STARSTRUCK with Ally Lewber

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I got a light and I got anxiety from my mother and I love her, don't me.

Rock Being able to actually tap into yourself and that's why I love astrology.

It's not about me.

Going Okay, Alie, what's going on for you? It's right, but it's really thank you for this information. Now, how can I cultivate and learn how to really listen to my interior and take this information.

To say I knew I was on the right path.

So my past, like two serious boyfriends have had alcohol issues and I was talking to my therapist. My dad, by the way, died when I was eleven from alcohol related things. I would never have connected this, but she was like, you're trying to save your dad. Hello Starlit, I'm Ali, and welcome to my new podcast, Starstruck. Every week, an in person guest joins me as we delve into the most intriguing aspects of their birth chart at open Mind.

Ooh, great question.

So I my mom is big in astrology, she loves her Tarot cards. I have a tarot car tattoo, like, oh my gosh, let me see.

Oh I can't. I would pay, I would be showing it up, but I'll show you after. It was my first tattoo. No way, I just gave what tarot card is this strength? Oh my god.

I just resonated it with something my sister and I got together because it reminded of as our mom. And it's just I've always grown up knowing that this existed.

But it doesn't mean I have to identify with anything, which is what I really loved. And I use astrology as a yes and right like.

It doesn't dictate my life, but it's a part of my life like so many other things.

I love that it's a tool. It's all tools, and it's fun and it's you know.

It's cosmic guidance one hundred percent. I think where it becomes where I start to see the pendulum swing. Of course, like dating relationship coach, I talk to people every day.

I love to use it to learn about ourselves, like attachment. Selves like anything else, empower you. But when we start to do like I don't date cap or chorns. So it's like you.

No, I agree with you completely. I mean, we can make those jokes. I get that there's like the fun part of astrology that's like that. But I believe that we're all compatible. I think everybody's compatible. We can obviously vibe with energy is better than others. But it's all about learning how to connect to one another and how we can connect to ourselves. So that's the key. But at the end of the day, astrology should connect all

No, because there's twelve signs and nine billion people, right, there's a ratio.

Thank you math.

Yeah.

And also we all have every sign in us, like we all are. We have every zodiac sign in our charts. You know, it's just about where the energy is heavy.

I'm excited for this. I had my chart read a year, no, like a summer twenty twenty three.

Oh okay, and it was I remember her birth chart reading, birchar reading okay, and she was.

It was a party and they were like, she's amazing. You should go. I was like, sign me up. You really don't have to say more than that to me.

I'm the same, and I remember she was just like looking at it and it was I had just started my career like five months prior, and she was like, the next year is going to be the biggest for your career. And then like clockwork, she was not wrong. Everything was amazing.

And then the.

Day that I got my season desists on the name of my podcast was the day that the transition happened and it was no longer in that house.

So I am really excited to see what's upcoming.

Okay, wow, Okay, so I know that you you've already had your rchuret red. I'm not going to go over then all the basics with you. I think let's get let's do your big three. Let's like do a little like you know, okay, brush up on it that I've been settying your virture. And I am really excited. And let me just start by saying, like you're in the perfect career, Like I'm so proud of you. Are you from La.

No, I'm from Florida, originally moved to New York.

Okay, yeah, that's why I knew it was like somewhere east coast. Let's start with the sun. Okay, that's of course, it's where we shine, it's where we feel our best, it's where we feel happiest. And you're a Taurus son, you get to have nice things in life. Taurus is ruled by Venus. It is the planet that loves nice things. It's a planet that's here to spoil us. And it

I've definitely I thought I can relate to and I feel because I.

Love to give really beautiful things like I love to I like people to feel what I feel, to feel loved, to feel adored, to.

Feel really special.

And I think for me, I've never been somebody like we never grew up buying nice things, like it was just not.

My parents were very like, you work your ass off for this one day, you'll be able to get it yourself totally. So that yeah, I feel that.

I feel that too. I mean, I grew up privileged, I grew up grateful, We had nice things, but but it was always ingrain to me. I grew up this single mom, and it was always ingrained to me. You know, like you have to have your own finances, You have to work really really hard to get the things that you want in life. Capricorn Taurus energy. It's like we're out here working, okay, but we are having fun too. Okay,

There.

We are love. We tend to have our moon signs, tend to be resident with our mom's sun's sign a rising sign. It's wild. You're an extrame of your mother. She passed down her Leo bright light to you, and now you are an extension of her, and you're meant to shine not just for yourself, but there's a piece of her with you too. And she is your biggest fan, and I love that she's literally here right now and

I thank you. I was like I got I got a light and I got anxiety for my mother and I love her. Don't get me wrong, but I did get both.

But I find it interesting what you're saying because I have two Scorpio siblings, and that was talk about a monkey wrench thrown in and then there was me and they were both older than me. Okay, so it was a lot of me who can yell? Allowed us to get the attention who can compete against?

Right?

It was a very chaotic, loud household with just variables, but it's very true. Like I love my mom to the moon and back, and I feel like kinship connection yeah right, Yeah, like telepathic almost for sure.

Well, my past life was fashion too. I worked. I have a clothing line.

Yeah, so it's like, yeah, it's right. And honestly, taurists too. Just having that Venus World sun, it's like you just have good taste, so like you're gonna do something with it, right, Like it's the Leo moon, but then it's the tourist sun also. I find that's just sweet.

Can you just do me a favor and just like come around with me all the time and just let me know how to be in your pocket perfect, Like this is your Leo Moon.

