| Ep 49 | Can You Pay My Bills?

so we're in June? Yes? How is it June already? I don't know? Why? Is life a blur? And it's like, don't you think about when you were a kid, and it's just like time, just like tick. That never happened to me. Tom didn't go slow when you were a kid, I don't think so, Oh my gosh, remember because it was like you always had the anticipation of like, oh my birthday, Christmas and summer, and it just felt like none of that could get here fast enough. Okay, that's true.

When I was waiting for my birthday, it was a countdown right yes days. But now it just feels like your birthday, You're like, we're like going around on a race track, not the sad effects. Yes, this is so crazy, okay, reasonably shady. Moment of the week Robin Dixon. Okay, y'all know, I'm like, you know, moving to my house. Yes, I love that. Thank you guys. The house looks really good.

It's coming along, it's coming along. I'm almost there. Um. So I was waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting for Ian's for my drapes in my family room and in my breakfast room and dining room, in my office, my bedroom, all that stuff. So the ones I was like really waiting for were the ones in my family room and my breakfast room. Those were ordered like probably I don't remember

people coming out like to take measurements. Actually, I think it was like the three different companies came to take measurements, give us quotes on the fabric and stuff. Probably you know August September time, right, so last year. Yeah, last year. It's June now, right. So finally it was like, oh, the guys coming to install the drapes, and I was so excited because okay, but we gotta tell the people they're like super custom because they're like ceiling to floor

and there. So I have like a double for double what is it double? Two story four? Your there, we go there, we got two stories. Yes, so these are huge night for your two story family room. Yes. Yes, so they are literally what you know, from ceiling to floor. Okay, you know, I'm just really excited because it's going to like pull the room together, right, beautiful. Yes, So they put him up. The guy came and it's got a

long ladder and so so. So, first of all, the drapes took forever to be made and to come in. Then it took forever to find like to get the guy to get us on our on his schedule to actually install the drapes. Okay, yeah, so we put them up and we look and we're like, yeah, those things around ten inches off of the floor. No way, so they're like high water drapes. Like okay, wait, do they

have um extra fabrics? Not enough? Nope, not enough right, And it was like, okay, we could probably like move the bar down the ride down like closer to the window to bring them down like they would still be if we if we took the extra fabric from the bottom and move the rod as close as possible to the top of the windows. It still would have been like five inches off the floor, and yeah, that was That's not a good look. So now I'm like waiting,

So still, whose fault is this? Because these drapes costs, so who's paying this? Yeah, so I'm waiting. I'm my designer. I'm waiting to figure out what the solution is. So the solution will either be definitely the people who took the measurements screwed up. And I don't know if they took I don't know if the measurements were wrong or if they cut them wrong. So I don't know who messed up there. Okay, so the solution, there's like one or two solutions. One is to do have the Drapery

company make them again and make them right. I don't know how long that's going to take. And we're literally trying to get this done like a sap, like like my designer, Like, no designer wants to have a client for almost a year. You well, no, I mean I'm like I've pretty much like paid for everything except for like you know, I just whatever you you have, like a final installation payment, which is not that much. Like

so I've like she's gotten most of her money. Okay, and like so this is just like stuff that's like hanging over her head that she wants done because and you want that so that she can like, you know, to sha in this here. So I mean that is the shadiness. So the other solution would be to add like a different color fact, like to do little color blocking into like sew some fabric on the bottom so you know, give it. So I don't know, so we'll

see what the solutionists. But that's the shady moment, the damn doce that I've been waiting half my life for ten inches off the floor they high waters. Okay, so the person that did the measurements is the shady person. I'm going to guess that. Yeah, okay, all right, I'm for that. Yeah, okay, So my shady moment is actually similar because way fair is shady. M what they do. Okay, Robbie, you looking at me like I did something. I bet you did so in April. This is June. This is June, right,

made you maybe before it might have been marched. I ordered Okay, so I have double doors in front of my house, and I ordered two planters for the side of my double doors. I've been waiting twelve weeks or something like that. Something crazy. Um way Fair delivered one one planter, to the point where I was like, well did I order one? Because I can't remember if I ordered one too. I'm like, I'm sure I ordered two. Was I drunk that day? What did I do wrong?

