Warning, the following program is not for the weak hearted, those who are close minded or in general you're scared to learn what's behind closed doors. Here at Sapphires Airplay. I want you to pour the wine, grab somebody that you want to hold on to, or better yet, get the vibration stimulated through your body. Get ready for one hell of an orgasm in 54321. What is up all my sexy motherfuckers out there in Radioland. It's your girl Sapphire, and it is Urban X week here in LA.
Let me just say this right now, people are flocking to LA. Titties out, boobies out, just everything. The people are coming to the Urban X. And I am with the Hostess of the Urban X 2025 this year and she's also nominated in three different categories, Most popular MILF Content creator of the year and Hottest Ink star except the Batty herself. And I heard she does a lot of shit talking. So y'all, you know, I like when they talk that shit, you know I love it.
So I got to bring out the rowdy frat boys to introduce my guest of honor, Miss Ebony Mystique. Oh my God. Sapphire. Yeah. Miss Nagin. Thank you. That was like I love. It when you call me miss. Nagin in the whole wide world Girl clock, that team. Thank you so much. I'm super excited and honored to be here very rest of this week. Urban X 2025. It's going to be a movie, so thank you for having me.
Girl, anytime it was a pleasure, I it was like I almost had to call your publicist who is a mutual friend. And I was like, oh, I got Miss Evan like, OK, we can do this all right. And I've heard so much about you. I've been wanting to meet you the first time I've seen you step on the scene. And I have to say your journey is quite unique. And I love how just unfiltered in any conversation I've seen you in, you're just very just you're cool, you're relaxed.
You have and it's like, I don't give a fuck attitude and I love that, but also you just have this like this look, now everybody's wondering, wow, Sapphire, why aren't you having Ebony on the camera this time? This is audio only only because the Queen needs her rest. The Queen needs her rest. I know what it is. I am literally in a bonnet right now. I do not have my Ebony. I'm I think, I think I'm still illuminating.
I'm glowing here, but I'm literally off a flight delayed flight from Jamaica to Miami and I had to make sure I get here for the Miss sapphire to miss making sapphire today. So that was my only goal of my morning late afternoon. So I'm here, but that y'all y'all gonna have to wait for the look. I look like some odd baby mother right now. Listen, and I know there's a lot of people that are like, I wish you was my baby Mama because listen, not everybody can pull off the bonnet.
Look, OK, let let's keep it all the way. 100 When the bonnet comes on, that's when all the shit stops. I don't know if that's for you. You know, Ebony, if I have somebody over and they see the bonnet on, I ain't fucking, I'm going to sleep. I'm going to sleep. I mean, I'm sleeping bonnet head. Relax. Yes, it really is so Ebony.
Like I said, you've had such a unique journey and a lot of people, if you know, unless they're living under a Rock, You had first began as a nurse, then into the only fans content. You've also have some ties with the hip hop world, which I definitely want to, you know, dive into that too. But like, how does one go from saving lives, you know, with their hands if you will, to saving lives with their whole body? Well, I mean, it wasn't, it wasn't a fun kind of perfect timing situation.
I feel like for me, I had done the scene for Pinky Triple X. That was my first scene for Pinky Triple X. She booked me for two scenes and it was very viral and I wasn't exactly ready for that at that moment. So we kind of took it down and it wasn't working out as far as just taking it down and letting it go because people was like
where's the girl? So by the time that had came by, well, when we when we had did the two scenes before she we shot, she had told me she, you know, I think you should it's going to do this. I'm going to manage you. And I think she did it on the fans. I don't know what on the fans was. Wow. So here's the gag with the whole this is something I only think I've ever said before. As far as how the financial transition came.
That's another viral thing. We could see in minutes the how how the progression I believe is, but also financially and how big this had got. So it was a good time. COVID had came, I was in, I was a nurse, I already owed. There were two scenes. She paid me very well. She started me the only fans. I never checked the only fans because at that time she was running it wasn't even thinking about it. And then COVID happened and I was a nurse. I was a advice nurse.
So which means I'm not in the hospital with hands on patients here. I'm taking calls over the phone and of course with the epidemic, you go home, you can talk on the phone at home for the patient, but I was just newly in that position. So I didn't have seniority. So once corona came, I was only going to get like the maximum unemployment every week. My bills was like what 10 KA month already that wasn't going to work. So I I caught this we again after we went to this back and
forth about take the scene down. We want the scene. The fans want you like I need you back. I'm not ready. Not just caught in like, yo, we bought that to be in the house. This is before the whole world. You know, I'm a frontliner. So we get all the information first. It was called Corona at first, remember before COVID. And not only knew because I have an I have an admiration for nurses. Not to cut you off. My mom was a nurse and retired shortly after COVID so I can only imagine.
