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And speaking of sex, there seems to be a whole lot of it going on in both film and stage. This year's Oscars feature two films where sexuality and nudity play a major part, Anora and The Substance. But sexuality in cinema is not new. What has changed is the film and stage industry's understanding of the complex and intimate demands it makes on the actors who must perform it.
The me Too movement brought.
Increased scrutiny to on screen contact, and with that a relatively new position called an intimacy coordinator was born. Part coach, part choreographer, and often part therapists, Intimacy coordinators are now tasked with helping assist the artistic vision of the intimate story while providing the guidance and communication between producers, directors, and performers. And despite how seemingly obvious the need for them may be, they are often regarded as superfluous, unnecessary, or irksome.
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Today the guys talk to Yehuda Duenya, a sag after, a credited intimacy coordinator who provides full service intimacy coordination for film, TV and theater productions. They'll discuss what the job actually entails, what the qualifications are to become and I see what the challenges can be. And most importantly, we may discover why it is that our own Jason Alexander has appeared so often in the bluff. We'll also
find out how he feels about it. Now here hopefully with clothes are Jason and Peter this season?
In particular, the films that I've seen that have had the most you know sort of people are talking.
About there's a lot of sexuality in these films.
What like I saw Anora the other day and it's and it's about a sex worker and there's a lot of sexual no clothing, didn't I don't know where like you know, well, please you're Hollywood adjacent, not even but there's a lot going on.
Now. I have done some stuff.
Oh that's right, and love, valor, compassion.
Passion, but even on Asha Bob Patterson we did make it.
That's right, naked standing there in front of forty guys, naked with basically.
A leaf, and you know, to your credit, and it was not comfortable.
To your credit. And I, you know what, in thinking about this later on now that you bring that up, I felt you. And I never said this here because I know who comedic it was, and because you're chunking and it's funny and you're uncomfortable and you play uncomfortable funny. I never had a discussion with you, and I really did feel bad afterwards that I never asked you, are you uncomfortable doing it? Are you incremfortable? But no, I
never did. And and you know what I take. I always assume with you, you go for the even great you do comedy, You'll do whatever gets to laugh. But I should have said, are you okay doing I know you would have said yes, and you did it, but it's still yet a lot of people on that set. I'm well away, and this intimacy in movies. Right now, the big story is Blake Lively and Justin Baldini, who was in the movie, directed the movie, and produced the movie.
They're going back and forth with lawsuits, saying that he was even before shooting he inserted improvised with tuitor sexual content and there was specifically, and his lawyers released the scene where they were dancing and he was kissing her neck to doing stuff dialog and one of the intimacy or people who watched this comment and said it looked like they were negotiating the stuff as the scene was happening.
He claims that he had a meeting with an intimacy coordinator before the movie and she didn't make the meeting that she said, I don't need to come to the meeting. She's saying she had to beg to get an emascy coordinator. And then somebody else said, usually with dance scenes, it's nudity at sexistists. Usually with dance scenes, even though they're close, you don't need an is the coordinator. So we figured, well, we're in New Turf. Yeah, and I got a lot
of questions. And then you're dealing with people who have different level of what they perceived to be on car.
You don't know you're working from multiple people at the same time. You're working for the producer, you're working for the director who has a vision of how this is supposed to go on, and then you're working with four and with the people who have to execute it, who will bring their own is.
And there's been pushback, like Michael Douglas said, you don't need one because what it does is that usurp the director. Director should be doing this and getting it. Jennifer Aniston was asked when she worked with John ham on a second team during the morning show I get one. She said, come on, we're both professionals, and John and I discussed what we were comfortable with or not. But not everybody comes from that same place or it doesn't have traumas in the past.
Second, and I will tell you I've never directed sex, but I directed some partial nudity and intimacy.
I mean two people in a bed in a film. I have never been more uncomfortable in my life.
And I'm sure and there's no there's no You walk into a set man and you're it's like when you just signed and you're a guest director.
It's uncomfortably in that I was the guest director. We didn't have a guest but again, new actor or whatever. You're walking into a culture you don't know, so you don't know when you're walking into a.
Set Listen, it doesn't. It's as simple as this.
