Sloppy Seconds?
Heyyyy we're back! Would you date someone your friend has dated? Would you care if your friend dated your ex? Is this just part of life now? Is it inevitable to match the same guy at some point?
Sep 30, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 41
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J & A
Navigating relationships as a new single in your 30's, 40's, and beyond!
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Episodes
The ICK Heard Round the World
Let's get into the icky sticky. EWWWW
Aug 11, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 40
My Apologies Part 2
Part 2! More apologies we wanted and how the simple act of apologizing can break the cycle of poor parenting. And our apologies, this is a LONG one!
Aug 03, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 39
My Apologies
Sorry, not sorry? Today we talk about the apologies we deserve, the ones we will never get, and what happens when an apology just isn't enough.
Jul 29, 2025•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 38
We're Alive!
It has been a busy summer! But we're back baby! Back with the dating drama, ghosting, swiping, spiraling, and rostering!
Jul 21, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 37
The Case for the Younger Man - Part 2!
You loved the original episode, so here's some more case study material! Younger men: avoid? have fun with? ...DATE? Let's discuss!
Jun 23, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 36
You Don't Always Get What You Want
It isn't always giggles, is it? Today we talk about disappointment, regret, and grieving the support you'll never experience.
May 26, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 35
Fine, I'll Do It Myself
Why does it always seem like women are the default planners, emotional managers, and taskmasters in every relationship: romantic, platonic, family, or even work? In this episode, we’re diving into the mental load women often carry and the invisible labor that keeps everything running.
May 19, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 34
Listener Questions - Part tres
3rd and final (for now) listener questions episode! We hope you enjoyed them as much as we did!
May 04, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 33
Listener Questions - Part Deux
You asked and we sort of answered... when we were able to stay on topic!
Apr 29, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 32
Listener Questions Part 1!
A & J answer listener questions. There are some good ones!
Apr 21, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 31
Stop Effing Doubting Yourself! (Episode contains some audio issues)
Too many women are holding back because of self-doubt—and it's time to stop. In this episode, we unpack where that doubt comes from, how it holds us back, and what to do about it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not ready or not enough, this is your reminder that you are more powerful than you think. Let’s stop doubting and start doing.
Apr 08, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 30
Brace Yourselves! Dating Apps in 2025
Look, we’re not saying you should be on dating apps in 2025… in fact, we don’t recommend it. But let’s be real, we know you’re gonna do it anyway. So, in this episode, we’re diving into the latest (and possibly most chaotic) trends in online dating. Buckle up, because whether you’re swiping, ghosting, or deleting your account for the 10th time, you’re in for a ride!
Mar 28, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 29
Am I the Villain?
We always spot red flags in others, but what about our own? In this episode, we get real about our toxic traits, why we do them, and what we want to change. Are we the villains, or just messy humans trying to grow? Tune in for laughs, self-reflection, and a little roasting.
Mar 16, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 28
Newly Single in Your 30s and 40s, a Second Adolescence
Being single in your 30s and 40s can feel like a second adolescence—crushes, awkward firsts, and figuring yourself out all over again. The difference? No curfew and better wine. In this episode, we dive into the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating, self-discovery, and embracing a fresh start (this time with a little more wisdom).
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 27
Petty Dealbreakers - You Know You Have Them Too!
We all have dealbreakers, but what about the tiny ones? In this episode, we’re diving into petty dealbreakers —the little things that make us instantly say, “no thanks.” Are we being too picky, or are these red flags in disguise? Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and some shameless judgment!
Mar 03, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 26
Turns Out, We're Cougars
In this episode, we dive into the cougar experience: embracing confidence, shifting dating dynamics, and the unexpected perks of dating younger.
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 25
Were you ever a narcissist's supply?
Was it a parent, significant other, or...BOTH? Probably both. When did you realize? You might have some realizations after you listen to this episode!
Feb 06, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 24
For the Anxious Girlies, Part 2 - Abandonment
Are you guys mad at us for doing another Anxious attachment episode? Please don't leave! You're not mad? You seem mad. If that made sense to you, have a seat and get comfy, you're with your people!
Jan 28, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 23
Oh Boy - Raising the next generation of men
Men, ugh! We know what we don't like about men today, but how do we teach our growing boys a different way?
Jan 20, 2025•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 22
Ins and Outs 2025!
In this episode, we talk about what we are bringing IN and sending OUT in our relationships for 2025. What does this mean for those closest to us? Our children, families, friends, and dates will find out soon!
Jan 06, 2025•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 21
Datify Wrapped! A month by month recap for 2024
And it went like...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 20
Dealbreakers, Baby!
In typical fashion, we gab for 40 minutes and then get down to the topic! J got some action, ya'll!
Dec 16, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 19
So Here's Where We Are
Today's episode is an update on where we are in our "love lives", how we feel about it, and trying to take an honest look at our own mindsets.
Dec 02, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 18
So, would you ever? (Seggs Worker Edition)
In this episode of Relationships & Giggles, J&A take on a spicy and thought-provoking topic: the world of seggs work. From feet pics to OnlyFans, we dive into the different types of work in this industry and ask ourselves the big question—would we do it? Tune in for an honest, hilarious, and insightful conversation about boundaries, societal perceptions, and our personal takes. It's a fun and candid chat you won’t want to miss!
Nov 19, 2024•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 17
For the Anxious Girlies
Mayyyyybe we're all a little anxious this week, but for today, let's focus on the girlies dealing with anxious attachment.
Nov 11, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 16
Death to the Dating Apps
Death to the dating apps! We're done, you're done. Can we just nail the lid on the coffin at this point?? Today we give a breakdown on what the apps were SUPPOSED to be and what they have become.
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 15
The Menendez Brothers - Tragedy and Betrayal
In this episode, we dive into the complex and turbulent relationships within the Menendez family. We explore the psychological dynamics between parents and children, the pressures that shaped their family bonds, and how these connections ultimately unraveled. Through examining the Menendez brothers’ perspectives, we discuss the role of family expectations, control, and abuse, asking how strained relationships can lead to devastating outcomes. Join us as we unpack the warning signs, conflicts, an...
Oct 29, 2024•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 14
After it Ends: Navigating Your Relationships Post Separation
In this episode, we dive into life after a relationship ends and explore how to navigate the emotional and social ripple effects that follow. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or ending a situationship, separation often reshapes not just our romantic lives but our friendships, family dynamics, and even our relationship with ourselves. We'll discuss how to heal, set boundaries, rebuild your sense of self, and find a new normal.
Oct 14, 2024•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 13
The Absolute Worst Part 2
In this episode, we discuss the second worst person we’ve ever met—someone who caused harm through emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and control. We explore how abuse isn’t always physical, highlighting the hidden dangers of psychological and emotional abuse in toxic relationships.
Oct 07, 2024•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 12
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