So I remember like that January, February, that transition and she's like, shit's going down. She's going to hang out. Yeah, in the way it just happened because first it's like people falling about masks and like when you get these masks and what kind of masks and it's like, oh wait, we got stay home. So they had closed down, you know, we went into called quarantine things and I was like, I raised I'm about to just
do this. My main focus when I had been the other two teams and talked about it went so viral. My mom had found out very quickly. Oh oh. She got eight brothers, two of them as twins, and one of the twins doesn't want. But I was like, all right, she already know at this point and like I got to tell my mom and as a nurse, I was paying her mortgage and stuff that we bought to be in the house and my funding, my funds is going about to get weedy.
Like something's happening in the entire world that is about to affect this. Nobody could have understood what was going to happen was cold that I think nobody could have said no. Truth be told, Picky had shot me right before they shut it down. And that scene, because the first two scenes I had a mask on, but it didn't work. Anybody knows me with my tattoos. So I decided my mom no, like I think it was like, all right. This scene, though, a mask. I'm like, like, for real.
She's like, now you want to do this shit? Your Mama ready. No, So I just was like all right in that last game that that next to me, no mask. I wasn't playing. I squirted crazy. That went double time viral then the first two and I checked my only things because almost at $1,000,000 a. Million a million. It was like about 800 K Damn.
Truth be told, it was already an account that you had, but we're talking about the money that I had created on my own from that six months time from the first two scenes that you took down and came back and. And she put it on her website, Pinky Temple next. I was already viral and then moving on. Yeah. So by the time my hat was ready, it was just like Corona's here, COVID here, world shut down. This is what I felt like this what God had given me because you don't make that kind of.
I can't make that kind of money. Being a nurse, I don't even make any money. But that takes like a lot of overtime and a lot of stress and, you know, burnt out to even try to get half of that. Even as a nurse, you know, you pay taxes as a your worker. It's not your own shit. But by then I have made so much money already. And I was kind of in my tea and I didn't even know what else the world was going to look like. I was just like, fuck it, I
guess I'm Ave. to speak. And from there, it's going crazy. I, I love this story and I'm glad that you shared this with us because, you know, again, a lot of people, you know, did transition, you know, from the erotica to the only fans. And it kind of blew up. And, you know, some people are still like, well, I'm not making this. I'm not making that. But like, as a black woman, it must feel good just to know that you were able to provide and do something that you wanted.
And I don't hear enough of those stories where it's like I decided to leave my 9:00 to 5:00 not because I wanted to be a hoe, it was just I wanted to make money. Wanted to make money, wanted to feel. The funny part about it is nurses are still, you know, they're women. They still want to be like, they spend a lot of money on their scrubs and their crops. They show beautification through their stethoscope.
Yes, or. Scrubs or their Crocs or something, because they'll spend more money on the nicer scrubs, the more fitting scrubs. But it's just not an environment where you wear perfume, you put makeup on, you get your hair done, you can't have your nails done or people complimenting about how beautiful you may because that could be a sexual harassment claim or something. Doctor Dickie, be like, oh, you look beautiful today. It's just not a pretty place.
So a lot of the one female nurses, because we spend a lot of time, we become family in the hospital 12 hours, you know, shifts over time. We know each other more than I feel like our family at that point. We always have it and all the girls always talk about how that thing like they don't feel beautiful in their life and their job, you know, all they do is sleep for the work, sleep for the work off days are like, it's like living on autopilot. And that's how I lived my life for years.
Of course, it was like very honoring my people to say, oh, I have a black cousin who's a nurse, a woman. You know that it's very honorable. But. As far as a person who's doing that, you don't really get to enjoy. It's for like the family and the looks of things. I was always support. Always. You know, that just resonated with me because I'm in a transition myself right now after 15 years. I've been on radio, not just through the adult industry, though. The, the adult industry gave me
the platform period. You know, I've done hip hop radio, I've done rock radio, I've done everything. And unfortunately I lost my job in in December on some petty shade. Petty shade. Contracts, yeah, you know, and being the only the only female black full time traffic reporter. Yes, traffic reporter. And on the black station, that's a rare moment people don't understand in LA. You know, it's not like it's easy to break forth.
