's true with fetish. Fetish is actually, again, stating the obvious. Like, okay, I'm going to dominate you in this. This area BDSM just depending on which area you're going. And so it's like again, like there's nothing wrong with a woman saying, I want to have this experience and we don't
call it toxic. Hmm, we call this hot see, that's what the fuck she wants and just to speak about objectivity. Again, I'm looking to empathize with women. Okay. But since Antiquity, women have been and we talked about it in the beginning, guys, only get Access to to get the benefits to win. For the most part, we ready to be out in the wilderness and we're not brushing our teeth. We are at me, like whatever you think with me.
So it's like, okay, with that being said, it's, uh, let's go do a body like, like, women want something and it's not going to change men, want something? And it's not going to change. However, How is said to a woman? I can say these are be said or certain way. I'm not a cobbler to women. I'm not gonna call you. I'll I'm gonna tell you something. Truthful in a player type way, but I'm not going to like lie to you, then I'm not gonna give it to you to where you can't digest it.
But it's just like, women have desires. They want certain things. So do men, do, and we just have to kind of learn how to communicate to each other because like babe, I'm objectified. Every time I step outside the door, I know that for my buddy. For My Success, what? I'm driving the whole night. Now, some women may feel like Maybe that shouldn't happen to whatever is going on, to make them feel a certain way to make them feel like they are objectified.
But it's like I don't want to say that's the way of the world but it's just like All right, so let's say like this, when they come into this world already have it, there value, whatever you are is whatever you are, you can work out, you can better yourself, whatever. Whereas men I got to go and get this money. I gotta make myself good. I gotta get to the a nice status to attract a woman. Let me say it like that. So attractive woman women don't like like babe. You could be working in RVs.
If I do think you fly enough, he got the money and you like him vice versa, you go, you are today. It's not gonna happen on. Opposite way. If a millionaire woman comes in our B's and C's, a cool dude at the register. Oh, so she don't take him home. This is Chic. She might. Yeah. In the boing, I see what that is. Yeah.
And then on top of that, you know, flip the script because I was just watching a documentary series wrap caviar on Hulu and they were doing a segment on pussy rap, talking about the city girls in particular, okay? All right. Yeah. I call it femdom rap, like Fair female domination wrap, it is femdom wrap pussy, Rob, whatever you want to fucking call it, you know, right. They definitely have Society, you know, they had little Kim
sweetie. All, you know, the female rappers Rhapsody talking about this and you know, the fact that city girls kind of put the map on pussy rap of this day and age. You know, cardi B yes has her dues to but when city girls came out it was a whole Whole different vibe and even the hip-hop Moguls of this Earth Jermaine Dupree. Even say I don't want to hear strippers talking about sex. I'm tired of these women talking
about their good. Coochie, if you got to talk about good coochie and having, you know, good pussy, chances are the pussy is trash and I'm like no, fuck you. That's a double standard because I have to hear, you know, the men's lyrics talking about how many bitches they fucked.
Yeah, I got to hear about your dick all the time, how your dick be plummeting and all this, you know, fucking hose and all this again, that's not my mind say but it's like why can't a woman freely talk about sex without being labeled a fucking ho? Yes, I could be a self-proclaimed ho if I want to, okay? But I can't be, you can't just put me in a category because I'm talking about my pussy.
So much. Let that be said, I can't walk around and call you a fuck-boy for every time you Talk about your motherfucking dick because that's what the fuk Boi de is you talk about your fucking dick but how dare we disrespect the Kings? How dare we disrespect Kings? We're talking about their pussy. I mean for talking about their dick game, but how dare me as a fucking ho talk about my pussy game. You know what I mean? That's the double standard yet. The double standard.
Oh my gosh. It's amazing. Like it is when you sit back and look at it, it's like, okay. Wow. Like this is okay for what? Go, but it ain't okay. Okay, exactly. And then he even broke it down by class. If a white woman talks about her pussy, she's not technically a ho, she might be classified as a porn star, or she might be, you know, an escort. But if a black woman, does it? Oh hell. We are every derogatory name to man on top of porn star HUD see Heathen, you know?
Oh broke bitch. All this happened shit. So it It all comes into play with toxic masculinity because women can be fucking toxic to two other women. We got toxic women in the fucking government right now, but are we talking about it? Fuck, no, we're not. Fuck, no, we're not. And and it's not really my place you know like we try to keep things separate but I have for women and the things that be going on how do you like that means show Sis's like she's not she's not for you.