God help me? Please? Way Fair. So I go on my little you know, order, and I look and I did order to to and they said the other one's coming, and they didn't give me a date. If I have to wait another twelve weeks for the other damn planter, it's gonna be a problem, shady. And I'm at least like the one that they sent. I have the one that they said, have one. Do you like it? I like it? But you have one planter? No? No, no, right of course, now my house looks sideways. So they

didn't even say, like, your order is partially shipped. They just said, okay. So when I went back to the online, it's partially shipped, but I don't have a shipment date for the next one. So I'm just sitting around one planter. It's just just this is sad. That is just horrible. So if I'm waiting, well, so you waiting for the drapes. I'm waiting for my plans. This is a mess. It's never ending. It's never a freaking ending. And I haven't

even done my basement yet, y'all. I'm like, oh yeah, my basement is still raggedy, but you know it's all good. I don't even care. Listen. Okay, so you guys have actually given us some like wonderful reviews out here in these streets. For whatever you y'all love us. I want to read a couple because I want you all to get inspired to continue to give us great review Yes. Please, we need you to continue to rate reviews, subscribe all that good stuff because that only does Wander Express and

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oh Lyle. We appreciate you for listening and getting your podcast Cherry pops. Yes, okay, I'm gonna be shady okay yea, because I don't really talk about people's children because it's just like you can't really do that. That's like me, right, you don't really talk about people's kids because you don't want to talk about your kids. Yeah, but you've already had.

So my thing is like in the past, i usaid not want to talk about kids because I'm like, if I didn't have kids, Like, so what if my kids came out and acting, I'll come now and I'm like, and you and your kids are great, by the way, and I have kids. Mine are really sweet and nice. Today. Um, by the way, it's summertime in my house, in the Brian house, and the girls are just like home because

they haven't started working yet. Oh school is done. School's done their home and they're looking at me like feed me. Oh my god. And all three of them are going to be working. Yeah, all three of them are gonna be working in a couple of weeks. They're gonna start a camp like they're the counselors. But right currently they're looking at me like feed me. Yeah, what do you do? So do your kids just order stuff off a door dash from their phone? So no, because I haven't set

that up on their phone. They want me to order it and then okay, for the record, I hate door Dash, I hate door Dash and Uber Eats. Can I say that last week I ordered some nachos. I ordered a bunch of stuff, but in the bag was the chips with the nachos, the nacho cheese. Of course, the cheese didn't come right. Yeah, of course, of course, of course the cheese. Of course. Like what I mean, Do I think they do it on purpose? They always leave one thing out something. Did I tell you the story about

the people that got my order? Yes, down the street right, Yes, I told the story on the podcast. I think so because I told you maybe we just talked off right all we can't keep up with what we talked about. Now, I told you my neighbors got my food and it freaking ate it right right, yes, And so the people down the street got my food and they ate mine. They said, I don't know if I saw this on the pipe. Okay, they said they waited. They said they

Facebook messaged me, and I'm not on Facebook. They looked me at they you know, they they knew who I was, Like word in the neighborhood was liked in the neighborhood, right, So these people around the corner kept getting my deliveries and stuff and so they Facebook messaged me and she said like, they waited two hours and I didn't respond. And after that they put they ate your food. They

ate our food. They put it in the air fryer and they Okay, So my neighborhood, I literally can look out my front door to the left, I mean to the right, and I see them they have because so you know, they take a picture of your food. So the picture was a yellow door. I don't have a yellow door. So I was like, oh, my neighbors have a yellow door. I'll just go get it. It took me some time to go get it. So by the time we got there, it was going. Food was going.

I'm not gonna let's send they ate the food if they enjoyed it. But I would never eat anybody's food, I know, but I might actually, I would never eat anybody's food if it came in like a nice closed up bag with your name not on it. Yeah, I mean if somebody else's name, You'll be like, oh, let me try something new. I've never had this before. You know, you didn't order. There's no food ferry. There's nobody dropping

off food that you didn't order. The time has passed because what I you know, you know when that happens, do you like go into the app and say, you know, so I almost missing and they, oh, no, I didn't do that. For the for the cheese that I didn't get, No, but for the whole order that I didn't get because my neighbors ate it. I called the restaurant and I was like, y'all delivered it to somebody else. I didn't ride out my neighbors, and so they made a whole

new order and brought it over. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. So on door Dash, I have multiple times had to go in that little help section and you say, you know, something was missing or I didn't get my order, and they'll either credit your account or they'll send the order again okay, or they'll do like both. I don't know. I've had something where like I had to order sent and they gave me a credit for my inconvenience. Oh that's nice. I always scream never again. Never. It's so frustrating.

