Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p...
Jul 23, 2025•1 hr 7 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about song lyrics and suicide This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://w...
Jul 22, 2025•41 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Do you fight with your friends? 09:25 Why don't we say that friendships take work? 23:55 Can you dissipate resentment? 40:42 Dyslexia newsletter & speed reading 49:07 Are therapists trained to step out of a session? 54:17 Dr. Kirk's alterations to schema therapy 58:59 When should therapy begin? Become a member: https:/...
Jul 21, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Dr Kirk was interviewed about harmful therapy on the Psycho/Therapy podcast, hosted by Leah Denton. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How did Dr. Kirk enter the field? 05:31 How long was it until Dr. Kirk felt competent? 08:45 Why isn't there more education on preventing harm? 12:55 Has Dr. Kirk inadvertently hurt a client? 22:12 Has Dr. Kirk encountered any therapists that should not be practicing? 29...
Jul 18, 2025•47 min
Dr. Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psycho...
Jul 17, 2025•40 min
Dr Kirk interviews Humberto about his abandonment grief. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is the dual process model of grief? 14:49 Humberto's experience with loss 19:23 What does oscillating in grief look like? 28:18 What are the effects of delayed grief? 1:13:23 Humberto's earlier expressions of grief Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron...
Jul 16, 2025•1 hr 43 min
Sign up link:https://explore.healthygamer.gg/healing-from-narcissistic-parentsWorkshop date:Sunday, July 27, 11 am Pacific time. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Facebook Official Pag...
Jul 15, 2025•13 min
Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture on pedophilia-themed OCD. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is pedophilia OCD? 19:58 Client story & Identifying the difference 53:08 How to treat a client 1:28:43 Etiology and reddit accounts Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyin...
Jul 14, 2025•2 hr 10 min
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Det. Mike Weber about his crime novel “The Mother Next Door”, in which he writes about catching parent perpetrators with munchausen by proxy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Mike Weber and "The Mother Next Door" 04:27 What was Mike's first Munchausen By Proxy case? 11:26 Has Munchausen By Proxy become more common? 20:03 Andrea Dunlap's story 26:58 Why would family...
Jul 11, 2025•1 hr 16 min
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks with Dr Jennifer Sampson about hoarding disorder. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagr...
Jul 10, 2025•24 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Does capitalism affect our mental health? 13:49 Can teachers ethically be friends with their students? 18:30 How can I set a limit with my borderline mom? 26:23 What do you look for in a marriage and family therapy program? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patr...
Jul 09, 2025•33 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks about family systems theory. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.in...
Jul 08, 2025•2 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Creepy therapist 07:25 'F' OPP 09:46 Skin picking and compulsions 14:25 Difficult clinical moments 37:05 Do brain injuries change your personality? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseatt...
Jul 07, 2025•45 min
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Beth Bigler about her book on pet grief titled Honoring Our Animals. You can find more info on Beth Bigler at www.honoringouranimals.com or on Instagram @honoringouranimals This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Honoring Our Animals by Beth Bigler 06:34 Difficulties around pet death 09:25 Do clinicians know enough about grief therapy? 11:57 What was the process of working on the boo...
Jul 04, 2025•30 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob discuss the difference between good and bad therapists. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Inst...
Jul 03, 2025•1 hr 16 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 AASECT Annual Conference 08:15 Political climate and public support 14:20 'M' OPP 19:53 Love or love bombing? 38:14 What makes a casual relationship honest? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www....
Jul 02, 2025•1 hr
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks with Dr Robert Grubbs about psychopharmacology, Ambien, truth serum, methadone, and over-prescribing. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Mer...
Jul 01, 2025•1 min
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Happy birthday Bob! 01:05 Why does erotic transference occur? 13:16 What is the card game 13? 14:12 Who would Bob and Dr. Kirk like to interview? 19:31 Is dating a therapist a bad idea? 31:37 How can you know your therapist cares about you? 37:24 'O' OPP 41:00 Has the podcast inspired others to pursue a career in mental he...
Jun 30, 2025•48 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Episode summary 17:07 Does this tech make sense? 29:15 Reviews 33:10 Is it psychopathic to torture video game characters? 55:3 Final thoughts Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psyc...
Jun 27, 2025•59 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto critique Landmark Forum. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.i...
Jun 26, 2025•1 hr 56 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Episode summary & critique 40:41 Why did this narrative provide closure? 48:18 Bad review & rating 53:28 Social critique Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseatt...
Jun 25, 2025•1 hr 14 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about cognitive analytic therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www...
Jun 24, 2025•37 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Plot summary 05:30 Connections to other media 14:54 Episode critiques and rating 26:45 Why did this episode resonate so much with Humberto? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psycho...
Jun 23, 2025•38 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Plot summary 11:04 Episode critique and rating 21:44 What would this tech mean for movies? 32:16 Episode themes Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact We...
Jun 20, 2025•40 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about Bowen's differentiation. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.in...
Jun 19, 2025•27 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Summary of the plot 06:31 Reddit reviews 11:15 Overall rating & critique 19:29 The Mandela Effect 27:05 How would you set the record straight? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www...
Jun 18, 2025•40 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about trauma focused CBT This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagra...
Jun 17, 2025•17 min
Dr Kirk and Humberto review Black Mirror season 7 (Netflix, 2025) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Favorite Black Mirror episodes 01:18 Summary of the plot15:12 Reddit reviews 18:14 Rating the episode 30:24 Is this a possible future? 34:22 What does this episode say about our society? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.co...
Jun 16, 2025•52 min
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Handling a bigoted friend 10:22 How can I support a crossdressing partner? 16:54 Has therapy speak become a disservice to our clients? 48:34 Is it okay to bring a stuffed animal to therapy? 51:40 Vicarious trauma and burnout as a therapist 1:06:23 Is broaching always necessary? Become a member: https://www.youtube....
Jun 13, 2025•1 hr 20 min
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about trauma therapy. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ Instagram: https://www.ins...
Jun 12, 2025•3 min
