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Episode 243 Your Mindset Will Make You Or Break You

Jun 13, 202331 min
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Most people allow their bad experiences to break them. Most people do NOT learn from their past experiences. They are blind to the lessons they could learn. Instead people hold on to the negative aspects of every bad experience, and because of it, they are never able to learn from the experience. This mindset keeps people stuck and unable to grow and mature. Mindsets can make you or break you! How you think determines the choices and decisions you make in life. Many people choose to go through life the same. People live cycles and habitual lifestyles, because they do not choose to change.

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Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something for you to think about. Every situation in your life, and I do mean every situation in your life is determined by the mindset that you have. Every situation people go through life struggling when they don't have to. You struggle because of the mindset that you have. You struggle because you're holding onto something that you should have let

go of. You struggle because of that mindset you have that's formed from the experiences, experiences you've gone through that you have allowed to affect your life. Those things that you have held in for so long that causes you to be angry, sad, mad, depressed, resentful, mean, unreach, just so many negative things that form that mindset that you have. Every situation you're involved in is determined by your mindset. How you perceive things is determined by

your mindset. How you think determined by your mindset. Your thoughts form your feelings, and then your actions all determined by your mindset. I don't care if you're rich. If your mindset isn't right, your heart isn't right, you have that unresolved inside of you, You're gonna struggle. You're gonna struggle in your finances. Money is gonna become your god. You're gonna struggle in your finances. You're afraid to spend a dollar. Rich, but you're still

afraid to spend a dollar. Or you're rich and all you do is work yourself to death, because it's all about money, money, money, money, money, money that comes from your mindset. Whether you terrified of losing a dollar or all you want to do is make a dollar, it comes from your mindset. And the reason I'm saying that because some people are obsessive filthy rich, will never spend all of the money as long as they live, but they still making millions upon millions because money is their god. Some

people will do anything in need things for money. So it's your mindset that have you thinking the way you think. Fear, insecurities, filthy rich, but you still have fear and insecurities about so many things. You know, a lot of people say you pay a price to be rich, and you pay a price to be poor. You know, it's all about your mindset. Poor people people make choices, people make choices to live on the streets. I know things happen in people lives. I know things happen, But

you still make a choice to live on the streets. Yeah, I'm gonna say it. You make a choice to live on the streets because you can collect cans, bottles, you can work at fast food places. I mean, there's a million things to do. You can so many, so many jobs that people can have, but they don't want, but they would rather live on the street. So many people choose drugs and alcohol. You don't have to be poor to do that. Millions of rich people are addicted to

drugs and alcohol, millions. But it's because of the mindset. So being poor, you're struggling to get things. Some people have money, but they still live paycheck to paycheck because they have no financial wisdom. Some rich people don't have financial wisdom because they spend everything. They buy foolishly, things that they don't need. Who need ten in fifteen and twenty cars? That's stupid, that's stupid, Yes it is. Who needs five and six houses?

Ridiculous? Who needs a house five million dollars, ten million dollars, twenty million dollars, that's ridiculous. Who need a house with twelve bedrooms? Stupid? But that's the mindset of people. Oh, I have to have bigger than than hers, are bigger than his, a bigger than theirs. That's in maturity, in maturity, But that's the way people think because of what's inside of them. I would never, ever, ever, I don't care if I was a millionaire or billionaire, I would never want a huge mansion

for what. And I know some of you are saying, Oh, you're just saying that because you're not one. No, I'm not. If I wanted to mansion, I can afford to mansion, believe you me. But that's not what I'm about. For what. Most people only use a few rooms in their houses. So why would you think of mansion? Is what you mean? That's ridiculous. People do things for show. People live their lives for other people to see what they have in maturity in maturity, it's

based on the mindset. Oh let me get twenty cars. I want to show all of my cars, but you can't drive but one at a time. It's what is most important to people, things, possessions, material stuff, and that's the rich and the poor. You have poor people who make it the rich people richer by buying all of their their products three hundred dollars tennis shoes. When you don't even have three hundred dollars in the bank.

Please tell me what that makes sense. You're buying three hundred dollar purses when you don't have three hundred dollars in the bank. Come on, So, it don't matter if you rich or poor or in the middle. It don't matter when that mindset it's not right when that mindset has not developed into that mature mindset. And I don't care when anyone says or how you feel about what I'm saying. I know what I'm saying is the truth. Most people

live, and I talked about this on an episode before. Most people live for other people to see what they have get out of here. I care less. I care less. Anybody knows me. No, I care less. I said a few times. I can live in this world all by myself. It wouldn't bother me because I stand on my own me and Jesus. If no one ever support me, it don't make me any difference. I do what God has me to do. That's all I care about.