You're shining, baby, Yes, you're shining always. I will say the moon is not the easiest planet. It rules ocean tide, so it's a wave. But what you need to just always remember is that you are the sun. That's your naile, like, that's your that's your birthright, that's your energy. But it's meant to be seen. Now where the moon is living and your chart specifically, this is the part of the chart that's the most spiritual. It's the twelfth house and

I've learned that over the years.

Like especially a question I get all the time is like how do I know it's my gut and intuition versus my anxiety?

Right?

For me, typically, like the anxiety comes with like this body sensation and narrative right of like maybe I'll get like chest palpitations or my heart will get heavy, and then I'll start to reel of like I knew you were too much, there's something wrong.

Oh my god, they're not going to like you.

Versus intuition is a very calming This doesn't feel right right, and it's like I feel it's a different place. It's a very guttural in my belly, not anxiety and it's like this, this doesn't feel right, or you need to move or you know, I lived in New York for twelve years just walking around. You had to learn to listen to your body because you could maybe not right if you were just spaced out and walking around and not paying attention and there's someone following you, or right

And that's not good.

No.

Yeah, it's like that's the part of us that's fear fear based and the ego based, and it's like we want to get rid of all of that so we can listen to our truest, our true selves. That's fascinating because I always have have difficulties differentiating like, oh my god, am I as anxious? Or is this a sign? And then I'll be like Okay, you knowse give me a sign if it's this or that, and then it just makes it worse. Like I'm working on just trusting and

There's because it comes usually there's like a pattern associated with it, right, Like if we look at how many times, especially like when I was dating, Right, it's just the easiest example to use. But when I was dating and I would be it was the same thing consistently, right, Like they didn't text me. I'm now creating narratives. I'm filling in the blank. The story I'm telling myself is this. I now like I can't sleep, I can't eat. It's

Ah? Yes, I love that. And by the way, the Twelfth House rules things like meditation. It's it's like where Buddhist monks live. Okay, so like that's the twelve House. It's very e prey love, so like we're meant to tune in. That's your moon is living there. So yeah, like what you're saying is you already know how to listen to that, but like if you didn't, that's where

I'm pretty good at that.

I was gonna say, because you have a very social sun and moon. You're still a Leo moon, so you're still meant to connect and be social, but you need your alone time absolutely more than no.

Negotiable, no negotiable. Like I for so long thought I was extroverted, and I'm like I am, No, I don't like people. That actually became pretty clear for me. I actually don't like being around people. I don't get energized. I enjoy yeah, yep, and learning, learning, but like small talk for volity, like no spare me, send me home. I'm in bed by eight. I'm up at four, Like, leave me alone. I'd rather just stay home and watch a movie or listen to music. The twelve thousand is really creative.

What's funny you say that.

I was just telling my partner yesterday, I'm like, man, all of my life, what do I remember? Because we were talking about something in high school and I just said, oh, yeah, I got in trouble because I used to I'm aging myself. I used to bring my CD player here we are right, I was bring my CD player to school and I had my headphone that was like trailing through my shirt, and I'm get in trouble. But I remembered consistently. I was like, what was the path? I always turned to music?

Music was like I had a.

Very i'll just say chaotic upbringing, Like I did not have a healthy environment. We did, and we had a really tough father who was showing that in multiple different ways that were not conducive for a healthy environment. I'll just say that. And music was my escape. Music was my way to reconnect with myself and to come back into my body because it allowed me to just be for a second and quiet the chatter and focus on something else. So that doesn't surprise. That's how you nurture yourself.

That's beautiful.

Yeah, me and my headphones were bff, right walks every day, that bilateral movement, Like, I love to connect in different ways. And I think that also that Taurus feeling really feeling your body. Yeah, comfort is important to you, and safety is important to you.

I never had it.

And with the moon in the twelfth by the way, there's going to be there already has been. We know that. You just said that a lot of lessons around Okay, how do I nurture myself and how do I create my safe place? So for you like finding those little moments of joy that like you're like, wait, I'm safe.

It's just me.

Like I can go list music and I can do this and the twelfth House if you go googling it. Yet people tend to fear it, but I love it. But it's because most people don't want to do the work. They don't want to go deep and they don't want to go see therapist or learn about you know, they don't want to quiet outside noise. They'd rather like escape and turn to drugs or alcohol or watch TV, which is fine for a little bit, and then eventually we gotta you know, listen to ourselves.

Which you resist, persist the more you ignore, right, The more we like really ignore these noises, the more that that chatter comes. Like, especially when I was doing the work prior to that, I didn't want to. It was safer for me to stay in my patterns and then stay in my shit than it was for me to acknowledge that I actually did have control over my life, right, because I think we're so bred. Similar to astrology, what we were talking about in the beginning, you can look

Here bored right board, we're done? What else is there to do? Like if we're not growing? Yeah, And I agree even in astrology, I of course I believe in fixed fate. I believe we all have a destiny, but I do believe it one thousand percent in free will. And I think we're going to play out our destiny regardless, like we're going to get there. We're already there, we're doing it, we've been doing it, we're on the path. But we get to have free will and we don't

I love this girl, and it.

Validates us and it reminds us we're not crazy, Like we're right where we're meant to be. You having your moon in the twelfth house, I mean it was always your destiny. We can say that to have to go a little bit deeper than everyone else. Having the moon in the twelve house, it's an emotional responsibility, but like it's in Leo, so you have to share your experience with others and allow you know yourself to be vulnerable, what you're obviously doing, and making a difference doing that.

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