Welcome to Episode #69 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson, a New York Times Best Selling Author and leading professional expert in child development and parenting. Our conversation takes us into the following topics: Tina’s backstory of becoming a professional parenting expert Attachment science and how attachment patterns develop our relationship templates for life Science’s best predictor of how well our children will turn out Defining...
May 13, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 69
Welcome to Episode #68 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Tony Cooke, a tenured church leader, former Bible College Dean, author, and mentor to church leaders around the world. Our conversation on Relationship Oriented Leadership takes us into the following topics: * Leadership begins with relationships. * Biblical characters and their dysfunctional relationships. * Sanctification happens in the fires of relationships. * The Apostle Paul’s broken relationship...
May 06, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 68
Welcome to Episode #67 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through the powerful nuances of anxiety and panic. Our conversation, which is part 2 of a 2-part conversation, takes us into the following topics: * What it means to be established in truth. * How anxiety and distress is a driver in “progressive Christianity”, and the needs for deconstruction of faith. * How a generatio...
Apr 29, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 67
Welcome to Episode #66 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through the powerful nuances of anxiety and panic. Our conversation, which is part 1 of a 2-part conversation, takes us into the following topics: * Patrick’s story of personal panic attacks. * How addiction is an anxiety disorder and/or an intimacy disorder. * Compulsivity being driven by anxiety. * Over organizing, wo...
Apr 22, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 66
Welcome to Episode #65 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Pastor Tim Somers, Evan Norris (Patrick’s son), and Cole Cooper. This episode was recorded on Elevation Church’s Run the Culture Podcast, known as ‘The number one podcast on Mars’. Pastor Tim serves as the Youth Pastor under Pastor Steven Furtick and is one the sharpest leaders around; Evan and Cole are the best hosts ever. Our conversation includes the following topics: * Reliving high school social a...
Apr 15, 2021•59 min•Ep. 65
Welcome to Episode #64 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Blaine Bartel. Blaine was once considered “Youth Pastor of America.” He was a bestselling author. He hosted a national TV show. He hosted the largest weekly student gatherings in America. However, behind the curtains of his success was a man who was overcome by an unbreakable sexual addiction, severe clinical depression, and marital brokenness. After losing it all–a marriage of 30 years, his reputation...
Apr 08, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 64
Welcome to Episode #63 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with the Manager of the Kansas City Royals, Mike Matheny. Before becoming the skipper for the Royals, Mike played for 13 seasons as a catcher and earned 4 Rawlings Gold Glove Awards. He holds the MLB record for consecutive games without an error. As manager of the Cardinals, he became the first manager in MLB history to guide his team to the playoffs in each of his first four seasons. In his personal life, ...
Apr 01, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 63
Welcome to Episode #62 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through the unique positives and challenges of being a pastor’s kid (PK). We know that even the healthiest PKs have had to process various challenges to become healthy. A few considerations we talk through: * The impact of family and church family systems where a PK fills a character role. * What it’s like for a PK to b...
Mar 25, 2021•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 62
Welcome to Episode #61 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. This episode walks through the power of prayer when engaged in the invisible war, the war that rages in our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes to compel our manner of life. What benefit does prayer offer us in this war? Is prayer simply about delegating to-do’s to God, a task list we wish He would do? Or, is prayer about a process that transforms our emotional experiences while having a direct impact on our circumstances? ...
Mar 18, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 61
Welcome to Episode #60 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Michael Howell of Legendary Sound Studios in Fort Worth, Texas. Michael is a recording artist, artist’s agent, church worship and production consultant, and all-around creative entrepreneur. Our conversation takes us into the following topics: * The real issues in morality. * Making sense of moral guardrails. * How sin or “missing the mark” should be framed up. * Proverbs and the “street of the prostit...
Mar 11, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 60
Welcome to Episode #59 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through how our historical stories drive our hysterical states. Our conversation takes us into the following topics: Why knowing your own story from an emotional perspective is so important. How our stories are about emotional needs being met or unmet. How our stories impact our personality formation. What our bodies do...
Mar 04, 2021•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 59
SUBTITLE: Welcome to Episode #58 the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through parenting healthy sexuality in a hyper-sexualized world. Our topics take us into why it is important for parents to know, define, and clarify what sexual “sin” is and how engaging “sinful” behavior has life-consequential risks. We learn how our past sexual stories have formed our present parenting strateg...
Feb 25, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 58
Welcome to Episode #57 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being as we talk through parenting healthy sexuality in a hyper-sexualized world. Our topics take us into why parents avoid sexual conversations, the church’s culture of secrecy and shame around sexuality, the importance of consistent appropriate sex conversations with kids throughout their lives, and how to actually talk to your kids a...
Feb 18, 2021•1 hr 25 min•Ep. 57
Welcome to Episode #56 (#6 of our 2021 season) of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Rick and Christine Presley on all things “sexual addiction.” They are therapists and experts in the field of addiction and partner betrayal. They are licensed marriage and family therapists, and experienced treatment providers in grief, loss, and trauma recovery. Their certifications as certified sexual addiction professionals, EMDR providers, and partner betrayal clinicians mak...
Feb 11, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 56
Welcome to Episode #55 (#5 of the 2021 season) of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Rick and Christine Presley on all things “sexual addiction.” They are therapists and experts in the field of addiction and partner betrayal. They are licensed marriage and family therapists, and experienced treatment providers in grief, loss, and trauma recovery. Their certifications as certified sexual addiction professionals, EMDR providers, and partner betrayal clinicians mak...
