Shady Honorees!

so it's okay, Okay, let's keep going. Let's keep going. Okay, So we we're having a little bit of um some audio issues. So in like the first half of this podcast might sound a little different from the second half. Just bear with this, guys, just tell them I did it again. I forgot to press record. Yes, okay, Robin Dixon is getting fired, so yeah, I'm wanna get fired. Who's my replacement? Guys? Um? Yeah, good luck finding one. Hello, and welcome to another episode of reason Only Shandy. I

am Gazelle Ryan. What's that everyone? I'm Robin Dixon. We are bad and you must address us properly. Naw, you must what's our name? Our name is Umble, a CP Image Award nomine Yes, get that straight. When you see us, I'm up to us and you bowed down and you say hello a CP Image Awards reasonably reasonably show down for real? Okay, so we got the shock of our lives. Yes we did. When it's so crazy. A friend of mine actually texted me a picture like a post from Instagram.

It was like congratulations time. And I was like, what's What's she congratulated me for? And so I looked at the picture. I was like my mouth dropped. We literally were nominated for Outstanding Arts and Entertainment Podcasts, Yes, for the n double ACP Image Awards. Like this is huge, Like Hugh Mons, there's a million podcasts out there, there's a million arts and entertainment podcasts, and they chose us.

It's like five of us, it was, and we're nominated amongst amazing podcasts Sharks Podcast, Jamal Hills podcast, Quest Loves Podcast, and Keegan Michael Keats podcast, Like these are all people that like you don't know about, Like yes, okay, these these podcasts have been rocking and rolling for a while, like right, we haven't even been on for years. So I mean, I know we thank you all all the time,

and we want to thank you all again. Yes, you know, without you all, we wouldn't be nominated now, we wouldn't be not made for a damn thing. Now. We also want to thank Black Effect because you know we are on this Black Effect beautiful platform. We want to thank you know, we don't just do this by ourselves, and we do want to thank our producer Taylor. Yes. So you all always hear us talk about um Carly. You know, Carly is the one who's like in the room with us.

But when we finished recording, we send everything to Taylor. Yep, Taylor is a gentleman. Yes, who hasn't hatten in George, Jorge, I'm sorry, right, So we want to thank Taylor and Joe Yes for holding it down for us for you know, a so this sound effect right here, that was Taylor, right, Taylor did that right. So Taylor is the one that like, you know, he's the one that's that's putting our show on the airwave so that you all can hear us. So Taylor, thank you so much. And I want to

see to Taylor's mother. You raised an amazing man. Thank you so much for being Taylor's mother and for raising such an awesome person because he like as soon as we send him our audio files, he is on it. Right. We don't have we don't have to ask Taylor for anything. So Taylor, we really really appreciate you so much. We do, and we also appreciate our director of operations, Carl Eves in the room with us and helps us. Okay, this is the deal, guys. We really kind of want to win.

I mean, it was like now to be nominated, but in whatder for us when you guys have to vote? Okay, So voting is necessary for from you people that when we don't ask so much, we just ask you to vote. So I think you go to n double a CP vote dot okay, so you go to vote dot vote dot ACP Image Awards dot net, dot net. Go there, now cast your vote. You better vote for a reasonably shady and we really appreciate it. Yes, no, how exciting them, it would be amazing. In less than one year, one

million downloads, over one million downloads image award. Right, what is next? We're gonna get an oscar? I don't know, all right, we gotta get down, okay, and now guess what Now that we've been nominated, the pressures on, we gotta make this podcasts good. Oh my gosh, oh god. Ok Okay, so we're gonna get back to business as usual and we have our reasonably shady moment of the week. Okay, I'll have to start because my this this week, this two is starting out with a bang for me for you,

a good at bang or a bad one an interesting okay? Okay. So I decided that this is the year that I employed in my life a trainer. This is your first time ever, no, no here, years ago, it's been a man, sorry, our trainer. His names should say his name Tar Room. Oh yes, like I imagine. Um, he's a nice something guy, nice something guy anyway. So I told him my focus because he asked me what my focus was. Is that I have a washboard stomach, like a six pack, like

wash when I had my bikini. And you're gonna see me rich to shreds. Okay, so a little cut on side. Yeah, all of that, All of that, and I don't have to like fake an Instagram picture like it's a real thing, Like no airbrushing here. So your apps are already like super flass, Yes, but I want I want some definition. Okay. So he was like cool, he's up to the challenge. So he had a session. Now, mind you, Tarron is Spencer, okay,

