Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shay. I am Jiselle Barryant.
What's up? What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you, Thank you, thank Okay, this is episode what is this one one hundred and twenty? This is one episode one one hundred and twenty and twenty.
So anybody who's listened to every single episode?
Oh, yes, email do you exist? Yes? Do you exist every every episode? You can?
You can honestly say you have listened to every episode, yes, email us.
All right, So if you get a prize if you've listened no, no, no, no, you don't want to.
What's twenty people, Robbie, we can give twenty prizes, okay, okay, anytime I don't want to give some free to the people. Robin is like, no, well, I mean look, I'm just trying to manage expectations here, all right. So if you've listened to everyone, yeah, tell us what you love about the podcast, like, what you want to see more of, what you don't like, what you want us you know, if there's something that we've done in the past that
we haven't been doing like all of that. Just give us like all of the rundown of the deats of how you feel about the podcast.
Yes, indeed, indeed, and then come to our show of February first. It's coming up February first, Rob and I will be in the City Winery in Philadelphia at seven thirty eight o'clock something like that. I don't know, in the evening. Yes, so it's going to be there. Some of Philadelphia.
Eagles will be there.
Jalen Hurt if you don't start to do the name of you, he will be there. And we've got some other surprise guests. Alan might come through.
He doesn't live in Philly anymore, but Philly's always homes. Yeah, this is true. AI in the buildings away.
We don't have some people, okay, So be sure to get your tickets.
Go to Citywinery dot com to get your tickets. Yep. And we would see y'all search for reasonably shady. Yeah, well we'll see y'all in Philly, all right, Yeah, I love that. Okay. Do you have a reasonaly shady moment? Okay, I do, so it's not really a moment. I'm actually just being shady towards my neighbors. Oh, I love this. So this is getting good.
I don't even know what the hell hair I know, it's not even not I love neighbor drama.
Okay, it's not that deep. It's not drama. It's not it's not it's not that deep. Okay, So tamp simmer down, simmer down. It's like the middle of January, maybe like towards the end. And not only do they still have their Christmas decorations still up? Yeah, they still have pumpkins outside a whole new year. We're in a whole new year. Wait a minute, are those pumpkins? They still have pumpkins from Halloween? Yes? Oh?
Hell to the now I'm confused. I'm like, are they This is not even sanitary. They're not black by now, No, when they turned different color. One of them is like moldy.
One of them has like rolled down the steps the porch, and now it's like in their walkway, like the sidewalk. Okay, you know, let me say, when I leave here today, so I'm when I drive by the house, I'm gonna start honk. I'm just gonna be take your decorations down. And I don't know if they're just like leaving it out for like the deer to eat. Like they're just like, oh, we're just gonna feed the deer or something, but like put them, put them in the backyard. We're talk about deer. Weird.
How do you have Christmas decorations and pumpkins up at the same time. I mean, it's just wrong, it's idiotic. But I want to I do want y'all know. I'm in Robin's house right now, and you have your tree still up by the way, as I don't have my pumpkins up. Okay, So when is your tree coming down, Robin? Yesterday? It's coming down here yesterday, okay, because it is fake so it's easy, yes, yes, yeah, you know, I mean it's it's trust me. By the end of tonight, it
would be all the way in storage, all the way storage. Okay. I like that. So the shady people are your neighbors or I'm being shady for talking about my neighbors. No, you no, we gotta talk about our nighbors. My name, but yeah, they're just they're just shady and backwards, like pumpkins on the in January.
It's January, yes, okay, So my shady moment is I and I And every time I go out of the country, I always have this feeling like the food in the United States sucks. Yes, they put all kinds of park and preservatives, additives, all kinds of nonsense and.
That we don't even know about. Yes.
Then when you go to another country, you start your body just starts feeling better. You start eating that food and you're like, oh, I'm not creaking and I feel great. Yes, So the shady people is usda Okay, because since I've been back and like eating and doing what I'm normally doing when I'm here, I'm dizzy, I promise y'all.
