Ride Or Die Chicks

the last episode we prerecorded, yes, um before the Christmas break. Yeah, so we feel like this is our first time back here with you. Yes, and we are so happy to be here. Yes, we missed you, We missed each other. Yes, before I came here, I was like texting Robin, like I can't wait to see you. This is so exciting, it's gonna be amazing reasonably Shady. So yes, cue the fire horn. Yes, all right, like per usual, nothing's changed. We're gonna give our Reasonably Shady moment of the week.

Rob and I think you've got one, of course I do. Okay, So I recently purchased a second washer and dryer. Okay, so now you have four. Now you have to wait a minute. Two washers, two dryers, yes, okay, yes, so that goes in the basement. And you know, why why do I need that? You know, I have you know one and his basketball team and his laundry that he does.

And then you know, the kids are athletes, so if they, you know, play sports, it's like you like and then I got you know, um a bed wetter or two. Oh Jesus right, So I don't telling look honestly, if anyone has any advice, but how to stop that ship a bed wedding yes, from children from shoulder and not that damn alarm ship, Like I don't even know what that is. Oh my gosh, Okay, so they make this bed wedding alarm. My kid's gonna be so mad at me.

So if the bed gets wet, alarms so like it's like as soon as it senses moisture, it goes off. It's like an alarm. It's like, well, so years ago, I've I've been dealing with this for years. Years ago. I got it. And this is when we lived in the townhouse and my kids lived on the fourth floor or their rooms on the fourth floor. My room was on the third floor, and the alarm will go off

and no kid would wake up, like okay. So so p alarm y'all don't work, so I would literally have to get out of my bed on the dark floor, walk upstairs to turn the alarm off, and then get my pissy kid, you know, in the showers. Oh my gosh, it was. It's it's horrible. So if anyone has any advice on how to curb bed wedding that does not include an alarm, I would really apreciated. Oh you were being serious? You want to know? Yes, okay, is that

your shady That could be a shady moment? Well, you know, okay, so that's not even shading. I know how to get here. Okay, So I mean that's my shady life. I'm gonna do it that forever. So anyway, so so I had to get an extra washing and dryer because it's just my you know, my Washington dryer was always in use and I could never do my clothes. So anyway, so this week I realized though, that the people that installed the Washington dryer home depot they connected the hoses to the

wrong one. So now where it's supposed to be cold water, it's hot water. And where it's supposed to be hot water, how do you know that though, because I felt the hoses so so it happened is so crafty, I know. So we determined, like wait a minute, like we set this to cold wash and the water in the in the like we would open the washer and you could feel that it was hot water in there. I'm like,

what that was going on? So then I like the hoses and I could tell that the hose that was going into the cold input was hot, and then the hose that was going into the hot one was cold. How fast did you call home Deepot? Well, this I haven't yet because I'm like, who has time to schedule another appointment, another something something, So this one my to

do list. But I'm like so annoyed by it because because I feel like then the washer has been acting like weird too, so I'm like I feel like that's why it's like you know, sensing like wait, you asked for cold, but it's hot in here, and you know it has all those fancy sensors and buttons and stuff, so yes, it's like but it's so annoying, like as if I have time for another appointment, No you don't, but you need to get on that quick hump depot

y'all is super super dupers. But they got the right one or the wrong one, because if that happened at my house, I would never know. Ten years would go by and I'd be like, I don't know happen. Yeah, I don't know what's going on. I wouldn't be touching up the pipes because that would not be telling of pipes. Okay, they got home deeper. Y'all got the wrong one. That

Robin is touching pipe. And honestly, I was downstairs today literally trying to figure out how I could change it myself, and I was like, don't do it, don't do me. Let them do it. Yeah, call them, call them all right, let me tell you about my shady sister. Okay, this is my reasonably shady moment of the week. Okay, So I'm I have a sister. She's older than me, she bosses me around. She will remain nameless because she listens to this podcast. So I'm not gonna say her name. So, um,

she's still gonna know you're talking about her. I know I was about to say her name. Anyway, Let's move on. So my dad came to visit for Christmas, and she and him went to a little lobster place and they had lobster rolls, right, And then she tells me. She's like, oh my god, Dad loved his lobster rolls. And he tells me that he loved the lobster rolls. So I was like, oh shocks, that's nice. So for Christmas, I sent him lobster rolls from Maine. Okay, because I'm like

the best daughter ever. So I tell my sister. I'm like, yo, I sent Dad some lobster rolls. She was like, why why would you do that? And I was like, because he said he liked them. And she was like, you said, that is so shady. This is my thing that I do with dad. This has nothing to do with you. Why would you take lobsters away from me? We have lobster rolls together. And I was like, are you kidding me? You're the shady one. No, I'm not the shady one.