How many times on the TV show or a film or on a stage play do you see two actors playing they're a married couple, they casually kiss each other good morning. Yeah, I don't normally kiss that person. So if you don't know, there's a whole, really relatively new job of intimacy coordinator into me intimacy director, and we have in our studio today mister Uhuda Duenyas, who is a sag After accredited intimacy coordinator who provides full service
intimacy coordination for film, TV and theater. Right, he's also an award winning experiential director, and I want to find out what that means, transdisciplinary artist working, as he says, at the intersections of intimacy, experiential design, performance, film and sound. And sure, here we go another one another, every winner, Emmy winner, Emmy winner. They are all Emmy winners.
M Webby Awards.
I don't have a Webby Award, eight cons Lions Awards, I don't have.
Any of those. You know how many commercials I've done. I don't have a Cleo.
He's got eleven Kleos, two Facebook Awards, I'm not even on Facebook and Albi.
Award and then the other among all most others.
Right, it's a complete for a guy I'm supposed to be.
I'm already feeling a little.
Bit off, but you got let's welcome you, Huda Duenas. Hello, so for coming in and congratulations on all the honors. That's a lot. You must be pretty good at what you do. How long have you been doing this?
Yere okay, so I it's great to be here. By the way, it's nice to meet you both. I began this practice in two thousand and seven directing theater in New York, and I was directing shows and you have the theater back ground in New York. I was directing shows that had very extreme content in them, and was working with a cast who I really cared about, a playwright who I really cared about as well, and wanted to make sure that they could do thirty performances and
not want to tear each other's eyeballs out. And also it was very traumatic work. I mean, the content of the piece was very traumatic and so exactly like you said in your intro, we don't know, everyone's got something around, some sort of intimacy. Everyone's had an experience, and the statistics are pretty staggering about that, about how many people
have had something happen in their life. And so it was very important to me that we approached these scenes very carefully and also that we served the play, that it looked great, and that you know, that we served the playwrights vision. So I started developing a system. And you know, it was two thousand and seven. This was I date myself here, but I had my first iPhone that year. It was the year the iPhone came out. The word consent existed in the dictionary, but it was
not a word that we were using a lot. And I just started developing practices of how to slowly get the actors to perform these.
Roles independent, independent, if you had no mentor yet nobody else you saw doing.
It, no, And that was very surprising to me that, you know, we also had a slap on the stage, and so we had to pay a fight director to come and teach the actors how to slap each other.
But if we're dealing.
With non consensual incestual, you know, the scenario was on set, it was just up to me and the stage manager.
And the actors figure it out.
And I'd been an actor for many years as well and had had some experiences where the director says, you know.
Why don't you aren't you gone the hallway and kiss.
Each other and kind of figure it out, the figure it out, and so you know, to take that back into the fight director and fight choreography realm, you.
Wouldn't say, you know, Peter, why don't you just like.
Just just just give.
Jason a nice slap on the face and get it over with, you know, And so you know, the damage from a slap is different than the damage from putting people into uncomfortable situations, but the emotional resonance is very similar. And so that was my first experience, and I was the director too, And so now we really want to separate out the director and intimacy coordinator were there to really disrupt the power dynamics that are on sets and.
For people that you know, if this all sounds alien to somebody, I think most people have heard at this point intimacy coordinator or director. But if you had to define what the parameters of the job are, what what you know sort of technically is it.
Exactly well, we are trained professionals were artists, and we're there to help facilitate intimate scenes between the creative vision of the production and the performers and the cast and the cast and the crew as well. And you know there's a lot inside of that. But I was about to say, is that you never again you just don't know where everyone's coming from. You know, it could be a crew member watching the traumatic situations could bring up something from that. You just don't know what start.
How much do you know going in? And who hires the director, actor, producer And the second part of that is that the producer hires or the director. What if the producer is not necessarily on board? Does that cause friction?
There's a lot of needles to thread and there's a few questions in there. So first you should be trained in order to do this work. And so I also run a training organization or called Cinema the Cinematic Intimacy Artists, and we certify were sag After credited to certify intimacy coordinators. So training is really key and sag After lays out a series of protocols that we should be trained in.