I feel like they always leave out like dessert, Like if you order like a cookie or something like an extra thing, it's not like what they're normally putting in the bag. So I'd like stop ordering the extra things. I'm saying, Grace to go pick up stuff. Okay, but that's not what we're talking about, Robin. We're talking about kids right now. I know. But but but I recently did make Corey download the door Dash app and so he orders door Dash himself, because I'm like, Okay, that's good.

Do not wait for me, like, just you just do it. Don't wait for me to, you know, order your food when we're away filming or whatever. You know, ask your father one a bright Antonio, get the boys some food, right, But since you don't want to do that, then just use the freaking app and leave me alone. So I agree. You know, I am, I know I am. And the kids are old enough and they're responsible. Okay, So speaking of children, I was watching the Queens. You believe Queen

Elizabeth got her name. She has been on the crown for seventy years. She kind of came to something she kind of didn't, but nobody cared. You know why no one cared because Kate and William's children, Oh my god, we're the worst behaved children I've ever seen in my entire life. Yes, I'm saying it. Okay, what Carol Carley look up the kids names because we need to, we need to refer to them by name their oldest child.

I did see a clip of the one like what is this call when you put the like nanny Nani boo boo. Yeah, he did like the nanny Nanni boo boo and stuck his tongue out and his mother, okay, mother. First of all, she I get okay. I don't know her disciplinary style. If that was me in that moment, because of the setting, it would have taken all of me to keep my composure. Well. First of all, he swung at her like to try to like hit her mouth, right,

that's number one. Number two. Then he stuck his tongue out and did like the whole man nanny boo boo thing. And she's trying to hold his hands and trying to control him. The world is watching, so this is like an embarrassment on several levels. At one point, little Prince Louis seemed fed up with his mom and put his hand over her mouth to keep her from talking. He flailed around and did the classic thumb on the nosy you you tell why you keep that up, young man?

And no sticky toffee kidney pie for you, you're a terror, Like there's no way you can be king one day because that it is going to be a problem. That was funny, though, I mean it is kind of like, wow, what is going on in their house? What's going on in their house? Why are you ever sticking your tongue out at your mother? My kids have never done that to me, And I kind of want to say, I'm about to say it, this clearly is not a black

child because black mama's but black mamma's. We don't play that Like that child would know that's what I said, SmackDown. It would have taken all of me to keep my composure, considering like there's you know, all eyes and cameras and like that is like a heart. How do you how

do you deal with that? Because on one hand, you have the kid that is like acting up, acting a fool and and being embarrassing, and on the other hand, as the parent, you're like, Okay, I really want to snatch him up and do something, but I don't want to draw attention to it and make it even work. So right before they came out to sit in front the world, you get snatched up. Then you get snatched up in the back. You many times I've snatched my

kids up before we went out in public. But and you get a stern talking to, right, and I'm sure he probably was acting a fool before they came out. He's been acting the full since I was born. Okay, because this is not new behavior, this is horrible behavior. I was so appalled as a mother, I was like, please someone get that chow. And especially as like a public figure, they really should have him under like under control, you know, like I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed for Kate. Kate,

get it together. That was that was I did. Chuckle, chuckle. Oh gosh. Okay, So I can I tell you what happened last weekend? No you cannot. Okay. So last weekend I wanted to take my kids out for a brunch, right, and um, there's you know, we like to try new restaurants. I have been looking up a restaurant and they so served crabs, uh and we haven't had crabs all season. So I was like, oh, we're going to the the spot. So we get there and it is a full fledged

drag brunch like I saw that in your stories. Okay, that was serving crabs and it was like they you know, it was a full menu, so they had like shramp and a stumbled upon a straight up drag brunch and like music of Pride, Pride Music's blasting. I was like, well, maybe we can sneak out of here, no because and I was like, oh, no, one knows who I am here, so I can sneak out. Yeah, I was confused. Like the drag queens came out, they welcomed me with open arms.

