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Relationships Uncomplicated

Idit Sharoni, LMFT Relationship Expert and Affair Recovery Specialistiditsharoni.com
Relationship expert Idit Sharoni, LMFT is bringing you invaluable relationship advice to help your relationship thrive. Idit is a couples therapist in Miami, Florida running Relationship experts - a successful private practice and an online Infidelity Recovery Program . She takes pride in helping people improve their relationships or heal after infidelity. This show is all about un-complicating and demystifying social messages about relationships while offering easy-to-apply tips and ideas about common relationship issues such as communication, trust, infidelity, breakups, divorce, and many more. *Not intended as a replacement for psychotherapy.
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Episodes

Episode 032: How to Answer Your Kids' Questions About Divorce

On this Episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares a unique and steadfast way to answer any question your child may have about your divorce. Alina also shares the common emotions most children feel when they find out about your divorce. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni they also discuss how to address your children age appropriately. In addition to addressing some common questions, Alina and Idit share examples aloud and explain how to affirm ...

Nov 27, 201724 min

Episode 031: Things We Wish Couples With Parenting Issues Knew

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled Things We Wish Couples With Parenting Issues Knew, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni dishes out on the 4 vital pillars of parenting to follow through with even when you're fighting and arguing with your spouse. Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they share a bit of your children's perspective and how they may view your relationship difficulties. You don't want to miss the valuable tips this episode is filled with, especially if ...

Nov 20, 201719 min

Episode 030: How to Co-Parent Effectively With Your Difficult Ex

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov dishes out on the Do's and Dont's to learn How To Co-Parent Effectively With Your Difficult Ex. Alina explains the root of the anger and frustration most parents feel when they try to reason with an ex who is difficult and not willing to be on the same page when it comes to co-parenting. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore ways to try to "keep the peace" for your children's sake. Stay tune...

Nov 13, 201723 min

Episode 029: Traits Of A Couples Therapist You Want To Stick With

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on a question that crosses some couples' minds when they leave their therapist's office. "Is this therapist right for us?" Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, Idit addresses common questions and concerns couples have when questioning if their therapist is right for them. Most importantly, they highlight attributes which will help you identify an experienced therapist who has the proper trai...

Nov 06, 201729 min

Episode 028: How To Have The Divorce Talk With Your Kids

On this episode of Relationships uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares the upside to putting off the pivotal divorce talk with your family. How To Have The Divorce Talk With Your Kids, Alina offers insight into your children's perspective when it comes to how they may take the big news. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore possible conversation topics along with expert advice on what to leave out of the conversation. Alina also shares a few pointers on ...

Oct 30, 201721 min

Episode 027: What You Can Do To Make Your Relationship Work

Those of you in long-term romantic relationships may be feeling like something is off between you and your spouse, yet you can't quite pinpoint what's going on or how you even ended up at this point. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on this often brought up issue in couples therapy. Idit also introduces a theory and guide that's based on 40 years of research to help you learn what you can do to improve your relationship and make it work. Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershon...

Oct 23, 201727 min

Episode 026: How To Stop Self-Sabotage For A Future Relationship

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discusses common self-sabotage scenarios that arise in relationships. The examples mentioned are paired with the underlying reason behind the behaviors. She hopes to spread awareness to better individuals for themselves and their future partners. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina shares possible reasons why self-sabotaging behaviors led to a breakup and what you can do differently in your next ...

Oct 16, 201729 min

Episode 025: Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #3

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on a situation many couples with infidelity issues deal with. This episode offers a freebie: The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan. After the initial phase of shock, couples try to avoid the pain and subconsciously sweep their issues under the rug in an effort to "forgive and forget." Despite efforts to do so, the elephant in the room will rear its head unless something is done. Together...

Oct 09, 201725 min

Episode 024: Things We Wish People In Miserable Relationships Knew

Do you feel like your happiness is in your partner's hands? Do you constantly go back and forth in your mind about whether you want to stay or not? Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov sheds light on why so many people fear leaving a relationship that's miserable and how more fear of not finding someone or something better perpetuates your unhappiness. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore some common factors that people in this position bring up. In addition, Alina and Idit...