My sister's shady because you doesn't want my dad to be happy. Okay. So she's even says to me, um, do a little survey with your friends and ask them are you being shady by sending him lobster rolls? So right now I'm asking you Robin am I the shady one? Oh? Are you being reasonable or are you being shady? Okay, So I feel like I need more backstory here the backs. So she was like, she said, you always send him because my dad's from New Orleans, so he eats a

lot of gumbo. So and his his favorite restaurant in New Orleans his Commander's Palace. So I always send him food from Commander's Palace to his house. So she was like, you always send him food from community, Paalis, where are you intruding on my lobster romes? Just send him the gumbo. I think she's She is like, you don't have the monopoly on goddamn lobster. I think she's mad that she

didn't send the lobster rolls. Yes, right, No, let me tell you what she's mad at that I didn't put her name on the card on the little like you know, I sent it, I sent it from me and my children. She mad that I didn't put her name on it. To Okay, I kind of feel her a little bit. I know, I'm sorry because that was something new. There was a new experience that she discovered, or that she

and your father discovered. Right, And it's like here you come barging in like, nope, I'm gonna one of you, sister, okay, and I'm going to send them to your door. You know what, Rob, I don't care what you're saying. So you don't think that was shady. No, it was not shady. And and for the record, my shady moment of the week it's my sister because she did not want me to send my dad the damn lobster rolls. But guess

what he got. As a matter of fact, he texts me last night he had him last night and he was like the best thing I ever ate. So take that, sister. Oh so he liked them better than the ones that

he had here pretty much. So alright, moving on, Alright, we have so many hot times, We have so much to talk about, all right, But first and foremost, y'all know the world knows that we got blessed by a Mecca Icon superstar diva, Queen Nicki Mina, that's the that's the bells, has sent our the airhorns, sent our children

Christmas presents. She laced them in some Gucci and I actually I think I got my first or opened the box vers or something, so I like posted that Nikki did this, because I was like, this is so sweet and like, you know, she didn't have to do this and this is her own little money and she didn't have to like bless my children, but I'm I'm so happy she did because it was so cute. They were so excited, They're running around the house. Um. And then I talked to Rob and Rob was like, well, Rob,

what's that should we had posted? Nicki did this like maybe this is supposed to be a private, intimate moment. And I was like that I'm posted. She said that, Okay, so what's that wrong posting? So no, okay, no, because I think if we were a not a reality TV person, right, if we were just you know, regular everyday people and we received a gift from Nicki Minaj, Like, how exciting is that? Like who would share that on Instagram? Do

you know what I mean? Like, especially if you are someone that likes to share stuff with your you know, your followers. And so I think in this instance, I think, okay, because I want to talk about Jordan Woods and in her sharing her Christmas gifts, Okay, look, it's like it's like you know, in in contrast, in this instance, I think it was so special because I think sometimes people forget like, yeah, we might be on TV, but like

we're still star struck. Yes, you know what I mean, Like we're star struck by a Nicki minajon or Rianna or a Drake or whatever. You're not jay Z yes okay, okay, k not a cash joking. We're not talking about him ever again. Um but we right, we we are. We're fans too of people, right, and people forget that, right exactly. So when I thought about it, because because I just say to you, like, um, do you think you should have posted? Maybe you should have Maybe you should have

asked Nikki like is it okay? Every book? And then you were like whatever, And I was like, Okay, well I'm going to postmone to so And it really was

more so because it was such a special moment. It's just so special, Like how cool is it for a thirteen year old kid, a twelve year old kid to see would get from Nicki minaj right, Like it's so cool and to see their reactions and you know they're they're see how excited they are, Like it truly was a moment for life, and so I felt like, okay, no harmon sharing it um, and I look at like, Okay, So, for the record, I don't know if I've ever said this.

