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the air. Uh No, this is really your favorite time, only when I listen to Christmas music on the radio. Like, Okay, okay, keep going. No, I'm not gonna she's I'm moving on. Okay, we're gonna talk about our reasonably Shady moment of the week. Okay, because you popping on this Christmas. So I have three daughters, yes, two of them like to get their hair braided. Okay, that would be the twins angel in the door. So I said, cool, let's let's get it. Let's get a crowned.

So I have clearly like learned my lesson, and I used to take them to one person, so they like one one of the twins we get their hair braided, and we would wait and the other one, Okay, we're not doing that. So we found some people the other night that you know, clearly two of them can be getting it done at the same time. I found them the other night. The other night I found no. I found them a little while ago. I made an appointment, right.

I had never been to this place before. They recommendation, They were not recommendations. I went on my own and I found these people on Google. I did. I googled. This was is a Google search. Okay, and let me just say this. It was the k hair braiding place I've ever been to. When I say yankie, there was like duct tape on the windows. It was a disaster. Listen, I don't want to say the town. Okay, find Silver Spring, Maryland. And they they didn't even have a sign on the door.

They just had like this little neon light that said braiding. That was splashing. Okay, So we go up in there and at this point you're stuck, like you you can't abort the you can't abort and go somewhere else because it's two of them and they got a bunch of hairs did you read the reviews? I didn't read any reviews. Okay, so they're they're talking to each other as in the braiding people, they're talking to each other in a language

I don't understand. And so guess what. We sat there and we sat there and we sat there and they got their hair braided. And I just want to say that hair braiding and shady because it requires too many hours. Yes it does. What kind of braids did they get? So they got I don't even know. Box is not box? What is it? What is individuals? They got individual braids with the knot at the town with the knot. Yeah, this braden thing, it's kill not take. Okay, we got

there at three thirty. We left at eight thirty nine. Oh that's not that bad. Shady for complaining, I'm shady black. Yes, it's five hours, five hours that bad. Let me just say this, I share them the shady moment of the week. I left my kids. I took Grace home. Okay, I live, I lived damn near forty five minutes away. Took Grace home, came back and like only a fourth of their hair were done. Okay, miss Burgo, this is your this is your your impatient. Um, you are what bossy? Yes? What

else we got? I just I just don't want this to take five, six, seven hours. I mean it was just the whole hair braiding thing. I'm here for the end result. I'm just not here for the process. You should have expected that that. Actually I thought you were going to say you were there till midnight. Oh hell no, Yeah, I've done that before. Okay, okay, well, okay, let's move on. What is what is your shady moment? Hair braiding is mine? Okay, hair braiding is yours, and I get that. I get it.

It's fine, but mine goes to people who don't want to take my money. I mean, I'm trying to throw a dinner party for my college girlfriend and I reached out to the chef and I said, you know, this is the menu. I want a full course menu. You know, I want to you know, seafood and surf and turf and you know, get me to work turf, hook it up for a sister. And yeah, the dude he won't even give me the damn price. He won't tell me

how much, he won't send me the menu. Like I'm supposed to be hosting these people on Saturday, and I have to text him multiple times and he responds back. So it's not that he's gone ghosts. And we had a phone conversation. We talked through the menu. Now I got my friends talking about, well, what are we confirmed? And I want we can't be pressing to I might be, I might be. And and this is like, um, um got a potlot, we all we all pay, you know, so you know, we get the bill, we all split

it whatever. You know. So you're not You're not really you're hosting your home. I'm hosting arranging, yes, but people want to know how much they need to budget, you know, they need to know. Can I need to set aside this amount of money for my dinner party? Right? And I can't even tell them. They want to know if it's a surf and turf or exactly. I can't tell them anything. So I'm just at this point, I'm like,

oh my gosh, like it's gonna happen. So yeah, I mean I have communicated with this man multiple times and I still have no information. All right, Well, listen, this is a lot of us talk about it here in the streets, and we're gonna start with the most pressing Kardashian news. O. Yes, and that is that damn Tristan. Okay, and that's what he will be called now and forever more. That damn Tristan. What is wrong with him? He is dumb,

like dumb, dumb, dumb. It's so okay. I mean, it's one thing you're dating a Kardashian, you know your every move is getting clocked. Yes, okay, okay, So let's back us from the don't know. Okay. Tristan Thompson is Chloe Kardashian's baby daddy. They have a daughter together. Her name is true She's a cute little girl. And I think they were kind of back together, but not really, but

