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Ep 59 | Robyn’s “Major Announcement!"

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Gizelle and Robyn discuss Robyn’s big “announcement,” Nick Cannon, Beyoncé's album, RHOBH, online hate, Andrew Tate, Vanessa Bryant, Netflix recommendations, Parent Swap, listener emails and more!

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Speaker 1

Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up everyone? This is Robin Dixon once again, Thank you, thank you, thank you for loving us. Yes, no, we wouldn't make it. This is would have made it. Yeah, Marvin Sap never would have made it without y'all you listening to reasonably That's not how it goes. But okay,

it's never would have made it. Yeah, that's you know, I know my gospel. Yes, I know it's a way. Um, yes, thank you, thank you. A couple of announcements. First and foremost, Black Effect Festival has been postponed, yes, until next year about April, like you have a date, I think the April some thing. It's April something ish. We will keep you posted exactly, so we just want to let you know that. And while you're out, you know, looking for Giselle and Robin, we will be at Bravo car Okay,

so Bravo con is in New York in October. October I think seventeen eighteenth, around that day something like that. It's a weekend So if you you know, love us, want to see us, want to touch and feel some other Bravo Labs, some housewives, some anything, we will be girl these people in New York on a Monday and Tuesday. Bravo Khan is like the So I don't know it's yes, yes, yeah,

just google yeah, Google bravocn Um. Obviously, Gisell and Robin will be there, and we'll be selling some reasonably shady merch. We're just gonna be getting out reasonably shady out yes, yes, very exciting. And I feel like around that time there might be another show that we love, like back on air, maybe out of Oh yeah, I forgot all a bunch that there might be a show that might be premiering that we might have something to do with. It might be on, Yes, it might be on. So all of

that is super duper good stuff. Okay, so clearly we need to talk about our recentably shady moment of the week. You have one crap Okay, So I do have one, Okay, because and this is probably a repeat of something that I've said before, but I'm just sick of it. Okay, So y'all know, I got three girls, I got two to get their hair braided. That beat them twins. And I don't understand the braid oology situation, like, like, what do you mean by that? What I mean by that

is why does it take so damn long? Okay? So the twins had some while I was away. You know, I was traveling this summer. While I was away, I had somebody come to the house to break their hair. It took total both of them ten hours, five and five. Cool. Yeah, Okay, that's probably that's like the norm you get these k not lists box braid nonsense. I don't know, it's it's a million braids. Okay. So just recently and and mind you, I decided I want no parts of this braiding situation anymore.

So I had Grace take them. I had Grace be in charge of getting them home. Okay, So because I just can't do it anymore, just tell me what the final bill is and I'll pay the lady. Okay. So the doors took eight hours. Angels took ten hours on their own. So did they get something different than what they got before? No, but it was different people with different people. It was different people. And I said, so, I said, so Angel, it took ten hours did the lady go like, grab a sandwich? Does she go to

chick fil a? Did she, you know, go to take a couple of bathroom breaks? She said nope, she didn't move. She stayed there and braided angels here for ten hours, no food, no bathroom break, just straight bradon. What took so freaking long? But how do I think the real question is how do they do that? First of all, how so we feel inside for the braiders, I'm not okay? First of all, they get paid. Well, yes, okay, there there's that. I heard. I heard that there's like a

premium on braids these days. I don't know what the premium is, but they get paid. It cost me. And there's two of them, so they got paid. Well. Number one, Number two a duo fell asleep in her chair. Guess what the lady likes. No, the lady like pulled her head like kind of like wake up bit like what like what? Oh my gosh? Okay, So were they like smaller than the braids. They were a little smaller, but not to the point that it's going to create two, three,

four extra hours. But it's I mean, it's okay. It depends on how long, how small the braids are, how long they are, all the that. I mean, my I'm just impressed that people have the stamina to sit there for it to do it, like, and then you have to wonder about their hands. Do they have to like do they get carpal tunnel at some point? You know? You know, I don't know, because did you know that, Like, so where I get my nails? One of the ladies

they're like recently had carpal tunnel surgery. No way, yeah, And they said it's a common thing in their industry. Like their hands get really you know, I mean, like clearly they're using their hands. They're like folding them up and stuff. So um, their their hands are painful after a certain point. They imagine surgery. I can imagine, so I can imagine a braid almost kind of needed to listen type of surgery. Listen. I'm just impressed. I mean,

I'm not impressed. But okay, look on the flip side, your girls don't have to worry about their hair now. They don't not for a long time. So you got to look at that. You go through all that for the result, which means they are worry free for the next couple of weeks, but they are very excited. They look super cute. They love when they have their braids. Yeah, braiders do better, that's all. I have to be faster, faster, really move quicker. Yes, brighters move quick. Meanwhile, their hands

are going like a mile a second. Like the whole braiding industry needs to do bad. You know, no, you know what. The whole braiding industry needs to flood Gell's instagram. Please don't, please don't with no, because I pay very well. Now you can give you all tips. They need to be like dry braiding like I do that. That is not my my calling. That's not my calling. Yes, they say, basically, anyway, what is your reasons? Okay, so I think I called bitch three times? We just go to podcast to okay.