I love Tracy Ellis Ross. And I remember when she shared that, like, you know, how Beyonce was sending people the whole Ivy Park, the whole collection, and I was, I'm still waiting for mine and I never came. Um. And so Tracy did like a whole cool little video

about like all the stuff that Beyonce sent her. And I'm like, if Tracy is posting what Beyonce sent, post what Nikki said, but that's more of like a promo for know, whatever Beyonce's brand that she wants people to post because she wants them to share, like, you know, just posting that Nikki gifted our kids Gucci, yeah, is

not that's true. Okay, it's not helping NICKI I mean made Nikki look wonderful, you know, like very generous and thoughtful and what she was like, I thought that was like for her to send our kids something that's like she didn't. Oh it's a thing. Now, you know the reunion, she did us a favor. She she put us on the global map. You know, we got all you know, all these new viewers because of Nicki Minaj and so she didn't know it's a thing. Really we should be

sending her a gift. True true story on that, but then it went left. Okay, So Ashley posted and then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, we have a new person on our show. Her name is Miya, and Mia posted a sad faced picture and she said, well before she posted, she she put a comment on mine and was like, wait a minute, so all the rhop kids got Gucci except for mine. I guess keptic shopping

or something. Just kidding, like, you know, she made us like she said she was just kidding, and I was like, oh my gosh, like and her feelings child and now, And my first thought was, uh, Miya, aren't you the one that was like kind of talking shit about Nikki. Wasn't she going at her? She was? What was it about? I can't remember something from the reunion and strip clubs? Right? Yeah? Yeah,

like it was. I feel like whatever Mia said about Nikki was not favorable, Like it wasn't if I'm Nikki, I'm sorry, I'm not sending you or your child a gift, not a damn thing, and it's not in in in Mia trying to make it like, oh, my thirteen year old is on social media and he feels left out something like that, Like, well, I'm sorry, explained to your thirteen year old that mommy was talking shipped to a mega star and that's why mommy's child didn't get anything.

So don't take it personal. Just blame it on mommy. Okay, but we're gonna give you out a tea. So Nicky reached out to all of us who she was gonna send something to on Instagram. She dm to get our addresses so that she could send something to our children. Okay, this is probably a month prior to Christmas, right, She's like, hey, babe, can you send me your addie? I'm sending something ta Keen, yes, which is very cute. Okay. So then, so she tried to reach out to me, but she couldn't find me

because me had blocked Nicki Minaj on Instagram. How do you block Nicki Minaj on Instagram? So okay, in me is defense, she probably did it, not that she's blocking Nikki's Nicki. No, she blocked Nikki's page because I'm sure all of Nikki's barbs were on Nikki's page trashing Mia like I'll block a page if I get too many, like a Robbin Dixon. Ten, you're a bit or you know what, like a Robin Dixon. I hate you And I'm like, okay, I'm just gonna block this page so

that I don't have to see this anymore. So my guest is that that me and felt she needed to block Nikki because I'm sure Nikki was not stalking me like that. I think she probably needed to block the people who were like talking about Mia on Nikki's page. Listen, this this reality thing is right, This reality thing is is doggie dog world, meaning like you you're out here, if it is what it is, you don't get dogs. At some point in time, you just gotta deal with it.

So but you don't block a Nikki right, This is my opinion. And have you do you know how strong the barbs are? I don't know how strong. Barbs don't come for me. I don't know how strong. Okay the line and okay, but probably wanted to be able to scroll Instagram and peace without having her notifications from the bar blowing up talk calling her some trash okay, But if I kN about her feet. I knew I blocked Nikki for damn sure, wouldn't be on Instagram talk about

I can't believe my kids? Did you get Christmas brand? Girl? By you're making You're making real rookie mistakes. If I knew I'm blocked Nikki, and if I knew I talked trash about Nikki on Twitter, I didn't expect one thing. One thing, not one thing. Ma, Mia, I'm here to say, you look thirsty and crazy. Okay, I love you though, but you look thirsty embarrassing. It was like we had second Wade embarrassment boy. And then so then so then Nicki's like, um, okay, so do we tell the story complete?

