| Ep 61 | Giselle and Robin’s Pet Peeves!

of you for listening and tuning into Reasonably Shady. It means so much to us that you hit subscribe and you listened, and you continue to listen week by week. I please don't make Robin crack if you don't listen. Rob's gonna cry so but thank you so much for continuing to listen. Um, you know this is still Virgo season. Thank you, Thank you. Okay, wait, can can we talk about Virgo season? I mean, my favorite subject. I know we talked about it. Um you know a couple of

episodes ago where we honored Virgo season. Yes, as we should. And I just want to say, Okay, first of all, I love like, I love virgos like I have so many close people in my life that are virgos. Um, I mean, let me, let me try to go down the list. Okay, let me start with my friend Joy, my best friend from college. Okay, love Joy. Um, my best friend from childhood, Beyonce. Yeah, September four, it's her birthday. Yeah, and she's married to jay Z. Okay, right, I do

know her? Yes, you know her? Right? Okay. Um, let's see gosh a cuple three like three of my line sisters. Oh wait, what of her? Oh Alicia's birthdays today? Okay, I gotta call her three of my line sisters, my son Carter, you Carly. Um, let's see. Oh my one of my best friends, Candice from childhood, she's September one. Let's see who else do we have? Um? Like, so many? Just like I felt like I was saying happy birthday, not every day, like four times a day. Literally, how

Brandon wants cousin who I'm really close with. Okay, that's how we roll. So I was like, okay, I need to do some research because this is excessive. Like I don't, I don't, I don't do this during like Taurist season or like you know what I'm saying. I don't. I don't. I can't even name a Tauris in my life. Like I can't even name my kids, yeah, alright, like I can't. I can't even name like certain zodiac signs. And I'm just like, why are there so many freaking bargos in

this world? Because that's how we roll. We roll in a posse and a group. So I had so I had to look up. I literally had to look at what is the most common zodiac sign? Okay, okay, who do you think is number one? Well, since we have this conversation, I'm thinking virgos. Actually you're wrong. So scorpios are number one. They are. They make up nine point six of the US population. And scorpios, what give me the month um October November? Okay, right, because that's after

Valentine's Day, nine months after Valentine's Day. Boom, So you wait Valentine's Day. Okay, So if you conceive on February fourteen, right, you're having a scorpio, are you? I think so? Because well you know it's like really it's really ten months, it is, but you know, nine ten months and there's somewhere I'm gonna I'm gonna do it exactly Valentine's Day. So that's okay, one month, two months, three months, Oh my gosh, score month? What is month? Six months, seven months,

eight months? Okay? And while you're counting down nine month, November four team Wait nine, I mean it's really it's nine ish, but so that that falls in line, and then I feel like the holidays gives you a virgo. Okay, So virgos are number two. Virgos are nine point four per cent of But when I tell you, like, I don't really know that I know any scorpios, so this was like shocking to me. Well grass, okay, tell me

does this describe her? Okay? And I want to have I think in the future, and y'all can chime in and tell us, like, I want to have a astrologer one okay, because I think it's like so interesting and I particularly might want to have like someone to talk about like astrology amongst like are like the show you know what I mean, dynamics, Okay, to do that, you know, Director of operations Carly Um Okay, yes, no, tell me

about virgos. Don't tell me about scorpios, I know my child, Okay, fine, all So Virgos are the second most you know whatever, most populated zodiac Siting virgos are also fairly common, and they're also extremely kind. Thought to be one of the most intelligent of the zodiacs. They're always around to help a friend in need or give it vice to someone

that asks for it. Where is the part about they are annoying because they are like sticklers and you know what I'm saying, like that they are like what, we're the worst? Where's that parts? We are focused, we are driven, we kind of only think about ourselves. Where's that part we're beyond annoying? Where typically like like worriors, I don't really worry, not worried, but it's like like you're but you're the type like you're going to bother me until

it gets it done, it done. That's called annoying. Did you do it? Did you What happened with What's up with that? What's with that? Like even if I'm like it's like it'll be Monday and you'd be like, oh, what's up with such and such? I be like, Okay, well we gotta call on Wednesday about it? And then it'll be Tuesday and you'd be like, what's up with such a such And I'm like, we have a call on Wednesday about it. Whatever, Robin, But this is but the virgos run the world. This is how we get