I'm dizzy, Okay, I'm woozy. When I go to bed at night.
My head is spinning right, and I'm not drunk. So I'm confused. I think it's the food.
It is the food. The food's so bad here. It is horrible, so bad you can't trust it. Now. You really have to almost just cook your everything yourself, like you know, go to the organic market, get all the organic stuff and cook it yourself. And it's so funny that you bring up, are you finished? I'm finished.
But there's a guy that I want to tell you all about that. I've been following Who's Who's who is terrorizing the food industry because he's saying, don't buy this by this, but go ahead, yes, So I'm gonna look up who eat his name?
This is another just shady moment in my house. So one has fallen into that trap where of seeing all these videos on Instagram that talks about how bad the food is. Right, this man is damn near starving himself. He won't eat anything. He will It's so frustrating. He'll be like, what are we eating for dinner? And I'll tell him to be like, nah, I'm not eating that. I'm like, okay, Well, he won't eat fish, he won't eat beef, he won't eat chicken, he won't he won't like,
he won't eat anything. I'm not mad at him, but it's like we're killed. It's so much information out here that it's becoming confusing. Everything is contradictory. So then he's like, I'm just gonna eat a bowl of cereal and I'm like okay. So I say to him, there's preservatives and there's additives, and there's sugar and it's processed and blah blah blah all of that, Like, what do you mean
You're just gonna eat cereal? Right? And he's like, I'm just gonna get a smoothie okay, full of sugar, and then and our sugar is not the same, right, right, And so I'm like, well, if you're going to do that, you if you're really going to do this, and you've got to eat you know, vegetables. And we were vegan at one time. Yeah, I remember that, Robin. It was like six months. I was you can't say we were vegan at a time and it's six months. And I was with you during the six months. And I promise
you you was eating meat. No, you were sneaking, no meat, sneaking. I was that no, no, no, no, no no. I started off very disciplined, did you, And then I started eating fish and then it just and then I was like I need a taco and then just like but we were vegan, we were doing like way y'all. She blamed it on filming. She's like, I can't be vegan while we're filming. Why not, It's the producer's fault. That was absurd. Let me tell you that ship. It was
highly absurd. But anyway, I digress. That's that ship was hard. Okay, I stopped. I had my kids being vegan as well, so I was sending them to school with like spinach salads with strawberries like all this stuff. And then they started losing weight, and they were already little, and Corey was playing football, and I was like, oh no, no, so I had to take them off first, okay, and
then gradually it's just wasn't sustainable for me anyway. So now I'm like, okay, well, well if you're if you're if you're not gonna eat any meat protein, like none of this stuff or whatever, no dairy, no meat, then you might as well go vegan. But you've got to eat stuff with protein, like beans and all that stuff. But he doesn't like beans. He doesn't like the stuff that you should eat together. I don't know. I'm telling you, next time you see him, he's gonna be eighty five packs. Yes,
he's gonna be shriveled up. Or he's just gonna go the complete opposite way and then just start eating nonsense. Again. It's just okay. There's a dude, maybe Carlly combine it.
He has very long hair, yeah, right, and he's got a sight and he goes through like Whole Foods and all these stores and he's like, don't eat this, don't eat that, don't eat this, and he goes through the ingredients and he tells you like what to what to get. And when I tell the car's gonna find that out because I do want to give you. I do want to shout him out, because I've been like following his page and I'm gonna start getting more and more.
And I was telling the kids, I was like, I'm gonna.
Start getting more like strict food, not strict food, but clean, clean food.
Yes, because it does matter, right, it does matter, and I think it contributes contributes a lot to like our health, cancer, all of that type of stuff. But it's so confusing and it's so contradictory. You might see a post like that from that guy, and then you go to the comments and they're like, oh, that's not true and what about this and what about that? And you have people offering all of their different opinions, and it just becomes so confused. He's in the store and he's showing you
the label. I've seen him before. I don't know if it's the same guy I've seen a guy. Does he have long black hair? I don't know, And you're like, why is your hair that long? I don't know, man, maybe I would remember that. Okay. I've seen a guy doing it with water bottles. Okay, you know he's like, don't drink this, but drink this, and it's just so it just becomes so confusing. I'm not confused. I know we The food here is terrible. I agree with that.