If nobody want to listen, no one has to listen. It don't affect me one way or the other, because I know what God gives me is the truth. Everything we do is determined by our mindset. Who you choose to be with determined by your mindset. And I'm telling you if people would only just take time to think about it, Think about who you've chosen to be with. Some of you have chosen pedophiles. Some of you have chosen sex offenders, which is a pedophile. You've chosen people who've been in prison

twenty thirty years for murder. You've chosen to be with these people. You've chosen to be with people who have gotten out of prison but have not tried to do anything with their lives. You have chosen other men's wives and other women's husbands, people, girlfriend and boyfriends. You made those choices to be with these individuals that you know you shouldn't be with. If they're not doing right with who they are with, why you think they're gonna do so right

by you? You're not thinking. Because of the mindset you have. You have chosen to get with abusers. Seeing the signs of red flags you were warned, you did not take heed. You've chosen to be with people based on how they look, what they have, But it's all because of your mindset. You have people who have chosen to have children, no one in it out of me so much, knowing full well that you are a messed up individual, but you still chose to bring a child in the world.

Now you're dumping all of your garbage onto your child, in your child's life, bringing them up just like you broken. We see the products every single day all around us. The mindset, the mindset. Everything everything is about the mindset. You have people on jobs, You have bosses having inappropriate relationships, saying and doing inappropriate things with their employees because of what's inside of them. You have teachers sleeping with their students because of what's inside of their hearts,

what's in that core. You have police officers, some police officers abusing and murdering because of what's inside of their hearts. You know it's what's inside of their hearts because a lot of white officers don't treat white people the same way they treat black people. So you know it's because of what's inside of their hearts. I mean, I can go on for days. You have so called pastors who have made themselves pastors or another man have made them pastors,

who are doing all types of things against God in the church. They are allowing all types of world and things in the church because of what's inside of them. You have people sitting in the congregation eating and up because of what's inside of them. I mean you, you have to understand that we don't make a move in life. We don't make a move in life without thinking first. We don't think first. We don't move first and then think.

We think and then moves. But because of so many broken people who have unresolved issues, and they have unhealed hearts and minds, people are just moving boom boo boo boo boo boo boo boom all around millions and millions and millions of people with this brokenness, these mindsets. I'll tell you, I was at a store yesterday and I come out of the store, got in the car, and I just happened to look. It was Cali corner in front of me, and it was a white, older guy just staring at

me. I mean, just mean, mugging me, mean mugging me. I just looked at him for a moment and I blew him a kiss. He turned his head. Why why being so mean? Because there's so many racist people in this world. They have no clue why they're racist. They're racist because it was a behavior that was, you know, brought down from generations, and people still adopting that mindset have no clue. You have young

people who are hating, who are acting racists, have no clue. If they knew the truth, they would just bawl their eyes out if they knew the truth, If they knew the real history, they will be so ashamed. But instead of learning the real history, they're going off of what they think. They're going off of other people thoughts and feelings, and they're acting out because of what other people think and feel They don't know nothing, not

anything, but it comes from that mindset completely. People are so worried about the life of other people. I was looking at a recent concert of a very well known artists, Superpower. She's considered a superpower well known artists, and I was just blown away at the thousands upon thousands upon thousands upon thousands of people there at the concert just worshiping this person, but they don't care

anything about self. Some people rob Peter to pay Paul to get to those concerts, and this person made millions upon millions upon millions upon millions upon millions upon millions of dollars off of your money, millions up on millions upon millions of dollars for the tour that this person recently did. I don't get it.

I mean, well, really I do get it, but it's just oh, it's just oh, my goodness, it's just really, really really crazy to me that how people make rich people richer without a second thought. But those people don't even barely want to say anything to you if they saw you in public, wouldn't give you a dime. Some of them will run from you, but you'll do anything in the world for them. You'll even murder for them when you don't even normm that's because of your mindset. When

you worship people, that's because of your mindset. You so worried about people, because of their status, because of who they are in the spotlight. But you're not even trying to deal with your own unresolved issues. You still are broken, but you're not working on that. You're not working on changing your life. Most of these people that you worship, they're broken too. They're broken. They're worshiping the devil, their relationship hopping, their drug addicts

and alcoholics. They have all types of problems but that's who you worship because of your mindset. I mean total worship. People do it all the time. They worship these teams, just making these people richer and richer, even their last to buy tickets. It don't make sense to me, It really don't. I would never, never, ever, ever, It makes no sense to me. I'm not making rich people richer. I'm just not doing it. But every decision we all make, it's based on our mindset.

To include myself, I just see things different than most people, much different than most people. So I just want people to start thinking about what you contribute to in your own life before you buy that three hundred dollars person when you know you can't afford it, do you need it? Who are you trying to show off for? You're walking around with a three hundred dollars person with no money in it. Who are you trying to show off for?