like expency, Like ya know, I'm sasing with the capital. Yeah, he's a controllion dollars and I'm like, I keep saying I'm the richest cheapest woman, y'all whatever means. Okay, So that's not the shading part. The shading part is I told this black man, Oh he's black, did Tyrone? I told him, black man, I want to abbs of steel? Okay. So he had the obsession and the next thing, I could not sit on the toilet because of my legs are my arms. I could not pick up anything but

my phone. But my stomach didn't hurt. There was no soreness in the area that I told him to concentrate on. Really, Yeah, I'm tying around your shading. Oh is he shad just bad? No, he's not bad. No, I'm sorry. He's very spencive. He's worth every penny. Okay, Oh, he's worth every penny. He's amazing. But Tyrone did not handle the area that I told

him to concentrate. But you know when you do like abbs, like core workout involves like your whole body almost kind of kind of yeah, I mean okay, so tell me this. So you want I want your workout sessions an hour, So you want to go work out with Tyrone for an hour on just drafts? I think so, like, girl, god damn video, I don't home, Like now I need Tyrone. He's worth that, deputy, I'm shotting here to day. He's worth that. Okay. So that probably goes against that probably

goes against Tyrone's you know, ethics as a trainer. Okay, but in their mind, like in order to to work your your ab court, you gotta work your whole body. Okay. Well I'm gonna give him more opportunities and I'm gonna get my body time to formulate these the ripness that I'm that I need to see. Okay, So did you ask Tarron? Like what happened? How long? Like? Okay, Now, I'm gonna see him in a couple of days. I'm gonna ask him then, yes, so I will get back

to you on what he says. But for right now in the shape okay, yes, that's my momentother week okay, that's fine. Yes, okay, Um, I don't really get out much, so a lot of my last spride shocker, Okay, I'm home body, m so a lot of my any moments

go to myself because I don't get off. You know, it's not really a whole lot of opportunity for people to do shady things to me, right, So I'm showing it to myself because I think one of the last podcast I was talking about how amazing that that's just made me look like I haven't got my eyelash done this alone? And who else look an ugly and now I'm looking pretty right Well, I'm shaving yourself because I still want to couch. When I picked my eyelashes off

like rabby, you know I'm supposed to do that. I know I'm not, but I must have like a fidgeting problem or something, because I literally it's like I picked them off and then I put them all in a pile. I can showing my pile. I don't want to say that. But are you also taking out No? Are you also taking out your eye? No? No, no no no, I'm trying like so so I don't make sure I'm not taking out like my my real, because that's like the

bad parts just like pulled. Like know, if you feel one like just pull this off and then you look up and I literally have like a power like twenty on my coffee table and then want to is that okay your one? I can't. I can't, by the way, one, it's like a clean freaking you cannot come in out just shoots on. So I sneak in the house with my shoes on, and I apologize to one so he doesn't yellow. She runs to the room. Yeah real quick. And then but even even if you're watching the room,

he's like looking on the floor. Yes, I want to be doing shoe inspections and at the door shoot inspections. I ain't mad, as I'm mad, so yes, I'm shady, and I have this. I do have this one clump right now that I want to pull out so bad, but I'm attached to like four real outlets. Okay, you know, leave it alone. How about you made another point in the Brenda, Let's just do that because I don't want

to leave that. Okay, Okay, let's move on alright. So on the Instagram a couple of days ago, maybe we could go where I'll being and posted her tenure challenge right, and she gave like this long and I hate when people leave long. Uh what is this called a comment? Like testimonies all testo cashing. I hate people. I don't feel like reading. I don't want to hear your side story. I don't care. However, Robbins caption was every time. Oh it was so beautiful, like you talked about. Okay, so

Rob's senior challenge. It looks beautiful of both pictures. But she talks about and you don't even know what we're gonna talk about this today. She talked about the person that she was. Yes, you are getting your fights in twenty now, mind you some of y'all with y'all tend your challenges. I'm aneth y'all stop just number one. Y'all lying because y'all do not look at the same. Okay, y'all trying to act like y'all look the same y'all did in ten years. Go y'all lying? Okay, that is

an Instagram filter. Okay, now Robin does look better. But she talked about who she us in twelve and that she was a broken woman. When I read that, a lot of love was crying. So I know, Like, it's so crazy when I I probably never, I don't know, I don't say never. I don't really do tenor challenge pictures and stuff like, right, But like when I thought about it, I was like, oh, if I go sits here channels, like what would I post? And I'm like, oh my god. Like when I thought about it, I'm like,