So so yeah, So Mia went on her Instagram and was like, you know, had a video. It was just talking about, you know whatever, her kid not getting a gift from Nicki Minaj and whatever. And then Nicki of course got wind of it, and Nicki tweets Mia, but who you blocked me on Instagram? I was trying to find an address sent me to Addie right, and then me a post or reply somewhere like an apology like

I'm sorry, my bad, me stop talking. Sometimes silence is golden just say nothing, yes, and it's like, I don't know, I'm just maybe she just wanted to get into Yeah, she just wanted to get into the mix. I get but he was he was on the outside the club. But you know, it was so crazy. I was floored by, like, Okay, I'm just posting that my my kids got um a

gift from Nicki Minaj. I'm like, thank god their hair was brushed and all that, because it was like it was re posted on many blogs about a gift that Nicki Minaj sent my kids like wow, like that type of like stardom, Instagram attention, attention, Like I don't even that that was just it was. It was crazy. Now your kid's hair was closed, but my kids had on like blanket hoodies. Okay, I don't want one of those. Do you know how many people have deemed me about this?

God damn blanket hoodies? Which mind you there Aunt Jamal's sister bought them. Really, I don't know where they came from. Really, so I haven't responded to anybody else. I'm sorry because I don't know where they came from. I was literally looking at I was going to ask you, like, um, where did they get that because I want one plague. They love and live in these blanket hoodies, all right, So we have to pay our respects to the late, great, beautiful Betty Whites. Okay, and if anybody who does not

know who Betty White is, where have you been? You're under a rock. She's She's only lived on this earth for ninety nine years. She was amazing. She was a golden girl. She was in a million, gazillion movies. And I think I can definitely say about Betty White is no one has anything bad to say about her. Like ever, Like Betty was just like loved by everybody. She was so adorable, funny and sprite, like you know, kept people

on their toes and was sharp. Yes, and so what somebody said, I think I read something like she recently filmed something like ten days prior to her death. I don't know what it was. Yeah, I think she was filming something with Yvette Nicole Brown. I followed too, and again, everybody has nothing but wonderful things to say about her. I sent Robin his clip that she was talking to Steve Harvey. So Steve Harvey's interviewing her, and he's asking

her a bunch of questions. So one of the questions he asked her was what should the Real Housewives be called? Like or a different name or yeah, if you can come up with a different name for the Real Housewives, what would it be called? And she said neighborhood Betty White wanted to call us neighborhood hookers. I'm very honored to be called a neighbor and she was quick with it. Yes, called me a neighborhood hook honey. Yes. But I'm sad that she didn't make it to one hundred, I know,

because she was at ten days. Yeah, like soon. Yeah, And apparently I think there was probably some sort of special or some sort of like you know, TV show that was um going to air in honor of her one something that probably somebody was doing in honor of her one dredth birthday, which I heard is still going to be shown. But I did like she didn't she didn't make it. You know, I haven't seen Robin in a long time. And one of the reasons why I haven't, y'all,

is because the Dixon House was on COVID Watch. And when I say COVID watch, they all had the omicron or Marion or they don't. I don't know they had something over here, but they're all better now. We're so excited. So, like I was really concerned about you guys. Yeah, okay, so my holiday break sucked, like literally sucked. Like Christmas

to New Year just totally sucked. Because Wan ended up you know, he gets tested very regularly because he's a college basketball coach, so they always they tested very frequently, and he ended up testing positive. So you know, instantly it was like, okay, everybody shut it down. We locked up in this house. And it wasn't like he's locked in the house. It was well, yes, all the week because he was about to do that thing. But let's tell us what Dixon got it? We all got it

because why does that have it? He does not let Robert out of his site. I just watch you all to know that be clear. Wine is connected to right. Yeah, So like so we we did not social distance in our house, nothing like that. And then um, Corey had a sore throat. Carter had like achy you know body aches. Um I kind of didn't really have symptoms like that, but we just assumed, Okay, we all got it, and we we attempted to get tested. But the line, we're

out of control, out of control, out of control. Like I went to New York and there's people lined up on every corner outside getting a COVID test, which, to be honest with you, I don't understand, right. So for me, I was like, well, why am I waiting to get tested to find out what I already assume exactly? So we just like, you know, iff it, let's just assume we all have COVID, right, And then my house guests actually got it, so they went they actually went out

of town. They went to Florida and ended up testing positive in Florida, so the baby and the my sister in law, which really sucks. But anyway, the thing about this variant is really mild, um and it worries me that people are hearing how mild the symptoms are and that they're not going to take it seriously, do you know what I mean? Right? So people are like, okay, whatever, like it's no big deal, I'm only going to have

