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Episode 623 Cheated When You Were at Your Lowest

Jun 05, 202515 min
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Some people don't care what situation or condition you're in, they will cheat! They don't care who you are or what you have, they will cheat! They don't care what you do for them, they will cheat! They don't care how beautiful you are, they will cheat! They don't care how much you show them love, they will cheat. It is what cheaters do and you won't change it! You get what you accept! They are people of unhealed hearts and minds, who have a host of insecurities and other inner issues!

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Speaker 1

Hey, hey, hey, back with something for you to think about. You were so in love and you messed around and found out who they really were. They cheated on you when you were at your lowest. They cheated on you when you were at your lowest. For many of you, that wasn't the first time you knew they were a cheater, but you didn't want to believe it. You let your love for them overshadow the truth and you went along

with it. Some of you out there, you have never even told them you know they cheated, because you want that relationship so bad. That is nuts. That is nuts, but it's the truth. For a lot of people, they have not told their significant others that they know they've cheated on them because they want that relationship so bad. Why would you want someone who's cheating on you? And why haven't you communicated about that? People treat you how

you let them treat you always and forever. But for them to cheat on you after Lowes's moment on your bed of sickness, when you lost everything, when you were lost and confused, when you were drained, when you were in pain, they cheated. That is not worthy of you. But you have to understand that some people are terminally ill, yet their significant others are cheating on them. How low can you go? How low can you go? I've heard the outlandish stories where a person is terminally ill and

their significant other give them the okay to cheat. You have to have more integrity than that. You I mean, you cannot accept that as a pass to cheat on your terminally ill husband or wife or significant other. You should not take that as a pass. If they're terminally ill, you should be by their side, not cheating. That's not love, That's not how love goes. I don't care what they say. They're at the lowest moment in their lives. You should not be cheating. But a lot of people do it

because that's what's in them. They want any opportunity to cheat, because they are broken people who have not changed, and to get involved with people like that knowing that they're cheatings because some of you know, you know, because you know how you got in the relationship with them in the first place. Some of you knew they were married, or you knew they had a significant other, and you still chose to be with them, not thinking that they

were gonna ever cheat on you. Being at your lowest moment you found out that they were cheating, they probably was cheating before that. I'm pretty sure, because a cheater does what a cheater does. A cheat, they don't care how low you are. A cheater will do what a cheater does. The thing is you choosing to be in a relationship with a person that you know that's cheating, or a person that you found out was cheating when you were at your lowest. So if they'll cheat on

you when you're at your lowest, they'll cheat period. It does not matter. And they have cheated, I'm pretty sure because if they waited till their lowest, til your lowest and cheated, oh they cheated. They've cheated before. So when it comes to cheaters, you have to look at yourself. And as I said, some of you knew the person was a cheater because they got in a relationship with you while they were married or with someone else, so

you knew they were a cheater. But I don't know why people think, oh I love him so much or she loves me so much, they'll never cheat on me. Something is wrong with you, something is wrong with you, because if they cheated with on whoever they're with, they'll cheat on you. They will cheat on you. They was probably cheating on you the same time that they were trying to get with you, because that's what cheater does.

They have multiple people. Don't think you're so special. That's the problem with a lot of people.

Speaker 2

People.

Speaker 1

They think they're so special. No, you're not. So many people could save themselves a lot of headache and heartache by facing the truth. The problem is they don't want to face the truth. They want to believe what they want to believe when it's not the truth. I don't care how beautiful you are, what you have, you can give a cheater the world, literally, they will still cheat on you. It has nothing to do with your beauty. It has nothing to do with your possessions. It has

nothing to do with you. It is about who they are as a cheating So for a cheating to cheat when you're at your lowest, that is no surprise. It may be one to you, but it shouldn't be. It shouldn't be people who love the cheat. They are individuals who don't need to ever get into relationships. All they do is cause headache and heartache. That's all they do because they're so broken up and messed up mentally, they

go around projecting their pains on whoever accepts them. But you have to know you and love you enough to not get in twine intertwined with these people, in entanglements with them. You should not ever allow yourself to get in that situation. And some of you have done it, you're doing it, and now you're at your lowest moment and you found out they're cheating on you because you thought you have it so good, you thought you were so special that they would do it, and they did

it at your lowest That's not love. It's not love. A cheatah don't know love. They don't feel good, they know what that feels like, but it's not love. A Cheatah don't love no one. They don't even love themselves. And you know it's so irritating because I've been there. I've been on the other side when they said, oh, I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. I'll never do it again. All lies, all lies, because they

surely will do it again. And they did not mean it what they said, because if they did, they would have never cheated in the first place. You think cheating don't hurt, You think cheating won't hurt. So you know that's a lie, and I'll never do it again. Lies, lies, lines. But to be cheated on at your worst, that's awful. That's awful, But so many people do it. So many people do it because of who they are, and so many people accept it because of who they are. It's

a sad state either way. But I will forever say people will treat you how you have taught them. They will treat you how you you you have allowed. And I know it could be devastating for someone to cheat on you when you're in at your worst, But for me, if it were me, you get no tears from me. And yes, I've been cheated on, but let me tell you, I gave it another chance. But eventually I was like, you know what you do, what you do because obviously my love for you is not enough because you don't

even love yourself. I love me, and I'm gonna show you I love me because I'm out. You know, everybody can't do that. Everybody can't walk away. Many should, but a lot of people can't walk away. But you can when you know yourself, when you love yourself and you know your worth, you know you deserve better than that. And that's who I was. So I can talk about things because I've been through a lot. I've been through a lot, but I thank God because that is where

my strength lies in God, not in myself. I believe in me, and I love me, and I have faith in me, but for the most part, my strength comes from God. And I know everybody don't believe that that's your choice. I'm talking about me because in my darkest hour, that's who kept me. Many of you put all of your faith and everything into that significant other and they

hurt you over and over and over again. It feels even worse when they do it when you're at your worst, when you're in a situation that you've never been in that breaks you down, and then they turn around and cheat on you. Awful, awful, awful, But so many people go through it, and I just will go back again and say, it's about who you are as a person. Most people don't know who they are. That's why they

allow and accept so much in their lives. Most people don't love themselves, That's why they go along with so much foolishness that causes chaos and drama in their lives because they don't even know who they are. They don't know their work, they don't know their.

Speaker 2

Value, and even when they're cheated on in their worst times, they still want.

Speaker 1

To be with that person. That says something about you, not the cheater, because we know a cheater gonna do what a cheater does cheat, but it says something about you as a person allowing yourself to go through something like that, especially when they do it to you in your worst moment. But it does happen. So just remember, if you don't remember anything else, what you have shown a person, how you have taught them to treat you, is what they're gonna do. It's what they're gonna do, period.

Because so many of you, you have no consequences. Then if you have no requirements of who you're with and they could just do whatever they want to do and they know it because you've shown them, nothing is gonna happen. And I'm all about positivity, never anything violent because it's not worth it. Let me tell you something, No man or woman who's doing you wrong is worth you becoming violent over, not one single person. If they're doing you wrong, they are not worth at all at all, and no

shape form of fashion. So you think about that a lot of people have allowed individuals to land them in jail, prison, Greg because they were hurt so badly that they did the unthinkable. It is not worth it, especially a person that's doing you no good. They are not worth it. No shape form of fashion, no shape form of fashion. Besides, they do to you what you've allowed. They mess up on you in your worst times. Hm. Wow, that's all I'm saying, leaving it right there. Thank you so much

for listening. Please share much much love. I in every episode the same and I hope you do it, think on it.

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