REPRESENTATIVE - Sending in your Eddie Haskell

Chris Rock said it right, "when we meet someone for the first time, we are meeting their representative". Now America's Podcaster, Kurt Caceres, brings on a think tank of female scholars, business executives and artists, to explain their take on the representative and possible reasons for why we all perform instead of being ourselves. What would happen if we could just go on a first date and spill our guts, be 100% truthful? Would more relationships work out? Instead of jumping into bed with someone for months and then later finding out who they really are, wouldn't it be better to find out from day one? Even sending a representative into career and business, is this morally and ethically right or wrong? This is an age old question that has been the cause for broken hearts and failed relationships throughout the life of humanity.