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Real Mother Fuckers

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Real Mother F*ckers is hosted by Vanessa Anderson. Like you, she is real, a mom, and f’ups too. Join her in the adventure where she dissects, explores, and gets honest about parenting, relationships, marriage, career, mental health, caregiving conundrums and domestic work. She won’t air out all her dirty laundry but you’ll likely see a period panty in the mix.
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Where I go from here?

Podcasting is more than simply sharing stories or interviews; it’s an art that involves vulnerability, evolution, and the alignment of personal and creative identities. In this special and final episode, Vanessa and Stephanie delve deep into the journey of podcasting, the essence of motherhood, and personal growth. As they approach the end of this chapter, Vanessa introduces a new podcast, The Glimmer Radio, which aims to provide a platform for deeper exploration and healing, beyond just motherh...

Apr 08, 20251 hr 4 min

Kenedi Smith + Inside Surrogacy

Surrogacy, a topic often approached with a blend of awe and curiosity, emerges as a profound experience both emotionally and legally complex. In this illuminating episode, Vanessa dives deep into the intimate world of surrogacy with guest Kenedi Smith. Known for her heartfelt dedication to helping couples achieve their dream of becoming parents, Kenedi opens up about both the emotional and logistical complexities of her journey as a surrogate mother. From the initial motivations inspired by her ...

Jan 21, 20251 hr 6 min

Trevor Millar + Understanding Ibogaine

The allure of Ibogaine lies in its robust effect on addiction, notably its ability to eliminate opioid dependency virtually overnight, and its unique healing journey. In this episode, Vanessa goes inside the transformative world of psychedelic therapies with renowned expert Trevor Millar. Featured in the award-winning documentary "Dosed," he's renowned for his work with magic mushrooms and Ibogaine for treating addiction, anxiety, and depression. Focusing on the intriguing potential of Ibogaine—...

Jan 14, 202555 min

Shelley Rike Warde + Unlocking Self-Healing

In this episode, Vanessa welcomes back seasoned holistic practitioner Shelley Rike Warde. Building upon her vast expertise, Shelley dives deep into the intricate connections between body, mind, and soul, shedding light on topics like disease, holistic healing, and neural manipulation. Shelley emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and tuning into one's body language to overcome potential dis-ease. With an insightful exploration of the neural systems and sensory perceptions, this episode emp...

Jan 07, 202555 min

Tracy Gnojek + Sex As We Age + Tantra

In this engaging conversation, Vanessa Anderson (with special guest Stephanie Cooley) and Tracy Gnojek explore the multifaceted world of tantra, sexuality, and self-exploration. They discuss the evolution of sexual understanding from youth to adulthood, the importance of energy exchange in relationships, and the significance of touch and intimacy. Tracy shares her personal journey into becoming a neo-tantra educator, emphasizing the need for open communication about sexuality, especially with fu...

Nov 05, 20241 hr 4 min

Sarene Leeds + Beyond the Diagnosis: A Neurodivergent Journey

This episode explores the challenges and experiences of parenting a neurodivergent child, specifically a child diagnosed as twice exceptional. Sarene Leeds is a writer and also hosts the podcast “Emotional Abuse is Real”. In this episode, she shares her journey as a parent of a neurodivergent child and the challenges she has faced in finding the right support and resources. She emphasizes the importance of trusting your gut and advocating for your child's needs. Sarene shares her journey and the...

Oct 29, 20241 hr 7 min

Brittany MacDonald + Finding Our Voices Together Not Apart

The episode has guest Brittany MacDonald host of the podcast Sacred Resistance. It explores the importance of finding our voices and taking action to protect our rights. It emphasizes the need to be proactive and not just talk about issues, but do something about them. The conversation also touches on the erosion of freedom of speech and the polarization of society. It highlights the need to bridge the gap and find common ground while staying true to our beliefs. The conversation concludes with ...

Oct 22, 20241 hr 11 min

Minna Dubin + Author of Mom Rage: The Everyday Crisis of Modern Motherhood

In this conversation, Vanessa Anderson and author Mina Dubin, delve into the often unspoken topic of mom rage, exploring its causes, triggers, and the societal pressures that contribute to it. Mina shares her personal journey of writing about mom rage, the importance of open discussions among mothers, and the need for support networks. They discuss coping mechanisms, the impact of social media on perceptions of motherhood, and the significance of self-care. The conversation emphasizes the import...

Oct 15, 202443 min

Shelley Rike Warde + The Wisdom of the Body

In this conversation, Vanessa interviews Shelley Rike, a holistic health practitioner specializing in cranial sacral therapy. They discuss the history and techniques of energy therapies, the definition and benefits of cranial sacral therapy, and the common symptoms and conditions that can be addressed through this modality. They also touch on the importance of reconnecting with our true selves and the impact of modern lifestyles on our well-being. Shelley emphasizes the need to differentiate bet...

