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Reality-Based Leadership

Cy Wakeman and Alex Dorrsites.libsyn.com
Reality-Based Leadership, hosted by NY Times best-selling author Cy Wakeman and her VP of People Evolution Alex Dorr, will give you the tools you need as a leader to ditch the drama, end entitlement, and drive big results in your workplace and worldplace. It is time to modernize your leadership approach. In each episode, you will learn practical ways to evolve yourself, lead your teams with love AND call them up to greatness each and every day.
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Episodes

#23: Forego Opinions to Focus on Expertise with Joe Topinka

Today I am so excited to introduce Joe Topinka to my podcast. He is the founder of CIO Mentor and CIO at SnapAV. Like me, he is an advocate for big change in the workplace. His philosophies align closely with mine and his ideas are invaluable to me. He also brings a fresh new perspective from the technology side of things. Listen in for more.

Jan 03, 201834 minSeason 1Ep. 23

#22: When a High Performer is High Drama

A couple months ago, Jonathan Solórzano-Hamilton, a software architect at UCLA, wrote a Medium article called "We fired our top talent. Best decision we ever made." It's no surprise it took off - to many people, that makes no sense at all. But it struck a chord with me. I know that no matter how high performing someone is, if they are high drama, they can't stay. I got to chat with Jonathan last week and this is the result our amazing conversation. Enjoy!

Dec 20, 201727 minSeason 1Ep. 22

#21: Expectancy vs. Expectations

In today's episode, I talk about why you should live your life with great expectancy instead of expectations. There's a big difference, so I want you to dive into it with me and see how drastically different it can make your day to day.

Dec 14, 201723 minSeason 1Ep. 21

#20: Accountability Is Not A Dirty Word

Accountability: it's a topic I bring up a lot because I believe it is one of the most misunderstood words in today's workplace. How do you measure for it? What is the end goal? And how do you introduce it to your company? I sat down with Jackie Froendt from Home Instead Senior Care to talk about all these things and so much more. Sidenote: we were meeting to film my new Facebook Watch show, Life's Messy Live Happy! Check out my Facebook to tune in to that as well.

Dec 07, 201713 minSeason 1Ep. 20

#19: Suffering Is Completely Optional

With the holidays approaching, and the added stress that can come with them, I thought I'd focus on one big topic of mine today: that suffering is completely optional. I don't say this to be insensitive or trite - it's just that so much of our suffering comes from stories we make up in our own head and not reality. In today's episode, I'll show you tools you can use to fix that and be stress free this holiday season.

Nov 30, 201733 minSeason 1Ep. 19

#18: Defusing Drama

This week, I'm taking you through the steps and actions that go into defusing drama and how you can do it in your own workplace or worldplace. It can feel daunting approaching drama, but through thoughtful questions and a few other tips I have for you, you'll be well on your way.

Nov 20, 201730 minSeason 1Ep. 18

#17: Inside Out Leadership with Robb Holman

Would you believe it if I told you that recent surveys suggest 90% of workers are ‘disengaged from their work?’ My friend, and guest on the podcast this week, Robb Holman, started with this alarming statistic, and has used it to inform his philosophies at Inside Out Leadership. Join us as we discuss the inherent problems facing today's leaders, and our ideas on how we can fix them.

Nov 06, 201735 minSeason 1Ep. 17

#16: Stop Enabling: The Best Way to Foster Accountability

In this week's episode, I answer the often asked question, “How do I make someone change?” with a surprising answer. You can’t make anyone do anything - but, you can stop enabling them. When you stop enabling your teammates, it 's the quickest way to ensure that their relationship with reality is a direct one and that they have the best information possible with which to make better decisions.

Nov 02, 201722 minSeason 1Ep. 16

#15: How to Start Change Without Leadership Buy-In

I got wind of a fan of who was starting their own reality-based leadership revolution at their company so I surprised them with a phone call. We managed to capture the conversation and get great tips on how to start from where you are, even if it's not a company sanctioned program.

Oct 23, 201721 minSeason 1Ep. 15

#14: Overcoming Impossible Obstacles with Ricardo Palomares

On this episode, I'm so excited to introduce you all to Ricardo Palomares, and international keynote speaker and author and one of the most inspiring people I have ever met. He's been faced with seemingly insurmountable hardship in his life but has always prevailed. I often speak about how true freedom is having nothing to lose. It's the perfect recipe for no ego moments. We broke down some of his standout stories from his life.

