Boarding School Trauma Bonding Sesh

Friday Content! We speak about our trials in boarding school, a lot of trauma bonding, working our way out of this and how as men we need to do the work and a lot depends on us!

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction (02:27) “You didn’t watch Naruto?” (03:51) “I would never send my children to boarding school in Nigeria” (05:26) Dele Alli (08:29) Porn experiences in boarding school (10:54) Boarding school or Prison? (15:16) We got beat for a stolen mechanical pencil (17:30) Weapons of choice in boarding school (22:33) Creating a culture of trauma (24:36) “You adapt so much to your environment that you lose your identity” (28:58) Bathroom life in boarding school (32:03) Drug Smuggler Academy (39:22) You can trace a lot of issues back to boarding school (40:07) “I was helping people cheat” (44:18) Wanting to be “cool” made me look down on other people (48:33) The idea behind boarding wasn’t bad (50:42) More prison parallels (51:25) There are better ways to tell a child that life is not easy (55:06) Four point knock (56:15) What can people learn from our trauma? (57:30) Folks are still living in a boarding school mindset (58:30) Funto checks in on audience (01:01:50) Men… (01:02:50) “Your soul is not settled” (01:03:35) Men, it depends on you! (01:06:10) That could be me if I don’t do the work (01:07:33) “The most emotional people in your lives are men” (01:10:39) Broken boys teaching children brokenness (01:12:41) “90% of our listeners are women” (01:14:33) The male culture is rotten (01:16:15) Closing encouragements (01:17:13) Your soul is tender as a man (01:18:42) Introducing GOOD THOUGHTS