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And can I say something, y'all.

Oh, I understand when we see snow and we're not used to seeing.

It, but stop eating the snow.

No please, I've seen somebody making a snow cone. I said, bitch, be fucking for real, brou while she was putting syrup on it and everything, and then.

She was eating it. Y'all say that was disgusted.

I know it's a piece of grass in there somewhere worse than that little pine cone.

Lok, some some I don't know. These Atlanta streets are not clean, baby, Why would you eat snow?

Yes?

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We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today.

So wait, it's the fourth week.

So we've had three guest episodes back to back to back for the new year.

Right, No, I don't think so. No, we had super then we had a.

Solo oh okay, okay, then we had and then Janiese okay, okay, So we are back for our second solo episode of the year, So I want to do a quick check out with everybody.

Y'all leave comments.

Have y'all been keeping up with your New Year's resolutions so far? We are getting towards the end of January. Have you been keeping up with yours? Absolutely good job. I have been staying on track with all of my goals. That's why I posted that meme the other day on Twitter. I was like, it's only the first month of the year, and I'm in my bag period. Y'all know what mean? I'ta talk about these two ladies.

That was like, yeah, okay, but no, for real though, y'all, I've been staying on track with my goals cause one thing about me, I'm pretty like discipline when I sent my mind to things, So it's not hard for me to like stay consistent and not veer off track. If I'm telling myself every day, like this is the goal.

Your allliner as sharp as fuck today?

Thank you, oh my god, and thank you so much for complimenting me on that, because it's actually the MU sample.

That that giving Michael Maya thank you.

Yeah, this is actually the MU sample that I'm coming out with. So I'm coming out with this eyeliner really soon, it'll probably be in mark.

Okay, and it's real and I have a mara on too, So okay, I'm feeling out.

I'm gonna have to give me one thank you.

Are you staying on track with your girls?

I am okay, y'all. So I have a great update. So y'all know I've been going to acting classes and y'all know I'm big trash.

Well I'm medium trash.

Now, don't say that. I'm telling you. I went to acting class the other day and he was like, you have such a presence on camera. I said, we moving up. So I feel like I'm getting better. I feel like I'm getting more confident. That's good. So yeah, I've been keeping up with that, and I have been really focused, and I have been doing so much for like Love LEXP and just I've still been ordering equipment, oh my god.

Like, I haven't had no technical issues because you know, I launched my YouTube channel too, so I haven't had no technical issues as far as like filming, but oh my gosh, he's over the laughing because oh my guy, Like when I say I don't know what opposition was against me, I don't know what opposition was against me. But it literally took all day to be able to send her a file, and we literally tried everything, and I'm just like, yeah, I don't miss having to deal with these type of clubs at all.

It's so annoying.

Oh my gosh, But I didn't give up. I was really least.

I think we're gonna figure it out, and we figured it out.

So yeah, I feel like it's been a good start of the year. Yeah, of course we have some big news that we can't drop yet.

Yes, but I can. Like it's two big things for sure. I'm super excited about it. I feel like we should be able to announce it maybe in like the next month or two.

But yeah, it's really really big news.

And I don't know, I just been trying to stay on top of everything, like I've been doing good. My challenge, y'all. I'm doing a seventy five day challenge. I'm not drinking for seventy five days. I'm working out for seventy five days straight, no days off.

I'm kind of doing like I don't want to say I'm.

Doing a diet because I don't really need to lose weight, so I'm not doing a diet per se, but it's just a personal goal of mine. I'm not eating meat, so I'm only eating seafood.

I'm sticking to.

Like low cards and yeah, and then I have to read a book every day, Hold up, every day, not a whole book.

Oh, I have to read like at least ten No, I gotta.

I'm gonna be listening to it on three times speed like Ryan Dude podcast.

But yes, y'all.

So I'm doing my challenge and then I also start Spinish classes next week.

Oh, are you going to somebody in person?

Yeah, I'm gonna be taking in person and online.

Okay, I think I might do the little app or something, just try to see what I can do, because that's something I'm like. After going out of town. We went out oftown, I was like, Okay, I have to learn Spanish. Yeah.

Yeah, that's why I'm I'm like, yeah, I'm not about to keep procrastinating because when I was younger, when I was in elementary school, I took Spanish for like three years, and I feel like it's not that I was good at it, but I feel like I could understand. Even now, I still kind of understand when people be talking to me,

I'm taping, period.

And we can have li In come because she just started violin.

Oh yes she did. I like that.

I can't wait to do a whole little teleshow we need to do it.

Y'all gone to prepare everybody needs. We're doing a talk. I don't waiting to dust off my tap shooting. Oh, I'm gonna have my less hard on. Oh gyo you actually? Oh, y'all could do a new agg I like that. I love Okay, yay, they get year it is. They get the calendar at selmixedy dot com. Right, okay, period period but no peebacking off what you were just about to say. But I feel like twenty twenty five is like a good year. Like ye, my mental health space is better.

Like I literally did.

One episode of Poor Mines by myself what was Wine down Wednesday a long time ago because you were out of town.

But that was when the episodes were ten minutes long.

So I'm not gonna lie. Like, sitting down for the first time and recording it took me like five or six takes. Just yes, girl, yes, because I'm so used to just bouncing back with somebody, so when it's just you and the camera, it's a lot more difficult than it seems. So like props to like Wendy, because like when Wendy does her show, you know, she sits there for the first thirty minutes, it's just her and her hot topics and she'd be having a ball. And once I got into it, I was like, Okay, I'm a

Yeah, Like I feel like, you know, as Tom Progresis, you just get more comfortable and you get bitty.

Yeah, Because I was like, oh, start over, and I'm like on my phone recording the thing so I don't have to keep getting up. But you just like that in general too.

Oh yeah, like me, I'd be like keep rolling in she Yeah, I'm gonna be wanting to start off, but I can see you starting over.

