Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf Topic: The Love Languages This week the crew is joined by co-host of the Anything,Everything, and Nothing Podcast Mei Lin Boykin. They talk about the first two Love Languages; Words of Affirmation and Gifts. They talk about the different types of words of affirmation, as well as the mediums. CL poses the question do people email anymore? And he he says he is not cash apping anything. They talk about best and worst gifts. And they discuss the notebook....
Jul 22, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf Topic: The 4 Agreements This week the crew continues the discussion of the four agreements, don't make assumptions and always do your best. Yusuf talks about how his marriage took a hard left. C.L. says that assumptions make up 90% of our problems. Yusuf says that you find what your looking for. Nique believes there is a reason why people go through their significant others phone. The crew doesn't give up the code. Nique thinks a lot of possessions fu...
Jul 15, 2019•1 hr 2 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf Topic: The 4 Agreements This week the crew talk about two of the four agreements, Being impeccable with your word, speaking and acting with integrity. They talk about saying what you mean and meaning what you say as well as honoring commitments. They discuss never giving into complements & not creating your own personal prison. Contact us via email: RSP@GoDefyLife.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: ...
Jul 08, 2019•1 hr 17 min
Hosts: CL Butler, Nique Crews & Yusuf Topic: Urban Myths On today's episode of the podcast, CL and Yusuf continue to spread the word that Black Men "DON'T" cheat. They talk about Urban Myths when it comes to relationships. Nique Agrees that it's a hot girl summer. They talk about the Myths: Men only want sex, Begin right and do wrong, A person can change, Men don't have real emotions, Men can read minds and If you really love me, I wouldn't have to ask. They also answer viewers questions and...
Jul 01, 2019•1 hr 22 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler & Yusuf Topic: The Package Deal On today's episode the crew talk about dating a single parent. Should paying for a babysitter be put in the dating budget? Should your Ex have anything to say about your current mate? Should you take advise from your kids and do you produce bad sperm? And Nique and Yusuf go at it again! Contact us via email: RSP@GoDefyLife.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter, IG, & Face...
Jun 24, 2019•1 hr 20 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler & Yusuf Topic: Ghosting On today's episode, is ghosting a pandemic? Reasons to be ghosted, The different rules to being ghosted. The crew talks about not giving people closure and they answer the question, what is the difference between "Caspering" & "Ghosting". And not leading with your feelings. Contact us via email: RSP@GoDefyLife.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter, IG, & Facebook @RelStatPodc...
Jun 17, 2019•1 hr 9 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler & Yusuf Topic: Rebound On today's episode the crew talk about rebounding. Are you the rebound? Recurring rebounds. Signs to know if your the rebound. They also discuss recovering after a relationship and cutting off your exes. Less talk and more action. Lastly, how not to become your own rebound. Contact us via email: RSP@GoDefyLife.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter, IG, & Facebook @RelStatPodcast...
Jun 10, 2019•1 hr 11 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf Topic: Conflict Resolution On this episode the crew talks about how to get the real issue. Ways to have a good discussion and how to pick your battles. Trigger words and why arguments are good. The also talk about overgeneralizing, the don'ts, and time limits. Join the conversation by emailing us at RSP@GoDefyLife.com or leave a message on our hotline 843-310-8637. Twitter & IG: @RelStatPodcast...
Jun 03, 2019•1 hr 7 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf The crew talks about how to get to the second date. They discuss things to do to ensure you get a second date. They talk about what not to do. They talk about some activities that you can do for a second date. Segment: Ask Nique Join the conversation by email: RSP@godefylife.com or Call the hotline: 843-310-8637
May 27, 2019•1 hr 19 min
Hosts: C.L. Butler, Nique Crews, & Yusuf The crew continue the conversation from last week. They talk about what to do on a date. They discuss what places or activities make for a great first date. Yusuf discusses his first date spot.... Wendys. Nique talks about when she was taken out of her comfort zone on a date. What type of conversation should you have while on the first date? Segment: Ask Nique Contact us via email at: RSP@Godefylife.com or call us at: 843-310-8637 Follow us on all soc...
May 20, 2019•1 hr 8 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, & Yusuf Topic; The first Date - The Approach - The Conversation that leads to the first date - Where to go for the first date - Ice Breakers - Do's and Do not's of a First date
May 13, 2019•1 hr 4 min
Hosts: CL Butler, Nique Crews, & Yusuf. Topic: Losing yourself The crew Talk about - Losing yourself in a romantic relationship - Losing yourself in your kids - Losing yourself in your Job - Creating Balance Segments: Ask Nique Contact the show: rsp@godefylife.com
May 06, 2019•1 hr 5 min
Hosts: C.L. Butler, Nique Crews & Yusuf Topic: Rejection The crew talks about everything rejection. They answer the question Do you ask why you were rejected? Nique calls the guys shallow and childish. They talk about the benefits and pitfalls of being persistent though rejection. Nique admits to being a predator. And C.L. gives his tactics for approaching a woman who is among friends in public. Segment: Ask Nique. Submit your Ask Nique questions, leave a comment, or give an opinion about so...
