We love y'all, and we always want to answer the questions that y'all ask. You ask and we answer. Okay, that's what's going down today. We put out there on our email, which is what's up at reasonably shady dot com. We put it out there. You guys ask questions and we will answer them. So we have a couple that we're gonna answer. This is from Tierra. Okay, she says, Hi, ladies. First, let me let me say how much she should be
saying people's names sometimes. Why let's just say the first name, just because what if the person she's talking about listens to and she might know what. Oh, okay, she's talking about somebody. Oh okay, that's right. That's right. Okay, Okay, it's not her name is not Tara, it's something else. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hi, ladies, First, let me say how much I love y'all. And now shady as a moment side, I already love you because you have a shady moment. Okay.
I know. I'm known for throwing a nice party or cook out. The food is good, the music is right, and the drinks flow. For the fourth m For the fourth me and my husband decided to host a barbecue. Not tons of people, just some friends and their kids over to swim and eat. She got a pool too. Okay, okay, here, Well, this chick I know but don't really talk to like that said she was coming, said, not asked. What she
didn't say was what can I brain? She's been known to show up empty handed and just unhinge her jaw and inhale. I don't even know what that means, but it's getting good, y'all eating? Okay, I got eating good. Hell, she showed up to my birthday party without so much as even a card, just sat there quietly and ate crabs, belched and left. Now, this is funny, not okay. Most of the time when someone asked me what that means. Most of the time, when someone asked what they can bring,
I tell them nothing. But she never asked. I'm really tired of her and her bad manners. She never invites me anywhere, but it's quick to pop up at my parties and such empty handed. I want her to go away. I'm about I'm about ready to block her on all social media and block her number. But before I do, I wanted to see if y'all had a better solution. Luckily she didn't show up on the fourth, but I know the opportunity for her to party crash bringing nothing,
but her appetite was present itself. Again thanks, and then she gives her name, which we won't say, but it's Tierra. Okay, So I don't really know what the question is here. So the question is how do you deal with a friend that pretty much is a moocher that's always coming to your stuff empty handed? Well, first of all, it sounded like she invited herself. Yes, So you invite yourself and you come with nothing handed, yes, and you eat all the food right and right? Yes, and then you
and then she doesn't invite her to anything. Yes, So but does she have anything to invite you to? That's number one? Probably not right number two? Okay, So I feel like I'm I need to do better at this. I'm really bad because I think she's talking about me. I show up empty handed because it is like so much for me just to get out of the house that like, I'm like, oh my gosh, I gotta find something like for me to like stop somewhere and bring
something too much. So I'm like my presences Okay, that for that, but you have Okay, but you're eating the food because we eat, we like to eat. And then okay, but are you ever inviting people to anything you do? Yeah? Okay, okay, but all right, let's let's say in tears because it sounds like, okay, I feel like you don't really like the girl period, you know what I mean, Like if you liked her and she showed him empty handed, you
wouldn't really notice, correct, you know what I mean? If it was one of your good girl friends, you wouldn't care. You'd be happy to see her. Yes, true, but people can't wear thin they're they're welcome, they can wear out that welcome. Okay, but I think if it's like, really, you're really good friend, you like there's some such thing, and if it's a really good friend, you're inviting them.
This girl has having to invite herself. Let me tell you some tira, Yes, I'm with you, social media, black her block her number, all of that, right, Like, who was telling her that you're having this party? That's that's that maybe we need to tell people. Can y'all stop telling the girl that I'm having something because I didn't invite her and she comes empty handed and she eats all the food to cray the crabs. Not the crabs. She need to pitch in at least crabs expensive these days.
Something at the door. That's a hard one. I mean it's not that. I just feel like, Tira is your house party. And if you're having a party and you don't want extra folk there that aren't invited, you should say that when you invite, you know, when you send out your lists. Yes, I don't know. Maybe now you just need to have a disclosure, like okay, text me to see what you can bring, like on your invite. Yes, just like text me to see what you can bring.
You know what this you should do? Call the pot luck and then people will reach out and say what should I bring? And if if you really don't need to bring anything, to be like, no, I'm girl need to bring anything. But when the Belgian girl says, okay, it's a pot luck, what should I bring? Then you tell her to bring yes, you know, crap, bring something. Just bring you the money for all the food that
you didn't eat. Okay, Tierra, you are ending our show and long story show, I get ready of your frands, Okay, scrap them and start over. And you can tell her that I said you can be shady. Okay, yes, yes, yes, just put it out there. Yes, the girl can't read your mind. We hope you enjoyed that reasonably Shady highlight. You can catch the full episode on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your favorite shows.
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