Yeah, so I bought some and I bought some pasta over there. I'm just gonna eat pasta from another country anyway.
Okay, so I have an update on on our favorite subject. What's our favorite subject, Robin penis length. Okay, what's our second favorite subject? Deers? Okay? Okay, so.
So you everyone knows Robin Robin and want hit a deer tore up their car.
I hit a deer tore up my car. Yeah, just got my car back. Recently, the deer eat our plants. Deer eats our eat our plants. The deer out of can tu yes, And I did.
A public service announcement and I said, y'all got to do something about these goddamn deer.
Okay, they were listening to me. Oh what happened.
Yeah, they said doe too reasonably shady. Starting tonight, the MPs, who is MPs, the National Park Service will be reducing the deer population.
Okay. First of all, let me before I even say this, I'm reading the news. Do not come for me, you animal people, and tell me that I'm an asshole. Okay, don't do that. Okay. So I'm going to continue to read the news, all right, the Nation News. Where which news outlet? This is the Washington Post. Okay, all right, good, there we go. So the National Park Service when they said due to reasonably shady, but.
They said yes, because of reasonably shady and what providence I have gone through, the National Park Service will be reducing the deer population at some of the national parks in Washington, d C.
Okay, okay, and Maryland within the first four months of this year.
Okay, okay, So between anyway second April fifteen, they're going on. The laws were taking up where there are dagging them down. Okay. So safety measures will be in place. This is the funny part, and it says not funny, kind of funny to me. Safety measures will be in place to protect park visitors as well as neighbors during the operations.
They don't get shot up.
Under the direction of the NPS, the National Park Service, highly trained firearm experts who are experienced in conducting wildlife reduction operations will.
Be at work at night. Oh wow, so if you jog at nights stay to help, they would have a seal day. You know. Those whoever those people are that are taking those deer out, they are so excited.
They said that in the past twenty years there has been an over abundant population of white tailed deer dull. Yeah, and they've damaged the forest regeneration areas and they've damaged Giselle and Robinson cos.
It's about so it's about the forest for them there. Yeah. I thought it's a hazard to people's lives because they can hit your car and you can get an accident.
Right, not only one, they're they're eating my shrubs. And I paid good money for them. And the Mercedes dealership, by the way, I never gave them a shoutout. Shout out to Chris who works in the service department in the Bethesda Mercedes dealership who is like my guy. Yeah, he just took care of me. Is your car done? My car is done. Oh nice, Yeah, he took care of me. They the way that they the service that they give you is amazing good.
So thanks guys, that's awesome. Yeah, so I got my car back and the deer are being hand doled, dumb right, one firearm at a time. Moving on.
Okay, So we have random emails that we'd like to share with you guys, because we always ask you to write.
So here we go.
Oh, before I say this, I do want to say those who have Apple, they are Apple subscribers. Oh yes, it is not an automatic subscribe.
Okay, right, I'll take it from this. Thank you. Okay, So, because y'all know I don't know, Yes, if you have updated your iPhone, yes, it is likely that your podcast subscriptions did not carry over. So you need to go into your podcast app and resubscribe to Reasonably Shady and
whatever podcast you subscribe to every month, right every time? Yeah, so anytime reasonably Shady a new reason Me Shady is released, it's not automatically going into your your podcast feeds, so you have to go to reasonably Shady and resubscribe again if you've done the update. Just but for anyone, if you have an iPhone, just check, just check and see that you're you know that you're still subscribed to reasonably Shady. Yes, if you're not, please do so. Please also feel free
to rate and rank and review us. That helps. Oh yeah, give us five stars. If you're not going to give us five, don't even rate. Yeah yeah, thanks, thanks. You know what I think I said? I've said before people who give like four stars and they're like, oh, it's so great, it's amazing, And I'm like, why didn't you give a five star? Have you seen that before? Now?