And it's not easy as a black woman to transition into this field and to say that you were born and raised in the city that you work in. And I got that privilege. I had that honor, yes. Well enough where they feel like our socialness isn't getting involved in the team of what you're trying to promote to the world, which is traffic. You got to be a turn type of personality too, because people
be stressed out. People are stressed out and listen, I was told even by my company, listen, I worked for I heart and they told me Sapphire, do you mind like pulling it back a little? You're a little bit too sensual for traffic. And I'm like, then I then you need to find another voice. The voices. I would love your voice Turn. I'm like, let me turn on Megan Sapphire. I'm about to cuss somebody out with this. Throw brains.
I'm listen. You know, and it's like after 15 years, I was like, listen, I have to, I got to do something for myself. So I totally get it. It's like the burnout, you know, I like to live my life on autopilot. And now it's like I want to do more, you know, I don't want people to know that I'm just like the sex talk radio host where the girl who's been in radio and and this that in the third, I want to be an intimacy coordinator. I want to help people.
I want to, you know, provide risk management. And I love that that you too. It's like you knew what you wanted to do. You had that goal and you stuck to it. And that's a rare moment, I think, in this time and day and age where it's like people are pressuring you, but it doesn't feel like people pressured you. You just went out and did the damn thing.
And I love it. Especially with the industry now with the most thing that was from my mom and my dad because that's what I was supposed to be AMD. But I quit medical school my first year residency and had enough credits of course through medical school to take the nursing board and I passed on the first shot. So that's how I earn it. It's supposed to be AMD behind my name, so the most I could do at that point because I wasn't happy. I didn't like I didn't I didn't,
I didn't. I didn't want to be that girl. I didn't want to be an indie. I didn't want that. I wanted to be more in Arizona on them carry out orders and like being nerds like my mom. My mom also is a nurse to do drug health. So it was just like looking through her. I was like, I like that to get you better and they would have to at least that I stayed in the medical field. So by the time I got to the adult industry, they already saw how responsible I was.
My decision making is horrible. I'm I'm very successful in my life. I don't pour them for nothing. That's interesting. So that my mom was more or less like, are you? It wasn't like I played tune. I never got that from my mom like. So nasty. Weird girl. It was just like, how did you mix them up with like where the fuck that shit come from? Like why she wanted to know,
like why? And like you don't understand what porn was Because if they don't know, they probably think you're just going to on a no, no, no, but like you just walked in the track or you're just selling your body. No, I'm like, no, I'm on Hollywood sets. Like this is different. You see me putting my makeup on and this isn't I got the taxes on this. It's not. At least you do. Definitely, yeah. And you definitely have this image that is none other. Again, Ebony Mystique.
If you don't know who I'm talking about, you won't find out by the end of this episode. Because again, there's this thing, this movement that you brought in. I remember when I was still working for Evil Angel and you were just stepping onto the scene. I was like, who is this chick? And OK, don't, don't do not bash me. Do not. Bash you for this, let's get it. Because I feel somebody has said this before too. I had to look and I had to Fast forward. I was like.
Is she? All woman because like you have just this strong, like Amazonian, but just like this Barbie look to you and it's nothing I've ever seen in the black porn star lineup. And again, you've been uprooted by legends like Peaky and Cherokee. Like we all know the Cherokees and you know the go go zombie AKA go go fuck me. And I just had her on the show.
So it's like you definitely had this like different look on the facial features where you are fully tatted, pierced, almost offering this like black alternative Barbie look. And I'm like, damn, who is she? So that actually was a very, very strategic move and I'm glad that people did it that way because in the beginning when people started managing, managing my career in Germany world, I wasn't feeling nothing. They were swimming. I was like, no, I don't think I
should do that. I don't think I don't want to do that. But it was just like respecting the law, respecting them as votes and respecting the fact that they really do care. Because if I was probably get any, if I would have went any other way, it could have been worse. Like from here, you got to go through the trauma of getting their back and getting your grind. I had a lot of lot of lot of lot of support at the beginning. So I'm very, very blessed, very
grateful. And yes, from the legends like from Booty Dior to Cherokee, the shit Carmen Hayes suave, it's men and women. They all really gave me like supporting the green light. So that made me also more confident, more respecting of the industry because these are people that you know, regardless of how they they retire now I know what they did back then. That's how we know who they are like they can never take nothing from like they ran that shit.
I'm talking about black porn. How white we talking about when black porn was that I'll. Thank you, You do. Honestly, it it, it surprises me that even with the Urban X Awards, even over the years, it's like, first it was something for us. Now it is branched out to OK, this is the Urban X Awards with a sprinkle of what black folks like from the white side of porn. And it's like, I don't know, we got to know we're. Going to talk about this in this show.
I'm sure we're going to talk about Urban X coming up that we got a lot to talk about. However, let me just kind of put a little burden over there. Please do please. Do it's very important for me to kind of try to bring things back to the old school porn, black porn vibe, urban X vibe. I'm pretty grateful. It's almost like a blessing that I got the mic. Thank the mic. Thank you. And they telling me, Ebony, I'm like, let's get to the teleprompters because I can't even see. I need glasses.