Yeah, but do you get pushed back because I mentioned in the intro. Like Michael Douglas said, he doesn't like intimacy coordinators because the control of the film and the scene is taken away from the director. Jennifer Andison said, we're adults. We know how we know that it was premissure, and there's been others who said the same thing. They have a choice, I guess not to do it or
to do it. But do you get pushed back if an actor's uncomfortable and wants you there, but the director does What if somebody is against it when he's on these four its, somebody doesn't understand it. How do you balance that once you're brought in.
Yeah, and you know, I've encountered every permutation of that. Everyone's on board. They love it. It's really exciting. It could be a very joyous, fun experience. Actually, you said you were extremely uncomfortable.
But I needed a fun experience exactly.
You make you know, we build a good space, and you know, we build a bubble around the work that we're doing close the set. There's a lot of protocols that we follow and techniques that we have for icebreakers and things to do in the case of like you know, Jenniferns and John Ham, and I know the intimacy coordinator was one of my trainees on that project. They are they're professionals, and you know they particularly they didn't want
one for those particular scenes. But imagine it was a star at a high level and a you know, day player who's coming in for a day.
There's a real imbalance there.
And if the star at the higher level is saying I'm fine with anything, what position does that put.
The day player in to say, well, if.
They're fine with everything, then I'm going to be fine with everything too, because I don't want to be a problem. And so Jennifer Aniston and John Ham, I'm sure they are really comfortable with each other, and that's fine.
You know that there's nothing wrong with that.
Like they and you know, they have every right to that comfort that they have with one another. But we're also there for the crew members. We're also there for the director. What if something goes wrong, you know, like there's a lot of things that could happen that we are there to help mediate and to mitigate.
If you're a psychologists, a psychiatrist, I mean, you've got to be everything kind of at the moment at any given moment. So if I can bring up the premise that we started with Blake Lively, this thing has gotten so ugly when I read that there's two intimacy coordinators on that movie, and then again Jason Baldi claimed that she didn't come to the meeting and in the dance scene they weren't there. And then I saw other intimacy coordinators quoted as saying, well, you don't necessarily need one
in a dance scene, but maybe you do. What's your take. You probably know much more about this or what happened, and probably know the people involved the coordinators.
I don't know that.
I don't know the people involved specifically, and it's an ongoing litigation, so you know, we can zoom out a little bit and just sort of look at the there's a lot happening in this particular scenario. Having an intimacy coordinator and just talking about the realm of what you want to do beforehand is just really helpful for everyone.
It just it smooths you wouldn't go into You wouldn't suddenly think like I actually think this actor should fly out of the second story window, or I just think that they should have a fight here and not have someone to help coordinate that. That's why we have stunt coordinators, That's why we have fight you know, fight directors.
So given that, is there a prime time for someone who does your job to be brought into the process.
You don't want to be brought in day of and have to commune with the director of their I'm wanted to be kind of this thing and then have to go figure out what is the best time to get involved with something that has perhaps you know, a smattering of sexuality, nothing horribly provocative, but somebody is going to have partial nudity on a set and they're going to be in the bed together, and there's going to be
some simulation of intimacy. When when is the right time to bring you in and start these conversations.
The right time is in pre production, as you're reading through the script, as you're saying that there's into we teach this the very clear intimate scene, the one that you just described, there's partial nudity, there's an intimate scene. People are having sex in a bed. You need an intimacy coordinator for that, particularly because there's going to be nudity and simulated sex riders that need to be developed
and signed before that. So there's paperwork, which is a big part of our you know, it's interesting, Like the tip of the iceberg is of our job is that we get to be on set working with actors. That's really fun. There's a whole administrative side to what we do as well. There's conversations with the director to understand their creative vision, what they want. We speak with actors to understand what their boundaries are. Hey, this is the creative vision. How do you feel about it? So pre
production is really the best time to get involved. And you mentioned I wanted to go back to the Michael Douglas thing, you know, people.
Who didn't who didn't come up.
I mean, look, it's an a long ass career, you know, like amazing performer and long, very long career, and you know, I mean, yeah it, you know. And so I feel like, if you don't know what the role is, it's hard to just say yes, and you feel like, hey, this person might get in the way of what is happening, then yes, why why would you not have resistance to that?