I don't know. It sounded like they were getting back together, yes, And so all of a sudden, out of nowhere comes this woman who is has given birth, she has she has had the baby. She had the baby the other day, and Tristan said, I ain't giving you a dime, says I'm gonna give you seventy k and walk away and enjoy your life. And I don't want to have nothing to do with that baby. Right. That's horrible. No, first

of all, he's he's that is horrible. Um. Second of all, when the when the alert came, like when I saw it on Instagram, at first, I was like, this can't be true. He can't be this, he can't be this stupid, but I just can't because stupid, I mean, and and so Okay, Once People Magazine reported, I'm like, Okay, it's true. People is the Bible, y'all. People Magazine is the Bible.

It's true. But then we see like private text messages where he's pretty much saying, you know, okay, you can try to get child support from me, but I'm going to be retired next year, and that means I'm not gonna have any income and Texas is not going to award you any child support, so good luck with your baby. But what does what does that mean? Though? Like if you're I get that he would be unemployed, but doesn't he's clearly got money in the bank, Like does that

does that? I guess he's saying that Texas based will will award child support based on your income. Oh, and he won't have any income. He won't have any income, and and and good luck with your baby. There there is a there is a nice seat in hell for this one, okay, because that's horrible. That is it's so horrible, it's so, it's sad, it's so And then I mean, that's not for kids. He got with Chloe when he had with did the did the woman before have a baby? Yeah,

she was pregnant, she was pregnant, she was pregnant. Believe he got with Chloe while while the last girl was pregnant with his child. So listen, how you get him as how you lose him? That's what they say in dress. So but guess what, I don't think. I don't think Chloe want to have anything to do with this dude anymore. Yeah, I would think that would be it. Yeah, at least what Chris Jenner has put the kabash on it. Chris Jenner said, Okay, Trustan, you're not You're not for us.

But you know what the thing is, like, Chloe has dated multiple NBA players, and so you know, I don't do you think she's shocked, No, she's not shocked. She probably held out hope that like, Okay, I'm gonna give you another chance. You write God like you know you clearly can't beat that stupid, but clearly he was. She had hoped that he would wear a condom. Well, right, that too. Then it makes me wonder. It's like maybe it's Chloe not giving it up like Chloe. Yes, I don't, don't, please,

don't blame Chloe. I'm not. But it's like for him to be that stupid, like you're dating a Kardashian. So you're like, you can't get away with ship like that. No, no, you cannot. But listen, Tristan, I'm not here for you. I used to be a fan, but guess what not any now, I was never a fan. I'm just being nice, never again. Okay, but we do have to talk about

somebody I am a fan of and her name is Adele. Okay, and I know that last time, maybe two episodes ago or so, I don't know, I went on this whole thing. I love Adele. Oh my gosh Adele. Adele Adele. Well, Adele has come out and said that she would never watch a Real Housewives show because it would give her brain damage or it would make her brain turn to mush or we just sucked. I don't know. She said

kill her brain, it would kill her brains. Okay, Adele, Adele, Okay, let me just say that, Adele, how did you feel about that. Well, I kind of agree with her. I mean because some of these Real House five shows I watched them too, and I'm like, God, damn, this is a mess. But I mean, you know, maybe she should have kept that to herself because maybe she didn't know that a Real Housewife over here named Giselle is one of her biggest fans and so and so I think