stuff done. Okay, she right now, But that brings me to my shady moment of the week. Oh perfect, Okay, So it was my birthday, y'all. Who inserts bells and whistles, And so you know a lot of people reposted are posted about my birthday, thank you very much. And then you know on Instagram, if you repost to the story, it allows you to repost, right, So I re posted a lot. I didn't repost all by no means, just because it was too damn much. Okay, but some person

he will remain nameless. He's annoying ms me and texted me and asked me why I didn't repost his post. Now that that's beyond shady. That is like do you know this person? Yes? I did, and I will tell you who he is later. Are his initials JB? No? Right, oh you'll tell me off of offline. No, it was not Jamal Bryant. And as a matter of fact, Jama didn't even post anything about the type birthday. It was not tyronn Tyron, but Tyron did did he post? I don't even think he put he he um, what do

you call it? He sent me a D and he messaged you all that. Okay, So long story short, do not if you just posted to post, do not expect that person to repost your post. And if they don't, don't follow up with well, post wrong with the picture? Why didn't you repost the picture? Like? What? Right? I think that's a cloud chase. But I feel like I

go through that too. I think we all do win. Like, you know, someone is like either they're sending happy birthday messages or they're posting about the show, and it's like, Okay, I don't want to post the same thing over and over again, or like reposting my stories over and over again, because you know, I'm I'm sure my followers don't want to see the same exact thing over and over and

over again. So like, yes, we appreciate everyone's um, you know, mentioned or you know, making a story or whatever and giving us, you know, a shoutout or attention, but like we can't repost every single one otherwise it's like hundreds, and don't ask me about it or else you're going to get blocked. Yes, I wanted to. I want to block him so badly, and I cannot wait to tell you who it is later when we're not on the body.

Can they listen to the podcast? I don't know, but we're gonna find out because he knows exactly who he is. You deem me, and you texted me about this nonsense and texted you yes, you're so pressed. Stop being pressed anyway? What is your reasonably shading moment of the week, Robin, because we're gonnat it off me because I'm gonna get worked up with this nonsense. Okay, So, um, this is actually last week or so, so my children have had like their clothes. Um, you know, they'll wash their clothes

or dry them. They put them in the basket, they leave them in the back, they do it themselves. They wash, they walk, they put it in the washing machine and the dryer. Kudos to you, Robin for teaching them that exactly. However, Race is going to college. She still don't know how to wash their clothes. But that's a whole another story. Okay,

but that's because you have, um, a housekeeper. Your housekeeper does it force, Yeah, so they do it right, but they leave the clothes in the basket, and they just pulled from the basket and put on you know what I'm saying, Like, they don't fold the clothes and put them away. So like literally all summer, I'm like, put your clothes away, fold your clothes, put them away, folding clothes, clothes put away. So like one day I just got sick and tired of it, and I literally spent the

entire day folding their clothes and putting them away. Um, in the midst of doing that, I just covered under Carter's bed that he had not unpacked his suitcase from Jamaica. Right. We went to Jamaica the middle of three eight months ago. Yes, okay, so you know it's like, okay, let me put these clothes in the wash. So he has a bag. So when we go on vacation, like you know, you put your dirty clothes in like a little plastic laundry bag. Okay, So in his laundry bag, his clothes are molded. Oh God,

and mil dude, I'm disgusted. It is literally because they were wet. But you know, they were like in the pool and stuff. So he literally had these clothes in a bag under his bed. Oh and I like the mold and mildew. It actually ate holes into his clothes, like his shirts and stuff. That's disgusted. Yes, I was, so you threw that away. Yes, we threw it away. But I'm just like, like like, dude, dude, did you show him so he knows I definitely showed him. I took

pick sures. I don't know if y'all want to see that. Now we can put them on the page. Now we're gonna skip that. No, we're not putting them on the page. I don't want to know. Discussed, But I'm like, how disgusting is that? I mean, it was so discussed. Carter do better, yes, yes, but amazing that these boys are watching their own clothes. I think that that's great. Oh yeah, because I can't do it all. Oh my god, no you cannot. But you know, and I need to get up.