Wow you know what I'm say, I'll be established. I can't get into it. It's amazing And it's like, okay the women that are intuitive the women that that pay attention those women they can relate to each other. They can hang out nothing and it's a small group of very smart. These other women are just like yeah and they're dead. Weight drinking the Kool-Aid.
They think they will sell you out for minute for anything and it's just like why I'm saying why for what reason because I mean, think about it. Those women would rather have voted for Trump. There's somebody who has a uterus, like, you or I don't know how to say her biological, but you get, she's a woman like you, and you about to go with this mofo and knowing all the stuff you did to women like you,
you cool with that. So it's just Everybody would hope that some people would try to be on the team and be down, but it's like, bam can stay out of there. It does suck, it does suck. Let's get into King Behavior because, you know, especially in the black community. Whenever we hear main women, referred to Kings, we're like a holdup, is this hotep? Yeah, sure. You know, and hotel in hotel for the folks that don't know. I did my little research, okay, because I had to, because
Talking about whole tip culture. Some people bring it back to that one specific episode in insecure. I think it was like season 2 or 3 and Molly basically flat all set. I'm there's no way in fuck I'm dating. Another hotep. Get rid of the hotel now in the Afrocentric circles. Okay hotep is and still like why is it still is? It's basically meaning I come in peace. All right, that's that's the original phrasing. All right, it gets traced back to ancient Egypt and again,
yeah, to be right and hotel. Yeah, to be to be at rest to be satisfied to be content. That's what hotep means. So where, in the fuck did I come in? Peace, come into fuck-boy. Yeah, toxic masculinity. There it is, they can fuck it up but yeah but Your question about about that kick behavioral, because I want to, I want to. So, where does the line be cross between a man who classifies himself as Hotel versus a man who was a king?
Because, for me, personally, I'd be like anybody who addresses themselves as King was a whole time, but then I start, then I meet you and Dom who both refer to themselves as king. I mean, fair. Oh for Christ's sake, the name Pharaoh means king. Okay. Okay, so I need y'all and it's like wow wait a second you're not calling me Queen every 5 minutes because you know my fucking name you're not trying to press your penis on to me
because you have respect. So maybe the fact is hotel and King, two different separate things. You didn't just come in peace. You came in with royal fucking Behavior, you came in like a fucking gentleman. So where do we change the narrative in the Black Culture with hotel pan? King ism. All right. So as we said at the top for, as I said, in the top, I have a responsibility as to what I am to take the standard for me as a man. I'm tasked with creating safe environments because by Iron Man
Is it safe? Don't know. Woman want to be around that. I can't have no babies. I can't do nothing if the if I don't fixate to the environment, a peaceful surrounding a safe space, right? So that is so by doing Doing that. I have to have some things in place. I need to be disciplined in with my mind, with my body, with my money, with my spirit, all of that, all that has to be right?
Because the minute you sent some of that shit, ain't right as a woman like when you since there's insecurity or whatever that makes you act a certain way, then that's gonna make me. It's a chain reaction type thing. So, with that being said, like, I have responsibilities because if a woman sees a black man and to don't know him from Adam and I've given her a good experience, she will more than likely think that she's going to get another experience from a
black now, right? But if she had a bad experience before she met me and I need her, she's going to automatically assume you're on especially if she hasn't done the work to fix the hurt or whatever. I like clean up to a certain degree, you want to be and that's what's kind of going on. In our integral interpersonal relationships, you know, everybody was saying, who are you? Well, somebody has hurt,
everybody men and women. They've hurt themselves on the inside and, you know, you're never supposed to come into a relationship with past her. Hmm, you know what I mean? All of this anything from the past as - we're supposed to clean slate, the end that person is out there to complete you/your coming into their relationship as a complete person. So you're not coming in there with lack scarcity, fear, none of that shit. This wasn't coming into it like that.
That. So I think a lot of us are coming into it at that it did we have all kind of insecurities with in a relationship. So that's why we have all of these issues and shit. And that's why it's to the point that good relationships are such a foreign going to lose weight y'all together. Wait, y'all still got the way y'all got that. It's like, oh yeah, like newsflash humans weren't meant to be alone.
