Most people seek love, validation, completion, happiness, etc from their significant others without first possessing it within self. This leads to many unnecessary problems, drama, pain, headache, heartache, chaos, etc. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Yes you read the title correcty. It happens without fail! If you don't love yourself enough to see the patterns in your life you will constantly go through the unnecessary! People treat you exactly how you allow and accept. Sadly many allow and accept things in the name of love when love has nothing to do with it. You will never understand love until you love yourself! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/suppor...
If you have something good at home that's exactly where you should be! Don't be influenced into doing the wrong thing by anyone. Love who's at home loving you and doing the right thing by you. Do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
You hear about it all of the time. People are getting into relationships and right away are allowing significant others to move in. When it doesn't work out you find it's hard to get them out of your house. Stop being so quick to move significant others into your homes. Get to know who you're with first! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Despite the reason why, you can't fix whatever the problem is with your significant other. Many people have lost a sense of self trying desperately to love someone who doesn't want to be loved. A person can't love you if they can't love self. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
This isn't meant as being egotistical. It means being aware of how you're being treated. It means being aware of what you allow and accept in your relationship. You created the monster you now have to deal with. You create the monster when you let your significant other treat you any way they want. If you take it they will dish it out! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Too many people settle for this type of relationship thinking their significant others will change. Why would they when they're allowed to do whatever they want to you? You teach people exactly how they can treat you by enabling them and making them think what they do to you is okay when it's not okay! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Your love for your significant changed when you finally realized they weren't willing to stop the shenanighans. Too many people accept and allow the shenanighans, but then they get to a point where they can't deal with them anymore. What they thought they felt for their significant other changed and they no longer feel the same. The things you see now is what you should have saw before. It is time to decide what to do next. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/rel...
Plenty of people are in very toxic and volatile relationships. The relationship is stressful and full of constant drama. It causes family, friends, and others to not want you around because of who you're with. Everyone, but you sees your life as a train wreck waiting to happen. This is an extremely unhealthy and dangerous relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Sadly most people are not. People get into relationships for all of the wrong reasons with the wrong people. However, because people want what they want they will get into relationships they shouldn't be in. There are many people who are married to people they're not evenly yoked with and people who aren't really meant for them. This is what happens when individuals chase after the flesh (desires, wants, feelings, emotions, self gratification, the superficial, etc). They ultimately end up in unh...
The title says it all! Some people still won't get it, because their focus is self gratification while their significant other's focus is the same (self gratification). Love isn't blind, people are! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
This is a very unhealthy way to think, yet it's what some people do. Blaming yourself for the actions of your significant others keeps you in unhealthy relationships. All this does is empower and enable others to do whatever they want to you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
You'll become drained and beaten down trying to make an unhappy person happy. Happiness has to start within each of us. No one can give you what you must possess within self. Many people find out the hard way people only change, because they choose to change. You can't fix, save, or change anyone other than yourself! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
When you think abuse is love it's clear you don't know what love is at all! People abuse because it's what they've grown accustom to doing. They are given permission when the person abused says and does nothing. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
People do to you what you give them permission to do. If you don't know your worth, don't expect your significant other to know it. If you don't care neither will they! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support .
Wrong choice! If you're not staying because you love who you're with and it's where you want to be; there's no other reason to stay. Many people are stuck in these types of relationships having the life zapped from them. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Most people think it's the other person when it's really self. If you choose a bad relationship it's by choice. An unhealthy relationship won't grow. If people loved self the way they want to be loved lives would greatly change. People are either preying or their the prey. Whichever it is it's by choice! A person prey on others because of what's inside. People allow themselves to be the prey because of what's inside. Your way is obviously not working, it's time to get off of the wheel. Become a ...
Spending your life stuck in the same mindset doesn't help you become the best you possible. In fact it doesn't benefit you at all. Most people spend their life chasing love in others when they haven't found it in self. It's a recipe for disaster and dysfunction. Until you find yourself you'll forever be chasing what you lack in others. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Many people settle for all types of unnecessary crap in their relationships. A liar will do just that; lie! They're also manipulators and deceivers. What you choose is exactly what you'll get. Stop expecting more when you never required it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
If you feel smothered or suffocated in your relationship it means there's a conversation you need to have with your significant other. Don't conjoin yourself to someone because you think it's how you're supposed to love. Don't allow it to happen to you because you think it's how to love. It can become overwhelming. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Plenty of people are having emotional affairs thinking they aren't affairs. Wrong! It's an affair and it's wrong! If it's an affair it's cheating! Would you want your significant other to get into this type of relationship with someone? I think not! Therefore you shouldn't do it either! Don't try to downplay it because it is what it is, an affair! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
People go through life wishing, hoping, and praying for relationships that are no good for them. Until a person has dealt with self and learn to love self, they won't be able to see the truth concerning the one they're in love with. Eyes are closed until people decide they want to see the truth. As I always say, people only treat you how you've allowed. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Anyone doing this will eventually learn happiness is short lived if it doesn't dwell within first. Happiness, love, peace, etc must lie within you first. Too many people seek those things in others only to find out the hard way it doesn't work. Basing your happiness on someone else will end up causing you to feel worse. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
What you hoped for you now regret! Many find themselves in this type of relationship. Remember you create your situations by the choices and decisions you make. It comes from a place of unresolved issues most people refuse to deal with. Yet, lives are affected by it. People have to get to and deal with the core of their issues. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Some people find it difficult to move on. I believe a person should leave a relationship with no regrets. If you're not over a person it causes issues for new relationships. It's hard to move on when your life is interrupted by thoughts and feelings of your ex. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
You must have a conversation about it. To keep holding in how you feel about it will only make you feel worse. You can't make someone love you if they don't love you. Remember, you're always treated how you've allowed. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Bottom line and the moral of this episode is you must look at yoursef! No matter what or who, if you're on the receiving end (taking it) you have to look at yourself. If you're the person causing the drama you have to look at yourself. When you have issues in your relationships learn to talk it out without yelling it out, fighting it out, or acting out! Blowing up doesn't help at all! It takes two mature and willing people to make a relationship work. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://...
This type of a relationship is unhealthy and shouldn't be an option for anyone. Too many people are treated terribly in their relationships, yet they hang on to them. You're treated how you allow yourself to be treated. When they don't care, you must care! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
There are actually many reasons couples grow apart, but the main reasons often contributes to how the relationship started and who each person really is versus who they pretend to be. Many people get into relationships carrying loads of baggage into relationships with others who have their own baggage. It causes more chaos! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
Embrace being single! Stop making it a bad thing! Stop being fooled into thinking it's a bad thing. Being single is better than being in the unhealthy relationships many people choose to be in. It's better to stay single than to get into relationships with people who aren't good for you. You have to be happy alone, before you're happy with anyone else. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support ....
