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is anybody listening? Is anybody anybody anybody listening? What makes you feel like that? I don't know? Anyway, listen, we have so much to talk about. Okay, first and foremost, you know, per usual reasonably Shady moment of the week. And I have one, of course you do, yes, m I have three girls. Y'all know them well. I love them. They're in high school and they go to the same high school. So it's three. It's like Briant girls the hard way, Like they come down the hall like it's three.

It's like, don't mess with the Brian girls. Okay, So there was one little girl in particular that decided to mess with Angel decided yes and I'm I'm gonna call her. Can I call her a little white girl? Or I can't?

I can't say that. Yeah, that's what she was, y'all. Okay, So she decided to tell Angel she she was kind of flexing on Angel, like she was smarter than Angel, and kind of told Angel, yeah, I do have to say that she was she was a little white girl because she told Angel that Angel should only apply to a black cop o hell, because that's where she would feel comfortable. What, yes, okay, why did this girl offer her unsolicited advice? First of all? Or was this a friend?

It was she she's a friend of me. Okay. So and they were talking about you know where do you think you're going to call? You know where you're gonna apply to college? Right? It's they were having a nice friendly conversation that went left. Okay. So Angel, y'all, is my sweetest child, and she don't really she don't want no controversy or no conflicts. You don't want no troubles in the streets. So what does she do? She told

her older sister ak a little just yeah. So she goes to tell Grace and Grace said, she said what Grace said? They were like in like the little courtyard they were eating. Grace packed up all of her ship and she was like, I'll be back and went to go find her. Okay, she wants to go find a little girl that bothered Angel. She found her, Oh my god, and Grace said, don't you ever talk to my sister

any O'Connor way again. Don't you ever say anything to my sister that is going to bother her period matter of fact, don't ever talk to her again. Okay, So the little girl started crying. The victim. The victim started crying, and she said she would apologize to Angel immediately. What she did. She came to apologize to Angel, and she cried more, Oh my god. And the shady person of the week is this little w girl? Yeah, like, where

are with? I don't don't. First of all, they're they're out of predominantly white school, yes, right, So why would this young lady think that they would not be comfortable, that they would only be comfortable in all black school or black school. I don't know that that makes no sense to me. I don't know, but it was borderline racist and I like it. Yeah, it definitely is racist undertones. And let's I want the record to reflect Angela is at four point two student and this girl is not.

She didn't want Angels to maybe apply to the same schools as her and take her and take her spot. It might be that too, but all I want to know is I got a little little girl. I know who you want. I got my eyeballs on you you are. Does she have an explanation for that? She has no explanation. She just apologize and said she would never do it again because Grace got her together. Okay, yes, I don't mess with the brown girls. Kind of well, before I

get to my shady moment, which isn't really exciting. Um. I was walking in the mall one day, yeah, and it was like these two young girls in front of me and they were just chit chatting and I heard them say, oh, yes, um, my friend thinks this girl and her school is so cool because her mother is on the Real Housewives up at Tony And I said, oh, look at them talking about yourself. Girls, they are cool, And I wasn't on the just chuckled. I was like, now,

I think that that's very cute. It was cute. It was very cute. And by the way, oh, and my kids went back to school after you know, we've been on breaks and its snowed. Um. Yeah, my my kids are the big man on campus because they got a gift from Nicki Minaj. Yes, all the students, well, like we saw that Nicki Minaj gave you a gift. They were already cool, but yeah they're even cooler, thank you. Yes, they're in the stratus fear. Yes, okay, what is your

reasonably shady moment? I mean, I'm just gonna give it to myself, you know, well actually not you always, I'm not going to do that. I switched it. I'm I'm really sick and tired of these damn furniture companies taking forever with my damn furniture. I'm so sick of it. And now it's like really bothering me because I've taken my Christmas decorations down, which filed that void decorations and the lights and the you know, just that nice little

feeling you're now they're gone, and I still don't have furniture. Okay, So and people keep asking me for a house store and I'm not giving a house store when I have no furniture. Okay, Okay, I had to take my own house story yet. I mean, I have old furniture. I have like furniture from my old house, but that's not the furniture that I want it. It's like, yes, it doesn't fit my space. So I get you listen, these furniture companies and these anything home related, it's gonna take them.

