Six years ago I was on death's door. I literally worked myself to almost death. Not so ironically, this is exactly what my mom pounded into my head that was required to be successful as a woman in the business world. First of all, we clearly have an outdated crap version of what SUCCESS is…. Yes, if SUCCESS only equals money, a fit body, fancy trips, and handbags then yes, I had achieved SUCCESS. (I had a million dollars in the bank by the time I was 30) It took me getting so sick that I couldn’...
Jan 04, 2023•56 min•Ep. 477
Letting go is painful AF. Even releasing things, people, and beliefs that we know are life-sucking IS HARD, and we often spend a ton of energy resisting the inevitable. When we’re in this level of resistance to releasing, many times God and the Universe do what we are unable to do for ourselves. I’ve had friends and clients get fired from jobs they hated, but were too afraid to quit and start their businesses. Last year, the pain got so great with a couple of people who I loved dearly, that I wa...
Jan 02, 2023•27 min•Ep. 476
Your ego doesn’t want to buy into simple or easy. God forbid abundance is just there for us, and we don’t have to greatly sacrifice ourselves for it. Your ego will manipulate you into believing EVERYTHING you desire is going to be hard, painful, and take up so much time, energy and money. Then you will stay exactly where you’re at right now, which feels in a sick way “safe” to you, because it’s what you know, it’s familiar, even if you don’t like it. In order to have the money, the love, the sup...
Dec 28, 2022•20 min•Ep. 475
Don’t you think you owe it to yourself to at least do this…. Numerous studies have shown that your thoughts on average are 80% negative or fear-based. So if you are choosing to not consciously manage your thoughts, you are spending most of your mental bandwidth on low-vibe crap. No wonder you’re exhausted. No wonder you’re still “toe-dippin’ “ on your business. No wonder you’re in major resistance to doing the thing you need to do in order to build the business, the bank account, and the life yo...
Dec 26, 2022•26 min•Ep. 474
The Secret to Manifesting Money CHEERS to attracting the best of the best and refusing to settle for anything less! Simply saying these statements isn’t enough. We’ve all done it; most of us have done it buzzed this time of year. We proclaim what the New Year will bring, and how we’re going to magically transform into this fresh version of ourselves simply because this current year is behind us. I wish it were that easy. I can’t tell you how many times I did a New Year’s toast around leaving my ...
Dec 21, 2022•27 min•Ep. 473
“You’ve gotta be kidding me!” I YELLED. 2022 I’ve labeled as the Year of the Reckoning. Everyone I know had their boundaries tested, and had to distance or remove at least one toxic person from their lives. This happened to me several times this year, leaving me pleading and yelling to God. I was so blown away by people’s unacceptable behavior, and my lack of seeing the red flags. Keep in mind I’ve had thousands of hours of therapy, inner child work, energy healing, and trauma recovery…So I want...
Dec 19, 2022•58 min•Ep. 472
Let’s get on board with this vibe for 2023! If you listen to my podcast (if not, why the hell not?!), you know I always say, “Like attracts Like.” Whatever crap we are settling for and accepting in our businesses, careers, friendships, love life, and bank accounts WILL continue to show up, UNTIL we decide we deserve something different and refuse to accept anything less. These kinds of boundaries are easy to say, but hard to carry out. Because, in order to start attracting the best, you will hav...
Dec 14, 2022•29 min•Ep. 471
“NOTHING IS WORKING !” After coaching over 150,000 people all over the world, I know with 100% CERTAINTY that everyone I work with at some point will say this to me. It doesn’t matter if it’s a highly successful entrepreneur looking to scale their business into the 8-figures, or a new solopreneur starting their business from scratch…the emotions are the same, it’s the circumstances that are different. Both of these women are going after something bigger, something more, it’s risky, terrifying, a...
Dec 12, 2022•1 hr•Ep. 470
This ONE belief literally almost killed me. (Trigger Warning) A little over 8 years ago, I made the decision to end my time on this Earth. My plan was to do it on my birthday as a gift to myself and the world. How did I get to such a low point? It all stemmed from one constant unchallenged thought, which I came to convince myself it was a fact. “No one really understood me.” I had always known that I was different, and I also learned quickly to keep that buried deep inside as it wasn’t socially ...
Dec 07, 2022•28 min•Ep. 469
Sample profitable caption template for you: This probably goes without saying, but keep in mind there isn’t any magical caption that will convert into cash if the foundations of your business aren’t set up. However, I have many business owners who come to be with the foundations set who are leading HEAVY MONEY on the table, by not knowing how to strategically create profitable content. Digital content is a marketing strategy, not a business plan. LET ME BREAKDOWN AN EXAMPLE of high-converting ca...