Oct 16, 201723 minSeason 1Ep. 14

#13: Business Readiness, Not Change Management

In this episode, the last of the exclusive book club calls, I talk about why I believe our approach to change management has been one of the biggest fuels of drama in the workplace. We are asking ourselves, how can change be least disruptive to our team? But what we should be asking is: how can we make change least disruptive to our business? By making sure our teams are always ready for what's next.

Oct 09, 201753 minSeason 1Ep. 13

#12: Exclusive No Ego Book Club Chat Part II

Another great episode for you guys today - last month I hosted a number of informal, exclusive, member only chats for everyone in my book club. Excited to share the second one with you all now, just for my podcast listeners! Listen in.

Oct 03, 201757 minSeason 1Ep. 12

#11: Honey Empire with VaynerMedia Chief Heart Officer Claude Silver

How do you build a company that values people over everything else? That is what Claude, Chief Heart Officer of VaynerMedia, is aiming to do. She is the heart of the 800 person advertising agency based in New York City, keeping a pulse on every single person. Our philosophies overlap so much, it was amazing to sit down with her and discuss ditching the drama and dropping the ego.

Sep 25, 201728 minSeason 1Ep. 11

#10: Ditching the Drama in Healthcare with Brent Phillips

You know those times when you get into an awesome conversation and then later you wish you had recorded it? Well, this time, I lucked out. I captured my entire conversation with Brent Phillips, president and CEO of Regional Health, a health system that serves the Black Hills of South Dakota. You get the opportunity to listen in - it was an amazing chat.

Sep 18, 201739 minSeason 1Ep. 10

#9: How Leaders Can Manage Energy with Craig Ross

Excited to be introducing you all to another guest today, Craig Ross. His new book, "Do Big Things", aligns so well with my philosophy around how leaders don't manage people, they manage energy. It's a leader's job to facilitate movement away from "why we can't" to "how we could". Tune in to today's episode for more!

Sep 11, 201723 minSeason 1Ep. 9

#8: The Positive Edge with Tina Hallis

In today's episode, I'm so excited to have my first guest ever join me in conversation. Tina Hallis is an author and professional speaker. Her philosophy "The Positive Edge" will help you see things in a positive light and reduce stress in your day to day.

Sep 05, 201721 minSeason 1Ep. 8

#7: Exclusive No Ego Book Club Chat Part I

In this episode, I'm switching things up a bit! Recently I had an exclusive call with all the members of my No Ego Book Club where I talked for a bit and answered questions. But the content was so good, I am now releasing it here for all of you to hear as well! Enjoy.

Aug 29, 201750 minSeason 1Ep. 7

#6: Go Be Great

For this episode today, I want to go a little bit deeper into how exactly you can get your team to understand what great looks like quickly. How can you say to your team with confidence "Go be great"? Tune in for more!

Aug 21, 201715 minSeason 1Ep. 6

#5: What Would Great Look Like?

In episode 5, I tell a story from my time as a leader in the healthcare system working with nurses. A nurse came to me and asked to speak with me and I knew venting was coming, thus I used one of my favorite techniques for self-reflection and getting people back on track: I called her up to greatness. If there's one question I ask people to get them out of ego and into self-reflection, it's this.

Aug 18, 201717 minSeason 1Ep. 5

#4: Stop Judging, Start Helping

In today's podcast, I talk about one of the core philosophies of my reality-based leadership: stop judging, start helping. It's integral for an organization to understand this to function without drama. Tune in and see how you can apply it to your workplace.

Aug 07, 201725 minSeason 1Ep. 4

#3: Your Natural State

This episode today is about what I believe to be my greatest idea, the discovery that I feel is my biggest contribution to society. That idea is this: happiness isn't something we pursue, it's our natural state once drama is gone. Listen to this episode for the full story.

Aug 01, 201716 minSeason 1Ep. 3

#2: The Power of Co-creation

Today, I want to talk about a concept called "Co-Creation". Most of us don't know we have the access to it and how important of a resource it can be in our day to day life.

Jul 26, 201712 minSeason 1Ep. 2

#1: Stop Believing Everything You Think

Your ego narrates the world in your favor. This means you're always getting a distorted interpretation of reality. Learn how to get mentally flexible and stop believing everything you think.

Jul 03, 201711 minSeason 1Ep. 1

Welcome to No Ego

Cy welcomes you to No Ego, where we teach you how to ditch the drama, end entitlement, and drive big results in your workplace and your worldplace.

Jun 27, 20172 min
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