That this experience is so much better as a human when you got somebody or somebodies your own, I'm saying that you have a genuine connection with period. I keep saying this. You know, even though they're saying right now, the covid is the days of covid are over, okay? One lesson that we have to take from it from being in quarantine is the fact that a lot of people started realizing how lonely they were in. Physical touch is taken away from them. Why are you so angry all the
time? When's the last time, someone hugged? You. And the fact of the matter is it's like sex. X can also be seen as therapeutic because you are giving your body to someone else. And I think we tend to forget, we tend to forget a lot about human touch in sexual relations but I like to have sex with intention now because that feels good to the soul. Before I get I use sex and I was like it's recreational but now
it's like sex with their tasty. Yeah sex with him tension now oh my God this sex is not for everybody. It's not for everybody. You are who you are. My love. Well let me ask you this. Well, let me propose this to you. Yeah, your driest least attention-getting day like like wherever that day was I know you can't fathom that because, you know, whatever but whatever that day is, because we bring it, you know, all time and whatever type of masculinity and explaining
things. Those that day when You got your lowest amount of attention, DM's, whatever. The fuck there are some guys. Most guys, they don't even get that when it comes to attention. I want you I want to impart that important like men don't get unless they're a guy that has set himself apart. Take my gun to work and good to go. And even those guys don't get the attention that I average water would get. But anyway, the average and below average, guys. Oh my God, they to In toxic masculinity.
Why? He liked and mid need to have sex. It's like how you said you need that attention. And like, like men biologically need to put their dick. In the hole, they need to calculate. They need to historically. Historically speaking like only only what 40% of men have been able to reproduce so the other 60% have never been able to. And again we talked about hypergamy, women are going to choose the best man with the best. Geez. The best situation, the best all
of that. So they can impart that to their kids. So if you're do this, not doing shit, you ain't got nothing going on or whatever, you're not permitted to go to pussy heavy it's not happening. Right? So Dude, it's very important that you as a man and you know, life has kind of changed but it's still the same. Like back in the day had to be a strongest so he can go out and go kill this.
Mastodon killed this, whatever to bring the food back to the which college life is kind of changed in the sense that you know women are more so in the workforce but I'll be God, damned women. Still want that bread when I don't care if she's one of the women that has 12 degrees or whatever. That woman want to sit on her ass. Really, she don't want to have
to work. Are you talking about like we always had interaction that we could interact but the moment that's taken away and I was like oh I want to do it. So you know when you have these things to where women can't get the guy that they really want because look attention all day long all day everyday whatever. But it's the guy that wrote back that you really want a he wants you and he wants to have a life with you. You can get anybody to fuck you
too. Anybody wants to fuck you but that That's not really an option. A Woman's belt. That's nothing. Can you get a guy that's gonna hold you down and take care of your motherfucking ass for the rest of your life and really fuck with you forever? Every woman, can't say that mathematically every woman, can't say that we think about it mathematically. There's only a certain amount of everyone to go black. We can leave us narrow it down, just only a certain amount of black me.
There's only a certain amount of matte black men that got the money. They got only a certain amount of black men that's gonna like you because some dude is gay. A certain amount of black dudes, that's got the buddy likes you. All these other things. It's like two percent of guys. So now you got to share a guy mathematically. And there's also women to the same way. It's like, it's hard to find connection with just anybody. In general, it's hard. People are afraid to be
vulnerable. Okay. Yeah. Vulnerability is a very hard thing to come by. Add everything else, you know, especially for a woman like me, some people are not going to be down with the fact that I'm queer or that I'm Polly. Amorous. And I, if you want to get in relationships with me, you have to remember the fact that there are others before you, you know, I don't like to put hierarchy as a thing but there are things such as I have. A relationship deep relationships with two other
individuals. And my time I available time is going to go to them first, you know? So there's so many different vulnerabilities. Also like hurt feelings like I do and it's not a bad thing to have standards. I think people, you know, think that be having standards or, like, leveling up is being bougie and I'm like, no, it's called you're sick of the bullshit. You sick of bullshit. Sometimes we in order to level up, you got to stop making the
same fucking mistake. That's the Saturday right to do the same thing over and over again. I hope for a different outcome. That's Insanity in every sense, there were, and is also a thing of okay, we talked about hypergamy, women are going to want what they want. They want the best . Now, what does she can get that or not? That's all her example to say. And we say she's like okay, you don't want what you want but reality is reality. You know what I'm saying?
