Aww yeah! Real lifers, global citizens, this is Izzy from RealLife English, where it is our mission to guide you beyond the classroom to speak English confidently and naturally. to connect to the world, and to actually use your English as a doorway to the life of your dreams. If you watch this lesson until the end, you'll learn what is the number one reason why some people have succeeded learning English, but you haven't.
Yes, because maybe you have that one friend who puts as much effort as you do, but they have succeeded and you haven't yet. What's happening there? No matter how many times you try, every year you start over, every month you try a new method, you can't seem to stay consistent.
And today, I'm gonna help you not just know the information of why, but really change the way you think about English because that's the only way you'll be successful. And I'll give you some tips at the end so you can start taking action today. Okay, so let me tell you right off the bat.
What is the number one reason why successful people succeed? That is, they have a strong need to learn English. Now, I just said the expression right off the bat, which means instantly, immediately, at the very beginning. right off the bat here that's the reason now if you feel that you do have a strong need but you're not making progress let me tell you that you don't have a strong need it's not strong enough I've had students in the past who did have that strong purpose.
And that motivated them and that pushed them to achieve their goals. Because if they didn't, they would lose money, they would waste time. For example, there was one guy who applied for a master's degree, you know, to study in French. And he had to not only take an exam, but there would be a conversation exam, you know, an oral test. And he'd have to speak with this person, the teacher, for 10, 15 minutes. Now in order to achieve that, We had conversation classes and that pushed him forward.
to the point that he was really fluent by the end of our little program and he would use his English there you know so he knew that it was not only important for the tests but in order to for him to live his English at college there in France. This is why we say on this podcast that you need to use your English as a doorway to the life of your dreams. It's not just, you know, a motto, like a thing, we say like a slogan. This is essential. If you don't do that...
You don't succeed same thing happened with me. I've shared in previous lessons that I had a dream to study in Vancouver Canada to go to college Canada in order to do that which I didn't ultimately do I actually went to Seattle which is close it's a city in the United States to work there but it was close enough you know I was happy with it and what pushed me to get there was exactly the goal you know and then the goal created all this lifestyle for me
that I was suddenly living my English. We call that lifestyle English. It's like doing the things that you would do in your own native language, but doing those things in English. So I mentioned that one student that I had who went to France. but i've had other students too and in fact like all the ones that were successful had a strong purpose so this other guy wanted to become a pilot like an airplane pilot
And they need to learn English, right? Because they speak English. You've probably heard that when you're on a plane. Good afternoon. This is your captain speaking with just a little flight information. And he did it. So same thing it pushed him to get there. So the first thing that I ask you to reflect on is what is your dream really? And don't just say like to get a new job, although that is a very nice start.
But think what is behind that dream as well, because that will really ground it and really give it more roots. Think about it right now. What is your dream that is related to English? And how can you pursue it? because it's not just about pursuing English learning it's pursuing a dream which makes you just commit more so in my own example that I wanted to go to college in Canada
It was not just learning English so I can do that. I committed by going to college fairs here in my city, exchange program, conventions. If you look... If this is something that interests you, go and look. I bet that close to you, maybe not in your city, but in a neighbor's city, there's probably something like that happening once or twice a year. And you go there and you get to speak English with people, you get to see the options, you know how much it costs.
Don't think that your dreams are too far away. That is something that I just like dove into the process of achieving my goals by not bothering whether or not they were impossible. I just wanted to know if they were at all possible and how much it would cost what it would take for me to get there. I discovered for some of those dreams that yeah they were practically impossible you know they would cost like almost like millions of uh highs which is the currency in brazil which is ridiculous right
but at least that gave me the awareness so i could look for the actual viable options the word viable means possible right like the possible so there's a quote that i just think is perfect for this that is a strong why can bear almost anyhow have you heard that before the word bear in this quote by the way is not the animal it's to support like to endure to put up with
It's the same thing I can put up with to support, to be able to go through something. So if you have a strong enough why, It'll be able to support you through any process, any how. the word how is related to process in this case. And by the way, I've been using some expressions here like right off the bat, right, to bear, to put up with, and all of these are
Advanced expressions and I'm gonna use more in this lesson because I'm feeling really loose, right? This is a solo lesson and my second solo lesson on this podcast I may not explain all of them so if you don't want to get lost when I use these expressions and if you also want to integrate them into your own vocabulary
So you can speak like this, like I'm doing right now. A great way for you to do that is on a real life app where you can watch these lessons and practice with all this vocabulary with our own flashcards.
i'm going to leave the link in the description below so you can continue watching it from there right now just click or you can search for real life english on your favorite app store so i'll see you there okay so now that you know what is this number one reason as i'm calling it let's understand why that's the case because i'm not just saying this today like oh this is the number one reason and then tomorrow i'll say there's another number one reason
I don't do that. I'm pretty consistent with my beliefs and I'm telling you, if you focus on this, you'll succeed. So there is a little bit of a story that I came up with that I created that I think helps making this point. So imagine this situation. Somebody forces you to walk 20 kilometers today. They say, you're going to walk 20 kilometers or I'll hurt you. And they force you to do that. You're going to be feeling maybe a little bit miserable.