Oh my gosh. Like I literally ordered furniture in August and it's January. Yeah, you got a couple of more months. No, I don't. Okay, I'm sorry. I was just I will not be the bearer of bad news. Okay. There's something that's I've been itching to talk about. All right. So there's this documentary documentary. It's on Disney Plus on National Geographic. Okay, so if you have Disney Plus, you have National Geographic. It's on there. It's called The Rescue. The Rescue, Okay,

never heard of it. Remember a couple of years ago when this is about the book the Thailand Soccer. Yes, Oh should I watch that? Feel like I know how it's going to end? Well no, no, but you need to see how they got to the end. Okay. So let me just say this. I was burying. I remember being so intrigued because like every day you're like, did they get them, did they come out? What's going on? What's happening? Right? Okay, so this football team ballers, like

fifteen year old boys soccer or whatever. They got stuck in the cave. Okay. So after I'm not gonna tell you what happened. But after I saw the documentary, I immediately thought, I want to discuss this with Oprah Winfrey. Right, I know my best friend Oprah, Right, So I wanted

to call her. I don't have her number, by Oprah because I felt like Jesus was involved in the documentary, Like I felt like it was a spiritual universe, you know how Oprah is very universal, spiritual all that I felt like that was going on, and I was like, Oprah, I really want to talk to you about this. And so I was like, how do I get to Oprah or discussed the rescue? At least want to tell her to watch the documentary. So if anybody knows open, tell

her to watch the documentary. It's on Disney Plus, so that she and I can discuss it. We don't have to talk about anything else, like we can get off the phones. I just want her take I want her perspective. I want you felt moved. I was moved so many episodes one it's a movie, it's a documentary. And when I tell y'all, let me tell you. Oh, at the end, I was bawling. Cry. I was bawling cry. I know. And let me just say this. Let me just Robin doesn't cry, so Robin might know. I do cry. You do?

I do cry? And I like I cry when people cry. Oh yeah, that's right, you do. You do. Let me just say this, if you watch this whole documentary and you do not feel like there is a god, there's something wrong with you. Okay, so just everybody watch it, Okay, Moving on, Robin, is anything you want to share with us? Um, anything I want to share with you? Okay. So it's just like really random. I was in the shower and I was doing one of my like routine after shower things.

I and I just thought about how it got, how we started doing it, why, and I and I thought this would be fun to share with you and want to started doing something in the shower. I just I just want to where the story is going. Okay, all right, It's a I would say, a beauty, a beauty reach many in the shower. So I was like, oh, let's talk about like quirky beauty regiments, are even quirky, but like you know, special beauty regiments that you maybe have

learned from someone. Okay, oh I have one, Okay, but go ahead. So um years ago and two thousand two one was drafted to the Washington Wizards, okay, okay, and one of his teammates was Michael Jordan's. Yes, yes, the great almighty Michael Jordan's. And one day one came home from practice and was like, I got something new for you. What this is? Is this? Yes? I was like, I have when you said I got something new for you, and he learned it from Michael Jordan's. So many things

went through my mind right now, I can't be least expected. Okay, is this X rated? No? Okay, PG rated very okay? All right. He was like, when you finished in the shower and you turn the water off, put some baby all on you, you lock the moisture. Okay, that's not I thought you were gonna say that. Michael Jordan told wand this well, and so then my my question was like, well, how did you know this? Like did you watch him do this? In the shower like Michael Jordan did. Michael

Jordan making a team announcement. Yeah, so you know in in in professional in sports locker rooms, they're very free Willie, Yes, And so I think that's just something he observed. You know, when Michael turned the water off, he grabbed his baby oil and he slathered his body and baby oil. And if you think about Michael, he was always so nice and like, yes he was, he was glistening exactly. Yes, you know what's so crazy about this conversation. That's what