Like five, I was like, I know the people across on the seat that can see me in my little high rides. I was like, what the fuck? I was like, fuck, fuck, but I got it. I got it. Okay. But yeah, I just want to shout out to everybody that subscribed. We got thirty thousand views in the first forty eight hours. Okay, So but yeah, y'all make sure y'all tune in Monday, it'll be episode two. So what else is going on?

What else is new before we get into these hot topics.

I mean, that's really it that I feel like I've talked about everything, Like, I have new products coming out we muse really soon. We have a Valentine's Day seal that is about to drop. I'm gonna have promo stuff coming out for that really soon.

I'm about to rack up on them jelly blushes, Yeah, I have.

It's gonna be a seal on the jelly blushes, the red Matt Liquid lipsticks, literally everything on the site. But yeah, I have that coming out really soon. Of course, like I said, I launched my YouTube channel. Y'all know, I'm gonna be doing.

Like beauty products, beauty halls.

Clothing halls, all of that stuff. Blogs, literally everything. It's just kind of like, you know, coming into my world, me showing y'all a little bit more about me, the more personal side. So in my YouTube channel is doing really really well as well. What else have I been working on in my challenge? I mean that's really it. Life kind of boring right now for me, just because you know, I'm not drinking and stuff, so I be in the house.

That's the way. Yeah, chilling my challenge, staying focused.

It is safe in there, like and I feel so good, Like I feel like when I don't drink, this is probably gonna I don't know, Like I don't want to say this is gonna be my last year drinking. But I think I'm about to become like a wine Rose girl because I just when I don't drink for a decent amount of time, I really like how I feel. And then when I start back drinking, I be like, yeah, this why I don't like, you don't miss it your brain. It's more clear you don't have the brain fog like I don't know.

I feel like even on our strip, we barely drink.

Yeah, we didn't really drink that much because I mean, I really wanted to start on the first of the year, but then we had to do the troop and then I knew we had to drink for certain stuff that we were doing for that.

But yeah, that's really okay. So speaking of drinks, cause I'm I got my little drunk. I don't know about y'all, but I ain't set. I'm going seven. I'm going hard for seventy five days, all right, okay, seventy five hard? For real? What are we drinking?

So in light of this being our new year, this is the golden glow because everybody's glowing today. We got our challenges, we got our goals, we're focused.

This is the golden glow.

Lex does have the cocktail version. Drea and I have the mocktail version, but in both we have some pineapple mango. We have some mohito syrup, so that has like a little bit of mint flavor to it. We also have a little bit of passion fruit, and then we topped it off with a sparkling water just to kind of give it a little bit of that fizz and that carbonation, but also just blending and making it less sweet, and then just a splash of lime juice on top. As

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It's done snow and tachery oh weeks of snow.

Yes, like so snow.

We missed the first week and I thought we was in the clear. Then we came back, it snowed again, and then they was trying to say it was gonna snow again on Friday.

Thank god it didn't. But yeah, this snow ain't no joke.

I don't think it has snowed in Atlanta since like twenty eighteen.

This is crazy. Yeah, it was twenty eighteen because I was like the first like I remember, I had just moved in my place. Yeah, and can I say something y'all. Oh, I understand when we see snow and we're not used to seeing it.

But stop eating the snow.

No please.

I've seen somebody making a snow cone. I said, bitch, be fucking for real, bruh. While she was putting syrup on it and everything, and then she was eating it, y'all, I was disgusted.

I know.

It's a piece of grassy now somewhere worse than that little pine con well.

Something something, I don't know. These Atlanta streets are not clean, baby, Why would you eat snow?

Yes, counterpart, they were telling me to add some like cream milk, yeah, making it like cream.

Yes, girl, I've seen it on TikTok. What child, stop getting it. It's not sen well, I mean, if that's your thing. It's still certain parts of Belanta. They still got a little snowlft on the ground. That dude, that snow was last thing.

All.

Yeah, it really is, literally, I swear, y'all. I've seen somebody that I follow. I saw somebody that.

I follow the other day they had literally posted they still had like a good little space of snow in the backyard.

But it's like sixty five degrees today.

That's crazy.

Okay.

Well, I will say these two when the sun is not out like it rained the other day, and so from my apartment I can see like the buildings obviously on top of the buildings.

That are lower than you.

Yeah, so it had rained the other day and then the next day the sun didn't come out, and like it was ice on the roof.

I mean, you know that's your thing. Go ahead, go up there with a.

Cubs, make a little snow cone.

Don't do that. But anyway, Okay, let's get to these topics, cause I'm so ready to talk about this, I've been dying to talk about this. So we're gonna talk for the first topic about the TikTok band. Yeah, I think everybody pretty much knows what happened. TikTok got band. Everybody on the app was losing their minds. Half of the peace people were crying. Half the people were like, good, y'all need to go get a job. Why are you depending on the app for money? Anyway? Then lo and behold,

I think people be forgetting what to heal going on.

Exactly, so just don't fall for that. But anyways, what do you think about the TikTok band and how people were like crying and then also how people were.

Laughing about it.

I was more on the side of laughing. No, see right, well.

No I am, because it's just like crying when you don't know what's gonna happen. Yet it's crazy to me, Like I feel like, once you know what's going to happen, like once you know your fate, like say you're a TikToker and you have three million followers and they show primary source to income, once you knew for sure that the shit was gonna be over, like maybe a week later, two weeks later, a month later, and now it's really affecting your income, then I could see having their reaction.

And people was mad. They was responding to my tweet.

He has said, well, I'm sure you will feel the same way about YouTube. I said, yeah, but you wouldn't see me online crying about it.

But you also, if you two got shut down right now, you also have a backup. Oh.

When I said thing too, I said, but I also have like five of the streams of ink Yeah, outside of YouTube.

Right and I think for me too, I mean light flicks. But yeah, and I will say this too, y'all have to prepare for a randy day. Honestly, if shits shut down right now, I'm good for about a good seven eight month s it's seven eight months. I can figure something out. When I tell you, I'm so. My lifestyle is so different now, and I understand how it is having a presence on social media making your money online.

You would be crying as well.