You go get, whatever is whatever you actually work for whatever you did to work for and that type of thing, you can wear whatever you want, and don't be bitter and nobody else because you didn't get what you didn't work for. You know what I mean? Facts. Facts is facts now as we're drawing a close to time.
I didn't forget that. Yeah, first of all, I have to say all of this that you're saying, I love how everything has gone hand-in-hand, the toxic Max's, your masculinity, the behavior, but let's talk about penetration of the mine. Okay, but let's bring it back to that because again, it's a factor of being vulnerable is if you He ain't, it's not mine games. I want people to understand that, you know, penetration of the mind, is not a mind game,
okay? If I can't connect with you on a intellectual level, with the fuck, am I doing here? Sometimes even if it's just Mindless sex, okay, even if it's just like a hit it and quit, it kind of moment. I still want my mind being penetrated first because if I can't have a decent conversation with you, If I can't get a little deep with you, what makes you think, I want you to could be deep inside of me. I don't care if you're a man woman transgendered, I don't care who the fuck you are.
What I care about is, how are you going to penetrate my mind and then to penetrate my body? So, so that comes from an initial respect for the person that you're going to be sharing energy with, to actually want to know where they're coming from. Like, you know, we get this question all the time. Well, you know, how do you know if you're dealing with a couple because I always say, oh whatever they just see you as BBC. And right now I'm having a
conversation with the mofos. Do they actually regard me as a human being? I could tell her off the bed I'm not going to fuck them if I feel like that's so it the screening process the vetting process you know just like you're saying like if we don't connect you had dick and pussy situation but it's like I know for me again, I'm a man, right? I know that when I interact with a woman even even on a porn set.
Hmm, if I conversation with that woman before, maybe make her laugh, Relate with her, that scene is going to be 10 times better back then. If I die, you Autumn sex facts. And let's not get it twisted either. Because I think some people are actually scared when you connect with somebody like that and then you have sex with them and it's like, oh, fuck, not only am I right?
Am I falling in love with them? And it's like, no, it's the fact that you just got penetrated on a different level other than sex, it's not just the physicality of sex. You actually let somebody else. In and it made it feel good because again, sex with a connection. It's does not. Like, we need to. We need to stop thinking that sex and making a connection with somebody automatically means like, okay, we got to marry them. No, you can have. Yeah, it's Just Energy that's being exchanged.
That's good energy. That's a good connection. And I rather have that than trashed dick or pussy or trash toy game because the person didn't an intellectually tap-in and like, look me in their eyes when were fucking Yeah, that shit is weird. That shit is weird. And then to. So there's the creek are I'm, we're talking to make sure that we're on the same level during it. We're having some type of exchange you good. I'm good. That just like, are you like I'm a staunch proponent for have it
after crap that just a regular. Fuck session. How are you? Are you good? You know I'm saying we had a nice little moment, you know, understand are you feeling any type of way anything you want to talk about now? Talk about toxic masculinity at the whole thing or whatever. Like I really With the climate of everything right now. And again, most of the most of my dealings, most of my play situations are in lifestyle things. So, I don't really deal with
vanilla when they like that. But let's say I was, let's say I was up for the little guy. It will probably be real smart. And again, she could say anything after the fact, but at least you put forth the effort to say, after you have a session, how you feel that, what's up? And maybe and again, I know that, you know, a chick could say anything she could do anything at the she can even lie to you to your face. Oh great. And then go run down to interpreting this a supposed to
happen. That's what the hell person. I guess you could do whatever. But at least you're like, you know, let's say it was a group situation, you know, I'm thinking of, I'm thinking about that Tennessee cop, you know, that got caught that woman, copper, whatever superiors and all the other stuff, right? They had done it right? Okay. Hey How are you trying to feel? Because you know, the husband knows about this your to already anyway. So why not have conversations?
Talk about it, don't do it on the job. I'm paying taxes for it. Hello. Hello style. Kind of avoid embarrassment. This, I don't want you to be dead, get all the ten thousand dollars to dance at a local strip club just because we couldn't keep this thing under wraps. You know what? I need safe space. If you catch my drift. No, I 1000%. And I think that couples need to realize this too, because again, if you are in a relationship, okay?
