Episode 2: Answering Your Questions from Instagram

Welcome back to Sam's Podcast, the space where we explore the intricate world of bondage, trust, and intimacy. I’m your host, Sam Serenity, and I’m so excited to have you join me on this journey. In this episode I will answer questions I got asked on my Instagram. So lets start right away! How old are you? I'm 32 years of age Do you have any hobbys besides bondage? I love to dance a lot. Other interests are riding my motorbike and competition shooting. Last but not least I read a lot.

What is your favorite Gag? That's easy. My mouth is stuffed with panties and then PVC tape is wrapped tightly around my head multiple times. Speaking is absolutely impossible. Do you like Straightjackets? Oh yes. The feeling inside is so special. As often said, its like a big hug. You can kind of move but at the same time these movements are useless. An amazing feeling. How often do you wear cuffs?

Cuffs are a very, I would call it, normal item for me. I wear them while cleaning, cooking or doing other housework. Mostly in the evening when I lay on the couch I wear hinged cuffs while texting on my phone. In intimate moments I don't use them very often. Our kind of play mostly contains tape. What is your favorite bondage position and who long can you stay in it? Since I was introduced to mummification bondage, I absolutely love it and can't wait to get mummified again. It maybe

sounds strange because it looks so uncomfortable and extreme. Yeah, maybe it is a bit but in the same time its kind of a secure feeling and comfy. You know what I mean? I prefere to have my hands ath the side or on the chest like an ancient agyptian mummy. In this position I can last very long. My record is 5 hours but for this a bit of preperation is needed. What's the worst position you can be tied up in?

Unfortunately it is the hogtie. I love watching girls hogtied and struggling. It's soo sexy but it doesn't work with my curvy body. It only take minutes and my whole body cramps up. I have good day where I can stay 10 minutes or longer but not often. Is there a place you would love to do a bondage session and haven't done it yet? As I love Ireland for it's castle ruins, I would love to be tied up in one of them. I think it would be one hell of a

video. And in the middle of the Wicklow Mountains, laying mummified between rocks. Ohhh, I'm getting very excited at this thought. Do you still do selfbondage? I still love doing selfbondage. Maybe even more then in the beginnings of my bondage live. But I never do it completely alone. My husband has to be in the house to give me a rescue option if needed. That's necessary because me selfbondage

gets more and more secure and often inescapable. That's a moment where I have to mention: Never play without an exit strategy. Always play safe! Did you ever got stuck in selfbondage? Unfortunately yes. Not only once and that's the point I don't do it alone. My usual mistake is to turn the cuffs the wrong way and I can't reach the keyholes. One time I completely forgot to place the key on the first place.

Embarressing. There are lots of mistakes that can be done, but that's material for other episodes. What is your favorite outfit or style to be tied up in? I'm kind of classic when it comes to my bondage fashion style. So for me the secretary style is my favorite pic. A nicely taylored white blouse and a tight leather leggings. Completed by shiny black high heel pumps. What about corsets?

For me a corset is the most feminine clothing item there is. I love wearing them and I have a small... okay, medium collection with over 20 corsets. All designed by Corset Story in the UK. Absolutely amazing quality. Do you like latex? Latex is so sexy. I love to touch and wear it. Of course it gets very sweaty when you dance in it but its worth it.

Latex creates hell of a silhouette and its like everyone says. It feels like a second skin. My favorite item is my long black evening gown I worn at Kesselhaus Party 2023 in Munich, Germany. How do I get my partner into bondage? That will need a longer answer. First of all. Bondage is not for everyone and you can't convince anybody. Second of all. It has to be consensual. You can't force your partner into bondage. It would be a crime, no joke about it. This said,

let talk about some basics. You should speak about this topic. Tell your partner what you are thinking about and what you like to try. If there is an interst on the other sidem start slow. Use a scarf or the belt of your bathrobe. Tie the wrists together softly but don't fix them to the bed. There must be movement possible and kind of a secure feeling. Talk to your partner through the whole process. Kiss and caress your partner. Don't overact. For the first time

this should be enough. When you think about gags or bllindfolds be warned. Not on the start. Trust is the foundation of a healty relationship. Especially when it comes to bondage. It has to build and this takes time. So be patient! Where you ever locked in a cage? Cage play is a nice scenario. We are building one for our red room in the moment. My husband loves to lock me up when a

cage is placed at a party. I have to sit there and watch him flirting and having fun with other girls. That's so cruel. Do you visit bondage conventions? There are a few must go events in Germany. For me Boundcon in Munich is the most imortant one. So many amazing models are there and you can watch live performances. Last but not least the partys are incredible. But there are more convetions. More on that topic in a seperate episode.

Final question. Is bondage a topic which should only be talked about in private? Definitely not. That's why I started this podcast and my other social media accounts. Bondage isn't something dirty or disgusting. Its nothing mainstream but that does not make it bad. Bondage or BDSM is a lifestyle which requires passion, trust and lots of care for the playpartner. Bondage can be so beautiful, It can be even art. For me it always is. So lets talk about it and share our thoughts. Life your kinks!

Thank you Sam for answering all these questions. It was only a small selection and I'm sure there will be another episode with questions and answers in the future. Your welcome and it was an absolute pleasure to have the chance to answer all these questions. Begining with the next episode I will try to dig depper into bondage as a topic and start with explaining the common material used and the ones I use. So stay tuned and I hope you come back for the next episode.