twelve was the most horrible year of my life. So that actual picture that was UM two days after my friend took his life. But I just found out like he was, you know, scamming people, scamming us. Was like like so when I say, like in that picture, I was a brokeman, I was like, like my whole you know, when and I had one and I had divorced already. Um, it was just like my life was like w t F is going on? Right, So it's so crazy. When I looked at that picture, I'm like, wow, I can

remember that day. I was working UM for the PR agency that I used to work for and he had a big fashion event at Tyson's Galeria. So that was seeking like great by the run way at Tyson's Gloria and I can just remember that whole just working, pushing through it, but you gotta work and that whole time just being like a crazy fall of like like I can't believe this happened. I can't believe, like this is life, Like what is you know? Where? Like what are we

going to do next? All that typisode, right, but she talked about how you were totally faithful, you pushed through and look at where you are now, you're Imageward nomineque. What is it that crazy? It's crazy and you're like breaking beautiful and you're on a hit reality television show on bra Bo. You're it's so crazy, Like it's insane. Yes, really, it's so insane to think about how much can change in ten years and in twenty twelve that I envisioned this for myself. No, but in a way I knew

I had a story to tell. I didn't know how I was going to tell it or where, but you know, I knew I had an experience and it's sory to tell. And you know, thankfully I'm I'm not a prideful person. So it's like something we're like, okay, I have storage talking. I'm gonna tell it somehow, some way, I don't know in what form, right, So you know, maybe you know us we were already friends then, but like maybe us coming into each other's lives was like, you know they're

playing Yes, it's God's playing stats. Yes, you know with God just out there's no Robin, I don't know. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So listen, it was God's plan for us to get on a show and just be shady, right true, And there were all types of entertain yes, and speaking to talk about right, speaking of that show, they were on potone Me the O Geez got together like the original crew like cars that are left. So it's Karen, myself, Robin and Ashley. So we are

the four remaining original cast members. And for you all to know that don't know, this is unheard of in brob Street, Like we are now embarking on season seven, and I believe that four o gs have not remained past like season three. Right, Yeah, no, it's it's actually it's really special that the four of us are still on the show. But I think that's what makes our show.

All the shows are very unique in their own way, right, And I think that's one of the things that makes our show unique is that, you know, we have a core that has people have been able to really like, like, I think that there's something to say for like consistency and friendship, right, friendships and the ups and downs and friendships and when you like shovel in some people so often the chemistry is not there, right, it's lost. Yes, Yeah, I love our chemistry. I love getting together. I mean,

you have understanding. Four of us have been through We've traveled around the world together. At this point in time, we have so many stories. There's nobody that we don't get together and we're not cracking up laughing, so I might get a fork like staff in their chest, I mean something, so many things to happen, and it's just like amazing, No, no, it should like gets charged and that didn't happen. But we had such a good time.

We did. And that was actually the first time the four of us, just the four of us got together, got together off camera even I feel like even on camera, I don't know that that there's ever been just the four of us. I don't know, but but that Cara's in rare form and we love with Karen. It's just a normal shady, crazy lady Karen. Yeah, we missed them, and so it's a by the way, So we did a bunch of tiktoks that Ashley, of course always makes us to tiktoks. And Ashley looks grading these tiktoks and

we look crazy. We look we don't we're not dancing well. Actually gets a lot of practice and all of them TikTok. Ashley, it's a TikTok per Okay, I join a new mom. Shouldn't get me raising your children now you're too busy driving lights hot the TikTok. That's like in your show the answer with the tiptoe, it probably should be listen. Actually is a guest or she's as a contestant and she is days in her heart. Okay, well, I school

last thing I want to say about the ogs. We you know, you see a lot on our show, good, bad and in different but we do love each other at the end of the day. We love each other, and I think that's a beauty and the secretary success, right. Absolutely, we love each other. We want the best for each other, want each other to have success. Honestly, I want every

single woman that has been on our show to have success. Yes, the more success that everyone has, the betterness for the show, and so I kind of hate it when you know, people like I don't I did see, like, oh four of us got there, like oh they plotting what they put Okay and shade, No, we're not, no, actually just

celebrating each other. We're actually saying, Wow, we've been doing this for a minute, let's take time to have lunch and enjoy one enough um or I don't know, I just like I get it, like people like to infuse competition in these shows, but it's like, really when it comes out to the people on the show. So I can't speak for everyone. I don't speak for myself, Like there's no competition. Now. We're all different, we're all unique. My competition is with me, My competition with the robin,