I don't think we should ever clap for anybody losing out on income, our people, online influencers. I do think a lot of influencers need to go to financing classes or get a financial advisor. I had to do that myself because in my first two years i'm making money, I was wilin. I was one hundred percent wild, and now I really know what to do with my money,

In the same predicament.

At the end of the day, we are living in times that are very fucking frightening for all of them because none of us are Jeff Bezos, baby, and we're all like, you know what I'm saying, it's very scary. If the whole internet shut down, a lot of people would be fucked up. So I just think that we just need to give people grace. But I also think I agree.

With you on that note. Getting on the internet and crying is nuts.

I think about anything about anything.

I like, holding a camera up while you're crying will forever be insane to me. Yeah, cause to me, you ain't really that sad, because I don't know when I be crying, I'd be sliding down the wall. I ain't got time. I ain't got time to be holding a camera right in the middle of a breakdown.

And like everybody was like deleted off their phone then you couldn't download the back and they was mad about that. I still can't, right, I don't. I think I don't know. I'm not sure because I kept it on my phone. I did so I was coming on the plane, I'm like, TikTok working again. We were sitting right next to each other and playing like it's working again. We were like I knew it.

But we also also weren't panicking. And then, like I said, that was something else that somebody had said in the comments. I think it was like, you would be sad if YouTube got canceled or whatever. What if you was making thousands of dollars from TikTok every month. I do, But I still wasn't panicking from it, and I'm not going to because at the end of the day, we were just gonna find something else.

We had built, what a following.

Of almost four hundred thousand subscribe I mean followers on TikTok.

We were just gonna go to another app and build it again. Like I'm not, We're not afraid of starting over. Yeah, let me tell you right now, if you two got shut down, somebody finna pick up poor month. Yeah.

The world needs us.

And that's how I feel. You can't take away from me what you didn't give to me, you know what I'm saying, Like nobody, no ceo at YouTube, no ceo at Facebook, TikTok, Like I feel like when you really believe in yourself and your power. And I always use her for an example because I love her. Oh I should have got her new last name, Jackie. I know she has a new last name, but she got married. Jackie has moved from app to app, two apps. She don't give a.

Damn, cause you shouldn't if you believe in yourself and you notice you're putting out quality content and you know you they girl, you're just gonna build the followers anywhere won the new app. And I can understand being sad and crying if it's really affixing your financial situation. But it was people who was really upset in crying that TikTok was getting canceled just because of the entertainment purposes.

And they're like, oh.

I met friends.

If you have real friends and community, they go make an Instagram or a Facebook, like you can keep in contact with people. I get it because I made friends from the internet. But I just I do. I'm not being judging, but I do feel like crying over an app is a little extreme. It's a little extreme for me.

It's a lot extremes, So yeah, and I am being jud So that's the thing that eats me like all the other stuff that's going on rather on the internet and cry over an app than like really voice your opinion or like voice the political things that's going on.

That's crazy to me. And then everybody started.

Read yeah the other app red note, and I'm like, why do y'all always try to do that?

Try to make it?

I think one thing about these apps is you have to let an app organically come about. So when they were doing like the everybody thought everybody was about to boycott Twitter and stuff, So like I made poor Minds of Blue Scott say, I'm gonna make this just in case. But I mean, I really don't care because I'm gonna still be using Twitter. I'm just doing it just in case x X. I'm sorry X, but again, who cares.

You know, everybody doesn't have that community backing them or are supporting them, so I can understand.

That as well.

But like again, y'all, it's social media. Yeah, it's social media.

And sometimes it really makes me nervous to think about how a lot of people would cut up if something ever really happened to all of these apps, like.

What y'all gonna do? Yeah?

Yeah, yeah, And I feel like, if anything, people like us really should he should have been panicking for real, because we be making money from the eppis and stuff. But it's just like, but I like to wait though and see, Like, once I know what's going on.

Then I can react.

Then I can start having the feelings and emotions and be trying to figure out, Okay, what am I.

Gonna do next?

But when shit is up in the air and we don't know what's about to happen a year, just let shit play out, because I had a very strong feeling that it was gonna play out that way, and indeed, and y'all was asking a plumb fool on line for no goddamn reason.

Then when the app gets back up, you're trying to archive them videos what we saw you crashing out. I say that it's not bubbling frog in your throat we seen it all wild times. We live again. Okay, all right, so let's let us know how y'all feel about the talking man. I know y'all probably gonna get on our ass in these comments, but they probably is.

But oh goddamn will we ain't about to read it that way.

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Yes, let's get into these second topics. So for the second topic, I wanted to talk about being a will traveled woman, but not probably in the sense that people are thinking about as far as just being somebody who has traveled a lot and seen a lot. But I want to talk about it from the perspective of like men wanting to date you if you're a will traveled woman.

And I think he was like in his thirties. So I have two things to say about that. First thing, I dated somebody like that. I don't know if y'all remember when we used to do our character's football bab I literally had football Bay tell me.

He was like it is He told me straight up.

He was like, it's very hard dating you because, like I've taken you to Miami and you were just I could tell like you were having fun, but you just weren't impressed. He was like, I feel like, for me to do something for you that just makes me be a guy that sticks around in your life forever, or somebody that's memorable, I'm gonna have to take you to gree or to Paris or something like that. And I'm like, yeah, that is true. I'm not impressed by you taking me

Same, Like, why would you not want to date me because I've been placed that you haven't been places that you're not taking me for the first time. The way I look at it is like you said, Okay, so what I've been here before? Take me a rob it's gonna be a different experience because this time I'm with you.

Right exactly, and that's how I feel you and.

People be acting like, Okay, so what you've been to Greece.

Okay, if you've been to Greece, you ain't win every goddamn wearing grease.

You ain't half the time.

It's six days, so we could go back and do shit that I didn't do the first time.

I'm just not intimidated now.

To me, I want a god that actually, like, if we're on a day and you like tell me that you don't like to travel, it's a difference between you not liking the travel yeh, and you haven't traveled. I'd rather date somebody who hasn't traveled than somebody who doesn't like to or doesn't want to or doesn't want to,

Here, bitch.