Sherman does. And Sherman might have learned it from Michael. From Michael Jordan's Okay, So for those of you all who do not now I use the data guy named Sherman Douglas who played in the NBA years ago when Michael played. So Sherman might have gotten this or can

we say that Michael got it from Sherman. M probably not, I mean maybe or maybe it's like you know, um, it's with six degrees of separations, so like Sherman got it from someone else to got it from Michael, I don't like you know whatever, right, it's so we've literally been now it's it's not baby oil anymore. It's body oil, right,

like because baby oil. I don't know what they say, there's like toxins and so anyway, so it's about like body oils will buy and like literally turn the water off while your water, why your body's damp, put the oil on you and your body you're just giving yourself a little bit more more moisture and still put lotion on. And I saw Sherman do it, but and I just was like I thought he was because you know Sherman say, brown skin man. I was like, Okay, that's what the

brown skin man doing. But I need to do it too, Yes, yes, okay, isn't that neat? I like that? Okay, let me take my quirky, my quirky beauty regiment, so to speak. So I one time, a long time ago, Derek Ruther Rutherdge. Derek was makeup artists. He does He's famous for doing like Oprah's makeup for years. He did my makeup and I was very young, and so he my face at the time, I think, because I was probably like sixteen,

was very oily. My skin was oily. So he put like a very thin layer of milk of magnesia on my face, and it like like sucked up all that oil and it was like a barrier between he was like a primer, kind of like a primer, but it was like a barrier and it mattened my face out and then he put on the foundation and all that kind of stuff. So I was like, this is amazing. So I used to use it when I was like,

you know, early twenties, like on my tea zone. I was, you know, extra beautiful with my milk of magnetio on my face, and no one knew, none the wiser I might have to try that. Yes, my face isn't my face, you know, has my skin has changed or whatever. So I don't have the issue anymore. But like beauty to number five three exactly level. Don't you love little beauty tips? Yes, And you can get malcolm magnesia from a CBS and you're right, but it's in your what do you call

it anti ant acid I, oh, malcol magnesias something like that. Yeah, Like what what form is it in? It's a it's a it's a liquid. It's like a liquid. So it's like pepto bismo kind of yeah, but it's white. It's white. Yeah, so it does dry white a little bit, so you gotta make sure you know how to play around with it. But yes, said it's my beauty tip for you people. I looked that up and and can I just say so, speaking still on beauty, Yes, um, these lash extensions that

we get are like life series. I okay, so my lashes completely grew out. Yeah, And I was so worried because like the weeks, you know, the past few weeks, I would like look in the mirror and I'd be like, Roman, You're so ugly. Like I would literally be like, oh my god, like what is wrong with you? You're so ugly. You're like you're losing it. And I realized it was because I didn't have lashes. I got my lashes done yesterday and I was like, yes, no, lashes are everything.

They will change your face. Yes, it was so insane how big of a difference it me. But I really felt really ugly these past couple of weeks, like really ugly. That's like I'm not like I've been in the house. I'm not getting my hair done. My hair is brown like all that type of stuff. Oh, and I'm pale. I need to go to the Tanni s Alon. I know, We're not supposed to do that, but yeah, well I need I need to spreime. I mean, I'll do both. But you look beautiful, Robin, Thank you, thank you. Do

you have a strip? One? I have a strip because my lashes are growing out, so I had to put a strip on top and I can't That ship annoys me. Yes, yes, Carter, do you have anything you want to say? Look, my son Carter is in this room all under the table, touching my feet, so I have not said any curse words. Carter. I'm just gonna let you say hi, okay, because you want your attention. Let me give your attention. Okay, yes you did, Okay, say Hi. Just come over here, everybody,

Hi Carter. Hello, you got anything to say? Come my mom like reasonably shady? Yeah? Actually your mother is shady? Hello? Yes? On a scale of one to ten, how shady am I ten? Say? Okay? Yes? But you love it? Okay, all right, thank you, Carter, Thank you, Bud. Alright, so guys, we're coming up with a new reasonably shady segment. Okay, we've had you know, you know, we tell our reasonaly shady moments of the week, but we have a new one. Okay, and this reasonably shady segment is as seen on TV. Yes,

is it reasonable or is it shady? Which one? Is it? Yes? Is it reasonable or is it shady? All right? So what we want you guys to do is email us with scenarios that you and I don't know, your loved one, your sister, your aunt, with scenarios that you're going to whatever, whatever the situation worker, and we will tell you whether or not it's reasonable or shady. Exactly right. Let us be the judge whether it's reasonable or shady. And like