I haven't. I've read, not particularly to us, but like when you read like product reviews or restaurant reviews, it's like there they give you four stars and they have zero complaints. They say, oh it was great, or the service is great, the food was great, the product was great, And I'm like, why couldn't you get five? Like are you just like an like you're just a stingy person, like you just can't hand out perfection that you're just an asshole.
Yeah, So, speaking of rating, I would love to know what your rating is for the new Nicki Mina's drop.
Oh okay, let's we're like a little late for that, right. That was a few weeks ago. I like it, Okay, okay, rating you want to rating? I like it. I felt like there was only like a one or two like Bangers, uh huh, but I still liked it. So I rate it in eight.
Because you are a music hater. We've established that with fiance. Don't get offended.
True, Nope? Okay, So you're hating on Nikki too, an eight and eight eight point five. I'm giving it a ten and eight. It's really good. Come on now, okay, I'm moving on.
The Queen Pink Nikki is getting a ten from Giselle and ate from eight is good a b.
Moving on.
So this Sharuna Brown Chirrunna Brown, krok. I think I'm saying it right. Oh, it's pronounced Kreana. Kreana Brown wanted to share her story about a guy I slept with for the first time and then never again. Okay, okay, who didn't read this chat? No, I don't think so. So, she said last year, she attended a party with her cousin, her cousin and her sister and they got to know
the guy. At the party, drinks were flowing and she felt chemistry and after being celibate for a while, she decided to get some Okay, okay, So they hooked up later that night and things were going great until he tried to spit in my mouth.
Oh what, she said. She turned her hand and spit got on her cheek. This is a custake, she said. I was so grossed out. I kicked him out into the cold. Not the cold, apparently after taking after talking to some friends, there are women who like men to spit in the no or on their kuchi because they find it kinky. No't read this some straight faces anyway, So she said she views it as a sign of disrespect. God damn it.
And either way, I'm not into it, and I was not about to have be a repeat customer for that guy and his sexual services.
I think.
I think this was a very reasonable decision. Absolutely, it was a very reasonable decision. Okay, let me just say this.
Spitting in their mouth is is a no no, especially on the first time you hook it up with this person you barely know them. Okay, but what she's sitting is okay. I mean, if you're down there and you get to spitting, go right ahead. But but it's like, okay, you're spitting for a reason, I guess you know. But yes, Cuchie, spitting is fine. Do not spit in my mouth or my face or my neck, like I don't want to
spit anywhere? Who does that? No? Who's okay? Yeah? So so just just save all the spit for the kuci. That's that's like some R Kelly ship. No, no, we didn't say peing. That's like progressing to some R Kelly ship. It's very true. Yes, it's not okay, No, it's not okay. I mean he should have been more like, baby, I spitting your mouth, you know what I'm saying? And she said, I don't, just right, didn't know, and then they can continue. But you know, I cann't imagine that happening. Can you imagine?
I can't. We just started this podcast.
And by the way, Robin took a shot, not alcohol of a I don't know kind of shit.
It was a brain shot. It's a mind energy shot. It's a focus, memory and drive. Yeah, focus, and it kicked in by Kali kicked it. I'm a wait for I'm a waiting for Robin's brain to start working. Guess what it's working now? Damn it?
Okay, So this person has a question, and this is you know, we're gonna segue.
We're gonna change gears here, Hello, g and R. Has anybody ever called us gn R? This is a little weird. It's weird. I mean it's not like hard to believe. Well, normally people say like the GBS. Yeah, but maybe they were just lazy they didn't want to type our names out. Okay. Her name is Mayesha.
Okay, okay, I'm surely considering relocating to Maryland. It was wondering what area is good to live. I'm black and I don't want to I'm black, but don't want that energy.
Oh my god, I read that. You've already I'm like, why are you reading that?