So okay, so I remember have one. So I had a girl trip playing to Cobo and I was like looking forward to it. Okay, Can I just say one thing, This was a girl's trip. Just I was not invited that Robin had to Cobo. Just that wasn't invited. Just fy was that our friends with you? Okay, never mind, go ahead with your okay, go ahead with your story. Okay. Alright, So Robin is feisty, she eating? Is she eating yet?

She's hungry? Okay, alright, go ahead, Robin. Okay. So, so I had a girl's trip, playing my girlfriends like from childhood, growing up and everything. Um. So on the flight, my flight was supposed to be Thursday morning at five fifty a m. Wednesday night, at ten pm, I get a text from the airline. Your flight has been canceled. We have rescheduled it to Friday at five am. And I'm just a whole another day, the whole day. Yes, they

can find you. Nothing else on Thursday, nothing else. So I'm saying, So I'm calling, you know, I'm on hold. I'm like, um this, that's that's not cool. That's not gonna work, you know, Like what can I do? Is there another flight? Blah blah blah blah blah. So like in the midst of me being on the phone like trying to reschedule, I just gave up and I wrapped my head around the fact that I wasn't going to leave until the next day because of course I had

not packed right. So, like, my flight was at like five am and it was tempi um at night and I still had nothing. So who is shady the airline or you get both because so the shady part is, yes, the airline cancel my flight. But then I get shady because my friends, when I tell them what's going down, they get into like super stealth mode and they're good. They're like searching for tickets on other airlines and they're sending me stuff. They're like, oh, there's a flight on American.

It's only gonna cost you a hundred and seventy three dollars. Okay when you'll get here and blah blah blah. And I was like, yeah, no, it's all good. I'll just come on Friday. Robin is the worst, yo'all. Let me tell you something. Even leaving this house is the worst. And they were like are you SERI is like, are you for real? Like you're really like girl, They're like robbing, go upstairs and pack. Like at this point, yeah, I'm the shady one because they're like, what did you end

up doing? I've just left on my flight on Friday and I spent all day on Thursday packing? Really did you? Because like when I'm so bad when I go on a trip, like I have to do all my laundry, I have to like, you know, like I have to like straighten up and get organized before I packed for the people that are gonna be here when you're gone. Yeah,

it's just like the imaginary people. Yeah, it's just like a weird thing, like I just need to be like it just packing turns into an ordeal, it does, you know? So I couldn't just like wash the stuff that I needed or like I probably don't even need anything, but I needed to literally like wash it, folded, put it away, like get all organized. Pack. So yeah, so we're both shady. Yeah, I've literally canceled. Um, I think it was. I gotta ask Joy. I don't know if it was her birthday

or New Year's Eve. It might have been New Year's Eve, like a New Year's trip to Vegas. Yes, I remember, yes, because I didn't want to pack because you didn't want to, which is insane. Yes, Like, like who does now? I hear that you have an announcement? You told me what I sat down. You have an announcement. I have an announcement. I'm nervous. I am pregnant. What with Nick Cannon's eleven baby Robin, you are stupid. You are Stupidit okay, I am expecting our little bundle of joy two months after

the baby n A ten gets here. Yes, okay, because every two months we get another baby. Yes, I'm number eleven is on the way. Okay. First of all, I'm sick. I'm sick of Nick Cannon. Okay, I'm sick of him. He has a sickness. Yes, what is it called? This is very weird. We need a definitely, like there needs to be a new dictionary word for a man that is like hell bent on populating the earth. I don't know, but is that what it is? Or is it hell bent on? You don't want to put on a condom?