And I lived in Houston for twenty five years and I didn't do everything there, literally, like it's no way, right, it's literally no way because new things are always popping up.

You can't do everything anyway.

So to me, there's just like a bullshit ass excuse.

And if a.

Nigga is intimidated by me, that's not the one for me, no way.

Yeah. But I keep over there men like that who like, oh I want to date a younger woman because she's not jaded, she hasn't been you. One is giving a little grooming, and two it's just giving that you are bottom of the barrel and you cannot step up to the plate because and I'm not even saying it's an age thing, because you can find some young women who are well traveled. They have expensive tapes, they have things

Yeah, and you want somebody who's gonna be okay with that too.

Yeah, you want somebody to be okay with you taking them to Buckhead to eat for every single day. I'm not okay with that. Like I like to be outside, I like to do things, And I'm not saying every trip has to be a grease Like I said, Miami was one of the most romantic vacations I've been on. I'm so serious and I love a Miami trip. I went to d C last year. I had a ball because I did something I never did, like traveling domestically, traveling anywhere with your partner.

It's about the experience.

So a real man or a woman is not gonna be intimidated by that passport. Then yeah, I agree.

I just think that's like some bullshit, Like if you just wanted that younger women just say.

Just say you can't handle by mama.

Yeah, but stop with all the excuses, Like I just feel like it sounds crazy.

So, speaking of traveling and doing a lot of nice things, you had a tweet the other day about luxury. Fine, let me look up. Let me look it up so I don't miss quote your chap. I don't want to miss quote your ass because people do that all the time. Okay, so uh.

Let me see, let me see.

Okay, you had a tweet about bare minimum living just never excites you. You want luxury living, okay, and which is okay, that's fine. So I wanted to define what is luxury.

I think it's I think the definition varies from person to person. It's whatever you consider it to be luxurious. You know what I mean, what I consider to be luxurious isn't necessarily what another person deems luxuries. So I think that that's a question that each person has to ask himselves when I say bare minimum. I'm just not interested in like doing the same things every day, Like I want to live a life full of adventure spontaneity.

Spontani and mundane. I'm trying to remember all.

The way I'm weak, but no, seriously, like I don't want to do the same thing every day, Which is another reason why I think even with like career choice, I never really knew what I wanted to do when I was younger, but I knew I wanted to do something that gave me freedom. I didn't want to see in a cubicle every single day.

And there's not nothing wrong with that. That just wasn't for me.

I tried it, and I feel like I could speak on it because it's something that I actually tried, and then I realized this ain't gonna work for me, you know what I mean. It ain't even that, it's just like having to be at work, having to be at work from like, Okay, so the job that I had when I first graduated from college, I had to be at work at I think seven am every day. So I used to have to wake up at five o'clock. And mind you, I lived in Katie, which and I

My god, yeah, I was just going to slap you know. That was when I would yah.

Yeah, So I used to have to wake up at four point thirty to be the work at seven, and then when I would get to work, I would get off I think at like four o'clock and then I would have to drive home, being traffic for another hour and a half just to get back home. And doing that every single day, then I only get like what thirty forty hours of vacation a year Like that just

That's luxury to me, I mean.

And then also when it comes to dating, I want to be with somebody who is thoughtful, who is caring, who's naturally generous, who just gonna do stuff because that's what they want to do. I don't have to ask you to do Like I feel like some women are okay with dating me and where they don't mind asking them to do it or dropping hints for the men to do stuff.

I don't really want to be the girl.

I want to be with somebody who just giddy, you know what I mean. Like that's luxury to me, Like dating somebody that I don't gotta ask, he just gonna do it, he gonna pull up, he gonna do it, he gonna make the effort.

I get. Of course, if we.

Being technical, like I feel like I like nice things and ain't nothing wrong with that.

Yeah, I'm tired of y'all making people feel bad because they like a chanel a men. Yeah you know what I'm saying. I mean, nothing is wrong with it.

If you I think you should be able to maintain it though, if it's something you requiring.

Yeah, yeah, no I do I do agree with that, but what I'm saying is, either way, just let people. I made a TikTok post about this last night. I hate when people call other people weird or try to cancel them. Yeah, they have different views of life than you. So I used to be the girl that like, oh, I want Louis bag. I wanted this bag. I wanted that bad because that's how I felt like a man

That means he cares for me. That's her belief.

She's not weird for believing that. That's just what she prefers. That's her love language.

I mean, she not weird for believing that. Maybe a little naive though, but completely.

I mean that a man could be a man that doesn't have a lot, and he's like doing what he can to get her a Chanelle or to get her a Louis bag. You know what I'm saying. So he dumb and she naive. You never know that situation because maybe he's saved up, or maybe if you save up to buy your girl of Chanelle, you don't need to be buying me.

Boll Okay, I'll say it like this, not I'm just being real, like I hear what you're saying. I think they both need to reevaluate the relationship if that's the case, because as the men, why are you saving up to buy her these? And as the woman, if you know your man don't have money like that, why are you asking I'm not saying.

That it's something like regular, but like if it's like a little birthday gift or something he saved it for a one time gift, that's what I mean, not something that he's doing all the time. All I'm saying is, no matter what it is, if that's how she likes to be loved and that's how this man is wanting to show that he loves her. Some people are like that. Now, if it's a rich man who spends money like that all the time on women.

That's not the man I'm talking about.

Because a lot of times young girls will get that confused, like oh he cares about me, not knowing that he does that for every woman, you know. That's what I'm saying. Every situation varies for me as a thirty five year old woman. Now I've realized to me, when a man shows up for me and it can't no amount of money by that. If a man is there and he's showing like how proud he is of me, and he's giving me things like I'm a roses girl down like

Percent agree with that because I feel like, even with me, like my love language, I don't want to date no man who because I feel like I'm only gonna date a guy who is more successful, right right, So if you already more successful than me, and you done figure it out and you don't connect it the diets and you know what I'm trying to do, why would you not want to pour into me and help me as far as giving me the information yep or whatever it is, the resources whatever to help me get my business or

I like me and they help you with that type of studs And that's luxury because a lot of people don't have that knowledge. Yeah, So I think it's a lot of simple things that are luxury. Like it's a luxury that you have access to a man like that that you can tap into his brain like that, Like that's a luxury, you know what I'm saying, a lot

Can I get that or I can do that.