When you want to buy that multimillion dollar house for what? Who are you trying to show off for? When you want to buy another car and you already have fifteen? Why? Who are you trying to show off for? When you go and buy that one hundred and some thousand dollars car Why who are you showing off for? When you have to show off for anyone,

it's because of your mindset. When you go to work and do wrong, when you are a bully, when you talk about people, when you are envious and jealous, when you're angry and you're hateful and you're mean, it's all comes from your mindset that's formed from your bad experiences. But people continue in life the very same, not trying at all to change, not trying at all to make a difference in their own lives. You have beautiful,

beautiful people who are really beautiful, but they see ugly. Gorgeous people but they see ugly. That's because of the mindset. You have people that are gorgeous and they are so full of themselves, that's because of their mindsets. You have people who are struggling every single day, all day long, wanting to kill themselves because they've gone through life, they never fix their unresolved issues.

Being a went through life compelling all kinds of stuff in their lives, their significant others, children, and so forth, got to a point of a break, and all they think about every day is killing themselves. When the person that you should want to live for the most itself. People take on too much. They take on so much unnecessary stress from other people when they have not dealt with their own brokenness, and you become over just completely

overwhelmed, completely heavy laden. You don't know how to handle it because you never developed any good coping mechanisms. And all people do think about killing themselves. Let me tell you, I've been through the fire. I've been through so much, so much, so much, but not one time did I want to kill myself. No one has to think like that. It all depends on what's inside of you. No one is worth me want to kill myself. Nothing is worth me one to kill myself. And I've gone through

stuff. One time, I purchase a brand new home, smacking brand new construction, saw it being built in everything, and it was totally shoddy, shoddy work, horribly built. Found out the builders wasn't license. I mean, it's a whole big thing. House was falling apart and everything. No one would help me, so I walked away from it. I've gone through I've gone through terrible, a terrible relationship, abused on every level, every every form of abuse. And when I say every form, I mean sexually

physically emotionally, verbally, mentally, every form. I've gone through it. That's why I can say the things that I say because I've been there. I'm not just talking after I'm not just talking out the side of my neck. I had to pause there for a minute because I had to cough, But I'm not just talking out the side of my neck. I've gone through it. I know people who've gone through it. I've dealt with so many people counseling, group sessions, individual couples, and people from all walks of

life just come to me telling me their issues. I don't know why, but that's just my life. I don't mind. That's just my life. But I know no one has to go through life miserable, miserable, sad. You just have to get to a point in life where you want change. I told you in the episode how people struggle every single month, spend every time, don't try to save, and they do the same thing again the next month, and the next month and the next month. How are

you ever gonna get ahead by doing that? But it's what many people are doing. So everything everything we do in life is because of We make our choices and decisions based on our mindsets. You know something that's wrong for you,

you still want it based on your mindset. People overeat. They overeat because they don't have the wheel power to turn something down knowing it's not good for you, but you still want it, because soon as you say I'm not going to eat that boom, your mind kick in and then that old will start turning. I wanted, I wanted, I wanted. Soon as you say it, I want it. I wanted, I wanted. And

that could be a thing, art could be a person. I want him, I want her, knowing you shouldn't be with that person, but that little thing kick in your in your mind, and that's all you can think about being with that person. You have to have more control. You have to have more control. If you don't, things will get out of control because you're not controlling what you're thinking. You're empowering your thoughts because you're just

letting them flow. This is why people end up doing mass killings and murder suicides and homicides, because people get thoughts in their head and they empower themselves. They empower them thoughts by just continue to let them flow instead of saying no, this is negative, I'm not gonna entertain that mess. You know this is not right. No, people just sign on and just keep thinking about it. Keep thinking about it. Now you develop these feelings behind it.

Now you're committing the acts because of the hearts and minds. I know I'm right about it. I know I am. You have parents who are cursing their children out, who are abusing their children in every single way possible because of what's inside of them that has formed the mindsets that they have. Some people are around you right now, got their children chained up in the

homes. People get into situations desperately because they're seeking love, they're seeking fame and fortune, recognition, validation, all types of things because of what's inside of them. It all falls on you. It all falls on you. If you let a person mistreat you, it falls on you. It falls on you. What you choose in your life falls on you. If you choose to stay on the same negative path, it falls on you. If

you make no change in your life, it falls on you. Anyone who don't agree or don't whack what I'm saying and want to talk about it, reach out to me. Go to my podcast page. It will definitely show you my email reach out to me. I will always respond, let's have a conversation about it. Please. You're very welcome to so anytime. Anytime. I'm leaving it right there. I hope you get something out of it. Thank you for listening. Much love to each and every one of you.

I hope everyone is well. May God bless you stay safe. I end every episode the same, but before I go, please share. Also go to my other podcast, which is Relationship Chronicles. Please listen and share. Thank you again. I end every episode the same and I hope you do it, think on it.

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