You don't know, you don't want to practice birthdn charls. Didn't he say somewhere though that like he has lupus and he wants to have as many babies as possible, like something like just which doesn't make sense to me. But maybe he loves kids and he just wants to like I don't spend a little bit of time with them because he has so many? Right, Yeah, I don't know, Yeah, I don't. I don't understand that. Okay, this is what I'm sick up. But sick of all of these pregnancy

announcement photo shoots. Yes, and then that's weird too if I see another one of these stupid ass photo shoots with him holding the belly of the random girl. Because they're all just like the other one. They all look alike. They're all randalls at this point, they're all randoms, but they all look the same, like the same person. And it's this is his thing. Clearly, this has to be his thing. But why would you want this to be your thing? I don't know. I really don't know, so

I think it's weird. I want this is what I want. I want to shape room the Jasmine brain, and all these blog sites stop reporting it, right then maybe he'll stop. Yes, right, and he's getting up there with like Kanye. You know how we don't talk about Kanye. We're not talking about Nick no more. It Well, once my baby comes, are you okay? Wait? Can they stop reporting after baby and you do our baby photo shoot? Like I would love for everybody to see that is he gonna be holding

your stomach just like he holds. We're going to be laid up in a milk bath together. I think he's done that already. That was the baby number four's it. I don't know. Okay, Well this we're gonna fill it with different flowers. I don't know. I mean geraniums, like geraniums. Okay, there we go. Yes, that's how it's going to be different. Okay, So and then we'll do a gender reveal of course, yes, yes, we'll have um an air an airplane. What is Wine

saying about all of this? Because I'm sure I might have a little bit of a problem, okay, just a dad. I mean he might be happy because then I can collect child support from from Nick Cannon. Okay, but it's being split eleven ways. But he's really rich. But okay, it's like really rich? Is he really rich? Like what's like really rich? I don't know. He's like I don't know. Okay, well whatever it is. Whatever, he's giving all of these babies a month, and then what do you do is it?

Is there numbers per baby? The later the baby is so like number eleven is going to get eleven million dollars a year. Okay, We're moving on. I can't do this anymore. Baby ten gets ten million a year, Baby nine, because it's like anyone that's crazy to have a baby. Nick can at this point like they just out of money. So I was getting eleven million dollars from Nick Cannon for ship for his eleventh child, baby number twelve. Okay, get my twelve million. I have a little bit of

a beef with Robin. Oh shi what I do? A little beef And this is we're circling back, okay, and we're really sucking back hard because this is a Virgo season. Okay, by the way, this is a Virgo season. Virgo stand up but point pooing point that was it was that wasn't good, but point point you wanna pogo? I just want to poo Okay, anyway, listen, so y'all know how Virgos do. We're crazy. If the world revolves around you, we know, yes, yes, yeah, and it also revolves around Beyonce. Okay,

and oh you like the album well, Robin you? So I had such low expectations for this album because really good to you, okay, because you said it sucked monkey, which was so mean. I know that was. Do you want to take it back? So I want to revise? Okay, thank you. I think this is like the this is how it goes with like music, right, with new music, especially when it's different, like something that you're you know, weren't expecting. I realize and I think I said this,

did I say this the last time? Like you have to listen to each song individually, right, and really taking each song individually without um playing the whole album like back to back to back, because the second half of the album sucks like monkey balls. Okay, Okay, So this is the reason why we're discussing this behive is because I totally disagree Robin Dixon. Yes, and I'm actually feeling like you're just hating on Virgos, not just Beyonce Virgos. Oh,

you're taking in personal. Yes, Cozy is like one of my favorite songs. Like it's so all of the beats and the rhythm and the vibe of it is so like makes you move, it makes you It's amazing. It is amazing. So I did um um ghetto photo shoot in my house. And when I say ghetto, it was just me and Cal and Carly, not Carl. Carl wasn't there. My glan teen h and Cal brought all these clothes and he was like put them on and we took

some pictures. Okay, So that's okay, A k A. It was a ghetto photoshop, but it was amazing because we listened to Blanc the entire time. Yes, so I was telling my Beyonce I was, I was droving it. I'm picking it back up. It's perfect for that. It's perfect for like chilling in the pool. It's perfect for cooking, right when I'm in the kitchen cooking, I'm moving on. Perfect for that. Even when I like take my walk, my little daily walk. Yes, you know, it's like that.

But when I get to the second half of an album, it's like skips, especially that plastic on the sofa one. I cannot take that song. I can't. I don't. I don't know what that's like, dangerous thing love. I hated that song. Okay, let me stop. Okay, So Beyonce fans be have all of y'all. I loved it. When we talked about this before, I hadn't listened to it yet. So this is the reason why we're talking about it now, because I have listened and I love Okay, I appreciate that.

I'm like I said, there's songs that I like. You know, more than one, I would say I like five songs. Okay, I like the whole thing. The whole thing. The whole thing, you like, plastic on the sofa. I can't. I don't know what we're moving on. Okay, So we have something serious to discuss because this has kind of like bothered me a little bit, not bothered me, but I put myself in it kind of a little bit, all right.