I feel her biggest. Yeah, I'm still gonna go to Vegas and see her show. I forgive her because she she wasn't trying to hurt my feeling. No, that's like if she didn't like true crime stories or something, right, that's just not her thing. Yes, but I feel you on that, Adele. I mean no, Okay, so her brains, she might kill a few brain cells, but then she

might get like an endorphin rush. Yeah, say she should try it, like you know how they say the kids with like food they don't want to eat, Like, try it, you might like it. Right, And I'm going to put out there in the universe, Adele, just watch the Real Housewives of Potomac. You don't have to watch the rest of them because the rest of them might actually kill your brain cells. But just Watch the Potomac, Yeah, Green Watch the Green advandis we we we're gonna help you

in your life. Yeah, And it's actually just like we're here for entertainment. We're here to just like let you breathe women, We're here to let you be easy on you. Yeah, that's why we're here, right, we're like carefree, y sewing there. You don't have to really think. No, no, no, let me tell you what I have been thinking about because he's been I've said it many times. He's my boyfriend. His name is Chris Cuomo. I know he's married and everything,

but he is my blue on the side. And Dr Fauci. Yeah, you like Dr Fauci's. Dr Fauci does it for you? Hey? Yeah, he was looking real good. It's like leading us every day, and he was telling us, you know, what we needed to do. One part of that eighty year old man looked good to he looks good. Okay, all right, we love Fauci too. Okay, but let's get back to Chris, because Chris right now is unemployed. Now, CNN say we're gonna do an investigation, and CNN said, you are fired,

get your ship and go. I'm wherever Chris goes, I'm gonna go that's what I say it, that's what I said. So okay, but this is the thing I've seen where people from New York, and I think because we're not in New York, we're a little more um what objective. But I feel like people in New York know a lot more than what we do, and they're kind of like that family shady and yeah, they crooks, and that's what they deserve. They you know, their father did this, this,

this and so. Yeah, but the sins of the father, not the sins of the son. Not. But you know, sometimes you can't escape that. But so, I I was very disappointed to see that Chris was was fired. Um, I enjoyed watching him. I heard Don Lemon was very upset. Oh cygnum. But you know, I feel and I don't know, it's like a weird I feel like it's one of those It's like there's something deeper going on that people

like us on the outside don't really know. Um, even with the whole governor being you know what, when what went down with him, I think it's just something deeper where people I want to call it a witch hunt, but it was somebody had it out for them, spearheaded by Donald Donald Trump, but I don't. I don't know, because it's crazy. The Republicans can do all types of dirt and they still you know, in office, in power on TV, Like, why is it that I feel like, okay,

let me just say this. I feel like, excuse, what Chris was doing was helping his brother out right, which anybody would do or you would feel inclined to help your brother out. That's cool. I'm not here for the whoever is alleging sexual woman's conduct. I mean, like, now, now you're gonna come out with that, okay, but whatever, and I'm not your Yeah, I don't want to say any woman is lying. I'm not saying that at all.

What I'm saying is, Chris, you can do a YouTube channel, and I'm a why whatever you want to do, I'm here for okay, just let us know when the YouTube channel, when when that starts? I am gonna watch because apparently he stopped his exit and radio show. Yes, and I wonder what's that on him or was that that could have maybe tied to his contract or whatever. I don't know, but whenever he's ready to grace us with his cute face and his nice personality. I am here for it. Yes,

in his black suits and his black tie. Yeah, wherever you going? Okay, okay, so um, we are now in the throws of the just smole trial. Do so for for those of you who forgot Jesse Schmolette faked allegedly people attacking him and hitting him with all kinds of hate crimes whatever, put a noose around his neck allegedly. So now you know, because because the city of Chicago was like, boy, you lying. So now they have taken him.

