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Private Education

Aisling Keenananchor.fm
Private Education by Aisling Keenan is the smart sex and relationships podcast. It's for anyone having sex and/or relationships. It's sex ed for adults. It's the chats you want to have with your partner or your best mates, only with a little more expertise, advice and – we hope – laughs too.

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Episodes

#83: 10 conversations you have to have before getting engaged or married

In the last episode of season 2, Aisling and Andrea discuss the ten things you need to talk about before you get engaged or married (or indeed make any sort of legal long term commitment to another person). We'll see you again in a few weeks! Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Oct 21, 202245 min

#82: Does your 'number' matter? (*Trigger warning in description*)

**TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic violence** This week, we answer a listener query. Her boyfriend has slept with over 100 women and her 'number' is only 3 – is this cause for concern, and why does she feel "icky" about it? We also mark domestic violence awareness month (this October) by giving some helpful numbers out, and talking through some of the statistics around it. Scary listening, but worth mentioning to bring awareness and hopefully help someone in need (if you are in a position to donate, he...

Oct 14, 202239 min

#81: How to break up with someone (properly)

This week Aisling and Andrea discuss a new dating term that Aisling maintains she's been talking about for years (of course) which is the concept of 'cushioning'. Overlapping partners, basically, to cushion the emotional blow that moving between relationships can bring. We also give our best advice about how to break up with someone with respect and kindness, as well as detailing some of our own worst break ups. Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoy...

Oct 07, 202248 min

#80: Is your attachment style ruining your relationship?

This week's episode is packed full of insights thanks to our guest, relationship coach Lisa McFarland. We talk about attachment styles, conflict styles and love languages among many other topics, and hopefully you'll venture online and take a test or two to see what you and your partner's attachment styles are and how you can understand each other better. You can find Lisa McFarland @relationship.coaching.ni on Instagram and at relationshipcoachni.com Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodc...

Sep 30, 202242 min

#79: Andrew Fitzsimons on dating, sex and finding someone he can truly trust

This week on Private Education, we have a really candid and honest chat with Andrew Fitzsimons – Khloe Kardashian's close confidant and hair stylist – about growing up in Ireland as a gay man, trust issues in relationships and healing yourself before you can share your life with someone else. Andrew spoke so beautifully about his client Mariah Carey (!!) and how he "does not accept" that she's labelled a diva because she's professional and knows what she wants. A chat we really enjoyed having an...

Sep 23, 202249 min

#78: "Our marriage is on the line here" - when sex drives don't match

This week, from LA and Cork, Andrea and Aisling answer a listener query that involves layers of information and involves mismatched sex drives, blood tests and a very real marriage on the line. We also chat about public proposals, and more to the point: why no one should hijack their other half's special days (graduations, marathon completion, that sort of thing...) and use those times to pop the question. Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle . H...

Sep 13, 202231 min

#77: Is your dry spell something to worry about?

Andrea joins today's episode all the way from Los Angeles – she was poolside for the recording guys. Not able. We talk about dry spells, whether not having sex or not having sex often is a death knell for a relationship, and we discuss an interaction Aisling had in a lift with a strange man during the week. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Sep 06, 202243 min

#76: Vaginismus: What's the cause, and what's the cure?

This week, we're chatting to Dr Maria McEvoy about Vaginismus, a condition that makes penetrative sex (or vaginal penetration of any kind) impossible. Vaginismus is not something we've heard being spoken about a lot, but we've had many great questions in to @privateeducationpodcast about it so we're glad to be covering it with Ireland's leading expert on the condition. Find out more, access research and read more about Dr McEvoy's research at vaginismusresearchireland.com and on Twitter @Irishva...

Aug 30, 202249 min

#75: Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?

This week, our guest Hazel Larkin joins us to discuss relationships with narcissists. We talk about how people who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder – which is something that's challenging to diagnose – can leave those they're romantically involved with with lasting trauma. If anything in this episode resonated with you and you'd like to speak to someone: www.womensaid.ie free phone 1800 341 900 www.safeireland.ie www.hse.ie/wellbeing www.mensaid.ie Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationp...

Aug 23, 202245 min

#74: Love Island, the Gaeltacht & why your holiday romance can't come home

This week the wonderful Kate Demolder joins us this week to talk about Love Island and the Gaeltacht, and why they're basically the same thing, and why your holiday romance *probably* won't work when you're back in reality. Also, we discuss how the person you turn into when on holiday is an idealised version of yourself. Enjoy! And leave us a review, if you feel like it. Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @katedemolder , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle Hosted on Acast. See ac...