Whether it's polyamorous monogamous open, you're in a relationship, okay? And it's a 2-way 3-way 4-way, however, situation and maybe because I'm not trying to generalize this to monogamous folks, but I hear a lot. A lot of this especially from the cooking world lately, okay? On the motor space that I you know, I'm hearing more one-sided. Oh my wife will be okay, even if I spring it on her. No, never spring.
Please stop springing group sex or settings or bringing in random main thinking your lady that night wants to be put in a cup situation. And I'm glad that you reacted that way because I had to sit somebody straight on the Recently, they shut down their room because they probably didn't, like, what they were hearing. But I'm like, listen fool. Like you cannot say, oh, I'm gonna have a dude in the closet. Watch me.
Fuck you and be okay with it. Oh, I'm not going to be safe as a woman, and especially if like, again, if this is a partnership, I don't care here, my husband, my boyfriend, my girlfriend, there's no way in fuck if I'm connected to you. You that you're ever gonna spring up any group like situation? I have to be in the mind space. Okay, give me at least a heads up to be like, oh, by the way,
on Saturday? How would you feel if we just sporadically, have a three-way with somebody or I have home in the closet and you act like they're not there because they want to get off to that? I you know what I mean? You know, one more time I think that was mold but I talk about the the unsafety. This is so unsafe for a black man to even do a session with and a lot of people I've never
thought about this. I was like look man and that's why it's so important to have the conversation with them and of course they can still live with it but at least you you won't be fucking no races. Don't know KKK motherfuckers that's just trying to set you up like hello. So it's like okay. Let's say like the scenario. You saying the husband wants to do they call it the blindfold right? When they try to blindfold, they're white and then, you know, some or husband, you know,
the wife, they swing. And it's just a black dick in her mouth. Just like so many cups have that fantasy or whatever. And it's like, okay, let's hash that out. Like we could we could pretend like it's a fucking thing or whatever. Maybe tell you why. Hey, we may do something maybe
this. Squeaking as she said has a heads up but still let's say that shit happens at, she's not down with you, she makes us think about it, you're at a hotel or whatever the hell that the police got to get called the only person that's gonna get fucked up. Potentially is that black dude that you brought in there? You know what I mean? Not even the husband because she'll be like, oh, when he was just trying to do whatever, but that black dudes gonna get a charge.
So it's just like know everything consensual everybody to know everything that's going on and even in the middle I'm like, hey, that's still good. We sell. All right. Yes. Because no, I'm glad you brought that up.
Because again I feel like that is a thing that people need to take in consideration because a lot of cooks, you know, want this fantasy of, you know, their wives, their girlfriends being fucked by black Mane. But also, you got his happen with the fact that these are scenarios that can and will happen. you know, and even just in a, if we take one part, I'm sorry for the most part, the Cubs are going to be the guys, they're going to get that in a partnership.
They're going to be the person who introduced it to their wives, but whenever I'm doing this, I'm happy. Please believe I'm having a conversation with the wife over and over and over again to make sure that she's down like because I know that the husband wants it and that's fine, baby. But do you want it? My girl, do you actually want this like look your husband off to the side here, not here. Do you wanna have sex with a black guy? And if she gives me any type of went Done.
Yes. Oh no. No. You don't have to do this at all. In fact, I don't want you to do it until you really want to do. Like, don't go do it. It's off. Don't worry. Exactly. And I'm glad that you bring that up because again, it is a, pat of fact, of a mindfuck to because men will manipulate their women into doing things, that is not sexual, you know, even vice versa women will sometimes pressure the man to be like I need you to be okay with the fact that I want to have sex.
With another man and maybe have you walked? That's a mindfuck to because, okay, in his mind, he's like, well, she loves me and I want to provide for her but I'm giving her something. I can't provide. And even the man might see, vice versa like I want to give her something that she's never had, has expressed to it. But no matter how many times we express things expressing things and actually going through with things are two different things and that's why it is so vital to check-in.