a little sniffle or whatever. But they don't care. But what if you end up getting the other variant, the delta variants or the original strain or whatever, or what if you respond differently? I just that that worries me about what's going on right now. Well, I was, I was on I was on that Instagram and there was a post about a new variant call HOVID, which was the holes that got COVID. In other words, there's some holes out there. They know they got COVID, but they

still running the streets. Holes go home. Okay, but wait, and then how did the CDC This is the part that doesn't make sense to me. How do they go from the ten day is it to day? Now? I think it's ten, it's not. It's a two day quarantine, y'all. In other words, forty eight hours, right, How do they how do we go from that? So it's like, okay, this thing is like super contagious, right, and we're decreasing the quarantine time. I think they want because they don't

want the everything to shut down. They want people to go to work, all right, Speaking up, some w who's been working over time. Okay, this is the last time we're gonna talk about this person, the last. His name is Tristan Thompson. Okay, Tristan, you're now on the list with Kanye. We're not talking about you all ever. Again. This is the last thing I have to say about you, the how is wrong with you? Okay? So we knew the baby was yours. Now you now you're bringing more

attention to this situation. Okay. For those who don't know who Tristan is, Tristan was dating Chloe. They have a little baby named True. We've talked about this a million times. He had a side baby with this girl. I don't know where she came from. And so his whole thing was at the baby ain't mine, the baby ain't my, but we know the baby's yours. Right, So now he's talking about the fact that the baby is his and Chloe, I'm so sorry. I didn't mean it. You don't deserve it.

You don't deserve You're so kind, you're such a wonderful person. So so Tristan publicly he posted something like it wasn't a story or the post. It was I think I'm a story maybe a post. It was like an apology. It was like acknowledging that, yes, the paternity test came back. He is the father, right, you all the father. You are the father, and you know, say something about like hopefully he can Amica amicably raise the sun was a boy I think so okay, it's a boy. I think

I hearn. Okay, you know, but they can amicably raise the sun with the merly Nichols girl. And then like, Chloe, you don't deserve this, right, but we know that already. You don't have to say that. And then Lamar jumped in and the mor was like Chloe, you don't deserve Tristan. Everybody jumping in. Okay, so now people are jumping in saying, Chloe, you just you Oh Jordan's an apology, and I can't

agree with that. I don't agree with that. But we want to talk about what Jordan's um Christmas skifts Christmas from the Christmas. I know, I know, we all over the place, y'all just bad with us. We haven't done this in a while. All right, let's let's finish. Let's finish, trusted, and then we'll go back to the Christmas. We had a whole bunch of stuff to talk about for the Christmas gifts. Okay, okay, wait, I've so as far as I'm concerned, No, Chloe and Jordan's they don't need to

make a public announcement statement about nothing. No, well Chloe doesn't, oh Jordan an apology for anything, because I guess people were like, oh, Chloe, you need to give Jordan an apology because you know they made Jordan would seem so horrible for kissing Tristan, right, so, you know, to remind

everyone happened a couple of years ago. Jordan was best friends with Kylie Jenner, Chloe sister Jordan's, and Tristan made out at some party while Tristan was still with Chloe and they're turning the whole big thing and they pretty much cut her off, so they cut off Jordan, so Jordan is no longer part like Jordan was like a part of their family. And so for Chloe it was like, how dare you do that? You know you were so close,

they'd like a sister to me. Blah blah blah. And people are saying, now, well, Chloe, you, oh Jordan's um an apology because you can see Tristan is for the streets. He's a trash blah blah blah um and the way you'll treat the Jordan's wrong. No, I'm sorry if someone who is like a sister to me messed around with my man, I don't care how you know how trashy deman is that's a problem. It's a problem like no

other time is the other woman a problem? Like if if you don't know the other woman, who cares, right, But if this is someone that's in your house all the time, and that that literally is is gaining fame because she's part of that family. Um, yeah, no, Chloe, don't owe her no apologies. No, no, and we don't give apologies to three four years later, we didn't all move to And guess what, Jordan, you didn't gotten to glow up and to blow up from the fact that

you ain't with them Kardashians. Jordan, you look, you're looking your best self. She sure is in speaking of So back to the gift thing. So Jordan's would on Christmas, she her boyfriend, she's dating an NBA player, Carl Town's, who on Christmas had COVID so they weren't able to celebrate Christmas together. But she she proceeds to post every single gift that he bought her. I was on Instagram

and it was like insane. It was like, first of all, it was just like it was a Porsche and a whole bunch of designer stuff, like so many things, and it got to the point where I'm like, this is tacky. This is so tacky. Jordan's just post the biggest gift. But but it's funny because on the post, she's like, thank you, Carl, You're the best. You're this, and so it's like, are you thanking him on Instagram or did you like, are you telling me that you didn't call him?