I said, as seen on TV. You saw us do this on TV, and we think it would be appropriate to bring it to the pod. Yes, we're bringing it to the pod. So if you didn't watch The Real Housewives Potomach, we will let you know that we played a game when we introduced this podcast, and we put out scenarios to all the ladies and we asked them, do you think this is reasonable? Do you think this

is shady? And you know, they were very shady questions that we asked that y'all don't have to be that shady, but we would like for you to be that shady. You can be shady, but we want to give you, like we if there's some sort of debate that you're having between you know, a friend or a spouse, a partner, cowork or whatever, like, let us be a judge. Let us tell you you know who is right, who's wrong, who's shady, who's not blah blah blah blah blah. Yes,

I absolutely love that. So email us at what's up at reasonably shady dot com you're reasonable or shady questions and it's gonna be um a segment. Hopefully we get some great questions. We better get someone some good ones because we're gonna talk about them, I know now speaking of talking about like a couple or maybe like three or four episodes ago, we talked about things black people say,

like the African American urge. Yes, this black people urge and when we say things that are universal, okay, black people do. And so I think we said, are there some like white Yeah, so like you know, white people, if if you want to tell us your urges or things that y'all saying, send them to us. And y'all did all sent and we want to go over okay because it's funny to us. So Sophie Harding, since the white urge is to say, oh, that's got a kick

to it. Okay, So never whenever we taste anything spicier than catch up, Yes, yes, yeah, y'all do that. Y'all do that. Every everything is spicy. Yes, but everything has a kick to it, has a kick to it. Y'all do that. That is universal? All right? Next one, so Britain Linkey, she said, oh my gosh, nothing on that list was more relatable. It wasn't a black urge, it was a human urge. Then screaming representative, So white people, yo representative. So when you're when you're like calling and

you're and you get these they're not robot calls. When you're calling, you're trying to get customer service, and you gotta hit all these buttons, we just go nuts and we just are screaming yes, yes, but it's not a black things. It's everybody said, everyone thing. Yes. It's good to know that not only black people get frustrated with that. Yes, okay. So Sarah Kelly is contributing her white is um that all white folks say. She said, this is especially for

white women. But I can I cannot even count the amount of times I've complimented a friend, a family member, or a stranger on their outfit, and they're sole response to us, thanks, it has pockets. Okay, okay, okay. I can see white people saying that, Yes, but there's nothing better than like a cute, comfy dress that has pockets. Oh my gosh, thank you, has pockets, and then you put your hands in your pockets. On the side my white side would come out. I would do that, Oh

my gosh, thank you, that's pockets. Oh my gosh. I could see every Becky saying that. Okay, all right, Matthew Phelps gave me some white is ms. The white person urged to say, let's rock and roll when it's time to leave. Yeah, I have heard many of white people say, let's okay, guys, let's rock and roll and roll with like the arms, yes, with the arm, with the arm movement.

You know, the arm movement. Okay, you bought your fist and then you like and then you you swing it back, you swing your sing your elbow back, and then you swinging in. Let's rock and roll like the middle. That's a rock and roll guys, all right. The white person urged to say, wow, we got here just in time when you see a long line form behind you. Yes,

I say that when I go to Chappole Chile. Yes, I'll walk in and I'll be like four, you know, four people in front of me, and then like three minutes later, I'll turn around to be like twenty people like you. So that might be universal because I do say that too. Yes, um, the white person urged to stay to the cashier. I guess it's free when the item doesn't stand. I say that when it's scams, I'm like, oh, but didn't I free? But how can we make that free?

There's a scratch on this. This should be free. And that's that's the black cheep in me. Okay, Okay, so Zoe Ezrin says, calling target tar j Okay. Yes, yes, I definitely learned that from white people. Yes, I don't know who I learned that from. Maybe you. I call it targe. Yes, ex definitely a white thing. And then I wish I could show you all this. She sent a picture of smiling like this, and it's literally like a white white boy with like the the slid their smile, Yes, smiling,

but with no teeth. Yeah, but it's like a wide slither like it's like y'all, y'all are telling on yourself, which is absolutely hilarious, which we love. Okay, all right, Robin, give us I think that was it. Yeah, I think I got them all. Okay, Yes, I love it. I wanted to ask you about um because we were talking about door dash right by the way. For the record, everybody knows I hate door dash, like I door dash. I've never used door dash, and they got it right.