I ain't gonna be able to see. They like, do you? They trust me in that. So I'm super. I understand 1,000,000% of what you're saying. And it's, you know, as time change, people try to change. Look at browsers on TikTok. Now they'll pull us from set to do TikTok like it's. Crazy. Things are changing and reviving, so even with Urban X speaking with the owner, they see the change. And they also may have thought over the years that maybe they were keeping certain genres of people out.
Subconsciously. They was more worried about the black performance in picking up the black people. So it wasn't like I'm trying to be right since or count y'all. Yeah, I got a meeting, y'all got experience. Half the time we don't get nominated for the shooter win. So it was something for us, but not in that way.
Like we're segregating. And I think the fact that, you know, just big enough us, it's not segregation, it's just something too because y'all not giving it to us, so we giving it to us. It was one of those things. Can't beat them, Don't join them. We'll do it ourselves, but I think now over the years, some of the, you know, others felt like they were being counted up of urban ass and so they're trying to be a little bit more
mindful and demure. Of the way you said that, I totally get it. I totally get it. And you know, it's crazy because this is coming out of time and I don't know if you, you know, are Privy to the mainstream music news, but you know, as of right now, the BET hip Hop awards and you know, the Lady of soul awards are are done. And so it's like, like you said, having platforms for us to celebrate that excellence. It is so important.
And I don't want people to think like you said, and I'm fully with you on this, like I'm not a racist person, but it's like I like to be able to be seen in places that we normally are not seen or celebrated. That's all I ever it's. Irish Day if it's Saint Patrick's Day, yes. We ain't. Got nothing to do with that unless we do adna because we know that we got some Irish. Exactly, and I want a little bit. More Jager bombs and kill your girl. I can't probably say wearing Greg.
I'm I get it. So it's like I'm multi ethnic, you know, they see black, but they're like you're not black black and I'm not I'm mixed with a lot of things. I'm a might and I'm loving it and I love that. I love my culture. I love celebrating my culture and it's like whenever I hear this from black porn stars especially, or even just any the Latinas, all those in the indole industry, it's like damn, we can't ever have something just for us without it causing some controversy.
Let me put a little cliche on this. Yes. So working with Pinky very closely and of course, when they, when you think about people Triple X and the brand also Cherokee West Coast productions player, we have black Mexican CEO, we have black people that actually understood the assignments and not just be a talent and a worker and understand what you're saying that this is just a platform they're using their grandfather,
their network. They're not going to pay you the way maybe even you think they're going to pay you, but you know they're going to negotiate a rape, put you on a platform and blow, you know, show you to the fan, show you to the world. What you do with that is what you do with it. And if you want to stay talent, you want to stay a worker. So you just don't. But as you can see, you're on a productive set. Somebody is running this shit. Something should click in your brain.
That's so you don't just have to be a worker mentality because talent, you are a worker. You just left your last shot to come to another job and work. You don't own a damn thing. You don't own the contents. Nothing. You they pay you. That's their trick. So it it, it becomes a thing where I feel like, and I can say this because I'm a super black woman. My name is Ebony Goddess Mystique. The goddess came in it. I didn't give it to me.
They gave it to me. It's important to remember that there's a thing called economics and there's a thing called racist. There are white people that are on no list, and the biggest white companies don't ever call they white. It's white people that got trashed by their own people in the industry. They was contracted and now they don't fuck with them no more. So I feel like it's about work ethic and as I feel like it's
about professionalism. And if you take the race card out of it, you probably get further. Because if I would have thought like I was like I thought because my I'm a black, if I would have came here like, oh, I fucking that white Dick, I'm doing the show. I ain't fucking being well forever. Right. Like that then makes me the same thing I'm saying that they do. It's the, it's the kettle. It's the. Call it black.
Yes, calling the kettle black. It's like my thing is if the check going clear and if the before the check going clear, if the test accurate and it's safe for me to proceed. Other than that I don't give a fuck if that green, red, blue, orange got 2 heads, one head, I don't give a fuck. Let's just get this shit done. Let's make feel magical because for the viewers, I mean, let's fucking go.
So I, I do understand where people can feel like the racist can be racist, but I feel like that's only in your own perception of your mind because the world has racism. We're all racist in some way or like we're all we all look at each other as different. You light skin, I'm dark again. You have those conversations. Right. So I just feel like there is a thing where other cultures support each other more, they network with each other more.