I prefer suburban living family neighborhoods that is quiet but close to gas, grocery, Target, and Starbucks. Yes, by the way, I love you guys.
Okay, So she she wants to be in a diverse area, not too urban, not too you know, unurban.
Yeah, or said she wants us to be quiet, but she doesn't want to live around black people.
She's trying to say something. But look, I'm not getting into the judgment. I will say m M. The County that I live in, I think is perfect for what you described, which is Howard County. Howard County, Okay, yes, Like Howard County is very diverse. Yeah, you have all of the places that you need, all the shopping groceries. Traffic is not insane, no to get around anywhere? And do you have a Starbucks? Oh? And I mean I posted this recently. Columbia, Maryland, which is in Howard County,
was ranked somehow the safest city in America. Do you have a Starbucks? Of course, we have a Starbucks?
And I read that, Yeah, well come and I was like, have they been to the mall? Have they been to Columbia Mall?
It's no shape? Shape? What's wrong with Columbia Mall?
I know several people that have gotten robbed in that mall, but I don't want to say that publicly because I don't want to throw shape to Columbia Mall. But whatever, let's move on. Do y'all have a Target of course? Okay, y'all do have a Target?
Yeah? Okay, well we're good then of course, Target, Whole Foods, Wegmans, Oh yeah, don't you have aman? Yes, everything, J's and Costco, Let's talk about that, because you know, did we talk about the fact Jason used to work in the Okay, this was his high school Okay, no shade to Jason, you know, getting his little highchool coins. So he used to work in Wegmans and apparently he was doing a great job because they want him to be the manager, to which he was like, hell no, but he swears
by Wegmans. He loves that. Yes, he's like, oh my god, Wegmans. He used to talk about Wegmans and I'm like, we don't have a Wegmans near me. Oh you don't, but we kind of do. Now, Okay, it's in DC. You might as well go to the one in Columbia. I like the one in DC. Okay, yeah, it's I mean it's upper DC. It's close to me. Anyway, Wegmans is the bomb, the bomb. Okay. So if you want some like prepare food, yes, go through Wegmans. And it's not
bad prepared foods. Have you had the chocolate chip cookies yet? Do we have this conversation? Have I shared? Probably? Have I shared someone? Are they frozen? No? No? No, no, They're they're fresh. They come in like a little plastic tub. No, they are the best cookies ever? No, I don't have any carlies, Like, do you have any Have you had the chocolate cake? No? Have you had the crab legs? I don't really like King krab legs. Okay, you know I'm a Baltimore girl. I need like the real crab.
Listen, I don't want to a little fake old crab weg mins we over here trying to get a gift card.
Feel I'm gonna give you some cookies or the next time you go, look for the chocolate chip cookies in the plastic. But they have so many different kinds. I know I have to show you a picture. I'll see a picture. It's so amazing. They're so good. Okay, yeah, emails, Yes, back to the emails. Okay, So I thought you had something else to say. I don't know you you, I mean you're You're answered the I answered the question, but your juice is kicking in your brain? Is finally fine
question I told Masha. I told my Asha to move to Howard County, Okay, in Maryland. So I still love it. I'm reading this because which is also where I'm putting my new business next. Oh yeah, glow thirty ye when will it be ready? I am in the process. The architect is drawing still drawing up plans. Okay, so once that's done, we used to go through permitting and the build out and all that. So I anticipate from now to be like a six month process. Okay, so maybe
sometime in June. In June, I'm just trying to figure out when I get my free stump in June. Look, they asked me, They're like, do you want the laser machine, like we have it ready, and I'm like, so I can like layers on my skin. Yes, yes, So well I thought that's not standard to all glow thirties. No it is, no, no, no, they said they're ready now, so they can send me one that I can just like keep in the house until Oh yes, yes, and I can like not that I would be administering it
to the people. Yeah, but I could administer it to myself. I know that's right, Ramis. But I'll be out here looking very glow hopefully glow thirty. Okay, so glower glower gray skits from whatever is it comes to my phone a text message all the time, like asking her to like subscribe, resubscribe or whatever. Oh, from glow thirty. Yeah, has she been there before? She has? Oh, okay, but it comes to my phone. It's very weird. I guess you put your number down.
