Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Are you living with your spouse but feel like you're just living with a roommate? Do conversations revolve only around finances, kids, and chores, rather than the fun and passion you once shared? Many couples experience what's called a "companionate relationship," where intimacy and commitment are present, but the crucial elements of passion and eroticism have faded, often leaving one spouse yearning for more oneness and excitement. This often happens when deep...
Jul 09, 2025•13 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You want to save your marriage, but your spouse doesn’t seem interested. What now? In this powerful episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes and Dr. Joe Beam walk you step-by-step through how to approach your spouse about working on the marriage—even if they’ve checked out, are asking for a divorce, or are involved with someone else. You’ll learn how to: Overcome the fear of asking your spouse for help Avoid common mistakes that push your spouse further away Use a proven,...
Jul 02, 2025•1 hr 9 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens to a marriage when life doesn’t just get hard—it breaks you? In this deeply honest and emotional conversation, Cassia shares her and Cory’s journey of staying married while raising a medically fragile child, navigating grief after miscarriages, and confronting the realities of long-term caregiving. From ambulance rides every three weeks to learning how to love when there’s no guarantee of being loved back, their story is one of resilience, raw fait...
Jun 25, 2025•51 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This is one of the wildest marriage stories we’ve ever seen. When Elisa walked into our couples workshop, she said, “I would rather die than stay married to this man.” She had already had four affairs. Marcos, her husband, had just retaliated with one of his own. They had already divorced once, remarried, and were still stuck in a cycle of resentment, control, and disconnection. By all accounts, their marriage was over. But what happened next turned everything ...
Jun 18, 2025•17 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In today’s episode, we tackle one of the most emotionally charged topics in relationships: narcissism. Whether your spouse has called you a narcissist, or you're wondering if they might be one, this conversation cuts through the confusion and cultural noise. Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Meredith Ball, a Marriage Helper certified coach, to unpack the real meaning of narcissism—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it's become the go-to label in so many hurting...
Jun 11, 2025•23 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! When your marriage feels like it's falling apart, it's tempting to search for answers—especially ones that explain your spouse’s behavior. Maybe you’ve wondered, "Could they be a narcissist?" or "Do they have bipolar disorder?" In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Marriage Helper coach and counselor Meredith Ball to unpack the dangers of diagnosing your spouse. You’ll learn why it’s natural to want clarity, but how labeling your spouse can backfir...
Jun 04, 2025•22 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! He did everything “right”—worked hard, stayed loyal, provided for his family. But when his wife left him for his own brother… he didn’t fight. He tried to understand. He felt bad for them. And somehow, he believed that was love. In this real-life conversation from Marriage Helper, we unpack the painful truth behind passive behavior in marriage—and how it often pushes a spouse away more than anything else. This isn't just a story of betrayal. It’s a wake-up call...
May 28, 2025•35 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What do you say when a friend confesses they’re struggling with pornography? Whether they admitted it directly or you discovered it by accident, knowing how to respond can feel overwhelming. In this honest and compassionate episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes guide you through how to handle these conversations with empathy, truth, and clarity. They discuss the spiritual, relational, and physiological effects of pornography and how to walk with someon...
May 21, 2025•27 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You've probably heard people talk about "manifesting" their ideal relationship or saving their marriage just by thinking positive thoughts. But when your marriage is in crisis, hope alone isn’t a strategy. In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes—CEO of Marriage Helper and trained performance psychologist—breaks down why traditional manifestation falls short and what actually works when your relationship feels like it’s falling apart. You'll discover 3 research-ba...
May 14, 2025•13 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a well-meaning husband provides, protects, and leads—yet still finds himself blindsided by his wife's decision to walk away? In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Nathan McIntyre unpack a real-life story of a man who thought he was doing everything “right” in his marriage… until it all fell apart. You'll hear: ✔ Why many spouses feel emotionally abandoned even when their physical needs are met ✔ How "doing the right thing" can still creat...
May 07, 2025•19 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! 🔎 What Does Research Say About Marital Satisfaction Among Christians? | Marriage Helper + Barna Study In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes dive deep into the fascinating findings from a 2021 survey conducted by Barna Research Group in partnership with Marriage Helper. ➡️ What percentage of Christian couples are truly satisfied in their marriages? ➡️ How does practicing faith impact marital happiness? ➡️ Why do men often report higher...
Apr 29, 2025•34 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The silent treatment isn't always intentional. When your spouse emotionally checks out, it creates a painful void that can feel impossible to bridge. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes tackle this common marriage struggle with uncommon honesty, revealing the hidden causes behind emotional disconnection. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WI...
Apr 23, 2025•15 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Research shows that four specific communication behaviors during arguments can predict divorce with 80-90% accuracy, while eliminating these behaviors can dramatically improve marriage success. • The four horsemen of relationship conflict are defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling • Defensiveness deflects blame and responsibility, creating a downward spiral in communication • Criticism attacks a partner's character rather than addressing specific ...