Nov 30, 2022•20 min•Ep. 467
Find your Money Making Niche You are the niche, honey. Whether you have a personal brand, a store, or a service-based business, the common denominator is YOU. YOU are the founder. YOU are the representative. YOU are the leader. YOU hold the vision for your business. If you’re stumped on this whole niche-marketing thing, the answer lies within you. You are marketing to a version of yourself: whether that be you 10 years ago, you before you did all the inner work, you as a new mom, business owner,...
Nov 28, 2022•15 min•Ep. 466
On average I make 10k a week passively…here’s the tea: While this all sounds super sexy…I mean who wouldn’t want to wake up to payment notifications, and fresh cash in the bank?! Everyone wants this, but few are willing to do what actually works. It’s no different than admiring another person's fit physique…wishing you were that lean or your stomach was that flat…you can have it too, IF you dedicated the time and created the discipline to follow through on repeat. The freedom level cash and life...
Nov 23, 2022•20 min•Ep. 465
Be an intentional entrepreneur, not a sometimes entrepreneur. If you want to make major BOSS-LEVEL cash in your business then major boss moves are required. It still blows my mind that people complain about their audiences not growing, they aren’t getting clients, and “nothing is working,” yet when I ask them to break down what daily actions they take…it ends up with maybe 1-2 hours of dedicated time on random crap. If you showed up as an employee operating like this, you would be fired. So why ...
Nov 21, 2022•47 min•Ep. 464
How I went from 17k a year to having millions in the bank: Many people assume this is a complex equation because most of us were taught that having this level of wealth requires great sacrifice and unique talents that only a small percentage of people can achieve. I thought this too. The secret is a simple answer, embodying it consistently is the challenging part. A combination of equal parts: B E L I E F + F A I T H At each monetary milestone I hit from 35k to 75k, to 100k a year, to a million ...
Nov 16, 2022•30 min•Ep. 463
I tried to hang on, and it was slowly killing me. In my opinion and experience in coaching tens of thousands of people, we all deep down know what we need to do, but our EGOs convince us that we are “confused, “torn,” “unsure” … It’s less scary and even painful to remain stuck in uncertainty than it is to make those BIG MOVES. This is how it ended up taking me TEN YEARS to start my dream podcast and coaching business. Staying in the familiar “good enough” zone felt more comfortable than taking a...
Nov 14, 2022•56 min•Ep. 462
Recently I got stuck in “not enoughness” For weeks, I got so fixed on everything that I don’t have, that I haven’t accomplished, stuff that still needs to be done…I was riddled with anxiety of feeling totally behind and time was going too fast for me to catch up. “By now I should have 50 million downloads on my podcast.” “What is wrong with you, why isn’t your book finished yet?!” “You still haven’t gotten ____done what is wrong with you?” You get the drift…maybe you’re beating yourself up right...
Nov 09, 2022•25 min•Ep. 461
All of us have them, those automatic negative thoughts that derail us from achieving greater abundance. Is there a way to truly stop negative thoughts and change our negative thinking patterns? By ignoring them, you’re repelling the abundance that is meant for you. We’ve all done it…use distractions as a way to avoid the chaos going on in our minds. We use: Wine Food Netflix Social media Other people’s problems Shopping Drugs Work The list is endless really. While this usually gives us some form...
Nov 07, 2022•19 min•Ep. 460
13 BILLION dollars in 24 hours. This is how much money is projected to be spent online this Black Friday (the day after US Thanksgiving). Not counting all of the in-store purchases!!! By creating an irresistible holiday offer, you can make money online this holiday season. If your money noise is trying to build some BS story about the economy, and people aren’t buying from you because they are being careful about spending, blah blah…keep reading. These are straight-up FACTS, honey: > More mon...
Nov 02, 2022•21 min•Ep. 459
Do you prevent yourself from achieving success and wealth? Is your mindset one of scarcity and lack? Past traumas, beliefs, or patterns can create mental blocks that prevent you from reaching success and financial abundance. Do not continue to self-sabotage your success. Changing your mindset is the key to removing those blocks. As a result, you'll have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. There will be resistance when you try to change old habits. How will you avoid reverting to your ol...
Oct 31, 2022•23 min•Ep. 458
Not everyone has millions like you (she wrote) All you do is talk about money…what about all people who can’t afford to pay you? Do you ever care about them?!! (this part she wrote was in ALL CAPS) When you continue to grow in your business, and your public presence has expanded to millions of people worldwide like my podcast and brand have, you are going to trigger people. It’s impossible to help millions of people without upsetting 1-2% of them. If you haven’t experienced that yet in your busi...