Okay, moving on. Okay, So this is from Sonya. It says Hijzelen the Robin. My name is Sonya and I'm from Lynn, Massachusetts.
Okay, I've never heard of that. F l I n l y n N Okay, thirty minutes outside of Boston. It's cold here.
My best friend and I are both fans of Reasonably Shady, and I love the Green Eye Bandits yay, by the way. So I was in when I was in Saint Bart's, I was very much minding my business and acting like I've never been on a reality show all my life and no one knows who I am. So I'm sitting there and this boy jumped through a bush to.
Get to me and literally literally came through actually not bushes, they were very beautiful trees. He busts through the trees. He came through into the private little villa that I was in. Right, I was gonna say, weren't you in a villa? Well not.
We were out and about and we okay, we were doing big things. The owner of this restaurant was like, y'all want to hang out some more. Let me take y'all to my Personal Villain.
Oh okay. So I was like, and gay, I'm important.
So we were sitting in the little Personal Villain and this dude jumped through the trees and he was in our villa, had no business in there. So he I'm saying on this to say, he was like, oh my god, I love the show. And I was like, yeah, okay, and he said somethingbout reasonably Shady, and I was.
Like, yes, let's talk. Yes, you come to me. You tell me you like reasonably Shady, Yes exactly, you one of us. Yeah, well you like show. Okay, cool, But but if you know, if you if that's how we really know you like us. Yes, you tell us something about reasonably shady. Yes, yes, yes, So we we chit chatted. We love reasonably Shady with him, but anyway, we do love Potomac too, no shade to Potomac. All right.
So Sonya says that we began our weekly catch up on the phone, her and her girlfriend, discussing the latest events on the podcast and recapping what happened with Tomy.
Love You both. We are even planning our on attending our next reasonably shady live event, live event. Hopefully you'll have one in Boston. If not, girls trip Yes, so Sonya get your girls trip on and come meet us in Philly. All this to say, please make more Hoodies. Robin Dixon's coming.
It's about damn time, she says, insert Lizzo's songs.
Please. They've been sold out for what seems like faux avva. Okay, fae faux eva. It's coming and we need to get ours. It's called out here in New England. Yes, it's coming. I just wanted to build an anticipation. What that's all, Roight Dixon. We're leaving money on the.
Table, Okay, just build anticipation so like we can expect the Hoodies win in March in two weeks, in two weeks, because we are, we gonna have puddies.
In our live show. Sure what, Robin? I hate when you say sure. When you say sure, it is the worst, like find out you will see. Okay, do you ever say sure is not gonna work in your marriage? I just want you to know that, not that we're married, but I'm sure. Wan hates when you say sure, well he does it too. He does well, he'll say, I'll ask him like, oh do you want to go do this? And we'll see. Okay, so so yeah, that's like Robin, we have to be selling March at our event. Got it,
you got it, got it? I got it? Coming? Are you on top of that? That's gonna be my question. Oh okay, so yeah, I got it, I got it. You got it, I got it. Because you don't have much time to get it together. All I got it. All right, I'll let you go. Okay, I got it. All right, I'm sorry. I just took a little break from life, that's all. Are you back? No? Okay, how many if you come on back?
Because this January, because everybody is we all expect everybody to take.
A break December fifteenth, right, break on. Well, I'm letting everyone everyone else fall into line in January and then I'll come back February. What yep?
Okay, no, but Rober, we need wursed before February. Okay, I'm gonna let you gone to read going to read?