He's on trial for these false reports. Yes, it looks like because there's somebody that is reporting about it like every eight seconds. Well well yeah, because it's going on. So yeah yeah. So first of all, before we go deep into this, um, who do you believe? What do you believe happened? Okay? Okay, So when Jessie told the world had just happened to him, I think collectively all black people said, this boy is lying, like we all

no black person comments, no, no, that's wrong. When that everybody when that happened, I remember he was posted on everybody's page. Oh my brother, how long did that happen? How long did they post it. I mean, okay, what was it like a couple of days later, but no, when it first happened was first reported, so many people were posting about how horrible it is, I can't believe this happened to you, and showing love and support blah

blah blah blah. And then like two days later it started people starting to be like, we started getting more infant nation about the said crime, and then we realized black people did he's lying, right, something that's not right, something's not right. So this is what's funny to me, So like he's he got on the stand and said, Lee Daniels told me to lose weight for Empire. Oh he did? Why? And what does that? What they had

to do with anything? I don't know what it has to do with the price tea in China, but oh, you know what, that probably you know why because apparently the two the attackers quotes one of them like a fitness trainer, and so that's why he hired us to be his fitness trainer. And he was in the check that he wrote, which I think them, you know, Chicago alleges that was his payment for his his fake attack

was written out to personal training sessions. Oh okay. He also said he had sex with them and they guy had did did drugs together, and he said yes, he said they went to a bath house. Yes, Now what in the bath houses were illegal at this point because it's it bath houses for me in my mind when I somebody says bath house, I think germs. I just think nasty. I think what are y'all doing? Everybody's just jerking off in the bath house? I just bath house is weird to me. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't know

anything about a bath house. But but but um, yeah, So they were in the bath house and they made out with each other and they masturbated with each other. Did they say that? Yes? And so wait it's okay, So yes, they said they masturbated together. Okay, it's so somebody's comments said he really did get beat something like that, Oh, because he was doing the you know what, let me tell you he really did get beat? Okay. Can we talk about Instagram comments. Instagram comments are the funniest things,

so funny, so entertaining. It's so funny. It's like I'll see a post and immediately just go to the comments and crack up because a lot of times I'll go because I'm like, I hope they hope, I hope are thinking the same thing I'm thinking, Like I go to make sure I'm not the only one thinking crazy. Yes, and it's going to comments and I'm like, okay, good right, But long story short, I think Jesse might do some jail time, Okay, but you know you still got to

be proven guilty. We want to see it's gonna be it's like literally like their word against his and then I think, you know, he's trying to discredit the credibility of of his masturbating partner. Okay, crazy Alright. So Cardi B was in Miami, and you know this is like near and dear to my heart, because not near and dear to my heart, but I just want to say this because you know, the plight of the black woman

is the plight of the black woman, right. So Cardi B is in is in UM is in Miami, and she is UM, I guess, celebrating her new product, which is UM some sort of alcohol infused whipped cream, which for me, it's genius, like I just want to like sugar. Yes, it's just Jesus. Anyway, long story short, So she's walking in the club in the black girls around outside the club, and they're like Cardi, Cardi, they won't let us in. They won't let us in. They won't let the black

girls in. Now one percent believe that a there was a video be Miami is a little tricky. Miami is kind of horrible sometimes when it comes to the clubs. No Miami. I've always said this, Miami is is, in my opinion, based on my experience, not a place for black women at all. Like I just I feel like we're so overlooked um and and it's just by everybody, and and I've I've felt it multiple times. So when I go to Miami, I'm literally going to lay at

the pool and go to the beach. I Am not going to hang out at the club and to be you know, meeting people and having fun. No, because they're totally overlooked. So I absolutely, well, I saw the video too, it's right. Absolutely, Notice Cardi went in this This is when the story gets a little weird for me. Cardi went in and proceeded to enjoy herself at her party. Now that was her prerogative and that's what she should do. But Cardi, as a woman who's a little older and black.

It would have been great had you stopped at the door and made sure that those girls got and took them in and took them in with you. Because what she did was so the girls were saying Cardi, Cardi, they won't let us in. And so when Cardi was going in, which she was like, let the black wore my name, she did say that like the black women, which we appreciate, but no, you make sure they get in and they come in with you, right right, Yes, yeah, definitely.