uh you know by the end of that very long walk you're going to be super tired and just not feeling very good but If you travel to your favorite place on Earth, you know, as a tourist, and then you do a walking tour, that you end up walking 20 kilometers total. You know, you look at your smartwatch at the end and go, wow, 20 kilometers.
in that situation you wouldn't be feeling miserable at all right you'd be feeling great you'd be feeling like tired maybe but that it was worth it now The reason why these two situations, the effort was the same, but the outcome was different was just because of meaning. I believe that as human beings, one of the biggest things that we need to keep track of is meaning. You know, how we are attached or assigning meaning to things and how much we are pursuing the things that are meaningful to us.
I believe that's where happiness lies, that's where happiness is, is within the things that have more meaning to us. There's another piece of scientific fact that I think supports this, that is If you try to teach children Something that they don't know why they're learning that like math in school if they don't know why that's important They're gonna struggle you know and there's research back in this app supporting
showing why it's true and that happens to us all not just children to adults as well if we don't dig deep on why that's important For us, ultimately, we may not do it at all. And that's why the real-life way or method for teaching focuses a lot on practical use of the language instead of just theoretical. Another way to illustrate this that I think is just perfect...
the following little story. Imagine you're at college and you need to learn how to use certain tools. You need to learn about tools like a screwdriver or a wrench for fixing objects like mechanical stuff. Now what is the best way to learn about that? would it be by taking a course on each tool it sounds like it'd be like that right like people take courses on stuff like we have there's english courses music courses right on any topic you like
But I'm going to tell you that is actually not the best way. And it's not even the way that we naturally learn. The best way would be, for example, if I invited you to fix a car engine. And in the process of fixing that engine, we would be using the tools and I'd be telling you, hey, grab this tool and do this with it. And then we start fixing it with those tools and by the end of it, we will have learned one application at least for each one of those tools.
Now you're not going to have learned all the applications but that one application would be so deeply engraved in your mind like you just have internalized the use of that.
completely that your knowledge would have become a wisdom. I like to think as knowledge as the difference between knowledge and wisdom as like wisdom is when you have the capacity to use it to do something productive something good to you with that knowledge that piece of knowledge otherwise it just becomes information right and this is why there's another quote
That just fascinates me how it makes you change the way you view learning English or learning anything. Here's a quote. Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire. A pail is like a bucket, like a bucket that you can fill with water. So education, that is learning, is not filling a bucket with water, with information, with just knowledge.
Education is the lighting of a fire. Now, what does that mean? If you think about the symbolic representation of that. A fire transforms, right? Like water accumulates. Accumulating information doesn't do much.
you know because it used to be more of the same and um it'll not transform now fire does transform and the approach to learning that i just shared you know about the car engine and learning why something matters and learning how to use it is what I'm talking about here because it's the understanding of the purpose behind the knowledge that will help you feel motivated to apply that knowledge in a meaningful way.
Now to close the lesson, I'm going to give you some practical tips on how to apply these ideas, how to seek real opportunities in your life to pursue your dreams, the dreams related to English learning. So first of all, there's my own story. I wanted to study somewhere else in another country and what I did was looking for opportunities in my own city that I could connect with these institutions. outside. A lot of these activities, a lot of these tasks, these actions
didn't involve English necessarily. I was not speaking English all the time, but I was just getting more and more committed, more and more involved, and it was just taking over in my mind, right, and my thoughts, my dreams. So when I would arrive home, I'd be just so in the mood of watching a TV series because I was already within that whole vibe, that whole movement of learning English.
So I could live that reality. Now let's say you want to get a job where you're going to be using your English. What could you do? Maybe you could update your LinkedIn profile today if it's not yet to English. and write a summary of yourself like your profile summary in English as well so you can learn how to speak about yourself in English or you can start reading a book in your field in English
That's also going to be really helpful for you in your job interviews because all that knowledge may come up. Or let's say your dream is something a little bit more casual. You just want to travel.
What could you do? Well, start planning your trip. Have you started doing that yet? You know, maybe use Chach Petit to plan your trip. Know where you want to go, what places you want to visit. And just by, again, getting more and more committed around all these things, you're going to feel that pressure. Like, wait. I'm committing. I'm setting a deadline. I'm setting a date. Maybe I'm buying a flight ticket.
that's amazing if you do that you're gonna feel all that pressure you're gonna be really lighting that fire under you so you're gonna start moving so what else like maybe you want to start watching different videos of people who have gone to that place you want to go to
this is all really productive and let me remind you this is all related to that number one reason why the people who succeed do in fact succeed because at the end of the day what's really important is to find a way to make it happen
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