you know, ross competition is that couch. Okay, I'm just saying, so now, let's just talk about a little bit of co parenting, Okay, because I take pride in what Jamal and I have done as it relates to co parenting. Very important. Yes, our three lovely daughters. They are well adjusted, they're well behaved. Sometimes they get on my nerves, but for the most part they're amazing. Yeah, Now we have Porsche and Dennis. Yes, we have Kanye and Kim. We've seen a lot of drama out here in these streets,

and we said we'd never talked about Kanye again. And I know I don't want to talk about him, but we got to talk about him. We do have to talk about because I think he's a liar. His pants on five. Okay, So for y'all who don't know Little Chicago, and I think she's the cutest of the I hate to say this, but she's so cute to me, you can just eat her up. Okay, So Little Chicago turned four. That's Kim and Kanye's kid. Supposedly he was not invited

to the party. He gets on Instagram live. He starts talking about Kim give me the invitation to tell me where the party is. And I can't find out where the party is. And y'all, this ain't right. She's using the kid against me. Chicago's gonna be scarred forever if I don't come to the party. I can't believe he

did that. I can't believe he did that was so I mean, I know Kanye is different, but that to me was like something that I would never think that Kanye would do, Like run to was it Instagram, Like did he where did he post that on instage? He posts on Instagram? Yeah, Like like that sounds like something literally like that, like you know Jojo down the street to do when he's mad at his baby mama. Like all right, I was just like, what the hell like that?

There's that, there's I don't worry. There's way he's way about that. That's internal. There's some things that are called house business, family business. That has nothing to do. I don't need to know if you and Kim a beef and over a goddamn birthday party, that's none of my business. Like what is what is telling us going on? How's that going to help the situation? Make it better? Like honestly, you're making it worse now. As soon as I saw the video, I was like, he lying, there's no way

like something when you know, something happens miscommunication. Kim is not keeping the kids from Kanye, Like I don't believe that on their birthday? Who know? So supposedly where it comes out that Kanye said he was gonna play his own party, so they were gonna have separate parties. So fine, if we have to having separate parties, that means you ain't coming to mind, because I ain't going to yours.

I still don't even believe all of that. Long story short, he had to call Tristan to try to find out what the party was. Did he really he did? Oh my god, Now when you gotta call the excommunicated baby daddy of the sister of your baby mama, it's a problem. And why didn't even know that? And then he said he called Travis because you know it's a joint party.

Travis is but a little stormy anyway, and so and I'm sure the guys are like, YO, leave me out of this, Like they're probably like, yo, I don't know. I don't know what I'm supposed to tell. I don't know what I'm supposed to not to tell, Like why is this a secret? Like this is a mess. It's a mass. Now you know, y'all know. I love Porsche. I think she's amazing. So on Porsche's family matters, we have about twenty people that are trying to blend a family over a two year old, over polar the little

p J. She's so cute. Little p J is so cute. But nobody can't get it together. Nobody can act right nobody can act like an adult for this two year old? What what are we mad about? And for the life of me, I can't understand what the problem is, right, what is the problem? I don't know what the problem is. So but it seems as if Dennis has being a great dad, like he's you know, taking the girl to you know, he's buying her clothes. You know, he's buying

out stores, so she has clothes on her back. Pors. She said, he pays for her school. Okay, what more does this? Does? He spend time with her like what her up? And he takes her on the weekend. So I don't watch the show, so you have to tell me, like I don't want you to show. But of course I look on Instagram and I see there's a whole bunch of rumbles and the jungles and people arguinguffs. Okay, yes,

and then um something. The most recent thing I saw was Dennis threatened to I don't know, go to court or so I don't know, said he needs a parenting plan. Okay, the parenting plan is everything. And so it's like custody, it is religion, it's education, it's um health Okay, so you know portion was like, huh what who said? What? The court judge? You know, and it got ugly and I get that, but I'm just gonna say this, win in doubt, be like me and Jamal, And I thought

I would never say that, but win in doubt. Think about what would Zell and Jamal do? And they would just talk about it and they would figure out what's best for the kids, and then they would just do that. But I feel like, okay, so tell me this when you okay, So, Portion and Dennis their relationship, you know it's over, it's over, but it's still kind of like fresh wounds. Right, it hasn't been that long. So you know when people have like bitter breakups and stuff, you know,

they act all silly and weird. Same thing with Kanye and Kim. Kanye out here in the streets taking a girl trying to turn in some random girl into another Kim and having why is she participating in this random behavior? We got to talk. That's like a whole separate conversation I gotta talk about. But like, um, I feel like when there's like bitterness and it's still fresh, that's when people act like like they can't they can't be the