So and the only thing that made me want to leave was that everybody was so drunk and I just didn't want my kids for your kids around like all that drunkenness. But those drag queens did the damn fun. Drag bunches are fun, yes, okay, but Robin, you didn't know that drag queen's lip sync well right, so okay, No, not that I didn't know that they lip sync like

a drag brunch. Yes, I understand that you lip sync right brunch, but at um that event we went to last week when I don't know, I just thought like when they were like the Marquee performer, that they actually were like singing, singing, like when you're like going to watch them in a nightclub. I thought they would actually sing. Okay, but but I've been to drag brunch before. Okay, this is my first drag brunch and I shared it with my children. They were like, wow, this is a whole

lot going on, but they truly enjoyed it. So shout out to absolutely drag Delicious Brunch and went out to them. So it was a Hello Betty, which is new in Pike and Roll. So it wasn't like Rockville. Yes, that's very different. I thought you were gonna say you were in d C. No, I was in Rockville and they did. When I say, the damn thing, they did the damn thing. They changed their clothes and you know what. The other thing with that drag performer we went to before, like

she wasn't she wasn't in costume enough. Okay, so you know what I mean. You wanted her to you want to see spandex and glitter. Yeah, yeah, I think that's why I was confused. Yeah, she just had on a so one drag with the drag show that Robin's referring to. The drag queen just had on like a pant suit. Yeah, it was like a red satin pantsuit and like a bob and she was like, I think she was being

Patti Labe. But you can be Patti LaBelle and be all like you can get the big hair, the big you know, big curly bush hair, put on some like crazy makeup. She didn't have any of that. That's why I was confused, I think because I was like expecting, you know more more right this drag brunch that I went to, they had on okay, so she sat down next to me. Oh, by the way, in the performance, she came over to my table and ate my food a b that was wrong, but whatever, we love you.

She sat down and chatted with me, and she had on maybe about seventeen different color eyes shadows, like the eyeshadow was out of control. But I loved every second of it. So I was like just she came down, she sits and she was like, so darling, you're beautiful. And I was like, oh my gosh, thank you. She was like that's when you're supposed to say, so are you. I was like, oh, I'm sorry. She was like yes, bitch bye. It was so funny, like they are amazing.

So shout out to them. That was and and thank you for popping my direct my kids drag queen cherry. Yes, yes, but now I figured out why I was confused the other night. Yeah, because I did. It wasn't over the time, it wasn't over the top. Okay, So can we talk about um? Okay? So the only reason when I talk I want to talk about this is because we talked about it a couple of weeks ago when I said that was very excited that Downtown Abbey was in the Yes,

did you see it? So speaking my children again, I went to go see and my kids wanted to go see it with me. For whatever reason, I was like, guys, I don't. I don't think so, like because I know they need more action. They came and they were so mad at me. They came and they watched it with me, and I loved every second of it. They hated and they're like, it's the most horrible thing I've ever saying. They were like, this is boring, this is I mean,

not eighty. They were like this is like eighteen fourteen. Like they were just like, get us out of here. But I downton n Abbey is very good. So they didn't know what they were getting themselves into. Now they did not, Okay, they just wanted to hang out with you. They just want to hang out with their mom, and they regretted every second. Okay, good, I'm glad. I know that now. Yes, I won't watch it, but you've never watched any of it, Robin. I know what I'm saying.

I won't watch any of it now. Okay. Alright, So they weren't intrigued in the slightest not really, No, no, not really. Okay. Whenever we don't talk about Lebron um next week maybe I don't know. Okay, So let's talk about him now because he's now like the first billionaire current athletes with the bright that's amazing, is very amazing. Yes, but no one really cares about that because well no, before you get into that, she want to get into the shade is I'm gonna get No. See, let's be reasonable.

You do care about that, okay, because I want to point out that Lebron did something very not typical or atypical and hired his buddies to run his to be his agent, to be his business manager. Like his buddies that he grew up with in you know, from the same neighborhood or from you know, the same area. He hired his buddies and empowered them to to not only ride his coat tails, but to like make something of it.

I know, so so many times you see athletes, um, who have like a whole entourage, right, and the entourage is just take, take, take, take take. You know, they've they got, They've eaten at the same fancy restaurants, they're driving the same fancy cars, they're taking the same fancy trips, and you know, and they're not really adding any value to the player except besides, you know, just being there.

