Kids who are Black, Indigenous and People of Color—or BIPOC—can experience school culture very differently than white kids. These realities can negatively impact a BIPOC child’s sense of self-worth. Today I’m talking about ways to bolster your BIPOC child’s self-esteem and resiliency in the face of systemic educational disparities. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Additional resources: https://readlikearockstarteaching.com/product/the-blac...
Oct 09, 2023•12 min•Ep. 737
Life with a child with underdeveloped impulse control can be frustrating, sometimes embarrassing, and consistently exhausting. Today, I’m talking about how parents can support their low-impulse-control child both at home and at school. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Related links: https://www.tes.com/teaching-resource/zones-of-regulation-12361024 https://totalhealthwestberks.co.uk/flipping-your-lid-understanding-and-communicating-emotion...
Oct 02, 2023•12 min•Ep. 736
When you are feeling frustrated, disappointed, or even perhaps dismayed by the relationship between you and your child, it’s common to see them and their behavior as the cause of your distress. Today I’m talking about improving your parent-child relationship by turning the spotlight on yourself . Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Other episodes to check out: Should you punish your ADHD child? Why threats, punishments, and adult-imposed cons...
Sep 25, 2023•13 min•Ep. 735
In today’s episode, I’m offering some tips for those moments during playdates when you feel a little deer-in-the-headlights because limit setting or mediating between kids means having to manage the feelings and behaviors of kids who aren’t your own. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twi...
Sep 18, 2023•10 min•Ep. 734
In today’s episode, I discuss the research on the efficacy of homework (spoiler alert—it’s not necessary) and tips for opting out. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice. Project Parenthood is a part of Qui...
Sep 11, 2023•13 min•Ep. 733
In today’s episode, I give tips for supporting your highly sensitive child as they begin a new school year. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice. Project Parenthood is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips . Lin...
Sep 04, 2023•11 min•Ep. 732
In today’s episode, I give tips for using The Five Secrets of Effective Communication to increase connection and trust in your relationship with your child. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice. Project P...
Aug 28, 2023•10 min•Ep. 731
In today’s episode, I give tips for using Collaborative and Proactive Solutions to increase connection and trust in your relationship with your child. Read more: How to reduce your child's challenging behavior Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirt...
Aug 21, 2023•10 min•Ep. 730
Today’s episode is about using Parent Effectiveness Training to increase connection and trust in your relationship with your child. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice. Project Parenthood is a part of Qu...
Aug 14, 2023•9 min•Ep. 729
We all have good reasons for the things that we do—your kids included. Underneath every person’s actions, there are feelings and needs. In today’s episode, I’m talking about using non-violent communication to understand your child’s feelings and needs (and your own), manage conflict with your kids, between your kids, and simply to connect with your kids for connection’s sake. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Emai...
Aug 07, 2023•13 min•Ep. 728
July is Disability Pride Month, and in this episode, Dr. Coor talks about how to be intentional about the ways you talk to your kids about disabled people, about empathy, and learning from and celebrating individual differences. By having open conversations with your kids, you can play a crucial role in building an equitable and inclusive world for people living with disabilities. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question?...
Jul 31, 2023•14 min•Ep. 727
Sometimes the things that you find difficult to do for your child are even harder to do for yourself. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor talks about ways to help your child develop emotional regulation by working on your own—using self-compassion. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter ...
Jul 24, 2023•12 min•Ep. 726
The pending arrival of a second child means life is about to change in a major way. Dr. Nanika Coor offers tips for helping you and your eldest child adjust to this new reality. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips ...
Jul 17, 2023•21 min•Ep. 662
What can you do when you’re worried about your child’s weight? How does a parent avoid passing down intergenerational patterns of body shaming? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor responds to a parent who is struggling to support their child’s healthy body image. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebo...
Jul 10, 2023•11 min•Ep. 725
Summertime means more quality time with your kids—and potentially more opportunities for kid shenanigans! In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor shares parenting hacks for reducing family stress and setting yourself and the kids up for success. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or su...
Jul 03, 2023•12 min•Ep. 724
In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor shares tips for ‘inoculating’ BIPOC LGBTQIA+ kids against the slings and arrows of growing up amidst the ‘viruses’ of the gender binary, heteronormativity, and white supremacy. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirt...