And I think but but maybe in Cardi's defense, I think the people were like I heard the man say, we're gonna let them, and we're gonna let them in. Yes, yeah, yeah, I'm not This is not a slight DICRDI I know, I know, but I'm just saying I think in hindsight, like just knowing how Miami is, it's like, okay, let me know, I'm gonna make sure I want to see them get in, right and your Cardi, you got you're rolling with security. You're rolling with people that can make

sure that these girls get in. Only because it's like we as black women, every day is a struggle. So when it's time for us the party and let loose and have fun, let us be able to Yeah, and apparently I think I heard the woman saying, like my husband's in the NFL. We're buying the table. We're buying like they were, and they still want sending money. So it's not like they were just gonna be, you know, in the middle of the club taking up space. No,

they trying to spend money in there. Right, But even if they weren't taking up space, just let them in, right, don't treat us like that, don't leave us outside the club. And Chris Brown said, you can't complain, you can't even get get up. Well, I ain't gonna help Miami with y'all. Y'all right, Okay, So so Robin, there was this thing

on the Instagram that I want to read to you. Oh, by the way, before we get into that, we we do want to say that you guys, we asked you guys to leave reviews on Apple Podcasts, and you guys did and they are amazing, and you guys please continue to leave comments if you feel so inclined. We have over one thousand ratings. Thank you, with a four point seven out of five, which is fabulous. According to Yah Um, should what I read? Can we read one? Sure? Okay,

let's see. This is from Maryan. The title is JEB that stands for g E B stands for Green eight bands coming in hots. Hi, ladies, I'm marrying and I'm absolutely hooked on your podcast. I have a really boring job as an assistant, but I have my earphones on me and listen to your podcast and it gets me through my job. The show doesn't do your personalities justice. You're my favorites on the show, and I wonder do the other ladies listen to your podcast? Because I think

everyone should. It helps us understand you guys better, wish you luck, love you and Mary, I appreciate that because you know what I feel like. Um yeah, the other ladies on the show don't realize that Robbing andall don't take their themselves or life too serious. Now we do not know they might want to take stick out of the ass and come on today the side where you know you're just care freeze you okay, you just want to last Yes, yes, and y'all know who we're talking about. Okay.

So on on Instagram, there was this thing okay, and it's like the African American urge. That's a quote African American urge. Okay, so we're just gonna say the black urge, and it's on Twitter and it's trending, and it shows us that we've we black people have all been living the same life. Okay, Okay, So I'm gonna read you a couple and see whether or not you agree. Okay. For our white listeners, we're just having a black moment right now, and we love y'all. We're gonna come back.

We're gonna pick y'all up in about seven minutes. Okay, but we might help them understand. So they're a black coworker, that's that's true, that's true, all right, Okay. The black urge to say I'm ready when you are wait wait, okay, I'm sorry, let me start over, let me start over, black people, okay. The black urge to say I'm ready when you are, when you're ready to go, y'all. We always say I'm ready when you are, yes, and that

means let's go. Yes, That means I'm ready now, yes, not another minute, right, And I said that's ribbing often because she's never ready to go. All right. So the black urge to scream representative instead of talking to the automated system. Okay, how many times have we all been automated and we're like, yes, I'll cuss them out, yes, yes, And when we're screaming representative, it's still to the automated system. Yes, absolutely, and we and we're like, who's going to hear that?

But no, I do? I absolutely do that, yes, or I'll say custumer cyrus CRUs yes. Okay, So black people we all the same, because we're all doing this alright. White people probably do that too. Nobody wants to talk to the damn automated system, and they make you go through hoops in order to get to the place where you can even be set up to click the thing to talk to the representing Oh my gosh. And then isn't it the worst? I'm sorry to get side track.