They they see each other and they be like, OK, I'm white, I'm Mexican, I'm Latino, I'm Asian. We all we got, let's run this shit up black people. And it's just something that we have. It's better than us from right before slavery African time because we sold each other in the trading. Hello. Listen, I'm glad we had. Yeah, yeah. Because black people don't always want to dig each other up, so then they'd be worried about what other people don't.
But Ebony, are you in my head? Are you in my mind? Because I literally say this all the time. You got black men, not to say nobody we not well, this is not the type of conversation, but you have black people that won't work for the black people because they feel like black on black porn don't sell as as interracial, but interracial is still me being a black woman fucking a white man. It's not the other way around. It's just it's the same fucking
difference. It's a different race and we end a tangle in each other. I took the words out of my mouth because, you know, I got a little bit of a Flack. I heard through the Grapevine. I made somebody a little bit upset with my Juneteenth episode with Anna Fox and I love me some Anna. Don't we love Anna? You know, that's my bestie. That, that's wifey. That is wifey right there. That is wifey, right? There, and I understand her brain too.
You know, and it's like, I did call out exactly what you said. You know, they're the black performers that don't want to fuck with each other or they don't want to lift each other. And I did call out a certain individual, but it's like. Oh well, they'll be. I exactly. And, and it's like for me, it's like if we don't say it, if we don't talk about it, there's nothing going to happen.
Sometimes you do have to sit that person down as much as you love them or admire them and be like, hey, hello. And then it just be a box about a bunch of reread rah rah, because shout out to Anna. If you really feel like that. OK, when it starts your black ass predictions, were you just shooting black ass people put up a do a do a black ass three month dinner. Oh, don't get me started on
Black History Month, because. That's how you feel because otherwise you just hypocritical just because otherwise. Create a space for that and get my mind if that's the case and run that shit up. I agree. I agree. And I, I'm all for like, if you're going to do it and be about it, don't just do it on social media. You need to do it off when the cameras are not there. And that's what you know.
Some things had happened where one year I'm invited to a Black History Month legacy dinner for the performers and the behind the scenes and then all the sudden the next one comes and it's like, where the fuck is my invitation? What did I do? Am I not black in the industry? No, I just feel like people people like to drain you like that movie centers like vampire bats. Yes, and they want to drain and drain the idea of drain your clouds, drain your beauty, drain everything on body.
My thing is quiet cat. If that's the case, to make that just like try to move around this motherfucking that's notation, because everything don't got to be told. It's more true like this. You don't know when you get that fight, it's happening true. You know, so my thing would be like, because there's a lot of controversy about me because of course my accolades. How did you get brothers contract? How did you get Playboy? How did you get this or that or the third?
Me and my motherfucker. So I wouldn't be able to tell you. I didn't pay for it. I ain't no extra Dick. Nope. Nope, I didn't do that. I love it and. You either go on, take it or read it because I'm super confident in my brand. I didn't. I wasn't thinking about oh, I needed to be contacting the brothers. I didn't even know what the fuck that was when I got here. I knew who Pinky was. I didn't remember all these companies, so for me it was just
more of a blessing. The more gracious, more than like, if I didn't get it or they weren't looking at me, I wouldn't give a damn because I wasn't even paying attention to them. I was worrying about my fans and my mind. You are saying so many gems and first of all, talking about your fans. You have a you have some loyals out there, but it's like the fact that you just thank them first and it's like it's not
about the studios. And it's a thing that I feel in the end, just in general, if you are famous, you can't be mad at your fans all the time like you can. But you also have to remember like who brought you into this? You know, why are you still relevant? And it's because of your fans. You can do all the work, but it's your fans. It's super duper to fans that's not getting fucked up. They are the consumer. They can put $1,000,000 key for me.
We could just call high William Spike Lindberg's bitch hire Cardi B. If they ain't fucking with him, they ain't fucking. With me exactly. Like it's it's once it's out, it's out and now you can see what it do because in your mind can be like the best thing happening and and to the world. It could be lone fuck. They are your consumers, even the haters. The haters are consumers. Even if you know the people that talk shit, they clearly watching you. You didn't even know they were alive.
So they come into your comments or something. They just don't. They don't know how to express themselves. They want license clicks too. They kind of shit up too off your shit, like comment and where is shit. They want license clicks too. Everybody's trying to get on this motherfucker, right? So if you understand in that way, it understands that, OK, this is an industry. I don't really want to come to your baby birthday party. Like I don't, I don't want to
come to you. I just want to like have enough respect and you see the value in me and I see the value in you. This is a job. I think people be getting their stuff up in their minds and it really comes through their minds. They're not not my name. Nobody likes it. How come you say that when you're just on Twitter site showing that you just made $500,000 this year? Like in the fancy Like what exactly? So you don't fuck with us, man. All you care about is goddamn. Laculates.