Aug 16, 202255 min

#73: Someone else's false nail was in our bed. Is he sleeping with someone?

We had another episode planned for this week, but couldn't ignore a LIVE listener query, happening as we recorded. We're going to follow up, don't worry! Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 09, 202245 min

#72: I had my arm twisted into being in an open relationship

This episode, we welcome everyone back after a six week season break, we have a VERY long preamble (skip to, like, 25 mins in if you hate preambles) and we answer a listener email about going long-distance, and what they've decided to *NOT* count as cheating while they're far away from each other... It's an interesting one! Follow us on Instagram @privateeducationpodcast , @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 02, 20221 hr 9 min

#71: What it's ACTUALLY like to go to a sex party

This week, in the final episode of the new season of Private Education, we interview Evan, who has attended organised sex parties in clubs in Germany, the Netherlands and more. From witnessing a casual beside-the-bar rim job to seeing someone (NOT his boss, to be clear) being dominated in a cage, we ask him all the questions you might want answered. And we also propose a Private Ed field trip to a sex club – wanna come with? You can follow us @privateeducationpodcast on Instagram, or @aislingmke...

Jun 14, 202236 min

#70: Things you can never say in a fight (especially if you want to win)

This week Andrea and I discuss arguments, and specifically: what you can and can't say in a fight. We're not the boss of you, so live your life, but if you'd like better, more harmonious arguments that you stand a chance of winning, we've got some 'donts' for you. You can follow us @privateeducationpodcast on Instagram, or @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle there too! #privateeducation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jun 07, 202239 min

#69: Refusing the snip and facing your boyfriend's ex (who he's still mates with)

This week we answer two listener queries – the first is a partner who point blank refuses to get a vasectomy in spite of them being finished having children and her not wanting to pump hormones into her body for any more years, and the second is a woman who's boyfriend's ex-partner is part of his friend group and so she has to see her all the time and frequently finds herself comparing herself. You can follow us @privateeducationpodcast on Instagram, or @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle there...

May 31, 20221 hr 3 min

#68: Eimear Varian Barry on vulnerability, moving on & meeting someone new

The lovely Eimear Varian Barry ( @eimearvarianbarry ) joins me this week to talk about life, love, breakups, loss, vulnerability and being ready to move on. Andrea and I also discuss how to build a healthy post-sex routine to keep all your bits intact. Join us! You can follow us @privateeducationpodcast on Instagram, or @aislingmkeenan and @andreajanedoyle there too. See you next week! #privateeducation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

May 24, 202245 min

#67: First date sex, fisting, period sex and more: Y or N?

We go man v woman this week and get some very different perspectives on some sex and relationship topics, as well as discussing what gives us The Ick, where we stand on anal and whether lingerie is necessary, overkill or great for all involved. Join us, won't you? We'd love and adore a review or star rating or a share on social media if you were so inclined! Here are our handles... @privateeducationpodcast @aislingmkeenan @andreajanedoyle Until next week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy f...

May 17, 202234 min

#66: Not on 'The Apps': So how the hell else are you supposed to meet someone?

If you're not on 'the apps' and social life is stop-start (Pandemic, thanks for that), how in god's name are you supposed to meet the love of your life? Thanks to Isabel Bartak Healy @izzy_showbizzy for chatting to us about her Izzy Match Bizzy Instagram dating phenomenon, we're very excited to see who goes on the next iteration. Follow us @privateeducationpodcast and listen anywhere you get your podcasts! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

May 10, 202241 min

#65: Why 'having sex' doesn't have to mean having intercourse

Chicago sex top shop owner and sexual wellness speaker Searah Deysach joins us this episode to discuss, among other things, how to communicate your sexual needs with your other half, what sexual wellness entails and means, and is scheduling sex a good or bad thing? Searah's sex toy store can be found at early2bed.com Follow the podcast @privateeducationpodcast Follow Aisling @aislingmkeenan and Andrea @andreajanedoyle We'd love a review or a star rating or a small parade, if you had the time! Ho...