My first reaction was like, oh, yeah, that's feasible, because I was like my goal in life, like I know, when I get to the point to where I'm like, okay, I'm doing something, I'm gonna be making a million dollars a month, I already set that, like that's my next goal for myself because I know it's realistic because I'm around people who make a million dollars a month, you know.

But when you're not, you don't see that.

The average person makes fifty thousand dollars a year, so they don't have that luxury of even having the audacity to dream about that stuff. So, getting back to the luxury topic, that's what I mean. When you're in post proximity to people to where they are really trying to put you in a position to win, they are really making moves to help you get in a position to win.

Creed shout out to Mimi.

You know what I'm saying.

So that's I mean. But that's a real point though, that's a real point. I mean, even having friends like me and you both not millionaires, but we always trying to this is a money play.

Oh we need to do this.

Even having people that think alike as you as a luxury.

I literally, me and Killa was on the phone.

Yesterday talking about stocks and shit, like cause that's what me and my friends talk about, Like how are we doing these money plays? I know it sounds so like lame and boring whatever, but I'm telling you, when you are surrounded by people who have the same goals as you and they're not trying to be like, do you really think that's gonna happen? Like anytime Drea Killer, my sister Lauren, any of my friends tell me something that they want to do, I'm always like, well, how we

Yeah, but see, I just think people gotta cut them type of people off. And I know that people that watch this show, they've been watching for a long time, they probably be like dream always. I'm just cut the people off for real, though, cut their ass off, because

Your friends or like letting them know.

I mean, that's cute that you're saying you want to do that, but like, what do you do every day?

How you gonna get there?

Cause I think it's a lot of people who got millionaire dreams and they be like, Oh, I'm gonna make be making this amount of money every month, or I'm gonna be making these amount of money in the next few years, but they do nothing now that to get to the goal. They just be feeling like, Oh, I'm just gonna stay prayed up and I know my blessing's gonna come.

No, you do gotta work. You need to pray, and you need to put the work in.

And I think a lot of people don't be putting the work in, and people around them don't be honest with them about that either, cause it's like you could get there. But I think people really don't understand how much work it takes to even make six figures on your own. As an entrepreneur, let alone millions of dollars. It takes a lot of work.

And one thing about me too, I'm more leaning on that end. But I also just like, not everybody has the same opportunities and this and that. But and that's fine.

But if you say that's what you want, like if you like I want to be a millionaire, but you're not putting the work in make it make sense.

I agree with you because I hate people who make excuses.

Though that's one thing I don't. I just this is all on me.

I'm just no, I get that because shit do be hard. And I'm not talking about people who are like extremely less fortunate that have I'm not taught. I'm talking about people who like do well for themselves and they want more and they're just like, well, I'm tired when I get off.

Girl, you gotta do more. You just have to if you are.

A lot of the opportunity and like it, like people like us in this space, I cannot whine if I'm like Drea, I haven't made a million dollars yet. The only reason I have it because it's my fault. And that's the honest of a got true. I don't have nobody to blame. So like when people that are like making good money and they're in good position and they're complaining about where they are, girl, you gotta work harder. It's no like, I don't like when people do that,

It ain't eat And I think people expect stuff to be easy, and that's why most people have a problem with consistency. Yeah, because as soon as shit get rough and it ain't what you thought it was gonna be, or it's harder than you thought, now you like, well, I don't know, do I really want to do this? Or you half asked you you're not giving you show all. So so well, getting back, we.

Were talking about looks, we're talking about luxury.

So yeah, so what is luxury to you?

That's what is a luxurious life When you are I just said, I feel like whatever I want to do, like me being able to do whatever I want, buy whatever I want.

And I feel like I've said these before on poor minds, just me being able to do whatever the hell I want, that's luxurious to me. Like if I wake up today and I'm like, you know what, I want to go to the car dealership in barb rosroys cool and I just got it, and I could just pay five hundred thousand dollars cash for it if that's what I want to do, And then I'm not bleink twice because obviously we all know paying cash for a car and driving

I want to an extent. Yeah, we got a little we got some livings.

Now, yes, I can do what I want to an extent. But when I can literally wake up every day in the world is mine, the world is my oyster, and I could just do whatever I want, That's when I feel like I'm gonna be living in luxuries, Like.

Okay, that's fair. I like that.

I think I'm the same way.

I'm like Luxury to me is just being free, debt free, fuck Nigga free, bad friend free, bad energy free, Like I feel like the way I have curated my life in these past few months, Like I've been doing a lot, a lot of self work of picking my battles and putting my energy in myself and waking up and choosing to have a good day. Like you know, I'd be going through my little bouts, and my last little depress about I went through was so bad. I was like, I'm not doing this to myself. No, I'm not doing

You know what I'm saying, So I agree with you.

Like, luxury to me is just living a life that you are proud of. Like when once you reach a point in your life where your wake up and you don't want to be nobody else and you're like, I'm happy to be me and my skin. Like there was moments in time I used to about like, man, she's so lucky. I wonder how it feels to be her.

Would not want to be anybody else.

My personality, everything about me is unique and I love that. So I feel like luxury is literally what you make it. So when somebody says I want I have this type of lifestyle and I want this and that, why are you offended by that? Why are you That's luxury to them, And that's the life that this person chooses for themselves what another person wants, and they look at as luxury

Yeah, I mean, and also if you say that that's what you want, rise to the occasion, set the standard for yourself. And when you set that standard for yourself, also stop accepting bare minimum from people around you.