Yeah, and it's like, again, you don't get those accolades just from nowhere. You get them from a base, a fan base, put it in that work. It's all about that work ethic. And I feel like we do sometimes in general seem to forget that in order to make money, you've got to work for IT. People don't want to work anymore. They just want that instantaneous thing, you know? For me, it's not a yeah, you can have all the numbers in the world, but if your content is shit, your content is shit.
And it is the industry racist or industries are racist who cares who gives a fuck? You ain't never done. You're not American. Where you from? Fucking shit if you're in Africa you want to see some South Africa is telling you you're not African and they're white so it's normal. It's really like where you was, how you afraid how your mind said how you feel about yourself. Like OK I'm black as fuck but it's people that clearly like my black ass.
So yes, saying and all. I'm with that, don't waste my time. Don't waste my time. It's like they, they expect you to be what they're paying for. So a lot of the times people get to a certain level in their mind, did they get lazy about it? They, they, they can't. So then shit, you can't rely on them. And then they become, I'm not just talking about black people, I'm talking about people in
general. Then it becomes like a race thing because you've got white people who feel the same way about the industry that black people do, believe it or not. They feel like, Oh yeah, why is iron? And it's interesting because it's like, I've had some of those conversations where I'm like, I would have never expected you actually feel about this type of way or you bring this certain behavior like you have this one image, but then
behind closed doors I'm like. You think they're so popping, they're so popular, they got emotion, but they're still looking at somebody else's and they might. They think I'm not, I'm still not there, I'm not good enough. I'm looking at pictures, Look at her. And that's where you get fucked up. That's like party meeting looking at Nicki Minaj, no? You know what, now that you're just bringing up these little hip hop names, we got to talk about this.
Let's do it. OK, so Ebony, I feel like I can like ask anything at this point. You can. And I feel like you and I have been in the same spaces, just never knew. But I got to ask you this diddy's shit. I knew that. Why did you know I was going to pull it up? I do, you know, listen, I do my research. I do not. I am not the podcaster that just be talking about shit just because I I am not that person. I'm going to talk my shit and I'm going to research and then
say, OK, I have let's. Do it, Let's do it, let's do. It all right, so there was a post that you had talked about in defense of Diddy and I can only just ask why and but yet after reading it a couple times, like the first time I write it was like fuck. Then I read it a couple times and I actually just revisited that post and I kind of understand where you are coming from because I have the same way about Chris Brown. And some people know the story, some people don't, and that's okay.
There's sometimes you just don't meet your heroes. You don't, you know, and you don't meet people and have these expectations. But you did say something very, very close to me where it's like, yes, I've been in the same spaces that I've never seen anything. He's never done anything personally to me. And I get that. And people don't understand that when you are in these inner sanctum, sometimes you can be right in the thick of it and something is happening, but
people don't understand. It's like especially in the hip hop crowd, house parties, clubs, phones are taken away. OK, people, sometimes your ID is taken away. OK. So there's no, there's no room for these OPS to be being like, oh, I was in. No, let me just say, do you still? Explain that pose. Yes, please. Please explain. I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm close enough. I'll say that been to a a bunch of no, no, I don't know about no people.
And that's what I was trying to say, because at that moment I had just came off my jumper. I had the doctor Drew. I had been a few broadcast and it came up and as y'all saw they were actually questioning porn stars that I know very closely and questioning them about certain situations.
However, at that moment I was I had got a phone call from my fashion PR. We're very close to Diddy and his entire family and we were talking about the twins, how they was just leaving high school and they about to go to college. And clearly I've seen them on the news at they fathers judgment all day. Yeah. And they were getting a lot of death threats. This is kind of personal. We'll talk about it. I was kind of over at this moment and we were talking about stuff personally between US.
And my thing was I just wanted to post people that that picture that I had posted somehow will come up on the blog. So yeah, like on one of these, like. Mega take out and. All that logs. Yeah. And I wanted to contest to the polls, so I posted what I was doing there. This was a normal party. I even said, your honor, I started with like, your honor, like I was being questioned. Right, like. Stolen. But it was like clarifying and I did make it.
I did. All I said was all I know is I've been through the parties and been his children there. Nothing but dancing and people with a lot of money. We're having fun hopefully and I they say to the women or the people that may have had a different situation with home. You know, God bless you like I feel for you but less before we start to talk all these things. Let the trials show his faces off because there's like he does have a family.
