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RAISING HER CONFIDENTLY | Connecting with Teens, Parenting Styles, Family Communication, Raising Teen Daughters

Jeannie Baldomero | Parenting Teens Coach Inspired by Brene Brown, Mark Gregston, Gary Chapmanwww.jeanniebaldomero.com
Do you want to have open communication with your teen daughter? Do you find yourself up late at night constantly thinking about how to talk to your teen or why she’s not opening up to you? Do you wake up with confident intentions only to feel confused and frustrated when you get 1-word answers from your daughter or instead of the deep conversations you hoped to have, you end up in a yelling match? Hi, I’m Jeannie. I think back to when I was 13. I was that teenage girl you are googling about! Rebellious, hard to figure out, “hard-headed” as my mom would call me. She even said, “I don’t even know who you are anymore!” Several years later, I too found myself raising young teens. I too felt grieved by the loss of my sweet talkative little girl! I wanted her to come to me about anything even if she was scared and listen to my advice. My passion for healthy families as a former educator, a homeschooling family for several years, and a zeal to impact young teen girls has led me to train in the Coach Model and partner with moms like you and guide them to create safe, healthy relationships with their teens. In this podcast, I share tools and resources to help improve communication with your teen girl and strengthen your relationship with her. I’m providing you ways to talk to your teen through relationship-building exercises to make intentional connections, establish boundaries to create that safe space, and build a trust-worthy community of healthy friends and influence to confidently get you through this season of raising a teen girl. So grab that oat milk latte and let’s raise her confidently together! You can find me here: Work with me: www.talktyourteengirl.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisingherconfidently/ Podcast: www.raisingherconfidently.com
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Episodes

42\\ 3 Easy Ways to Get Your Teen Girl Talking

The number one need for moms of teens is getting their girl to talk to them. You likely desire open communication with your teenage daughter too. Today I share 3 easy ways to get your teen girl talking! Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it. Who are in the weeds too. Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls. We need each other to vent, laugh, encoura...

May 22, 202319 min

41\\ Feeling Guilty About Working Too Much? 4 Ways to Connect With Your Teen Girl on Limited Time

Hey working mom, Are you feeling guilty because you spend hours at work and not enough time at home? Do you worry you work too much and are not paying attention to your teenage daughter? Mama, We spend so much time worrying about spending time with our girls, and we blame our work status for it! I’m sharing 4 ways you can connect even as a working mom! Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other ...

May 17, 202312 min

40\\ 3 Questions to Ask Yourself When Letting Go of Your Teenage Daughter’s Choices

Do you find your teen daughter only tells you what you want to her but leaves out other important things you’d like to know? Does she get annoyed when you ask too many questions? Does your girl inform you that she’ll tell you things when she needs to? Mama, you did a great job training her up, but why does it hurt so much when she won’t share with you? Maybe she’s telling you she’s got it. In this episode I’m sharing 3 questions to ask yourself when it’s time to start letting go of your teen dau...

May 15, 202319 min

39\\ Live Mom Mentoring: Struggling with Being Shut Out of Your Daughter’s Life? 3 Ways to Change Your Approach

Mama, Have you felt shut out by your teen girl's life? Does she only share what she wants to reveal with you even when you there is more? Are your struggling with how to open up dialogue with topics she clearly does not want to talk about? Are you wondering what boundaries do you need to respect and what you have a right as a parent to know? You are in for a treat! I am addressing these same concerns Sarah, mom of 5, 4 of which are teenage daughters, on today's episode as I mentor her through he...

May 10, 202324 min

38\\ What is a Mom Mentor? 3 Ways You Can Benefit From One to Help Talk to Your Teen Daughter

Friend, I know how hard it is to raise a teenage daughter and feeling all alone while doing it. As a mom, we give ourselves this label that we must be doing something wrong if we don’t know exactly what we are doing. We should just know, right? What if I told you, we are created to not do it alone, to not try and figure it out all on our own, and the expectations that we seemingly put on ourselves is a lie. It’s a way to hide and deal with it all on our own feeling shameful for wanting help or e...