Do boys so are they millionaires? So Lebron boys. So the fact that Lebron has earned billionaire status with his boys as his agent and billionaire and business manager, um, that gives credit to them because they helped him get there. Number one and number two. Yes, they're very successful in their own right. Like you know, they've not only served as Lebron's you know people or whatever, but they've been able to spark their own businesses from working for Lebron.

I think even like Rich his agent, Rich Paul, like you know, got his masters, went to business school. Like I love that. Yeah, So I just loved it. Lebron empowered his homeboys to actually to not just like just you know, mooch off of him, right, No, I love that. Yeah. Yeah. So the fact that he's a billionaire and his boys are the people who helped him get there, that's even

more impressive. Like, you know, they're not the typical, you know, stuffy lawyer that he just met because he was, you know, an athlete and people just want something from you know. These are people that actually cared about him, and turn he cared about them. Born in Akron, Ohio, James lived with an assortment of family members, friends, neighbors, and his peewee football coach, moving a dozen times in three years before becoming the most hyped high school basketball prospect of

all time. I love that. I love that whole story. I'm going to do that one day. Part of my people. Absolutely. Yeah. I don't know who my people are. But but I'm not okay, okay, So Drew Sadora. Now I'm being shady. He So, Drew, who is on the Real Housewives of Atlanta, one of our sister franchises who we love. So, you know, on the show they were talking about, like, who's the

biggest celebrity that you've ever dated? So Drew says, okay, allegedly because they edited it out, but allegedly she said Lebron right, and so everybody was like, huh, what, how could it be Lebron? He's called him like the king of the King of R and B slash NBA you mean the NBA, yes, the King of the right. And you know they called Lebron King James. Okay, so everybody

knew who she was referring to. So then everybody was like, you know, he's been with his wife, Savannah since they were in high school, so it's all like this allegation that he was cheating on his current wife. Okay, So this would have all been water under the bridge and

nobody would have cared. But Lebron decided to stick his pinky toe into the social media waters and he put out there, my queen, I just want to give an appreciation tweet for my queen Savannah, who I've been with since day one and day one, and you're my rock and you're my shining star and I would be nothing without you. Okay, So that all to me sound like some I'm guilty. Yes. Then he posts a picture of there like what was it like? Which, you know, no

shade Savannah, but you look crazy in a big jure. Okay, no shade. Okay, Savannah, we love you. You look amazing today, but that day he looked a hot mass. Okay, So, Lebron, you just should have said nothing. I know, I was actually surprised that he did that in response to what was just on the house I was of Atlanta and for people like picking that up, like, yeah, I mean, Lebron has actually made post about Savannah in the past, praising her, this is my queen, whatever, So for him

to do that, that's not out of the ordinary. But it's clear he did that in response to what was discussed on the Real Housewives of Atlanta. I just feel like just saying I'm saying nothing, does that make him. Did he do it because he felt bad because he's guilty, or did he do it just because he felt bad he just wanted to let the people know guilty, guilty. I mean, okay, I'm look, you know me, I'm not putting anything past any athletes, Okay, but I mean it's okay.

They supposedly they weren't married, and if you've been with somebody since high school, right, you need to be doing other things, right, Yeah, I mean, there's the likelihood that he and Savannah have had issues is very high. So rightly so. So it's funny though, because I saw I saw a clip where they like they showed the clip I think it was a brible on Brabo TV's Instagram.

They showed the clip of that actual scene that you're talking about, and there were like so many people that were like, oh, Drew was lying and I we're teaching, and oh why would she lie about this? And I'm just like why, Like why do you think she would make that She wouldn't you know, Like why I don't. I don't. Just yes, we know he's married, we know that Savannah is the love of his life. But it is quite possible that that happened, because it happens quite frequently.

Does especially should forget that he's an NBA player. It just happens quite frequently. Because like I mine was like address and we had a tour to air and I'm lying about that, right, I'm straight lying, But I mean I'm just saying, Okay, we're gonna move board. Michael and Lord Harvey they broke up. Michael B. Jordan Lorie Harvey broke up. Yes, I saw that and nobody really cares. I'm gonna tell you why I don't care. Okay, people care because Carl is looking at me from across the

room like we care, not like I even have a chance. Okay, this is the reason why she's twenty five and she ain't ready to settle in and settle down. But why not? She's twenty five? Okay, I got married when I was six. She over you when you got married? Third, I think, yeah, first of all, do we even know the real reason?