So there's a lot going on with the Real Housewives Beverly Hills, and so there have been like a lot of hate towards Oursel's son, and because of people that love other castmates like Kyle and Deride and what's the other one, Erica, Diana, all of them, they've come after Garcell's son and even to the point of making reference to they were gonna put a knee on his neck and they couldn't wait to like see him die or something crazy. They start talking abo the fact that he's

he was on drugs, doing drugs. I don't even know what the boy was, the older they're talking about. So they were directing their messages to one of her teenage sons who's fourteen going to ninth grade um and they were talking about her. I guess her older son may have had a history of drug abuse or something. So they like, you know, we're throwing that in the space, so all that which no horrible, no child should ever

have to go through that. And you know, as a mother, I can really empathize sympathize with garself for having to have to deal with this anyway, long story short, So, like Robin and I have been victim to this kind of hate, like kill yourself, jump off a cliff. Um,

I hope you get hit by a bus. You ain't ship, you're dining a burning house, You're ugly, your teeth stink like everything anything you can think of negative has been written to me and Robin and I. And I disregard social media because I think social media is stupid and

so do you. I know that, but I kind of feel like maybe we should have spoken up, Like maybe we should have said, Bravo, this is what's happening to us, because Bravo has put out a statement, and I appreciate Bravo statement, but I feel like we're god damn like this has been happening to me and you for years have we and we ignore it? But had we said something, maybe this would not be happening to ourselves. Son. Does

that make sense? It does? But I also think people look at it differently because it's like, if it's directed towards us, although it's not right, it's like we kind of unknowingly signed up for this, right We're like, you know, and if it's if I'm upsetting you or if you don't like me, fine you can, you know, talk all the ship in the world to me, but leave my kids out of it, you know what I mean. So it's like they're bringing in people who have nothing to

do with the situation. Who you know, I'll I'll be honest, My kids hate filming, you know what I mean. They hate They don't even like, you know, having to go to school and people know who they are. You know. They just want to live a regular kid life, you know. But instead, you know, they have a million eyeballs on them because their mom is on a TV show. So I would imagine that ourselves kids are probably the same way.

They're probably like, Okay, my mom is just on this show, Like I don't really have anything to do with it. I'm here just you know, because my mom said I gotta show up, but I don't want to show up. And so yeah, it's really unfair and nasty and discussing to direct any type of hate, hateful messages, harassment towards a kid that has nothing to do with the thing that his mother is saying or doing. Right, I thought about us, and I'm gonna read like but but before

you I'm sorry, before you continue. Um. But in a way, it's like I feel like people know, like that's where our that's that's how you're going to hit us, right, So you can, you know, harass me all you want. I don't ignore it. I'm not going to address you. I'm not going to reply, I'm not going to care. But you talk to my kids and it's going to happen. So I think they know like, okay, well we can't. We can't hurt her meaning Garcella. But if we get to her kids and we know where it's going to hurt,

very true, very true. And then it's ridiculous. It's like, I mean, I've been watching Beverly Hills. I don't know what has happened to even that type of I mean, that's so weird. Well, I do think and you know we're gonna touch on this briefly because we've been we've been victim to this. I do feel like there might be someone on the cast that puts things out to a group of social media, like the bots to make this kind of thing happ We definitely have bots coming

to us. Yes, so I I feel like somebody created this. But but why why? You know? And that's that's the part on these shows that like baffles me. Everybody, not everybody. A lot of people get on these shows and they have to be right. They have to win the battle, They have to win the argument. They want the fans to be on their side, and they have to they almost want to victimize themselves and you know, and and be strategic and manipulative instead of just ride the way,

get on the whole. Just if you said it, you said it. If if you did it, you did it. You know, just ride the way, because it goes up and down. Like when you watch these seasons, you'll see, okay, well one day, Robin is in the hot seat. The next day just I was in the hot seat. The next day it is Candice's turn, the next day. Said you know what I'm saying. It's like it goes around and just ride the day, and you know, realize like it comes with the territory. You don't have to you know,

weaponize social media to win. You don't, you don't. I'm gonna I'm gonna read this and then we're gonna move on. So Bravo put out a statement, which, by the way, thank you Bravo, because a lot of times Bravo just stay out of it. But Bravo said, we are shocked and appauled at the social media comments directed at ourselves. Sun we urge our viewers and social followers are like to refrain from targeting our cast and their families with

harmful rhetoric. So this this is why when I read this, I was like, well, damn, maybe if we said something we being me and you said something earlier than maybe people would realize, like this is this is not just ourselves sign we all get it. It's horrible, it's wrong, and y'all need to stop right period. Yeah. And I do remember having a conversation with a Bravo executive because they got when that I was getting, you know, nasty hate, and you know, I was like, you know, I appreciate