I have cleaning people. I don't have a housekeeper, so I need so I need somebody to wash my clothes too. Okay, so we're gonna get back to our girls really quickly, because I want to talk about Jennifer Lopez she's a leo. Okay, great, okay, so did you hear yes? Okay, so she had she had on audition dances, backup dances. Okay, so let's be clear auditions. Everybody knows you work your ass off to try to get the job. This is free to you. You're not getting paid for an audition or not. I

don't know anyone who gets paid for an audition. So she, this particular woman was there all day dance to ask all. J Loo comes in and she was like, who here is a virgo and so you know, all the virgos were excited about being virgos. We rise our hand real hot. So this dance she raised her hand real hot. And then Jego was like, yeah, the virgos kicked them out. Yes,

the virgos have to go there. This discrimination that is zodiac discrimination one one and should that be like a thing because for because I guess for Jennifer, she must have had bad experiences with virgos. What was the reason did she say exactly why she was? No, she gave

no reason. It's just because she's just like the Lopez and she do have the hell she wants do Leos and viurgos not get along because and I find that because I'm an Aries, so Aries is a fire sign just like Leo, So I would think Leo's and virgos get along. I don't have so many virgo First it's Mark Anthony of Argo. Maybe maybe some of her Chris Judd was he Argo one of her one of her past dudes. Virgo I just google. I just typed in google j Low hates and then the first one was virgos.

J Low, I don't like you. Just kidding, I don't have any you know, it's like, oh yeah, I wonder if it's like an X or something. It's just wrong and rude, and you don't treat people like that. Kick all the virgos out, and you know the virgos were in there with the one to three for eight counts or point okay, because that's just how we do. Yes, stop it that, No, that is how we do. And if you need any examples, google Beyonce word. Maybe she

doesn't like Beyonce, maybe she's jealous of Beyonce. So a basic Internet search shows that virgos and Leo's are actually compatible, right right, um, And it's not like she hasn't worked with virgos in the past, Gloria Stefan as a virgo, as are her hustlers co stars. Let's see. I think it's I think it's about thing she don't like beyond mark virgo. Mark Mark Anthony is a virgo. She can't stand Mark Anthony. I'm just putting that allegedly. Allegedly. I mean,

that's because that is so random. But maybe she's you know, some people are like really in tune to like astrology, and maybe she consults with an astrologer, and maybe her astrologer told her like on this day and think that. I think it's market now, and I feel like who is thinking along those lines? Like who's thinking I don't want to talk to any leos today? I don't want to talk to any capricorns, Like get the Sagittarius out

the house, Like who does that? Somebody that has some ridiculous weddings with eight wedding dresses and you know what I'm saying, like somebody that just is on another plan. Okay, so good luck been Affleck? Well what has been affleck? Okay? So Ben Affleck. Yeah, So I guess she feels like, oh, if he's like me, then we're fine, whatever, We're two of a kind. Were two of a kind. We had like a really good week, Robin. We did. When it comes to the Real Housewives of to Mick Mick, Okay,

so don't don't don't the Real Housewives up. The Tomac is coming back. This is exciting, so exciting. I mean, of course, y'all know we're not last talked about the show, but I think we can talk about this. We can just yeah, well we talk about the fact that October nine premier, Yes, October nine, Bravo TV. Um. Can I tell you that photo of our cast? What was amazing? Okay, so slay, we did, we did, We did the damn thing. And I can say this. There's a little tea here,

so cannot say this. I think I can say this, all right. So they always give us a color, right, and so we work on our color whatever, you know, we get the dresses based off the color. So this particular year they were like, oh, the color is going to be pink, and I got immediately sick to my stomach. And I love pink, but we wear pink all the time. Yeah, And so Karen, with her grand dam self calls me and she's like, I don't want to wear this pink and I was like, I don't either. She was like,

are we going to complain? I said no, we're not gonna complain. We're gonna tell them we're not wearing pink. And she was like, yes, I think red is good. I said, yes, I think red is great. So ended up being look at that. Thank you Bravo for listening to me and Karen. Yes, I mean, but that was good that they took that into consideration because I probably would say, like, you know, if this was season one, they would be like, shut up and put on a

pink dress. Right, yeah, because that happened to me. And there, wait a minute, can we talk about our season one photo? What was the color there? Well, no, it was jewel tones. It was it was jul tones. Yes, that that was That was the theme because it was a cluster. It was season one. M right. Bravo didn't give a good or a bad guy. Damn. There's like girls line up. Oh my gosh, it's so funny. If you compare that picture yes to our picture season seven, it's like that

is the definition of a glow. Yes. We I feel like the red is extremely elegant. It's classy. Everybody looked beautiful. Everybody's glam was like normal, not normal, but like sleek, and every it wasn't too much. Everyone looked beautiful. Um and then the background like the chandelier and amazing. It's