But when people start to learn that we can be very valuable collaborators in the same way that a stunt coordinator or a fight director can really bring out the spectrum of what's possible in a scene. And so, and if you ask anyone on a set what is sex to you? And what is sex to you or someone else, You're going to come up with really different answers to that.
And so when we can start telling stories of intimacy and of sexuality and really represent like the spectrum of what human sexuality is, which is vast, I feel like we can really start to see humanity in a better, different, more elevated light.
And I really feel like it's a healing practice.
What what do you say?
And this used to I don't I can't imagine this comment would be made anymore, but it was certainly prevalent when I was in my thirties and forties. Where actor or actress reads the scene, they can clearly see what it is. It says, she takes off her clothes, she reveals her thing, they climb into bed and ba but and it describes a certain kind of intimacy.
And you get there on the day and one of the.
Actors, now clearly you would have gotten to them prior to this, but one of the actors decides on the day maybe even after you've they're not as comfortable as they thought they would be, and the producer or the director is suddenly going.
For God's sakes, you read this. This is not a surprise. You read it. You saw what it was. You took the job. First of all.
Does that situation still come up? And if it does, how do you what do you do with that?
Yeah?
Absolutely? I mean, for.
God's sakes, you read this. There's not a surprise. You read it.
You saw what it was.
You took the job, first of all. Does that situation still come up? And if it does, how do you what do you do with that?
Yeah?
Absolutely?
I mean imagine you read it on paper and sounded great, and then you got to set and someone's given you the sorry, yes, someone's giving you the creeps on set, or suddenly you have a bad feeling about this, or suddenly you said yes because of the role, but then when you got to set, you think, you know, maybe I don't want to do this. And so the actor has the right to revoke their consent at any time,
even after a writer assigned. After the writer is signed, the production will also then have the right to double the actor, but the double cannot do more than what the act or agreed to do.
Oh that really, yeah, that's what I got a belt.
That is really so I'll do this.
But the scene it's there, I can't then go all right, But there are still a little more because their own.
Think about this scenario. You're on set, someone someone new you know, is on set. It's really exciting. They're working with Jason. This is the most exciting scene. This is like, you know, they're high suddenly from like you know, oxytocin flowing through their through their veins. They're just so excited to be here. And in the moment, in this heightened state of excitement, they say, you know what, I wasn't comfortable taking off my clothes, but screw it. Now I'm
comfortable taking off my clothes. And you're like great, and you shoot the scene and then they put their clothes on and they go off into the trailer.
Like what the fuck did I do?
What did I just do?
So that's why in a very calm you know, usually on a zoom, sometimes in person a conversation, we'll talk through it and an actor might say I'm comfortable with it, and I say great, if you change your mind, let me know, and we'll all have a conversation discreetly, or I'll approach the director and we'll come up with a different way to do it. It's going to maintain the integrity of the story and slightly alter what we have to do. And there's so many tips and tricks that
we have. There's so many things we can do just framing up a little bit, or you.
Know, shooting, there's just so many Uh. Typically yes, but it really depends on the creative team.
You know.
Some creative teams are like, you know, let the we'll handle that stuff.
You just let us know.
Other creative teams are like, yes, please, we really want to collaborate with you.
So I've really had a wide spectrum.
You're a lovely guy.
I'm meeting you for the first time, and now you're going to start a conversation with me where I'm going to reveal to you somehow I'm going to entrust you with my comfort levels about all kinds of things. I don't know that that's the most natural, you know, I don't know why people give up that. So there has to be a kind of, for lack of a better word, a kind of seduction that you are able to do that, you get an actor a performer to trust that they
are safe with you. But you know, I mean, I just can't imagine that's always a terribly easy process to establish.
It's not.
It's not always easy, and some actors are more resistant to it. And that's fine. Yeah, And I'm really at the end of the day, we're there to make sure that the actors feel safe and seen, heard and all of the things that they want to do, and the director feels seen and heard in the creative that they want to get and that we leave set with a good fist bump or a high five and say, hey, great job, that was amazing.
