Episode 528 Unhealed Inner Issues Can Affect Your Entire Life for a Lifetime

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are doing well. What I want to talk to you about today is going through life powering things upon yourself without here, which causes you the inability to mature and grow, and all it does is cause self inflicted pain. I've talked about this in so many different ways, and it's important that I continue to talk about it because this is the very essence of what's going on in life.

People get older, they become adults with the same mindsets that they had as children, and they go through life with all of their inner issues inside that are unresolved. Then they go through life and power all all of the unnecessary things upon themselves. You already have things that life is going to throw at you, but then you power all of this unnecessary stuff because you're chasing love, you're chasing fame, you're chasing fortune, you're chasing success, you're

chasing titles, you're chasing this, you're chasing that. And as you chase, and as you seek and as you obtain, all you do is power other things on top of you. Because you know why most people have not healed from their own inner issues. And then when you go through life powing all the other things upon yourself, you're also taking on the issues and the unresolved from other people. You can't handle your own, you don't face your own,

you don't deal with your own own. But then you go through life powering everybody else's along the way upon yourself. That's why people get to breaking points. That's why people are stressed out, full of anxiety, depressed, and all kinds of things. Because people bring so much unnecessary drama into their own lives. You cannot live a happy life miserable and unhappy inside. It will never work. It will never work.

That is one reason why people do exactly what I was talking about earlier is still content or still period because they're going through life trying their best to be this and be that for people, for society. So they'll do anything and everything to try to be known or be something what people consider as something. That's because your mindset is in the wrong place. Your mindset is not at that level of being healthy. You're so worried about what someone else's thoughts are of you, what they see

in you, that you willing to do foolish things. But that's because you have so much un resolved inside of yourself. Most people in the world are this way. Most people people in the world seek after things because they want other people to see what they have. But I'm here to tell you when you go through life powering things on yourself without healing, it inhibits your ability to grow and mature. I've told you multiple times, more than multiple most people are not who they really are. They don't

present to you who they really are. What you see isn't necessarily the truth because people hide behind masks. They don't love self, they're unhappy with self, but they s put on this fake smile, They put on this fake persona, this fake demeanor, but inside they have so many struggles self out. They lack self love, no confidence in self, just don't believe in self, see self as this person who is beneath anything that's good. You can tell these type of people all day long, oh.

and they think you're lying. People have so much hurt and pain inside and they don't know how to go through They don't know how to go through life allowing themselves to heal because they're holding on so tight to the negativity. It's absolutely blinding blinding them. But they don't understand this. They don't understand it. You go through life making everything and everyone more than more important than yourself.

it's a universal thing. But when you're dealing with individuals who are of unhealthy hearts and minds, it goes right back to square one, Meaning when you're dealing with immature people, you're going to get the same similar results. Broken people doing foolish things, full of insecurities, going through life unhappy and miserable, continually, going through life, continuously full of hurt, full of self doubts, full of insecurities, doing foolish things,

doing all of the wrong things. You're going to see it everywhere you go, all across the world. They're going to see it. So many people in life they rather talk about all of their woes than to do something about it to make their lives better. Instead of becoming better, many people become worse. They go even deeper into darkness. Some people end up in darkness that never came from trauma.

They created their own alone the way. And it's just so horrible that people willfully, willfully choose such a horrific life. It's terrible that people choose to keep going through life projecting their pain on others when they can become better. I mean, have you ever just driven and see all

of the foolishness on the road. I mean every day, we're all risking our lives every day because you got so many taking time bombs around you, not just on the road, but everywhere you go, taking time bombs around you. Because people are filled with so much brokenness that they it feels to allow themselves to heal from and they just continue to power and you know, all of this different mess upon what's already there. And as I said, if you can't handle your own, you surely won't be

able to handle anyone else's. But that's what people do. They go through life piling piling, piling up all of the unnecessary hurt, pain, stress, drama, trauma from the lives of other people because you're trying so hard to be a part of something. You want so hard to be in someone's life. You want so desperately to be at this particular level. You want so desperately to be noticed, to be recognized, to be validated, to be loved. But it's by individuals who most of the time don't even

love themselves. You think, because people have a lot of money, or they have these big, grandiose titles and these big positions, you think they're happy. Most are not. They're struggling just like you internally, and a lot of them display it in their choices, in their decisions, which we see play out in their behaviors. We see their choices and decisions, relationship hopping, worship of Satan, doing all types of sexual crimes, cheating, lying, stealing,

killing people from all walks of life. We see it. That comes from that internal unresolved. I don't know how many different ways I can tell you. I'll try a million, a billion, a zillion. If it's such a thing, I keep saying it until I can't say it anymore. But it all comes from that unresolved inside, because remember, mindsets are formed out of bad experiences. Good experiences too, but unfortunately,

people hang on to the negative versus the positive. Very few hold on to the positive and move towards positive lifestyles. Most people are held back mentally, which affects them in many ways because they're holding on to the negativity. People actually get comfortable in their negativity, and that's really, really, really a sad thing. This world is full of full of broken people. Why do you think our food supply

is so terrible? Why do you think our drug administrations are You know that that makes our medications are so terrible. Why do you think the air we breathe is so terrible? Why do you think everything that we have, objects, clothing, furniture has stuff in it that affects us because of greed? Because money, people would do anything and everything, and all of these corporations and businesses, that's what they're doing because

of the mindsets that they have. They think it's more important to make money than to care about what they're doing to get it. That comes from internal unresolved incest, being a sexual predator on children or anyone. All of that stuff comes from internal unresolved, the F's things, the wild things, r Kelly's. There are millions of them out there, millions in the schools, in every I'm just not gonna

name them, in every profession. Liars, cheaters, people who are embezzling money that comes from internal unresolved people, getting in relationships the wrong way with the wrong people for the wrong reasons. Abusers who think that they have the right to control someone else's life, not even understanding it's not even about the other person that you're trying to control. It's really about you. You're insecurities, that's why you're trying to control that person, even to the point of murder.