Like you said with the partners before during and after that, my worst fear, my worst fear and I want to illustrate it for you you gotta cook in the Cub chair, right? Me. And his wife are in the bed, my back is to him because he's in a co-chair. I'm about to insert and he has this click out woman like what the fuck am I doing them all pandemonium breaks. That is that, that is that it's more likely to happen than that. I can't really be a true. So it's like, I put my life on
the line. You put your life on the line every fight. This is not know nothing. You want to just play with Sharon energy, like no, you want to make sure sure, sure sure, sure, sure that who you're dealing with and still, you never know, you could only be a 99% sure, because anything can happen. But it's just like This is what we're dealing with and that's why these motherfuckers got to pee. That's why I said luxury, that's why.
It's like, like know, if I'm going to spend my energy my time with you cuz I'm not gonna get it back. Mmm, ever money back, but I can't get this time back. So if I'm gonna do it, you're gonna pay top dollar. That's why I said loves you. Facts facts man. So, how often would you say you know, because we didn't tap into your side of the business and could you you seem like you you are o DD on demand deck, okay? Or should I say oh a lady coping
appointment? Dick only appointment dick if people want to book this Is Dick, how do they go about to book the dick? Well, it's a they comes the variety and how you want to do it, whatever be like.
Right now I'm really getting into this this hugging and cuddling now like, it's like no sex, like my eyes really want me to come over like sleep in the bed with them husband sleeps on the floor and they pay me just to cuddle them like they just want to feel Man Bones like collarbones on a back like that. That's a new thing for me. But anyway so I A website of your, I think I'll put my link Tree on there so they can get to
be that way or whatever. But I'm here to provide a certain experience that is very rare and it's like I have an understanding of nuance. I have an understanding of relationship Dynamics and you don't have to wonder, you don't have to wish you don't have to only see it in videos whatever it's actually here. You know what I mean? Mmm, I love that what's coming up for you so people can start to I follow you get in touch with you.
All right? So what's ongoing is I have a condo in South Florida, where I do sessions Cooks, can come by be made, I trained bunnies. I even have this kingmaker program where I talked to Kings and make them better. As far as how to, you know, demonstrate their kingliness that type of thing. I have a condo. So I do like weekly events. There some free events so much as it's tough and on, let me see this weekend coming up.
I'll be in Orlando for this three-day mansion party that people that's coming in from all over the world. This is on the the weekend of the 28th correct. Correct. That's what we cannot 28. A big three-day party in Orlando. You know, this girl. Very eyes.
I put some videos and things ever but that is you have the online version, you have the online community and then you have the in-person community and in order for you to move to the in-person community, it's a vetting process, you know, to make sure that you're good. But you also need to have these interpersonal skills to. You can be a superstar online. But that you give any person people like, well, like a person. Right.
So process is we do it here? So that's on this, not this weekend, but the next to 28, and N on Cinco de Mayo. I have another house party that's just going to be for two days over the weekend. Very nice. Look at you. Mr. Kargh Matchmaker. I love it. Babe, I'm actually whatever think that this is a fantasy and I make the fantasy reality, I don't want to ever make it seem like you can't reach out and touch it. You got to spend something for it is not free. You gotta sacrifice for it, but
it is here. You can't even touch you. You see? I swear, I wish y'all can see He just did, he just basically give me the Suave the week ago. So I like let me just lick my lips and just deep into your soul. Stop it. Not him for rusyn, his aunt. Yes. Okay. Like I said, it's a rare thing. It's a rare thing to make sapphire blush. So good job, that's a good thing. Oh my goodness. Well again, where can they get in touch with you on Instagram and Twitter?
Okay so Instagram you can hit me at Cup match maker one. Twitter. I'm also cut Matchmaker you can't be there. I'm sure it's a prize going to figure out my links and things so y'all see me. Yeah babe everything. Oh dear. Essential service.com, you get your cup, matchmaking events, even got clothing on, that Sapphire got some gear for you on the way, don't trip? Oh, sure. Yay, it's all good because the whole thing is a lifestyle.
So situation you come down, the south Florida, we can give you the experience to. So bring that ass, I would love to bring my ass to Miami honey. This ass needs to get a little bit more tan. So yes, compete. ASAP you coming? Those headlines. I'm within. I'm with it. Right. Well, earbuds, you guys are in for a treat because next week things are gonna get a little
furry. Yes. For the monsters who know Barry is one of the first furries that we had on the monat and he's a black furry, if that's what we're gonna get into it, talking about black furry, do you said Yes, black Freedom, that's where it's going to be at next week. So be on the lookout for that episode coming on April 30th with that said you know where to reach me at Miz radio Sapphire.
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