just yeah, it was just beautiful. Yes, thank you as good somebody I'm not going to say who, but some people on some other shows might not be, you know, too happy to so leg City actually salt lags came out, but there's salt like cities. This three or this is two or three for them three this season three for them. Yeah. Yeah, so that that looks about right. Okay, I guess so. But speaking of other housewife shows, Real Housewives of Dubai that we've talked about before. So I do want to

say that I actually peeped into the reunion. I wanted to check it out, um because I may or may not have said some things in the past that we're not necessarily encouraging. And I do want to say I was pleasantly surprised. Good. Yes, I was highly entertained by those ladies in Dubai. Um. They had I think they had a great first reunion they held. We had two episodes, but it was good the model, um Chanel, I, yes, that thing is funny. She is you know what's funny

about her. I'm trying to figure out what she's saying, Like I want her to have subtitles so I could really laugh. But everything that she says is like very funny. So yeah, So if you are home and you, you know, want to find something to look at, check out The Real Housewives of Dubai on peacock and or on demand. Sure, yeah, just google it, check it out it to I'm trying. Okay, but we also have a couple of blow ups. Okay, we gotta follow up to We talked about the Lizzo Show.

I remember I told you I loved Lizzo Show because she was like trying to find dancers and she wanted to find a big girls and all that. Yeah, she wanted em. Thank you very much. That's just so awesome. That's amazing. Um. We also have to follow up to Beyonce because you're a big Beyonce hater. Well, she had a birthday party and she invited me. Stop. I just couldn't find my roller skates. It was a roll Eskpe party. She invited me. I can't find my roller skate, so

I couldn't go, but I was on the list. Thank you, Beyonce, and you know it was appropriate that you did not invite Robin. That was appropriate because Robin's a little bit of he can I just say it's growing on me? What's growing on you? The album? It's growing on me? Is it really? Yeah? I mean it's just it's like

it's growing on me. Okay, I do want to Okay, just with this, this is the going to round up the whole Housewives report that we have to give because we did talk about how Garcel's son was spoken to very inappropriately on Beverly Hills by Erica Jane. Marca Jane told him get the out of here or get away or something with the A word. So then the boys started getting like social media hate right, and Garcela was up in arms, as we all were, because that's not cool.

And then Nicki Minach got wind of it, and Nikki was like, oh god, sound wow, you weren't thinking about that when you had that woman on y'all shown you aren't thinking about my do I sound like, Nikki? You aren't you a little bit? You didn't think about my son? Then? Now didn't you, which I don't, which is true. Let me just say this, I don't want Nicki ever coming after me, goddamn thing. Okay, let's see, I feel like

they're not the same thing. Like, I can't understand. Nikki is probably just in her feelings about them having the accuser the woman who was accused her husband sexual so so, but I don't think that that doesn't directly correlate to her son, right, Okay, let's get this context. So garcell was a host on the reel, so the Real had um Nicki Minaj's husband's accuser on and they interviewed this woman.

So Nikki obviously felt a certain kind of way about giving this woman a platform, which garcel and the Real not Garcela, but the Real did that. So I kind of feel like arself was just doing her job exactly. I agree, Um, whereas Erica Jane, we didn't need that for you to do your job on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. So these are kind of apples and oranges, true, But I don't know. I didn't watch the interview, so I don't know if Garcelle said something specific that Nikki

is like upset about. I didn't want it either. But I mean I felt like I really wish Nikki didn't say what she said because I think she you know, people did not appreciate that, um, because I don't. I don't think the two are the same at all. Like she can be mad, she can be upset that they interviewed the woman, but I don't think that relates anything to to what Garcella's son was going through on social media. No, no, and we're talking about a teenager and a baby. I

don't know either way. Nikki, we love you, we think you're amazing, and thanks for never coming for us to be real nice here. But I mean I did think it was I thought it was too much. I thought what Nikki said was too much. I wish she would have kept it to herself. Oh okay, I kind of felt like, Wow, I get it. I understood what NICKI was saying. Really, I get it. I understand. I mean, it's just it was kind of like a mother's instinct,

you're trying to protect your child. Yeah, but I think in the manner in which she said it, oh yeah, it was a little deep, ye a bit, and well but that's but that's Nicki Minaj, right, You know, Garcella is very um classy and she doesn't use that kind of burbage, but I'm sure I guts selling her private time. It's like it's bit anyway, We're moving on because we have to celebrate some people. We got to celebrate Serena. Yes, and um, what's my boy's name? Tiafo? Can we call