We don't? I think something popped off, That's what I think. Yes, so what I heard, you know, the reason that supposedly was put out there was that like he wanted to settle down and she didn't write right, But I don't believe that. I don't really believe it, right, Yeah, I think no, something happened. I think she cheated. You think so? Yes? Yeah? So then does that mean like all that glitters isn't gold?

Because everyone's like looking at Michael B. Jordan's and lust and after him because he looked good and he got all these muscles and stuff, right, something might not have something? Yeah, but he wasn't hitting it right she was? Yeah. Okay, so Carly not. Giselle said, Laura's for the streets. I would never say that. Steve Carly said that now, Um, so you think she was just tired of being settled down and wants to be back in the street. No, I think he wasn't slinging it properly, and so she

was like, I need to sit on some other things, right, Yeah. Yeah, I don't know what it is. I mean, I just I don't really I think something may I guess. I don't know. It's weird because you you saw how I just think it's so weird when people are always like putting their relationship on social media or for the public to see, and they're so like, you know, love E devy and coupled up and pda is on a thousand.

I think that's just cry for attention. Yeah, and then you turn around and like two months later you're not together. Like it's just like that wasn't some Oh, I don't want to settle down there that it reeks of small penis to me, reeks of small penis. I'm sorry. I mean with the small penis would have been an issue from the jump. I know. She she she dealt with it for a year because it's just Michael B. Jordan's. Yes, and and he was whining and dining her and you know,

giving her extravagant gifts and blah blah blah. Yeah, you can deal with a small penis for a little while. Maybe. So if anyone you're if anyone's listening that it's been with Michael B. Jordan's, like, feel free to emails. What's up everything? Com let us know if the penis is small, because because I called it with Alex Rodriguez, I called it with a Rod small penis a rod And Michael Jordan. Yeah, I'm just I'm not buying. I'm not buying the whole.

He want to settle down and she doesn't. Justin Timberlake he just became a hundred million dollar man. He did, Yes, he sold his catalog m and he I think he got a hundred million for it. Really yeah, But in my mind, I'm like, why would you sell the catalog? Now? Did you have some bills to pay? We haven't seen or heard from Justin tim really in a very long time, so it was time it was time to selling. Yeah maybe Okay, he did you know he had another kid?

Like they he and Jessica Bill moved in silence. They literally they had a whole another baby, and we never knew she was pregnant, none of that. So, yeah, he got more diapers to buy. And have you seen justin Timberlake in a movie or making music anytime recent? No? Okay, Yeah, it was time to sell. Yeah, a hundred million dollars. That's a nice pay day. Yeah, that's all I'm gonna say about Van. Now. I don't even know that I've

seen her in anything recently, have you? Yeah? No, Okay, she has shown You're right, But at this point, we don't never need to see them again. They just got to We probably won't, right, Okay, So I really didn't want to talk about this beef, but we have to talk about it briefly. This d L hugely Monique Beef, Monique the comedian, last name I can't remember anyway, So, like, it was so weird to me that they just went she went back and forth and back and forth, all

based off of who was going to headline. That's weird to me. It's weird that it's weird that because all right, so let's let's let's set the stage. So apparently she was doing a comedy show, and she was ranting about d L. Hugeley right right, he was also in the show, like he was the headliner. R d L. Hugeley was the headliner. And her rants was like pretty much what?

So what did? She pretty much said like so she she got up and during her set she started talking about how d L talks about black women and treated black treats black women bad and blah blah blah. So you're not being funny. You are trashing d L. Hugely

who's coming up next? So that's weird, that's right. So aren't you just supposed to do your job and if you're a bad bitch, don't matter where you are on the line up right, This is what I'm thinking because Beyonce I can go for a second or third right, whenever she goes, she's gonna kill that thing dad, right. So it was very weird to me. So they're still currently going back. This has been going on for like

a week, two weeks. I was surprised actually that d L was going back and forth on Instagram about it, you know what I mean, Like I think he was sick of it. He was just was like, look, this is my contract. I'm the headliner, the end, right, But that is so weird that she would get up like that's kind of embarrassing. Yeah, but she's been, she's been, so she has had beef with Lee Daniels open wing free. Um, Tyler Perry, I was say Who's God? In Atlanta? Was