Oh my god, I know, and I want to I need to stop ordering a damn cookie or dessert or a drink you want to get it, you never get it. Anything that's a necessary or like an add on at the end, you're never getting it. Don't order it. And then and then once you open your bag, they're gone. They're in their car and they're gone. So it is not even their fault, is it. It's not know what can they do? It's not their PHL. It's the people

at the store who's packing the orders. So you just have to go online and you know, click help, Is there something with your order? Yes? Is there? I don't that's missing? Yes? Like oh do they bring it to you know? They credit your account. Oh. I've always just been mad and just keep my money. Well I guess, so, okay, I want my three dollars to Okay, but isn't there like high level door dash employees and that mind you don't even know what makes you a high level employee?

So okay, so I read this was on readit apparently, and um, there are door dash employees that make like

four dred thousand dollars a year what doing what? I don't know, but like their high level so meaning they're like I think they're like, you know, an engineer, like they're doing the software all this stuff behind the scenes whatever, and they're mad because DoorDash requires, um, their high level employees or every employee to deliver at least to to I think they to dash at least one dash per month. Oh so even if you're like in the office, you

gotta dash out once a month. You gotta delivering order once a month. So this high level employee was complaining, like I did. That was not in the job description. That's not you know, I'm a data developer, you know, computer with Yes, I went to M I T but whatever, right, And so they have a problem with that. But I feel like that's not a bad thing because that at least helps you maybe deliver a better experience to the customer, like the trocer you are to the experience and the product,

which is delivering the food. Um, the better you can do your job at a high level. Very true, very true. Right, well, and and and everybody should kind of know every facet of the job. One facet of the job is dashing, Yes, delivering. I just I don't want the people to suck at it, right exactly so. But it's like, how, but how do you you know if you're creating the website or the software, like I don't, I don't know, I don't. I'm not I'm not mad at it. Like, yeah, I probably wouldn't

want to do it. I was you know, some hoity toity high paid engineer that wears, you know, penny loafers or something. But why do they have to wear penny loafers, Robin, Because that's what they do in the movies. They were penny loafers. Okay, yes, of course, yes. Do they put the pennies in the middle, yeah, okay, like literally put the pennies in the middle. But okay, most people probably

don't even know what penny loafers are. I know, you probably don't, yes, because they don't think the saddles anymore. M I want to find something or saddle shoes, saddle shoes. I had saddle shoes. I think. I think people a private school still wear saddle shoes. Okay, I think so. Yeah, my kids don't wear saddle shoes. But I used to have them and they looked they were like spiffy white

with the black. I was so cute, really comfortable. They're not really that comfortable, but I like, once I had them on and with my little short skirt it on, you couldn't tell me nothing. Yes anyway, So yes, I just thought that was so interesting, and I feel like other companies probably should do the same thing. Like if you work for a foot locker and you're like, you know, a senior vice president of marketing, Yeah, then maybe you need to work in the store for a day or two.

I agree with that. Yes, I totally agree with that. Yeah. I was gonna say something out of the way, but I'm gonna I'm gonna keep it nice. I'm not gonna I was gonna be very shady, but I won't. Like, if you want to be on reality television, should try it out. She needuld be on YouTube for a day, see if that works out for you, and then get you on reality called The Real Housewives. No, but no, c doesn't work that way because they want to they

want to see a train right. No, but but that's equivalent to saying, like a producer, so you know, like the people, the people behind the cameras, yes, like yeah, y'all try Oh that's good, you know, yes, and they and and every producer that I've had these like we had these conversations. I'm like, oh, they'll be like whoa, I'm so happy. I don't do what y'all do. I couldn't do it. Yes you can. You can be behind camera talking crazy to ume, just directing everything. Yes, Eric Fuller,