Francis Tiafo? Can we call him foe? Not call Yeah, he called himself. His instagram is like big Foe or something. He lost in the semifinals, so he was like the final four. Um, he didn't make it to the finals. But okay, so let's talk about Serena first. So Serena Williams capped off her long, long, long career story successful tennis career at the US Open. Um what round does she make it to? Third round? Fourth round? I mean,

it was so crazy to me. It's like she's like literally ranked like number six and something in the world right now, which is like so crazy to like say that is she Yeah, because she was out of she hadn't played in a while, so like she I don't think she really played last year, and so the next year she played like she would play in some of these matt opens and would like lose like the first round, like pupled in French Open, like she wasn't she was out of shape because she hadn't played in a while,

so she was literally she was definitely not So she wasn't supposed to win that first match because the way they had, oh that pomp and circumstance, they were ready to lose if she kept winning and they kept playing that same video, they were ready. But we're all happy she made it as far as she did at the U S Open. I don't know, I feel like I really brought something and brings something to tennis, you know, just the different look, the fish pumps, like they're just

crazy intensity. Like I think that you know, that's obviously the passion. I think it's a really good word um continuing through ups and downs. And I could go on and on, but I just honestly, I'm so grateful that I don't have this moment that I'm Serena, and I'm happy that she was able to um receive her accolades and you know, her celebration, and that it was in the US, and that the fans were, you know, cheering as loud as they could for her. And then she

played well and you know who knows. I saw her in an interview today talking about well Tom Brady set a trend. So she might be Serena. She might decide that she's um, but listen, not ready to retire. And if she doesn't retire and she's back next season, we'll be right there to support her. So you know, it's funny though. Okay, so you know there's a whole bunch of hype over Serena. Someone posted on I don't know,

Instagram or TikTok. Somebody was at the match and there was a man in front of them, a white man in front of them, texting someone and he texted, oh, this is funny all the black people are leaving now, because it was like when like Serena lost, and I just thought, I'm like wow, like like she they literally were like filming this man text on his on his phone, and I'm like, that's what in the world of tennis, because you don't see a lot of black people playing

or in the stands, but like that's literally it was just very insightful on what a lot of the white people are like, you know, true tennis fans were thinking watching the stands full of black people supporting Serena and supporting Tiafa, like, oh, they're not really tennis fans, like, oh and now they're now they're leaving, But like what

does it matter? It doesn't. But I just thought like, and I mean, he's doing this in a private moment and his front thinking it's private, and it's like, oh, that's very insightful and what you're thinking and saying as you look around the stadium and are you upset that there's black people here? Obviously, I mean, it's just it's so it's I don't know, it was just it was just very interesting that like he would text that in the middle of the massage like that the black people

were leaving. What I love was that Sierra, because you know, see and Russell were there to support um Serena. Sierra knew when the clap and she knew what was going on, like she like, unlike Beyonce, who had no clue what the hell was going on when she went a couple of years ago. Dave was like hitting Beyonce like, Okay, it's time, it's something clap. She did good. Sierra knew

everything that was going on. Russell didn't have to tap and say okay, baby, now was time to clap, Like I was like, go Sierra, you know the name of the girl. See, I'm attending. I love tennis. I've been watching tennis since I was a young girl. So like I got my whole house watching tennis. Like we were literally not just watching Serena and Tiafo. We were watching like, you know, all of the matches, like they were on my on TV all day, all night, and we really enjoy,

like enjoy watching the tennis matches. And I'm over here schooling Korean Carter and one over like on like you know the terminology and you know what's happening and stuff. So so it's one like foe yeah, oh yeah yeah. But my favorite now is Um the man that want the young man that won, Um Alcarez, Carlos Alcarez. He's nineteen years old. He wanted to US Open and he is so fun to watch, and I like, he is going to be so amazing. He's he's amazing alright, So

he beat he beat Tiafo. So Tiafo young black man from Hyattsville, Maryland, hometown boy. He trained down the street in College Park, on the street from our university from my university. Um, you know, everyone in the state of Maryland and d n V was like so proud and excited for him, and it was so cool to see him get there. And I have been watching him, you know, for years before, and so I was like really pulling for him to get to the finals. So, um, next season,

