Episode 702 Whatever You Chose to Do Falls on You

too well. I'm not talking about those people. I'm talking about broken people who are easily influenced, persuaded, cohurst enticed. You're right mind, You're just broken, So best who this episode is about. Whatever you do, you can blame other people. They made me do it. Whatever you want to say, whatever you want to do, you can blame. But it falls on you. It falls on you when you doubt

yourself because somebody else says something about you. That person is broken too, and you have allowed a broken person to affect your life. What does that say about you? Yeah? I pause purposely. That tells you that you're broken too. You have some unresolved in you. If you allowed another person to say something about you that made you hurt inside, to made you to make you dout yourself, to make

you feel bad about yourself. They may have been a contributor, but it falls on you because you fail for it. You open yourself up to it, and you fail for it because of what's going on inside of you. So at the end of it all, you are the biggest issue in your own life. I tell my grandson all the time, and I've mentioned this before anyone in your life. I don't care who it is. If they are trying to entice you, influence you, if they're trying to persuade you in any way to do wrong, those people do

not have your best interest in mind. They don't care about you, because a person who care about you will not try to entice you to do anything wrong, say anything wrong. They just won't. People who want something from you, they'll have you doing all kinds of things if you follow them. So if you choose to follow wrong, that falls on you and you have to suffer the consequences of what you chose to to do. Many people think, oh, that's my friend, they're my friends, but they're not looking

at the situation at hand. They're not looking at what their friends are doing, the wrong things, their friends are getting into. They're not looking at any of that none of it. So if you took the time to look at what people around you are trying to get you to be involved in, you will know whether they are individuals who mean you good or not. And if you choose to go along, that tells you so much about yourself. You're a person that have issues that you have not resolved.

You still have insecurities inside of you that you have not resolved that has allowed you to follow wrong. So at the end of it, it falls on you. Period. It falls on you allowing people to get under your skin so much ato you snap. That falls on you. That is an indicator that you have been lacking self control, being influenced by watching commercials to go and gorge on food, to eat things you know that are not good for you.

That falls on you, lack of self control. I mean, I'm talking about different scenarios, but the basis of what I'm talking about is the same. No matter where it comes from, no matter where the influence come from, if you fall prey to it, that falls on you. And I want you to think about that. Think about that in every aspect of your life, in every situation. Some people are new to their jobs and the main person who should do right sometimes do wrong, and that's their

supervisors or their bosses. They commit harassment and a sexual assault or sexual harassment none assault, and the person do nothing because they've been groomed into that, because that person is an individual who is quiet, don't say anything, let people walk over them, or they are an individual who is knowing what they're doing but they're trying to get ahead. It don't matter which situation or the type of person it is. What matters is what you fall prey to. That falls on you.

them they're not. But it's because they have been the way they are for so long that they think is right. They think they have themselves together, even though if they really just take a moment and look at the drama and the chaos following them. Because remember, no matter where you go in life, you can go to the mountaintop, you can go to the valley low. One person you can't get away from is yourself. So wherever you go, chaos and drama will follow you because that's what is

inside of you. That's the mindset you have, because of the unheal heartened mind. So no matter what you involve yourself in or who you involve yourself with, whatever happens falls on you. Because you play the role. You let people persuade you to do wrong, You let people talk to you into things you know you didn't want to do. You give your power away, You let people take you for granted, you let people use you. Whatever it is, it all falls on you. It all falls on you.

Some people they hate themselves so much because other people have beat them down verbally. You're nothing, you're ugly, you're this, you're that. When they are those things, they feel like that about themselves. But because you are unhealed, you believe what they say about you, even though they feel that way about themselves, They're just projecting it onto you. That's why in the beginning of this episode, I say, you

allow a broken person to hurt you. You allow that because of who you are as a person, what's going on inside of you, your lack of security, your lack of esteem, your lack of confidence, because of the mindset that you have, and it is the very reason why people open the doors to things that they shouldn't. People allow people that they shouldn't into their lives because of

the mindset that people have. And a lot of times people can come from very good backgrounds, very good but as they grow and go through life, they open the door to the wrong people and the wrong things. It's just what people do. They could have had great lives, but they messed up because they opened the doors to the wrong people and the wrong things. I want you to really think about it, because, honestly, this is happening so much, every single day, every second of the day.

This is happening so much. People are influenced and cohersts and coached and encouraged and persuaded by the wrong people and the wrong things, and they cannot see that it's wrong because of the unhealth hearts and minds that they have. Some people just rebellious and they want to do what they want to do because they feel grown I can do what I want to do. I want it to lead to travesty, tragedy, destruction, devastation. I want you to think about it. I want you to really think about

what I'm saying. Stop giving power to powerless people. Stop giving power to broken, powerless people. You make them appear powerful because you have given them power. You've given them your power, which empowered them. But they're weak and broken people. But you gave them power in your life to make you feel less than, to make you feel that you're not good enough. You gave them that power. We are the ones who caused the most devastation in our own lives.

We are the ones who caused the most dysfunction in our own lives by what and who we allow into our lives. Who we are allowing to persuade us and influence us and coherts us and all of those things. You have to open yourself up to it. Whatever it is or whoever it is, you have to open yourself up to it. First, So you have to look at you. Why did you do that? Why did you open yourself up to whatever it is was, or who it is or who it was? Why did you do that? It's

because of the mindset that you have. Everything points back to self. That's why you have three fingers pointing back at you when you're pointing to blame others. Think about it. That's all I want you to do. Just really think about your life. What you've given power to, whom you've given power to. Some of you are in relationships where you're afraid to stay, you're afraid to go. But you are the one who gave that person power over you.

They would never be able to have you in that situation if you had not given them power over you. That's the bottom line. You gave that person power over you, to control you, to be possessive over you, to be obsessive over you. You gave them that power because when they started out doing that stuff and you didn't run, that fell on you. The first sign of abuse and you didn't run. That fell on you, the first sign of disrespect and you didn't run. That falls on you. You

having to buy their love and you didn't run. That falls on you. You initiating everything all the time, and you didn't run or you didn't at least talk about it. That falls on you. You thinking that their looks was the greatest thing in the world until you found out they were stolen, crazy, or you found out that they were abusive, or you found out they were using you. But you thought their looks was everything. You thought you

were safe because said there looks falls on you. Everything goes back to your self in every situation, no matter who you are, who you think you are, what you have, what you don't have, it falls on you. And I really truly hope people let this episode sink deep. Just think about it, listen to it multiple times, get understanding of what I'm trying to convey here, because most of the world operates this way. Most other people in the

world operate this way. And that's why many people are in relationships, unhappy, they're in relationships, lonely in their relationships, prisoners in their relationships, all because of what you allowed from that other person, all because of what you went

along with. It's the same on your jobs, in the clubs that you're members of at your schools, whether high school, college, no matter what, no matter the situation, it goes back to you, your unresolved issues, the mindset that you have, and I want you to really, really really let this episode set with you for a while. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please share much love to each and every one of you. I end every episode,

episode the same, and I hope you do it. Jay called it mm hm