May 03, 202242 min

#64: We need to talk about closure (and why you deserve it)

We're back this week to get into a deep dive on a previous relationship of Dre's that was FULL of amber and red flags, but they went unnoticed and then *dramatic pause* things were revealed that meant the whole thing was basically built on a foundation of untruths. She thought she got closure... She was wrong, and that was worse than not getting it at all. Follow us @privateeducationpodcast @aislingmkeenan @andreajanedoyle Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Apr 26, 202246 min

BONUS! Selling Sunset's Jason Oppenheim on being best friends with his ex

I'm so buzzed about this – it's not strictly relationships, but it's fun nonetheless. This week, I interview Jason Oppenheim about celebrity clients, about working in such a dramatic environment, being best mates with his ex and more... Enjoy! Amanza's episode is next Friday! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 22, 202226 min

#63: Listener DM – "My affair is ruining my life"

This one genuinely stumped us – a listener DMd Aisling recently saying that her affair is ruining her life. Our guest, Jenny Claffey ( @pvssykat ) of Red Room Podcast and formerly It Galz, chats the whole thing through with us and we try to give some solid guidance. For anyone affected by anything in this episode, here are some helpful links to domestic violence services, mental health services and low-cost counselling should that be of help: mymind.org/individual www.womensaid.ie/ www.mentalhea...

Apr 19, 202247 min

#62: The sexiest book of all time (and the best sex position for your starsign)

Welcome back! Daisy Buchanan is our guest this episode, and we chat to her about Insatiable, her sauce-filled book that had us gripped from page one. We also discover some startling news about anal and condoms, and we talk about the best sex position for your star sign. You can follow Daisy Buchanan here @thedaisybee , you can find Aisling @aislingmkeenan and Dre @andreajanedoyle . You can order her newest book Careering here and you can order Insatiable here . Follow @privateeducationpodcast on...

Apr 12, 202257 min

#61: My boyfriend went through my Whatsapp

We've a listener query this time – Her boyfriend used her phone to call someone, but when she got it back her Whatsapp was open and so was her camera roll. It raises the question: Do you trust your partner enough to give them your passwords? Or if your partner goes through your phone, does it indicate a lack of trust? And when does nosiness cross over into control? Dr Dre ( @andreajanedoyle ) joins me to discuss. Follow @privateeducationpodcast on Instagram You can also follow me @aislingmkeenan...

Apr 05, 202235 min

#60: Red flags: Is your partner having an affair?

Welcome back! Private Education has returned at last. This episode, featuring journalist Kate Demolder (@katedemolder), discusses cheating – what constitutes an affair, why people cheat at certain times in their lives and what the red flags are that you can keep in mind. Hope you enjoy the episode, we would LOVE a rating or review. This is the first episode of our brand new season, although as you can see it's no.60 overall. Kate's piece on cheating: https://www.rte.ie/lifestyle/living/2022/0303...

Mar 29, 20221 hr 7 min

#59: "Who's the person that inspired this song?" and other inappropriate questions, with CMAT

This episode I talk to musician and songwriter Ciara Mary Alice Thompson, aka CMAT about the anonymous email address she set up to allow fans of hers to send in their relationship woes, so she could use them as inspiration for her songs. We also chat about bringing humour to her music as a defence mechanism, intrusive questions from journalists (not me, I hope!) and using songwriting as a way to process former relationships. Enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Aug 13, 202033 min

#58: Selling Sunset's Amanza Smith (help me guess her Irish rockstar connection...)

In another brilliant Selling Sunset interview, Amanza Smith (one of my favourite of the cast, don't tell Mary, Christine, Chrishell, Heather or Jason...) shares how she feels about introducing children to boyfriends, why she had the argument with Heather about it and how, if at all, starring on Selling Sunset has changed her life. Enjoy! Review! Tell your friends <3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 24, 202023 min

#56: Things you should NEVER to say to someone going through a divorce or breakup

My guest this week is journalist, podcaster, Rogue co-founder and now author Liadán Hynes. Her brilliant book (we are friends, I am biased but honest) is out now, called How to Fall Apart. It's about how she rebuilt her life after the break down of her marriage. In this episode, she talks about the things you shouldn't say to someone at the end of their relationship, and gives alternative ways to approach those tricky conversations. Hope you enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more...

Jul 03, 202051 min

#55: I think about my ex EVERY. DAY.

Red flags, making friends as an adult and 'leaving room for the holy spirit'. My guest Dr Dre and I answer three listener questions - first up, someone who was ghosted by someone displaying so many red flags it was like a beach on the day of a hurricane, next up, a listener who thinks about her ex daily and wonders what it means, and lastly, a listener who is lonely, new to the country and wants to make friends as a 30-year-old. We advise on all of the above and throw in, oh, a casual MILLION ta...

Jun 12, 202057 min

#54: What to tell yourself if you hate your body

My guest today is Bek Antonucci (@bekantonucci on Instagram) who is a coach, helping women feel better in their bodies. She and I talk about the bullying she suffered as a teen, a physically abusive relationship that she was in and eventually got out of, and we also talk about how your own feelings about your body impact your sex life and your relationships. Enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 29, 202040 min
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