next season. Yeah, congratulations to them, but absolutely yeah, but Tiafa lost in the Semis to Alcarez, and Alcarez won the championship. Okay, go ahead, Alcarez. I do like little um Coco. Oh yeah, yeah, I like Cocoa. And yes, I like the black people anyway, moving I like them. I like a good tennis to play if that's where like, okay, all right, I like that. Okay, you know how we're funny, you know how black people are just like naturally funny

kind of most people. Twitter. When the queen died, it was the funniest thing alive. Black Twitter was black Twitter rain honey, they got that Twitter fingers going. Okay, first of all, I'll due respect to Queen Elizabeth the second. She was the longest raining um ever and you know, sad to see her go, although she had a clearly wonderful life you ninety whatever, but some people just didn't really care. Something was like bitch, right okay, and next

no Twitter was hilarious. But honestly, I need someone to explain American media's obsession with the royal family. Like for me to explain, I don't know. Yeah, I don't get it, Like why is it on our TV all day NonStop they're talking about the queen died. I don't understand, Like, I mean, I'm sorry she died, but like she first of all, are we surprised that the nineties year old

woman died? No Robin, But we've been waiting for this for a while, all right, So so that's number one, number two, like okay, this reported and then move on, like why do we need because it's like, you know, they want to know what happened because she I think she passed in Scotland. We gotta get her back to London. We got to make Charles the King. Now, can you imagine waiting for your job seventies something until you get

your jobs and they are clowning his fingers. Have you seen the commentary about his finger They said he has sausage fingers, so they like have taken pictures if you go listen, if you were bored, go on to Twitter and look up Charles fingers and sausage, and everybody says he has sausage and there's pictures of it. He has sausage fingers. So you know what else is the sausage? Camilla gone and have with the queen? No she is queen?

Consulate Okay, that means you ain't really the queen. Bitch, that's what that's you know, that's for Diana, got it? Because I feel like they did Diana wrong. So what Diana been called the queen? No queen because that was his first wife. And you know, but by him getting divorced, whoever he married, by law would not have been the queen unless the queen sanctioned it, which she did, and she was like, we'll make her queen counsel it. Okay, that makes sense, got it? Okay, Yes, but no, Camilla

should just be that whole over there. Okay, she should just be thine. We are wrong, Okay, moving on. Okay, So Robin, we have to talk about pet peeves because remember we talked about pet peeves. Oh yes, we talked about pet peeves and a lot of people, you'll have a lot of pet peeves. Y'allow pet peeves? Good, gracious, alive? All right? So um, okay, wait, I want to read this one because I totally relate. Okay. So Tracy McCoy wrote to us, Hi, Robin and Giselle, love you both,

sending you virtual hugs. My name is Tracy with an eye at the end, So Tracy spelled with an eye t R A C. I. And my pet peeve is people misspelling my name in emails. It's one thing if you're texting me for the first time you don't know how to spell my name, I'll give you a pass with that, But in emails, really, my email address spells

out my name correctly. My signature at the end of my email spells out my name correctly, And when reading my email in full, I retype my name at the end to close out the email where it is spelled correctly. So they most people do Y, not I probably? OK? Yeah, I would say they probably do. Why they probably do ye? So sometimes I read the emails or my name is misspelled, and because it's misspelled, I feel like I should not even take the time to respond because the person is

obviously not speaking to me. They're speaking to another woman. I recognize there are many ways to spell Tracy, but this is not okay. And says to me that people just do not read so the like steal my thoughts. Yes, she did type them and send them to us, because I feel the same way. You know, it's how do you spell your name, Robin? You don't know? I know. I wanted the people know, Yes, the people not to

spell my name. My name is spelled r O B. Why And I actually like the why better than the eyes too, and then the um, so the people there will be people literally, I can literally trade emails back and forth and back and forth, and every single time it's hi Robin with an eye. But it's a spell check, spell correct spell what is it called correct? No? But but like that just tells me people are a lot of people in this world are not detail oriented. They're

not thorough. Um, I'm so I don't like when I send an email, I'm reading over it before I hit sin, you know what I mean? Like, So it's just and that's like so basic and it's so weird. It's like like I feel like they're not even noticing that my name is spelled with a hy. But like Tracy, my name in my email address, it's there right when I say, you know, thank you, Robin. You know what I mean, Like, Robin, that should be your Instagram han, Yeah, it's robbing with