Feb 04, 2021•57 min•Ep. 55
Welcome to Episode #54 (Episode #4 of our 2021 season) of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. This episode erupts with bold ideas around “the gift of righteousness” and it’s radical implications. When God looks at you and me, what does He think and feel? Can we do anything to make God love us more? Can we do anything to make God love us less? Are there things we can do to put God in a better mood to us? Are there things we can do to shift God into a negative mood towards us? The “gift of rig...
Jan 28, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 54
Welcome to Episode #53 (Episode #3 of our 2021 season) of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s episode is from Patrick’s message series The Invisible War, which examines the devil, his strategies, arguments, reasonings, and doubtings that are designed to kill, steal, and destroy the believer. For many Christians, an infatuation with the idea of spiritual warfare, focused on external circumstances, keeps them in emotional drama. Yet, Scripture shows that in the five New Testament refer...
Jan 21, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 53
Welcome to Episode #52 (Episode #2 of our 2021 season) of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being. He is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. And, he is the author and editor of Reclaiming Sexual Wholene...
Jan 14, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 52
Welcome to Episode #51 in our 2021 new season of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Dr. Todd Bowman, a psychologist, neuroscientist, and amazing human being. He is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. And, he is the author and editor of Reclaiming Sexual Wholeness. In to...
Jan 07, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 51
In today’s episode #50, I have a conversation with Dr. William Struthers about his great book, called “Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain.” So we have titled this conversation, “A Neuroscientists Perspective on Porn and the Brain” and will be talking through why porn and sexually acting out is so common within Christian leaders, even though they have values that align otherwise. This episode is part two of a two-part conversation I had with Bill. For those of you who don’...
Dec 17, 2020•45 min•Ep. 50
In today’s episode Bill shares his own journey towards becoming an expert in the field of the behavioral sciences, he takes us into his great story of coming to faith in Christ and how Jesus is central to everything he does. I love when Bill talks about how he explores the sciences without losing his grounded faith. There are so many enjoyable take-aways, I can hardly wait for you to hear it. Today’s episode is part one of a two-part interview. Part two, which releases next week, will be the fin...
Dec 10, 2020•44 min•Ep. 49
This episode is one of my favorites so far. Ben shares his own story of repeated tragedy, then the ensuing depression that led to suicidal thinking. We go strong on what happens spiritually. Then we go strong on the brain and how it is experiencing anxiety, depression and suicide. We walk through concepts of neuro-theology and how spiritual exercises truly do give access to real transformation. Our time together felt at times like we were just exploring ideas as friends, forgetting that we were ...
Dec 03, 2020•48 min•Ep. 48
DIFFERENTIATION begins with our God given “free moral agency.” Our ability to choose puts a unique and full responsibility square on our individual shoulders. Yet in time, in family systems, in social systems, we see people lose their sense of uniqueness, their individuality, and they become emotionally unsure of where they begin and where they end. They become enmeshed, feeling the need to please others, absorbing other people’s emotional states as their own. And before long, the gift of “free ...
Nov 19, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 47
Today we are in episode #39 with my friend, Joyce Hill. She has served in multiple Fortune 500 companies as their Organizational Director. Her career has taken her into the C-suites of Sprint Telecommunications, State Street, H&R Block and Chrysler Financial. After years in the marketplace she took her experience and expertise into the classroom as an adjunct University professor. Our conversation today is titled, “A Crash Course in Emotional Intelligence and Feedback – Part 2 of 2” In today...
Sep 24, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 39
Dr. Bowman is a psychologist, neuroscientist and amazing human being. He is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He’s an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He is a Course Consultant for Highlands College in Birmingham, Alabama. And, he is the Author and Editor of Reclaiming Sexual Wholeness. In today’s episode, we talk about how relationship injur...
Sep 17, 2020•55 min•Ep. 38
Dr. Bowman is a psychologist, neuroscientist and amazing human being. He is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He’s an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He is a Course Consultant for Highlands College in Birmingham, Alabama. And, he is the Author and Editor of Reclaiming Sexual Wholeness. In today’s episode, we talk about how relationship injur...
Sep 10, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 37
n today’s episode you will hear from Steve Cuss. Steve is an author, lead pastor, sought-out mentor of pastors and marketplace leaders, has 1,600 hours of supervised ministry in clinical pastoral education, and has done extensive work as a chaplain at a level-one trauma hospital. This one is titled, “Managing Leadership Anxiety”. Our conversation covers everything from chronic anxiety, burnout, to drivers that make us think we need something that we don’t actually need, leadership resilience fro...
Sep 03, 2020•1 hr•Ep. 36
oday we are in episode #35 with my friend, Joyce Hill. She has served in multiple Fortune 500 companies as their Organizational Director. Her career has taken her into the C-suites of Sprint Telecommunications, State Street, H&R Block and Chrysler Financial. After years in the marketplace she took her experience and expertise into the classroom as an adjunct University professor. Our conversation today is titled, “A Crash Course in Emotional Intelligence and Feedback – Part 1 of 2” In this p...
Aug 27, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 35
In today’s show you will hear from an expert and trainer in trauma, addiction, and all things related to compulsive or unwanted behavior, Edwina Reyes. She trains state and national organizations such as the Department of Defense Military Community and Family, and the Department of Health and Human Services. Edwina also serves as the professional guest and mental health expert for TV channel KHON2 in Honolulu, Hawaii. Our conversation in this episode covers topics ranging from Edwina’s abusive p...
Aug 20, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 34
Welcome to Episode #33 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. The first section of this podcast is about a 30-minute cut from a teaching Patrick did on marriage called, “War of the Roses.” The emphasis was on how grief compels us to control, avoid and/or shut down in every sphere of life, including relationships. The second section of the podcast is with psychologist, Dr. Todd Bowman, as we dig further into the grief circuits of the brain. Be sure to join us next month, September 10, during ...
Aug 13, 2020•53 min•Ep. 33