Okay. This is this is a praise email for Giselle. Yay, this is from Garan. I guess it's garn g e R O N all right, Garan says, hey, ladies, I recently got caught up with season eight of Potomac, and can I just say I love your friendship, Robin. I've never seen you so vulnerablefore this is he's talking about the show. And I was so hurt to see you that upset in that vehicle. I hated it. It gutted me. But when Giselle caught when do you cry? And she
was activate, I was activating. I was ready. I said, this is ridiculous, yes, he said, And honestly I wish I had a friend like that in my corner. Anyways, I love to see it, and I love high you support one another, keep it up and best wishes to you both. Oh and by the way, I'm a love Robin all the way. Oh. So he didn't say he was a jizzy or a G squad. You can be a G squad too, now, Garrett.
Okay, right, yes, I was completely activated. I said, what just happened to right now? Okay, we have work for Mohammad.
Yes, so Mohammed, if you all remember, we love Mohammad. He's one of our reasonably shadsters. Yes, this was like in in the summertime. So he has an update from a dilemma. He had a reasonable or shady or it was an advice question that you have for us, and it was one of his best friends was getting married but she didn't include him in some things and he was feeling really left out and in his feelings and asked us what he should do and what do we say?
I think we told him not to go, right because the wedding was in Puta Khana and it was a lot of money, and we said, you don't need to go because you aren't really invited in the first place, right, So we told not to go. So he has a follow up as Hi Jazelle and Robin. It's your favorite person from Toronto, Mohammed. I wanted to give you an update on the Puncha Kanta situation and ask for more advice.
So when I heard your advice, was my birthday week and I had a party and my best friend attended and I got blackout drunk and ended up spilling everything that I was keeping in about the bachelrette party and not being part of her bridal party. What you all don't know is that she asked me to help set up her bridal shower and even bring stuff, which I did. I even told her that Giselle and Robin said that you are not my friend and I shouldn't be going to her wedding. Okay, Mommy, you need to keep e
guys between us. She can't be telling everybody she hates us. I don't remember any of this, but long story short, after a lot of talks with our mutual friends and my therapists, they suggested I should go, but view it as a vacation and not as her wedding, so I ended up going. We barely spoke, and she reminded me many times through her actions that I was just a guest at her wedding and nothing more. I was hurt throughout the trip, but I made sure that I had
a good time. On the last day of the trip, it got back to me that she's mad at me for some comments I didn't make about her wedding not being classy. Even though a bunch of our mutual friends assured her they never heard me say that. She still believes that I haven't spoken to her since this last conversation and don't have any intention to. And usually I am the one putting in the effort of texting first and checking in because I haven't done that. We have
not spoken in over six weeks. Do you think I should reach out or leave it for her to make the first move? Love Mohammed, and Mohammad says, I love you all so much. I'm driving all the way to Philly to see you. Yeah. First, yay, Okay, so we got Mahama's gonna be in the house. Okay. First of all, Mamma, is you lying? Mohammed is lying? Was it lying? You said? Disgirl, this wedding is not classy? Okay you said it. Maybe you were drunk because he said he didn't remember saying
all the other stuff. But right, so no question, Maha.
And it's okay Mohammad that that it's okay to give your commentary on the non classy wedding.
Okay. See, I'm I'm on the flip side. I feel like, first of all, I hate being accused of something I didn't do. Okay, Okay, So if Mohammad did not make these comments and people are saying that that would like burn me up and I and this has happened to me many times where people accuse me of doing things that I haven't done, especially things that like I wouldn't do. So that's number one. And then number two if his friend after he tells his friend, no, I didn't say that,
that that I don't know where that came from. If she's still choosing to believe that he said that, Like for me, that's just a killer, Like, oh, okay, so I told you, I told you I didn't say it, but you still believed I said it. So why am I still friends with you? Why would you want to be friends with me? Why would you want to continue
this friendship? So that's that's my perspective, Like this actually kind of triggered something in me right now, okay about eight right, Okay, I don't like being accused of something I didn't do. And when I tell you I didn't do it and you choose to still be believe it, Yeah, that's it. There's nothing else I can do. I'm not going to sit here and try to prove it. I'm not trying to state my case. I'm not going to try to, you know, kiss her ass and be like
hold blah blah blah. No, we ain't doing that. We're not doing that. So mohamet, the ball is my is I'm concerned. The ball is in her court if she wants to circle back to you and realize the friend that she lost, the friend that she offended, and that's on her. But as far as I'm concerned with you, Muhammed, I think you should just act like you ain't never met her before.