I'm calling you out. I want to see I want to see you in front the camera one time, Eric, in front the camera, but not yeah that wasn't in certain situations. I want to see you talking in front the camera, Eric Fuller. That's all I have to say. But all the people who work in the office, and they, you know, right in their little reports and making things happen, like can't get your butt in front of this camera

one day? Yes, before you just start directing us and producing us, and telling us what to do, telling us that we worthy that we suck it. What can you tell me? I suck it? What I do? Get your ass in front the camera. There was a list of like best words that you have. Okay, um, this is just a little silly mean getting a little chuckle on Instagram. Don't you love Instagram for all the little silly stuff, little silly means and stuff. So I came across and I got a little chuckle. So this is a list

of some of the best. And I'm gonna preface this with saying I think a white person made this list. Okay, some of the best words literally ever bamboozled, I use bamboozled, Like, oh my gosh, I was bamboozled. Yes, you know, let us stray, but bambooso has to come first for you. Be hoodwinked. Okay, absolutely love that. Flabbergas dude. Okay, I've never said Flabbrica, never said I do, never have like when you're just like, I am so flabbergast dude. I

was so flabbergasted that she did that. I've never used flabbergasted. Okay, Well, else we got like, oh my gosh, discombobulated. That is my word. Oh. I use that all the time because I am discombobulated on a daily Yes, and I'd be like robbing is discombobulated, like hello or throbbing? Are you here? Yes? I stay, stay being discombobulated. This is your word again? Oh, yes the time. Okay, this one I've never heard in my life. Catti wampus, Caddie wampus, Cattie wampus. I don't

even know what that means. Caddy wampus. Okay, google that on your phone. Tell me what Catia we'll come back to. We'll come back to Cattie wampus. Okay, what else we got? But if anyone used carte wampus tell us and how how? Okay, I used this one too, because I do this lolligagh, lolli gag. I always say lolli gag over here. I said to my kids, y'all over here, loli gag getting a car, getting the car. Yeah, let's go do your homework. I don't use this one. Malarkey. No who says malarkey?

No one says malary, Like, what is that that's? Like? What does that mean? Like a bunch of malarkey like yeah, um, but that's a that's a very that's very eighties. I'm bringing it back. Robin's bringing it back, bringing back malarkey Guys season seven malarkey. After Candice talks, Robin's gonna say my larky Okay, kerr fuffle, kurfl I say ker fluffle. It's kerr fluffle, kerk fluffle, klu kerfuffle, a kerr fluffle that's like a scuffle, like a ker fluffle. Okay, ker

kerfuff kerfuffle Okay. And clearly I've never used kerfuffle. I used kerr fluffle if I was like, oh, and there was like a little kerr fluffle, like it's a little scuffle. Yes, So it's a kerfuffle worse than a scuffle. It's it's it's like almost a scuffle. It's building to a scuffle, when a scuffle builds to a fight. Got it? Yes? Okay, So first comes to kerfuffle, yes, and then a scuffle. Yes, yeah, it's like spelled like scuffle, but with a kerfuff okay. Brew ha ha oh I love a good bru ha

ha oh. Yes, yes there was a bru ha and it was talking in some no nosense and it was bru ha ha ha. Okay, So I've looked up caddie wamp us and that's like an old nineteenth century American slang, and it refers to an imaginary fierce, wild animal like savage. Like caddie wamp us. You're a caddie whamp as supposed to saying savage. So so megana stallion instead of what I'm a savage, I'm a caddie whamp This. No, that would never be hit song. No, no, Beyonce would never

join in that song. Never never. Okay, I'm a caddie want this? Yeah, no, all right, this is one I got. Okay, nincompoop nickapoo, Yeah we see, Nick Pool. Yes, you little nick kompoop. That means you are stupid, dumb or something. I feel like, is it? Is it like a party pooper, but I feel like I use it as a term of endearment. Nick kom poo. Yeah No, I think that's like a air head, is it? I think? So? Maybe I'm a Nick kampoo on Tuesdays. Sedatto. Oh yes that's

my word. I'm about to scedattle out of here. Let me sett let me get my car, scaredattole up out of here. Yes, I like scedatto, Now this one I don't. I only use it when and when I'm at the deli. Pumper Nickel, Yeah, pumpernickel. Yeah, like bread, pumper nickel bread. Yes, but like, why would you say that and not be referring to bread. Yeah, I don't know. That's what. We need to look that up. Okay, Yeah, yeah, I've never used pumper nickel for anything other than to describe a

brown piece of bread. No, it has like the that's that rye with the browns? Right, Okay, yeah, pumper nickel. I don't really eat pumper nickel. Yeah, I haven't. I don't like pumper nickel. I don't think Okay. So Rob, was that the last one? That was the last one? Okay? So I had actually I had a question for you because, um, I realized that I know you well. However I don't. I can know you better, right, I can get to know you better. So I was driving down street one