Oct 08, 202450 min

Kendra Potter + Finding My Birth Mother

Kendra and her friend Brooke Pepe created a documentary called Daughter of a Lost Bird, which follows Kendra's journey of looking for her birth mother and reconnecting with her Native American roots. The film captures the first phone call, the letter Kendra received, and their emotional meeting. Kendra's birth mother, April, was open to being in the film and has been supportive throughout the process. The documentary has been screened at film festivals and aired on PBS World Channel. It is curre...

Oct 01, 20241 hr 1 min

Angela Lundy + Human Design + Astrology

Angela is on a lifelong journey to live her life on purpose. After years of trying to find the one right way, she realized that we are all unique and everybody's path is different. Angela uses tools such as Astrology, Human Design, and Gene keys to continually rewrite her story and now she uses these systems to help her clients rewrite their stories and find their path to living on purpose. She is a Gemini Sun, Libra Moon, and Leo Rising. As a 6/2 Manifesting Generator, Angela lives a multi-pass...

Sep 24, 20241 hr 4 min

Scotti Taylor + Smith-Magenis Syndrome

Scotti Taylor gives us a glimpse on what Smith-Magenis Syndrome (SMS) is, a rare genetic disorder caused by a mutation or deletion on the 17th chromosome. She discusses the challenges of raising a child with SMS, including sleep issues, behavioral problems, and anxiety. Scotti emphasizes the importance of having a support system and being proactive in managing her daughter's symptoms. Scotti also highlights the need for more awareness and understanding of SMS in society. Scotti Taylor shares her...

Sep 17, 20241 hr 1 min

Tracey Yokas + Healing Eating Disorders

Tracey Yokas is the author of Bloodlines: A Memoir of Warm And Healing. She shares her journey of healing and self-discovery while supporting her daughter through an eating disorder and mental health challenges. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and the impact it has on our ability to support and care for others. Tracey also discusses the challenges she faced in her relationship with her husband and the process of finding common ground and healing together. She highlights the need for o...

Sep 10, 20241 hr

Gina Janc + Major Life Transitions

In this conversation, Vanessa interviews Gina Janc, a licensed marriage and family therapist, about the psychological impacts of major life transitions and the challenges parents face today. They discuss the importance of honoring both the grief and empowerment that come with transitions, finding stability and normalcy during times of change, and setting boundaries around social media use for children. Gina emphasizes the need for support systems, self-care practices, and faith/spirituality to n...

Sep 03, 20241 hr 5 min

Chanelle Carr + The Emotional and Physical Impact of Pelvic Floor Disorders

In this conversation, Vanessa and her Chanelle Carr discuss the topic of pelvic floor disorders, which affect many women after childbirth and men in middle age. They explore the symptoms, causes, and treatments for these disorders, as well as the emotional and physical impact they can have. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication and seeking professional help to address pelvic floor issues. Chanelle shares her personal journey of discovering and managing her own pelvic f...

Aug 27, 202442 min

Jim and Jamie Shields + Bringing Family Back

Jim and Jamie Shields, authors of the book 'The Family Board Meeting,' discuss the importance of quality time and one-on-one connections with children. They share their personal experiences of building a blended family and the impact of their family board meetings. The couple emphasizes the need for playfulness, trust, and open-mindedness in creating strong family bonds. They also offer advice on resetting and restarting family traditions when life gets busy. In this conversation, Jim and Jamie ...

Aug 20, 202458 min

Rose Rossi + Growing up in Hollywood

Rose Rossi, a Hollywood artist, shares her experiences growing up in the entertainment industry. She talks about her parents' careers, meeting famous actors as a child, and the challenges of being a child actor. She also discusses the pressure to keep up with the affluent lifestyle in Hollywood and the emotional toll of pursuing a career in acting. Rose reflects on her own journey in the industry and the decision to pursue music as well. She shares anecdotes about working as a kids party enterta...

Aug 13, 202458 min

Rachel Tenpenny + Emotional Well Being Expert

The conversation explores the complexities of grief and its impact on various aspects of life. It delves into the experience of loss, the process of healing, and the multifaceted nature of grief. The guest, Rachel Tenpenny McGonigle, shares insights on identifying, understanding, and navigating grief, offering valuable perspectives and practical steps for healing and growth. The conversation delves into the complexities of grief and loss, exploring the impact on individuals and families. It addr...

Aug 06, 20241 hr 2 min

Stephanie Seege+ Influencer + Coach

In this conversation, Vanessa interviews Stephanie Seege also known, also known as the Sticky Fairy, who creates funny and uplifting sticky note quotes. If you want to laugh, this is the episode for YOU! Stephanie shares her journey of healing and finding joy through her creative work. They discuss the power of laughter, the importance of being authentic, and the role of humor in overcoming challenges. Stephanie also talks about the inspiration behind her sticky notes and how she receives ideas ...

Jul 30, 20241 hr 29 min

Logan Cooper + Trauma Therapist

The conversation explores the topic of anger and rage in motherhood, discussing its origins and how to manage it in a friendly and understanding way. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, highlighting the importance of understanding and channeling anger in a healthy way. They also discuss the societal expectations placed on mothers and the need for support and recognition. The conversation touches on the evolution of conscious motherhood and the freedom for women to choose their own...