the conversation, but it wasn't like escalated to anything. But they didn't do anything about it. But I think that needs to be a constant reminder. I don't think it should just be this one time. I think Bravo should somehow, I don't they got it. We have to figure out a way to stop making social media like a storyline in our show. It's almost like social media it is the eighth housewife or you know what I'm saying, It's

like a it's a cast member. We got to figure out how to take it out off the off the table, out of the equation. That is one of the reasons why my kids are not on social media. And I'm not criticizing anyone who allows their teenagers or young kids on social media, but I don't want my kids to be no way reachable to that degree where someone can just say whatever to my children whatever, because they are

like my pride and joy. They are precious. I want to keep them as not innocent as possible, but you know, like keep them away from that man. You want to protect them. Yeah, my kids don't have social media either, and they're getting older. And then I even asking me about right mine don't ask you that. They don't care. And I was recently out with my son and we just had like a basketball workout and one of the kids was like, hey, what's your Instagram? And Corey's like, yeah,

I'm not on Instagram. Like any he had no problem with it, you know what I'm saying. It was like, here's my phone number. I think it's kind of like a cool thing now it right, feel like it's cool. I mean, I just and so the question is like, I don't I really don't think my kids will want you know what, My son Carter, he kind of wanted to be on Instagram, more so because it seemed like a communication tool between him and his peers, Like that's

how they communicate. They don't communicate by like texting each other. They communicate on Instagram. But but yeah, no that's not happening. No, that's not happening. And they can and his friends can text him, right yeah exactly. So so I don't know, I don't know what age they'll get on it, But stuff like this it definitely makes you be like, yeah, know, we do want to circle back for another update. Okay, that's that. Andrew take character who you didn't know anything about.

So I brought him up last week or maybe the week before. You didn't know anything about him, but now you're he's all over the place right, well, right, and and I see now he's been banned from like everything so quick. That was quick fast and in a hurry. So Facebook banned him, Twitter and Instagram, they all banned him from everything that he says because he is saying something. Okay, so if you don't know who he is, because he

got banned so fast. He was saying extremely misogynistic things, you know, basically, just have sex with women and keep it moving like just and he was getting a huge following from it. So I'm happy that these social media outlets have banned him, and you take goodbye. So now guess what he did? I saw now you're talking about I'm starting the foundation right to help violence men, violence against females. Well yes, and men's mental health and men's

mental health. Right, but you know why he's doing the men who violate women, right because they were saying that he allegedly was a sex trafficker. So listen, Andrew takee be gone, yeah, be gone. Honestly, I feel like I think with all that, like I think I said this

the last time. I didn't know anything about him, but I think whatever he was doing saying was for attention of course, like he wanted to become viral to the point of like a you know, it's almost like Trump, like, you know, just say the craziest off the wall stuff to get attention and and you know, try to build some sort of crazy following. And I think that's what he was doing. Um, so thank god he's been banned,

you know, hopefully. You know, Court you did ask Corey if you knew if you knew who he was, and Corey said he knew who he was, but he didn't like follow his stuff. Right. Corey was like, I don't know what he's saying. I don't always something about Corey, you know, last thing about kids and mom protecting their kids and their husband's Vanessa Bryant, let me tell you something. Yes, you know what she's saying. You're not gonna my family right that say, I'm sorry Taylor made me. Can take

that out. I don't know, it doesn't matter, like you're not gonna fool with my family. No. I like that. I felt so happy for her. Okay, we gotta set it up. So Vanessa Bryant was suing the like l A County, uh not not the least fire department, like the first responders whatever. Um, for the for the crash, for um, the helicopter crash that co Be and her daughter Gianna, Gianna was in because they put out pictures, well they took pictures. They took pictures, Ah, but they're

supposed to, but they put them out. All these people aren't supposed supposedly, So the ones that took the pictures are not the ones that are supposed to take the pictures, right, like the ones they're not like the crash the crime scene investigators, they were like the E M S. You know what I'm saying. So it was like the fire department, the police department, whatever, they're not the ones who have to take the pictures. It's the crash site investigators that

take the pictures. Got so apparently it was like E M S. Guys that took pictures and then we're going, you know, they would go to a bar and show them pictures and say like, y'all are horrible people horrible And she said she just dreaded the thought that these pictures are out there and one day she and her family, her girls might come across those pictures. Of course, and