Make these nigas rise to the occasion. Make your friends rise to the occasion.

Stop letting people treat y'all any kind of way and handle y'all any kind of way too, because that ain't luxuries.

What's the funny said?

Well, load of it will not kind of black, So what's luxury to Utah?

I agree with exactly what you said, like just being comfortable with who you are, being free. I was just thinking about I did a vision board even this past weekend, and just like accepting that gratitude of where you are. I used to want to be famous. I love, love, love love being low key. I know a lot of people know me, but like, come on, I like being more low key though, Like, yeah, I enjoy my freedom.

Man.

I love that beautiful And you said and you made a really good point too.

Gratitude.

Gratitude is so important because the thing is, if you don't have gratitude for where you are currently, how you expect God to keep blessening.

Yeah.

Oh, and people do not be grateful. It's crazy because when we went on our little two week trip, it was one of the mornings I woke up.

I'm not even gonna lie to you.

I sat in the bed and I prayed and I cried, and I didn't ask God for nothing. I was just so thankful because I'm like, is this really my life? Bro? Like, like this is crazy?

Hell, I feel like I feel like that every day.

Yeah.

And I talk to God every day and I just be like, thank you, thank you God, love these opportunities, thank you for help little things too, because I don't people forget to be grateful for little things like the fact that you was able to get up at the bed is a blessing. The fact that you open your eyes is a blessing. The fact that you have a roof over your head is a blessing. You know what, I mean you have to be grateful for the small things as well, not just you know the opportunity right.

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Do you want to introduce it?

Oh? Sure?

What are three sex myths that you grew up believing as a child.

Okay, I want to start this off a little. I think that it's crazy because I think it's it's it's still a thing that people believe to this day, because this is more so like opinion. Maybe not myth, but this is like an opinion type thing. I think it's crazy that people swear up and down like sexist taboo

Like?

Why is it so like oh, you know, like I'm not saying that everybody wants to be open and talking about it. But when people are open and talking about it, why do people get so shamed for that? So I think we need to stop doing it.

And so that's something that you believed in as a.

Key, I guess because growing up it was like, oh, you know, parents that can't kiss in front of the kids, or you can't you oh everything, don't talk to your child about sex and this and that. My mom was very open.

I don't know, I'm like my parents used to be geasy.

Yeah, but I mean some people are like that. But some people are very conservative, extremely conservative, Like you have a lot of people like that. Yeah, And I just don't believe in that. I think you should talk to your kids about real life. I saw a lady who actually like bought a house and on her garage there's like a whole top floor and she built her daughter an apartment. But I mean that's a little off topic, but she was just like, I'm going to show my child how to take care of a household.

Now she still goes in there and cleans up because the.

House is it's connected to the house, but she has a whole setup like as an apartment. And I think that's important because in school we need to start learning things that are gonna teach us about life. We need to when we have sex education, we need to be learning about more than how to put a condom on a banana. There real conversations about how you know, men view sex a little different than women view sex. These are conversations we need to have in sex ed. And

You know, you know ain't some coaching before Now everybody ain't a coach, but they need to always wish you to you okay and me and me and me, you said, girl, I know because we l G B t Q I a friendly bet.

We are the same time. God' well, I'm saying, if we're somebody's talking about eating coaching, don't be trying to make them feel bad about it. Hell yeah, that's let's stop making sex awkward and taboo conversations.

That's all okay.

So yes, So for me, I would say, I thought you could get pregnant at any time when I was a kid. Yeah, I thought you could get pregnant at any time of the months. Obviously, as I got older, I found out you can only get pregnant when you're ovulating.

Yeah, you can only.

Get pregnant when you're ovulating, y'all, which is like one week out of the money.

So that is a myth.

You cannot get pregnant all throughout the money.

It's hard. But I used to think that it's loky kind of hard to get pregnant loki easy, like, especially as you trying if it's only one week off the month, and if you fucking the life, like you know what I'm saying.

But I feel like if you're fucking a lot in that week, then all is a pregnant girl on my timeline, they definitely get pregnant. I don't think these girls got no problem getting pregnant.

Okay, I'm trying to think.

I don't know. I don't think I hadn't. I don't. I can't think of anymore.

You don't have two more mets that you thought was like that you found out weren't real once she having AIX.

Now to kind of add on to that, when I was really little, I really remember this. I think I may have said this on the show. When I was little. I remember the guy my mom was with at the time his brother had gotten married. I specifically remember sitting in the kitchen with my sister. I was probably maybe like five or six, and I was like, oh my gosh,

Yeah, I feel like I definitely thought you you get pregnant from kissy.

Oh that's a good one.

Yeah I did. I used to think that too in elementary school because I'm not trying to keep pregnant, Like I definitely used to think that, and then I'm trying to think, what's another one.

Okay, I have one, I have one. I used to think like, I don't. I won't say it's a myth. I just think it's something stupid and silly. But I used to think, like if you had like a hickey, like you were a whore. Like girls that had hickey's, Oh my god, you were a nasty slut. You let somebody kiss your neck? What a whole It was like wearing the scarlet letter A. Well.

Living in Houston, it was always a lot of people he.

Yes, Like if you had a hickey in Orange, Texas, really, if you had a hickey, it was like, oh my god.

They I went to school with all the Latinos and they used to they used to stay with a hickey.

They used to they with ay. I used to be like, y'all, miss they used to be getting.

Down like a Hoover vacuum.

Yes, And they didn't have no shame neither. Like when I used to have Hickey's. I used to like try to go up with a little makeup a scarf so.

You know what I mean.

It would be pretty obvious though, because while you wearing a scarf at eighty degree with but I would try to cover it up with something and they just be in class, mes me.

Watch what what? What? What?

They laughing?

Because okay, so it was funny because when I was in school, when I was in school, when I was in high school, it would only be the Latino because no classmates. They never used to care what to teacher name because they just used to say mes me, I swear.

They did.

They never it didn't matter.

From what class to what class.

We went to.

It was this one boy.

I was in like three periods with him, and every teacher missed mess.