You think it's a good thing to say, Oh I love you to death. If I can't have you, no one else can have you. That is a very very dark, dark minded individual that has hurt inside, unresolved inside to even think like that, and for you to think it's cute, Oh he loves me or she loves me. They call me a million times a day, They always texted me. They wanna know where I'm at, they want to know what I have on, they wanna know who I'm with.

For you to think that's love being protective is a different story, but being obsessive and possessive is something else. So you have to love yourself and understand who you are enough to even identify those things in other people. Most people can't. Most people miss the signs in the red flags. You know. I'm not gonna name names, but there are some professionals on television who are in certain positions as television hosts who are that crazy. I'm sorry

to say that, but they are. I can see it playing as day, but most people can't because they like them. They like them, and people are attracted to crazy. If I was a podcaster who got on here and talked crazy about people who've done crazy things and put it out on YouTube, I'll have a million subscribers because people love that kind of stuff. People love it. But you gotta look at yourself and wonder why why is that entertaining to you. I don't like foolish I don't like

bad information. I don't at all, So I don't get into that stuff. I don't get into retax reality TV. I don't get into that stuff because it's just so much immaturity and foolishness that goes on. But some people just love it, they live for it. Some people live for celebrities. But your life is messed up, and you don't even understand their life is messed up too. That's why they feel they have to do it and everything to stay where they are or to get ahead to

another level. But you can't see it, you don't understand it. It's so much going on in this world, so much because of so much brokenness, so much, And just think about it this way. With so much brokenness, the world, our atmosphere is full of negative energy, just pure negativity, darkness everywhere. And I'm telling you people are affected very much.

So people are affected. So many people hold on to so much emotional baggage, so much emotional baggage, just holding in pent up pain and allowing it to just ruin their lives. You can't live in peace. You can't be a good mother, you can't be a good father, you can be a good employer, you can be anything positive because you have so much pent up pain inside of you, so much, and that's self inflicted. Because no one, no one, no one, no one, absolutely no one has to live

that way. You must want to get better when you allow negative thoughts to control you they will do exactly that, and they will lead you down a road of darkness because you have given power to those negative thoughts. You have given power to those negative thoughts, and the more power you give, you will end up acting out. And a lot of people think, oh, well, I have never done anything bad. But when you self sabotage, that's bad. When you have so many insecurities, that's bad. When you

self doubt, that's bad. When you lack confidence, that's bad because you're doing it to yourself. Most people have not been in trauma from their childhood, since their childhood in their twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and they're still holding on to childhood trauma. And it's not all childhood trauma. Some things happen as you've become an adult that you open yourself up to for whatever reason, and you just allow it to just toe totally define you

in your life, totally define you. And this is the world we live in today, full of unhealed people. And I'm just here to tell you you don't have to live your life that way. You do not have to live your life that way. You do not, you do not no one knows. You have to want change to occur. You have to be aware and mindful of the things you do how you think. You have to be aware and mindful. No one can change your situation, but you no one. You have to want to be better you.

So that's all I'm gonna say. I hope, wherever you are in your life mentally, that you choose to be better. You don't have to walk around with that pain. You don't have to keep reliving those memories, because that's all it is, memories that you have given so much power to. You don't have to keep reliving those memories. Allow yourself to heal. You deserve it. I don't care what you went through. It was not your fault. You deserve a better life. Don't be to yourself what someone has already

been to you. Don't be to your children what your parents are caregiver was to you. That's what people make a mistake. They project all of it onto their children, then they project it onto their children. No, you have to break that cycle. It's not a generational curse. It is undoubtedly habitual cycles. Great grandma did it, great grandfather did it, grandma, granddad, mom, Dad, Now me, it don't

have to be that way. Sometimes you have to distance yourself from the ones you love the most, because sometimes the ones you love the most are the very ones who will hurt you the most. That's why you gotta love yourself, and you have to know who you are. I've been many places in this world, around the country, in and out of country, and I've never went anywhere

and knew someone. And yes, even as a young person joining the military, or even before that having a family, before I ever joined the military, wherever I went, I didn't know anyone. And yes, I missed home. I missed my mom, you know, I missed my parents. But let me tell you, I never ever said, well, I'm not going because I miss mom too much. I'm not going because I love my parents. I'm not going because I

missed my siblings. I've never allowed that to hold me back, but so many people do because of the insecurities inside. Even back then when I was way far from being who I am now, I still have that mindset. I still have that mindset, but so many people allow others and things to hold them back. Your life is what you make it, not what happened to you. Your life is not what happened to you. It's what you make it. So again. I know I said it a little while ago,

but I'm done. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please share this episode. I appreciate you, I love you. Take care of yourself. You only have one life to live. You don't have nine lives. Even a cat don't have nine lives. It's a metaphor. It's not true. They don't have but one life. Just like you, be the best you can be, want to be better. Thank

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