High five made me uncomfortable. Could you do me a favor? Because you're really interesting? But I want to hear it because I wonder how you engage. So Jason's about to do a nudsday and he's a little uncomfortable. Just if you don't mind, because you're not talking through what would you I just want to hear what that comedy.
So we'd meet on Zoom and I'd say, hey, Jason, it's great to meet you.
I'm a big fan. You've brought a lot of joy to the world.
Finish thought, okay, I'd say, you know, scene fifty three, you've got Jason steps out of the shower, or your character steps out of the shower.
That's another thing. We'll talk about the character, not the person. And that's a nice trick because it's not you that's doing it.
It's the character.
I want.
It's the character that's doing And so your character steps out of the shower, drops your towel. The creative vision is that we see you from behind and you climb into bed with your partner, you start kissing, and you make love. How are you feeling about that?
Go ahead, and you know what the comedy is?
No, I want to I want the comedy.
The comedy answers who's the partner?
My answer would probably be to you, I am more comfortable portraying nudity and sexuality for its comedic.
Values than I am for its intimate values.
Amazing. And I'm typing notes, I'm saying to type notes.
And you know, and I will probably say I'm not comfortable showing my genitals.
I'm not.
You know, how do I look on the day what.
I'm typing notes?
Yeah, not comfortable showing genitals? And how about rear nudity. How does that feel for you? It's a comedic moment, it's your I have.
If I have a good glute day the day before, I've done it, so you know it's it's clearly. I mean, I did a movie where I played a character that was dressed for quite a long sequence in merely a flowery hat, woman's high heels and an apron and I was shot from behind an awful lot and it was, you know, again one of the pantheon of uncomfortable days that I did it.
So when you were doing that, how did you feel you're going to and that you're into it? But how do you think it was?
Probably it was love velor compassion, And I'm trying to remember it's like the early aughts, you know.
Were there primes that was really tough. It's always tough because.
Did someone give you a robe in between takes?
Sure?
Okay, that's yeah, but you never betray that. You always want to please everybody and make it feel okay.
Yes to a degree.
Now, Also, most of my career has been the kind of intimacy that I've been asked to portray is for comedic value, which I'm.
Again more comfortable with that than not.
But I remember doing a movie where I won't name the actress, but she and I had a brief bed scene and the director was hell bent on her being topless in the scene, and I guess she had signed some paperwork for it.
And I happened to know this actress a little bit, and she went, can you help me? I went, what I really don't want. I don't want my us to be seen.
I went, let's try, And so I found ways to make sure that my arm was always draped across her or you know. And as far as I know that we got away with it. I think we kept her from being exposed in the way she didn't want to. But that scene, because it was not for comedy, was among the more uncomfortable things.
So, Jason, you're a mention putting your arm around her, and that's why we're there.
Well, I got to tell you, see, this is the thing for me, what makes what you do and the moments that you're asked to come in on a film for me so hard is that when you said, well, let's look at this through the character's eyes. But when I as an audience member in counter nudity or intimacy, in any stage play camp, I.
Immediately go right out.
It immediately takes me out because I go to Okay, this is the one thing that the actor acting is make believe I'm not a hit man, I don't work for the mafia, and I'm not married to Beverly the Angelo. I'm acting that. But if I have to start being intimate with better Beverly the Angelo, Beverly, I just use you as your name. I hope that's okay.
I like that you leaned in.
Then there is something that is now it's me and Beverlys. It's not character goes away in some ways, not completely. You're telling a certain kind of story with those people. But that is a level of like if I if I shoot a guy in a movie, I didn't really shoot him, but if I put my hand on somebody's breast, I put my hand, My hand went on somebody's breast, and so I'm always taken out.
I go right out of it.
But there's more, are we right? There's much more nudity. And I don't know if it's because international, but there's much more nudity than I've ever seen before on television and streaming.
Yes, there's yeah, there's a lot more leaning.
Yeah, so there's also a lot more nuance in the type of intimacy and the type of sexuality that's depicted. In the last ten years, we see so much more and so much more, you know, just so many more facets of the what I was saying earlier, just the perspective of what human sexuality is.