We're not sure exactly. What is going on and we as we now can see half of the shit they were talking about but so shenanigans he got he's in jail for him and his ex-girlfriend born in prostitution. It sounded like my life like the sex party. I ain't never drugged nobody, but what the fuck? Because we do everything like I've got a freak. Like we'll be just grown up people doing anything you do, if you don't want it, you don't take it. Like ain't nobody.
It's. All consensual response like so I've never been invited to another freak off. So I was a little bit of like, why I'm not I was. Going to say I feel like you would have another outcome if you were invited to like the freak off. Maybe. Maybe they never brought up the baby walk. They never talked about it in court. They never talked about the liquor that was supposed to be drugs. We never heard about the little kids. We didn't find out that he was gay.
Like all we know is that he's got, after all the trials and all the decorating, he went to jail for prostitute his bitch. And she was consensus, but she's not consensus with no more. It's a heavy case. It's a heavy case. And first of all, Ebony, I applaud you for not chopping my head off because I love that you just, you spoke on it and I again, I had to talk to the source. I had to talk to you because it's all about getting down to the source. And I'm glad that you won.
It's like you, you owned it. It was already own. I don't want to get some fucking pictures from me. Don't know the guys. Motherfucker, what the fuck am I doing on the Spanish blog? I don't even know what the fuck this should say in the catch but. Yeah, it's like you, you say one thing and people will just run with it. And it's like, you know, unfortunately this case is happening. It is blown the floodgates. Horrible. It's a horrible situation. I feel.
It's horrible. I feel for everybody that was involved. But at the same time, but I did find something, a lot of it was conventional. People were doing things for payday bills. They kept going back. And you know, it's just decision making. Maybe now that you grow up and transition, you'd be like, damn, what I was doing was fucked up. Like I don't like that person. And some of that shit can go through legal go. You can get some legal retribution for the shit that you've done.
But I mean, in the day, like if it's like me five years from now, we've seen before go on CNN and be like Diane Sawyer. I think she did now. But but back in the day, don't know where to get all those sorts of words in the game. Hey, bitch. That is a perfect example it No, it really is, because I think we tend to forget and we put celebrities on such a pedestal. We tend to forget that they are just people with more money and more clout.
I'm sorry it's just a person and we put celebrities on such this high pedestal sometimes even porn stars, we put them on such a high pedestal sometimes it's like hold on, people are allowed to make mistakes. You are only a shitty person if you never apologized for what you did to harm somebody. OK? Or you say I know I caused some, you know, some harm to somebody, but I don't see the justification. No, no, no, no.
You're a shit person. If you don't understand and realize that you fucked up. If you take that to your grave saying I did nothing wrong and clearly you did something wrong, you're a shit person. Which if I can't say that without anything you chopping off my head or anybody else, that is what a settlement means. I'm not going to chop your head off. I think it's true. And I ain't talking about no little, like that's a little $5000, you know what I mean? How much that Lady got?
I wish I had the numbers. She didn't take it. She wasn't. Like a lot of fuck that money, *** I'm taking you to court, fuck you. I'm fucked up in this motherfucker. I don't want it. And people don't understand that some it happens all the time settlements sometimes it's just because the evidence is inconclusive that's. Why I can't hear go and buy you a break in the five of them or six of them. Ain't nothing I can do with shit. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Either way, you really. Don't accept that apology like you if a month like to say I'm sorry I don't forgive you. It's like, I don't want that money, you know? It's a hard thing. People, like you said, we grow, we transition, we move, we grow, we elevate. But that was my thing. I was just contested to myself because shit, people don't bring me no privacy and that's cool. I understand that I'm having the things that I posted years ago
at a party. Simple piece of PrettyLittleThing to party with his son. He was in the picture, I was just at a party. There you go. That's all.
That's what that place is going. And I, I appreciate that honestly, because again, if you're going to go deep diving into shade, I don't know if you watch Love Island or have watched Love Island. OK, so you know, you know, the controversy this year talking about Love Island this season in, in the US, all of a sudden it's like everybody's past was unearthed and everybody's like, well, how dare the producers
allow this? And I'm like, at a certain point we do have to give people some grace, you guys. You have to give people some grace. I've got some something or don't go on TV period. If you don't want it to unearth, don't become a public figure, no matter how much money. Don't be this person I'm talking about because not everybody gonna like you. You don't like everybody and that's just fucking bad.
