Hey, hey, I'm back. Listen. I heard some man, I don't know who you was, but I heard some man talk about there is no way men and women can be friends, just platonic friends. I talked about this on one of my episodes before. It's been a few years ago, so after hearing someone talk about it on their YouTube channel, I wanted to come back and talk about it again since it's been a while. I just hate when people put out bad information or information that's not true, because
men and women can definitely be in a relationship without anything happening. They can be individuals who have a platonic relationship, even if it's someone that you've previously been in a relationship with. When it's over, it's over. You don't go and rehash old feelings. That's immature people. I mean, it's ridiculous to believe a man and a woman cannot have a platonic relationship. It is ridiculous to believe that any person who feel that a man and woman cannot have
a platonic relationship, you have some maturing to do. You definitely have some growing to do, because they most certainly can, They most certainly can. It's very possible I'm a witness. I'm living proof. I have several male friends. I have one male friend. We go on vacations together. We sleep in the same hotel room because he's single. I'm single. But and I think I even mentioned this before on one of my episodes. But he
knows that there's boundaries. I know that there are boundaries. We're not trying to push up on each other. We respect one another. We respect the boundaries between us. We go on vacations together because we're both single and there's things we want to do, so we do them together sometimes occasionally, and we have a good time. And I'll tell him in a minute, you know, if you see someone he kind of you know, I'm like, hey, he's not my man, you know. I want them to know
he's available with no qualms about it. So I'm telling you one, it's possible. And this guy also said that on his YouTube channel. He also said that I don't care what anyone says. Although a man may not say it, he's still thinking he want to get, you know, with that woman. I just maybe I'm the sucker. Maybe I'm the person who who does not get it. Because I firmly believe there are other people in the world like me. I'm not the only one. I'm not the only mature
person in the world. There are mature men and women. I've had men to come to stay at my house that I've been in relationship with before, well a man, not men, but a man. But he knew before coming that it's not that type of party. He know that that's old news, and he understands that our relationship is not that way anymore. There never will be. We don't talk about that. We don't reminisence about that. Nothing. We just talk like friends. We don't get into well you remember
this. No, we don't dig up old stuff. I know I'm not the only one. It is possible when people have matured beyond the way they used to be, it is possible. It is very possible. It takes a mature mind, a mature individual, two people who have matured beyond their mess that they used to be in. When people mature and they have come to be individuals who are better, they can do anything. When you have boundaries, when you have self respect and understanding, when you know who you
are as an individual, it is possible. People stop believing that every man is a dog. Stop characterizing yourself as a dog. Just because you feel that way does not mean every man feel that way. I just don't believe it. There are men who have women that they really love and all they want is that woman. They gun and sown their wild oaks, and they don't want to do that kind of thing anymore. They have matured and they
are happy with who they are with. There are men in this world who are not just thinking about getting into bed with some woman and vice versa. It irritates me that people are so shallow minded that all they think about is flesh. No matter how much the flesh gets people into trouble, you still have those immature people that that's all they think about. Boo. Just because you think like that does not mean everyone thinks that way. Every man don't
think like you. Not all many, but not all. There are a few good ones out there. I'm a woman and I'm saying it. I know there is more than just me who feel this way. I believe there are men who feel this way. I know good men I have very close relationships with, for me and for different men that I've known since my children
were like three and four years old. For many years, my best male friend I've known since I was fifteen and he was sixteen, So I know it's possible for a fact, for a fact, and I'm not naive. I know a lot of people do, and I know a lot of people can't be friends because they are thinking about other things. But when you've matured past that flesh, I'm telling you it is possible. Oh, very possible,
very possible. The person that I was talking about that came to my house because he wanted to visit me, he knew before he got there the way things were going to go, and he accepted it because he too have matured and he respects me. So he came into town, spent the night in everything, but it was like we never were in a relationship before. So it is possible. People. Maybe I'm just a unique woman. My focus is the Lord. It's not on trying to be with a man.
It's not about the flesh. Not to me, it's not. And I know there are men who have mature past that as well. But for someone to get on a YouTube saying all men there is not one man. You don't know every man. I'm sure you know plenty who are just like you, but you don't know every man, and it's wrong to put every man in the same category because every man is not the same, just like every woman is not the same. So many people in this world are immature.