Jun 26, 2023•12 min•Ep. 723
Dr. Nanika Coor shares tips for talking to kids about the ways that the Black Freedom Movement—from the abolitionist movement in the 1800s to the Black Power Movement in the 1960s and 1970s—inspired many future movements—including the LGBTQIA+ liberation movement. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Fa...
Jun 19, 2023•13 min•Ep. 722
The theme for NYC Pride Month is “Strength in Solidarity”, reflecting the power and resiliency of the LGBTQIA+ community and its allies. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor shares ways that LGBTQIA+ parents can help their kids thrive while facing unique challenges. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Face...
Jun 12, 2023•16 min•Ep. 721
The theme for NYC Pride Month is “Strength in Solidarity,” reflecting the power and resiliency of the LGBTQIA+ community and its allies. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explores ways to create an emotionally safe environment for your LGBTQIA+ child that enhance resilience-building factors in the face of real-world obstacles to their healthy development. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parentho...
Jun 05, 2023•11 min•Ep. 720
Have you noticed your child having outsized reactions to changes in their environment? Does your child seem to have an aversion to light, noise, or certain fabrics or textures? Are you constantly being crashed into by your child who doesn’t seem to have a sense of where they end and other people begin? If so, your child might have sensory processing disorder or SPD. In this episode Dr. Nanika Coor breaks down SPD—what it is, how it can affect kids, how it’s treated, and what parents can do at ho...
May 29, 2023•10 min•Ep. 719
Are you a parent dealing with an overwhelming fear of failure and not-good-enough-ness? If so, you might be struggling with perfectionism. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explores the challenges of being a perfectionist parent, how it can impact both you and your child, and ideas for creating a less perfectionistic environment within which your child can thrive. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at...
May 22, 2023•11 min•Ep. 718
Finding it difficult to use respectful parenting tools? If your relationship with your child is adversarial, you may need to repair your relationship first. Dr. Nanika Coor offers tips for repairing your bond to help lay the foundation for respectful parenting tools. (Originally aired on October 18, 2021.)
May 15, 2023•11 min•Ep. 648
When you learn that your child has executive functioning deficits that need strengthening, it can feel confusing and overwhelming. How do you know when your child’s lagging EF skills are getting in the way? What are good ways to help? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explains what executive functioning is and everyday fun and useful ways to help your child improve their capacities to think before acting, mentally wrestle with relevant ideas, and respond adaptively and flexibly to their changing ...
May 08, 2023•11 min•Ep. 717
Understanding how your particular child’s temperament interacts with their environment—and you are your child’s environment—helps you set them up for success and increases opportunities for positive interactions. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explains how leaning into your child’s temperament can help you lower resistance and increase calm and cooperation. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at par...
May 01, 2023•11 min•Ep. 716
Happy Autism Acceptance Month! Did you know that many people’s idea of autism is that it only occurs in boys—who don’t make eye contact, who are obsessed with cars or trains, and who have superior intelligence? While that does describe some autistic people, it leaves out the wide range of experiences in the autism continuum. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor talks about the regularity with which autism goes undetected in girls until adulthood. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A tr...
Apr 24, 2023•13 min•Ep. 715
Whether you are a (reluctant) climbing wall for your baby, or your toddler has started yelling “Don’t touch me!” your response will plant the seeds for body autonomy. Dr. Nanika Coor explains how to foster an early understanding of consent. (Originally published August 14th, 2021.) Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Quick and Dirty Tips. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. F...
Apr 17, 2023•8 min•Ep. 639
Did you know that many people who meet criteria for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) are commonly misdiagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and vice versa? It makes sense because both conditions share some characteristics. Dr. Nanika Coor explains some of the similarities and differences between the two conditions. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtyti...
Apr 10, 2023•11 min•Ep. 714
At the end of your rope trying to parent your ADHD child? Wondering if punishment helps? Dr. Coor explains what punishment is, how it affects kids with ADHD, and parenting strategies you can use to create a relational atmosphere within which your ADHDer can thrive. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on F...
Apr 03, 2023•10 min•Ep. 713
Is your child a picky eater or are you dealing with something more serious? Dr. Nanika Coor explains four common eating disorders and how parents can help kids who are struggling with eating disturbances. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tip...
Mar 27, 2023•11 min•Ep. 712
Does your child engage in cringe-worthy behavior when playing games? Dr. Nanika Coor offers tips for encouraging good sportsmanship if your kiddo is a sore loser or gloating winner kiddo. Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. A transcript is available at Simplecast. Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter , or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for ...
Mar 20, 2023•12 min•Ep. 711