Oct 02, 201729 min

Episode 023: Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov give you a sneak peek into the therapy room. Idit answers the most common question every couples therapist receives. Do you know what it is? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship, Relationships Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the 9 signs to help you assess if this may be happening in your current relationship. Stay Tuned: you don't want to miss expert tips...

Sep 25, 201734 min

Episode 022: The Difference Between Moving On And Healing

Have you tried everything you can to heal after a breakup but still feel as though you haven't been able to? Chances are you have been trying to get over your ex/move on instead of putting in the work to heal your heart. On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled The Difference Between Moving On And Healing , Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares her professional insight on what it feels like when you are ready to heal. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, this episode ...

Sep 18, 201719 min

Episode 021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1)

Do you find that whenever you tell it like it is your partner takes it the wrong way? Does your partner get defensive whenever you tell them something is wrong? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni challenges the need to be brutally hones with your partner. She also provides listeners with a recipe on how to say things in a way that has the potential to be heard and bring about a change. Tune in to learn from co-hosts Idit Sharoni and Alina Gershonov w...

Sep 04, 201723 min

Episode 020: How To Attract The Right Person

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares three areas where most people feel stuck after they've healed from a breakup and begin dating again. This episode titled How To Attract The RIGHT Person After A Breakup will help you look deeper within if you're stuck in the dating world and are having trouble attracting quality potential partners. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina reveals a takeaway tip to steer you closer to Going Forw...

Aug 28, 201719 min

Episode 019: Love Your Partner How THEY Want To Be Loved

Do you ever feel like you're trying so hard to show your partner you care, but they just aren't seeing the effort you're putting in? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explains how these common arguments appear in relationships. Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they share the basic assumption that causes most of the relationship distress discussed in this episode; both partners expect each other to be mind readers. Idit reveals easy-...

Aug 21, 201722 min

Episode 018: Can You Be Friends With your Ex?

Do you want to have a friendship with your ex? Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov asks thought-provoking questions to help you figure out the real reason why you still want to be friends. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore the differences between a true friendship and a casual, check-in friendship. On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Alina & Idit guide you with important factors to consider internally such as emotional attachment, closure, and potential ...

Aug 14, 201726 min

Episode 017: How Much Time Spent Together Is Too Much?

Ever wonder if you're spending too much time with your significant other? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address a question they received from one of their podcast listeners. Idit and Alina offer their different perspectives on this topic along with valuable indicators and advice on time spent together in a relationship, in addition to healthy ways of separating work life and home life. Don't miss out on Ali...

Aug 07, 201729 minEp. 17

Episode 016: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #2

If you are trying to piece back your relationship after it's been shattered by an affair, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated will be of help to you. This episode, called Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #2, addresses the second mistake couples make while trying to heal after infidelity. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a breakdown of questions to avoid and questions she recommends asking when confronting your partner. Together with Alina Gershonov, they explore possible ...

Jul 31, 201729 minEp. 16

Episode 015: Why We Overlook Red Flags In Relationships

Have you recently asked yourself, "How did my relationship get to this point?" If you are in a new relationship or in a committed relationship for a while and things are not going as well as you'd hoped they would in the beginning, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated could help you. Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov and Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni discuss the reasons Why We Overlook Red Flags in Relationships . One message Idit & Alina really emphasize during this episode ...

Jul 24, 201723 min

Episode 014: Is It Time For Couples Counseling?

Have you said the following words to yourself recently? "We Need Help." If so, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, "Is It Time for Couples Counseling" is one you don't want to miss. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a roadmap for the process most couples go through when they are experiencing issues in their relationship. Did you know that the average couple waits 6.7 years to see a professional? Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov hope to change this number ...

Jul 17, 201724 min

Episode 013: Why You Can't Let That One Person Go

Do you ever think about the one that got away ? Believe it or not, the reason why you can't let go has nothing to do with the person constantly on your mind and absolutely everything to do with you. If you're intrigued, then this episode is definitely for you! In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov reveals 3 things that are keeping you stuck and not allowing you to let that one person go. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they reveal both...

Jul 10, 201725 min

Episode 012: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #1

Ever wonder how to increase trust after infidelity has been revealed in a relationship? In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the first of many mistakes both partners make after their infidelity is revealed. Together with Alina Gershonov, this series of episodes, "Staying After Infidelity," will present common mistakes both the hurt partner and the betrayed partner make, how to solve the problem, and, most importantly, how to increase trust. The...

