Episode 539 If Loving Them Is Wrong, Run

for most people is individuals are blind. Now, years ago I talked about if loving you is wrong, I don't want to be right, which if you listen to that episode, I wasn't going along with that. I was speaking against it, just like I'm speaking against this. Many people always say, you know, the cliche love is blind. That's a lie. That's a lie from the pit of hell. It's a lie. Love is not blind. People are blind. People who are

individuals who think they're in love they are blind. And people are blind, you know, just in general, because of the hearts and minds of people. If loving them is wrong, run bela Forrest Gump, Run run run seriously, because if it's wrong, that means it's no good for you. You have to be able to see beyond all of the little butterflies you're getting in your stomach. You have to see beyond how you feel. You have to see beyond what your eyes can see. If you don't, I promise you

you will suffer the consequences you will. So many people get into unnecessary relationships with individuals who are no good with you know, good for them. Unnecessary because you didn't have to do it, You didn't have to go that way. But many people do because they're blind. They cannot see beyond what they want, what they desire, how they feel. They just can't see beyond those things, and they find themselves in bad situations. Many people have even end up dead.

Many people have ended up dead because they got into relationships with individuals who were no good for them. Sometimes you can see it right out. Sometimes it's subtle things they do. But a person always, always, always, always, without fail show you who they really are. You may not believe it, but that I mean it's not true. People always, at some point or another show you who they are.

Now you don't have to believe it. You can deny it, you can sugarcoat it, you can water it down, you can just pretend that what you see is just not real. Whatever you choose is on you. But just remember the choice and the decisions you make. You gotta live with the consequences. And unfortunately, some people are in their grades right now because they chose wrong. They chose wrong. They chose wrong because they couldnt see beyond what they wanted,

how they felt, what they desired. They couldn't say beyond it. If a person that you have all of these feelings and emotions for, if that person is no good for you, they're no good for you. If loving that person is wrong, that's it. I'm washing my hands of that person. That's what you should be doing. If loving that person is wrong, you should not want any parts of it. None, no one, no man, no woman is worth it. Not one. They're not worth it. When a person is not good for you,

let me tell you. When a person is not good for you and you open yourself up to that person, you open your life up to that person, you definitely making a wrong decision. You are making a very bad decision for you. And sometimes it involves your family, your children, because some people have killed the children, the significant other, their mom, other people. I mean, you can put so many people in harm's way, so many in harm's way. When you make bad choices and decisions when you're blind

and it cannot see the truth it. Just think about it. Think about what I'm saying right now. If loving them is wrong, run, just think about that. If loving them is wrong, don't even consider If loving them is wrong, I don't want to be right. Don't even consider that. If loving them is wrong, that should be the end of it. You shouldn't want anything to do with that person.

I don't care how fine they are. I don't care how gorgeous they are, how much money they have, what they have, they're titles, their positions, None of that should matter to you if loving them is wrong. Many of you have gotten into relationships with married people. You know, you know, without even thinking about it, you know it's wrong. Never set your heart on someone who's already taken, whether it's a married person or it's somebody's else significant other,

just dating. Never set your sights on someone else's baboo. Never do that. You deserve better than that. Stop selling yourself short. You deserve better than to be with someone that belongs to someone else in the essence of being in a relationship, because no one is no one else's property.

But I'm saying being in a relationship with someone else, you should never settle for that because that comes alone with a lot problems, and it also could come along with some danger because a lot of times you don't know the other individual. You don't know what they're capable of. People can go to another level when you're messing with their significant others, so you don't know. Don't put yourself in that situation. Don't bring harm to yourself or to

your family or friends. So if loving them is wrong, look at it just like that. It's wrong, and you shouldn't want any parts of it. Stop allowing your hearts to lead you into bad places. Stop allowing your heart to cause you to get into relationships with individuals you shouldn't be with. I mean, you have sense enough to know right from wrong, total sense enough to know right