May 08, 202314 min

37\\ 4 Secrets to Healthy Conversations Beyond the Attitude for Moms of Teen Girls

Mama, Are you tired of your teen girl giving you attitude when you ask her a simple question? Do you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around her wondering if she’ll burst out in emotions? Or at any moment you will burst out if you have to take one more disrespectful response from your daughter? I’m sharing 4 secrets to healthy conversations beyond the attitude. You’ll want to listen in & take notes! Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and cr...

May 03, 202320 min

36\\ 3 Tips for Moms of a Teenage Daughter Who is Scared to Talk to You

Has your daughter ever told you that she was too scared to bring something up to you? Have you ever wondered why your girl would be so scared to talk to you? Or too scared to tell you something really hard and personal? Today’s episode, I will talk about why your girl may be holding back, what you can do to help close that gap of fear so that over time, she’ll know she can come to you! Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and create a safe space for h...

May 01, 202323 min

35\\ Is Your Daughter Struggling to Know Her Value? 4 Ways to Talk to Your Teen About it.

Mom, Do you wish your daughter knew her own value? Do you struggle watching her do things that you know if not her? Do you see her pretending to be this other person just to fit in with the “friends”? As her mom, you just want her to be herself. You want her to stop pretending and become the girl you raised her to be. In this episode, I share 4 ways to talk to your teenage girl about these concerns you see happening to her. Need to book a mentor call with Jeannie? 1:1 Mom Mentor Call Are you a m...

Apr 26, 202319 min

34\\ Your Daughter is Having a Hard Time Making Friends. 5 Ways Mom of Teen Girls Can Guide Her.

Mom, Is your girl having a hard time making friends? Do you worry your girl is hanging out with the wrong crowd who is only using her? Are you concerned she is struggling with friendships? In this episode, I share 5 ways mom of teen girls can guide their daughters who are having a hard time making friends. Need to book a mentoring call? 1:1 Mom Mentoring Call Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and create a safe space for her to come to so she gets t...

Apr 24, 202323 min

33\\ What Happens Now that Your Relationship Has Changed with Your Teen Daughter

Your relationship with your teen daughter is changing! You had a great relationship with her. Or maybe you are fearing the relationship will change as she is growing. Whichever it may be, you are stuck on knowing what to do next. In this episode, I will share 4 tips to help you make the shift necessary to move forward in your relationship in the teen years. Need to book a mentoring call? 1:1 Mom Mentoring Call Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and ...

Apr 19, 202316 min

32\\ 3 Ways Moms of Teens Can Bond with Their Girl Through the Teen Years

Mom, Are you struggling with ways to connect with your daughter as a teen? Do you need fresh ideas to bond with your teenage girl? You have a desire to remain connected with your teen but it’s become a little more difficult on how to do that. What you think is a great idea may be a huge flop with your girl. In this episode, I will share 3 ways to bond with your girl in the teen years. Link to book your 1:1 Mom Mentoring Call Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open...

Apr 17, 202321 min

31\\ Who’s the Boss? The Secret to Get Your Teen Girl to Stop Correcting You

Mama, Are you experiencing a power-struggle with your teen girl? Do you have a problem with her constantly reminding you what you should be doing? Does she boss you around? Today we are going to take a closer look at why we find ourselves in this situation where we struggle with who the boss really is here. I know, it’s a balancing act when it comes to raising teen girls. We don’t want to lose them to an authoritarian discipline because maybe it was based on your own upbringing or maybe it makes...

Apr 12, 202320 min

30\\ 4 Ways to Support Your Teen Girl to be Happy and Live the Life She Loves

Hey friend, We all have this desire to want our teenage girls to be happy and see that they matter too in this world. We want to see them thrive and live a life they really love. Not because of what their friends think or even what we think, but because they are truly living the life they are called towards. They bring value to this world just for being who they are. I’m sharing 4 ways to support her along the way to living a purposeful life. Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The c...

Apr 10, 202323 min

29\\ Your Teen Girl Has Built a Wall Between You. 3 Practical Ways to Get Through It.

Are you feeling hurt because your once close girl seems so distant? Whatever you say seems to fall on deaf ears? You feel she’s built a wall between you that never use to exist? All you want is your once confident and open girl. HUGS MAMA!! It’s a season many of us moms go through with our teenage daughters. I'll be sharing practical ways to get through it. Need some 1 on 1 mom mentorship? Reach out to Jeannie at hello@jeanniebaldomero.com and type "I need help & guidance!" or check me out o...