Well, he should have listened to us in the first place. We told him not nothing to go, and then he's yeah, he told her just all a rod and said that he should not go, and he went and packed his bags anyway. Yeah, so we have to tell him on February first, you should listen to us in the first place. True, And we know you trashed her wedding, as you should be, cause if I went and you're not speaking to me, I trashed that wedding. That wedding socked.
He trish it in his brain, which is fine.
Okay, wait before you read that. I know there's something that you can't live without. Oh, it's changed your life.
Oh okay, it's not an iPhone seventeen. Okay, no, no, no, So I asked you earlier because it's something reminded me a little bit earlier in my house. Is there something that is new to you, but you like can't figure out how you went this long without it? Yes, okay, do you want me to tell you? Do you? Yeah? I want to tell You're going to tell me. Okay, you go first. Okay a bedet? Do you have a bedet? I've always had a bedet? You have a bedet? I never use it? What you never use it? I never
use it? Why? I don't know, because it's like an extra step. No, it's the Oh my god, no it's not it. It's like it's it's an extra step. But it's a great extra step, right what Wait, So it's attached to your toilet that you use. Okay, okay, so wait wait wait in this house, I don't have it. Oh but I the house like I had in Baltimore. Yeah, forever, Yes, I had it actually put in Okay, so we're used. Okay. So do you have the kind that's like separate from
your toilet? Yes? Okay, so so no, So now they make the days that you can just attach to your toilet. It's just like a little contraption. You can get it from Amazon. It's not that much money. It's a little and you and you can connect it to your toilet that you're already sitting on and you turn that thing on and you get nice and clean. Okay, just shoot water up your booty. Yes, okay, yes, okay, but it's amazing. And now I'm like, I don't want to like travel uh huh.
And this is another reason not leaving the house. This is just a reason why she's not leaving the house.
Guys. The butdet world has given Robin another reason. Not just what they make travel bedets. Oh shit, I'm done. I'm done. But I'll telling you that thing is amazing. So get the like, get the the attachment. Now, I'm telling everybody, get the yes. And this is not it's the company we got. You're not getting paid for this, No, I'm not, because so much that we talk about we don't get paid for. The brand is called you can do an Amazon or you can just go directly to the website.
It's called Tushy t u s h Y and they make a bidet attachment is the best thing ever. I don't want to get into detail and gross people out or whatever, you know, just talk about you know, the clean numbrocess and all that whatever. But I love it.
You love it, You love the little the booty, I mean the water squirting up your booty. Yes, okay, I'm here for that. Okay, do you have something I was just gonna say, my new fenty lip gloss.
I mean.
Okay, so she has Grace for Christmas, gave me this lip bomb care.
Right. But it you know, when it's on, it's like really shiny, so it looks like lip glass. Huh. It is so good really, yes, like for your like dry to prevent dry lips and cracked lips. Yeah. So I put it on before I go to bed. I put it on when I wake up in the morning. I put it on all the time. It is just like so gooey and oohy, and it smells good and they have different flavors. It's good. It's like lipcare. It's like the fenty lipcare or something. Okay, yeah, all right, I
can't live without it. Good. Yeah.
So I traveled with it because sometimes because you know me, I have like my travel stuff and then I have my stuff from home.
Yeah. I was like, no, this got to go in the bag. Yeah, travel bank. So you have two? I have three actually yeah okay.
So yes, and I use other stuff for like lip care. But yeah, it doesn't compare to to what Rihannic got going on.
That's good to know. Yeah, she's upgrading her stuff. She's got more kids to pay for us. Anyway, we gotta go. This has been an amazing episode.
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