Isn't the worst when you finally get there and you get disconnected? Oh my god, it happened to me the other day. I wanted to cuss, right I did cuss? Yeah, okay, all right, the black urge to say, that's why your ship is fucked up? Now when you see a car with with that's damage, driving crazy, Okay, So when you see a damage car driving crazy and then you say, that's why your ship is sucked up. Now, don't y'all

say that you see a car drop? Um? Core Corey is in the room with us, Coryus, Robbin's um son, and I just want to say I'm sorry for such um bad um, you know, words coming out of now. Okay, this this is child's place. Yes, but anytime you see a car swerving and you're like, and it's all dented up, You're like, that's why it's just already sucked up. Absolutely, yes, we all say that. Okay, oh, this is what I say.

This all the time. The black earths to say, I've been ripping and running all day after completing various tasks, ripping and running that require you to leave the home. How many times do we say we said ripping and run, ripping and running. Where did that come from? I don't know that. Literally, yes, our parents said ripping and running. Their parents said ripping and running, ripping, ripping, ripping, ripping and run? Are we ripping? What are we ripping? Well,

I don't know what we were ripping. Okay, this is this is one for me because I do this hard time. The urge to say child when you want to communicate a whole bunch of emotions and all one word, you can't. Yes, you just be like child like ship, it's good, it's gonna be good. But when she has a story to tell and she starts up with child, it's gonna be a good story. All right. We got a couple more, um, the urge to turn off unnecessary lights in other people's houses.

Like you walk in somebody's house and you see all these lights on all over the place, you just go around turn them off. I do that. I do that too. Why are we all why all black people live in the same life because we don't want to get our

ass race on electricity? Okay, when we have the urge to want to know whose baby is doing all that hollering in the store, So you hear a baby or in Robin's house, a whole another if you listen to another podcast, okay, but like you hear a baby and you're going off in the story, You're like, whose baby is that? And what I ain't doing? And then what do you do when you see the person? You just look at him up and down, like get your baby?

And next you have a baby, you just know like, oh my god, everybody in here is complaining about me. Oh my god. Right, okay, this, this is the last one. That's a good one. Okay. The earth is saying, these kids gonna sleep good tonight when you watch him playing at a birthday party and then you look at you like they're gonna sleep good tonight. Don't even get in the shower and go straight to bed, go straight to bed. Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,

wait one more. Okay, anytime something costs forty dollars, it's always forty dollars. Forty dollars. We all say that forty dollars, like, forty dollars is just over the threshold for allars, is way too much more than thirty nine, way too much. We we went broke after boy it dollars gonna make us broke. Y'all were always like forty dollars a glass of a glass of um, not a glass for at Okay, do we miss any Okay that was on Twitter. Yeah, I'm sure there's so much more. I mean, we could

go on for days, We could go on for day. Yes, okay, so we're gonna actually I want you all to send us some Okay, this this is for this is for our black folks. Oh no, no, in the white world. There's gotta be some in the white world. Yes, they have you guys in the white world, are there is ms are things that all white people say that y'all all understand. Okay, if so, send us that to what's up at reasonably shady dot Com? Send us that, okay. And if there's some black ones that I forgot, send

us that. By the way, today we're at Robin's house. And I walked into Robbin's house and it is full blown decorating of Christmas decorations. I mean, there's a tree there, about eighteen reefs, reefs, reefs on reefs with lights on them all over the house. And I'm, yeah, I'm a little jealous. I don't know how I feel about that. I didn't know I was domesticated and what Okay, you're domesticated. And I don't have not one piece of decoration for

Christmas up in my house. Okay. So it's so funny because like every year, it varies from like when I put my decorations up to even if I do so, like last year, I didn't put a single decoration up Okay, this year, I put mine up on Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving. Then I've had other years where I literally put them up on like December three. So I'm like all over the place, and I think it's just I don't know what it is. It's like there's no rhyme

or reason to it. But this year I put my decorations up on Thanksgiving. So you had a turkey or you had some food or whatever you ate Thanksgive down and then you were like, hmmm, it's time for Christmas. I mean, I kind of so I wanted to have I actually I think I started the day before because I wanted to like have my tree up. Oh I have I put the tree up. But then on Thanksgiving, like my father was helping me like put my ribbon

around my tree. So so my my parents were able to watch us put up trees and reaths and all that type of stuff. Okay, okay, I'm extremely impressed. The I have a confession. The only reason why my stuff is put up so early is because I recently emptied out my storage unit that I had for the past four or five years when we were in the town house and in my storage unit was was my Christmas decorations.