Apr 05, 202313 min

28\\3 Reasons Why NOT to Attend All of Your Teen’s Activities

Do you have more than one teen or even kids in your house? Are they all involved in activities? Do you find yourself exhausted from attending practices, rehearsals, games, performances? Do you feel guilty for being exhausted? Mom, we know parenting is hard, but also know it doesn’t have to be this hard! We put so much pressure on ourselves to be present for everything. Today I am giving you 3 reasons why not to attend all of your teen’s events, and shift how we see being present. Are you looking...

Apr 03, 202317 min

27\\ 3 Ways to Earn the Right to Hear Your Teenage Daughter’s Stories

Mom, Do you wish your teen daughter came to you with stories from school instead of hearing it from someone else she shared it with? Do you struggle with letting her know it’s okay for your girl to come to you? In this episode, I will give you 3 ways to earn the right to hear your teenage daughter’s stories. Don’t worry mama, it sounds worse than it does. Earning the right really means are we setting a space safe enough for her to share? You leave this episode more equipped to do so. Need a Ment...

Mar 29, 202314 min

26\\ My Own Teen Daughter Shares How to Get Your Girl to Open Up

Hi Friend! You are in for a treat! My daughter Ava is joining me on today’s episode. She is going to answer a common question I get from moms of teen girls. “How can I get my daughter to open up to me?” Ava is giving us the inside scoop on how to get your teen girl to open up to you. Coming from a teen herself, she’s going to share her perspective on what gets her to open up to me. Mama, get ready for a fresh perspective from a teen girl who is in the weeds as your daughter. Go grab that noteboo...

Mar 27, 202325 min

25\\ The Secret to Helping Your Teen Daughter Be Her True Self

Mama, Do you want your teenage daughter to recognize her worth? Are you tired of watching her do whatever it takes to get outside approval? Do you wish she could see that she is valued for who she already is? There is nothing more a mama wants for her teenage daughter to be confident and unapologetic for who she is. In today’s episode, I will reveal the secret to helping your teenage daughter be her true self in a world of TikTok, social media and other influences. Are you looking for a supporti...

Mar 22, 202320 min

24\\ Feeling Alone? 3 Ways to Find Support for Moms Raising Teen Girls

Hey sis, Raising teens is a tremendous gift we are blessed with. However, we can use this very thought of feeling grateful to have children as a self imposed guilt trip when we begin to feel worn down, tired or simply clueless when it comes to raising our teenage girls. So what do we do? We pretend everything is okay because we don’t want to seem ungrateful and that we need will ourselves to suck it up mom and things will be okay! It’s a lonely journey when we isolate ourselves behind that lie. ...

Mar 20, 202320 min

23\\ Communicating Beyond Barriers With Your Teen With Guest Cheyanne Cleyman Part 2

Have you ever felt like you were speaking an entirely different language when it comes to communicating with your teen? Do you feel it has been overly difficult to connect with her because you simply don't understand each other? In today's episode, we continue my interview with Cheyanne Cleyman, host of Mom Nation podcast as she shares her story of being a bonus mom in a new country of a young teen who literally did not speak her language. She shares how connection is beyond the barrier of langu...

Mar 15, 202323 min

22\\ Communicating Beyond Barriers With Your Teen With Guest Cheyanne Cleyman Part 1

Have you ever felt like you were speaking an entirely different language when it comes to communicating with your teen? Do you feel it has been overly difficult to connect with her because you simply don't understand each other? In today's episode, I interview Cheyanne Cleyman, host of Mom Nation podcast as she shares her story of being a bonus mom in a new country of a young teen who literally did not speak her language. She shares how connection is beyond the barrier of language and share tips...

Mar 13, 202323 min

21\\ Are You Preparing Your Teenage Daughter Enough? 3 Ways to Know If You Are

Mama, Do you find yourself asking “Am I preparing her enough?” when it comes to raising your teen girl? The moms I have asked have agreed their #1 worry is whether they have prepared their teen girl enough for the world. Are they capable of making the right decisions? Do they know how to say no to peer pressure? Are they responsible for social media? Do they know who they can go to when they are being bullied? Are they equipped with the right tools to navigate life? These are all questions that ...