I mean, I just can you imagine it? First of all, like I feel like there has to be an oath they take to keep to maintain the privacy of the victims. I've never ever talked to like a police officer or E. M. S. Person and they're like, hey, you want to see some

photos from a crash. But if it was Kobe, they right, right, But I just feel like that's just such a violation, like it's their body should see my Like can you just imagine how de First of all, how devastating this whole situation has been for her, and then to hear that people are literally showing off your husband's body parts they like, and then and to know how gruesome the

crash site was. Like, so they awarded her sixteen million dollars sixteen millions, thank you, and she said, awarded another one of the victims fifteen million dollars because that is And I just thought, wow, that is Like she don't need it. I'm like, I bet you she's gonna turn around and donate that money somewhere, you know what I mean. And it's not about the money, It's about don't do it against a huge violation of my family, of my mental health, Like, well this is what this was it

for me? When I saw walking in the court house with her Monica and Sigarrow, right, was coming in in a posse. When you're bringing your girls to with you, and you know Monica like Manca's is she kind of street a little bit. She she had all her glasses, she had a head cock to the side. They was all dressing black. I said, oh, they're coming. I was like, yes, I kind of wanted to join the group. They didn't ask me, but anyway, I was like, yes, yes, yes, yes.

They had her back and she needed it. They said she broke down sobbing when the verticals. Yeah, I'll be crying too. Well, they had to do the all all the discovery and having to show in the beginning all those pictures. She was breaking down. Well, they said she would leave, Oh, she would leave, She would leave. She needed her girls. Yeah. It's like when people were there like describing like what was what the site looked like,

Oh my gosh. Okay, So, Robin, if you have to go to court, I have your back, and we're gonna color coordinate. Yes, and we're gonna walk in like Charlie Angel style. We're gonna be We're gonna full glam. Okay, we're gonna be looking amazing. Hopefully this will never happen exactly. You sound too excited. Okay, So I want to follow up on my UM air conditioner situation, the loud air conditioner return. Huh okay, so I'm a really big idiot.

Why so somebody d M me and they were like, my husband and I wish under your name thank you for d M and me I did thank her. Um so she d M men was like, my husband works, you know, he does HB A C stuff, and UM have some suggestions for you. She's like, you know, the first one maybe need to change your filter. And I was like okay, duh Like that was just like like duh, okay, wait minute, the filter is connected to because that was just your A C. So your A C? What was

the A C sound? So the A C sound was just like you know, it was just okay, like when my A C would turn on, it's just like okay, like loud, right okay. And imagine that sound is because my filter is freaking full of dust and the air cannot get through the damn filter. That it's loud to ship all right. So I changed my filter and guess what, it's quiet. I have peaceful nights like no, but you

also had the fan situation, so the fan. So then with the fan situation, now I turned the fan on first, and I turned it on level four instead of level six, and level four it's much. It's it's still you still get a nice air circulation and puts you off, but it's not as loud. Okay, good, good, good good and wine it's okay, he's good. He said. It wasn't like this ain't loud. Let me turn it up like he hasn't done that. He hasn't said okay, speaking of wine.

And I know we're digressing because the basketball there's this um okay, you had two things to say and then I'll come back to the basketball. Go ahead, okay, don't forget okay. So secondly, I talked about like the photos on my pictures on my phone, and I have to go through these photos. People have given me suggestions. There's apps that help you like clean out your phone and it'll like eliminate duplicates. And you know, it's like they said, it's like a like a tender. You can swipe right,

swipe left. You know there's an that there's an app for that. So let me tell you the name of that app. Okay. It's two of them that I've gotten suggestions for, and thank you to people who sent me. This is you know, this is why I love this podcast. Yes, because people help us. Yes, we talk about our issues, our issues, and people are like, oh got you, yeah, I got you? Okay, where the hell did it go? Okay.

One of them is called Get Sorted, get to It Okay, So you download that app and then it helps you okay, and then I'll help you like clean out your photos and stuff. And then the other one is called clean Up clean Up. Okay. I like that apps. Somebody, Oh my god, somebody messaged me and said they had thirty five thousand pictures in there. How do you like? What are you taking pictures of? Listen. I was in the gym and the woman was in the mirror in the

gym taking selfies. I was like, you got about forty you got about at least because you're crazy. Um okay. So I was watching there's a there's a series on Netflix called Untold. It's untold stories, right, and most of them are um sports related. So it was the untold story of a one I mean not a one and one and one and see how much I'm into sports. It was untold story and one which I didn't know, like I didn't know how it started and all that