bigger people and put the kids first. So when you and Jamal first vorce or when you you know, when you divert, how is your relationship then? Was it strained? Were you communicating? Um? You know? Did it take you a while to get to the point where you all can be great co parents? It does take a minute. And I'm gonna say this that Jamal Brian knows how to pluck a nerve. Okay, So when we first split up, was he trying to plug my nerves? Was he trying to make me mad? Was he trying to do anything

under the sun to just be in a hole? Absolutely, that's just what they do. So how do we get so? So how did you work through that? Like, how did you deal with them then at that time? And then how did you work through that? Okay? So I decided, Gazelle decided, I don't care what this man does to plug my nerves. This is all about the kids. So if you want to act like we having separate parties, I would always be like, no, bro, we only do

that because you're invited to this party. We're going to make sure that the children feel like they don't lack anything because we're not together. Because It's about them, not about your ego, not about a pride. I just swallowed my pride fourteen million hundred times. Why because my kids deserve that. And I know that of the two of us, me and Jamal, I'm the more mature one. Yes, so I'm going to be more mature. I just think it's

right and I get that. It's just really hard for people in those situations, especially like Kanye and Kim, when it's like they're almost flaunting their relationships out in public to make each other jealous or something, you know, like Kim with Pete Davidson, which is so now got to be a big penis. Ain't no question about I want to see. Yeah, we need to get to the bottom of it. Listen, Kim, do us all a favor. Take a picture that penis money and then leak it. Okay, penis,

It might it might even actually be brown. You know how Kada says her husband's penis is brad. It might even actually be brown. Um. But anyway, I really feel like, in all in all seriousness, if you are in a co patenting situation, it is so horrible for the kids when it is toxic, like let it go, just let it go and just think, you know what, what would your zell do? And she would just be the bigger person.

Just be me, y'all, just beat me, Just beat yourself. Okay, So we have to discuss because you know, I have been an Adele fan. And then she trashed the housewise, but I was still in Adele fan. But I think I'm falling off. Okay, I'm following off the Adele train. What happened? So I decided I wanted to go see her in Las Vegas. So I went to go look for some tickets and the tickets made a small tear come down the side of my face because the tickets

are like twenty five hundred dollars. And I said, what the hell, that's insane? Insane, Adele, what are you doing to me? Like? Can I afford this ticket? Yes? Do I want to spend twenty five hundred dollars to come see you sing a song that might make me cry? No? I don't, I do not. Well, you know how I feel about it. Yes, you think Adela is like whatever

I could sing? I think I could sing Adele for you? Okay, No, but in all fairness, like come on, now, that's ridiculous, that's it's so the tickets that I saw were all the way down to like fift hundred. All of that is unheard of. Is what in the nosebleed? Yes, so like right now, I think the nosebleeds came down a little bit. The nosebleeds are like eight hundred. Oh now they're coming down, coming down a little bit, eight hundred. Like I'm sorry, but I don't think you okay, eight hundred.

I feel like you would pay that, but I don't think you would want to sit in the nose. I don't want to sit back there. I'm not sitting back there with y'all. No offense to y'all who's sitting back there, but I'm not sitting back there with y'all. And I want to say, like I was paying for these tickets? Who was paying for these tickets? And and how many shows is it? Is? It? Like okay, ship like every day like like like how long? Like every day for how long? I don't know how long Adele is on

this run. But I want to say, Adele, if you want to do that, that's fine, but you need to have like two shows that our budget, but that are in the budget, and that's what you need to call them, Adele, tickets on budget and Gizell will come to that show. Okay, but clearly somebody's paying for it. It's just not going to adjust her ticket prices for cheap people like you here. You're not cheap, You're not cheating. I want to pay for Okay. Let me put in my perspective. Okay, if

it was Beyonce, it was done Beyonce. It's never done that. Yeah, but okay, and let's put this in perspective. I've been to a million Beyonce concerts. They've never been that offensive. No, but it's but okay, I assume Adele is a more intimate venue, so right, and Beyonce's as a little is

she's in freaking football stadiums. Yeah, true, true, true, Tree Okay, well do okay, this is my suggestion, Adele, do a budget show and cut out four songs, you know what I mean, like give it, give us a concert on the cheap. Adele said, I'm not getting out of bed for lesson. Okay. Now, this this chief over here is gonna stay home, so you're gonna have to watch the Netflix special. And I'm totally fine with that now, um speaking of you got you're gonna have to find you

a rich boyfriend. Well, it's not even that. Can I afford this? Yes, but I wanted to, Like, Okay, it's sometimes things print principle. It's the prince. It is the principle. It's like, come on now, it's like I can't afford it, but there's so many people that cannot And why would you do that to your fan base? Right, That's how I feel about it. True. I'm taking it for the team. I'm taking it for the fan base. You're protesting, protiing protesting,

protesting base. Yes, okay, Now, Robin, do you have a COVID test? Did you order a COVID Oh my god? Okay, okay, y'all, kudos to the US government for sending for COVID tests to every residential home. Yes. And I know that this is not news to you all listening, because I know everybody in the damn mama texted you or emailed you or called you to tell you about it. Right, So, yesterday I get um a text in one of my group chats, my first one. It was like COVID tests.