Mar 08, 202321 min

20\\ 3 Tips to Approaching Your Hard to Talk to Teen

Mama, Do you have a strong-willed teen? You know the teen that is so passionate, yet stubborn. Loving but can be so unlikeable. The one who is so hard to talk to. Confession, I was a strong-willed child and my oldest is too. I have an insightful conversation with him and asked for his input and tips he could share with moms about approaching a hard to talk to teen. Get ready! Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having...

Mar 06, 202313 min

19\\ A Grace-Filled Approach to Anxiety for Moms of Teen Girls

Anxiety in teens seems to be even more prevalent now than I recall back to when I was growing up. Or a least teens are more aware of identifying and labeling it as anxiety. According to the CDC - Children Mental Health 1 in 3 children suffer from sort of anxiety disorder. You may have experienced some type of anxiety episode or your kids may have. It’s fear. Our minds can be a powerful tool or a tremendous obstacle for our girls. Today I talk about 3 grace-filled approaches to anxiety your daugh...

Mar 01, 202313 min

18\\ How to Help Your Teen Daughter Find Good Friends

Do you ever worry about the type of friends your girl is hanging out with? Or if she even has any "real" friends? Or if her friends help her make the right choices? Our girls also have this desire to want to belong. Friends are important to them, and during this time, they will navigate choosing and discovering who, what and why they choose the people they hang out with. Mama, you can help guide your girl through this process. “Show me your friends. I’ll show you your future.” In this episode, I...

Feb 27, 202315 min

17\\ 5 Boundaries Moms of Teen Girls Need to Establish So Your Girl Will Want to Go to You

Mama, I hear you. You want to be the go-to person for your daughter. You want her to think of you first when she needs advice or a shoulder to cry on. There are some things I am going to push against you today. I say all this in love, sister. Today we are going to talk about you and how you show up to your daughter. This episode is about you & The boundaries we need to establish in order to show up the mom we want to be and your girl not only gets the best version of you, but is willing to g...

Feb 22, 202320 min

16\\ Drama With Friends? 3 Simple Ways to Get Your Teen Girl to Open Up About It

Today we are going to talk about a topic that tugs at almost if not all mom hearts. I’m talking about having those open conversations with your teen girl about the drama with her friends. It’s a hard topic to walk through let alone getting your girl to open up about it. In this episode, I’m giving you 3 simple ways to open up conversations with your teenage daughter about the drama with friends. Are you looking for a supportive mom community? The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be mos...

Feb 20, 202318 min

15\\ Tired of the Disrespect from Your Teen? 4 Tips for Healthier Conversations

Hi mom, One way a conversation can spiral way out of control is through disrespectful responses especially when they come from your teen. Back talking, yelling and name calling are way out of line and driving you crazy! In this episode, I am going to share 4 tips that lead to respectful conversations and healthy responses that get you both communicating better. I am talking about establishing some boundaries, rules and expectations around conversations that your daughter will buy into. Let’s go!...

Feb 15, 202324 min

14\\ Don’t Feel Appreciated by Your Teen Daughter? 3 Reasons to be Okay With It.

Okay mama, You find yourself doing so much for your teen daughter only for her to say “I don’t need your help.” You’re probably like me who decided to leave your career to stay home or work part time so that you can be home to care for your kids, and feel under appreciated by them when they won’t even listen to you. She probably even says things like “Leave me alone.” “You’re smothering me.” or “Why are you always in my business?” In this episode, I’m addressing this feeling of not being appreci...

Feb 13, 202317 min

13\\ 5 Areas to Be Intentional in While Raising Your Teen Girl

Do you find yourself googling how to raise my teen girl? Mainly because you have no clue how to parent her in this season of puberty; the hormonal changes, desired independence, rebellion and maybe a little bit of attitude or noticing a little sass coming out of your teenage daughter. You don’t understand how TikTok stars have more influence on her than her own mom! Today I am tackling this beast of raising a teen girl and unraveling 5 areas to be intentional in while raising your teen girl. Are...

Feb 08, 202327 min
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