somebody probably has already taken it, I'm sure. So in the emails to Robin, you have to first of all give like all these flowery remarks in the beginning. No, no, you just need to say hi, Hi, how you doing. I hope you had a great weekend. Thank you both all as well. Oh God is blessing you. And you

have to get Robin's name spelled correctly. But but but, like Tracy said, if someone is like asking me for something or request, oh my god, if you're requesting me to like make an appearance or to do an interview or to do and you spell my name wrong, I'm sorry. You don't deserve my attention. You know what I mean. And I know you get it too. I know people spell your name with an S. Yes, yes, So when so when my mother decided to spell my name with the Z G I Z E L L E, She's like,

oh gosh, I just wanted you to be different. Yeah, clearly, So when people spell it with this s G. I s there is auto correct because it's auto corrected me. So I get that. But so if you take the time to put the Z in, then you get extra special attention. Um, and I appreciate that and like just about my name, right, But I don't take offense to it.

I mean, I don't care. You don't write. And it's not that I am not having sex with these people, you know what I mean, You're just send me an email there's no sex, and I don't okay, So I guess is it that I care? I guess I do care. If I'm like literally denying someone, I just feel like, especially in like a professional sense, it's just it's not okay, like would you okay? If someone I don't, it's just like spelling anyone else's name wrong. It just tells a

lot about the person that's sending it. And so especially if I'm like an employer, like oh my god, if someone is like, please do need any interns or employees and just my name with the I like, yeah, no, not you not Joe, you all right? Because everybody please be thorough for robin sake, no, for your sake. Yes, well, you know I'm not offended by that as well. For their sake, for their sake, true, true. Okay, well, we got another pet peeve. Have the list? Okay, we're Carly

hasn't Okay, Okay, this is from Matthew Phelps. I just listened to your episode about pet peeves and wanted to share mine. My boyfriend and I go to Starbucks often, so we know the menu well and know what we like. But every time I go through the drive through with him and asked him what he wants, he says, I don't know yet, asked the barista for a minute. So I do that and he ends up ordering the same damn drink that he always gets after we just held up the line. I never say anything to him, but

he drives me crazy every time. That's me. That's me all day long. That's you. That's me. So you get there and you're like, wait, that's your pet. You don't like that, or you do that. I do that because you think you want something different, and then you're like, let just give it, just give me. Like I like going to the same restaurants. I know what's on the menu.

I probably know the menu by heart, but in my mind there might be something new right on the menu, so I gotta like check it out, make sure I might be feeling, you know, a sushi role as opposed to you know, lobster. So you know, I have to like figure it out. I get it, Yeah, I mean I get it, And and I think I can understand Matthew's frustration. I do because let me tell you something, that damn Starbucks line. I hate that ship anyway, So I don't drink Starbucks Like I don't. I don't. I

never go to Starbucks. But my wand has gotten my kids into um latte. So if I'm in the car with like Wan, Yes, if I'm in the car with Wan and the kids, it's oh, I'm in the driver's seat and we're going through the drive through, and they want me to place in order for that stupid ship like havelf so a half umbond milk, two pumps of vanilla, Like I feel like an idiot, like what, Like this is ridiculous? Hot want and then wanted like I want extra hot, and Corey's like I want iced and car

like like what? And then I'm like, what the hell is a tall and e VENTI in a grinded what the give me the medium, the large, Like, why do they use those stupidness? You gotta know how to talk Starbucks? I hate it? Yeah, I like I literally it's so now it's like if Carter wants Starbucks, I'm parking and Carter, I'm sorry. You gotta walk your ass in there and tell them your own order. I cannot do just stupid ship. We're moving on. I hear that, like it's like a challenge.

Like people make like Starbucks drinks with like eleven different instructions. That's ridiculous. I would they do it on purpose? Yes, that's dumb. I could not work at Starbucks. Got you gonna get banged. You can get your picture on the wall like bands. When this person comes in, they are not allowed to order. So I get the frustration in the damn Starbucks line. Give us one more, Carly. Oh, we have a couple ash she heels and feet. Oh no, I hate ashy feet. I hate ashy anything. Yeah. This

is like half our pet peeves smacking while chewing or chewing. Okay, so okay, so let's talk about that. Let's talk about that. Let's smacking while chewing? Okay. So this drives my children crazy, right, it drives me crazy. But like older people forget how to chew with their mouth clothes. Like when I say older, like once you pass seventy five, you no longer chew with your mouth clothes. He's grandparents, Okay, referred I'm referring to someone. I have like four people in my mind,

but I'm not gonna say their names. Okay, fine, my parents and Jamal's parents. Okay, So like y'all gotta keep your mouth clothes when y'all chew. Okay, but is it possible old that they have some sort of false teeth in their mouth that are preventing them from chewing with their parents do not have false teeth, So I'm just gonna say that. But they hit seventy five and they just no longer chew with their mouth clothes. My mom, my mom, Okay, this is my pet peeve with my mother.