He never would say their last name. Oh so just why would you do that?

Because I was thinking about him specifically because I took three periods with him and he stayed with heiky, Oh my god, and your girlfriend will be waiting outside the classmen with his books I mean boos.

For them to walk to the nickname you go to? He did, he did, Oh you are trash? Okay, we go Okay, you got anymore.

I think that was it for me.

That was it for me. Let me try to think. No, I don't think I have anymore. So if y'all have any tex marriage, tey, you got any you have one side?

The only one I can think of is that the bigger the better. Now, definitely want a good size, But I used to think it needed to be twelve inches two feet long.

Now I don't want all that.

Oh I got like a little boyfriend's size, A nice seven eight you know, okay, of nice little size. But I think I needed a big horse.

When I was younger. I mean, a child is high school too, because you're still a child. A sixteen year old as a child, yeaheah. So you know we're just talking about all ages zero to seventeen. Yes, I prepare myself. I used to be on that pass like, oh okay, when girl, you don't even remember, you don't even remember when you had a past? I like that when that's crazy. What's up, y'alls? Your girl XP and it's your girls rereading a call. And one thing about us. We love

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All right. Bop of the week, now, y'all know my bop of the week, I'm a little tipsy, now, y'all. My bop of the week is usually like an ndie art is something that's.

Like, you know, a little low key, but I have.

I am making a mainstream artist my bop of the week this week.

Because I am.

So disgusted not at him, but at y'all for reacting to a hit. It's about to be summertime. It's time to shape that ass. My bop of the week it's Bruno Mars featuring Sexy, Red, Fat, Juicy and Wag. Because people have been up in arms Bruno.

You so nasty.

Bruno been nasty, y'all know, short niggas is freaks. Yeah, Why are y'all surprised Bruno been talking that shit on these train They really have.

I don't understand why people surprise and I.

Just feel like y'all not no real fans of music. Because seventies and eighties them niggas was nasty. In the nineties two, they've been nasty. What what he said, slop on my knob like corn on a car. He did, like, come on, well, since when are y'all like the moral police owned? Oh my god, I can't believe he said, pussy bro That's why I know, y'all shit dry.

You ain't got that fat juice.

Excuse that the drive girls is mad. Somebody said it's giving parched skim and dry skim skim because it's not fat now, somebody they said that to me because I was saying, like, if you don't like the song, like you lame. He was like, yeah, it's giving parched skim and dry. I am weak, but yeah, shut out. I love it.

I like it too. I think it's a good song.

It's a cute song for the club. Y'all gotta think about it. This is a song that's gonna be played in the club. It's a song that can be played girls night, y'all getting dressed, y'all getting ready to go have fun. It's a fun song. You're not supposed to like just listen to it on the way to church, Like the fuck. Y'all have to realize certain songs are for certain settings. Okay, Bruno's club song is for the club, it's for getting ready, it's for pregames, and it's a good song.

Bruno, don't let them think you doing wrong. Shout out to sixty.

Shout out to sixty red period.

So what's your bob?

Mine is thirty for thirty by Sis. Okay like this, but I love Ciss. I'm a huge Sizzle fan.

Okay, keep going because I got something to say why, I wasn't gonna say anything else. I just really long recently, so yesterday.

You know me, I'll don't be getting no end depth.

I saw the KICKI Palmer movie with Sissy yesterday. I'm gonna review that on love LEXP Monday, so make sure y'all tune in so you know what I liked about the movie, because obviously Sisa is a baddie, not that Sissy. You and Sissa look like y'all, don't. I just say all that to say, like I was like I could see Drea in an acting role like this, really yes, because I feel like I didn't have any like expectations of Sissa and her acting because I've never seen her

Well I always say that. I feel like that's the only words I would do. Yeah, Like, it has to be something where I don't have to step out too far outside of myself I feel like to play the role because I mean, like, I don't know, I just feel like I'm not passionate enough about acting to do something. Yeah, Like, no, I'm definitely not a real thesbying so so said though,

I felt like it was given like Sizza but of course she's acting, but it wasn't like too far off of like who she who she is?

It was cute, It was real cute. But yeah, you have to go watch that movie. I haven't watched it yet.

Y'all tune in.

And I went by myself because I like had to go like really early in the day because I was trying to make I had went to the gym and then I had bought tickets, so I had to rush. So I went by myself, and like everybody in theater, like they went with I was like, oh, by myself. But it was super cute. So y'all go see it. Make sure y'all see it before Monday when lovelex Pa drops and it's time to get into our favorite segments of the week.

Yes, y'all, it's time to get into our favorite segment of the week. So you know, if you have any questions or testimonials, you can always send them to ask core Minds at gmail dot com. This's a sk p o U r in my nds at gmail dot com.

And don't be seeing no paragraphs. It's the beginning of the year.

I feel like I need to do a PSA.

Yeah, I think I need to shout out some verbs.

Shout out to verbs I need to do. They're like who they probably like, both of them people they probably like. But p s A, y'all please, this is a whole essay one paragraph and we love helping y'all with y'all questions. You know, we love answering y'all questions. Give me y'all advice. But I feel like, you know you could have still put all of these.

In one period.

Yeah, Am and sister, So let's read it.

I've been dealing with my bed slash husband for fourteen years. When we met, I was fourteen and I'm now twenty seven. We have two kids together and have been married for seven years now. This is where it gets Missy. My baby daddy has been choosing another woman over me for the past seven years, even though we are married. Okay, I live back home with our kids and take care of them by myself while he lives with these other women in Florida. He's been there for about a year now.

I'm just not we you.

I've told him multiple times that I'm no longer waiting on him because he constantly puts her before us. Me and the He recently came into town went through my phone and found out I've been dealing with someone else. He flipped out, got mad at me, and we got into a fight. He's never put his hands on me before, but he did that day. He felt like I should have told him about the other person, but I feel like I didn't owe him that because he lives with

Me and him are very close. We grew up together.

