We are joined for our season finale by Lisa Elefant. Lisa is one of the founders and now full time director of AAS. ADOPTASHADCHAN is a network of over 300 shadchanim across the world who are on the forefront of making shidduchim as less stressful as possible. You can reach AAS at 718-957-2270 and check out their website: www.adoptashadchan.com! This episode is dedicated in honor of Lisa's son, Chaim Elefant z"l. See you in Season 2!
Jun 05, 2023•35 min
A fun and light-hearted conversation analyzing a Disney classic, "The Little Mermaid". ------ You can always contact me for one-on-one sessions! Till soon! https://calendly.com/raquelbetesh -------
Jun 01, 2023•17 min
We are joined by Shadchanim and Dating Coaches Danielle Aronovitz and Riselle Naimark where we discuss the biggest frustration in shidduchim: "What I Want Does Not Want Me". Danielle is a shadchan and dating coach for many years for all types of people (as well as a Speech Pathologist!). She can be reached via Whatsapp at: 5163161902. Risselle Naimark is a Professional Freelance Makeup Artist and Skincare Consultant , who has been in the beauty industry for over 30 yrs. She is a Shadchan and Dat...
May 22, 2023•1 hr 2 min
In this episode we are joined by Rivky, where we discuss navigating shidduchim while coming from a divorced home. We discuss the challenges, the questions to ask, and many other insights. Whether you come from a married home, a divorced home, are a single or a parent, there are a lot of rocks in this episode about having the awareness of the type of home you grew up and the type of home you want to build. ____________________________
May 15, 2023•46 min
We are joined by Miriam Zeitlin where we discuss expectations for the first few dates, dropping the shadchan, and getting engaged! Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all backgrounds. You can contact Miria...
May 08, 2023•47 min
We are joined by my friend Yocheved where we discuss shifting your mindset, having Emuna, and how to find strength and positivity during dating! Thank you Yocheved for coming on!!
May 02, 2023•36 min
In this episode we are joined by my cousin Shana where we discuss the importance of discussing finances during dating!
May 01, 2023•44 min
We are joined by Rebbetzin Yocheved Goldberg, the Rebbetzin of the Boca Raton Synagogue in South Florida. We discussed the role community leaders, community members, and singles can do to help singles feel connected and included in Jewish Communities. Rebbetzin Goldberg is also a shachan and kallah teacher. She can be reached at: Goldbergmom@gmail.com. -----
Apr 26, 2023•52 min
We are excited to have Dr. Yossi Ives back on the podcast, this time talking about the very important topic of Shomer Negiah. Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast! You can reach him at: www.d...
Apr 25, 2023•1 hr
We are joined today by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana where we discussed all about attraction: What is attraction? What does it feel like? How is it different than infatuation? Can it grow? How much attraction do you need to get engaged? And more! Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKah...
Apr 18, 2023•52 min
Family is family and yet....there are always triggers, specially during the holidays! Today we are discussing how to make your family time as pleasant as possible, have the right perspective, and at the same time, make time within the social setting to recharge. Chag Sameach!
Apr 04, 2023•18 min
Ten things your kallah teacher wants you to know, with a bonus #11 at the end. Whether single, engaged, or married, here are some important tips to keep in mind!
Mar 27, 2023•22 min
We are joined today by Eliyahu and Yosef, who share their thoughts and experience on dating a second time around. -How can you find out what really happened? -What are red and green flags when dating divorcees? -Is someone less ready to commit because they went through a divorce? And many more questions!! Whether you are dating the second time around or even the first, there are a lot of gems to gain from this episode!...
Mar 22, 2023•1 hr 2 min
In this episode we discuss getting clarity and closure after a break up and moving on! Dealing with the pain of letting someone go, gaining clarity on why it didn’t work, getting closure that this person was not for you, allowing you to fully closer that door, and knowing when to revisit an idea. This is part of the journey, and thought painful, can have a very significant impact!
Mar 15, 2023•30 min
This is the episode that started all the episodes, the conversation that I would have so many times that I decided to start this podcast! How can you use your feminine energy in dating and beyond? Tune it!
Mar 09, 2023•31 min
Back by popular demand, the guys are back in the zoom studio answering your questions! Thank you Noach, Yoni and Joshua for coming on and sharing your answers with us!
Mar 05, 2023•1 hr 7 min
This week we are joined by my cousin, Shana, who joined us in the second episode! We discussed some of the awkward scenarios that you sent in a few weeks ago: -Not liking your engagement bracelet -Guy turns on non-Jewish music in the car. -Job offer when you just started dating someone. -Listening to your gut! And more!
Feb 27, 2023•38 min
This week we have the girls in the studio, thank you Shira and Sara for joining us! We are answering questions from the guys and giving the female perspective on kosher flirting and shidduch dating.
Feb 21, 2023•46 min
In this episode we are joined by Joshua, Eliyahu, and Noach who were gracious to share with us their insights and also answer your questions!
Feb 14, 2023•1 hr 14 min
Listener discretion advised. DISCLAIMER: This episode is about Porn ADDICTION . There is a distinction between an addiction and something you do sporadically (that while not encouraged), you can stop and do not need professional help for. At no point am I vilifying guys and girls who struggle with being single and not having an outlet. I am not an alarmist nor do I believe that anyone who has watched Porn will automatically struggle with intimacy and marriage. There is a lot more to say on this ...
Feb 13, 2023•54 min
This episode is dedicated to parents of children in shidduchim. Let's bridge that gap between your child and yourself, and use this challenging time period to bring you even closer!
Feb 07, 2023•26 min
We are joined by Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives where we discuss "Why Do Singles Get Stuck in Dating?" Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast! You can reach him at: www.datewell.org...
Jan 31, 2023•42 min
We are are joined once again by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana, where we discuss whats, the whens, the whys, and the hows of dating coaching. Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching...
Jan 24, 2023•38 min
Jealous of your friends getting engaged? Feeling burnt out from dating? Tune in!
Jan 18, 2023•21 min
Tips and tricks for making long distance work and going the distance!
Jan 11, 2023•19 min
Join me in this real and vulnerable conversation with an amazing friend Rifky as she looks back at her own dating journey and shares "rocks" of wisdom that she has gained through the years. Rifky is a co-host of the amazing podcast #spillthetea, check it out: https://open.spotify.com/show/4sKSucFYQMm9ZsoYwoDc9x?si=doE1uufORDyjJDgLlkQlUw
Jan 08, 2023•26 min
We are back! To flirt or not to flirt? THAT is the question! A follow-up on last week's episode, responding and commenting on the feedback we got. Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching
Jan 04, 2023•30 min
We are joined by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana where we discuss how to flirt--the kosher way! Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching
Dec 30, 2022•32 min
Today we are joined by the amazing Miriam Zeitlin, where we discuss red flags (STOP!), yellows flags (hmm, maybe?) and green flags (reasons to say yes!). Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all backgrounds...
Dec 20, 2022•33 min
An important and sensitive subject on how to reveal information and how to receive it.
Dec 13, 2022•25 min