Apr 29, 2019•57 min
Hosts: C.L. Butler, Nique Crews, & Yusuf Topic: Break-Ups - Reasons People Break up - What Not to do After a Break-Up -How Do You Save a Relationship? Segment: Ask Nique Contact Us Via Email RSP@godefylife.com or call 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms @relstatpodcast
Apr 22, 2019•1 hr 4 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler & Yusuf English Topic: Friends The crew talk about friends. They answer the question, "Who Makes better friends, men or women?" Nique says that women gross the friendship line frequently. C.L. Doesn't believe in having friends of the opposite sex. C.L., Nique, & Yusuf give their levels of friends. They talk about how marriage changes a person's social life. Should friends report cheating? Segments: Ask Nique Contact us via email @ relststpodcast@gmail.com ...
Apr 15, 2019•1 hr 1 min
Hosts: CL Butler, Nique Crews, & Yusuf English Topic: 50/50 in a Relationship The crew discusses: - What is considered 50/50? - CL says there is no such thing as a 50/50 Relationship - Is living together considered 50/50? - CL says he is not going to play house. - Nique feels that men take women's best years. - Yusuf will leave a date. - And the guys as Nique "What are you really looking for"? Segment: Ask Nique? Join the conversation email: relstatpodcast@gmail.com...
Apr 08, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, and Yusuf English Topic: Deal Breakers & Non-Negotiables The crew talk about the difference between Deal Breakers and non-negotiables. They give their own deal breakers and non-negotiables. Yusuf has modified chivalry. C.L. talks about building good credit with with your significant other. Nique hates needy people. And the crew gets into the "Ask Nique" Segment. Contact the show: email relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us at 843-310-8637...
Apr 01, 2019•1 hr 10 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, CL Butler, & Yusuf English Topic: Communication between men and women - The Crew discusses different word and phrases that have different meanings to men and women. - Nique gets in her Dirty Dancing Bag - Netflix and Chill Segment: Ask Nique
Mar 25, 2019•1 hr 2 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, CL Butler & Yusuf English Topic: The Friend Zone - How do you end up in the friend zone? - Signs of the Friend Zone - Nique says that the friend zone is not a bad place to be - How does one get out of the Friend Zone? Segment 2: Ask Nique Contact us via email: relststpodcast@gmail.com OR via phone: 843-310-8637 Social Media: @relststpodcast (twitter & IG)...
Mar 18, 2019•1 hr 7 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler & Yusuf English Topic: Trust - Can you be in a relationship and not trust someone? - Trust and Social media - What's the timeline for posting a significant other on social media? - Should you have a conversation when you hear things about your significant other? - CL's 3 step process Contact us via email: relststpodcast@gmail.com OR via phone: 843-310-8637 Social Media: @relststpodcast (twitter & IG)...
Mar 11, 2019•1 hr 8 min
Hosts: CL Butler, Nique Crews, & Yusuf English Segment 1: Topic: Cheating Why do people cheat? Can a cheater be trusted? Can a person who is cheated on ever be trusted? Segment 2: Ask Nique Email: relstatpodcast@gmail.com
Mar 04, 2019•1 hr 8 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, CL Butler & Yusuf English Topic: 90 Day Rule Segment: Ask Nique Follow us on Social Media: @relstatpodcast Email us at: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Call us: 843-310-8637
Feb 26, 2019•48 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, CL Butler, & Yusuf English Topics: Can Men and Women be friends? How does your significant other feel about your friend of the opposite sex? What, if any, are the rules and boundaries of plutonic friendship? Segment: Ask Nique To join the conversation or leave comments and questions: Email: relstatpodcast@gmail.com twitter/IG/FB: relstatpodcast
Feb 18, 2019•1 hr 18 min
Hosts: Nique Crews, CL Butler, & Yusuf English Topics: Should men want a gift for Valentine's Day? Edible Arrangements Vs. Flowers for a gift Should women get something sent to their job? Why? Segment: Ask Nique. To join the conversation or leave comments and questions: Email: relstatpodcast@gmail.com twitter/IG/FB: relstatpodcast
Feb 11, 2019•53 min