Oct 26, 2022•30 min•Ep. 457
“I know I know I know,” she said (for months) It’s unbelievable how almost all of us KNOW what we need to start doing, stop doing, change, quit, and leave, BUT we find ourselves NOT doing that damn thing for days, then weeks, then months, and even years. This is why I regularly remind you that knowing the answer or knowing the action to take ISN’T ENOUGH. I knew I needed to go all in on my side hustle in order to exit my corporate career in an abundant state, yet a full year went by without me s...
Oct 24, 2022•58 min•Ep. 456
I was terrified either way. Terrified if I stayed I would slowly continue to lose myself. Terrified if I left, I could fail and have to start all over again. So when the cost was greater for me to stay in my corporate career versus leaving to build something that was mine, I started. It’s time to have a “come to Jesus” talk with yourself: What is it costing me mentally, financially, and emotionally to stay exactly where I’m at right now? If you don’t like that answer, then why would you continue...
Oct 19, 2022•29 min•Ep. 455
Avoiding the “hard” is sabotaging your success. Over the last 15 years, I’ve coached, mentored, and consulted with thousands of people. One thing that is true about every one of those people is they all have blind spots, and they all carry a self-sabotaging behavior. There are two types of people: Person A: You may not think you have one. Person B: You may know for sure that you do, but aren’t sure how to stop it. Most of my clients identify as high performers and extremely self-aware. Yet they ...
Oct 17, 2022•29 min•Ep. 454
Imagine dedicating 30 years of your life to something, only to have it all ripped away in a single email. You poured your heart, energy, and life force into a company, you over delivered and did exceptional work consistently, and they called you “family,” …then one day they discarded you like stale bread. Left abandoned, hurt, angry, and in an identity crisis you have two choices: Let the pain destroy your life and those around you. Process the pain, say “F THAT,” and come back ever stronger. Al...
Oct 12, 2022•57 min•Ep. 453
I had to let him go to save myself. Someone I loved very much broke my heart again and again and again, yet I kept trying to make it work, and get him to see the light. I was so focused on trying to get him to change, that I slowly lost myself. When you pour your heart into people who don’t appreciate it, you end up abandoning yourself. Typically without fully realizing it, until you’re left so broken you hardly recognize yourself. I knew I was going down with his sinking ship, and I had to gath...
Oct 10, 2022•23 min•Ep. 452
I was stumped as to how THEY did it. Every time I came into contact with someone virtually or in person who had the lifestyle, the freedom, the abundance I desired…I would get memorized and inspired, then it would quickly shift into, “but how did they get there?” Some of these people were motivational speakers, and they would say vague statements like, “I took a risk,” or “I decided to prioritize my dream.” I felt like they made it sound so simple, which confused me further, as it all seemed so ...
Oct 05, 2022•30 min•Ep. 451
Industry secret that will blow your mind! Do you know those people you follow who say they’ve been featured in “Forbes” or “Top 20 Coaches of 2022” articles in magazines? You probably think, “how did they do that?” 99% OF THOSE ARE PAID FOR. Most of these people have paid even 15K to get a mention or an “advertorial” article (as we call them in the PR world”). They look like articles, but you have to pay to get into them. This IS NOT true press. This is ADVERTISING. What my friend and award-winn...
Oct 03, 2022•52 min•Ep. 450
Determine if your business is ready for membership. You may love the idea of reoccurring monthly revenue but aren’t sure if you have a large enough audience to fill a membership. In order to have a successful membership, you don’t need hundreds or thousands of members. Some of the best clubs and support groups I’ve been a member of had less than 20 people in them. Now, of course, if you’re going to start by creating an intimate membership, your price point should be higher for this exclusivity, ...
Sep 28, 2022•26 min•Ep. 449
Help raise money for the non-profit, Children of the Night, with this 2-part exclusive interview: Children of the Night rescues children and women from sex trafficking, and get them the medical and mental treatment they need after years of extreme abuse and trauma. For every written Apple and Spotify podcast review of this series, I will be donating $25 per review to Children of Night. All you have to do is write the review, and we will be counting them up throughout the week, and sharing the fu...
Sep 26, 2022•54 min•Ep. 448
Children of the Night rescues children and women from sex trafficking, and get them the medical and mental treatment they need after years of extreme abuse and trauma. Help raise money for the non-profit, Children of the Night, with this 2-part exclusive interview: For every written Apple and Spotify podcast review of this series, I will be donating $25 per review to Children of Night. All you have to do is write the review, and we will be counting them up throughout the week, and sharing the fu...
Sep 21, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 447