I'm like, oh awesome. I clicked on it ordered them Bam, done, and then it was like COVID. Then it was like message after message after message, COVID test, COVID, COVID, Hey girl, just sharing, Hey girl, did you know? Hey, make sure you get your COVID tests and then email. I even I texted my mother the COVID test link and she emailed me the COVID test link, like you are lying, Like, Mom, did you not get my text? Clearly? So anyway, I hope by now everyone that's listening, yes, has he gotten

their COVID tests? Yes, sent to their house every And I wonder when we're gonna get it, like they say we're gonna get at the end of JA. We're probably gonna get it in March or when COVID is gone. Who knows. But but kudos to the Biden administration. Yes, kudos to them, because for whatever reason, people don't like y'all. Right now, I'm not really like, okay, I need to

keep up with politics. It's so it's really sad. It's like when Trump was in office, it was literally like watching your train wreck and you couldn't take your eyes off right, so you knew everything that was going on. You're like watching like all day what do you say, now, what's going on? What's happening? And now I'm like, I really don't know what's going on in US politics, but I do know that Biden's approval rating is low. Yes, But speaking of train Rex, I need to talk about

the one that hits close to home with US. Robin Um, one of the coaches for the university of men's men's basketball coach at the University of Maryland, got suspended. He should be fired because he was soliciting a prostitute who a whore, a strumpet. He was offering eighty dollars eighty eight dollars. Okay, wait, this is this is the report that straight up he gave a woman an undercover cop or undercover undercover cop, eighty dollars for sex, not knowing

obviously that this person is undercover. And so then he was arrested. But and it was conducted like on like he met. I guess maybe there's some platform online where you meet these prostitutes. Yeah, they don't. They don't want streets anymore, right, prostitution is now online. So so he's so I wonder where he got for eighty dollars. Well, you got arrested for eighty dollars. He got arrested, but he wonder what he ordered, right, He probably ordered a blow job in a hand jot, who knows. But I'm

just like, dude, just sit at the bar. Well he is apparently unsadly married with children, Okay, but dude, just sit at the bar like there's gonna be somebody that don't You don't listen. You have too much to lose to be paying out here paying for sex. Okay. That's so. It made me think in my private moments that he clearly needs to be fired and so does whoever the head coaches right now? And one Dixon one, and dont Dixon is a middle name, Antonio is one. And Tonio

Dixon needs to be the head coach at Maryland. You know, hmm, you know I will say this, um, that would be amazing. Okay for those who yall who don't know, I'm gonna just to this horn real quick. So right now is this is not like far fetched because one is a head coach at Coppin State, which is a black college here in town. And he did bring the University of Maryland a national championship. It's first and only, first and only national championship that was on the back of one Dixon.

So at this point in time, just give him the damn job. I mean, you know, that would make sense, right, that would that would make total sense. I have to, like, you know, be careful with what I say because he does have a current job, and so I don't want to take away we love copy from his current job. Yeah right, okay, Like I want him to be very successful at copping. But I can say, um, that's been his dream since he was you know, pretty much in

the NBA when he knew he wanted to coach. It's been his dream, that's been his vision, and he said, gosh, it would be so amazing if one day, like he's he's actually kind of like a visionary. He actually when he was a kid, like knew he was gonna make it to the NBA, which is like insane because he was like a hundred and forty five pounds in college

or high school. So anyway, he when he was in the NBA, he knew, I want to go back to my alma mater that I love and that I you know, Um, that means so much to me and that he did so much for on the basketball court. And be a head coach there one day. So I know that that's his dream. I know that that's his dream. Um, but you know, we just gotta see if that's in the plans. We gotta see if that's in the plans, it's in the plants, it's from. We don't know when it's gonna happen.