Jul 08, 20241 hr 8 min

Raena Boston + Working Mothers (Paid Leave Advocacy)

Raena Boston is a Co-Founder of Chamber of Mothers, a writer, and a firm believer that “doing it all is a big scam.” This episode covers the topics of motherhood, paid leave, and the challenges faced by working mothers. It delves into the impact of paid leave on the mental health and well-being of mothers, the need for support and advocacy for mothers, and the societal expectations and guilt associated with motherhood. It delves into the need for mothers to push back against these outside world ...

Jul 01, 202444 min

Shelly Mazzanoble + creativity cultivator

Dungeons and Dragons (D&D) is a fantasy tabletop role-playing game that focuses on storytelling and collaboration. It can be played in person or online and has gained popularity through shows like Stranger Things. D&D allows players to create characters and go on adventures together, with one player acting as the dungeon master who guides the story. The game offers a safe space for creativity, problem-solving, and social interaction. It has been used therapeutically and as a tool for sel...

Jun 24, 20241 hr 4 min

Julie Margaret Martella + Navigating Widowhood

How do you finally do life after the loss of your spouse? In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Julie Margaret Martella, a resilient woman who has turned her personal tragedy into a source of inspiration and guidance for others. Julie opens up about her journey through widowhood, sharing the emotional and practical challenges she faced after the loss of her spouse. She offers profound insights on coping with grief, finding strength in solitude, and rebuilding a fulfilling life after loss. ...

Jun 17, 20241 hr 13 min

Mallory Kilgore + Sturge-Weber Syndrome

This episode explores a mother whose child has been diagnosed with Sturge-Weber Syndrome, a rare neurological and skin disorder characterized by a facial birthmark and can also include, neurological abnormalities. In this episode, Mallory Kilgore will take us through her family’s journey, from the initial signs and diagnosis to the everyday challenges and triumphs they encounter. She’ll share her insights on navigating the healthcare system, managing treatments and therapies, and finding the rig...

Jun 10, 202453 min

Holly J. Moore + custody and divorce lawyer

If you’re in a happy marriage or relationship, we still recommend listening to this episode. Holly has worked on high profile divorce cases with professional athletes and celebrities and has seen the messiest of situations. But it doesn’t matter how much money and status you have – Holly shares the most common thread for divorce and it may surprise you. We love Holly because she gets real with us on the divorce and separation process. We bust myths, we learn about the brutal length of the divorc...

Jun 03, 20241 hr 5 min

Ali Vingiano + creativity cultivator

Ali has an impressive imaginative fire in her and she joined us to share how she makes that creativity spark. She is a TV writer (Apple TV’s The Morning Show), director + producer (Comedy Central, BuzzFeed) & the creator of writeandflow.com. This episode is for nearly everyone. You don’t need a title as an artist to be creative. We think everyone has room for a little extra creativity, whether it’s doodling in your journal, writing a funny caption to your IG post, watercolor painting, or jus...

May 27, 20241 hr

A Mother’s Truth About Down Syndrome

This interview is a testament to the power of authenticity and vulnerability, as Anna Alcorn fearlessly opens up about the realities of raising a child with Down syndrome. Her story is a beacon of hope for parents facing similar challenges, reminding us all of the beauty and resilience that lies within every individual, regardless of ability. RESOURCES ndss.org www.dsasdonline.org FOLLOW www.realmotherfuckerspodcast.com https://www.instagram.com/realmotherfuckerspodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/...

May 20, 20241 hr 22 min

Steph leaves the pod

Hey Mother Fuckers, this is Steph. I’m bowing down from the podcast and Vanessa will keep it alive as a solo podcaster. In this episode, we talk about our business divorce, why I decided to leave, and I answer Vanessa’s lingering questions. I’ve read that this sort of a breakup is called a “conscious uncoupling” and I like the sentiment. I’m just glad to have my old friendship with Vanessa again. I’ll transition out slowly from the pod so you will see me on interviews over the next couple of mon...

May 13, 20241 hr 4 min

Lindsay Byron, Lux ATL + stripper with a PhD

Lux ATL is a former stripper with a PhD in literature. If you're feelin' fancy, you may call her Dr. Lindsay Byron even though she ditched professor life to focus on being an author, a podcaster, a mom of two, a wife, and she hosts world class retreats teaching women sensual movement. Lux ATL turns societal norms upside down and we love her for it. Through her thought-provoking content and captivating storytelling (literally, we were on the edges of our seats when she spoke to us), she inspires ...

May 06, 20241 hr 7 min

Reyna Beckler + imposter syndrome

Reyna Beckler runs a thriving yoga studio (also our first sponsor!!!) and has built a loyal customer base yet she has dealt with a phenomenon many of us encounter: imposter syndrome. According to a VeryWell mind article, it “is the psychological experience of feeling like a fake or a phony despite any genuine success that you have achieved. It can show up in the context of work, relationships, friendships, or just overall.” Imposter syndrome can affect anyone. Reyna shares her life story to remi...

Apr 29, 20241 hr 20 min
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