Oh and so when we emptied the storage unit out, I said, well, instead of putting the Christmas decorations in the basement in the storage room, yeah, let's just put him in the dining room because that because you put it in the basement, you have to walk them downstairs, exactly. It was it's easier for you to just set it up when you walk in the house exactly, so instead of like putting them in the storage room and you gotta bring them back up. They were like, smack Dad

in my face. So he I just said, that's a little confession. I'm really not that good. Okay, Well, I mean I'm I'm highly impressed. Thank you. I appreciate. I mean, my tree is pretty, It's very pretty. And and now okay, so you know I have a shopping problem. Yes, So now I have been shopping on like Christmas decoration sites and I'm like, but all the decorations are oh no, they're not finished. Oh okay, this is gonna be a winter wonderland over here. Yes, okay, I have I have

more stuff coming for my tree. I have a couple more like little lip trees that are arriving soon. So now my shopping problem has transitioned into Christmas decorations. Oh wow, wow, poor one. Okay, So I, um, every year, I don't know if I've said this to the people. Every year my dad comes into town and he and my daughters get the Christmas tree together. Right, this is always a live tree. They somehow always pick like a Charlie brown looking one. I'm not quite sure why that's coming in

my house, but it does and I don't mind. And then they decorated, so it's always Charlie brown Ish looking and decorated crazy. Yeah that's not cute and not cute, but they do it and it's sentimental. I like that. Yes, okay, So my dad hasn't come in town yet, so I have not one piece of decoration. He's coming up a flight Yes, yes, it's a flight book t is definitely coming. So we will get that done, can we? All right? So your girls are getting a little bit older now,

can we? Can we not make it Charlie brown Ish? Can you buy some new ornaments? Can I send you some links? Okay, and send me some damblings, some beautiful ornaments? Okay, fine, send me some links okay. Um, my trees are not Charlie Brownish, and I use the artificial tree, and I actually think this year, I'm gonna bubble wrap. I'm gonna leave my tree as is, and I'm gonna bubble wrap the whole thing right and store it that way, with the ornaments on it, with everything on it. Robin, that

sounds absurd. That sounds genius. So does that people who don't feel like breaking down a tree and putting it back up every year. This is like lazy personified. This is lazy times ten. This is genius. Okay, I'm somebody listening to this is like, that is an amazing idea. Where do you get bubble wrap from you line? I can order it, that's easy, more ordering offline. Yeah, that's

that's piece of cake. I mean the moving companies, I don't know, like I mean, I'm telling you that's a trick y'all to do it because because the thing is like with the artificial trees, and you don't know this, because you get a live one. When you break them down, you kind of have to like smush them back into to store them. So then when you take them out the next year, you gotta gotta open them all up. That's the worst part to me about decorating an artificial tree.

It's like opening the branches back up and making the tree full again. Got it, I got it? Okay, So if you bubble rapp it, you know it's not gonna get some mushed No, it's just it's just gonna stand up in a corner in my storage room. I got a nice, little big storage room. All right, we're moving on. Okay. So Robin told me earlier that, um, she wants to talk about like the fact that she has in her phone, right,

she has favorites. Okay, So I asked her because she asked me if I have any favorites, and I don't have any favorites. You didn't set any favorites. I don't have not one favorite. So the favorites is for like people that you call frequently, right, So it's like, so you can like easily you just pressed the little first of all, show you. You probably don't even know where to find that. I do know where to find it, so wait a minute, so wait, wait, wait before you

can show me. So I asked rob and I was like, Robin, am I one of your favorites? And she was like, when we get to the podcast. I'll show you. We'll see. So this is kind of like the moment of truth is to find out whether or not I hurt my fellow Green Eye bandit has favorited me in her phone. What do you think? I hope. So I'm starting to get nervous. I don't know, Carly, what do you think? Yes, Carly, I direct your operations, says yes, I said, I will.