My mother is the slowest eater on earth. I'm the fastest. So I'll be like, Ma, I've got eight hundred more things to do and you're still chewing on your appetizer. I cannot do this. But you know, like years ago, back in the day, like a meal was like that was like an event do you know what I mean? Now, I feel like we just eat some of it. He want to the next Like before the older people, it's an event. It was like a thing that was like a big part of their destiny. We can hang down

for their meal. We cannot event breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Okay, those are not three events of the day. No, my mother just choose too goddamn slow. Okay. You know how they say you have to chew twenty four times or something before you can s Yeah, she takes it literally, she's counting. Okay, Collie, give us my boy. Somebody said there Pet Peeves was Poles Poles right now, the fact that we yes when people ask you okay, then just skip like what the hell? Okay? So that is annoying

though so not not the Poles. When people respond to say like an Instagram post or say there's an Instagram post about Giselle who knows whatever, and in the comment someone is like, oh my god, I can't stand her. She is always doing this and the blah blah blah blah blah, and then she gets the worst and and I just she just needs to go, like we don't want her, and they're literally like ranting, and it's like

very weird. Just keeps Yes, if you don't like someone, if you don't like what you see Instagram, just keep scrolling, like follow me, So like, so is it do you really not like her? Or are you obsessed with her because you're over here ranting about you don't like a person?

Like I find that so weird. I find it really weird when someone like, you know, I don't know, say they're talking about me on Housewives and it's like a post and they're like, oh my god, and there and they at you right, oh my god, at Robin Dixonen is so boring. If I'm boring, then why are you talking about me? That is like the weirdest thing. And then like what can we talk about boring? Like what

they'll want me to do? Shocking jib and in and dance and pop it and drop it, get to trking and popping and could you could you imagine walking around in your daily life and you know, okay, walking into Starbucks and they're like, oh he's boring. Um, she's like semi fun. Okay, you're fun over there. That person is like the life of the party of that person is like really doll, Like, who would call someone boring anyway? Like,

that's so weird. I'm sorry for cursing, y'all. If there's people who don't like people who curse, We're not gonna curse the next episode at all. But I'm just I feel I find that like so weird that anyone would just be like, listen, call a person. Eight Robber is going to be popped, locking and dropping, y'all get ready to get ready. I mean, I don't think they're gonna call me more in this season seven? No oh no, season seven Robbin is doing the most in a great way,

no and a good see. I do when necessary, like I don't. I don't. First of all, I'm not starving for attention. No, you know, and I'm not saying you are. But it's just a vigo with me. It's just a vero with me, that's all. No. But like for me, I'm like, I speak when it's necessary. I don't need to, Like I don't feel the need to make a scene in order to get someone's attention. You know, No, no, you you do you, which is why we love you. Yes,

thank you, yes. But I also feel like now we're going on a tangent and then we're going to roll out of here. I also think, like on a show like Housewives, there's seven of us, and it's okay if one or two of those people don't speak to you, you know what I mean, Like if if you can't relate to the person or you don't find them interesting, because there's millions of other people who do, you know

what I mean. So it's like, why do people feel the need to negatively talk about someone that they don't like. Just talk about the people you do like. So you're saying, so you're saying, out of the seven of us, you should be able to relate to one of us or or almost all of us. And if you don't relate to all of us, that's okay because somebody will know that because somebody else will relate to them. I'm just saying everyone is not for everyone, That's what I'm saying.

And so just because you don't like one person, like, you know, you have to go on Instagram and talk to it about yes, because they have nothing else to It's called weird behavior. Like that's type of okay. But this is what we love. We love on people troll reasonable shady, all right, so we are out of here. If you are living your life, don't ever forget live, Live, It's reasonable or shady. By Reasonably Shady is a production

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