I would I would absolutely love that because that's my alma mater too. It's like, you know, we can go back and bring some excitement back to the kids. It's going down, I'm just saying, And why is not going to solicit a prostitute? He's not it caught in these streets with strumpets and holes. So I think this is better than what they got. Now, that's all I got to say about lat Yeah. I don't want I don't want to talk down on on my alma mater what's going on, But um, you know, some new energy would

be amazing, some new Dickson energy. Okay, we put it out into the atmosphere, right, moving on. Okay, So, Robin, we did ask the people to send us emails about yes, right because we have a new segment, and we got so many of them. So we got our new segment. Um reason is it reasonably? Was a shady you know, and oh, y'all got a whole lot of stuff going on. We asked people to email their scenarios and we'll give our honest, you know, opinions, um and maybe even a

little bit of advice on how to proceed. Yes, yes, okay, right, so we got an email. Um, I think we can just protect people's names. Um from Len, I'll just say the first name, Lena. Lena says, Hi, I watch all on rhop, love you both now and I'm hooked on this podcast, looking forward to it every Monday. Thank you for them. Um. Oh, she said she is a robin. She loves her thongs. Yeah. So, by the way, I got the Chateau nine of them. Did you try? Do you like them? Did I like them? I wear them now?

I just I want to wear underwear to bed, right yeah? Yeah, yeah, but I can't wear those to bed. No, No, I think you can wear something comfortable to be yeah. Okay, yeah, especially when you because you buy yourself and I like it. It was the rather shady today, y'all, because she didn't tell me I'll buy myself in the bed. Ain't nobody in there with me, Me and my pillows. Anyway, um, she said, I want to share a super shadey thing

that happened to me during Christmas. So on my Christmas birthday party, my boss approaches me with an envelope and says, this is so you know you are appreciated. Thank you for your hard work. So I opened the envelope and see clearly that it clearly is a regifted twenty dollar gift card. And I said to her, am I missing something here. She goes, no, really, thank you for all you do. So I said, okay, no, biggie, she's a little ratchet sometimes. Then I go to the cleaners to

pick up a coat and the card declined. I thought it's okay, Maybe I have to activate it online. So I go to use it to pay a toll toll ticket online, and it declined that re gift had already been gifted. Yes, it gets better. So I go to check the balance on the card online and the last transaction was in what she gave me a gift card with zero dollars on it. That is that is nowhere near reasonable. That is one shady, it's a matter like it's mean, it's mean, shade it ain't even nice shade.

It's okay, can we just you know me, I'm like, maybe the boss did not realize it was you stop you think, but okay, I'm sorry if I'm the boss, Like, I'm so embarrassed, Like how embarrassing is that you give a gift? Oh this is You're you're so appreciate, you give a gift and then it's there's nothing on it? Like so she knew there was nothing on it, but

what she didn't have anything? And she was like, you know, so a lot of times you get a gift card and you never use it, or you get a gift card and it just like sits around for six months. That happens all the time. So she was thinking, this girl will not figure out anytime soon that there's nothing on this card. I mean, but if it's like a Visa gift card, I'm using it. If don't say any gift card, well yeah, any gift but if it's like you know, if it's store specific, then you know it's

less like that you're gonna use it. But if someone gives you like clearly this was like a Visa gift card or something just a general card that had some money on it, right, So okay, so what does she I think the boss? First of all, it was regifted clearly, right, So whether there was something on it or not, it definitely was not a brand new card, right, So it definitely was regifted. So that's shady number one alone. Like that, you're I guess I'm shady. Okay. Robin regifts all the time, y'all.

Just for the record, all the time, all the time. Okay, but okay, this is shade, this is this is mean. Actually it's just it's just beyond shady's mean. Okay, but is it one of those things? All right? You're like, it's the last minute. You're it's a party, last minute, You're like, oh my god, I gotta bring something, what do I have? And you're like rumaging, you know, through your cabinets in your drawers to see what you have. Let me tell you what you can do, because and

Robin is giving us this information quite sinctly. Is that the word because she doesn't sounds familiar to that, Yes, sounds very familiar. So what you could do in the last minute, you can go online and you can get a gift card online. Very true, and yeah, print it out or email it to the girl. That's very true. Shady. Okay, what you got next? Okay, shady? But does she say to her boss, hey, thank you so much for thinking

of me in that gift card. But just want to let you know there was it was zero, there was nothing on it. I wouldn't say anything. I know, I let it go. Would you quit? I wouldn't quit. I would just be like this bitch a right, bitch, ain't my friend or my boss. It's horrible. Oh, chock it up. Okay, Yes, it's shady to read gift a gift card that you clearly no, you didn't just purchase. You didn't buy it

for her, and you didn't bother to check. I would I would check the bud if I was, I could gift you a gift card right now, Giselle, We'll give it to me. Okay, well it doesn't have any money on it? Sure how much? I don't know what? I want you to read the next scenario? Okay, Oh, we got one more and then were about the ounce um and we got and you know this is a segment, so we're gonna keep doing that. Oh yeah, this is

this is a segment. Is called Is it reasonable? Or is it shady okay in this scenario, and it's some funny because these are scenarios that pretty much probably happened quite frequently. Um, okay, So this from Lisa. So, my best friend of thirty plus years, who I usually speak to at least once or twice a week. Apparently she has a new boyfriend. I found this information out on Facebook. Never said a word to me. The bitch never said a word to me, y'all. Then the bitch I'm ad living.