You just like let me post this on Instagram. It's like thank you to my boyfriend. Like but literally was like five or six posts of like all this expensive as designer stuff and it's like, girl, this is I thought it was tacky. That is tacky and enough already Like okay, but dude, I don't want to cut you

off about the gifts we have. I mean no, so that so so just in um, you know, piggybacking off of the whole Nicki Minaj sing us posting the gifts, Jordan's posting her gifts is a tacky to share gifts that we received social media. Now we talked about that. No, the question is do if if if you get a gift that's that you don't like, do you tell the person? Well that too, so well okay, so for for back to the posting on social media, Like if it's from

a megastar like Nicki Minaj, no, that's not tacky. But if it's from like your close boyfriend, your close friend, and you're posting like all this like designer stuff, I think that's tacky. Okay. So in Jordan's defense, she got a car and a bunch of if I remember correctly, some Chanel bags and all that nonsense. Just post the car. You don't have to post all stuff. Yeah, just post the biggest gift, the car. I don't even think I would do that. I don't know. I just think that

makes you like a target. It's true. True, don't post nothing because people out here crazy they it's just okay target for for people are gonna steal your ship and just like haters and people who want to see you like, I don't know, I just I just I think that age and in a way she was like thanking him. It's like, okay, that was weird. Um. So but then if you don't like a gift, would you tell the person? Okay? So yes, really it depends on who the person is.

For instance, if it's like your boyfriend or I'm just gonna say Jamal Okay, he's not my boyfriend, but he gave me something this year. He was too big for me. He gave me a couple of things. One of the things it was too big for me, and it looked very like it was a it was a Gucci vess, but it was it looked very manly, and I was like, Jamal, I'm not taking this. You take this with you. And he wasn't offended. He just I wasn't gonna take it

and act like I was gonna wear it. So it's I could do that with probably the only persons like Jamal, like anybody else, I'm gonna act like I like it. Right, I think that's fair. Yes, I agree with that. Now what about have you ever regifted a gift? Um? Yes, yes, yes, that's my fact. I did. I can't say what I did, but yes, I had me too. Yes, did I ever?

Did I talk about my white elephant gift exchange? Yeah? No, you didn't, okay, but yeah, yeah, So me and my friends recently had a white Elephant gift exchange and the dollar amount we were supposed to spend with seventy five dollars, well, I didn't have time to go to the store. And I forgot to write something and I looked around my house and I was like, what do I have? And I had a gift, yes that I didn't pay for.

It was really nice in in very high demands, right, but I just don't need another thing, and that was my gift. But but the dollar amount was prop it was like three times like the amount like three ding. But it's okay because you spent nothing on it. So kind of kind of out kind of a little bit. So so I feel like next time for like a white elephant gift exchange, just like, okay, if the dollar around is seventy five, does that mean that's the minimum

or that's the maximum or that's like the ultimate? Do you know what I'm saying? You can't see not spend more than seventy five with the gift. If the if the limit the cap is seventy five, you're not supposed to spend more than seventy or is it you have to spend at least seventy five? No, you can give her a five doll again, but that don't work like that. No, I mean you wouldn't do that, but but you can't go over seventy five. Yeah, Well, I cheated, but your parson,

I'm sure it was very happy. They were very heavy, Yes, yes, and of course it's okay. Of course I got the like I was. I was the first one to pick. And the way I think we did it wrong because I think I heard like number one is actually allowed to go back at the end and pick whatever gift, but we didn't do it that way. I was number one. Um, so I got, you know, just a regular kill go ahead, so to give head like a few different things in it. And one of the things was like some like fuzzy

warm socks, Like okay, I love fuzzy warm socks. Somewhere time. The socks were a kid's size, like kids. What they were kids? They was a gift, that was whoever gave you that? That was a regift and they pulled it out of their kid's drawer. That's horrible. Who are your friends?