day and they were talking the radio. They were talking on the radio, and they were talking about you're right right, and do you find it necessary to wear matching panty and brawl? And I said to myself as far as Rob is gonna scarn, I don't know. I don't know the answer, right, what do you think the answer is? I think you don't care. Yeah, so you don't care. Okay, they have to be they don't have to be exactly matching, but they can coordinate. Oh okay, I like that, you

know what I mean? But sometimes they don't match at all, like totally random, because because it is kind of weird. It's like underwear. You know, you can buy underwear of all types of colors and flavors. It's like, are you gonna like I don't know. For me, I just want I just need a brown. I mean, I mean my braws are black or tan or nude, and that's it. Like I don't need like red, purple, green leper. I

might have a leoper, but like, yeah, like I don't. So. I I was very matchy matching for like the majority of my life, and even to the point where my my my braw panty drawer is a lined up matching Like so there's like a pink brawl pink underwear. So and it's like exactly, like okay, this pink brawl and this pink underwear were made by the same company, and they were meant to go together. So the pink Brawl might have like three underwears like with it and may

or may not be from the same company. Okay. So but then here lately it's just a free for all. It's just it's just whatever I feel like, and especially lately, I feel like, you know, Kanye West started this whole nude trend of Yeah, I'm sorry a guy named You'll know, we don't talk about Kanye, Okay, you know, like, don't you like recently, like everyone is just like wearing nude everything? True? Okay, So how do you feel about lingerie period? Like? Are you into it? I'm not in it. I'm not have

you ever been? Not really? Okay? Just I mean like into it? No, Like do I have it, yes, but never really been into it. I I'm more into like what's comfortable? Okay, So, but it was okay, So, like, let's just say it's Valentine's Day, right, are you like, oh, I want to put on this sexy lunge right? Or do you feel like that's dumb? Because sometimes I feel like it's dumb. Yeah, I'm not into that really, Okay, So I have been like I've been like yes, but now I feel like this is ending up on the

floor and for seconds, it's kind of like unnecessary. I mean I think it's definitely unnecessary. I don't think a guy is going to be anymore or less attracted to you, or they're going to be like I mean, okay, granted, like don't wear like nasty. Now we're wearing like the once a month panties, right, but um, I don't. I mean, I think it's cute for people who care and for

people who don't. I don't think it's like, oh my god, you're not weight right right right, or you're not wearing like, um, a G string or like what do you call those things that snap on guard guardens? Yeah, like yeah, I've done all of like fun right exactly. I think it's like one, but then it's like, okay, after it's like once or twice, it's like what else? Yeah, you know what I mean? Right, and we need to ask a guy his opinion that's true, yeah, because we don't care,

but they might really care. That's true. And then I think that's this piggybacks on, Like Okay, when you've been in a relationship with someone for an extra period of time or whatever. Like you know, I think people start to kind of not let go of themselves, but they don't do the same things that they did when they

initially started dating. Of course. So it's like when you're with a new guy, you're like, oh, let me put on my cutest matching bra and panty lacy, sexy, and let me think, let me have him think this is what I always went exactly, and then you know, ship six months later, it's like it's cotton. Yeah, we go into cotton comfortable. Okay, no throngs here, but is it? But then the question is like, okay, so are you dressing? Are you wearing lingerie for yourself or for look at

your partner? Um? Well, I mean I think both. I think I think you know, if it's a hot date and you know something like you know your clothes are coming off, then of course you you want to make sure that when they do come off, you ain't looking great. Since your panties a clean, Yeah, the fan is a clean, They're looking good. He's like, oh, you look so amazing. But like, let's say I'm not dating anybody, like I'm not going to care one way or the other. But