Apr 16, 2025•12 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Ever found yourself wondering why your spouse doesn't just "get it" without you having to say anything? You're not alone. Marriage communication breaks down in predictable patterns, but understanding these patterns is your first step toward meaningful change. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/cal...
Apr 09, 2025•13 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: htt...
Apr 02, 2025•29 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: htt...
Mar 26, 2025•27 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! There's a lot of bad marriage advice out there. Control and manipulation tactics. Tracking, spying and hacking your spouses devices. Having an open marriage. Watching pornography together. We've heard counselors, therapists and other marriage "experts" tell people to do these things because it can lead to the reconciliation of the marriage. THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE. After decades of working with thousands of couples, we know what works and what does not. We also...
Mar 19, 2025•19 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a marriage suffers from both of the top relationship killers – affairs and controlling behavior? Marcos and Elisa take us through their raw, unfiltered journey of shattered trust and the painstaking process of rebuilding it from the ground up. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/c...
Mar 12, 2025•37 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If you’ve ever felt your relationship is struggling due to miscommunication, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore the compelling concept of SMART Contact™—a vital communication strategy designed to bring couples closer, even during turbulent times. We delve into the intricate balance of pushes and pulls in conversations, revealing how understanding these dynamics can transform your communication and foster deeper connections. If you're struggling in y...
Mar 05, 2025•22 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is your marriage at risk because of limerence? In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down the science behind limerence—what it is, how it differs from romantic love, and why it can be so destructive in marriage. You’ll learn: ✔️ The key differences between limerence and true love ✔️ How to tell if you or your spouse are experiencing limerence ✔️ A powerful tool to assess if boundaries have been crossed ✔️ What to do ...
Feb 26, 2025•27 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! When you don't agree with your spouse, it can be incredibly frustrating. It might be something where you absolutely HAVE TO come to some sort of resolution, but you are both hard set in your views. Handling divisive topics in marriage is extremely important. On one hand, you want to be able to learn how to have healthy compromise with one another. On the other hand, you don't want to go against your own beliefs and values or to become a doormat for your spouse ...
Feb 19, 2025•18 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Can a single decision shake the very foundations of your well-being? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we navigate the turbulent waters of marital distress and explore its profound impacts on our lives. This episode uncovers the intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual challenges that arise when relationships are in crisis. We'll confront how panic and fear can lead to neglecting self-care and clouding our judgment. Through personal stories and insights, we aim...
Feb 12, 2025•20 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when you discover your spouse is in love with someone else? Dr. Joe Beam tackles this heart-wrenching scenario on Relationship Radio by guiding listeners through the emotional labyrinth that ensues. From the initial shock and pain to grappling with a crushed ego and questioning one's reality, Dr. Beam offers a path forward by encouraging acceptance—not to be confused with agreement—of your partner's feelings. This acceptance fosters understanding a...
Feb 05, 2025•21 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Feeling like your marriage is over? Discover the transformative power of self-reflection and respect! You have the power to change everything. What will your first step be? Join the new Save My Marriage Program! marriagehelper.com/membership If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: http...
Jan 29, 2025•23 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the top reasons divorces occur in the United States? Studies show that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce, while 41% of first marriages will end the same way. So what are the underlying reasons, and what can you do to fix that? Find out on today's episode! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehe...
Jan 22, 2025•13 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The episode delves into the idea that happiness is a choice, especially after experiencing life's hardships. Dr. Joe Beam shares personal stories and practical insights about interpreting events positively, whether dealing with serious illness or relationship difficulties. • Exploring the question of happiness after trauma • The significance of personal perspective on happiness • The power of interpreting life's challenges positively • Personal anecdotes highli...
Jan 15, 2025•19 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Trust can be a fragile and complex component of any relationship, as many of us have discovered through personal experience. Imagine rebuilding your relationship after a significant breach of trust; it’s not impossible, but it requires effort and understanding. Today, we unravel the hidden layers of betrayal, from infidelity to financial deceit, and the emotional upheaval that follows. By sharing examples of these betrayals and exploring the motivations behind ...
Jan 08, 2025•30 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam answers questions listeners have submitted to the show. We cover: - The Valley - Limerence -Commitment - & Much more Tune in and share this episode with a friend or family member you think might need to hear it! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: ...
Jan 01, 2025•29 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This episode was taken from our 2nd Annual Very Merry Marriage Helper Christmas. Merry Christmas from all of us at Marriage Helper. We hope you leave with a little more hope after listening to this episode ❤️🎄 If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Insta...
Dec 25, 2024•55 min
Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the most important things to look for when searching for marriage help? Is it experience? Good reviews? A high success rate? The answer is yes… to ALL of those things. But success rate is a more nuanced metric. HOW the success rate is calculated matters just as much as the actual success rate, and that’s what we talk about on today’s episode. In this episode, Kimberly is joined by Dr. John Hill, Director of Research at Marriage Helper. Dr. Hill and Kim...
Dec 18, 2024•48 min