Who are these people? My friends from college? I think they broke No, I think that I think that was just like an oversight, like you just saw these socks, like because you know that like socks are like big, but literally like the pad were like the foot goes like half the size of the that's like that's embarrassing. That's embarrassing. I know we've talked all over the place this episode, but this episode, really we want to talk about ride a Die? Are you a rider? How strong

is your loyalty when it comes to your girlfriends? And what have you done to show the amount of loyalty that you have for someone else? Right? Well, I feel like you have different friends. So what I might do for one friend, I might not do for another. Um, So it depends on how strong or how tight I

am with that friend. But I mean, you know, on UM that TV show that we do sometimes like people criticize me because they think I'm too loyal to you, right And and I think it's like the weirdest thing because I'm like I think I feel like we've probably talked about this before on the podcast, Like I'm just kind of like, well, what kind of friends do you all have? I know, like, don't you want a friend that that you know is going to ride with you no matter what and that you know is loyal to you?

If not, then like what we we shouldn't be friends? Absolutely, And it's so weird. It's like, Okay, honestly, like if I was y'all out there, I would want me as a friend. Yes, because Robin is extremely loyal. Yes, I will go down. I will go down with you. So I have I think about two stories. They shouldn't involve physical you know things, but yes, so so one story. Okay, So, so I was in Miami an Usher concert. It was during um Alonzo Mornings, a little charity weekend he used

to do. So yeah, a little crush on me. Oh I had a crush on him, did you really? Okay, when we're done this podcast, I'm gonna tell you some stories and they're current. Okay, by the way, Okay, okay, So we were at and I love Tracy his his wife absolutely, we love you RaSE absolutely. So we were at the Usher concert. We had like pretty like we were on the floor pretty much very close to the front, and one of my friends got called on stage, you know usure, you know, doing some little who wants those

have sex with meat whatever. So they're on stage, so like we're watching, it's like it's three of us. So yeah, I think it was three of us. So my our one friends on stage, me and my other friend, my best friend Joy from college, we're like standing up, we're pump Yeah, yeah, girls, yeah, really Enjoy. So we said, so the the little skit is over. Whatever we sat down, Courtney comes back to her seat and Joy is like looking around, She's like, where is my purse? Where is

my purse? My purse is gone? And I turned and I looked behind me and it was like three girls sitting behind us, and one girl was like, oh man, he took it. He went that way. And I looked her dead in her eyes. I said, Joy, she has your purse. What? Yes, I said, Joy, the same person who told you, the person that we took it, he went that way. I said, Joy, she has your purse. And so Joy is like looking at her and she spotted. So the girl had Joy's purse tucked in her armpits.

So Joyce spotted it and literally like grabs her purse with her left hand and then with her right hand swung on her Yes. Down, took my purse. Yes. And so I'm like, let's roll and I should like so we literally are like about to come to blows with this girl, and like the lights come on. I mean how the houselights came on special concert. The security people were all like pulling us apart. Oh, y'all a fight,

y'all we scrapping. Yes, we were like, let's go, but the fact but so yeah, So so wait a minute, the house lights came on because y'all were fighting. Yes, what you were like? We were like, yes, we were scrapping. It was it was It was a k fluffle scuffle okay, yes, I don't want to call it a fight, okay, but yes, the house lights came on. Us was in the middle of his you know, singing, and and the house lights came on. But I literally was like, let's like what

we who we have to handle? Yes? Okay, I just want y'all know, don't get robbed in twist and she's from Baltimore and she will uh fisticuffs she need be if. I mean, I've never actually been in a like a real real fight, you know what I mean. But I'm like, ready right, and I think I look scary right Robin sitting already over here. Okay, So wait a minute, did y'all get the purse back? So we got the purse back? Yeah, we got the purse back, and the girl was like

escorted out and everything. Okay, you know, I was like, let's get it. Let's let's get it. Let's get it. Okay, that's that's right. To die for your girlfriend, that's right. Or die so you don't have another story. In Miami again, I was like six months pregnant, oh lovely, maybe four um five maybe okay, eight months pregnant, okay, big and pregnant. And I was there for my thirtieth birthday celebrating with a big group of friends and we were in the club.