They think they are mature, but just because they are adults, they think they are mature. But they're so immature. They are so far behind what they think they are, so far they're still thinking with their flesh, meaning they're still chasing, chasing, chasing after their flesh. That's all they think about, with what's in between their legs and not what is in between their ears. That's all they think about. Married and single. That's in maturity,
That's what that is. That's drawn people who have not matured. That's all it is. But when you get to a point in life where hey, you've you've done, You've done what you've wanted to do, and plenty of it, and you realize it's not everything. It's not It is not everything all. Once upon a time I thought it was it. You couldn't tell me it wasn't it. But I don't think like that anymore because I know it isn't. Without a doubt in my mind, I know it is
not. And when you love the Lord and when you love yourself, you will know it too. It don't mean to you what it used to mean to you. And I know I may sound crazy to a whole lot of people, but that's fine. I know you don't get it, and I also know that you have not matured to that level yet. That's why you can't fantom the thought that people can mature past wanting sex all the time,
making sex everything to them. When you understand who you are and you have a true relationship with God and you truly love yourself, you see things differently. You see things totally differently. Immature men and women. I'm not saying nothing negative. I'm just saying there are immature men and women. I'm not calling them bad people. I'm just saying they are immature. They have not matured past their flesh. All they say is the superficial Men and women are
seeking the same things. Mature men and mature women are seeking similar things. People think men want this and that and women don't. Immature women want the same thing. They want the same things. Trust and believe. Be foolish if you want to and think that, be foolish and think that men are all dogs but women are not. Be foolish and think that there are immature women. There are women out there who want it more than any man. There are women out there who cheat more than any man. Society, have
you all bamboozled? I mean fooled big time? And seriously, I just shake my head because I know it's a lie. It's not just men, it's immature men and immature women, and men have been given a bad rap forever when women are just as bad. That's worse because women have a way of doing things and you will never know when me and all they ever do is show their hand. Society, have you all bomboozled? And I wanted
to get on here and talk about it because it's sad. It's unfair and it's foolish to put all men in the same category, just like it is to put all women in the same category, stereotyping, giving false narratives. It's just not right because it's not true you fit that category. But that don't mean all men fit that category. It does not mean all men are
in the same boat. That does not just because you're still thinking like that, feeling that way, acting that way, don't mean every man is Because like I said, I have several male friends, and I mean we've been friends thirty and up years. My best male friend we've been friends for forty about forty forty one years. So I mean, it's no lie, it's no I mean exaggeration, none of that. It's one hundred truth. That's
why I know it's possible without a shadow of a doubt. And hey, you have the right to think how you please, but I guarantee you society have bamboozled you for years and years and years about men and women and many other things, many other things, plenty of other things, but especially concerning men. Men have a bad rap because of society, when women are just as bad and oftentimes worse, we just do it a different way. But again, I'm speaking of immature men and women. Mature men and women don't
think like that, don't act like that. And I believe that because I'm one and I know several and I'm sticking and stand with it. I'm standing on it because I know it's a fact. But you can believe what you want to believe is your right. I mean, you can see someone and be you know, thinking to yourself, that's a nice looking man, or you as a man, you could say that's a nice looking woman without wanting
to jump in bed with him or her. I mean, geez, If you cannot look at a male or female without wanting to jump in bed with him or without wanting to just have to have it, something is wrong with you. Something is wrong with you. You have the wrong way of thinking. You definitely have some maturity to do, definitely without a doubt, without of doubt. And it's a sorry situation to have to go through life like that, getting older but not maturing, not becoming better, still thinking the
same old, nasty way. I mean, it's but there are plenty people who are like that, plenty again. I just wanted to address this because I heard it yesterday and I was like, oh, I was grinding my teeth because it's so ridiculous, and he was just so suring him of himself, And to me, that's putting out bad information. Just because you can't do it does not mean the next person can't do it. Just because you don't believe it does not mean it's not true. Stop falling into the trap
the societies around the world have set. Because they've set plenty people are so brainwashed and bamboozo people are so oppressed because of societies. When what is society's made up of people? Broken? People? Broken people telling you how you should look, what you should eat, how you should go through life. You should be married with the white picking fenc and two kids. You should have this in that title. You should be this small or this big.
Your skin should be this light or that dark. Your hair should be this long, your eyes should be this color. I mean, brokenness doesn't discriminate, So stop believing what's not true, because it definitely is not true. Some men and women can definitely have a platonic relationship innocent. Every man that a woman see does not mean she want him. Every woman that a man
sees does not mean he want her. Not every man a lot, but not everyone, not every woman, every last one of us, every single one of us have the opportunity to become better, have an opportunity to grow and mature, but most people don't because they stay stuck in the same stagnant mindset, thinking the same, feeling the same, acting the same. And I know people who are well in their sixties still have the same mindset. It's almost pathetic to see people get that old and older still doing the same
things. Chasing women, chasing men, peer of shame, peer of shame. So again, before I go, just because you can't do it, don't mean the next. And that's all I'm saying. You believe what you want to believe. However you want to believe is your life. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please check out Relatable Life Chronicles and share. Share this episode of Relationship Chronicles. Much love to each and every one of you. I appreciate you, I love you. Thank you
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