still Tyler, we love you. I'm waiting for you to put me in a movie. I mean, I don't understand why you haven't called on me, Tyler, we love you? Okay, So Tyler Perry and now DL right, and guess it's gonna be robbing and Jasel too. And it's all publicly, you know what I mean, Like like you can have issues with people, but you can handle on privately, right,

you know what I mean? Like it's just some there's a time and a place for everything, and to do that at a comedy performance, I'm supposed to laugh, Yeah, and like you pretty much are like ruining the moment, like you're almost like I'm sure the audience was like what is happening? And business is business? Businesses for like after the show or whenever. But when you're on stage and you're supposed to perform, damnit perform right, because I didn't pay to hear you talk ship like that. Now,

this is what really makes me mad. Group text messages. Can I tell you I hate them? If somebody who has the power to put together group texas like a lot of times, I don't you know how it's a group texas like five, six and eight people. I don't want to know all this this, this commentary and back and forth going take me off. How I cannot figure out how to take myself off these damn group text messages. Okay, so I understand how you feel. First of all, you

know you can silence the notifications. Yes, I do know that of individual group texas. Yes I didn't know that. Yes. So because you're the type of person that if they took you off the group text and then you heard everyone talking about whatever they were talking on a group text, you can be like, well, why wasn't I included? Why don't I know about what's going on? Very true? Right? Right? Okay, So stay on the group text, don't complain about the

group text, and just silence the notifications of that group text. Okay, Robin Dixon, I'm learning something every day. How did you know that I have so many I have so many groups texts, group chats are silenced like so many I have. I have literally so my allione sisters have one, and I told them years ago take me off, but I couldn't take it. It was I was chiming every eight seconds. Chime, chime, chime. Yeah. See. All you have to do, all you have to do is let me let me show you a look, let

me see, let me go and let me open my thing. Okay, um, let me go to a group text. Ohm, gonna go to the one that I actually made. Yesterday, I sent a group text. You're on it, yes, yes, Robin to the ladies. Okay, and let's see here it is. Okay, so up top down below. So you go to yes, up top where it has all the people. Right, you just click there people, and then a whole another screen pops up. You say the conversation. Oh okay, I'm sorry,

tell me what to do? Okay. On the bottom it says lead the conversation, but right above it it says hide alerts, hide alerts. Okay, I'm very excited about that. Or could you do it? Oh, let's see. Oh you can also do it that way. Okay. You can also swipe and you see that that little blue thing and then you hit the blue thing. Okay, okay, I need to do that because, let me tell you something that's the bane of my existence. You might put me on a group text and I don't want to be on it.

I mean really I can't. So you have had all this stress, first of all, and that is so rude. You're gonna tell your line sister to take me off. I did. I was like, take me off of this. They probably were talking so much shit about you to this day. So you're gonna tell them back, like write them back and be like no, no, I love my lines, but yeah, non sense. I mean you have a lot of lines. Yeah, it's a lot of them, and they just be talking about you know, my dog died, I

forgot to feed my kids. Like what, it's too much. It's just too much, so my thing I hate. Okay, this is the problem with the group text. When the one person sit up with an android, right, oh how so so them? What does that mean? All right? You know how like we can respond with like the heart emoji or so instead of like just hitting the heart emoji, it'll like, it'll say, because they don't have that same

feu or whatever. So if ten people respond with the heart emoji instead of it just being like the heart emoji that they responded with. It it repeats the message. It says like Robin liked, and then it recites the message again, and it'll be like Gazelle like. And so then you'll have like a hundred messages because people are just hitting like like on that. You do you understand what I'm trying to say. I think it just adds more to the text, It adds more to the texters.

So then I'm like, so I do want to tell my line sisters, can y'all please stop hitting like on these messages because I'm getting lost, like I can't find where's the original message, you know, saying, because it's just a whole bunch of repeats of the same message. Because of the one person on my line that has an Android yeah by by her new phone for Christmas called an iPhone. Yes, okay, we have to talk about something that's very important. So this rapper, guys, we're gonna talk

about this quickly. This rapper a little while ago got on his little Instagram and said that if your man and getting your and paying for your hair to get done or your nails to get done, then that ain't your man, or you shouldn't be with him, or he's soft or whatever. So I was like, I like, listen to this dude for like a while because all of this struck me as like extremely weird because no man has ever paid for my hair or my nails. And then I'm thinking, well, am I Am I a loser?