kind of stuff. And I didn't know about the whole um street ball, Like how I know about street ball, but I didn't know how it started. So it was like amazing. One would love it. So I'm gonna watch it. You kids would love it. So anybody who's like into basketball at all down watch and one and it's part of the Told series on Netflix. That'll be fun because I remember being, you know, younger, and that was like and one was like it was a big deal, huge, huge,

and and those boys didn't get no money. But that's a home yes, um. And then if you're gonna watch that, you might as well watch the thing about man Ti Til. He's a football player. He played for Notre Dame. He's from Hawaii and then he went on to play for uh for the Chargers. But he was like one of the first people that were catfished. He was catfished. So that whole story and how that broke down was beyond insane. I'm gonna want I want you to watch it, and

then we're gonna talk about it next time. It's very compelling. So watch that's untold. Yeah that's untold too. So those are the two that you gotta watch. Got it? Okay, So somebody sent us before we get into where we're about to get into, somebody sent us a note saying, hey, Robin and Jizou, I love the Green Eye bandit. Thank you. I have a question of a possible show idea. Okay,

would you ever do a wife slash parents swap? So this is really parents parents Okay, so one has to leave that, okay, Um, I think it'd be entertaining to see Giselle as a boy mom and Robin as a girl mom. Pitch to Andy Cohen and see what he says. Okay, so it is super cupid, could you okay? For I think you would have an easier time being a girl mom than me being a boy mom. I believe that too, but well especially, I mean your girls are pretty much self sufficient, like, so they don't even need me at

this point. Well, I mean yeah, but they would because they're gonna ask you questions about boys and you know that, you know, they want to go get their nails done and shopping and all that stuff. But now, like they're driving, you know what, Grace is driving, and they have Uber and they have you know, they can do that. But you're dealing with the emotions. Okay, okay, that'd be interesting. Yeah, and you're not really an emotional person. I'm not, so I'll just be like, um, suck it up, and that's

what right, That's that's what I do. It's a problem. It's problematic in my house because they're like, mom, you don't care about anything. I'm like, suck it up, buttercups. Okay, well, it won't be any different. I know that's probably a problem. However, me getting over here to these boys, that would be a problem. We I mean they wrestle me and yes, oh yeah, I'm like they're I'm like their their buddy, Like I am like one of the guys. No way, oh no, they I can't wrestle with them, or I

would not to wrestle with them. I don't want to wrestle with anyone. We were getting down and dirty and we're getting yes, no, oh, that would that would totally not work for Carter and Corey would be calling you every five minutes like, ma, come get us because Gell's horrible. I'd be trying to put them to bed. They couldn't be able to play like their games, their PlayStation games, they wouldn't be able to play that. They would they

would look at you like you're crazy. Like they would have to get up in the morning, and because I know, I feel like to sleep, like to sleep, they would get up and we would have stuff we would do because you got me and the girls get up, We got we do a million things. And yeah, oh they would be mad at me. Okay, so that would be kind of cute. That would be funny. Okay, so that would be funny. We'll run that past and we'll see what the Cohen says. I feel like they should do

that for like almost like every franchise. Well, this would be a separate show, no I know, Okay, so it would be a separate show, and they and they should like one episode would be Robin and Ju switching houses, and another one would be I don't know, Kenya and Candy switching terrible you know what I'm saying. Okay, not not terrible, but like Kenya doing the little baby blaze and then well Raleigh's gone, right, maybe Riley can come

home for that. Yes, yeah, you know what I'm saying, like, so they should and then you know, go to New Jersey and have I don't know who has Teresa and Jackie switched houses or Jennifer Aiden you know, yes, yeah, that would be cute. That's cute. Okay, you're welcome, Andy, we have more shows you. Oh. Yes, this was Ashley

Smith and she is from She is ash from Silver Spring. Yes, so thank you, ash And you won't be getting a cut well yes, maybe, Okay, alright, so this is what we love, which is somebody send us in um and they need to know whether something is reasonable or Okay, so I'm gonna read it. I'm Daniel from St. Louis and I'm a huge fan of the podcast and of r h P. Always look forward to my Monday neighborhood walks listening to Reasonably Shady. Oh that's so nice. Thank

you walking around the neighborhood listening to us. I have a question on whether I was being reasonable or shady in this particular situation. Okay, here we go. I just moved to a new apartment a few weeks ago and absolutely love it. The problem is my upstairs neighbor is not too fond of the music. I blast around my place.