Then the bitch goes ghost for like the last three weeks. I'm getting mad, right. So then um, I text to see if we can talk this last weekend and never called. She didn't even answer when I tried calling her. Dumb being a friend for a new dude, you know, for a month's reasonable the new boyfriend. This is my thoughts. Is the girl's ex? Oh lord, so you're getting real deep? Well I think so, like, why would you not tell your girlfriend that you have a new dude in your life?

Why would you Why would you not tell her that? You're not telling her that because your girlfriend used to have sex with that man? Okay, I mean it's like but no, see, I also feel like and I've I've seen this happen over like many many times, Like a friend that has been single for a long time finally meets a guy and she's you know, hit over heels and you know, in this honeymoon phase and she literally just pieces out all of her friends. Yes, yes, that

has happened. I mean that happened so much. And that's so like messed up because clearly this person, these friends have talked at least once or twice a week consistently, and it's like, damn, so were you only talking to me? Was our friendship only because you were single and you had nothing else to do? So it's like a convenient friendship, right a thirty years? Thirty years our best friend of third years? So so this more to this? More to it with this man, I don't think so, I don't

think so. I promise you. This happens so much where women get with a guy or in a relationship with someone and they totally just forget about all their friends. And then you know, when you hear from your friend again when they break up, and they're like, oh, what should I do? Yeah? So I think, I mean, I

think the friend with the new boyfriend is definitely shady. Um, I do want to give her a slight benefit of the doubt and just say she's probably a little head over heels and in the honeymoon phase and this happens quite frequently. Or she's embarrassed about him, like he probably doesn't have any tea, or he has like a couple of missing fingers. Something's wrong with him. No, he doesn't want to bring him around. No, nothing's wrong with him.

I don't think so. I think she is like so excited that she has a boyfriend and she's so into him, and she has forgotten about her friends. I don't happy that pressed, right, I think she's like super pressed. And then I promise you when when they break up, she's gonna be talking to her friend every week again, Yes, okay, listen, And you shouldn't do that. Girlfriend shouldn't know. And that's the thing, Like that's the point, Like, you shouldn't do that.

But I do think that if you've been best friends for thirty years, that um deserves. I know she's not quite picking up your phone calls or whatever because she's so head overheels, but so at least now text her and tell you how you feel and say, listen, you know, I mean it was kind of shady. She had to find out that the woman has a new boyfriend on Facebook. That's real shady. Yeah, yeah, that's really shady. Like you gotta tell her how you feel. I always think like relationships, um,

issues with relationships happen because of communication problems. You know, So as her friend, you know whether she gets offended or not or you know, denies it or not. I think it's on you, Lisa, to text her because at this point she's not pick up your calls and tell her what you've noticed, how you feel, know how it's making you feel, and you know, let her take it from there and put the ball in her court. And no, dick is worth losing your girlfriend's. No, it's not. Because

they come and go. The penises come and go. They come and go, so out here, you know, in one minute out the next. Yes, when you find a new man or a new partner or a new interest, do not forget your friends. Different shapes inside penis is a here today, gone to mall. So definitely treat your girlfriends with respect and like let them know, let him know you got a new penis in your life. Right, that's that's the that's the I feel like it's more shady that she didn't tell her then the fact that she's

just you know, ghosts a little been ghosts lately. The fact that she has not told her it's like really strange. I don't like. But clearly it's just like a whirlwind relationship. Is it? Whirlwind? I need to see I mean, we need to see more of course, to like really give like yeah next time since like screenshot, yes, you know, give us a little more so we can really dissect

the situation. But from me, I just think your friend is just caught up in the matrix with this man and it's so excited and forgot about her friends and that's not okay. But you need to communicate with her and tell her how you feel. And don't be shocked if that man is your ex boyfriend. Oh god, all right, we gotta go. We're out of here. Don't forget to live your life reasonable or shady or both? Y'all? All right, love y'all, by signing off as your Ad Image Award nominees.

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