How are church-sponsored schools doing on sexual assault? Jacob Mayberry joins me to look at the data, ask what the limitations of the data are, and what lessons we can learn. Disclaimer: This episode deals with difficult topics. While we feel it is an important conversation to have, it may not be suitable for some ears. #churchschools #byu #civility #discussion
Aug 04, 2023•57 min
General conference is one of my favorite things in life, and this time was particularly important to me. Messages about Jesus, faith, Easter, and holy week, but this time a further message about how the disciple of Christ has an obligation to be a peacemaker. I loved it. Not just civility, something deeper: the call to peacemaking. I suspect we'll talk more about it in coming episodes, so for now, a highlights reel. Almost in F - Tranquillity by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons...
Apr 09, 2023•20 min
I sit down with Carl Cranney and Christopher Cunningham to talk about white christian nationalism, which is making the rounds in the news. We discuss what the Latter-day Saint response should be to the phenomenon, and how we're really doing on things. We also talk about two recent articles, one by Christopher in Public Square Magazine, and another by Dr. Taylor Petrey in The Salt Lake Tribune.
Mar 30, 2023•1 hr 19 min
"I sit down with Carl Cranney and Liz Busby from Pop Culture on the Apricot Tree in this (ambitious!) crossover episode to discuss an episode of Netflix's dystopian technology show Black Mirror. We had a blast talking through the Black Mirror episode "Hated in the Nation." The discussion focuses on social media, and how it encourages bad behavior. We also talk about how we can resist the pull of cruelty and the "epistemology of hell" that drives the attention economy."
Feb 26, 2023•1 hr 8 min
Tired of our current tax structure? I visit with my friend Joseph Addington about Georgism. We nerd out over what it is, what problems it could solve, and possible areas of application. Or watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/rBG3cUPluIA Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Sep 13, 2022•56 min
I discuss President Biden's recent student loan forgiveness policy with a good friend, Dallin Crump. We uncover the ins and outs of the policy, the implications it has, and other potential solutions to the deeper issue. Or watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UbQP4j2xw7U Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivilit...
Sep 07, 2022•1 hr 13 min
Content Warning: This episode discusses sexual abuse. I sit down with my friend, CD Cunningham to discuss his recent article regarding the associated press article about a case of abuse. We talk about the options for policies and the pros and cons of each option. It seems too often people rush, with their heart in the right place, to conclusions. When it comes to something so tragic, perhaps taking some time to think allows greater clarity. I learned some things in this episode, and I hope you d...
Aug 30, 2022•1 hr 14 min
Content Warning: This episode discusses sexual abuse. Jennifer Roach is a friend, and also a therapist and clerical abuse survivor. When I read the recent AP article about a case of abuse, I knew that it was something I needed to learn about and understand better. My goal on the podcast has always been to tackle hard issues well. This is among the hardest I've tackled. I think it's good to think through and process--espcially if there are things we can do to make things safer. If you are looking...
Aug 08, 2022•1 hr 36 min
I get together with my friends Thomas Stringham and Meagan Kohler to discuss their opinions on the the sexual revolution and what role men play in teaching men proper sexual ethics Or watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZtqOrNqs-jM Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Mar 19, 2022•52 min
I get together with some friends to discuss Brad Wilcox's recent comments--and the strong response they received. We talk about intent and circumstances, but also the reason the comments were hard for so many. Note: we tried to get this right. I guarantee we didn't manage perfectly. A group of thoughtful people talking it out helped me though. There were some really good moments and insights, and if nothing else, I think we modeled what it looks like to grapple with something hard in as faithful...
Feb 19, 2022•1 hr 31 min
I sit down with Dan Ellsworth and a couple other friends (Meagan Kohler and Jeff Bennion) to discuss his article on "Exploring Conservative and Liberal Religion". Or listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YVIxln7whyw Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility
Feb 08, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Why is the trust declining in today's society and how does forgiveness factor into the solution? In this quick episode, Ben shares his thoughts and insights into these two important questions. Or listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/gMdscwS9OfE Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Jan 27, 2022•12 min
I sit with several of my Public Square friends to discuss their recent articles discussing some of the accuracies, and inaccuracies, of common assumptions about Utah. Or listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/HZZtTGErKeo Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Nov 22, 2021•1 hr 6 min
I sit down with several friends to discuss Texas's recent abortion law. We break down the common stances, how to maintain a civil dialogue about difficult topics, and the details of the new legislation. Or listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/cPJK17Tw5Vk Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Nov 09, 2021•1 hr 16 min
I sit down with several friends to discuss Texas's recent abortion law. We break down the common stances, how to maintain a civil dialogue about difficult topics, and the details of the new legislation. Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility...
Oct 25, 2021•1 hr 23 min
I sit down with a couple great friends to dive into our favorite talks, lessons, and miracles from General Conference! It was a great time of personal reflection, and the presence of the Spirit taught all of us. What were your favorite talks? Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Civility-102031914734570 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radical_civility/ Twitter: @CivilityRadical Check out our patreon page at https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility Watch on Youtube: https:/...
Oct 19, 2021•1 hr 1 min
I'm excited about this interview, friends. I sit down with Marian Edmonds-Allen to discuss her recent article about "covenantal pluralism" which she believes (as I now do too) can heal many of the divides in our country, including and especially the LGBTQ+ and faith divide. We talk about her history and background, how religious freedom and LGBTQ+ rights can bolster each other rather than threaten each other, and about what covenental pluralism is. Not only did I learn from her, I also now count...