My younger son as a young man who's out in the dating world, you know, and from my understanding is it's madness out there. Have you learned anything that translates into the real world of people meeting people and navigating the beginnings of intimate relationships so that there is a reasonable assurance that everyone's in the same place.
Is there a method for that?
You know, we teach in our course, and all intimacy coordinator courses teach consent frameworks. And when you study this and you get deep into what consent is that it needs to be freely given, it needs to be reversible, it needs to be in formed, it needs to be enthusiastic, it needs to be specific. You start to and that's
just for like interpersonal consent. When you're working in film and television, it's your job and so you don't have to be enthusiastic about this intimate scene that you're doing, but you have to be informed about it, and you have to know specifically what's going to happen, and you have to be able to participate in the you know,
in the negotiation of what it is that happens. And so when you start to get into you know, consent practices and understanding people, and also consent can't happen under you know, under the influence, which a lot of you know days do have righter the end right, and so if someone is inebriated in some way like, that's not you know that there it's not clear consent, you know.
And so.
Not to sound too lofty, but studying to become an intimacy coordinator is actually it's a very life changing journey. And we've had a lot of trainees we've said this has actually completely changed my life. It's changed my relationship with my partner, with my husband, with my wife because of the awareness, yeah, the awareness, and also we teach so much about what the spectrum of sexuality is and someone's like, you know, I realized something about myself that
I didn't know before. I'm attracted to this I'm not attracted to that where I just thought I need to be attracted to this thing, because that's what culture tells me.
Boy, you said one second, if I don't pay, I'm going to come as this.
Really we got to do this, and I should continue to wrap this up by your painting. Of course you had a doctor's appoint me. Obviously a little bit of a large prostate thing, I'm guessing, but thank you. Really really fascinating what you do in the fact that you train, you train people to do this. And he's back again. I apologize.
I want to say.
It takes him quite quite a while.
I can hear you.
We wrapped it up. Okay, you just knocked the key light. That's okay, That's what I'm saying there now you look all right. I heard everything you said.
Well, and as a as a member of SHAG after I am bringing you up. You talk about you prostating that is my intimate organ.
Do me a favorite, do it public because we get some attention, and thank you, Thank you. Man.
Don't don't don't coordinate me. I'll let this man coordinate me. You're not in charge of me. You're not the boss of me.
Thank you.
You hude, thank you, sure, pleasure.
I'm sorry I missed the variant.
It was an honor of my life.
So first of all, let me just say fabulous, what a great I love what he does. I love everything he had to say.
Is there any other podcast let me just ask you this, because you're the podcast mavin Is there any other podcast where one of the hosts has to take a pee break and the other host just keeps going where they don't edit it out, where they don't pretend that I was just here the whole time. You had four hundred and seven podcast instances of your nick really where they went on? Do you think they had a coordinator? Maybe four eighty because that's pretty in it.
Maybe for twenty Well, you know what, we can also wire the bathroom so you can continue. I heard enough coding here. Wow, help me, I can't pee? I mean, yeah, the.
Reason I asked you who about the you know, the practical advice. I was talking to a coordinator one time and they said something interesting. They said, you know, in this world of modern dating, and we were talking about how do you know you have consent? And they said, you have to get rid of the mindset that you and I grew up.
With which was running the basis.
Oh, I got the first base, I got the second base, I got the third base. I was on the day they got the second base, and they said, that is where you get people who are caught up in the passion of a moment and they kind of they do, they do more than they're going to be comfortable with the next day. And that coordinator said to me, a really good practice for now is if you're on a date and it's becoming intimate and you're kissing, you know, they said, just save enjoy that savor.
Don't push it to be the next thing.
It's the hormone that runs away with you, especially with someone you are just beginning to I.
Never had that problem because a large nose, pimples and a pompadoor the only thing, Oh God, are usually she pictures me at eighteen nineteen twenty. Yeah, you just say, because then I kind of there's a minute in time, so you know what I mean. But yeah, the pimples went away, and then I got buffed for a little bit, uh not lasted not long.
And then yeah, I always tell the story.
I had braces from the time I was eight until I was eight nine years so seventeen right, eight to seventeen.
