This episode is different. It's raw! It's real! Its the truth behind why I teach what I teach now. This past year, I lost my marriage. I lost family. I lost the version of me that kept abandoning herself just to feel loved. But in the wreckage, I found something more powerful than any relationship: emotional sovereignty . If you've ever stayed too long in a relationship that drained you… If you've ever performed, over-given, or disappeared in love just to feel worthy… If you've ever been told yo...
Jun 01, 2025•8 min
In this episode, I sit down with Lauren and Nathalie, the creative minds behind Her+Her, to delve into the complexities of relationships, breakups, and personal growth. Join us as we discuss the crucial elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships and the importance of emotional safety. Throughout our conversation, Lauren and Nathalie highlight the necessity of prioritizing your emotional well-being and maintaining a balance between personal growth and relationship dynamics. We als...
Mar 08, 2025•1 hr 22 min
In this episode of the Queer Connection podcast, we discuss the impact of romantic relationships on friendships, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the importance of prioritizing self in relationships. Hear out personal experiences and insights on rebuilding trust, understanding emotional connections, and the significance of surrounding oneself with healthy relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication and self-awareness in maintaining friendships and ...
Feb 18, 2025•1 hr 1 min
You do not want to miss this captivating discussion with my friends, Rhianna and Bella, as we dive into how ADHD can shape and shake the dynamics of romantic relationships. In this episode, we explore the unique challenges and unexpected advantages that ADHD brings to love and partnership. From navigating communication hurdles to celebrating intense bonds in the midst of hyperfixation to understanding the impact ADHD has on each partner. Rhianna and Bella shed light on personal experiences and h...
Jan 28, 2025•1 hr 6 min
Ready to decode the dating journey? Whether you're navigating your first date or figuring out how to define the relationship, we've got you covered! Join us as we break down every phase of dating—from exciting beginnings to the milestones that matter. Whether you're single, in a fresh relationship, or diving back into the dating scene, this episode offers key insights and expert tips to help you succeed at every step. Don't miss this deep dive into the stages of dating!
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Yes June/PRIDE Month is over, but being proud of who you are and what you offer this world is ongoing. In this episode we talk about: COMING OUT: Is it necessary? Is it insulting when someone says they already knew Share our coming out stories PRIDE: What does PRIDE means to us How PRIDE was different this year AND SO MUCH MORE! INNER CIRCLE: For exclusive content and to become part of a supportive community, join the QC Inner Circle. https://qc-inner-circle.mn.co/plans/3... ASK US ANYTHING: H...
Jul 10, 2024•57 min
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a hot topic that's been buzzing through the community—the perceived shortage of masculine-presenting individuals in lesbian circles. We'll explore what "masc shortage" means, its implications on dating dynamics, and how it affects identities and relationships within the lesbian community. Join us as we discuss with guests who bring diverse perspectives, from academic researchers studying gender expressions to individuals sharing their personal exp...
Jul 08, 2024•42 min
Wondering if true love is a myth? You're in the right place. In this episode, we delve into transforming dating despair into a roadmap for love and fulfillment. We explore: The trap of illusions in dating and how striving for authenticity can lead to deeper connections. The art of learning from every relationship's end, turning 'failures' into lessons. The power of forgiveness in freeing yourself from past relationship baggage. How to define what you truly need and want in a partner, setting the...
Mar 16, 2024•7 min
Join us in this enlightening episode as we dive deep into the world of intimacy and pleasure with renowned Queer Sex and Pleasure Coach, Whitni Miller. Together, we explore the elusive "spark" in dating and how to navigate it, empowering you to foster genuine connections. Whitni shares her expert insights on how to openly communicate your sexual needs with a new partner, ensuring a fulfilling and respectful relationship. But that's not all! We also discuss the transformative power of embracing p...
Dec 21, 2023•50 min
Today I delve into the transformative dating trends of 2024. Discover why this year is all about breaking free from the pursuit of perfection and embracing genuine connections. Packed with insights, personal anecdotes, and expert opinions, this episode is your guide to navigating the ever-evolving landscape of queer dating. Whether you're considering dating outside your type, aligning your love life with your core values, or simply looking for a more authentic way to connect, this episode has so...
Dec 21, 2023•14 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Welcome back to Queer Connections, everyone! Today we're diving deep into the transformative relationship lessons from 2023. 🏳️🌈 Venus retrograde sure did shake things up, and it's time we talk about it. In this video, I'll share with you the crucial insights I've gained throughout the year - insights that could revolutionize your approach to relationships in 2024. 🔑 Here’s what we’ll explore: Living in Illusions : Unveiling the dangers of chasing perfection and the power of embracing authen...
Dec 11, 2023•12 min•Season 2Ep. 1
In today's eye-opening episode, we're tackling the "Yes" Trap—the silent killer of genuine connections and authentic relationships. In this episode you will: Discover how saying "yes" triggers a dopamine rush that can become addictive. Learn why the quest for approval and validation is not just detrimental to your well-being but also a form of self-abandonment. Gain groundbreaking strategies to say "NO" and "YES" authentically. Are you a people pleaser? Take the quiz and find. out what type of p...
Sep 11, 2023•15 min
In this revealing episode, we journey into the intriguing world of attachment styles. Joining me is the charismatic and knowledgeable Kara Laricks, a respected dating coach and matchmaker from Three Day Rule. With her deep understanding of human connection, Kara helps us unravel the complex tapestry of attachment theory. We delve into the various attachment styles - secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant - discussing how each can impact our relationships and perso...
Jul 27, 2023•53 min
In today's episode, we'll be unpacking a topic many of us grapple with on our quest for love: the elusive "spark" versus the steady, soulful "slow burn". Often, in our search for romantic connection, we're taught to chase that immediate, electrifying chemistry. But is that instantaneous spark always the best indicator of lasting love? We delve into why the "spark" might not be your best bet when it comes to long-term happiness. Sure, it's exhilarating, but can it be blinding, too? I'll be sharin...
Jul 20, 2023•28 min
"My ex was a Leo, I'll never date another Leo again." "I'm not compatible with a Cancer". Many of us at some point have used astrology to determine how and IF we will date someone. But, are we really using astrology the right way?? In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the cosmos with a very special guest, Deb from Queerstrology. As an influential voice in the Queer community and a renowned expert in astrology, Deb brings a unique perspective to the celestial conversation about how to ...
Jun 27, 2023•55 min
How do I know if I am ready to date again? That is one of the most common questions I get from people all over the world. There will never be a sign that drops out of the sky that says, "Yes, it's time". Most of us probably feel like we don't need to be dating right now. We can be paralyzed by knowing IF we are really truly ready to date. In this episode, I will give you 5 questions to ask yourself to determine if you are ready to get back into the dating pool. These questions will give you clar...
Jun 18, 2023•23 min
I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast. In this first episode, I'm going to share a little bit about my journey and how I became a certified Queer dating expert and what you can expect from the show. This is not just about giving you advice. I, along with several of my friends, experts and relationship professionals, will be giving you tips, tools and strategies that you can use right now to transform all your relationships. This podcast will give you the chance to tr...
Jun 18, 2023•13 min
Welcome to Queer Connections, the podcast where we explore the ins and outs of LGBTQ dating and relationships. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and joys of forming connections in the queer community. I'm Kita Adams and I'm so excited to FINALLY launch my new podcast. Check out the Conscious Queer Dating Program at https://www.queer-connections.com/conscious-queer-dating
Jun 18, 2023•52 sec