I have one. Yeah, So I think sometimes it depends on like your dating situation. If you're on a date, some people feel like I don't mean to cut you off. Some people feel like they feel better if their underwears are matching, if they're you know, lingerie is on point underneath, you know, Robin said, I'm confident no matter what I got. I mean, then you have some people don't even wear underwear. That is true. I do. I don't wear when I'm wearing like workout clothes. So I'm so happy we brought

this up. Okay, so there's a couple times where I haven't and I felt weirdly, I felt like it was like going further up your yes and my j J. Yeah, like if I'm cycling. I think it depends. I think I've kind of found like workout tights that actually like fit me right, so that I don't need to wear underwear. Okay, but why, well, why have you decided not to wear underwear if you're working out, because like, what's the point what do you mean, what's the point why do you

wear when you go to seven eleven? I mean, what are you talking about? What is it makes this? Like you no sense to me, you know, because I I think there have been times Okay, So I think there's been times when like my thong when I'm working out has been uncomfortable. Okay, but what about some briefs. Okay, I don't even have those, Like, oh, you don't have briefs. This is a good conversation. I only have them for

like my period days. So you wear a thong every day? Okay? Well, actually, actually I think I have brief someone today actually, but I don't have them like usually I don't, like I don't have that many. Okay, so you typically where your go to is a thong. Wow, good to know. Okay, so my go to used to be a throng. But then you know how you have thongs all of a sudden don't fit anymore and it's horrible, like they hurt your butt. Well that's so. So now I wear Chantel.

They're like seamless, they're one size fits all, and they're like so comfortable, like they're like they don't like it's not like that like really tight string that like it's not tight on your waist, it's not tight up your butt. Okay, I need to get some of those, Okay, alright, one size fits all. How is that possible because they're stretching. Okay, but I've seen some big asses out here. I'm just but they're like that flat material, like they lay flat.

They're really they're they're like look them up and I mean something after it. They're like really flat and they're like um, and they just don't like they don't pinch anywhere, you know. But I would feel like when I'm working out, it's just no telling, like you just move so much and then the song like just it'll get in your crotch. Yeah, and it's sweaty and it's just yeah, now I'm with that. I've learned so much about you today. But happen, I

feel like we're even closer. I mean, we're just getting closer. And I know, but I really was like driving down street, like Rob and I have never discussed our underwear, and this is very important, like I need to know about my girlfriend's Yes, as the old people say, underwear very important. Yes, So you'll likely see me in like a black brawl in a black you know what I mean, like black and black, or tan and tan, or nude and nude, I like, or like black and leopard yes, now here recently,

I do like we were gifted some pegamama not pajamas. Well, the ug stuff, the tell Far what do you call those? The box the the briefs what guy? Yeah, I used to sleep in those. Okay, so so tell Far and shout out to them gave us these boxers and I loved them, like they're they're like a man's boxer, but they're for women and their unisex right, No, because they don't have a split in the month in the front. Uh. The slit in the front is for like the penis and co. Yes, so they don't have the men really

use that hole, yes they do, they do. Yeah, I alwaysly wanted just like pulls pants. Okay, thanks, thanks for sorry. So I love them. And Skims has some too, and I have a pair of those. But yeah, I I absolutely love those. So I have a lot of those. Yeah, those and those feel good to sleep in. They feel good to sleep for sure, as to sleep in. I have won those to the gym underneath my yoga pants. I know because I was like lazy and I did so I was like I know, and you could see them.

It is horrible. It was six o'clock in the morning. Look it is what it is. Okay, that's crazy. Yeah, I do want to say. Okay, so I came across an underwear company or so you know, in the summertime, when you wear a dress and it's how to shoot outside and you're like, you're like thighs are rubbing and

you're sweating down there, Like does that happen to you? Yes? Okay, So I found a company that makes underwear like for that purpose, so like they'll come down over your thighs just long enough so that like your thighs aren' rubbing and you aren't sweating, and it's like that sweat wicking material. Yes, love them. Okay, I need those. It's just a team

too much. But the underwear y'alls, we didn't give me that company, yes, and like and I like ordered one and I was like, oh I like these, and then I ordered a whole bunch, so like in the summertime, that's what I'm aware when I'm wearing a dress. Okay, So we want to know people, ladies, are you a robbing thong? Only? Are are you at gazelle with a laundry list with me? Damn boxers? Under boxers songs? I wear I wear it all like, I wear it all briefs, I wear the boy shorts, I wear it all. So

who are you? Are you Gazelle or are you robbing? Like? Let us know, great question, hit us up, okay, because I'm kind of feeling like more people are like me robbing probably so yeah, probably so. Use those songs? Do you get uncomfortable? But you should buy some shantell one Hey, Hey, but guys, that is our episode. We love y'all so much, so please don't forget to live your life. Either reasonable or shady or boone by Reasonably Shady is a production

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