Jul 03, 201731 min

Episode 011: How To Survive Being Ghosted

If you're currently in the dating world, then you've likely heard of "being ghosted" or you have unfortunately experienced it yourself. As if ghosting isn't painful enough to deal with; icing, and simmering have plagued the dating scene even further. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address these extremely hurtful and emotionally damaging ways to part in a dating relationship. Idit and Alina address the reasons why people resort to saying nothing out of fea...

Jun 26, 201732 min

Episode 010: Why Do People Cheat?

Have you searched the internet endlessly, trying to understand why your partner cheated? If you have, then chances are you discovered misleading information and unfortunately have been misinformed. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discuss the causes of infidelity on this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, called Why Do People Cheat? Idit & Alina also address common misconceptions about infidelity; the one that comes up the most is that the betrayin...

Jun 19, 201726 min

Episode 009: Why Getting Over a Breakup Can Feel Like Drug Withdrawal

If you've recently gone through a breakup, then you may find relief in knowing that you are not the only one who feels like you're withdrawing from a drug. Believe it or not, the deep pain experienced after a split actually triggers the same part of the brain that is stimulated during drug addiction, according to a recent study at Stony Brook University. This makes sense, love is one of the most powerful addictions; if it's lost then the body enters a period of withdrawal. In this episode called...

Jun 12, 201722 min

Episode 008: Am I Crazy to Stay After My Partner Cheated

Have you asked yourself "Am I crazy to stay in this relationship after I've been cheated on?" then you're in the right place. If you haven't personally been in this situation and thought this questions about a friend or family member, then this episode will absolutely be helpful for you as well. Did you know that infidelity affects 1 in every 2.7 couples? In fact, most couples (65%-70%) stay together afterwards. In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sha...

Jun 05, 201722 min

Episode 007: Why a Breakup Could feel Worse Than a Death

Have you recently gone through a breakup? Do you feel as though you're mourning a death? It may seem like the deep emotions you're feeling are going to last forever. If so, then you are not alone. Many people can't see the light at the end of a tunnel after a breakup or a divorce. How can you see the light when what you're going through is grieving? Grieving a loss of a relationship is often compared with the same, if not more intense, feelings a person experiences when they lose a loved one. In...

May 29, 201724 min

Episode 006: How To Stop Drifting Apart

Have you felt like you and your partner are drifting apart? Does it seem like you're simply out of synch with each other? Maybe you're not getting the feeling that you're a team anymore. If this is what you've been experiencing, then it is likely that you're at risk of other marital or relationship issues that are lurking in the corner waiting to surface. This episode called 'How To Stop Drifting Apart' is divided into 2 main parts for your convenience: Part 1: A full description of how drifting...

May 22, 201723 min

Episode 005: What To Do When Your Partner Doesn't Care

Has this ever happen to you where all you were looking for is support from your spouse and all you got was a cold shoulder? Does that happen more often than not? Many couples go through this vicious cycle we call the pursuer distancer dynamic. It is when one partner (the pursuer) attempts to make a connection with his or her partner and is turned away by not getting the response hoped for. As a result, the pursuer continues attempting by making more gestures towards their partner usually more fo...

May 15, 201724 min

Episode 004: How To Heal After A Breakup

Have you recently gone through a breakup? If so, chances are you went from feeling a sense of relief all the way to experiencing painful moments that usually come in waves. Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov has come up with 5 techniques you can start applying today. In addition, she offers a tool to keep you afloat when you feel hopeless. Alina and Idit will share with you a full Game Plan for individuals who are in their first steps towards healing after a breakup. Check out the game plan and ...

May 08, 201719 min

Episode 003: How to Listen & Be Heard

Ever feel like getting through to your partner is too complicated? You don't feel heard and your partner has no clue how to make it better. You end up almost every time exactly where you started or even worse. Relationship expert Idit Sharoni along with co-host and breakup specialist Alina Gershonov Un-complicate communication rules for you. This episode is all about being an awesome listener and a great speaker in conversations with your significant other. You will find 8 easy-to-apply communic...

Apr 28, 201720 min
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