I totally understand being noisy late at night or early mornings, but I don't see an issue with playing loud music in the middle of the afterno I was getting ready for work at one PM and received an email later on from my leasing office that my neighbor had complained about my music being too loud quote during the day. I decided to leave this letter, and they attached the letter for us. So we're gonna get to the letter in a minute. Um on my neighbor's door the following

day was this reasonable, shady or team too much? Okay? If you gotta ask, if it's much too much? Okay? All right, So this is the letter he left on the neighbor. Neighbor, okay, Hello, the leasing office informed me of a noise complaint for my unit quote during the

day yesterday. I was confused about why this was an issue, given that my lease states that the tenant should refrain from excessive noise from ten PM to eight a m. Okay attached its section four of my lease agreement for your convenience in case you need a refresher, and I'm also reminded the leasing office of this. I'm not sure if you work from home or are unemployed from a home, but it's never but it's never my intention to be inconsiderate.

But I'm also not going to be told what I can and cannot do where I paid the bills, especially when I'm not violating any least provisions. I will continue to be mindful of the noise levels during late nights and early mornings, but it's pretty irrational to expect quietness in the middle of the afternoon. Hopefully we all are on the same page going forward, so this subject should no longer warnt any more. Conversation, have a blessed day,

not to have a blessed day, blessed day conversation. He said, this conversation is over, and okay, he said, so this is shady thing. I think it's reasonable. Why is that? Wait a minute, okay, which part is reasonable? Which part that heats that he addressed? First of all, it's reasonable that he addressed it directly with that person. I think it's okay, gosh, I think it's still definitely reasonable, But I feel like it's shady that he basically said you

are unemployed to den be and okay. So I think it's reasonable because he's He's like, we don't need to do this back and forth between the leasing office. This is what my lease agreement says. I'm pretty sure that's what your agreement says. And you know, have at it. If you work from home during the day, well that's your problem, you know what I'm saying, Like a lot of people do, right, so, so al right, So to involve the leasing office in something that honestly they can't

do anything about, it's pointless. The only thing that that person could have done is probably left him a note and say, hey, I know that you know quiet hours aren't until ten pm, but I do work from home. Do you mind just dropping your noise down a little bit? I think that I think the person that emailed us would have been a little more receptive to that. And the guy going to the leasing office. Very true, very true.

But because you like, you went to the principal's office exactly right, when you could have just come to me and been like, hey, what's this blah blah blah. So I think it's reasonably that he was like, yeah, um, I heard you talking ship and I don't appreciate you talking ship behind my back. You could have just come to me. And by the way, you know that I ain't break any rules. So in the story and if you see section eight dash twenty four of the leasing book,

then you know I ain't break no rules. Bitch, right, have a blessed day. I mean I do love the Okay he could have the shady part was the whether you're employed at home or unemployed at home the other you could have left that part out. I mean, now what if he's like, what if the person is like, um, you know if they work a night shift, yes, and they need to sleep during the day. So that's what I say. I feel like it's hard because you can't what can you really do about that? I don't know

in the agreement is talking about. So the agreement, the least agreement pretty much says like you can make excessive noise all day until until tempo and they got turned off. I mean, I'm I'm with that. But my thing is like, these apartments needs to be built with the caalls, okay, so we don't have these issues, okay because we're installation in them. Yeah, because you're hearing a whole lot from your neighbor that you don't want to hear all kinds

of noises. Okay, so the person above them, what do you think that they responded? Like, So, if I'm the person above and I received that letter, and if I received that letter and say I worked the night shift. Okay, Now let's say I work the night shift at a hospital COVID, yes, and I come home and I got this letter from the dude downstairs to tell me have a blessed day, and I'm trying to get some sleep before I go back to the hospital to deal with

people who have COVID. I'm mad, I'm mad. So do you just send a letter back to it's say at this point, I think, say, okay, I understand what's in the least agreement, but this is my situation, and it would be such a blessing. Yes, since you want me to bless my day, such a blessing. It was such a blessing from you if you were a little if you kept that in mind and just looked out for me. Yeah, now I can preciate that. How loud is the music? I mean, I don't know at this point. They need

to get noise canceling headphones upstairs. Well, you either need to do that or like move to a different place, right, that's what you need to check when you move into these apartments. How thick of the walls. But I bet things changed with COVID with people working from home, like that wasn't a concern. Everybody works from home, right, But

I'm saying, yeah, now it's a concern. Oh yes, because because now they're working from home when maybe before they were, they weren't home, so they didn't this noise didn't bother them. And then I'm sorry, Mr letter writer, why are you in the day? Are you unemployed from home? Daniel? Are you? Are you employed or unemployed at home? Let us know? Oh my gosh, Okay, that is our episode. Don't ever forget to live your life? Reasonable what's your dude about?

And have a blessed day. Goodbye bye. Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from our Heart radio, visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, and you can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixonton, Gazelle, Briant, and Reasonably Shady.

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