Or did I go about life wrong? Like what did I do or what do I care? Right? So so for me, I feel like that's kind of indicative of the type of woman that he's dating or dealing with. Okay, this is getting good Robin talk talk Robin. Yes, so yes for me, as I you know, I think if you, you know, before you were married, you had a job,

you were able to take care of yourself. So in order to like just do the basic necessities such as getting your hair done your nails, Um, that's when you right, I didn't have any problems getting my hair done, right, so paying for it myself right exactly? So would you probably want it from a man? Was okay? Take me out to dinner, take me to a play, take me to the movies, take me on a vacation by me nice kids? Right, you weren't like I need you to pay my from my hair, for my hair and my nails.

So I'm almost thinking, I'm almost thinking like that might be indicative of the type of woman that he's dealing with. Okay, Okay, I'm getting good, right, But it also might be just I don't know, is that like, like, how old was this guy? He's he's very young, so maybe this is a young thing, like young, young, ignorant thing to be like, yeah, he loved me. Now I get with if you mess up my hair, right, then maybe you should fix my

hair and pay for it. Okay. You know I've gotten my hair messed up many a night, but I've never got up from the bed and said, you know what, I need some cash to get this to get my hair to get it fixed. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. I think that's the same enjoyed getting my hair messed up. I don't know. This is very confusing. Yeah, I think it's just indicative the type of person that he's dealing with or the type of women that he's used to. And I don't know, maybe if he's a rapper, like

he's just attracting women that are intrinsically gold digger. I don't know, okay, and no one's no until I got married againemy think, is this really true? I want to say, until I got married, nobody was paying my bills. Yeah, no, no, I was paying my own bills and I was fine with that. And I think for me, well, okay, why don't I have been together forever? But for me, even like so, if I was like out to a to a bar, to a club, I would never ever accept a drink from a dude ever, because I'm like, I

don't need you to buy me a drink. Well, first want something in a drink? You're trying to roofing me. Well, we're not even know. Even if they were like, oh can I like if we're at the bar and like can I yeah, yeaheah, I'm gonnlet you buy a drink, I'm not why because I'm like number one, I don't know you. Number two, I don't need you to buy me anything, you know what I mean? I don't know. I just always always felt weird about accepting that type of stuff from people because I felt like they know

that that's they're in. Oh right, and then right and we're like some independent women. Yeah, I think I've we've always thought like, take care of yourself, right, yeah, yeah, So I think it's just the mentality of the people that he's dealing with, because I didn't know how how to feel about this, and I'm raising these three little girls, and I feel like telling them, like, look like you, y'all can take care of yourselves, right, yes, no, like

you when it comes to the basic necessities. And I think for a lot of us, getting our hair done and our nails son is considered a necessity, like no, you do that yourself, because if you have to look to a man to do that type of stuff for you, right, like when does it end? Right? When does it end? And you know, then that's when he starts thinking he

owns you. Troll over you and you know you look good because I got your head, you know, I help you get your head done, and you know what I'm saying, like no, no. And then back in the day, when I was getting my hair done, it was from the Dominicans, and so I think I had twenty five dollars if

I didn't have to, that was a problem. If I didn't have twenty five dollars because I had a job, right, Okay, yeah, I feel better, but I guess it's easy for guys to be like, hey, baby, here's somebody, go get your hair done, and they think they're doing something. Yeah, and the girls impressed, Like I don't know. I was also feeling like, it's this is hard. It's hard out here

for a guy. He got a lot to pay for, right he gotta because he gotta get himself together, get his little haircuts true, and his little new tennis shoes and look, you know, nice and fresh, and he's taking care of everything for her, like that's a lot. So were the people in agreement with this guy. Everybody was like, yeah, yeah, he got to be paying for my x Y and Mazzi. I was like, really what. I'm still very confus used

by it. I want I want my girls to be able to take care of themselves, take care of no like the aunt, the guy or whoever's your suitor or whatever. Wine and dim me, take me out, you know, take me on a trip, whatever trips. Wines and Dines don't need to send me to the hair dresser. How about paying my gas because it's expense, it's expense of these days. Yes, fill up my gas tank. God damn it. Okay, we gotta go, We're out of here. Listen. We love y'all

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