They come off. I go to the gym because.
I got a date that night, and I take a shower at the gym and I'm tweling off my hair on I realized for the first time I have a bolt spot the size of a dixie cup at the time, Are you kidding?
I don't get a day. Yes, and there you go, David, google him.
No one I.
Would rather be more intimate with than you. Was that should? That was that? Should? I not have said that? By God?
Was that too? I might have might have heard a weird very neat if something happened. Something happen so.
Well, first of all, I think I want to be a trailblazer as a prostate ordator.
I think I think Hollywood.
Can could use that.
David, what else you got for it?
Well, that was a big thing. I know you have a big, big game that you wanted to play.
I have a little game for you.
I gotta quick.
I got a quick game. I'm gonna na.
Yeah, hold on, Peter, let me check you. Let me check you our present coordinator.
I got a Jack Peter today. He said, I'm good, okay, good, all right?
I'm going to be I'm an actor and actress.
You tell me if they have ever appeared nude in a film, television show, or stage play.
All right, all right, the nude being like full nudity, like some degree of exposure. Samuel L.
Jackson, Damuel Jackson nude. I bet he has.
No, I don't think so.
He has never appeared nude. Daniel Radcliffe, Oh yeah, yes, yes, I'm Broadway.
Very good, Peter, very very good. Anna Kendrick, No, David.
No, no, Anna Kendrick is absolutely will not do it.
Chris Pine, Yes, boy, what.
I'm gonna say now, I'm gonna say no, just to say no.
It was Chris Pine in Outlaw King Full front of wh Julia.
Roberts, No, in the body double for Pretty Woman, you know that.
Yeah, No, you're absolutely right. She has never appeared in nude. Jessica Alba No, no, no, she absolutely does not.
Mark Ruffalo yes'. Mark was making now somewhere.
A movie called in the cut.
He looks like a guy who says, can I write this nude?
YEA Oscarion, Yes, yes, I think I've seen him.
Oscar Isaacon scenes from a Marriage Thompson, Yes, yes, Emma Thompson, Good luck to you, Leo Grande, and our final one, Megan Fox.
Just because because you would think yes, I'm gonna say no.
Wait wait wait wait, but just before you do that, Peter, we've got I think we've gotten him all right now, so this is for a perfect game.
I thinks somebody missed on miss.
Oh did you?
But it should be a yes, but I'll be guessing.
You know, I'm gonna say a no for her because she had the Transformers experience she has.
Not done there.
You go very well playing boys, and thank you for the quich and thank you for being part of Really No, Really.
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Has an X rated film ever won an Academy Award for Best Motion Picture. We'll hold your horses, Cowboy. I'll answer that in a moment, but first let's thank our guests. You who to Duenyas. For more info on his work as a coordinator, visit his website yeahudah Intimacy dot film. For his directing experience, you can visit Xxxhuda dot com and on Instagram, he is at underscore x Underscore x
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Question has an X rated film ever won the Academy Award for Best Picture, Well, I can tell you that the sweet spot for Best Picture winners seems to be the R rating. So many R rated films have nabbed the top honor, including The Godfather, Platoon, rain Man, The Silence of the Lambs, Shindler's List, Glady Eat, No Country for Old Men, and twelve years of sleep. So clearly, war, murder, blood,
and human suffering are all viable for the Oscars. Also, somewhat notably, only one G rated picture has ever won Best Film. That would be the nineteenth sixty eight film version of the Broadway musical Oliver, as adapted from the original Charles Dickens novel. So R rated and g rated made the cut. But what about X Well, Yes, one
X rated film did in fact win Best Picture. One year after Oliver brought home those top honors for G rated films, The X rated feature Midnight Cowboys starring Dustin Hoffman and John Voight, won the Best Picture award.
In nineteen sixty nine. Nice.
The film is about a touching bromance between Joe Buck, a Texas dishwasher who moves to New York to seduce his way into the heart of a wealthy dowager, only to find himself trying to survive alongside a colorful street hustler.
Named ratso Rizzo.
It's the stuff Hollywood dreams are made of, and awarded for X extremely rarely really and a really is production of Blaise Entertainment