Oct 08, 2021•39 min
I sit down with Greg Matsen of the Cwic show to talk about Elder Holland's recent BYU address. We cover politics, critical race theory, religion, and my own personal rants about good teaching and tenure policy. It was fun to agree--and disagree-with someone thoughtful. Have thoughts? Now it's your turn. Comment below. Also, check out our Patreon page here https://www.patreon.com/radicalcivility and consider leaving a review for us here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radical-civility/id150...
Sep 18, 2021•1 hr 31 min
A bit of personal news. My podcast has somehow changed from "five listeners, three of whom are my mom" to a real podcast. Someone showed it to the good people at Public Square Magazine, and they've asked to partner with me. That's pretty exciting for someone who is a total amateur. I'm honored and excited to work with people who have become my genuine friends. I don't know what I'm doing, still. I have no idea how to podcast, and I'll probably get some things wrong. But the paradox of civility i...
Sep 07, 2021•17 min
Jeffrey R. Holland is a senior church leader in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. In addition, he is the chairman of the executive committee of the church board of commissioners, and a former president of BYU. He recently gave a talk that has since become highly controversial. I'm an alum of BYU, and wanted to discuss more with thoughtful friends. Now, you should note just how tricky a topic this is. It's sensitive and difficult, and I guarantee we didn't handle it perfectly--but ...
Sep 01, 2021•1 hr 24 min
What is informed consent when it comes to religions? How do you know if someone is consenting for themselves or doing it for social pressure or parental approval? This is an interesting--and sticky--issue. I sit down with Dan Ellsworth and Leo Winegar to talk through in depth. Note: this is a little longer than normal because we wanted it to be thorough and open-ended. We tried to address it as thoughtfully and earnestly as we could. Would love to hear your thoughts. Comment below. See here for ...
Aug 28, 2021•1 hr 44 min
Recently, Elder Tad Callister--an emeritus general leader of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints--released the following essay on the importance of families to society. https://www.thechurchnews.com/living-faith/2021-05-22/tad-callister-fence-cliff-ambulance-strong-families-213923 As you can imagine, Twitter handled everything with thoughtfulness and grace (sarcasm there, in case you missed it). Some were offended, others were offended at the offense, and things deteriorated quickly....
Jun 07, 2021•1 hr 18 min
Are Bow-Ties pretentious? Who is the least civil person on Twitter? What is the hippo scale? Fungus or dry skin? I talk about all of the above, and then basically explain that I told you so--that the death of civility has caused a good chunk of our problems, and that the solution is to live back up to the principles that we always knew we should. In particular: 1) Accountability is a must. Personal responsibility is the old-conservative way. 2) Basic kindness is still the best antidote. 3) We mu...
Feb 17, 2021•39 min
Just before the election, I sit down with a good friend of mine to ask how faith influences politics. We focus on civility, and avoid talking directly about candidates--Jason is in the military, and we tried pretty hard to live up to his promises not to speak against any members of the sitting government. But we still had a thoughtful, interesting discussion. How does yours influence yours? (No wrong answers here--and 'worldview' counts too, or ethics, etc.)
Oct 26, 2020•49 min
There is something even more conservative than voting conservative: Upholding the peaceful transition of power. If you are a conservative who is planning to vote for the incumbent, I disagree with you. I find him insufficiently conservative. But I hope you'll join me in this: if the president wins, I'll do all I can to protect his legal right to serve as president. And if he loses, I'll do the same for his opponent.
Sep 14, 2020•33 min•Season 2Ep. 3
I hesitate to post this one, but I have decided it's important to discuss. Most of the people I know who are involved in large-scale social movements are good people who care a lot about making the world better. But there are bad actors out there who are trying to radicalize and stir the pot.
Sep 03, 2020•24 min
Hi world, We're finally moved in enough that I got back to podcasting. Still having a blast. (Also, we now have a yard, a kitchen table, and a WASHER AND DRYER!! *sings exultantly*) (But really, our washer and dryer is a highlight of this new life of ours.) Anywho, I made another thing--it's a conversation about the conversation: why is everything politicizied? Why is the whole world angry about even non-important issues? The answer, in part, has something to do with Steve Bannon and Andrew Brei...
Sep 01, 2020•37 min
I've been excited about this one: My friend Chance Hammock wants to tell you about state flags, and Utah's seal-on-a-bedsheet in particular. He's an amateur vexillologist who wants people to know that the Utah State Flag is great--as a state seal. Flags are meant to be something different--easy to recognize, easy to fly, and easy to show off. Warning: this episode is probably better viewed on YouTube, since Chance walks me through some examples. If you want to know more about what he's doing, lo...
Apr 16, 2020•42 min•Season 1Ep. 12
I'm at ten episodes, so now it's time to reflect on what I really want this podcast to be about. I'm not sure what I want it to be. But I know I don't want it to be Upworthy. No intention of offending, but I do want to be honest about what I see them doing that I want to avoid, and how we want to be different.
Apr 13, 2020•15 min•Season 1Ep. 12
There are three things to think about here: 1) Monetize your Anger. 2) Deal with the rest in a healthy way. 3) Don't excuse yourself on small things. The link to Professor Caplan's "Monetize Your Anger" blog post: https://www.econlib.org/monetize-your-anger/ Apologies that there is a bit of hiss. I'll try to figure out what's going on later.
Apr 11, 2020•16 min•Season 1Ep. 11