from wrong. So if you willfully move forward with someone that you know is wrong for you, I'm telling you the consequences can be far greater than what you can ever anticipate. So you have to be mindful and aware of what you become involved with, who you become involved with, because if they're wrong, it's wrong. You cannot get into a relationship you can't get into one and think that this person is going to bring you all of these great things when it's wrong, and think about this. People

have agendas. They know it's wrong, but they also know you don't care because you can't see beyond your feelings, your wants, your desires. They know it, they know the relationship is wrong, but they have an agenda, and unfortunately a lot of people cannot see it because they just want what they want. Many people set themselves up from the gate, from the start, from the beginning, by moving on into relationships with individuals that you know are no

good for you. I've told you before. I've heard people say, oh, I just didn't see the signs. There were no signs. That's a lie. You're still in denial. You know there were signs. There are always, always, always signs and red flags always. Now you can deny them, but they're there. They are there, and just because you want to be with the person so bad, it does not change the reality that there are signs of red flags that you've chosen to ignore. I mean, I just want you to

think about it. Why would you want to be with someone who's wrong for you? If you do, I'm telling you right now. If you do, you have some growing to do. There is some unhealed part of you that needs attention. You need to deal with that in order to grow and mature and love yourself. Because if anything or anyone is no good for you, is wrong for you, you shouldn't want any parts of it. And that's just the bottom line. When you want someone so bad, all you

do is give power to those thoughts. Or I just I have to have him, I have to have her. You just can't stop thinking about them. Every waking moment you're thinking about them. That's because you're giving power to those thoughts. Remember those thoughts. For those of you who've listened to me before, remember those thoughts. I tell you all the time, when you think on something, the more you think on it, the more you give power to those thoughts, the more you get power to them. And

most times it's negativity. When you're thinking about someone else's husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend. You know you're wrong, but you let your heart in your unhealthy way of thinking, getting the way. But you know it's not right because think of it. If if it were you think of it that way. If it were you would you want someone doing it? To you, would you want your significant other doing it to you with someone So you have to be able

to look at it more than one way. So many people in this world got into relationships the wrong way and thinking, oh, they're gonna have all of these great things from that relationship. No, No, you get into it the wrong way. Nine out of ten times it's gonna end based on how you got into that relationship. When you go into it the wrong way, that is normally

how it ends. What do I mean? You get into a relationship with a married person or a person who's involved in a relationship those same issues is what's gonna break you up. Either they gonna do it again with someone else, something is gonna happen, and you're gonna find yourself faced with that same issue that you formed your relationship upon. It's like getting in relationships with abusive people. You're gonna get sick of that abuse and you're gonna want to get out. But for a lot of people,

you've stayed too long. Some of you, it's getting into relationships with people who introduce you to things you should have never gotten involved with, drugs, breaking the law, all kinds of stuff. Whatever it is, it normally is the same thing that tears you apart. You can't expect good things to come out of a wrong and negative relationship,

one that you should have never been in before. So it's really a learning curve because it teaches you you don't know who you are, You don't love yourself yet. You haven't gotten to that point in life where you've grown and matured and learn how to love yourself. You have not gotten to that point because if you had, you would be in a relationship with the wrong person.

Some of you get into these relationships you realize you're in a terrible situation, terrible and it's easy to get in, but sometimes it's hard to get out of, very hard to get out of. You have to be willing to accept the truth for what it is, the truth. You must be willing to accept the truth. You must be able to see beyond your feelings, your wants, your desires, howard look, you must be able to see beyond those superficial things. When you can't, it can cause you so

much a drama and pain. It really can a lot of people right now as I speak, in relationships.

than your belly could handle. That's why she used to say it. But it's a metaphor that could fit many situations. Some of you get caught up and things and possessions until you just lose focus because that's what's driving you. Things and possessions and money and looks and how someone. You know, their appearance, what they have, their cars, their homes, their titles, their positions. All that stuff appealed to you, and it leads people into bad situations because of the

mindsets that they have. So really that's all I'm saying on that, I'm leaving it right there. Thank you so much for listening. As I said in the beginning, much love to you. You and you reach out to me. My podcast page tells you exactly how you can reach me. I in every episode the same, And I hope I really really do I hope you do it, think on it.