I'm in the club being and pregnant pregnant, and for whatever reason, one of my other best friends, Candice, got into it, like like a verbal exchange with Joyce friend. Okay, buddy, it was bad anyway. So joy had a friend in Miami that was like hanging around us and she was like real sketchy. So the friend said something sideways to my friend Candice and and left the club and like walked out the door. So I like, I didn't hear it. So then my friend can't just was like, yeah, that

girl said just says something to me. She said blah blah blah blah. I said, she said what and then she said she said blah blah blah blah. I said, oh hell no. I bolted out of that club and went after the girl like I was literally the street. I was trying. I was about ready to fire her, but the security but and she literally she saw me coming and she ran to the security guard, and the

security guard like kept me away. Okay, but I was like bitch like like like but she like literally all it took my friend, like my kid, just like we'll never forget it to this day. She's like robbing, you have my back, whatever you get that you were pregnant and you were ready to get that girl. Can you see pregnant Robin running out of a club to defend her girlfriend's honor, Like hilarious. I can see that. I

can see that. So I'm the one that's like, what's going on, I'm in it with you, and we're gonna get down to the bottom of it. Yeah, We're gonna get down to the degree. Now. I've done a lot of Um, I'm always down like four flat times when it comes to my friends, but I have I do have friends that like start ship, like y'all. I'm always kind of like, can y'all not start anything again? Please? Like I don't have to prove again that I'm loyal and I'm down, So then do you say, like I'm out, No,

I can it can't be out. These are my girls, Like, so I can't do that, but like I'm gonna give you a very short story. So like I'm we're in London, right, It's me and my girlfriends. You know, I have a girlfriend, Erica, and another one crazy one. She's in Atlanta. Her name's Emney. So I had like a little fur ballero jacket, so I went and checked it in the club. And so when it came to for me to get my jacket for us to leave, and I was like, yo, y'all,

I'm just gonna go get my jacket right back. Well, I think one of the coach check girls decided to wear my jacket out and like leeve with it because no one could find it. And then all of a sudden, I look up and I see a girl come in and she's holding it. So I clearly you let have left the club with my jacket on and decided to like walk the streets in London. You Okay, that was all the way crazy, but I'm gonna leave that alone.

But in the side of my eye, I see my two rowdy people who are my friends decide they're like talking to these girls and these guys, and it's the talking starts to get like escalated, and I'm I'm sorry. The coach check is like behind a desk, so in order for you to get to the coach check, they have to open the desk for you or you crawl under it. Right, So I get my jacket. It's a movie, but it was there. I thought the girl came back in.

Girl came back in. I get my jacket. I just snatched it from it probably costs, like, you know, coach is probably like ten dollars. I don't know what it was, but you you was. You was rocking my fur. So I snashed my jacket. Maybe they ran out of hangers. She was rocking my fur, y'all all night. Un she was rocking my fur. Okay, So I snashed my jacket. And I see my two girlfriends and they're getting into

it with these dudes. I'm literally crawling under the coach check to get to them to help them because I'm like, what's up, I'm about it, what's going on? So as soon as I get to them, as I'm crawling on the floor, mind you, I'm crawling under coach check. That's the floor. So I'm on the floor of the club's nasty, but I'm down for my friends. So I'm on the floor. I'm crawling on my hands and knees. Okay, I get under the coach check, I pop up. I'm ready. And

then security came and they like broke it up. But then we got outside and I was like, wait, hey yet, because you know, if you had a girlfriend that misses the fight, you ready, you want to act like he was there? I was. I was about to do you want to contribute? Okay? I wanted to contribute. So we get outside and I'm like, wait he had, let's go get them, and everybody's like guns over and I was like, no, I promise you. I was looking for those dudes and

it was dudes. When dudes try to fight girls, like, it's horrible, that's scary. I'm sorry, I'm not fighting a dude. And then we were in London. Yeah, and they probably carry guns in the club. I am convinced. Anyway. I am always ride it die from my friends no matter what, as long as you're my friend. Now, if you just like kind of like on the outskirts of my life, like I'm not you, I know. So it's like, m

I feel sorry for the friend that I don't. I don't go to extra mound for yeah, because I'm not h Yeah, and I and then I tell all my friends now, I'm not going to jail for y'all, So like, if anything's really going down, you're on your own. True. Yeah. And as we get older, I think our perspective changes a little bit. Yes, And I always say, like I'm the nark, like I'm going to tell the fr who got the drugs. I ain't going to jail for y'all. Know.

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