I will go down my list of favorites, Okay, in order. Juan Corey Carter, Carter FaceTime, Mom, Mom, work, dad, Mark. That's my brother, Mom and dad. That's their house phone. Nadia. That's my college friend, one of my besties, Julie. That's my cousin, Brandon. That's Jane's cousin because he used to live with us. Giselle. Right, guys, I made the cuts. Yes, I'm so excited. I was started like, oh my god, I'm not really a friend, I'm not a favorite. I'm

almost done. Okay. Jermaine, which is Jan's brother who has lived with us and is now in our house. And Carly and Carly is a mavorite. He's made it too, our d o oh made it. Yes, Carley, Carl, we made the cut. Who I was getting nervous over here. Really, Carly said, I'm on her favorites and I better be on her and she better be on mine. Okay, So this is this is a question for the people. If you're not in your man's favorites, m but he's in yours.

But does he have favorites? True? Because I don't have favorites, so it's not a thing. But if he has favorites and you're not in it, should you look at the relationship a little differently? Yeah? I mean I think that's that's a that's something to ask, something to address. It might be that you all call each other so frequently that you're like right there on his callog and he can just hit your name. You know what I mean? You're true so like in it's crazy, Like so, okay,

I'll be honest. I just added you the other day. Okay, I'm so mad at Robin right now. Now. My feelings are really hurt. Robin just added me the other day. I thought I was like in like Flynn like years ago, but I just got at it. But it's because I realized how often we talked, and I was like, oh, I just need to add a right here. Carly. I realized, like how often we talk text communicate, right that I just add her the other day? You do? Okay? Did you add Carly before after me? This was this would

really be like key. It was like it was like all on the same most shoe minutes ban Oh okay, Carly, we just got added seven seconds ago longer. Car Actually this is really sad, guys. I just want to tell you out here in this podcast world. I thought I would have been added to Robert's favorites. Maybe I don't know, it's a season one, season one. Could I have gotten at it? Then I had to wait your season six s at it? Yeah, I mean it was it's way overdue.

It's way overdue. And I just realized. I was like just looking at it, and I said, I think it was just you know, it just it was a time when I had to reach out. I had to call you, and I had to go in my context to fine, you know. I was like m hmm, like okay, I'm not adding you untill season ten if we make it that. Yeah, listen, listen now I do have in my I have UM.

It was so weird because Robin and I on our text messages Robin and I are in a group text a million times with a million differ people like it's like me Robin and Ashley, me Robbin and me Robin and so so like it's like rob and I a million group text me Robin and Carly like too many people. Okay, So I have named some of my group text so for my kids their favorite people. Oh that's cute. And it's just the four of us. Yeah, that's all the favorites that I got in my phone people. That's it.

And we have a recently be shady group chat with Carly, Giselle and Carly. It's called reasonably Shady Genius Genius. All right, eyes, we are out of here, but we definitely want to once again encourage you to leave the reviews. We really appreciate it. It makes Black Effect, which, by the way, the platform that we're on, it makes them happy, so you know, we want to make Black Effect happy. Yes,

and then lets us know that we're doing something good. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, And put your tree up or your decorations, whatever you celebrate, put them up. Oh is this the last day of Hanaka? I think that past already Hanka has done. Okay, so what is it the yarn? What's the thing with the cancels? Stude? Okay, Manora, I guess you'd keep it there? Do you put it away? Never mind? Anyway, yes, anyway, do what you do for

the holiday season, and remember, live your life. Either reasonable or shady or we love you guys by Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network. For more podcasts from our Heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, and you can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady. H