You're not for everybody or everybody not gonna like you, But if if if a hater be like you ugly black monkey bitch. I'm like you love it over here for a reason. You took your God-given time to actually type it and press or you want my ass? You watched it, you followed it, you go to it. But some people that really takes them to heart, you know, they, they have been so issues
from them kind of things. Some people may take their lives from type of bullying and shit like that, but that that, that's just like the tallest part of the whole thing. It is. And again, it brings it back to what you were saying earlier, like when you were talking about your mother finding your your work and you know, she asked you, are you OK? That's the question we don't ask
enough. That is a question we don't ask enough, especially, you know, we're black women and we are now talking about, you know, people talking about the mental Wellness of black men. But we also tend to forget the black women. Like, we're not a therapist unless if you're a licensed therapist. We are not therapist for broken men, for broken children.
We are not the therapist for every white person that feels a certain guilt because, you know, racism is put on a pedestal or whatever it is. And I think even in the adult industry, it's like we need more of those mental health services for a lot of these folks. Shout out to pineapple support. What behind bars? Free Speech Coalition Free. Speech Coalition, I mean, it's out there. I think people might be more obliged to it, but maybe there's just on the company side for them.
They need to do more promotion or whatever the case may be, but promise you that shouldn't there a lot of it is free services, a little forced and they don't you know, I used pineapple support because I didn't understand my thing at first. They came way fast, so I wouldn't understand exactly what was going on, but like it's different when it's be behind the scenes to the celebrity doing wardrobe for them.
So you're their stylist versus now being the celebrity and you can't even go to Starbucks to take a Uber anymore, you know, so that. You find? How do you personally find your piece in that? I did this to myself. It's what accepting and who's embracing the person. I'm not like I'm not mad at Ebony or being Ebony or like I don't regret her. Like I embrace it, yeah, like I do. I don't give fuck. Like my thing more or less is just appreciate the fact that it works 'cause what if I did, they
say, and nobody gave a fuck? What if my mom pulled me and she was like, I hate you. Her delivery to me kind of made me become Hawaiian and evil now because she was more like understanding being aggressive or making me feel bad about my choice. I. Gosh, again, gems, gems, gems, gems, gems that you have been dropping because again, I love the fact that you're like, I don't take, you know, anything I've done as Ebony for granted.
I love that and I love that you are standing on your business. You're sitting in your truth. And that's not something that is easy for someone like yourself. You know, you, you're exposed to the entire world in a different way than the average human being, but it's like you have just this aura, this presence. And anybody I've talked to about you, everybody has said the same thing. You, you just have this just, you're just a powerhouse. Like you really come to work.
You know what you got to do, you do it and you thrive in it. And I'm excited to see and witness this during the awards show. I mean, this is the first time you've really hosted something, right? Well, I can't wait to see you. We're going to have so much fun. Yeah, this is my first host and I've done like, you know, with the host and the next present presenting. I've done billboard but never had the money the whole. I'm excited. What do you, what can the fans
expect do? You think the fans can? Expect from you this this all. Right, guys, you're going to expect a lot of impositivity things that you're not going to expect you're going to be able to smile and dance and have fun and I want everybody to still love and appreciate it and want it even if you don't take anything home, do that girl. You're that boy. That's very important for me to illuminate, making sure that everybody feels welcomed and honored and having an amazing time.
So when they leave here, even if they didn't take this thing home, they they, they feeling good about it. They're ready to party because they see her in the building. Yes. Oh, I'm excited, Ebony. It has been a pleasure having you on this show. And of course, you can come back anytime. I'm going to say this right now. The invitation is extended. I'm excited to meet you during the award show. Don't don't send security on me, but I might bum rush you on the stage. I'm just saying hell no.
You are my face. Fuck you. Where can the public get in touch with you? Where can they get all this Ebony mystiqueness? All of it. Yeah, all my accounts are finally verified. Don't fuck with the face. There's a lot of them. Look for that blue check. Tik tokers are verified. But that's the real Ebony, Got it? Or the real Ebony Mystique onlyfans.com/ebony under score mistake. Just Google me. Just make sure do a FaceTime before you send some money. Which got to me something first.
We going to figure it out but don't. Be getting don't. If you don't see this beautiful luscious lady lady at the end responding to what you're saying, it's a fake. It's a fake. Because I love y'all, I appreciate you all y'all very much supportive and it's more to fucking the mind when nowhere I'm just being I'm. Excited to see what unfolds for the next year. I can't. I cannot wait. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I cannot. It's going to be some shit.
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And we will come back with a visual I make sure of the next they get the good. I gotcha. Yes, yes, remember y'all that safe sex is the best hot sex next time. Good night. That was the show all you sexy motherfuckers out there remember to follow at Miss Radio Sapphire and Sapphires ear play on Instagram. Want some ear gasms of the past and future? Make sure to follow on Apple Podcast, Spotify, iHeartRadio and all streaming platforms.