He's like my best friend, so he expected me to be open and honest with him because that's how he is with me, even though I don't agree with his actions.

So tell me, am I wrong in any situation?

First of all, who gives a fuck if he trusts you? Y'all be giving these men too much. He moved to another state, he lives with another girl. That divorce should have been.

Final a year ago.

I don't even know why you're still communicating with him out side of y'all kids.

At this point, you.

Don't owe him nothing. Why is he even in the vicinity to reach your phone? You should be Let me tell you something. I always I never tell my friends to leave they men always let them go back until they get disgusted. How you're not disgusted yet.

I have no idea that that man.

You should press up what's it called a restraining order? Because he put his hands on you. It's only gonna go downhill from there. It ain't gonna get better. Yeah, he's showing you who he is. He don't want you, but he don't want nobody else to have you, and we know how them end up.

Them situations end up.

Okay, Yeah, I agree with that. Cease.

You gotta let that go.

I feel like any communication just solely needs to be about y'all children at this point, because he's made his decision. Like, it's not no trying to figure out what him and the girl gonna do. I feel like when he chose to be with her over you, he had made the decision. Even if him and her breakup, I wouldn't even want him no more because you didn't. I was never your first choice. So I think that you just need to wash your hands of that situation.

Be safe.

Because if you put your hands his hands on you once, he'll do it again. So just be safe, girl, But don't talk to him unless it's about y'all. Child, I wouldn't even be considering the possibility of a relationship with him. It don't matter that y'all grew up together, that y'all know each other. Sometimes them be the worst people, then be the ones that burn you the worst, the ones you been knowing the longeast, So that does not matter.

And I will say this, it's different. I don't. I don't believe it's spending the block no more I used to, But I'll say this, it's a difference between you and a person breaking up for whatever reason and y'all going out in life and maybe finding each other together again. Ladies, if a man leaves you and he immediately starts talking to some or he leaves you for another person, he is choosing somebody over you and you're literally like, hey, I know you got this going on, but can we

He don't want you.

And that has nothing to say about you as a woman. Stop internalizing who you are as a person because of what this man says. You're not You not a bad person, You're just not that person for him.

Let these niggas go chill.

Whoo. I was talking to my old selk. That was just me talking about old step chair. All right, Hi, I guess she wants her name to be said. She lifting enough. Hi. I'm Kiora. I'm a nineteen year old college but I'm keeping my fetem. I'm a nineteen year old college student trying to figure out life while also trying to have have a bit of fun. I just got out of a year long relationship, and I wanted to know how Drea specifically moves on when changes needing

I feel like she already on the right track, Like it seems like she already has her head on right to be a nineteen year old, you know what I mean, Like, you know what you want. You know that that relationship was getting toxic, so you got the hellone and that's what you should have did, because yeah, because you nineteen. You're nineteen years old. You literally have your whole life ahead of you. You still in college, you're a college student.

Don't be letting their boy distract you.

And it's gonna be plenty more where they came from. You're gonna be glad you let that situation go. Dudes, I was dating when I was nineteen. I don't even know what they doing right now, like I have no clue, we have no communication.

I feel like you did the right thing.

And with any relationship, any breakup, it's always hard initially, but like when time starts going by, it gets easier and easier with time, and then eventually you gonna end up meeting somebody else that you like. Just stay focused on your goal, Stay focused on school, Stay focused on getting your money, because then she said she.

Have a job too. I think she did.

But stay focused on school, stay focused on Giddio your back. It's always plenty of time to worry about these men later on in life because they ain't never a shortage of dom.

So, yeah, you did the right thing. Sis, I'm very proud of you.

And we always say your type at nineteen is not the same type as twenty five, and it's not the same type at thirty. Girl, the type of man you like in six years is gonna change, so don't worry about this.

And I feel like if niggas is toxic at nineteen, they gonna be toxic for real at thirty, because why are you toxic at nineteen you ain't even been through anything.

Gig Sul they just be crazy.

Like I understand when me and you older and then they be a little jaded or they be a little you know, extreme stuff because it's like life. Don't beat your ass. Yeah, but at nineteen, you ain't really been through. He isn't he trying to be at war with you? Let him go, girl, Let him go?

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Baby without you, baby, So if you need me, if you want me to put it on you, because I love yeah, and don't you forget hey, whenever you need me, if you want me to put it on you, come on. Would I be without you?

Yo? Whatever you with? Else you babyaby with that?

Whatever you without my baby? The thought of lone my break man you. I don't want to go crazy, but everything.

Needs a lady girl.

I feel like you and I would be mourning together, inseparable. We choose paying over pleasure. For that, Sh'll forever be part of me, my body and soul.

Ain't no I in weed. Baby you cry, I wipe.

Your tears when you scale who's telling you it's nothing to feel?

Girl.

I'll always be there when you need a shoulder, the lean out, never hesitate, knowing you could call on your soulmate and vice versa. That's why I be the first to see Jacobs and frost your rece up now your own man. I know you're tired of being lowlss So baby girl, put it on me, don't you.

I know you're telling be loneless, you the whole man?

What without you?

I only think about you. I know you ted to be lonely, Baby girl, put it on me, yo.

I appreciate the rocks and gifts that you caught me back and the house in the hill when you dropped like eighty. You wanna down payment thinking, damn ain't life crazy? And I'd be send for my honey. Y'all be twice the lady, What would I do without the nights that you kept me warm when it's cold? World had a girl caught in the storm. And I accept when you riff because you caught in the wrong. And I recept

Will sleep, you snuck in the back door at you.

Boy. We've been down since junior high. When life get hot, does July?

It's the world against you and I we ball in, tied together and never hard from the heart. Knew that it would last forever when you told me you would never.

Leave me long less it on me?

Itout you or what you're saying this show I did someone a homemade whoa?

I'll be without you?

Without you? What's just hanging this true? You say to be a lonely it's the one to hold me, hold meie ho me okay, you ain't that versa? I know, I mean, whoall laughing? Look at you? What just hang in this shrue and me? It's the one to hold me? Whoa